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#1

I’m not proud to admit this but I actually cut myself on purpose because I was having a mental breakdown. And now I feel like I want to do it again, but I made a promise to my boyfriend that I wouldn’t do that again.

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Bantam_Wyvern (she/her)
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m sorry that happened. Now. I’m no therapist, but just remember that there are always people out there who want you to be happy, ok? Here to talk if you wish 👍

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    #2

    I’ve been acting immature for far too long, it’s time to finally grow up and stop acting like a child. It’s time to be more responsible and accountable. No more pranks, no more toilet humour, and definitely no more throwing tantrums like a toddler.

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    Bantam_Wyvern (she/her)
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    7 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All in all, pranks and toilet humor are fine among the right people, and the other two can be helped in a variety of ways (I’d recommend talking, over text if you find it too awkward when face to face). Please read these posts bottom to top, I’ve posted them funny. Also sorry about the rambling. Hope this helps (: have a nice day! (Also, congratulations on being engaged!) And sorry that i not only ramble but also talk like a chat bot :p

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    #3

    a bit of a rant here sorry lol

    So since around last week I've fallen into the damning hole called writers block. for NO REASON at all, my brain has decided THIS is what throws me into endless procrastination, increased anxiety, and just heightened emotions so I'm tired and pissed for no reason every. single. day. I want to write soooo badly and I need to learn how to write poetry for poetry slam next Tuesday. I really just can't do ANYTHING right now and it's increasing my anxiety as all of my tests are coming up: Core Subject Finals, Poetry slam, Shark tank pitch (mock shark tank for social studies), a French trip to assess oral skills (im really glad that my school got us some student discount/group discount on this because I probably couldn't have gone otherwise), ABRSM piano practical, mock art exhibition for art class...

    im reaaaaally sorry that this was such a rant, I just needed to get this off my chest.

    To everybody and anybody else who is struggling with anything at all, whether its a really small or really big thing: you are loved and I support you! Have a lovely day everyone.

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    Bantam_Wyvern (she/her)
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    7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hello! I’ve seen you around this site before I made an account, and I’m just gonna say you’re probably in the top 5 best people I’ve ever met, in real life and online :D Ok but as for actual advice, for the writers block, have you tried haiku? Any form of it, doesn’t matter whether it’s ‘proper’ or not, can help with that because it’s quite short but still has some guidelines. For the other things: for things that require studying (like core classes and maybe French) I personally use flash cards, but there are tons of other ways as well, like studying with friends or with study websites like Blooket or Quizlet. And for projects + piano (as well as studying) I’d recommend making a schedule for your free time with studying and practicing/working on projects but with lots of small breaks in which you do stuff you love and see your friends.

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    #4

    This is kind of random but am I the only person who feels bad/corrects myself when I misgender someone in my head? And who seems to say tons more words in my internal monologue than out loud? đŸ« 

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    me myself and i (she/her)
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    7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg no ur not I always feel terrible and I’m like nooo quietly in my head. I don’t really have an internal monologue tho bc I talk a lot. Maybe if I do it’s the same speed as I talk
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