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Anyone who's ever worked in the food service industry is bound to have met one of these—an extremely rude customer who shouldn't be allowed back into the restaurant. Or to order food ever again! The sad part is, rude customers aren't even that rare.

They're pretty darn common and make the lives of waiters, restaurant employees, and baristas a waking nightmare. Bored Panda wanted to show you some of the things service industry personnel have been through with rude customers, so we collected some of the best posts by servers from all over the net. As you scroll down, upvote the posts that made you feel for these workers, and be sure to leave us a comment with your own experiences serving food in the comment section. Would you like fries with that?

Alexander Kjerulf, the founder and Chief Happiness Officer of ‘Woohoo inc.' told Bored Panda that if your workplace is causing you to forget that you're a human being who's worthy of care and humane treatment, you shouldn't work there anymore. "Quit, and find a better place to work, where they actually care about their staff," he told Bored Panda. "And quit sooner rather than later. The longer you stay, the more they will grind you down until you lose all the energy and optimism you need to move on and find a better job."

Alexander actually made an entire video about quitting a bad job. Meanwhile, you'll find the rest of the insights that he shared with us below. Anyone who's working in the service industry, whether you're a server, a cook, or a manager, should have a read.

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Math Is Hard

Math Is Hard

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    I Can’t Believe People Can Be This Stupid

    I Can’t Believe People Can Be This Stupid

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    Left On My Co-Workers Table

    Left On My Co-Workers Table

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    Alexander was upfront that employees should expect and demand support from their managers. "I know that it's common for restaurants to treat their customers like kings and their employees [badly], but that doesn't mean it's OK," he said.

    "99% of people are nice, but the occasional rude client is unavoidable," Alexander from 'Woohoo inc.' said that there's no avoiding rudeness in the long run. "You can learn tricks to deal with them, and that's great, but no one should have to put up with mistreatment."

    For Alexander, working in the service industry doesn't mean that others can walk all over you. "Having a service job does not mean that other people get to demean you or belittle you and managers must be willing to step in and protect employees' dignity and mental health."

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    #4

    Latina Waitress Received Racist Note Instead Of Tip

    Latina Waitress Received Racist Note Instead Of Tip

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    This Was Posted In A Restaurant Group

    This Was Posted In A Restaurant Group

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    A Group Of Kids Filled It Up And The Parents Shouted At Customers Attempting To Complain

    A Group Of Kids Filled It Up And The Parents Shouted At Customers Attempting To Complain

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    Tipping's either a sore subject or a complete non-problem depending on where you live. In the United States, for example, tipping at a restaurant or a cafe is nearly ubiquitous. You're bound to get some weird glances and questions if you refuse to tip or if you don't tip enough.

    #7

    Decades Of "The Customer Is Always Right" Has Created The Most Entitled Idiots In Human History

    Decades Of "The Customer Is Always Right" Has Created The Most Entitled Idiots In Human History

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    pusheen buttercup
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We should get rid of that whole customer is always right attitude. It's not ok. It never was.

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    #9

    My Cousin Just Posted This On Facebook. She Is A Waitress At Outback And This Was Left Behind

    My Cousin Just Posted This On Facebook. She Is A Waitress At Outback And This Was Left Behind

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    I'll be frank. The US tipping system… is a bit weird. It's on the same plane of existence as not posting the full price of a meal or a product with the tax included. However weird forced tipping might be (and how it essentially makes customers, not the employers, pay a large chunk of the workers' wages), it doesn't change the fact that it's a cultural thing in the States. You just do it.

    #10

    My Aunt And Her Friend Took Me To Dinner. These 10 Lovely People Sat Next To Us, And Didn't Even Leave A Tip!

    My Aunt And Her Friend Took Me To Dinner. These 10 Lovely People Sat Next To Us, And Didn't Even Leave A Tip!

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    #12

    Seen On A Facebook Post On How People Should Tip Their Servers 20%

    Seen On A Facebook Post On How People Should Tip Their Servers 20%

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    So not tipping someone or even poking fun at a server who expects a tip isn't the way to go. Sure, the entire system should be overhauled so that tipping isn't mandatory, but until that utopian moment, we're stuck with what we have.

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    #13

    You Can Just Picture The Trashiness From This Customer

    You Can Just Picture The Trashiness From This Customer

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    Wouldn’t Let Him Underage Drink So He Didn’t Tip

    Wouldn’t Let Him Underage Drink So He Didn’t Tip

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    Rudeness, however, isn't just linked to tips. Customers from hell find all sorts of ways to belittle servers. From namecalling and ‘flirting' to acting like spoiled, entitled children (no offense to spoiled and entitled kids). However, employees shouldn't rise to the provocations while also protecting their own dignity.

