And as a french i would probably laugh out loud at what she think is "french cuisine". I love french cuisine but oh dear god of food, i love a lot of cuisine around the world and i'm eager to try everything. Every cook deserve respect, even if it's not really good (except Sarah the racist) and every cuisine deserve respect too, there is a strong history and culture behind every meal.

I've just reread this (after getting lost down the Reddit rabbit hole), and nowhere do I see SIL actually *helping* in the kitchen, just offering criticism. So now I'm thinking a) "French cuisine" is too upscale for a family home meal, but a "Chinese takeaway" (her attitude, not her words) is just fine; or b) she's actually not a very good cook, having blustered her way into her position and doesn't want to have her skills directly compared with an actually *good* chef. This is on top of her just being a horrible imitation of a human being.

I mean look at the French, they literally colonized parts of Asia and integrated elements into their own cuisine. The fanciest asian resturaunt I ate at was in Paris (a Chinese/Vietnamese fancy resturaunt) that people I knew in Paris recommended (no menu's in English, had to get me the one English Speaking waiter so I could understand the menu. This was not a tourist place), and it was amazing. The French respect other Cuisines it seems and enjoy it. Just look at all the North African they added into their own.

It turns out she actually can handle other people's cooking, she was just using his cooking as an excuse to be racist to him. She actually is a racist ,and she used the cooking to criticize him in ways she couldn't get away with, if she just came out and called him a racial slur. Later she revealed her true colors by using the slur.

You are correct. Sarah is the type of person you catch smelling her hands after leaving the bathroom.

Courtesy? IN A KITCHEN? You must be new. Gordon Ramsay isn't some deranged angry man. He's the LOW end of normal for that industry.

Its called "white supremacy"

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If SIL can't take the heat, she shouldn't order the Mongolian Beef

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Let's face it, it's some of the hardest cooking there is. No offense Julia, but girl, anyone can make a fawking sauce.

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If he worked at Panda Express, she'd have a point

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Hello, He was in the right at first but by putting it on the internet and getting his SIL demoted and shamed etc. he put himself in the wrong. Has he never done anything wrong? If he did not like her then don't invite his SIL over and don't go to her house His SIL being an a-hole is not a criminal offense. Did she ever cause him to be demoted at work ruining his career? I am sure he would not his family members to air his dirty laundry, his career to be ruined. I am sure what goes around will come around, (everyone has secrets there are no perfect human gods) he wil get his as well and he and his entire family both sides and he will be the losers. He is a loser!. What a mistake his wife made marrying him.

Can't say I don't agree. But family affairs r not black & white. Sil maybe a racist bitch but if she has a relationship with the wife it's not easy to detangle that f**k. Nothing is black & white. It's like a divorce, kids will always get f****d.

i don't think it's a perfect example of "butterfly effect" the actions and reactions are all quite related and could have been predicted.

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He was in the right at first but by putting it on the internet and getting his SIL demoted and shamed etc. he put himself in the wrong. Has he never done anything wrong? If he did not like her then don't invite his SIL over and don't go to her house His SIL being an a-hole is not a criminal offence. Did she ever cause him to be demoted at work ruining his career? I am sure he would not his family members to air his dirty laundry, his career to be ruined. I am sure what goes around will come around, (everyone has secrets there are no perfect human gods) he will get his as well and he and his entire family both sides and he will be the losers. He is a loser!. What a mistake his wife made marrying him. The SIL was going to win the a-hole trophy but he took the prize by escalating out of all reason making him the racist. They don't do this kind of thing to family in Chinese culture. They keep it private He did it because his SIL is not Chinese. As if Chinese or any race can't be racist.