Tired Of People Bringing In Their Emotional Support Pets, This Restaurant Put Up This Sign Banning Them All
Recently, one restaurant put up a sign, saying it doesn’t allow emotional support animals. It caused quite a stir online, with some people admiring the bold move and others saying it’s not something the restaurant has control over. However, there’s something we need to discuss before you choose whose side you’re on.
First, let’s get something straight. An emotional support animal is not a service animal. The Americans with Disabilities Act defines service animals as dogs or small horses that are trained to perform specialized tasks, for example leading a blind person or detecting seizures. They must be allowed in restaurants, stores, and other public places. Emotional support animals, on the other hand, provide comfort with their presence but usually have no special training.
To promote a pet to the status of an “emotional support animal”, or ESA, all a person needs is a therapist’s letter asserting the animal contributes to their psychological wellbeing. There are for-profit websites, known among some psychologists as “ESA mills”, that will facilitate a quick and dubious disability appraisal by a clinician over the phone or via a web survey to those who do not have a therapist, too.
And while ESAs aren’t legally allowed to venture everywhere in public with their owners (only service animals have that right), they do come with perks. Equipped with a therapist’s letter, its owner may move their pet into an animal-free apartment or dormitory, and fly with their pet in a plane’s cabin for free.
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Fortunately for those who wish to abuse the law, there is a lot of confusion surrounding these technicalities. Nothing can stop them from lying or using the terms “service animal” and “ESA” interchangeably. “The majority of folks who slap a vest on their pet have already crossed that line,” Ryan Honick, 33, whose service labrador, Pico, helps him with myriad daily tasks told The Guardian. “The easiest giveaway is behavior. A trained service animal is going to behave unobtrusively and professionally. If those things aren’t happening, odds are high the animal is fraudulent.”
While no organization keeps track of the actual number of emotional support animals, a study from the University of California at Davis determined the number of ESAs registered by animal control facilities in the state increased 1,000% between 2002 and 2012.
In the past, there have been numerous cases of people taking the whole ESA thing way too far
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According to The New York Times, some people who require Seeing Eye dogs have reported that their animals have been attacked in airports or restaurants by untrained emotional support dogs. The explosion in support animals has led to more skepticism of true service dogs as not all handlers can keep them under control.
Of course, not every ESA is a walking threat, but in 2018, Delta Air reported an 84% surge in animal incidents since 2016. Those include urination, defecation, and biting. There have also been media reports of emotional support peacocks starting pandemonium in airports, comfort hamsters getting flushed in a frenzy, and so on.
As a result, more than two dozen state legislatures have already enacted new laws to crack down on fraud. For example, Utah has just passed a law that makes it a misdemeanor to lie about a pet being an emotional support animal, and Oklahoma clarified that restaurants and stores have a right to keep ESAs out.
So, coming back to the restaurant sign. Do you support the establishment?
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Here’s what people said about this
As a disabled army veteran that has had to have a service dog now for well over 12 year's it is all of these morons that are going through these mail order registries for their lap dogs are making it so much harder on those of us that actually have to depend on our service dogs
Agreed! I train guide dogs for the blind and fake service animals are a huge issue for our clients. I appreciate this article.
Load More Replies...I never knew "emotional support animals" were a thing. Isn't any pet for emotional support? 🤔
All pets are emotional support animals. Service dogs are medical devices like wheelchairs or oxygen tanks.
Load More Replies...It's about time people start calling out these idiots bringing these animals on flights completely abusing the need for a support animal.
Right...all of us idiots that have PTSD from flying back and forth into hostile environments (defending YOUR freedom mind you). Why would we need an ESA - it’s not like you can visually see our disability. Pray that you never have to be in a situation when you’re on a flight and someone’s having a panic attack. Sleep well under that blanket of freedom we provide for you.
Load More Replies...I am sorry to tell you that this is a big thing in America. I am an American and I can tell you that this whole ESA thing has gotten way out of control. People are wanting to bring emotional support pigs and peacocks and anything else you can think of everywhere. It's really sad for those people who actually need a service animal.
Load More Replies...People using unusual animals for 'emotional support' are often not being fair to the animal let alone everyone else around them. About time this ridiculousness got stomped on.
I agree. I have a Service dog. She is a Medical Alert Dog. I am a diabetic and she keeps track of my sugar levels. Without her I came very close to dying. My sugar gets too low in the early am hours and she will wake me up. She is a solid black German Shepherd. I wish they would give us a card to show for a legal service dog.
www.sitstay.com has service dog vests available. They have "diabetic alert dog" patches and you can customize patches. They also have "DO NOT PET" and "I'M WORKING" patches. They're not really expensive, but they're not that cheap either. Someone on a fixed income may have difficulties affording them. However, insurance might cover it since it is disability related (?).
Load More Replies...Regarding PTSD: PTSD is a diagnosible disability and a service dog can be specifically trained for it with specific actions and tasks, not just be there support. My wife has a service dog for hearing, an invisible disability. She says the restaurant's sign is appropriate and correct.
As a person with a Seizure disorder and who has a service dog, I applaud this restaurant. Far too many times my dog has been attacked by an ESA dog or a fake service dog. Everyone, I met always comments on how well my dog behaves and I always say "its the training" . I also have a regular pet dog who I love dearly, but she is not allowed to go where my other dog is and I hope people do not ruin it for people like me with a disorder/disability, if not for Bella I would not be allowed to drive, work and go about the ordinary things of everyday life. She is a blessing.
