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Man Snaps At Helpful Neighbor, His Wife Needs Help The Next Morning But Gets A Refusal This Time
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Man Snaps At Helpful Neighbor, His Wife Needs Help The Next Morning But Gets A Refusal This Time

Man Snaps At Helpful Neighbor, His Wife Needs Help The Next Morning But Gets A Refusal This TimeRude Couple Next Door Doesn’t Appreciate Having Their Car’s Wipers Lifted Up So They Won’t Freeze, Regret It Immediately The Next MorningGuy Scolds His Kind Neighbor For Attempting To Help, His Wife Turns To Him For The Same Thing Next Morning, Receives A Brush-OffMan Is Berated For Trying To Put The Neighbors' Truck's Wipers Up As It Was Snowing Heavily, Refuses To Help In The Morning When They're FrozenAggressive Neighbors Don't Want To Have Their Truck's Wipers Put Up Before A Snowfall, Deeply Regret It The Very Next MorningMan Yells At Neighbor For Kindly Offering Help, His Wife Asks For The Same Help The Next Morning, Only To Get Shut Down This TimeMan Snaps At Helpful Neighbor, His Wife Needs Help The Next Morning But Gets A Refusal This TimeMan Snaps At Helpful Neighbor, His Wife Needs Help The Next Morning But Gets A Refusal This TimeMan Snaps At Helpful Neighbor, His Wife Needs Help The Next Morning But Gets A Refusal This TimeMan Snaps At Helpful Neighbor, His Wife Needs Help The Next Morning But Gets A Refusal This Time
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Private property is inviolable – it is one of the pillars on which modern society is based. The right to protect private property is totally sacred – it’s one of those hills to die on for everybody. But, as is often the case, any great idea backfires on those who misuse it.

This story, shared a few days ago on Reddit’s Malicious Compliance community, went viral and clearly shows how you can get backlash just for trying to do a good deed – as well as showing what instant karma is and how it works.

The author of the post lives in Ontario and always tries to help his neighbors with freezing windshield wipers on their cars

Image credits: noux2rs (not the actual image)

The man had been helping his neighbors for several years and they always responded to him the same way

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Image credits: u/goodneighbor123

Several days ago a couple with two little kids moved to the neighboring house

Image credits: reinasmyth (not the actual image)

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Image credits: u/goodneighbor123

That night the author lifted all the wipers up as the snowfall was coming, but hesitated a bit while standing in front of his new neighbors’ truck

Image credits: ASphotostudio (not the actual image)

Image credits: u/goodneighbor123

The owners of the car demanded the author got away from it so he did – and recalled this in the morning when the neighbor asked him to help with their frozen wipers

So, the Original Poster (OP) lives in Ontario, which means that in winter, he and his neighbors often have to deal with severe frosts and snowfall. As the author of the post says, there are five more houses on his street, and over the years in the neighborhood, their owners have developed a whole set of rules for mutual assistance. For example, when the OP left for his overnight shift at around 8-9 pm and saw that a snowstorm was coming, he would always lift the windshield wipers up on his wife’s car, and then quickly do the same to the neighbors’ cars.

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The neighbors were only grateful for such help, and in the future, if the OP did not have time to pick up his wipers, they did the same with his car. This went on for a long time – until a couple with two children moved into one of the neighboring houses, and the OP got into an involuntary fight with the new neighbors, the reason for which was his helpfulness.

Yes, that’s right – one of the evenings when the OP was leaving for his next overnight shift and saw that it was starting to snow heavily, he walked around the neighbors’ cars, picking up their wipers. In front of the new neighbors’ truck, the man, however, hesitated a bit – after all, he had not yet talked to them about the neighborhood traditions, but he decided to provide this small but important help anyway.

And just at the moment when the author of the post was lifting the wipers up, a neighbor jumped out of the house and, not mincing words, began to swear at the OP, demanding that he immediately get away from the truck. The author of the post tried to explain what exactly he was doing and why, but this did not stop the flow of insults. When the neighbor’s wife ran out into the street and joined cursing at him, the OP wisely decided that the best solution in this situation was to simply leave.

