“Everybody Hates Me Until They Need Me”: 30 Professions That Are Underestimated Until People Need Them In Emergency Situations
There are certain professions that you would only contact in cases of bad news. Morticians, paramedics, and the police all come to mind. Others don’t exactly have the most stellar reputation, like lawyers and plastic surgeons. All of you probably have some profession that you simply dislike out of principle or perhaps experience.
One internet user wanted to find out more, but with a twist. They asked for examples of jobs where “everybody hates me until they need me,” and people delivered. So scroll down and upvote the jobs which you agree get a lot of flack, but everyone needs at some point in their life.
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Garbage collection workers. Without them, our streets would literally be overflowing with refuse, but people still talk down to them like they’re less than human.
Yes. I don't think people actually hate them. I think people are snobby about their job, though.
Load More Replies...Not sure what planet the OP is on, but most folks I know truly appreciate the "waste management techs"
As much as they do a very valuable job, I would appreciate them more if they didn't leave refuse all over the street and put the bins back where they found them! Having to pick up refuse and move everybody else's bins every week just to get your car out to go to work is getting more than just a little tiresome.
My husband woke up at buttfuck in the morning every Tuesday for a month to critique them on their poor performance of getting the trash can back up on the edge of the driveway where they grabbed it from. He didn't care if they threw it down as long as it wasn't in the street. I'm not sure how we didn't lose service at our house or wind up with a yard full of trash, but they started putting it back on our driveway and even turning it upside down in the snow and rain. He's even friends with them now. Go figure.
Load More Replies...As I've said before f*ck whoever disrespects the amazing job garbage men and women do. They quite literally the dirtiest job in the entire world so that you don't have to smell trash all over the place. Shut your trap, if you disrespect them you should be taken off the list and forced to dispose of your garbage yourself, let's see how well you can handle ir5
It's physically hard work and in all weathers. They are under-appreciated.
Really? Always had pretty good respect for them. I suppose a long time ago it may have been a bit different, but yeah. They're basically right up there with Firemen and police around here. It's not a glamorous job, but I think it's at least respected. Certainly up there with the sewage workers too.
I scrolled a long time and didn’t find it:
Fast food workers
They’re the butt of every demeaning comment about a lack of achievement or the reason why minimum wage shouldn’t be raised blah blah blah
But those people get real quiet once they’re ordering their Big Mac
What?? Why is this first?? Anybody working in services, where have to deal with people is a saint. Everybody should try this once in life and will never judge these people anymore... world will be nicer.
This is first because we decided people at McDonalds were essential and forced them to go to work during the pandemic. Many of them died due to ant-vaxxers who wouldn't wear masks and a company who was willing to let them die to make record profits. They are still paid less than every non-essential worker not only at their own company but most others. "Working at McDonalds" is still considered an insult.
Load More Replies...All humans should have to work for the public at least once, whether retail, serving, etc. It makes you humble. Anyone who is mean to said workers will die and be reincarnated as a Walmart retail worker during Christmas time in an eternal loop.
Having worked similar jobs in the past, I'd like to add that you never know someone's situation. Maybe they have another job and work nights at the fast food place to make ends meet. Maybe they're putting themselves through college, and that place offers a flexible schedule. Or maybe they just freaking work there and it doesn't matter why, because your job doesn't make you more or less of a human than anyone else. Treating a service worker like garbage says way more about you than it does about them.
Fast food is actual hard fast paced work. No you don't need to be an engineer to do it, but that doesn't make it easy. A lot of jobs have a lot of downtime to just screw around many fast food restaurants don't get a slow time for people to do that so the only time to sit down is on a break.
I agree. The idea of being a 'burger flipper' all your life is used as a boogeyman story to so many kids. I worked at mcdonald's through my 20s full time while also going to college full time. I worked there for almost 10 years. It was one of the hardest jobs I ever did. It doesn't take a genius to do it, but there is a ton of physical labor, being able to memorize orders and deal with coordination in making things for multiple orders at one time. You don't just get one order at time, you get 5, if one order has a cheeseburger and another order does, you want to make those together because it takes less time than the other items in the order. You have to clear the order within 40 seconds. You're dealing with customers in a way you don't in so many other situations because they have no problem talking down to you. You deal with robberies. You have to buy part of your own uniforms. And you're on your feet on a hard surface all day. When you aren't busy, you're miserable.
