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Anyone who's ever worked in the food service industry is bound to have met one of these—an extremely rude customer who shouldn't be allowed back into the restaurant. Or to order food ever again! The sad part is, rude customers aren't even that rare.

They're pretty darn common and make the lives of waiters, restaurant employees, and baristas a waking nightmare. Bored Panda wanted to show you some of the things service industry personnel have been through with rude customers, so we collected some of the best posts by servers from all over the net. As you scroll down, upvote the posts that made you feel for these workers, and be sure to leave us a comment with your own experiences serving food in the comment section. Would you like fries with that?

Alexander Kjerulf, the founder and Chief Happiness Officer of ‘Woohoo inc.' told Bored Panda that if your workplace is causing you to forget that you're a human being who's worthy of care and humane treatment, you shouldn't work there anymore. "Quit, and find a better place to work, where they actually care about their staff," he told Bored Panda. "And quit sooner rather than later. The longer you stay, the more they will grind you down until you lose all the energy and optimism you need to move on and find a better job."

Alexander actually made an entire video about quitting a bad job. Meanwhile, you'll find the rest of the insights that he shared with us below. Anyone who's working in the service industry, whether you're a server, a cook, or a manager, should have a read.

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Math Is Hard

Math Is Hard

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    I Can’t Believe People Can Be This Stupid

    I Can’t Believe People Can Be This Stupid

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    Left On My Co-Workers Table

    Left On My Co-Workers Table

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    Alexander was upfront that employees should expect and demand support from their managers. "I know that it's common for restaurants to treat their customers like kings and their employees [badly], but that doesn't mean it's OK," he said.

    "99% of people are nice, but the occasional rude client is unavoidable," Alexander from 'Woohoo inc.' said that there's no avoiding rudeness in the long run. "You can learn tricks to deal with them, and that's great, but no one should have to put up with mistreatment."

    For Alexander, working in the service industry doesn't mean that others can walk all over you. "Having a service job does not mean that other people get to demean you or belittle you and managers must be willing to step in and protect employees' dignity and mental health."

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    #4

    Latina Waitress Received Racist Note Instead Of Tip

    Latina Waitress Received Racist Note Instead Of Tip

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    This Was Posted In A Restaurant Group

    This Was Posted In A Restaurant Group

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    A Group Of Kids Filled It Up And The Parents Shouted At Customers Attempting To Complain

    A Group Of Kids Filled It Up And The Parents Shouted At Customers Attempting To Complain

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    Tipping's either a sore subject or a complete non-problem depending on where you live. In the United States, for example, tipping at a restaurant or a cafe is nearly ubiquitous. You're bound to get some weird glances and questions if you refuse to tip or if you don't tip enough.

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    Decades Of "The Customer Is Always Right" Has Created The Most Entitled Idiots In Human History

    Decades Of "The Customer Is Always Right" Has Created The Most Entitled Idiots In Human History

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    pusheen buttercup
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We should get rid of that whole customer is always right attitude. It's not ok. It never was.

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    #9

    My Cousin Just Posted This On Facebook. She Is A Waitress At Outback And This Was Left Behind

    My Cousin Just Posted This On Facebook. She Is A Waitress At Outback And This Was Left Behind

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    I'll be frank. The US tipping system… is a bit weird. It's on the same plane of existence as not posting the full price of a meal or a product with the tax included. However weird forced tipping might be (and how it essentially makes customers, not the employers, pay a large chunk of the workers' wages), it doesn't change the fact that it's a cultural thing in the States. You just do it.

    #10

    My Aunt And Her Friend Took Me To Dinner. These 10 Lovely People Sat Next To Us, And Didn't Even Leave A Tip!

    My Aunt And Her Friend Took Me To Dinner. These 10 Lovely People Sat Next To Us, And Didn't Even Leave A Tip!

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    #12

    Seen On A Facebook Post On How People Should Tip Their Servers 20%

    Seen On A Facebook Post On How People Should Tip Their Servers 20%

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    So not tipping someone or even poking fun at a server who expects a tip isn't the way to go. Sure, the entire system should be overhauled so that tipping isn't mandatory, but until that utopian moment, we're stuck with what we have.