    #16

    Please Don’t Leave Fake Tips I’m Trying To Go To College

    Please Don’t Leave Fake Tips I’m Trying To Go To College

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    #17

    My Friend Waited On Two Underage Kids Who Tried To Order Drinks. Stiffing Servers Has Always Made Someone A Bad Person, But During A Pandemic When Benefits Have Run Out And Restaurant Employees Are Struggling More Than They Already Did? Despicable

    My Friend Waited On Two Underage Kids Who Tried To Order Drinks. Stiffing Servers Has Always Made Someone A Bad Person, But During A Pandemic When Benefits Have Run Out And Restaurant Employees Are Struggling More Than They Already Did? Despicable

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    alwaysMispelled
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again, I call bullshit on these asshats trying to say they'd be leaving a massive tip, otherwise. These POS would never leave huge tips.

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    Earlier, I'd had a chat with Alexander from ‘Woohoo inc.' about what people should do when dealing with rude customers. “Keep your cool and remember that whatever abuse they're giving you is no reflection on you as a person,” he said.

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    Displaying Your Bare Feet In A Restaurant

    Displaying Your Bare Feet In A Restaurant

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    #20

    This Family Let Their Kid Crawl All Over The Restaurant Floor, Nearly Tripping Several Servers

    This Family Let Their Kid Crawl All Over The Restaurant Floor, Nearly Tripping Several Servers

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    #21

    Smoking In A Non-Smoking Restaurant Because You Do What You Have To

    Smoking In A Non-Smoking Restaurant Because You Do What You Have To

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    “That customer doesn't even know you, so there's no way it could be you. But on the other hand, don't be subservient. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself and tell customers that abuse is not tolerated. And if it persists, hand them over to a manager as soon as you can and let them deal with it,” Alexander explained how we should deal with problematic people. It's all about striking a balance between being professional and having a spine.

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    However, Alexander pointed out that not all customers who behave badly are bad people in and of themselves. There's a bit of nuance there! “It can be a good person having a bad day and that's why they're acting out.”

    #22

    Stop Tipping And These Folks Will Land Better Jobs

    Stop Tipping And These Folks Will Land Better Jobs

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That last sentence works for me. Because if you stop tipping wait staff in a culture that requires the customer to make up staff wages, and they DO all leave for better jobs there will be no one to FEED YOU AND YOU WILL HAVE TO GO AWAY

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    My Sister Got This While Waiting Tables

    My Sister Got This While Waiting Tables

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    Clearly sunny
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go into a gay bar and write his number on the bathroom walls!

    Vicky Z
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes cause being a cheap dickhead makes you a great catch!

    Virgil Blue
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Leave the number uncensored next time. He obviously is lonely and wouldn't mind a few thousand people calling him.

    TheReader19
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would you date someone who wouldn't even leave a tip? You've already let the person know your full character

    neonn_pieee
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugh I hate this! This client at my salon would never tip me but instead thought hitting on me was better every time he came him. I cleaned the hair off his neck like I do with every client and he thought that meant there was something between us. I had to literally be like no no no, I do that for everyone. It was a strange encounter and I'm glad I haven't seen him since pre COVID.

    Christy Smith
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Give me my f*****g tip asshole, calling you isn't a f*****g plus in my book!

    Mindy Keys
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope, not one tiny bit. I would much rather pay my bills, but thanks you stupid git.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand the logic of giving your phone number to someone you don't know, why do people do that!!!!

    Damon Hill
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Call from a pay phone, set up a date but have a bouncer friend show up in your place. Still might not get a tip but it'll be fun to watch

    Donna Thompson
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Surely a generous tip plus a note with his number would have given him a way better shot. This just says " I'm cheap &/or broke & totally full of myself!"

    Narwhal Blast
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it illegal to post the note as it is and show his phone number?

    Melissa Vellis
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She should text him and say this is a better tip for you. F*#k off you cheap creep.

    Susan Widomski
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, women are always looking for a cheap guy that thinks texting him will make their life complete.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    𝑳𝒊𝒌𝒆 𝒔𝒉𝒆 (𝒐𝒓 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒏 𝒉𝒆) 𝒘𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒃𝒆 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒊𝒏 𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒄𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒑 𝒂𝒔𝒔. ಠ_ಠ

    Priscilla Reshell
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What if the waiter/waitress isn't attracted to them then that wouldn't b a very good tip

    Jane Alexander
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    text him to come back during your shift, then show him the note and tell him it is Not better than a tip.

    Mechie Hunley
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Of course the from Kentucky not so ppl are bad but it's then ppl who make us look bad

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    #24

    At Least He Used The Proper Form Of "You're"

    At Least He Used The Proper Form Of "You're"

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    Though that doesn't change the fact that some customers really are rude because they thrive on it and know that being bullies works (sometimes). “The sad truth is that some customers act this way because they've learned that it works and will get them discounts or preferential treatment,” Alexander, the Chief Happiness Officer at ‘Woohoo inc.' said.

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    #25

    Someone Keeps Stealing The Tip Jar At My Local Donut Shop

    Someone Keeps Stealing The Tip Jar At My Local Donut Shop

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    #26

    "Why I Have Not Tipped!!!"

    "Why I Have Not Tipped!!!"