McDonald's actually pays really well in some places and has strong standards for hiring.
it has been many years, but when i worked at McDonald's the sense of being part of a team has never been stronger anywhere i have ever worked since. How many places would a member of upper management actually jump in and pick up (whatever the equivalent is) a basket of fries, or box up some big macs if they were short handed and swamped? and not berate you for it afterward if they did? opposite side of the coin on that though is never had customers/clients treat me so.... oooh i'll be nice here....dismissively.
Load More Replies...I worked in retail for 20 years. I switched over to fast food 6 years ago. I make so much more money than I ever did in retail and as easy as the job itself is I work harder and am way more stressed than I ever was in retail and definitely deserve every bit of what people claim is a ridiculous wage for fast food workers
Paramedics for sure. Doctors and nurses spit on us and treat us like we have no qualifications. the media calls us ambulance drivers or ambulance workers.
And whenever there are reports of the Healthcare crisis, you rarely hear about medics getting ground into dust due to call volume, its always about nurses and doctors.
TV shows only ever show medics being told what to do by cops, or just plopping a patient on a stretcher then disappearing.
The general public votes for policies that make us get paid like s**t.
Yet, when their family is dying at home or in a ditch, people beg us to help and cheer for us.
At one point they were just ambulance drivers. Paramedics have had medical training for decades now maybe over a century. People and media need to get with the times.
I see some people replying to you don't know the difference between an EMT who does "basic" (for lack of a better word) rescue services to get someone to a hospital while paramedics can perform more serious life saving procedures including minor field surgery like tracheotomies, as well as preliminary diagnosis, things that a lot of nurses aren't allowed to do.
Load More Replies...As a nurse, I have NEVER ONCE (for emphasis only) looked down on paramedics. They’re out there making critical decisions and taking critical action on their own. In my ACLS (Advanced Cardiac Life Support) practical exam we went in 2 by 2 to a MD in the room who geared that part to where you work. My run through was geared to critical care in the hospital. His the paramedic’s was geared to in the field. Observing his exam, I stood there like a deer in the headlights. What they must know, make decisions about out there, have to do in some very dangerous situations, and then do the medical stuff. 😳😳😳😳 In any situation I see, whether on the news, or in real life, where they are needed, I thank God for them. Believe me, if you are in a serious car wreck with serious injuries, still in the car, thrown from the car, hit by the car and seriously injured, you do not want a MD or RN there figuring it all out. I am in awe of, and have the highest respect for them. I don’t know how they do it.
I think the OP had a bad experience and just assumed everyone thinks like that. I have never heard anyone say negative things about emts, paramedics etc.
It's not really a general public thing for me as an EMT it's moreso nurses in the ER love to give us attitude and question our abilities to do our job. On our side of the medical field we're moreso patient advocates than we are teamed up with the hospital staff so we spend a weird amount of time on the opposite side of them to the point that it's a nice surprise when we encounter good nurses and doctors.
Load More Replies...don't know what country you a from, but where I work as a paramedic - we get more respect than nurses from the public, we get paid more than all non-management nursing positions, and neither nurses, nor doctors hate us. However they do love making us do the heavy lifting in the ER, especially transporting the heavily obese patients from one ward to another. Also, politicians are somewhat listening to our voices - there is a law in the works that will allow us to retire at 55.
I really don't think paramedics and ambulance techs are 'hated'. You all do a great job, and here in the UK you have much respect from the public (except the problematic drunks and druggies)
As a nurse I have the upmost respect for paramedics. When the patient arrives in hospital they are inevitably in a better state than what they were found in and that's because paramedics are risking their very lives running into situations that most people would run away from. I think they are fantastic people and it makes me sad that any of them would think they aren't appreciated.
Paramedics have incredibly hard jobs and save lives. I highly recommend the show Nightwatch, which is a reality series that shows real paramedics and EMTs doing their job in the city of New Orleans. You won't believe some of the things they deal with. And they all love what they do. Real heroes!
Who would hate paramedics? They are the first ones on the scene and have huge roles to play. Super confused….