That's interesting. I didn't think people with a seizure disorder were allowed to drive. My brother in law has epilepsy and he isn't. Honestly not judging or criticising. Glad you have Bella. Worked with people who had guide dogs, amazing animals.
Load More Replies...As a disabled army veteran that has had to have service dogs now for over 12 years now all of these morons that are going through these mail order registries for their lap dogs are making it so much harder on those of us that actually have to depend on our service dogs
First of all, thank you for your service. Secondly, I am sorry that these idiots are making it harder for you to depend on your service dog. It's not right and should have been stopped a long time ago.
Load More Replies...About those PTSD dogs, they are actually service dogs and trained to support their owner. They're allowed.
PTSD dogs I can see. But ducks and peacocks? WTF?
Load More Replies...It is emotional support because these people think they need to be the center of attention. So if they can bring a unicorn with them people will look at the unicorn and talk to them giving them that emotional support of being the center of attention. .... but this shouldn't be a real thing.
If you think a peacock or duck is giving you emotional support you've got more problems than any peacock or duck will ever be able to solve.
That's perfectly fine. Businesses should not have to put up with people dragging their pets around just because. We all have issues but there's a huge difference between a blind or handicapped person with a service animal that is assisting them, and someone with an untrained pet. Not everyone likes dogs either, and wants them in public places.
My emotional support dog makes it possible for me to enjoy being out and about. Without her, I would be house bound. After suffering a major trauma, years later, I became aware of just how much my life had changed to accommodate my fears and how small my world had become. I am so grateful to have my ESA. I'm sure there are cheaters. Aren't there always? My scars are not visible, but they are life altering. Please don't judge us all by those who take advantage of this opportunity for selfish indulgence.
No offence but you need help. If you can't leave the house without a pet you need more counselling and maybe meds.
Load More Replies...Not related but, I'm tired of people writing "aloud" instead of "allowed". Or "would of" instead of "would have"
It is irritating but you are never going to stop it from happening. Some things you just have to shrug off as it isn't worth the stress.
Load More Replies...I was a server at a restaurant when a family came in with their service dog. I had the great honor of getting to serve them. The service dog was able to detect seizures in their daughter. No one could even know that there was a dog in the restaurant. He laid under the table at the girls feet. The hardest thing for me was not being able to pet the dog. My dog is completely my emotional support, we have been thru everything together, but I would never use him just to be able to take him out to dinner with me. I am on the stores side for this. one Sorry Roamer, we will just find an outdoor patio that allows regular dogs. lol
What most people don't realize is that there are 2 classes of this kind. A service animal is ether a dog or miniature horse and i protected by law. A emotional support animal has no law protection.
This is a really difficult issue. I'm a wheelchair user, and have loads of allergies. I totally understand why someone. might need a service dog, and respect their legal rights to take that dog with them. I see them just the same as my wheelchair in that they both enable us to have an normal a life as possible. But my allergies mean dogs can be a problem for me. I just have to manage that, but if everyone suddenly decided they needed to take their pet dogs everywhere then I may well have more of a problem.
My wife got upset when I informed her that she couldn't and shouldn't try to brand her frantic, Ill behaved puppy as a service dog. In retrospect, I think that she meant ESA but it pissed me off because I know that a true service dog (as pointed out to her at a restaurant the other day) will calmly sit unobtrusively out of the way and won't react to surrounding unimportant stimuli while her dog would lose its damn mind in a restaurant. I think that I finally got my point across but it took a bit of convincing. People with her mind set are a big part of the problem.
It must be weird to be married to someone that is like that. I’m sure she has the other qualities you like, but to me it would be so weird to be with someone who was intellectually on such a different level.
Load More Replies...Went to a restaurant recently and a lady there brought her “emotional support dog”. It barked and nearly tripped one of the waitresses while she walked by with a tray of food.
What idiot thinks that their affection for an animal means it's a trained therapy companion animal like a seeing-eye dog or seizure-detection dog?!
I am glad that someone is finally putting their foot down about this kind of situation. If you need a service animal, that is completely understandable. However, if you just want to bring your little dog or pet with you, that's something completely different. My mother is not a big fan of crowds, but as long as we stay together when we go places she's fine. However, one thing that really gets to her in crowds is people who bring their dogs into places and I am not talking about service dogs, but their pets. If you have some disability it is perfectly reasonable for you to have a service animal. However, if you have to take your pet everywhere that's a different story.
Good, I'm so sick of animals in grocery stores and restaurants. It's unsanitary. I've seen dogs licking produce, sniffing the hot bar, etc.
My service dog goes to the grocery store with me however she would never in a million years even sniff the produce. A true service dog is focused on the owner.
Load More Replies...Yes, it is a disability. There are dogs that have been specially trained to perform specific tasks associated with PTSD sufferers to relieve their stresses. Many veterans groups are training dog for this specific purpose due to the high occurrence of PTSD (and suicide) amongst military veterans.
Load More Replies...this is good, and also people with ptsd and panic attacks and such can say that their dog is trained to specifically recognize and respond whenever something happens so if they're actually trained, while some may consider it emotional support, that is genuinely a service dog- this is for d***s who say their yippy little lap dog that barks at everything and behaves awfully is an "emotional support dog" just because they like having it around and is trained for nothing.
I have a service dog in training. At 6 months she already helps me walk. Next is to help me up when I fall. We were in Wal-Mart today and some lady decided she just had to pet my dog. I think she was surprised when I told her to keep her damn hands off my dog.
