The shower is a wonderful place to get some deep thinking done. We’re not just shampooing our heads in there, after all—we’re taking a break from everything and opening up our minds to a lot of creative insights.
However, let’s get real for a moment: how many of us actually remember these thoughts the moment we step out of the shower, let alone when we’ve finished toweling our hair dry? The odds are, not too many. And it’s a pity because the things that pop into our heads are fascinating. But they have a dreamlike quality in that it’s hard to keep a firm grip on these thoughts.
Luckily for us, the Shower Feelings social media project is here to lend us a helping hand. They’ve been sharing random but interesting shower thoughts for years, and they’re full of bite-sized pieces of wisdom. Scroll down for the best ones, and when you’re done upvoting the thoughts you enjoyed the most, share your own shower thoughts and feelings in the comments.
Bored Panda reached out to digital detox coach Molly DeFrank, the author of 'Digital Detox: The Two-Week Tech Reset for Kids,' to talk about the importance of taking breaks from all the noise and technology in our lives, in order for us to be more creative.
"The shower is one of the last places of human solitude," Molly told us. "But it doesn’t have to be."
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As an introvert, I can very tired of my extrovert friends trying to "help" me by pressuring me or tricking me into going to a party. They seem to think that I just must really really want to go to parties (or whatever) but I have some mental illness that makes me afraid to go. No, it's that I find parties boring. I have much more fun staying home reading a book or watching a movie. Can you not comprehend that I might have different preferences than you? If I said I didn't like apricots and you think apricots are the best food ever, would you find it necessary to "help" me by force-feeding me apricots?
But why don't you want to go to an overcrowded room filled with people that have eaten too much, are drinking and smoking too much and listen to music that you struggle to even call music. Not to mention the music being far too loud so you wouldn't be able to hear anyone's conversation, okay that's one good thing.
Load More Replies...A lot of times introverts aren’t shy - they don’t have space to get a word in edgeways!!!
Introverts create comfortable silences. We're not avoiding. We're voiding. Sharing the abyss.
Yeah... how about those extroverts try NOT filling up space with themselves. More room for everyone.
But we extroverts also have sometimes enough emotional intelligence to know it by ourselves. Introvert-Extrovert ain't at all the Good-Bad sides of anything.
No thanks I’m not in the mood to be more talkative or leave my comfort zone. My comfort zone is quite comfortable.
Are you kidding? I'm an extrovert, and I LOVE telling extroverts to shut up
Not trying to disagree or say my case is worse, only shedding light on the other side of the spectrum for information purposes. I’m extroverted and I feel the opposite very commonly, it feels like all of my introverted friends and coworkers are constantly trying to “calm me down” or just seek annoyed by my enjoyment of life. I understand that your brain works differently but I feel like we shouldn’t have to make compromises for the other person just because our brains think differently. I get energy from showing love and enthusiasm to people the same way you get energy from being alone. I want to clarify that I don’t try and force my friends to be like me, I’m only saying that if it’s wrong for me to do it to them wouldn’t it be wrong the other way too?
Its pointing out that if an introvert told you to shut up so he can feel more comfortable is flipping the script on how an introvert might feel if told he needs to try to talk more even if he doesn't feel comfortable. Its pointing out how it might feel in the other persons shoes. Really the best way to make a person with introverted tendencies to feel part of a social group is to take a little interest something about their lives rather than ignore them and make them feel like fifth wheels. And the most terrible way to break the ice is to say "So why are you being so quiet?" You are just going to get a snarky response and walkaway.
Load More Replies...Ugh related... TvT sometimes those kind of people are toxic as heck. 😑
I've come close! Why are you so quiet? Me: Why are you never? Why don't you talk more? Me: Why don't you talk less?
I am an introvert. One of my housemates is an extrovert. It's ironic, but I did exactly that last night!
100% Extroverts could leave their comfort zone and see what it is like to NOT be the center of every topic...