Same reason they hate doctors and nurses: "Why didn't you save them!" Well, ma'am, his head was severed. We really can't fix that. (True story from my in-law who was a paramedic.) Grief is angry, and anger likes targets. :-(
Load More Replies...One of the first options that many people thought of are lawyers. From ambulance chasers to sleazy defense attorneys, there are so many examples of legal professionals who bend rules or generally are bad-mannered. But, as the question states, there are times when you really really need a legal professional. Lawyers can help you avoid a predatory contract or help you obtain damages when a neighbor floods your apartment.
Lawyers' poor reputation is actually a time-honored tradition at this point. Shakespeare alludes to it in Henry VI, Part 2 (act 4, scene 2, line 73, if you are particularly curious). When a group of pretenders to the throne are discussing how to improve the nation, one offers a simple idea: “The first thing we do, let's kill all the lawyers.” This is presented as a reasonable idea. If a line like that can get a laugh almost 500 years later, that shows something.
I've been scrolling forever and haven't seen this yet:
Scientific research.
During downtime, we routinely get made fun of for doing "pointless" things like dropping balls down a waterfall or making people listen to sounds. Our staffing is small and we're chronically underfunded, which only gets made worse when some guy in a basement thinks he knows more about climate change than someone with a PhD and politicians claim vaccines cause autism.
But then a catastrophe happens and suddenly everyone looks to us to churn out answers at 300% speed.
My mother is making fun of me for “believing the lying scientists”. I just want to chuck a chair at her sometimes
Sometimes you just gotta chuck that chair. You know, for science.
Load More Replies...90% of all disaster movies start with a qualified scientist being ignored
The other 10% are the qualified scientist becoming either the villain or making the villian
Load More Replies...Oh yeah. Research is .... thankless. Then Covid shows up and everyone asked "Why weren't you preventing this?" Well, 1. we didn't get funding and 2. you weren't ready to hear that there *is* a point to our "useless" research. Mine pre-Covid would've integrated detection of child abusers into the nationalized health care system to provide early intervention without relying on as much "human factor". (Public health/infectious disease/patient advocacy & information are my passions. Tho' public health and patient stuff are the same IMHO.) Covid shows up? "How didn't you predict it?" 1. Didn't work with WHO/CDC emergent disease research and 2. We did. Nobody listened. And we assumed it'd be a flu virus. But it operated as models predicted. Nobody wants to know that....
Bill Bryson (author who studied science papers to write his book) stated in the end of his well-researched book that the most likely cause of a pandemic would be an airborne virus. This book, A Short History of Nearly Everything, was published in 2003. It's pretty safe to say we don't listen to science.
Load More Replies...My personal pet hate is "why are teh scientists making rockets to go to mars they should be curing cancer" - er.... no billybob you inbred moron. There are DIFFERENT TYPES of scientists. Astro-engineers are not oncologists.
Or "Why do we go to space, the money could be used to help us here on Earth", usually from people that have zero clue about the useage of satellites to improve nearly everything
Load More Replies...I have an uncommon long-term illness that often kills people. Usually treated people survive, but a bunch of us suffer long term symptoms. Even the Center for Disease Control admits that current tests are only 50% accurate and a massive number of people continue having symptoms after treatment, begging the question of are we really "cured". Because people survive, there's not a lot of market for drug companies to research and develop targeted drugs. The *only* people developing new tests and treatments are scientists in research facilities attached to universities. I bless them for it, no matter how seemingly trivial their research. No other educated person gives a damn about people who are ill like me.
And please note most scientists are also professors, and have to teach and put up with that s**t, but are often called "teachers" when most of the job is research. You see a prof teach for 6-8 hours a week in a classroom, but that's just the tip of the iceberg of their job. So many people think profs only work 6-8 hours a week.
My old boss once said (about Covid in mid 2020), "But the scientists keep changing their recommendations." So I explained that, "Science is a process to find the answer, not the answer. They keep learning new things and that's why they change. It shows they're doing it right." He got it.
Would you rather they experiment on humans? I mean I'd rather see the results from start to finish on a human since humans process medications differently than mice. But then its deemed unethical because humans would have to sacrifice themselves since they do have to figure out the fatal dosage as well. Medication has to be developed through testing if they cant use humans they have to use something else.
