“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners

However honest a life you might think you live, secrets are still an inseparable part of many relationships, whether romantic, familial, or platonic. We all lie or withhold the truth about things to a certain extent—whether we mean to or not.

Reddit user u/socialunsocial sparked a spicy discussion after asking men to open up about the secrets that they’ve been withholding from their partners. We’ve collected some of the most impactful secrets, both wholesome and uncomfortable, to share with you. Scroll down to check them out.

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners My wife doesn't know that I record her when she cooks. She LOVES to cook. She does a little dance and hums to herself. She's beautiful. Sometimes, when she is having a bad day, I pretend to feel ill and ask for her to make me pumpkin soup, and she lights up. She'll whip up some soup and her mood improves. I've saved the videos and I hope to watch them together when we're old.

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Carole Reid 10 months ago

That is so sweet.

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners My girlfriend chews her food noisily. She used to have an eating disorder, and so I refuse to ever let her know so she can keep on eating tasty food with me without overthinking it.

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LaserBrain 10 months ago

That's sweet

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners After having lots of alcohol together, I mentioned something to my (then future) wife like: I wonder what our future together would be like. Do you think we would ever get married?

The alcohol translated this in her head as: do you want to marry me?

The passion in her ‘YES I DO’ was so cute. It brought tears in my eyes. I knew she liked me, but at that moment she showed she wanted to spend her life with me.

We’re close to 15 years married now, very happy. She is my best friend.

Denagam , Min An Report

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Mark 10 months ago

So sweet, hopefully he also asked after the alcohol

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According to research, keeping secrets, whether from outsiders or close family members, is an overwhelmingly common practice.

A good rule of thumb when it comes to secrets is to think about whether or not they directly impact your partner. If it’s something that deeply affects their life, you owe it to them to tell them whatever happened. However, if the secret is something negligible or even wholesome, then you have the choice to keep it to yourself. There’s also a difference between secrecy and privacy. There’s nothing to feel guilty about if you want to keep certain things private, even from your spouse.

“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners I don't give a sh*t about 90% of the TV series 'we' like to watch together. I go along with it because I like her getting into the shows and talking to me about it and having a distraction from the daily stresses.

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Crazy Person 10 months ago (edited)

Sometimes I forget men like this exist. I have been surrounded by bad role model men in my life (I'm a female) including my own father. This makes me feel hope that maybe I'll find a love better than my parents.

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners She snores like a pack of horny, angry bears having some sort of MMA orgy on the back of a semi truck that is trying to downshift too soon. I tease her about that, of course, because I love her. The part I don't tell her is that...that sh*t is my white noise at night. When she is gone for some reason and I have to sleep alone, I just can't sleep as well.

KhaosElement , Ivan Oboleninov Report

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Mark 10 months ago

That is the most perfect description, only improved if the semi was Jake braking down a hill

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners I love hot, spicy food. She used to have almost no tolerance for chili and had a shamefully bland diet. Over a period of several months, I cooked regularly and, starting with a teeny tiny bit of chili, slowly increased the amount in our food. One day in a Thai restaurant, she was so thoroughly enjoying a dish and offered me a bite. It was so hot it blew my head off. Was literally a victim of my own success.

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HangryHangryHippo 10 months ago

I did that to myself! My partner loves spicy foods but I couldn't tolerate a bit of chili. Now I can have (and enjoy) a good vindaloo!

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Unless you’re a longtime practitioner of radical honesty and your social circle knows what to expect, being brutally open about every single thing you think and do might not be the wisest course of action. For one, it’d be exhausting to fill your partner in on every single detail. On top of that, no matter how much we all say how we value honesty, many of us don’t do well when someone’s overly blunt in their manner.

Now, that doesn’t mean that lying is excusable. But how you phrase something is often just as—if not more—important than the message itself.