Good for you!! Does your dog wear a vest stating she's a service dog in training or a do not pet statement? Some people read those things and assume they're exempt, because they're special.
Load More Replies...I am allergic to most animals. I will walk out of a store or restaurant when I see someone with their animals, but I can't walk out of an airplane. I have been told that I can switch planes and take my chances. So I always take meds before I fly and suffer through. Something is really off in the world now that animals take precedence over humans. Yes, I'm very sympathetic to those whose service animals help them, but I do like breathing.
I understand. I have MCS and being out and about with my service dog without a 3M mask is deadly for me. If you have issues, I'd suggest getting a mask that filters out your allergies. If we could ban everything that makes it hard to breathe, I'd start first with scented EVERYTHING! It literally takes my breath away.
Load More Replies...Isn't "emotional support animal" just another word for "pet"? I love dogs too, but there are *reasons* dogs or other pets are not allowed in restaurants or on flights.
The best on I saw was the ‘service dog’ 4lb Yorkie in a hot pink service vest being pushed in a hot pink dog stroller
This topic is HOT in Denver, where spoiled hipsters want to bring their pets everywhere, because THEY FEEL ENTITLED. . . . . . Many organizations are pushing for service dogs to receive chip implants, so restaurants/bars/etc. willing to invest in a reader can parse actual service animals from some entitled creep's purse-dog.
Dang! I was hoping my sister could bring me a lobster from Maine and get it on the plane by calling it her emotional support lobster! We were even going to get a vest for it that said "service lobster".
Ran into a childhood friend who wanted to get together to go out to eat and shop. She had a handicap placard due to her being unable to walk long distances. She out walked me at the mall. She also had an ankle biter "Emotional support dog." Her only disability is wanting everyone to feel sorry for her. I hate that I ran into her. Hope I never see her again.
This is my emotional support elephant. I expect to be allowed to take it on the plane with me, for free. Oh and mind it gets fed, too.
Such a simple fix. Why are people with legal service animals not given a card or legal document providing so, that they can share as proof? ESAs would not have this. No card? No service, where applicable.
There are dogs specifically trained for veterans with PTSD, I know of one which goes to work with his master every day at our Social Security Office here in Fresno. And he is well trained for his job.
Im a 100% service connected veteran and I have certification for a service dog and Emotional Support Animal but I respect the feelings and understanding of others and would never impose on people for the rights I've earned. Some people want to take things to the extreme and think they are entitled to disrupt others lives which is total BS in my opinion. Respectable people will do what is necessary to abide not only by laws but common decency and respect by others
Support this 100%. Entitled people need to stop trying to abuse the system. And if an "emotional support animal" ever bites a person or service animal, the owner needs to be fined, jailed and sued.
The one that mentioned people with PTSD needing their dogs, those are usually service animals not ESAs. They are trained to get between the person afflicted with PTSD and the potential trigger....
Not requiring proof the animal is a service animal is the problem we're having. Disabled people are required to have a handicap parking permit in their vehicle to park in a handicap space so why aren't people with service animals not required to have proof their animal is a service animal?
I choked on my iced tea when I read “service burrito”! Hilarious!
In Australia guide dogs for the blind are specially trained and come with a special harness fitted to the dog and the human. And Paperwork. The person is also trained with their dog before they go home together from the centre. Ditto hearing dogs etc. The training is NOT done by random humans wanting attention and "rights" they do not need. The peacock thing is absurd!!!!!
Its an awful abuse. I was at a restaurant where that "service dog" was all over the place. That ain't no service dog. Let's see how many pets show up when certification is required
I'm bringing my service orange onto the airplane... in a bottle of water.
I think there needs to be more security around this idea of an "emotional support animal". I've seen people who have some varieties of autism with like... actual trained animals of this sort, and that's a great thing, but you shouldn't just be able to get any pet "approved" to come with you everywhere like that.
Autism is a disability and those trained animals are likely service animals not Esas
Load More Replies...Does anyone realize that anxiety, panic attacks, and social anxiety are disabilities!! The ESA is there so these people can have as close to good quality of life as to those who don’t need them to be in public. Yes, there are people that do this just to have their little doggie with them but, there are people that need these dogs to be able to have the comfort and security to go into public. Just because of a few rotten Apples doesn’t mean you punish the whole tree. So if you want to damn those with anxiety/social /panic attacks That they must stay at home and not try to have the best quality of life... Then y’all stay home. These disorders/disabilities are real to many people. It’s very easy to tell those who don’t have it and have not experienced it ... Because you are all the ones against it. And ESA is a very vital tool to have in the lives of these people. What right does anyone have to tell these people they cannot enjoy the same Quality of life as you. It’s disgusting!
Where is this where they are legally able to quiz someone on their service animal? Like wtf? I'm sure that this sign and these actions would also drive away people with service animals. Because you know what's great for someone with PTSD? Someone standing there interrogating them about it
My entitled neighbor had his pup registered as an ESA just so he didn't have to pay for a ticket on airlines. And gets to hold his dog on his lap . In fairness, his dog is exceptionally behaved. But so many ESA are NOT well-behaved, just like their people. People like them make it so difficult for those who truly need service animals.
I genuinely believe dogs used for ptsd reasons actually have a purposeful function and can be trained to guide their owner to a place to calm down or to comfort them when Necessary. As long as the are obedient and well trained (unlike so many so called emotional support animals I've encountered) they should be allowed to qualify as a actual service animal .