This shows how incredibly bad people are at being empathetic. On both sides my gut I add. The whole introvert/extrovert is people not recognizing it's just a way of dealing with every day life. I can have moments, with the right people, were the interaction is pleasant and wanted, I have moments where silence and peace is all that I want. And when I listen to myself I can figure out what I need. People thinking there is some hard choice to what they actually need, just learned a trick without understanding why they appreciate one thing more than another. I'm so done with that. I get it, but I'm done with not saying anything.
Ngl DON'T HATE ON ME , but some introverts like the void being filled and listening to people talk instead of talking... and although its rude to tell introverts to start talking its also rude to tell extroverts to stop talking.
True, I'm an bivert and a lot of people know by now that just because I don't talk much doesn't mean I don't want to listen to them talk
Load More Replies...Some people that can't shut tf up make others uncomfortable woth their useless small talk. Nobody fůcking cares
I mean, Introverts could tell extroverts themselves...if they'd only be more talkative and leave their comfort zones!
Really? As an extravert I call it a bulshit. I heard so many "don't talk" and I was forced into school system that basically say "sit, listen, don't speak, don't move" that it's just hard to belive that someone can't see it. And try to be an extravert in IT company. Yes, we are always comfortable and exist only to make introverts live pity =='
I'm an introvert and I wish people would shut up and go get some work done. People don't make me uncomfortable. I know how to be social. Too many times what people are talking about is completely pointless and filling the office with noise. Now if there was good conversation, that's different. Rarely is it good conversation. Quality over quantity.
Load More Replies...This is not true. Extroverts are often told they talk too much, they need to tone it down, "too much", etc.
Only if silence makes you uncomfortable. I enjoy silence.
Load More Replies...Digital detox coach and author Molly told Bored Panda that technology and entertainment are an ever-present fact in our modern lives. "We are inundated with devices, entertainment, divided attention. Living in 2022 means living in an onslaught of loud, overstimulating data consumption," she said.
"The smartphone steals our attention, our most valuable commodity. Minute by minute, we settle for passive consumption instead of doing the work to think, ponder, imagine. Humans are born creators. But we settle for easy, if it’s available. And boy is it available."
Molly pointed out that the shower is one of the last places where people can actually be alone, with their thoughts, without a lot of the noise that makes up our lives. However, this shouldn't be the case. A digital detox, a break from technology and media consumption, can allow us to feel peaceful and at ease outside of the shower, too.
"When we give ourselves an extended tech break, it gives us space to really assess our media consumption. I did this for my kids, and subsequently myself a few years ago. We were pleasantly surprised by the results—longer attention spans, better moods," she said that the benefits of doing this are great and clear to see.
Or even better, figured the sounds out by looking at their nasal cavities.
"After a lot of research, I realized that our generation has crept into a new normal. While there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to tech consumption, the goal is to put the digital in its right place. That probably looks a little different for everyone. But here’s an easy scale: when you look at your screen time in your settings, does your actual time spent on apps match your ideal?" she urged everyone to be honest with themselves about this.
"If not, try some physical barriers. Keep your phone in its charger instead of on your person. Turn off all notifications for all apps. Calendar time for solitude, journaling, quiet. Humans need this." And that means that you'll start having creative thoughts about the world not just in the shower, but pretty much everywhere. As it should be.
The Shower Feelings project is wildly successful. It has over 2.5 million followers on its Instagram page, as well as a further 130.1k fans following its Twitter account. Altogether, that’s a huge number of people who are reached by someone’s wet musings errr I mean shower thoughts.
A while back, my colleague wrote about the r/Showerthoughts subreddit, an entirely separate project, though it shares a similar logo with Shower Feelings. She reached out to Nancy K. Napier, Ph.D., a Distinguished Professor at Boise State University and author of Unfolding Curiosity.
Professor Napier hinted that showering is almost a form of meditation. Think about it: you’re in an enclosed space with warm, comforting water running over you, and you’re letting your mind wander where it wants to.
Thank you. Thank you very much. ( to be read in Elvis Presley's voice)
"As you wash yourself for those three or five or ten minutes, you can let your mind wander and that's often when an idea will hit. Also, during these times when we're with our families in shutdowns, it might be one of the few chances to be alone with your thoughts," she told Bored Panda.
