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22YO Woman Backs Out Of Euthanasia Seconds Before Doctor Administers Lethal Injection
A young woman who planned to die under the Netherlands’ assisted dying laws revealed that she “changed [her] mind” at the very last minute and decided to live.
“I don’t regret the journey. Because I’ve been so close to death,” she recently said.
The Dutch system had allowed Romy (surname withheld) to pursue euthanasia after suffering from clinical depression and eating disorders due to childhood abuse.
Highlights
- A 22-year-old woman named Romy backed out of euthanasia at the last moment.
- The Dutch woman decided to pursue euthanasia after suffering from clinical depression and eating disorders due to childhood abuse
- Romy made bittersweet preparations for her death, from designing “life sucks” t-shirts for her loved ones to choosing a dress for her funeral
- She had a change of heart when the doctor asked her "are you sure" for one last time before administering the lethal injection.
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Romy, who had been approved for euthanasia after years of suffering, changed her mind moments before the lethal injection was administered
Image credits: Alexander Grey / Unsplash (Not the actual image)
Romy first applied to the Euthanasia Expertise Center (EE) when she was 18 years old. By 22, she was granted approval for euthanasia by lethal injection.
The fateful summer day of June 19, 2023, was chosen as the date for the young woman to die. She made her final preparations, which included painting her nails red and picking out a dress for her funeral.
She had T-shirts made with the slogan “life sucks” for her loved ones and tattooed June 18—the original date of the euthanasia before it was delayed by a day—on the back of her neck.
The Dutch woman decided to pursue euthanasia after suffering from clinical depression and eating disorders due to childhood abuse
Image credits: AlexanderGrey / Pixabay (Not the actual image)
Romy even caught a glimpse of her coffin on the day she was supposed to be given the lethal injection.
Finally, on June 19, 2023, at the Leiden hospice, Romy was lying in bed while the attendant psychiatrist outlined the procedure. Her mother was with her while her brother was waiting in the hospital garden.
“The first injection numbs your vein. The second injection will stop your breathing. After that you will die quickly,” the doctor told her, as quoted by The Telegraph.
Romy made unique, bittersweet preparations for her death, from designing “life sucks” T-shirts for her loved ones to choosing a dress for her funeral
Image credits: fernandozhiminaicela / Pixabay (Not the actual image)
As per Dutch law, doctors are expected to receive the patient’s final consent before proceeding. So when the doctor stepped up to administer the lethal injection and asked, “Are you sure?”, Romy felt her answer shifting.
With her heart racing and tears streaming down her face, she said no.
Just hours after she said goodbye to her friends and family, she sent them a message saying she decided not to go through with it.
“Dear all, I have changed my mind at the last minute and will not die today. Sorry for the panic I may have caused you,” she said.
When the doctor asked Romy “Are you sure?” for the last time, she tearfully chose to live
Image credits: AlexanderGrey / Unsplash (Not the actual image)
A year later, Romy said she wants “nothing more than to live” and has the constant support of her family, friends, and psychiatrist.
“I don’t regret the journey. Because I’ve been so close to death, I see life as something valuable. It won’t always go well, but I now know there is light at the end of the tunnel,” she told the newspaper NRC Handelsblad.
As she studies for a diploma in adult education, she revealed she is currently living in communal assisted living.
“This is going to sound crazy: I genuinely enjoyed paying rent. It gives my life meaning,” she said, laughing, when asked about what gives her hope.
“Dear all, I have changed my mind at the last minute and will not die today,” she messaged her friends and family hours after telling them goodbye
Image credits: Ben Blennerhassett / Unsplash (Not the actual image)
“My life is not a life, it is mostly survival,” she said in the interview. “I am still afraid, but I am more afraid of the life I have to lead than of death.”
In 2023, more than 9,060 people died by euthanasia in the Netherlands, making up around 5.4% of the total number of deaths (169,363), according to an annual report released by the Regional Euthanasia Review Committees.
Apart from the Netherlands, euthanasia is also legal in Belgium and Luxembourg.
If you or someone you know is struggling with self-harm or suicidal ideation, help is available. _International Hotlines _provide resources.
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HTakeover 1 month ago
This is why approval is not a quick process, and requires several explicit consents and competency checks both before and just prior, to ensure they're really sure and that they understand what they're requesting.
Andy 1 month ago
Yeah, I feel we are meant to be shocked by the story and think it's terrible that she came that close when she didn't actually want to die, but the reality is the process worked like it should. It was a long term process to be approved and then various checkpoints to get to that stage. Then there is a final approval at the last stage to make sure that when faced with the reality of what is happening, they can change their mind, which she did.
Load More Replies... Tabitha 1 month ago
Guess that was her rock bottom she had to hit before deciding to go on with her life, and see the good as well as the not so good. She got as far as anyone can to being guaranteed to die, but her will to live took over. Please let her stay happy about giving herself a last second reprieve until she finally passes from extreme old age, after living happily for decades.
Androgyny Lunacy 1 month ago
I've wanted to die since I was 10, diagnosed with BPD at 26, and I do not agree with them euthanizing people so young. I have been an inpatient at hospitals several times too. I mean, I will always have passive suicidal ideation, but I still think you should be around 30 before you make that choice. Life circumstances can change for the better for some people. A lot of the time your environment makes your depression worsen. I just really think there should be a minimum age requirement when it comes to psychiatric disorders. Do you know how many times other people agree to things or how often people say things that are the opposite of what they're feeling inside? Also, by allowing euthanasia to happen so young, it gives other people the impression that giving up is your best option.
HTakeover 1 month ago
This is why approval is not a quick process, and requires several explicit consents and competency checks both before and just prior, to ensure they're really sure and that they understand what they're requesting.
Andy 1 month ago
Yeah, I feel we are meant to be shocked by the story and think it's terrible that she came that close when she didn't actually want to die, but the reality is the process worked like it should. It was a long term process to be approved and then various checkpoints to get to that stage. Then there is a final approval at the last stage to make sure that when faced with the reality of what is happening, they can change their mind, which she did.
Load More Replies... Tabitha 1 month ago
Guess that was her rock bottom she had to hit before deciding to go on with her life, and see the good as well as the not so good. She got as far as anyone can to being guaranteed to die, but her will to live took over. Please let her stay happy about giving herself a last second reprieve until she finally passes from extreme old age, after living happily for decades.
Androgyny Lunacy 1 month ago
I've wanted to die since I was 10, diagnosed with BPD at 26, and I do not agree with them euthanizing people so young. I have been an inpatient at hospitals several times too. I mean, I will always have passive suicidal ideation, but I still think you should be around 30 before you make that choice. Life circumstances can change for the better for some people. A lot of the time your environment makes your depression worsen. I just really think there should be a minimum age requirement when it comes to psychiatric disorders. Do you know how many times other people agree to things or how often people say things that are the opposite of what they're feeling inside? Also, by allowing euthanasia to happen so young, it gives other people the impression that giving up is your best option.
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