I am suffering from severe, and I talked with my therapist regarding the same, she told me I will be needing an ESA to support me, though there is difference between an ESA and a service animal, I believe ESA's should be allowed in public places as a pet's training is not a cure to someone's disability. I got my ESA LETTER from https://www.fastesaletter.com, and I feel excited and energetic with the company of my pet. If there is a place that is not allowing an ESA, I won't prefer the place...
A doctor's note does not make your pet a service animal. Service animals perform essential tasks for their handlers. They are extensively trained and tested for public access as in confidence & calm demeanor in stressful environs, focus on the needs of their handler and generally trained to respond to 40+ cues.
I can imagine that the frustration of the people who genuinely need assistance dogs when they see idiots with emotional support seals is akin to mine when I see people with their dole poles tucked under their arms as they jog after the bus.
I'm good with the animals, but the people with them are NUTS! And that interferes with my daily routine. My health is more important than your emotions!
I watched women put dog in her purse and walk into the grocery store. The stores have stopped trying get them to leave dog in the car. The people make the store the bad guy even though 99% of people do not like non-service animals in the store. Poopsie might get lonely. I hope the mute popped in her purse.
Emotional support animals do not exist in Europe, and I don't consider us any more depressed as Americans
"It's my emotional support animal!" = "I am too cheap to pay for a kennel when I go on vacation".
People who abuse the system like this really p**s me off. Clearly, the government needs to update its laws in this regard in order to weed out these idiots. People with PTSD, and similar issues, might actually NEED an emotional support animal. These jackasses just want an excuse to feel 'special' and be smug for being 'so clever' for twisting the law in their favour to suit their selfish desires. Once again, we see that a few creeps ruin things for everyone else.
I think it's up to the establishment whether they want to allow ESA animals or not, as long as they're complying with the law. I'm not a fan of untrained dogs, but would have no problem sharing my eating space with a non-threatening species like a duck or horse. Most animals are much more well behaved than people anyway. I'd even be cool with a Golden Retriever or Great Dane as they're very sweet breeds. I just don't trust the aggressive breeds, especially when they're not trained.
So pitbulls are just tooooo dangerous for you. Did you know Golden retrievers are the most aggressive dog breed and bite the most people (don't believe me Google it) you can't say you don't trust aggressive breeds... The breed of the dog DOES NOT MATTER it's weather they were trained properly!
Load More Replies...I don't see an issue with emotional support animals. Businesses are free to allow them or not allow them. If a business, like air companies, which to allow their customers to bring an emotional support animal, then that's their business choice. What would be wrong is a person who has an emotional support animal stating that their animal's presence is mandatory, when that only applies to service animals.
I think the sign is 100% fair. However I believe that just like people NEED their actual service pets with them, some people really do need ESAs the problem is a lack of training (for a few) but mostly its people who lie about their pet just being a pet! And instead of training them properly or being respectful they lie and take away from the ones that can behave..... because I've seen plenty of dogs in restaurants that weren't service dogs or ESAs but they behaved PERFECTLY and were quiet. More importantly lying about an animals training or purpose hurts people with real emotional problems as well, Like PTSD, or anxiety attacks from having the ESA and the support system they need to function properly
The emotional service animal out in public has to top. It put teams in danger. Teams being a disabled person with their trained animal who does tasks to make it safe and able for them to move in the world. An untrained animal can distract or hurt a true service animal which in turn can topple a wheelchair or injure the disabled person.
I am just going to sit here and celebrate that I live in Germany and can take my dog pretty much anywhere (exceptions are supermarkets and many public institutions like museums. Some individual stores might forbit dogs due to bad experiences, but the vast majority of places I can go into and do)
I visited Germany about 10 years ago and was immensely impressed at the dog-friendly atmosphere. I was also immensely impress at the cleanliness of the city (Berlin) in general and the public transportation in particular. I grew up in Philadelphia and used public transportation all of the time. The subway stations were filthy and smelled of urine. There was none of that in Berlin. The people were respectful of their surroundings. It was refreshing to see.
Load More Replies...What they need to do is make service animal registry illegal through anyone but the government. People who do not have the proper identification for their animal can be fined, heavily. And the government can set down regulations that the animals have to come from certified trainers or have met specific parameters for their service. This whole "I'm going to take my yorkie in the store in my purse and say it's a service animal because I'm too privileged to leave it at home" c**p's gotta stop.
I think after suffering years of medicine not always working when I needed it most if I am paying the bill and your not cleaning after my dog but you are cleaning after customers who p**s and c**p all over your bathrooms and restaurants in more ways than 1 considering I am also a germ a phob and your not paying my medical expenses or anything else and I am actually paying you by eating at your facility if you want to stay in business than you run the food part and staff as you wish but mind your business about the public's personal life because as far as I can tell the responses are coming from individuals who act like they are perfect and their a*s does not stink or hands are never dirty in one way or another. Haven't we already been down this road with blacks, whites, spanish, lesbians, gay men, 3 ways and so on sounds like the world needs something to socialize about just to feel connected and important. Keep your comments to yourself if you do not have something supportive to say.
If they're going to go hard on ESA laws, they should also get serious about providing mental health services and alternative treatments such as service animals to people with PTSD, and other non-classic disabilities. I take the hubbub against ESAs as coded neglect of people with psychological disabilities- Now anyone can minimize or question those. It's very difficult for non-classical disabilities to receive a service animal- which works out great for the industry that wants people on powerful pharmaceuticals instead of having other tools to navigate life. There's the chance that a personal dog can be legitimately trained to provide service, but really difficult to navigate how to get that done. For those who really want the help of a service animal as an alternative to being heavily medicated, this issue is bigger than the fakers, it's probably that more people could benefit from a trained service animal than are able to properly obtain one. That's a huge shame to me.