“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners My wife misplaces things. I’m extremely organized. So if she asks me to help her find things I pretend to look for a minute with her. If I just tell where the item is, she gets very frustrated because I almost always know where things are. Also, I bought a dozen fingernail clippers and sprinkled them where she can easily find them. I’ve never told her.

cisco55 , Mizuno K Report

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HangryHangryHippo 10 months ago

Ohhhh I should do that! There is a designated place for it but my partner always leaves it somewhere else. At this point it's almost a game of hide-and-seek when we need to clip our nails 😅

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners Back when we were dating, we went out of town with her youngest child. The older boy, 17, stayed behind because he had to work and what not. I left my car at her house along with the keys. Long story short, when we got back I noticed something 'off' about my car. I got in it and realized somebody else was there at some point. So I took a look at the dash cam footage. It's kinda hidden behind the rearview mirror. Hard to see it unless you looking for it. Her son took it for a joyride while we were gone. Nothing crazy, didn't go down the strip doing burn outs and picking up girls. Nice, leisurely drive through the neighborhood. I ended up confronting him about it man-to-man. We settled that and I agreed to never tell his mom about it. She already had a lot going on in her life being a single mom, and it wasn't like there was any harm. He was all around a good kid. I would've gave him the keys if he had just asked. He's 23 now has a lil' family of his own. She and I got married. Still haven't told her, but gonna use it one day at some family get together, lol

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Gavin Johnson 10 months ago

When he, the son, inevitably gets a newer, shinier, faster, more stylish car then it’s time for the OP and Mum to go for a gentle cruise in the son’s fancy car and tell Mum all about it 😀

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners When she tells me I can find something else to watch on TV, I tell her I’m not even paying attention, but secretly I’m very invested in whatever terrible show she’s watching.

Chemistry-Least , Andres Ayrton Report

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Crazy Person 10 months ago

These thing is making me feel lonley 😭 ...

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Discussing important issues with your partner goes a lot smoother if you know how diplomatic or straightforward to be. Some folks respond better to subtlety. Others need to be told things ‘how they are’ without any sugarcoating.

Whenever you’re discussing these sensitive questions, it’s also invaluable if you practice active listening. This means not just waiting for your turn to speak, but genuinely focusing on what your partner is telling you and how they’re reacting to the info you’ve just shared.

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners I watch TV shows we both like without her because she likes to talk through them. Then, I watch them with her later and act like I have no idea what's going on.

RumHam426 , cottonbro studio Report

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Crazy Person 10 months ago

If it makes her happy 🤷🏼‍♀️

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners I have more money than she thinks I have, and I sometimes buy expensive for her, telling her that I found a good deal online. I.e., a really expensive road bike when she was not even looking for a new one because her old, heavy one 'works just fine.' She thinks I’m a genius deal finder when in reality, I just buy the stuff for her because I like to see her surprised and happy. If she knew what I payed for things, she would absolutely not approve and probably refuse any of it.

Regex22 , Antoni Shkraba Report

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Ace 10 months ago

This doesn't sound healthy...

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners My wifes ex partner was very abusive, they were together in high school. About a year after we got together, she had believed he had taken a long away job and moved away. Her mom told me not long ago that she saw him out and about in our town. This man really affected my wife, so badly to the point that in the beginning of our relationship she would give me her phone before going to the bathroom because he thought it was "inappropriate."

I told her mom not to say anything. Im not saying im the worlds strongest man but I am not afraid to protect my wife and I HIGHLY doubt we will see him out and about. I just feel like it will be better for her mental health if he continues to not exist. So ive decided to lie and im ok with it. :)

_internet_rat_ , Timur Weber Report

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Nina 10 months ago

On one side, ignorancecis bliss, on the other side, if she foes run in to him she'll probably be shocked a.f.

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Meanwhile, if you want to avoid an all-out argument, try your best to focus on talking about the specific problem at hand. If you’re going to start attacking each other over every single mistake you’ve both made throughout your relationship, then you’ll never come to any sort of compromise.

