Bored Panda works better on our iPhone app
Continue in app Continue in browser

The Bored Panda iOS app is live! Fight boredom with iPhones and iPads here.

Lady Seeks Advice: “AITA For Refusing To Let My Roommate’s Cat Into My Room After It ‘Apologized’?”

Cat Destroys Roommate's Big Puzzle, Owner Apologizes On Behalf Of Kitty But To No Avail

ADVERTISEMENT

Do you love your pet? Silly question—of course you do. But what if it’s, for example, your friend’s, relative’s, or roommate’s pet? Do you still love it? Okay, but what if it so happens that this wonderful animal just made a complete mess in your room, ruining some important things of yours?

For the user u/Even_Editor4559, the author of the story we’re about to tell you today, everything was quite simple—she likes her roommate’s kitty, but she was absolutely not ready to tolerate furry “explorer’s” regular visits to her room. And what came out of all this—let’s just read on.

More info: Reddit

RELATED:

    The author of the post has a roommate with a very adorable yet mischievous cat

    Image credits: Mikayla Townsend / Unsplash (not the actual photo)

    The cat likes to sneak into the author’s room and make a mess there, as she did recently

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: Even_Editor4559

    Image credits: cottonbro studio / Pexels (not the actual photo)

    What infuriated the author the most was that the cat ruined the puzzle she’d spent hours assembling

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: Even_Editor4559

    The cat owner attempted to make apologies on behalf of the kitty, but the author stood her ground, not willing to let the cat into her room from then on

    So, the Original Poster (OP) is a 27-year-old woman sharing an apartment with her friend “Lily.” And Lily, in turn, has a cat named Muffin—adorable, but, alas, quite mischievous. And one of Muffin’s favorite things to do is sneak into our heroine’s room and make a mess there. The OP caught the cat doing this several times, but the recent incident really stands out.

    ADVERTISEMENT

    So, Muffin snuck into her room again and ruined a big puzzle with many elements, which the author spent several hours assembling. The cat not only scattered the pieces all over the room—but chewed several and even lost one. Needless to say, the original poster saw red. And who wouldn’t be really outraged if they were in her shoes?

    If you were expecting some kind of sophisticated story of petty revenge, then you’re definitely mistaken. Our heroine simply told Lily that from then on, Muffin was strictly forbidden to enter her room, even supervised. The cat’s owner agreed, but, at the same time, admitted that Muffin was very ashamed, and she wanted to apologize sincerely.

    The OP just laughed it off, but then she received a note written by Lily, with the words: ‘I’m sowwy—Muffin,’ with a cat treat as well. But no—the attempt failed, the author firmly stated that the cat was still forbidden to enter her room. And even numerous coaxes by the roommate, who said it was stupid to hold a grudge against a pet, yielded no result. So our heroine decided to take it online to seek some support.

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: Liza Summer / Pexels (not the actual photo)

    Of course, the cat is not to blame for anything, and it’s in the animal’s nature to sneak into a closed room and explore it. For example, Petoa says that cats love to dig into different things, finding new things for themselves. At the same time, you shouldn’t sacrifice your comfort for this. “Living with a beloved cat doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice a spotless home,” this dedicated article on Cat Tree claims.

    “From the cat owner’s point of view, it was a sweet but rather clumsy attempt to smooth over an unpleasant situation,” says Irina Matveeva, a psychologist and certified NLP specialist, with whom Bored Panda got in touch for a comment here. “But, on the other hand, one can perfectly understand a person whose many hours of work on assembling a complex puzzle got ruined in just a few minutes.”

    “So the decision not to let the cat into this woman’s room anymore seems completely justified. And this is not an insult to the animal – just a firm desire to avoid such cases in the future. If her friend wanted to compensate for her pet’s misdeed, then she shouldn’t have written notes and attached cat treats but, for example, sat down and reassembled the puzzle together. Or just bought another one,” Irina concludes.

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Commenters on the original post also sided mostly with our heroine, claiming that her friend took the offense in vain. And that cats, no matter how much you restrict their movement around the apartment, sooner or later will still find a way into a closed room to do whatever they want there. “This would be cute if it was a joke,” someone aptly summarized. And what do you, our dear readers, think about this story?