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All the trades guys. “They’re so expensive!!!”
Until that plumber shows up at 2am to prevent the sewage backup. Or the electrician that fixes an overloaded breaker panel, preventing a fire. Or the carpenter who builds the room for your toddler so you can get some sleep and *maybe* some sexy time.
Definitely tradesmen.
Tradies have to pay for their education, then their tools, job insurance, tool insurance and transport insurance and still actually charge reasonable rates. Those who don't understand this are being ignorant.
Yet many of those same people who complain that tradesmen charge too much will defend a CEO's "right" to 400 times their average employee's wage.
Load More Replies...Yeah, I don't feel those are thankless jobs...
Load More Replies...People tend to forget that they are not just paying for the time doing the job, but also for the time put in to learn how to do the job. Pay beans and you will get cowboys.
@robert T. yes dude. i literally have to climb 15 plus meters everyday and they say HOW MUCH.... then take it away. So i explain the stuff....every client comes back. The classic for me is to say well you go up there with my kit and do it yourself. It looks pretty small on the ground but it's a whole fukin different world up there. tree surgeon speaking
Load More Replies...To be officlally apprentice, journeyman or master status, you have to have a certain number of hours of class work, hands-on work, and years of experience with review in most US states I know of.... And then they have to carry a ton of personal insurance if they work for themselves. Believe me, I never disrespect the trades. I make them tea and cupcakes or cookies if I need them at my home. Why? Odds are they just listened to someone scream about spending money to get something fixed. Nobody needs mroe of that.
Thank god for people who know how to fix stuff! I would never mess around with plumbing, electrical, or HVAC myself. They are indispensable.
The world we are used to would fall apart within weeks if tradesmen downed tools and stopped working. Plumbers, electricians, welders, masons, carpenters, construction workers, mechanics, and hundreds more. Our world depends on these people, yet some look down on them. I hold a very bad opinion on people who look down on others, especially well trained tradesmen! They're worth every penny they earn.
Huh, funny, I've been personally scrêwed over by every single trade on this list...
Huh, funny, I don't think you were screwed over you were incapable of doing it yourself and had to call someone then you complained about it now. If you knew how to do it you wouldn't have to call them and you'd know it's hard work. Edit: I'd like a genuine explanation as to why I was downvoted? I said nothing but the truth
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Teachers
Teachers are going through some c**p in the US right now, and my heart goes out to them.
Teachers dedicate four years to learning how to shape the minds of our future, and have the patience to stick with it. They have my respect.
They need more than 4 years post-secondary where I am. They do 4 years degree then go to teacher's college for another 1-2 years.
Load More Replies...I have always respected teachers. I am a person with 0 patience. So I have complete respect for someone that willingly sits in a class with 20 screaming kids all day. And then covid happened. Screw math. My kids were about 10 and 12 when we did covid homeschooling. 100% respect for teachers.
20? Private school is it? Typically 32 in uk state sector. That’s average.
Load More Replies...Often parents take to us like we are stupid... Hon, I have two degrees more than you do.
My son's 3rd grade teacher has a dual masters in math and writing. I feel extremely blessed. But then my dad was a teacher for 35 years so I'm always going to appreciate teachers. He has his masters in Special ed.
Load More Replies...When I was in school I had teachers I didn't like, but I wouldn't call it "hate". As an adult, there are few professions I have more respect for - I can't imagine anyone hating them!
Teachers have THE most important job on the planet, and we pay them dirt. It disgusts me.
Of the many teachers i know, they work very hard and want to do what is best for the students. The "bad" teachers are mostly the ones that have been completely beaten by rhe education system, parents and students that they've just given up but don't know what else they can do
Load More Replies...It's sad that teachers are paid so poorly when there are reality TV "stars" making bank for being stupid in public.
my brother (9) invited friends over for his birthday. There were so many ... sleeping over ... so loud ... i could never be a teacher. kids are scary.