Consider whether you want to be right or if your goal is to repair your relationship and solve whatever problem you have on the table in front of you.

#13

“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners The mouse traps she set out didn’t kill the mice, they were tortured all night and I had to kill them in the morning with a shovel.

She has a very tender heart and never needs to know that. I’ll steer her towards other solutions if we ever have mice again.

storyparty , Skitterphoto Report

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Laughing Orc (he / him / orc) 10 months ago

Mousetraps are vicious things. Buy humane traps and move the mice out to a field or a park.

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners I was a sniper in Iraq.

There is a very long list of things she doesn't know and I imagine she doesn't want to know.

VenaticisVoid , Engin Akyurt Report

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Lucy 10 months ago

To each their own. I will say from personal experience my husband shared a lot of what happened in Iraq and we were better for it. He was better for it, sometimes it helps to have your partner carry the load. ❤️

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners My GF came from a super conservative background, and it took her a while to feel comfortable with her sexuality. She spent her late 20's making up for lost time, and she’s super proud of the progress she's made. We’re mostly open about our sexual histories, but a little while ago I mentioned having done something that I thought was pretty innocuous, and she got self-conscious. She said it made her realize how inexperienced she is. But I don’t think she’s inexperienced, I just had different experiences. Anyway, I know this is something she’s self-conscious about, so I’m probably never going to bring up the time I worked in porn.

gangoon_grif , cottonbro studio Report

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62points

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UncleJohn3000 10 months ago

I regularly use the odd "at least the pornos haven't shown up" to end a conversation.

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners She's having a really rough time with some family problems so I've been doing more and more with the house and the kids so she doesn't have to worry. I cook almost every night and take care of the kids pretty much every day. Between that and work, I haven't had even 5 minutes to myself in over a year.

I tell her that it's OK and I'm fine, but I'm slowly becoming overwhelmed, I'm exhausted all the time and I don't know how to ask her for help or tell her I'm starting to struggle because then she will worry about me too. She has enough to stress over as it is and I don't want to add to it.

TheMightyMegatron , Andrea Piacquadio Report

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Milady Blue 10 months ago

Should ask friends or family if they can help pitch in. Depending on the ages of the kids, they could pitch in, too.

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On Father’s Day and my birthday, the only gift I want is to be alone. It’s not that I don’t love them, but I’d kill for a night home alone to order a pizza, drink beer, and game.

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Laughing Orc (he / him / orc) 10 months ago

Just bloody talk to your wife and arrange for a night when you can do this. It isn't hard. I'm a person who needs a lot of alone time, my wife is a very social person who doesn't like to be alone. So we organise for nights when she can go see her friends and I can have some time to myself.

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners When I buy something for our son, I lie often about the price I paid, so she doesn't get mad. 'He have already a lot of toys and we spend too much, blah, blah, blah.' We are wealthy and it's my revenge on my life for living in poverty when I was a child myself.

MonsieurGrinch , Monstera Production Report

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56points

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Marie Bellwood 10 months ago

Okay but just SAY THAT to your partner. Otherwise you just will appear to undermine their morals.

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#19

I hate the way she loads utensils in the dishwasher. I’ll bring it up in her eulogy or die with this secret.

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alicia 10 months ago

or maybe...just tell her? This is insane. People can't even communicate about silly c**p.

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners I guess it's not technically I secret I'm currently keeping, because she left me, but my ex never had a lot of close friends or family. So I kinda brought her into my friends and family, and on holidays and birthdays, I'd make sure to tell all of them to wish her happy holidays/birthday but to make it seem like they just knew and thought of her. Not that I told them.

Darth-Atrocitus , Helena Lopes Report

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censorshipsucks 10 months ago (edited)

I do this with my current partner. Her family despise her but I tell them all the time say this say that send this message etc etc, so she thinks they can tolerate her. I'm trying to break the cycle.