    People in the comments supported the woman but also told her that, knowing cats, all her attempts to ban the kitty from her room were definitely in vain

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: freepik / Freepik (not the actual photo)

    ADVERTISEMENT

     

    Share on Facebook
    Oleg Tarasenko

    Oleg Tarasenko

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Read more »

    After many years of working as sports journalist and trivia game author and host in Ukraine I joined Bored Panda as a content creator. I do love writing stories and I sincerely believe - there's no dull plots at all. Like a great Italian composer Joaquino Rossini once told: "Give me a police protocol - and I'll make an opera out of it!"

    Read less »
    Oleg Tarasenko

    Oleg Tarasenko

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    After many years of working as sports journalist and trivia game author and host in Ukraine I joined Bored Panda as a content creator. I do love writing stories and I sincerely believe - there's no dull plots at all. Like a great Italian composer Joaquino Rossini once told: "Give me a police protocol - and I'll make an opera out of it!"

    Denis Krotovas

    Denis Krotovas

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    Read more »

    I am a Visual Editor at Bored Panda. While studying at Vilnius Tech University, I learned how to use Photoshop and decided to continue mastering it at Bored Panda. I am interested in learning UI/UX design and creating unique designs for apps, games and websites. On my spare time, I enjoy playing video and board games, watching TV shows and movies and reading funny posts on the internet.

    Read less »

    Denis Krotovas

    Denis Krotovas

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    I am a Visual Editor at Bored Panda. While studying at Vilnius Tech University, I learned how to use Photoshop and decided to continue mastering it at Bored Panda. I am interested in learning UI/UX design and creating unique designs for apps, games and websites. On my spare time, I enjoy playing video and board games, watching TV shows and movies and reading funny posts on the internet.

    What do you think ?
    Add photo comments
    POST
    FluffyDreg
    Community Member
    11 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not sorted because the roommate is now guilting and pressuring OP to let her cat back in.

    Load More Replies...
    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
    16 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why God invented locks, people. Make sure it's a deadbolt and wear the key around your neck. No animal has the "right" to be anywhere they're not welcome.

    UncleJohn3000
    Community Member
    16 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I looked down the other day to see what my 3-month old kitten was batting around the kitchen. It was a tiny foil tube of superglue. She hadn't punctured it yet but the chances of catastrophe were accelerating rapidly...

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
    16 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have three kittens right now (two siblings who are ~5mo and a singleton who is ~4mo.) Last night I was letting the 4-month-old run around and play and he launched himself off of a wall and fell into the toilet. I haven't had a kitten since I was 16, so I forgot they're made of rubber and meth. Also, I've sprayed superglue into my own face before (long story) - luckily it doesn't stick to mucus membranes, so your kitten's mouth would be safe if she bit into it. Her fur, however... D:

    Load More Replies...
    Load More Comments
    FluffyDreg
    Community Member
    11 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not sorted because the roommate is now guilting and pressuring OP to let her cat back in.

    Load More Replies...
    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
    16 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why God invented locks, people. Make sure it's a deadbolt and wear the key around your neck. No animal has the "right" to be anywhere they're not welcome.

    UncleJohn3000
    Community Member
    16 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I looked down the other day to see what my 3-month old kitten was batting around the kitchen. It was a tiny foil tube of superglue. She hadn't punctured it yet but the chances of catastrophe were accelerating rapidly...

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
    16 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have three kittens right now (two siblings who are ~5mo and a singleton who is ~4mo.) Last night I was letting the 4-month-old run around and play and he launched himself off of a wall and fell into the toilet. I haven't had a kitten since I was 16, so I forgot they're made of rubber and meth. Also, I've sprayed superglue into my own face before (long story) - luckily it doesn't stick to mucus membranes, so your kitten's mouth would be safe if she bit into it. Her fur, however... D:

    Load More Replies...
    Load More Comments
    You May Like
    Related on Bored Panda
    Related on Bored Panda
    Trending on Bored Panda
    Also on Bored Panda