However, people find it hard for their thoughts to drift in other circumstances. There’s just too much information running wild in our environments.
"To have the experience of a wandering mind, we need to intentionally turn OFF the extra information and think about nothing,” Napier told us.
Of course, this doesn’t mean that showers are somehow entirely unique or that they’re the only place where you can let your mind be still, creative, and freer than usual.
"I read recently that taking a walk is another great place for ideas, but the key is to simply walk. Leave the radio and podcasts at home,” the professor suggested that if you go on a walk, try to enjoy your surroundings without distractions.
"Then, while walking, look in three places and ideas will come: look above eye level (at buildings, trees), look straight ahead, and look on the ground," Napier gave us some pointers for the next time we’re on a walk.
"Many of us are looking for ways to do things differently to get better, which is the ultimate goal of creativity." According to the professor, we can find inspiration in other people’s shower thoughts. That, in turn, can lead us to generate entirely new ideas of our own. So it’s useful to listen to other people’s (sometimes random) musings.
Being bored can actually be useful. Unfortunately, we live in a society where entertainment of every kind is easily reachable.
“Lots of people have noted that we no longer allow ourselves to become bored. Laying on grass and watching the clouds go by seems to be less common and yet it's another simple way to generate ideas," Napier said.
Speaking of listening to other people’s thoughts, tips, and tricks, previously, Bored Panda spoke to LA-based TV writer Amanda Deibert, who had gone viral for a Twitter thread about surprisingly good advice.
According to her, people are great at giving advice instead of listening to it. That’s because it’s far easier to clearly see the problems someone else might be struggling with. It’s far harder to take an honest look at our own issues. There’s just too much noise.
"When it is our own life, we also have to deal with our own emotions and attachments and habits. I can easily see something with detachment when it isn't my own issue. I think it is actually incredibly difficult to detach and really look at your own life," Amanda said.
I feel sorry for the history majors who'll be studying each day of 2020 as individual chapters
"I think change is difficult and scary and most good advice revolves around change. Not making a decision is a decision... and it's the easiest one to make. I think the best way around it is to remember that. Good things are difficult and take work, but sitting back and allowing life to just happen is a choice."
They are moody, but it's developmentally appropriate; what we need is to stop shaming teenagers for being moody.
"Sorry the old Taylor can't come to the phone right now. Why? Oh! Cuz she's dead!"
I have diabetes, which means I have excess sugar in my blood. I wonder if vampires see diabetics as dessert.
Because some of us are busy cursing why cockroaches have a pair
I much prefer night showers. Maybe because there’s no time pressure (to be rushed/ready quickly or by a set time e.g. for work or whatever).
Are you trying to make me ultra overthink my embarrassing moments?
"You will hear from my lawyer!" is adult-speak for "I am going to tell my mom!"
Am I the only one who feels like I've read this specific Bored Panda post before? I even feel like I remember some of the comments.
I didn't realize it was possible to fully and completely despise a person after never meeting them and only seeing some things they said on a random website until DELETED came at Caro Caro and DUN DUN. I AM GENUINELY GETTING ANGRY AND PROTECTIVE OF TWO PEOPLE I'VE NEVER MET BUT I KNOW I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE.
Most of these aren’t what I would consider shower thoughts, just statements. Shower thoughts are things that you read and then make the connection and can’t stop thinking about it. Statements are just things that you read and go “huh, true” and then move on with your life.
"You will hear from my lawyer!" is adult-speak for "I am going to tell my mom!"
Am I the only one who feels like I've read this specific Bored Panda post before? I even feel like I remember some of the comments.
I didn't realize it was possible to fully and completely despise a person after never meeting them and only seeing some things they said on a random website until DELETED came at Caro Caro and DUN DUN. I AM GENUINELY GETTING ANGRY AND PROTECTIVE OF TWO PEOPLE I'VE NEVER MET BUT I KNOW I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE.
Most of these aren’t what I would consider shower thoughts, just statements. Shower thoughts are things that you read and then make the connection and can’t stop thinking about it. Statements are just things that you read and go “huh, true” and then move on with your life.