People with PTSD are eligible to have service animals....
Load More Replies...I don’t disagree, but these people are asking for trouble. You can’t just demand that someone tell you what task the animal has been trained to perform (akin to asking what the person’s disability is) or kick them out. That has to be violating some kind of discrimination law.
Read it again. That’s not what they are asking
Load More Replies...service dogs have certificates. for some reason people aren't allowed to ask for them. the certificate has the dogs photo and certification on it. recently I had a guy on one of these sites tell me no reputable business will train a pitt bull as a service animal. yet I know of one that has her certificate. the police use them now. I think a service animal should be able to have a copy of the certificate and wear it on a vest. something that cant be copied as easily. for going in public
People can get fake certificates on line. There is no organization- govt or otherwise - that registers service dogs. As soon as someone says they are registered, you know they are lying
Load More Replies...John..they aren't asking your medical issue...what they are asking for you to do is to prove your animal is a properly trained service animal and not just a pet that, for some reason, couldn't be left at home. I understand how important animals are for people with ptsd...but it should anger you more that there are people out there abusing the system...not because they have a legitimate problem..but because they love spoiling their animals 24/7. If these people weren't abusing the system like they are...you wouldn't have to be subjected to the reactions that you experience when you go into a public place with your service animal.
Load More Replies...As a disabled army veteran that has had to have a service dog now for well over 12 year's it is all of these morons that are going through these mail order registries for their lap dogs are making it so much harder on those of us that actually have to depend on our service dogs
Agreed! I train guide dogs for the blind and fake service animals are a huge issue for our clients. I appreciate this article.
Load More Replies...I never knew "emotional support animals" were a thing. Isn't any pet for emotional support? 🤔
All pets are emotional support animals. Service dogs are medical devices like wheelchairs or oxygen tanks.
Load More Replies...It's about time people start calling out these idiots bringing these animals on flights completely abusing the need for a support animal.
Right...all of us idiots that have PTSD from flying back and forth into hostile environments (defending YOUR freedom mind you). Why would we need an ESA - it’s not like you can visually see our disability. Pray that you never have to be in a situation when you’re on a flight and someone’s having a panic attack. Sleep well under that blanket of freedom we provide for you.
Load More Replies...I am sorry to tell you that this is a big thing in America. I am an American and I can tell you that this whole ESA thing has gotten way out of control. People are wanting to bring emotional support pigs and peacocks and anything else you can think of everywhere. It's really sad for those people who actually need a service animal.
Load More Replies...People using unusual animals for 'emotional support' are often not being fair to the animal let alone everyone else around them. About time this ridiculousness got stomped on.
I agree. I have a Service dog. She is a Medical Alert Dog. I am a diabetic and she keeps track of my sugar levels. Without her I came very close to dying. My sugar gets too low in the early am hours and she will wake me up. She is a solid black German Shepherd. I wish they would give us a card to show for a legal service dog.
www.sitstay.com has service dog vests available. They have "diabetic alert dog" patches and you can customize patches. They also have "DO NOT PET" and "I'M WORKING" patches. They're not really expensive, but they're not that cheap either. Someone on a fixed income may have difficulties affording them. However, insurance might cover it since it is disability related (?).
Load More Replies...Regarding PTSD: PTSD is a diagnosible disability and a service dog can be specifically trained for it with specific actions and tasks, not just be there support. My wife has a service dog for hearing, an invisible disability. She says the restaurant's sign is appropriate and correct.
As a person with a Seizure disorder and who has a service dog, I applaud this restaurant. Far too many times my dog has been attacked by an ESA dog or a fake service dog. Everyone, I met always comments on how well my dog behaves and I always say "its the training" . I also have a regular pet dog who I love dearly, but she is not allowed to go where my other dog is and I hope people do not ruin it for people like me with a disorder/disability, if not for Bella I would not be allowed to drive, work and go about the ordinary things of everyday life. She is a blessing.
That's interesting. I didn't think people with a seizure disorder were allowed to drive. My brother in law has epilepsy and he isn't. Honestly not judging or criticising. Glad you have Bella. Worked with people who had guide dogs, amazing animals.
Load More Replies...As a disabled army veteran that has had to have service dogs now for over 12 years now all of these morons that are going through these mail order registries for their lap dogs are making it so much harder on those of us that actually have to depend on our service dogs
First of all, thank you for your service. Secondly, I am sorry that these idiots are making it harder for you to depend on your service dog. It's not right and should have been stopped a long time ago.
Load More Replies...About those PTSD dogs, they are actually service dogs and trained to support their owner. They're allowed.
PTSD dogs I can see. But ducks and peacocks? WTF?
Load More Replies...It is emotional support because these people think they need to be the center of attention. So if they can bring a unicorn with them people will look at the unicorn and talk to them giving them that emotional support of being the center of attention. .... but this shouldn't be a real thing.
If you think a peacock or duck is giving you emotional support you've got more problems than any peacock or duck will ever be able to solve.
That's perfectly fine. Businesses should not have to put up with people dragging their pets around just because. We all have issues but there's a huge difference between a blind or handicapped person with a service animal that is assisting them, and someone with an untrained pet. Not everyone likes dogs either, and wants them in public places.