Historically, lawyers have been a tool of the powerful to keep and legitimize their power. A regular person’s interaction with one would normally be costly and unpleasant. 19th-century American short story writer and journalist Ambrose Bierce defined litigation as "a machine which you go into as a pig and come out as a sausage.” This was also intended as a joke, though no doubt many people at the time lost their livelihoods and freedom to lawyers working in the interest of industrialists and other powerful groups.
Therapists. I'm a licensed therapist. Even in this comment thread someone called therapists "glorified life coaches" which couldn't be further from the truth. We are significantly more qualified. Everyone wants to s**t on therapists until someone gets hurt or hurts themselves and suddenly "Mental health matters! They should've had a therapist!"
A psychologist at my school said that I needed therapy just a couple of days ago yet my parents insist that therapists will give the exact same advice they’re giving me right now for extra money
I've been in group or individual therapy about 15 years total of my 50=-plus years of life. Your parents are wrong. No therapist ever gave me the same advice I heard from parents or, often, friends. Why? Because the therapist is outside the situation, and is suposed to help us see our way out, too. Not maintain a status quo, which is what most around us want. I hope you find help. Hugs of support.
Load More Replies...Therapy is so important man, that's why I want to be a therapist
I’m a therapist and have a therapist. A lot of us do. We know the importance and benefit
A lot of the hate therapists get is because some are actually awful. If I'd never had a therapist, I'd never have needed one.
There are definitely crappy or incompetent people in every field. Even a good therapist is not a match for every patient but damn can they do damage if they're predatory, incompetent, or lack boundaries because of the amount of trust and vulnerability involved in therapy. I'm very sorry that happened to you. I've had meh and wonderful experiences with counselors right up until the last two. One was burnt out and definitely took it out on patients. The last was a trauma specialist I was seeing for severe PTSD. She absolutely made it worse and had zero boundaries. She's still in my phone as Do Not Answer. I've no desire to try again after her.
Load More Replies...Ive had multiple therapists growing up. 5 in fact. Only 1 really talked to me. The other 4 didnt offer suggestions, they just asked how i felt. My dad laughed when he asked how i felt about 1 particular one becuase she would always just respond with hmmmm... ok. Oh, how did that make you feel. Uh huh" and when he sat in with her thats exactly what it was. With that said i think having a good therapist made me take personal accountability and learn how to communicate.
Agreed. Shame none of us can afford you. Not that you're not worth it, our jobs simply don't think we're worth it though.
I sometimes wonder how many lives therapists save, by helping people to be neither suicidal nor homicidal
I didn't think I could trust the ones I went to because I was told to never talk about what happened at home. I just assumed they'd tell my mom and my step-dad would find out and it'd be worse, he never touched me sexually, but he was abusive and I was afraid they'd take me and my siblings away and I think that would have killed my mom. So, it got easier to just not go.
Leave me your attitude towards a therapist which change immediately if you took a step to visit one
So. This one. I have had some occasion to see a therapist. Never. Again. Not ever. Every. Single. Time. They make things worse. I'm always better off just coping as best I can. The thing is I don't discount psychology in general. I just don't trust therapists on any level based on my personal experience.
One bad therapist doesn't make the whole profession crappy. I am sorry for your negative experience, but every profession has its bad eggs, but honestly, most therapists genuinely want to help and can do it effectively.
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Truck drivers. Everyone is either scared or annoyed at us, but good luck buying anything without truckers.
As long as you're not the truck driver trying to pass another truck driver going a tenth of a mile faster than them on an uphill on a two-lane Highway, you're cool.
This came to mind! But at least they go as fast as they can. Much more annoying with persons going in a good car in good conditions and good traffic and going to slow or alternates speed up and down 🙃 xvxxFEDxvz...DwQWNo.jpg
Without truckers, we'd be relying on trains like before and the rail network would be better than it is now.
We do now anyway. What makes you think the majority of freight is shipped by trucks? Typically it's shipped close to where it needs to be by rail and then loaded onto a truck. Yes, other loads do go only by trucks but there isn't enough drivers for all the freight. Source? I used to run long haul and my dad retired after 45 years of driving
Load More Replies...Honestly the self importance of this saying you can’t have stuff without me is reflected in the way you drive. Everyone hates you because 90% of you drive like absolute tools. It’s like you think your traffic cops and if you can’t go the speed limit up a hill no one else can either. They don’t dislike you because your jobs not important, they dislike you because you’re inconsiderate. Btw I drive a service vehicle, which is pretty slow, for work and I’m aware and don’t cut off faster traffic when I can avoid it but just waiting 2 seconds for them to pass. I don’t live in cali but I love that they restrict you to the right lane. I wish my state did too.