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    #13

    You Can Just Picture The Trashiness From This Customer

    You Can Just Picture The Trashiness From This Customer

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    Wouldn’t Let Him Underage Drink So He Didn’t Tip

    Wouldn’t Let Him Underage Drink So He Didn’t Tip

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    Rudeness, however, isn't just linked to tips. Customers from hell find all sorts of ways to belittle servers. From namecalling and ‘flirting' to acting like spoiled, entitled children (no offense to spoiled and entitled kids). However, employees shouldn't rise to the provocations while also protecting their own dignity.

    #16

    Please Don’t Leave Fake Tips I’m Trying To Go To College

    Please Don’t Leave Fake Tips I’m Trying To Go To College

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    #17

    My Friend Waited On Two Underage Kids Who Tried To Order Drinks. Stiffing Servers Has Always Made Someone A Bad Person, But During A Pandemic When Benefits Have Run Out And Restaurant Employees Are Struggling More Than They Already Did? Despicable

    My Friend Waited On Two Underage Kids Who Tried To Order Drinks. Stiffing Servers Has Always Made Someone A Bad Person, But During A Pandemic When Benefits Have Run Out And Restaurant Employees Are Struggling More Than They Already Did? Despicable

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    alwaysMispelled
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again, I call bullshit on these asshats trying to say they'd be leaving a massive tip, otherwise. These POS would never leave huge tips.

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    Earlier, I'd had a chat with Alexander from ‘Woohoo inc.' about what people should do when dealing with rude customers. “Keep your cool and remember that whatever abuse they're giving you is no reflection on you as a person,” he said.

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    Displaying Your Bare Feet In A Restaurant

    Displaying Your Bare Feet In A Restaurant

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    #20

    This Family Let Their Kid Crawl All Over The Restaurant Floor, Nearly Tripping Several Servers

    This Family Let Their Kid Crawl All Over The Restaurant Floor, Nearly Tripping Several Servers

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    #21

    Smoking In A Non-Smoking Restaurant Because You Do What You Have To

    Smoking In A Non-Smoking Restaurant Because You Do What You Have To

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    Bill
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a smoker and I would yell at her. The times before the smoking ban was horrible

    kjorn
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    agree with you i'm a smoker too and i hated when people smokes in restaurant

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    Friday
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Establishments should have a wall of shame for people like this

    CatWoman312
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You really are such an addict you can’t last one f*****g hour without a cigarette?

    Arctic Fox Lover
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg, you're, like, the coolest person in the world because you're smoking indoors--on top of that, when it's AGAINST THE RULES to smoke indoors! So cool, wow, superstar! Admirable!

    Patti Vance
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i'm a smoker and this pisses me off! get off your a**e & go outside or just wait until you are finished with your meal and leave. i had a friend who, when invited to go somewhere with me, would always ask if you could smoke where we were going. if not, then she would decline coming along. eventually stopped asking her to go. even her hubby got annoyed with her attitude about smoking. i have sat through live performances, dinners, flights, etc. without complaining about not being able to smoke because it's not that important. btw, currently quitting now with a total stop date by july...i still fall off the tobacco wagon occasionally but will still keep trying.

    C.S. E.
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who do smokers think they are fooling. Non-smokers can smell that s***. We can ALWAYS smell that s***. It's because one of the side effects of smoking is a weakened olfactory sense. Get over yourself, you're not cute.

    Mweh
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i honestly don't understand why people censor out someones eyes when they are doing something bad, just expose the m**********r

    JessG
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She posted this crap herself, why hide her identity??

    Chris Hardtke
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bragging about a filthy habit that costs money to kill herself.

    Hello
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't mind if other people smoke. But not in a restaurant. Smoking affects others too, and that's why require you not to smoke in the non-smokers area.

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    Marilyn Ransberry
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Remember this when you’re diagnosed with lung cancer, emphysema or heart disease. Not so funny then.

    Stephanie Did It
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Imagine needing attention so badly that you expose your own disgusting behavior just for reactions.

    Katy
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Does it get any trashier? No, no I don't believe it does.

    Logically Reasonable
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm severely allergic to cigarette smoke. If this bitch lit up near me, I could sue her for endangering my life and my health!!