My emotional support dog makes it possible for me to enjoy being out and about. Without her, I would be house bound. After suffering a major trauma, years later, I became aware of just how much my life had changed to accommodate my fears and how small my world had become. I am so grateful to have my ESA. I'm sure there are cheaters. Aren't there always? My scars are not visible, but they are life altering. Please don't judge us all by those who take advantage of this opportunity for selfish indulgence.
No offence but you need help. If you can't leave the house without a pet you need more counselling and maybe meds.
Load More Replies...Not related but, I'm tired of people writing "aloud" instead of "allowed". Or "would of" instead of "would have"
It is irritating but you are never going to stop it from happening. Some things you just have to shrug off as it isn't worth the stress.
Load More Replies...I was a server at a restaurant when a family came in with their service dog. I had the great honor of getting to serve them. The service dog was able to detect seizures in their daughter. No one could even know that there was a dog in the restaurant. He laid under the table at the girls feet. The hardest thing for me was not being able to pet the dog. My dog is completely my emotional support, we have been thru everything together, but I would never use him just to be able to take him out to dinner with me. I am on the stores side for this. one Sorry Roamer, we will just find an outdoor patio that allows regular dogs. lol
What most people don't realize is that there are 2 classes of this kind. A service animal is ether a dog or miniature horse and i protected by law. A emotional support animal has no law protection.
This is a really difficult issue. I'm a wheelchair user, and have loads of allergies. I totally understand why someone. might need a service dog, and respect their legal rights to take that dog with them. I see them just the same as my wheelchair in that they both enable us to have an normal a life as possible. But my allergies mean dogs can be a problem for me. I just have to manage that, but if everyone suddenly decided they needed to take their pet dogs everywhere then I may well have more of a problem.
My wife got upset when I informed her that she couldn't and shouldn't try to brand her frantic, Ill behaved puppy as a service dog. In retrospect, I think that she meant ESA but it pissed me off because I know that a true service dog (as pointed out to her at a restaurant the other day) will calmly sit unobtrusively out of the way and won't react to surrounding unimportant stimuli while her dog would lose its damn mind in a restaurant. I think that I finally got my point across but it took a bit of convincing. People with her mind set are a big part of the problem.
It must be weird to be married to someone that is like that. I’m sure she has the other qualities you like, but to me it would be so weird to be with someone who was intellectually on such a different level.
Load More Replies...Went to a restaurant recently and a lady there brought her “emotional support dog”. It barked and nearly tripped one of the waitresses while she walked by with a tray of food.
What idiot thinks that their affection for an animal means it's a trained therapy companion animal like a seeing-eye dog or seizure-detection dog?!
I am glad that someone is finally putting their foot down about this kind of situation. If you need a service animal, that is completely understandable. However, if you just want to bring your little dog or pet with you, that's something completely different. My mother is not a big fan of crowds, but as long as we stay together when we go places she's fine. However, one thing that really gets to her in crowds is people who bring their dogs into places and I am not talking about service dogs, but their pets. If you have some disability it is perfectly reasonable for you to have a service animal. However, if you have to take your pet everywhere that's a different story.
Good, I'm so sick of animals in grocery stores and restaurants. It's unsanitary. I've seen dogs licking produce, sniffing the hot bar, etc.
My service dog goes to the grocery store with me however she would never in a million years even sniff the produce. A true service dog is focused on the owner.
Load More Replies...Yes, it is a disability. There are dogs that have been specially trained to perform specific tasks associated with PTSD sufferers to relieve their stresses. Many veterans groups are training dog for this specific purpose due to the high occurrence of PTSD (and suicide) amongst military veterans.
Load More Replies...this is good, and also people with ptsd and panic attacks and such can say that their dog is trained to specifically recognize and respond whenever something happens so if they're actually trained, while some may consider it emotional support, that is genuinely a service dog- this is for d***s who say their yippy little lap dog that barks at everything and behaves awfully is an "emotional support dog" just because they like having it around and is trained for nothing.
I have a service dog in training. At 6 months she already helps me walk. Next is to help me up when I fall. We were in Wal-Mart today and some lady decided she just had to pet my dog. I think she was surprised when I told her to keep her damn hands off my dog.
Good for you!! Does your dog wear a vest stating she's a service dog in training or a do not pet statement? Some people read those things and assume they're exempt, because they're special.
Load More Replies...I am allergic to most animals. I will walk out of a store or restaurant when I see someone with their animals, but I can't walk out of an airplane. I have been told that I can switch planes and take my chances. So I always take meds before I fly and suffer through. Something is really off in the world now that animals take precedence over humans. Yes, I'm very sympathetic to those whose service animals help them, but I do like breathing.
I understand. I have MCS and being out and about with my service dog without a 3M mask is deadly for me. If you have issues, I'd suggest getting a mask that filters out your allergies. If we could ban everything that makes it hard to breathe, I'd start first with scented EVERYTHING! It literally takes my breath away.
Load More Replies...Isn't "emotional support animal" just another word for "pet"? I love dogs too, but there are *reasons* dogs or other pets are not allowed in restaurants or on flights.
The best on I saw was the ‘service dog’ 4lb Yorkie in a hot pink service vest being pushed in a hot pink dog stroller
This topic is HOT in Denver, where spoiled hipsters want to bring their pets everywhere, because THEY FEEL ENTITLED. . . . . . Many organizations are pushing for service dogs to receive chip implants, so restaurants/bars/etc. willing to invest in a reader can parse actual service animals from some entitled creep's purse-dog.
Dang! I was hoping my sister could bring me a lobster from Maine and get it on the plane by calling it her emotional support lobster! We were even going to get a vest for it that said "service lobster".