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners I have a savings account she doesn’t know about. My wife sees money differently than I do. I like to save, she likes to spend. We have always talked about saving more, but then we do and she will spend it. So I just worked around the problem. I will eventually tell her, but that’s a ways off. I’m not sure how she will take this.

West2810 , Elise Report

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Laughing Orc (he / him / orc) 10 months ago

Just tell her. I'm bad with money and spend it far too easily, my wife is much more concerned about the future and having money put aside. So she keeps a joint savings account that I can't just easily transfer money out of without her knowledge. That way she has savings for the proverbial 'rainy day' and I don't see a chunk of money in my account that I might otherwise be tempted to spend.

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners My wife killed our old cat by thinking she could give it baby asprin when it was getting more arthritic to help its pain (she was told by someone this was ok.. it was not ok). She loves animals tons, and this would ruin her.

Accomplished_End_138 , Cats Coming Report

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mommamarmar 10 months ago

I fully understand they're trying to protect her feelings, but what happens when this situation potentially comes up again? They get another cat, kitty gets elderly/develops arthritis, and she "knows" a remedy? I feel like she needs to know, in case she accidentally does it again.

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners I sometimes sneakily eat junk food on the way back from the office...

T4y1or , Ellie Burgin Report

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Jude Mariposa 10 months ago

Just an FYI - we know. We see the wrappers in the garbage.

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#24

That pork loin roast she makes that she’s so proud of is drier than the Sahara and is barely edible. So.. extremely lethal.

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Auntriarch 10 months ago (edited)

Try shoulder instead.

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners I bought my wife’s engagement ring on Amazon for around 20 bucks a few years ago. I was poor at the time and couldn’t afford an expensive ring, but I still wanted to propose. She still wears it to this day, and the ring looks fantastic with her wedding ring. She thinks it was a super expensive ring but I’ve never told her the truth. She told me the other day that she doesn’t care how much it cost, she loves it either way. Now that I’m making a significant amount of money, I want to surprise her with a better one.

UncleRumpus , Daniel Moises Magulado Report

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RiceRiceBaby 929 10 months ago

Why bother? She seems to appreciate the one that holds sentimental value.

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners That her student loan debt scares the f**k out of me. She has almost $200k and it means I can never retire. She has 3 degrees and is going for her masters and probably her doctorate in education.

vogueleader , Element5 Digital Report

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Laughing Orc (he / him / orc) 10 months ago (edited)

Talk. About. It. This isn't a cool secret to keep, you're not doing either of you any favours by keeping it bottled up.

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners I've been helping her win races in Mario Kart for a couple of years now. Keeping other racers off her tail, and trying make sure we finish comps on equal points is a pretty fun challenge.

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Avani Gupta 10 months ago

Healthy competition is what makes playing together fun. If my husband were to 'help' me, I'd be very annoyed with him

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#28

“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners That I'm really happy for her in that she's found a group of online friends to play games with and watch movies together, but I'm also super jealous because they play all the coop / party games I want to play and watch all the terrible B movies and discuss them as a group but I don't want to impose on her and her group of friends.

I only have a few people to play games with and all they play is cod.

Tldr. I'm lonely. But it's nice to see her happy with some friends. Even if they are online only.

the_star_lord , Nicolas Gras Report

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Laughing Orc (he / him / orc) 10 months ago (edited)

Have you tried asking her if you could join in sometimes? I feel like a lot of the 'secrets' on this thread are just people who can't / won't have conversations with their partners ..

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#29

I sniff her panties as she's that attractive and her smell just does things to me, when shes not home ill go hunting like a pig lookin for truffles in a french forest.

she would probably not care, laugh and probably get off on it if she found out but its my dirty secret.

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Manana Man 10 months ago

Scent is a normal part of sexual attraction.

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners I got hit by a car with my bike on my way to work. I am fine, no scratch. Bike wheel and steering wheel was all twister though. Sold my PC for quick cash and bought a new bike. She has no ideal.

I don't want her to worry about me everytime I take my bike.