    Dave Kool
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not the worst part, this woman is only 23 years old.

    Cynthia Carter
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We knew a couple back on the early 1970's and she was a chain smoker. There were ashtrays in their bathroom, at her dressing table and right next to her in the kitchen when she was cooking. Didn’t bother us at the time because smoking was everywhere back then. I do wonder about her health and if they stayed together as time went on. She was a striking looking young woman too, but she already had a cough. Glad we never were smokers!

    PhybreAwptic
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If "my daughter and I get mistaken for twins" had a mascot, this would be it.

    Hugh Cookson
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Classy - no, let me rephrase that ......... Ugh, was what i meant .... she's probably smoking meth ...

    Scagsy
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here we have an excellent example of a Karen in the wild. You can usually see them wandering around the suburbs muttering 'manager' over and over to themselves.

    Gary Geracci
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    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Really? I have smoked for 68 years and even I can wait till I get outside after the meal!

    Vasana Phong
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure how old this pic is, but it’s illegal to do so mostly all establishments, you’re not even allowed to smoke in the front of the the area only a destinated area

    Roshan Kassan
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do smokers REALLY need light up ALL the time? And if ash landed in her meal, guess she would complain about that as well.

    Leah Pheonix
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And there go your lungs and your chance of going there ever again because your gonna get banned if you get caught

    neonn_pieee
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a disrespectful b*%#$. I hope she got caught and got kicked out/banned from the restaurant. The audacity people have these days is just ridiculous, it's not surprising though.

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    “That customer doesn't even know you, so there's no way it could be you. But on the other hand, don't be subservient. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself and tell customers that abuse is not tolerated. And if it persists, hand them over to a manager as soon as you can and let them deal with it,” Alexander explained how we should deal with problematic people. It's all about striking a balance between being professional and having a spine.

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    However, Alexander pointed out that not all customers who behave badly are bad people in and of themselves. There's a bit of nuance there! “It can be a good person having a bad day and that's why they're acting out.”

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    Stop Tipping And These Folks Will Land Better Jobs

    Stop Tipping And These Folks Will Land Better Jobs

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That last sentence works for me. Because if you stop tipping wait staff in a culture that requires the customer to make up staff wages, and they DO all leave for better jobs there will be no one to FEED YOU AND YOU WILL HAVE TO GO AWAY

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    #23

    My Sister Got This While Waiting Tables

    My Sister Got This While Waiting Tables

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    At Least He Used The Proper Form Of "You're"

    At Least He Used The Proper Form Of "You're"

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    Though that doesn't change the fact that some customers really are rude because they thrive on it and know that being bullies works (sometimes). “The sad truth is that some customers act this way because they've learned that it works and will get them discounts or preferential treatment,” Alexander, the Chief Happiness Officer at ‘Woohoo inc.' said.

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    #25

    Someone Keeps Stealing The Tip Jar At My Local Donut Shop

    Someone Keeps Stealing The Tip Jar At My Local Donut Shop

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    #26

    "Why I Have Not Tipped!!!"

    "Why I Have Not Tipped!!!"

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    #27

    From My Friends’ Server Group. This Was Given By A 6 Top Instead Of A Tip

    From My Friends’ Server Group. This Was Given By A 6 Top Instead Of A Tip

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    pusheen buttercup
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You never know when someone is doing the best they can. You also don't know if they've been trained to be more hands off. You may wind up taking it out on the wrong person

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    What's more, Alexander added that rather than thinking that the customer is always right, we should go for something more down-to-earth like “be nice.” Or at least avoiding being rude. Of course, this goes for customers and employees alike! “Whenever I'm a customer anywhere, I always try to be kind and positive to the staff—even when occasionally I have to complain about something. It's literally the least I can do.”

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    Guy Left A Negative Tip To Subtract From The Total After Calling The Restaurant While Inside To Rush His Order

    Guy Left A Negative Tip To Subtract From The Total After Calling The Restaurant While Inside To Rush His Order

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    Your Tip Is That Because Of Me, You Still Have Yuor Fredom™

    Your Tip Is That Because Of Me, You Still Have Yuor Fredom™

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    JennyLaRue
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When they put their own lives on the line for their country (not just their social lives in following their partners around their posts) then they can have the military discount. It's so old fashioned to define your own status by your partners job, let alone expect a discount from it.