Ran into a childhood friend who wanted to get together to go out to eat and shop. She had a handicap placard due to her being unable to walk long distances. She out walked me at the mall. She also had an ankle biter "Emotional support dog." Her only disability is wanting everyone to feel sorry for her. I hate that I ran into her. Hope I never see her again.
This is my emotional support elephant. I expect to be allowed to take it on the plane with me, for free. Oh and mind it gets fed, too.
Such a simple fix. Why are people with legal service animals not given a card or legal document providing so, that they can share as proof? ESAs would not have this. No card? No service, where applicable.
There are dogs specifically trained for veterans with PTSD, I know of one which goes to work with his master every day at our Social Security Office here in Fresno. And he is well trained for his job.
Im a 100% service connected veteran and I have certification for a service dog and Emotional Support Animal but I respect the feelings and understanding of others and would never impose on people for the rights I've earned. Some people want to take things to the extreme and think they are entitled to disrupt others lives which is total BS in my opinion. Respectable people will do what is necessary to abide not only by laws but common decency and respect by others
Support this 100%. Entitled people need to stop trying to abuse the system. And if an "emotional support animal" ever bites a person or service animal, the owner needs to be fined, jailed and sued.
The one that mentioned people with PTSD needing their dogs, those are usually service animals not ESAs. They are trained to get between the person afflicted with PTSD and the potential trigger....
Not requiring proof the animal is a service animal is the problem we're having. Disabled people are required to have a handicap parking permit in their vehicle to park in a handicap space so why aren't people with service animals not required to have proof their animal is a service animal?
I choked on my iced tea when I read “service burrito”! Hilarious!
In Australia guide dogs for the blind are specially trained and come with a special harness fitted to the dog and the human. And Paperwork. The person is also trained with their dog before they go home together from the centre. Ditto hearing dogs etc. The training is NOT done by random humans wanting attention and "rights" they do not need. The peacock thing is absurd!!!!!
Its an awful abuse. I was at a restaurant where that "service dog" was all over the place. That ain't no service dog. Let's see how many pets show up when certification is required
I'm bringing my service orange onto the airplane... in a bottle of water.
I think there needs to be more security around this idea of an "emotional support animal". I've seen people who have some varieties of autism with like... actual trained animals of this sort, and that's a great thing, but you shouldn't just be able to get any pet "approved" to come with you everywhere like that.
Autism is a disability and those trained animals are likely service animals not Esas
Load More Replies...Does anyone realize that anxiety, panic attacks, and social anxiety are disabilities!! The ESA is there so these people can have as close to good quality of life as to those who don’t need them to be in public. Yes, there are people that do this just to have their little doggie with them but, there are people that need these dogs to be able to have the comfort and security to go into public. Just because of a few rotten Apples doesn’t mean you punish the whole tree. So if you want to damn those with anxiety/social /panic attacks That they must stay at home and not try to have the best quality of life... Then y’all stay home. These disorders/disabilities are real to many people. It’s very easy to tell those who don’t have it and have not experienced it ... Because you are all the ones against it. And ESA is a very vital tool to have in the lives of these people. What right does anyone have to tell these people they cannot enjoy the same Quality of life as you. It’s disgusting!
Where is this where they are legally able to quiz someone on their service animal? Like wtf? I'm sure that this sign and these actions would also drive away people with service animals. Because you know what's great for someone with PTSD? Someone standing there interrogating them about it
My entitled neighbor had his pup registered as an ESA just so he didn't have to pay for a ticket on airlines. And gets to hold his dog on his lap . In fairness, his dog is exceptionally behaved. But so many ESA are NOT well-behaved, just like their people. People like them make it so difficult for those who truly need service animals.
I genuinely believe dogs used for ptsd reasons actually have a purposeful function and can be trained to guide their owner to a place to calm down or to comfort them when Necessary. As long as the are obedient and well trained (unlike so many so called emotional support animals I've encountered) they should be allowed to qualify as a actual service animal .
I am suffering from severe, and I talked with my therapist regarding the same, she told me I will be needing an ESA to support me, though there is difference between an ESA and a service animal, I believe ESA's should be allowed in public places as a pet's training is not a cure to someone's disability. I got my ESA LETTER from https://www.fastesaletter.com, and I feel excited and energetic with the company of my pet. If there is a place that is not allowing an ESA, I won't prefer the place...
A doctor's note does not make your pet a service animal. Service animals perform essential tasks for their handlers. They are extensively trained and tested for public access as in confidence & calm demeanor in stressful environs, focus on the needs of their handler and generally trained to respond to 40+ cues.
I can imagine that the frustration of the people who genuinely need assistance dogs when they see idiots with emotional support seals is akin to mine when I see people with their dole poles tucked under their arms as they jog after the bus.
I'm good with the animals, but the people with them are NUTS! And that interferes with my daily routine. My health is more important than your emotions!
I watched women put dog in her purse and walk into the grocery store. The stores have stopped trying get them to leave dog in the car. The people make the store the bad guy even though 99% of people do not like non-service animals in the store. Poopsie might get lonely. I hope the mute popped in her purse.
Emotional support animals do not exist in Europe, and I don't consider us any more depressed as Americans
"It's my emotional support animal!" = "I am too cheap to pay for a kennel when I go on vacation".
People who abuse the system like this really p**s me off. Clearly, the government needs to update its laws in this regard in order to weed out these idiots. People with PTSD, and similar issues, might actually NEED an emotional support animal. These jackasses just want an excuse to feel 'special' and be smug for being 'so clever' for twisting the law in their favour to suit their selfish desires. Once again, we see that a few creeps ruin things for everyone else.