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    #27

    From My Friends’ Server Group. This Was Given By A 6 Top Instead Of A Tip

    From My Friends’ Server Group. This Was Given By A 6 Top Instead Of A Tip

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    pusheen buttercup
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You never know when someone is doing the best they can. You also don't know if they've been trained to be more hands off. You may wind up taking it out on the wrong person

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    What's more, Alexander added that rather than thinking that the customer is always right, we should go for something more down-to-earth like “be nice.” Or at least avoiding being rude. Of course, this goes for customers and employees alike! “Whenever I'm a customer anywhere, I always try to be kind and positive to the staff—even when occasionally I have to complain about something. It's literally the least I can do.”

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    #28

    Guy Left A Negative Tip To Subtract From The Total After Calling The Restaurant While Inside To Rush His Order

    Guy Left A Negative Tip To Subtract From The Total After Calling The Restaurant While Inside To Rush His Order

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    Your Tip Is That Because Of Me, You Still Have Yuor Fredom™

    Your Tip Is That Because Of Me, You Still Have Yuor Fredom™

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When they put their own lives on the line for their country (not just their social lives in following their partners around their posts) then they can have the military discount. It's so old fashioned to define your own status by your partners job, let alone expect a discount from it.

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    We'd love to hear your stories about the rude customers you've had to deal with, dear Pandas. What's your go-to strategy for somebody who's acting entitled and ruining your day? Do you stay professional and diplomatic all the time or do you confront them when they've overstepped your boundaries? Let us know what you think below.

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    Was Having A Conversation With My Waiter About How I Liked Her Hair, She Then Showed Us A "Tip" An Earlier Table Left. Apparently They Didn't Feel The Same Way

    Was Having A Conversation With My Waiter About How I Liked Her Hair, She Then Showed Us A "Tip" An Earlier Table Left. Apparently They Didn't Feel The Same Way

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    #33

    Using Having Kids As An Excuse Not To Tip Servers Who May Also Have Kids To Feed

    Using Having Kids As An Excuse Not To Tip Servers Who May Also Have Kids To Feed

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    #34

    A Facebook Friend Proudly Posts Lack Of Tipping And Creating A Mess For The Server

    A Facebook Friend Proudly Posts Lack Of Tipping And Creating A Mess For The Server

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    I Shouldn't Have To Tip On This Premium Service Because I'm Poor

    I Shouldn't Have To Tip On This Premium Service Because I'm Poor

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    Roadkill The Brave
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They keep track of that stuff, and you get flagged but nice try. It may take a few times to flag it but it gets flagged.

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    #36

    Customer Leaves Dirty Diaper On Restaurant Table For Waitress To Clean

    Customer Leaves Dirty Diaper On Restaurant Table For Waitress To Clean

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    #37

    I'm A Server And I Wear A Mask At Work Every Day. Someone Left This Note On A Receipt Tonight

    I'm A Server And I Wear A Mask At Work Every Day. Someone Left This Note On A Receipt Tonight

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    Trying To Justify Physical Violence By Saying “Tipping Is Completely Optional”

    Trying To Justify Physical Violence By Saying “Tipping Is Completely Optional”

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    #39

    When People Put Fake Tips With Religious Stuff Or Annoying Jokes In The Jar

    When People Put Fake Tips With Religious Stuff Or Annoying Jokes In The Jar

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    I Was Tipped At Wisconsin State Fair, I Don’t Get Paid Enough To Deal With This

    I Was Tipped At Wisconsin State Fair, I Don’t Get Paid Enough To Deal With This

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    #41

    No Tip Because He Needs To Buy Cigarettes... Cool

    No Tip Because He Needs To Buy Cigarettes... Cool

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    #42

    I Work At An Asian Dessert Place And Some Customer Tips Us With 75% Of A Dollar

    I Work At An Asian Dessert Place And Some Customer Tips Us With 75% Of A Dollar

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    #43

    This "$100" Tip I Received Tonight

    This "$100" Tip I Received Tonight

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    #44

    So This Got Left As A Tip For My Friend. Real Classy

    So This Got Left As A Tip For My Friend. Real Classy

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    #45

    Bragging On Facebook About Tipping $0.01 And Telling The Waiter/Waitress “Don’t Be So Miserable”

    Bragging On Facebook About Tipping $0.01 And Telling The Waiter/Waitress “Don’t Be So Miserable”

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    #46

    Learn English? How About Learn How To Write

    Learn English? How About Learn How To Write

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    pusheen buttercup
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do you know they aren't in the process of learning? English is very hard, you can work at it for years and not get it very well. Perhaps you just caught them the one time they couldn't remember the right phrase.

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    #48

    Thanks For The Tip, A-Hole!

    Thanks For The Tip, A-Hole!

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    #49

    Pizza Delivery Driver Got Tipped With A Bag Of Coins Containing Loose Tobacco

    Pizza Delivery Driver Got Tipped With A Bag Of Coins Containing Loose Tobacco

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    NeonDisco
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let's no start criticising people who actually tip. A splash of water and it spends the same as anyone's.

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    #50

    Not Tipping Their Server Because They Wore A Mask

    Not Tipping Their Server Because They Wore A Mask

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