So you are aware, the 10% of truck drivers that actually drive well really despise the ones that don't. Good truckers have to deal with bad driving ones even more than you do (at fuel stops, at shippers/receivers and in lots) and it drives them bat s**t crazy too. They get all the hate generated by bad driving truckers, no matter how courteously they drive and how careful they are to be responsible(driving while alert, only throwing refuse in bins, etc). I think everyone dislikes bad truck drivers.
Load More Replies...Plus 1 here. If you don't like truckers, you haven't thought things through.
I'd agree, but some of these "totally not complete àssholes" have run me off the I10 more than 10 times. It's gotten so bad that we've finally passed a law stating they MUST stay in the right lane, like in CA... Only for the police to NEVER enforce it. A trucker illegally playing leapfrog jack knifed and caught fire, AGAIN, just this past Valentine's Day, blowing toxic fumes over the entire city, AGAIN. It's ridiculous. Sure, you're necessary and all, but y'all need to follow the law. The noobs think they can drive a MAC like their Ford Fiesta back home, and it's exhausting.
You can drive like that actually. I've driven one and it's true you can drive it like a Fiesta although it leads to a high chance of crashing or death
Load More Replies...Nah, we don't need most of you. Most of you guys haul c**p we don't really need or c**p that can be hauled by rail. And cops hate your guts, because too often these same cops have crawled around on their hands and knees, and with soup-spoon in hand, have picked up the people you have squashed. You drive half asleep (and I know that for a fact - I have been hit by one of guys, and it took the noise of dragging my car for 200 feet to wake him up) for better pay, and this better pay trumps our right to life.
In America, truck drivers have a sticker on their trucks with these letters ELS (Electronic Log System). This tells them when they can drive and when they have to park. It records whether you follow the directions. They are required to do a 10 hour break after driving for so many hours. If Department of Transport stops you and finds that you are beyond your driving time, then you get pulled out of the truck, given an on-site p**s test, and fined. Also, you know what truckers b***h about the most? Non truckers on their cell phones not paying attention to the road around them. Do not use your cell phone while driving!
Load More Replies...I highly respect truck drivers. My brother got into an accident that was no fault of his own and wound up in the ditch. One of the two truck drivers that were in that semi was getting him out of what was left of his FORD Mustang while the other was SCREAMING at 911 to get fire and rescue and the RCMP. My brother was fine. The idiot that hit him lost his driver's license. I still wish I could find out who were those two truck drivers and hug both of them for their help.
When I was a janitor I got a lot of hate for knocking out my 8 hour day in 4 individual hour long chunks of effort.
I Was always available for spills and got extra work done every day but spent another 4 hours basically chilling and management not once got on my case.
The other employees despised this until a customer's colostomy bag somehow ruptured in the bathroom. From that day forward none of them gave a f**k if I was just hanging out on my phone.
I was a janitor for 15 years. One needs a strong stomach and a sense of humor to handle this job, even then it's not enough sometimes. People are disgusting, especially germophobes who would rather shít all over the floor than sit down properly on a toilet seat.
thereby also covering themselves with some of the most dangerous germs out there.
Load More Replies...I work in a hospital and I think post covid that the environmental services people are finally beginning to be treated and paid halfway decently. Considering all of the cleaning requirements for clean rooms, surgery suites and patient rooms these days, plus all of the potential health hazards I bet most of them are still way under paid.
Overworked, and underpaid. They are cleaning up your s**t, most of the time literally.
Why is it such a crazy concept for people to work when they are at work?
You have my deepest respect. I thank the janitors who work so hard.
It's a bag that the colon empties into after the final tract of the intestines are removed.
Load More Replies...My dad was a janitor for awhile I'm pretty sure that's what made him decide to get his engineering degree at one of the trade schools. I've got a lot of respect for janitors. They deal with nasty and sometimes are true fix-it men and women.