I think it's up to the establishment whether they want to allow ESA animals or not, as long as they're complying with the law. I'm not a fan of untrained dogs, but would have no problem sharing my eating space with a non-threatening species like a duck or horse. Most animals are much more well behaved than people anyway. I'd even be cool with a Golden Retriever or Great Dane as they're very sweet breeds. I just don't trust the aggressive breeds, especially when they're not trained.
So pitbulls are just tooooo dangerous for you. Did you know Golden retrievers are the most aggressive dog breed and bite the most people (don't believe me Google it) you can't say you don't trust aggressive breeds... The breed of the dog DOES NOT MATTER it's weather they were trained properly!
Load More Replies...I don't see an issue with emotional support animals. Businesses are free to allow them or not allow them. If a business, like air companies, which to allow their customers to bring an emotional support animal, then that's their business choice. What would be wrong is a person who has an emotional support animal stating that their animal's presence is mandatory, when that only applies to service animals.
I think the sign is 100% fair. However I believe that just like people NEED their actual service pets with them, some people really do need ESAs the problem is a lack of training (for a few) but mostly its people who lie about their pet just being a pet! And instead of training them properly or being respectful they lie and take away from the ones that can behave..... because I've seen plenty of dogs in restaurants that weren't service dogs or ESAs but they behaved PERFECTLY and were quiet. More importantly lying about an animals training or purpose hurts people with real emotional problems as well, Like PTSD, or anxiety attacks from having the ESA and the support system they need to function properly
The emotional service animal out in public has to top. It put teams in danger. Teams being a disabled person with their trained animal who does tasks to make it safe and able for them to move in the world. An untrained animal can distract or hurt a true service animal which in turn can topple a wheelchair or injure the disabled person.
I am just going to sit here and celebrate that I live in Germany and can take my dog pretty much anywhere (exceptions are supermarkets and many public institutions like museums. Some individual stores might forbit dogs due to bad experiences, but the vast majority of places I can go into and do)
I visited Germany about 10 years ago and was immensely impressed at the dog-friendly atmosphere. I was also immensely impress at the cleanliness of the city (Berlin) in general and the public transportation in particular. I grew up in Philadelphia and used public transportation all of the time. The subway stations were filthy and smelled of urine. There was none of that in Berlin. The people were respectful of their surroundings. It was refreshing to see.
Load More Replies...What they need to do is make service animal registry illegal through anyone but the government. People who do not have the proper identification for their animal can be fined, heavily. And the government can set down regulations that the animals have to come from certified trainers or have met specific parameters for their service. This whole "I'm going to take my yorkie in the store in my purse and say it's a service animal because I'm too privileged to leave it at home" c**p's gotta stop.
I think after suffering years of medicine not always working when I needed it most if I am paying the bill and your not cleaning after my dog but you are cleaning after customers who p**s and c**p all over your bathrooms and restaurants in more ways than 1 considering I am also a germ a phob and your not paying my medical expenses or anything else and I am actually paying you by eating at your facility if you want to stay in business than you run the food part and staff as you wish but mind your business about the public's personal life because as far as I can tell the responses are coming from individuals who act like they are perfect and their a*s does not stink or hands are never dirty in one way or another. Haven't we already been down this road with blacks, whites, spanish, lesbians, gay men, 3 ways and so on sounds like the world needs something to socialize about just to feel connected and important. Keep your comments to yourself if you do not have something supportive to say.
If they're going to go hard on ESA laws, they should also get serious about providing mental health services and alternative treatments such as service animals to people with PTSD, and other non-classic disabilities. I take the hubbub against ESAs as coded neglect of people with psychological disabilities- Now anyone can minimize or question those. It's very difficult for non-classical disabilities to receive a service animal- which works out great for the industry that wants people on powerful pharmaceuticals instead of having other tools to navigate life. There's the chance that a personal dog can be legitimately trained to provide service, but really difficult to navigate how to get that done. For those who really want the help of a service animal as an alternative to being heavily medicated, this issue is bigger than the fakers, it's probably that more people could benefit from a trained service animal than are able to properly obtain one. That's a huge shame to me.
People with PTSD are eligible to have service animals....
Load More Replies...I don’t disagree, but these people are asking for trouble. You can’t just demand that someone tell you what task the animal has been trained to perform (akin to asking what the person’s disability is) or kick them out. That has to be violating some kind of discrimination law.
Read it again. That’s not what they are asking
Load More Replies...service dogs have certificates. for some reason people aren't allowed to ask for them. the certificate has the dogs photo and certification on it. recently I had a guy on one of these sites tell me no reputable business will train a pitt bull as a service animal. yet I know of one that has her certificate. the police use them now. I think a service animal should be able to have a copy of the certificate and wear it on a vest. something that cant be copied as easily. for going in public
People can get fake certificates on line. There is no organization- govt or otherwise - that registers service dogs. As soon as someone says they are registered, you know they are lying
Load More Replies...John..they aren't asking your medical issue...what they are asking for you to do is to prove your animal is a properly trained service animal and not just a pet that, for some reason, couldn't be left at home. I understand how important animals are for people with ptsd...but it should anger you more that there are people out there abusing the system...not because they have a legitimate problem..but because they love spoiling their animals 24/7. If these people weren't abusing the system like they are...you wouldn't have to be subjected to the reactions that you experience when you go into a public place with your service animal.
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