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    We'd love to hear your stories about the rude customers you've had to deal with, dear Pandas. What's your go-to strategy for somebody who's acting entitled and ruining your day? Do you stay professional and diplomatic all the time or do you confront them when they've overstepped your boundaries? Let us know what you think below.

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    Was Having A Conversation With My Waiter About How I Liked Her Hair, She Then Showed Us A "Tip" An Earlier Table Left. Apparently They Didn't Feel The Same Way

    Was Having A Conversation With My Waiter About How I Liked Her Hair, She Then Showed Us A "Tip" An Earlier Table Left. Apparently They Didn't Feel The Same Way

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    #33

    Using Having Kids As An Excuse Not To Tip Servers Who May Also Have Kids To Feed

    Using Having Kids As An Excuse Not To Tip Servers Who May Also Have Kids To Feed

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    #34

    A Facebook Friend Proudly Posts Lack Of Tipping And Creating A Mess For The Server

    A Facebook Friend Proudly Posts Lack Of Tipping And Creating A Mess For The Server

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    I Shouldn't Have To Tip On This Premium Service Because I'm Poor

    I Shouldn't Have To Tip On This Premium Service Because I'm Poor

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    Roadkill The Brave
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They keep track of that stuff, and you get flagged but nice try. It may take a few times to flag it but it gets flagged.

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    #36

    Customer Leaves Dirty Diaper On Restaurant Table For Waitress To Clean

    Customer Leaves Dirty Diaper On Restaurant Table For Waitress To Clean

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    #37

    I'm A Server And I Wear A Mask At Work Every Day. Someone Left This Note On A Receipt Tonight

    I'm A Server And I Wear A Mask At Work Every Day. Someone Left This Note On A Receipt Tonight

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    #38

    Trying To Justify Physical Violence By Saying “Tipping Is Completely Optional”

    Trying To Justify Physical Violence By Saying “Tipping Is Completely Optional”

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    #39

    When People Put Fake Tips With Religious Stuff Or Annoying Jokes In The Jar

    When People Put Fake Tips With Religious Stuff Or Annoying Jokes In The Jar

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    #40

    I Was Tipped At Wisconsin State Fair, I Don’t Get Paid Enough To Deal With This

    I Was Tipped At Wisconsin State Fair, I Don’t Get Paid Enough To Deal With This

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    #41

    No Tip Because He Needs To Buy Cigarettes... Cool

    No Tip Because He Needs To Buy Cigarettes... Cool

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    #42

    I Work At An Asian Dessert Place And Some Customer Tips Us With 75% Of A Dollar

    I Work At An Asian Dessert Place And Some Customer Tips Us With 75% Of A Dollar

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    #43

    This "$100" Tip I Received Tonight

    This "$100" Tip I Received Tonight

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    #44

    So This Got Left As A Tip For My Friend. Real Classy

    So This Got Left As A Tip For My Friend. Real Classy

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    #45

    Bragging On Facebook About Tipping $0.01 And Telling The Waiter/Waitress “Don’t Be So Miserable”

    Bragging On Facebook About Tipping $0.01 And Telling The Waiter/Waitress “Don’t Be So Miserable”

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    #46

    Learn English? How About Learn How To Write

    Learn English? How About Learn How To Write

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    pusheen buttercup
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do you know they aren't in the process of learning? English is very hard, you can work at it for years and not get it very well. Perhaps you just caught them the one time they couldn't remember the right phrase.

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    #48

    Thanks For The Tip, A-Hole!

    Thanks For The Tip, A-Hole!

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    #49

    Pizza Delivery Driver Got Tipped With A Bag Of Coins Containing Loose Tobacco

    Pizza Delivery Driver Got Tipped With A Bag Of Coins Containing Loose Tobacco

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    NeonDisco
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let's no start criticising people who actually tip. A splash of water and it spends the same as anyone's.

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    #50

    Not Tipping Their Server Because They Wore A Mask

    Not Tipping Their Server Because They Wore A Mask

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