Another common option where those salespeople who contact you at the strangest time to suggest you update your car's extended warranty. While this doesn’t sound so bad, the main reason most people hate them is the fact that it’s generally just a scam. These scammers want to get some data about you, like your social security number, credit card information, driver’s license number, or bank account information. This can then be used to defraud you in the future.
Essential services during COVID, bunch of derps calling us heroes now back to s******g on us
Thank you to those who kept working at the pharmacies and the grocery stores and gas stations and all those other places that we had to have
Most "essential" workers, weren't really essential... Just working for the company's that own the politicians. Weird how none of the giants had to close... Weirrrddd....
Husband was an essential worker NOT in the medical field. He had to work 90PLUS hours aweek during the worst of the pandemic. We barely saw him. He got sh*t on then by the conspiracy theororists, got sh*t on now by people like you. His company makes a specialized type of product packaging. Sound non-essential? Have you ever bought food? From a store? You have my husband's handiwork in your home right now unless you only eat food you've grown yourself. The specific thing he makes has been required by federal law since the 30s. When a bunch of his co-workers quit during the pandemic, it caused a production issue that made it so people couldn't buy necessary foods. The food was available, the safety packaging was not. My husband had to give up his life so you could have dinner. He's doing it right now. There are only 120 men across the country making what he makes. People assume it's a big company considering how important and common, but it's actually a small pocket industry.
Load More Replies...The memory of man is deplorably, dangerously short. It can drive one to exasperation at times.
Anyone working a public facing job and not beating customers is a hero!
Lol. Everyone around here worked like normal, no business closures in my state. It's not heroic, it's doing your job and getting a paycheck.
And every one of those derps crying like babies now that they have to go back to the office. We never left the "office" you whiny paper pushers.
To be fair I was embarrassed about the "heroes" thing except for the nurses in the early days when information was scant and the amount of work it took to take care of one covid patient and wear all of the PPE all the time. They deserved it. Besides the physical toll a lot of them had the emotional toll from many patients dying, worse when those patients were alone because family members weren't allowed in the rooms.
I highly disagree. My husband is in production, and makes a specialized type of product packaging that literally everything in a grocery store has and is required by federal law. Without it, stores cannot sell food. He had to work 90plus hours a week during the pandemic to ensure you were able to get groceries at all. When some of his co-workers quit during the pandemic (and a couple passed from covid), it caused a shortage in grocery stores that made national headlines. Why was it so hard to get certain beef products at the end of 2020? Neil passed away from covid. Who is Neil? The one single guy that makes all the the specialized & legally required part of the packaging for the beef industry. My hub gave up his life & family for 2 years only to get shat upon all over again. Even worse? He's salaried.
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The US Coast Guard for fishermen and boaters. Usually there's a pretty good working relationship between them, but some hate the Coast Guard for the various inspections they do. But the USCG is also the ones who will come out there in a storm to rescue them.
I have not an ounce of hatred for someone who will come and get me when I'm stuck in the middle of the OCEAN. I don't need Wilson the soccer ball, I need the Coast Guard.
Not to mention they've effectively eliminated piracy in US waters.
Load More Replies...You probably only hate the Coast Guard if you are doing something illegal! The people who are willing to jump out of a helicopter to rescue your sorry ar$e in the middle of the ocean are heroes.
I support the RNLI (UK), but hope I will never need them. Same applies to the air ambulance, but I have already been grateful for their attendance.
It is my understanding that the rest of the military respects the hell out of the Coast Guard because of the water rescues that they do.
My Mom & kids lived on Kodiak Island, AK for a decade. There's a large CG base there, & there were several times the puddle jumper I was on had to turn around so they could relay a distress call from a ship to the base. Never once resented it, I saw the seas those guys worked in, a difference of a minute could cost the whole ship. The CG never once hesitated, no matter the conditions. I even recommended my son & stepson both join the CG over the other branches (everyone in my family is a vet of some stripe). My son went Marines, my step son decided against enlisting. Those guys are f*****g awesome & I will fight anyone who says different.
Load More Replies...Why would they hate USCG inspections? The inspections find problems that need fixing, before they cause someone's death or property damage, don't they?