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He had to wait until the morning for the denouement – when the OP was returning home from work, he saw how the neighbor’s wife was desperately trying to tear the frozen wipers from the windshield, and the children were waiting in the car – obviously they were already late for school. The woman asked the OP to help her, but he was adamant, recalling that just a few hours ago he had literally sworn to her and her spouse not to touch their car again.

Image credits: ShintarTatsiana (not the actual image)

The original poster says that as he walked to his house, the neighbor shouted insults at his back. However, people in the comments did not share her indignation, arguing that asking a person to do something for which you insulted him just a few hours ago is, to put it mildly, unreasonable. “They’ll either solve the problem themselves or learn not to shout so much before getting the facts,” the commenters write.

Of course, some commenters admit that in the late evening, in the beginning of a snowstorm, having just moved to a new area, it is quite difficult to see what exactly some unknown dude is going to do with your car on the street, so the first sharp reaction from the owner of the truck is still justified. But then, when the OP explained what exactly he was doing, the neighbors had no excuses left. “She just found out what happens when you bite a helpful hand,” people in the comments state.

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However, even when you are well acquainted with your neighbors, this does not guarantee at all that you will not have any conflicts. For example, you could just read this story of ours about a guy who briefly parked his car on a neighbors’ driveway while they were on vacation in a foreign country. Or maybe this post, which tells about an epic confrontation between the homeowner and the neighboring HOA. And besides, we would love to know what you personally think about this story.

People in the comments mainly sided with the author, claiming that his neighbors literally found out how karma works

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After many years of working as sports journalist and trivia game author and host in Ukraine I joined Bored Panda as a content creator. I do love writing stories and I sincerely believe - there's no dull plots at all. Like a great Italian composer Joaquino Rossini once told: "Give me a police protocol - and I'll make an opera out of it!"

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Oleg Tarasenko

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After many years of working as sports journalist and trivia game author and host in Ukraine I joined Bored Panda as a content creator. I do love writing stories and I sincerely believe - there's no dull plots at all. Like a great Italian composer Joaquino Rossini once told: "Give me a police protocol - and I'll make an opera out of it!"

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Monika Pašukonytė

Monika Pašukonytė

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I am a visual editor here. In my free time I enjoy the vibrant worlds of art galleries, exhibitions, and soulful concerts. Yet, amidst life's hustle and bustle, I find solace in nature's embrace, cherishing tranquil moments with beloved friends. Deep within, I hold a dream close - to embark on a global journey in an RV, accompanied by my faithful canine companion. Together, we'll wander through diverse cultures, weaving precious memories under the starry night sky, fulfilling the wanderlust that stirs my soul.

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Ell Bee
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We had a neighbor like OP. He was always looking out for other people and we'd often find small things he did to help us. One time he even sealed the end of our driveway because he had extra sealant left over. My husband took him to Vegas as a thank you before we moved away.

Raine Soo
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I appreciate the OP's malicious compliance. That Montreal couple didn't even back down when given a proper explanation. So, the wife had to scrape off the accumulated ice, and got no help. Karma is a b***h, right?

fu yu
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would've laughed right at her face. This problem escalated because of their audacity. Let them solve it.

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Marcellus II
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What's the betting that he helps her, then she decides to find a scratch on the car and blame him?

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Ell Bee
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We had a neighbor like OP. He was always looking out for other people and we'd often find small things he did to help us. One time he even sealed the end of our driveway because he had extra sealant left over. My husband took him to Vegas as a thank you before we moved away.

Raine Soo
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I appreciate the OP's malicious compliance. That Montreal couple didn't even back down when given a proper explanation. So, the wife had to scrape off the accumulated ice, and got no help. Karma is a b***h, right?

fu yu
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would've laughed right at her face. This problem escalated because of their audacity. Let them solve it.

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Marcellus II
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What's the betting that he helps her, then she decides to find a scratch on the car and blame him?

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