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Jed 10 months ago

Hit and run? The driver's insurance or the driver should have paid. If it was a very expensive bike, it might have been worth seeing if your own auto insurance also might have covered it.

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Every few days when dropping our kids off to daycare, I would get more than just a coffee at McDonald’s. She wouldn’t care, but I feel ashamed.

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Auntriarch 10 months ago

You silly sausage....

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#32

“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners My wife has physical disabilities that leave me with most of the housework, holding down a job, and caring for three kids six and under. This all started after our youngest was born. None of her chronic conditions are fatal, but I sometimes wish they were so that she can go to heaven and I can have a second chance at a normal, married life. The wish lasts until I realize I would be truly alone with three kids, and so much emotional baggage that no woman would want me. I will obviously take this to the grave.

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Hphizzle 10 months ago

Therapy, please.

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How much warhammer minis actually cost...

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Laughing Orc (he / him / orc) 10 months ago

Good job there's no way for her to find this information out for herself, eh? 😜

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“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners Ny partner's weight is a serious turn off, and I think if I told her it would absolutely destroy her self esteem. So I hold that in.

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15points

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censorshipsucks 10 months ago

Start eating healthier yourself so as to lead by example.

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#35

I used to tell her how nice she look in leather pants when in reality I hated them but she liked them so much I was just polite.

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Dainty72 9 months ago

When a woman feels really good and confident it what they wear, there's absolutely no need to knock it! Confidence is sexy

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#36

I get taken to lunch a lot for work and sometimes lie about where we went so she won’t be jealous.

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Mrs. Ginger McSarcasm 10 months ago

That seems unhealthy

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#37

“This Would Ruin Her”: Men Confess The Deepest Secrets They Are Keeping From Their Partners My bicycle cost $6,000, not $600.

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Captain Awesome 10 months ago

For $6k, that thing better have rockets!

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#38

I....didn't want to ever admit this but....sometimes, when my wife is upstairs, and we agree to eat leftovers.... I order DoorDash 🤫

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Crazy Person 10 months ago

I wud be mad that u didn't share with me

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#39

We actually have 6 old crappy boats and not just the two

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censorshipsucks 10 months ago

you do not need six boats. Sell five.

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#40

Her sister sent nudes to me and I still have them.

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Board Pan, duh. 10 months ago

Horrible secret...

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What do you think ?

So many of the issues (not all, but a fair few) these 'secrets' are about could be resolved, or at least improved, by just having a conversation with their partner. Try communicating sometimes folks!

22points

Astro 9 months ago

There are so many reasons people might have issues communicating their needs (mental health issues, trauma, abuse, abusive partner, etc). Telling someone to “just communicate, it’s not that hard,” is like telling someone with severe depression “just get out of bed and do something, it’s not that hard.” Shaming people with communication issues won’t help anyone. Sometimes all that helps is years of therapy. Please try to be more empathetic, fellow pandas, and don’t just assume that all these people are stupid!

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Helena 10 months ago (edited)

I do not care what your intentions are, or you see it as a positive, if you try to manipulate me or gaslight me in any way, I will never trust you ever again. Have secrets, I won't begrudge anyone that, but not when the sole reason is to mess with my view of reality. Embarrassed about hitting fast food and don't want to tell a spouse? Sad, but go for it. Lie to me about what something costs, or anything financial, lie to me about whether or not i'm actually winning something, or my abilities at anything, no. Absolutely not. So paternal, condescending and gross.

WoodenLion 10 months ago

overall - i agree. with a few relationships under my belt i disagree somewhat. being honest with your partner does not mean telling them everything.. why would i tell my woman her breath smelled like a dead mule when i could just give her a mint?

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WonderWoman 10 months ago

Communication is the key to most of these *secrets*. I would be SO angry to find out my partner was lying about things.

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Terry Rex 5 days ago

But if your partner was honest about something you are sensitive about like weight you would crucify him most likely. Down vote for being a typical woman.

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