Boat: "Mayday, mayday" ASCG 1: "Is that Karen?" ASCG 2: "I didn't hear anything..?" Be kind, arn't they just doing their jobbs?
You risk your lives to save people who are panicked and in shock and you are on the front lines of hurricane tracking and damage reporting. I have massive respect even for those stationed at Lake Michigan in Chicago. I don't see why anyone would hate you unless their fishing illegally or crossing the ocean into national waters illegally or you know sending drugs through Miami. 😂
Plastic Surgeons. My uncle is a plastic surgeon and he does only reconstructive stuff, fixing burn victims faces and stuff like that. But when people ask him what kind of doctor he is and he says Plastic Surgeon, they usually kinda scoff.
Same principle of operation, but one helps people, the other preys on insecurities
Load More Replies...I think because we only hear of plastic surgery if it's done to make celebrities look better and very rarely if it's a medical issue
I have a friend who is a plastic/reconstructive surgeon that calls herself ScarJoy after Scarlett Johannsen. She turns scars into joy. ScarJo and many other big actors are proud of their work for the big paychecks in dumb movies because it pays the bills to allow them to do passion projects. My friend says 80% of her patients are there for cosmetic touch-ups like nose jobs. Those patients cover the cost of reserving a surgical theater for the 6 surgeries to fix the scars of an uninsured 11 year old whose face was bitten by a pitbull.
A plastic surgeon fixed my mother's self esteem after a double mastectomy due to breast cancer. A plastic surgeon repaired my then-4 year old nephew's skin and muscle after having a series of golf ball sized cancerous tumors removed from his brain and spine, and is the only reason why, as a now-25 year old, you'd never know he fought for the first 4 years of his life.
Load More Replies...When I was three got half my face torn off by a dog, plastic surgeon fixed me up real good.
I had two reconstructions done by a plastic/cosmetic surgeon (used to do more cosmetic than plastic). One was pretty serious: A dog bit my face when I was 7 and tore the right side of my upper lip up to the nose. The injury was grusome. The surgeon did an awesome job. The reconstruction and stitching were so clean that more than 30 years later you can barely notice I have a scar. It did leave me a lopsided smile that became my signature 😏. Someone put it very well here in the comments: a good plastic surgeon turns scars into joy!
I work the desk for hospital plastics and reconstruction clinic. We see waaay more broken bones, bullet wounds, workers comp and various other injuries than Nip Tuck stuff. I have to explain to people several times a a day when they call asking why they're going there for a hospital follow up that plastics is not just cosmetic stuff
In India's criminal world, thats one heck of a respectable profession.
While scammers are truly detestable, sometimes your car’s warranty or insurance really has ended. And since most people don’t keep their car insurance or warranty expiration dates marked on a calendar, someone needs to remind them. But let’s face it dear pandas, even if you didn’t know that many of these callers were scammers, most of us deeply dislike cold calls from strangers.
Lawyer here. The expectation that because you are a lawyer you know everything about every law everywhere. In reality most lawyers are highly specialised.
Former lawyer here. Don't be a lawyer unless your parents own a firm. It is a miserable freaking job. Most likely you will end up in insurance defense working long a*s hours for not enough pay. Seriously, minimum billing is equal to 8.6 hours per day without vacation and only taking holidays off. Add a vacation, and it goes up. Take a vacation, you have to make up those hours. So you end up working harder the month before and after. And best of all, you go into massive student debt to be able to do this. I now work as an insurance adjuster and make more money, normal hours and way less stress.
My dad's a retired patent attorney and I'm not gonna lie - we lived exceptionally well. He made excellent money and was able to pay for all of my college education as well as plenty of nice family vacations/cars/etc. He's also reaping the benefits now that he isn't working any more. Mostly with golfing. ;) That being said, he's extremely smart and worked hard for all of it. He grew up less advantaged but was able to get academic scholarships that paid for everything - even law school. I'm aware that I was privileged and am eternally grateful for the advantages it has given me in life. I really lucked out in the parental department - they are both amazing people and some of my best friends as an adult. :)
Load More Replies...I never understood the people who get angry at a lawyer for defending a serial killer or something. Especially if they have a court appointed attny. They don't get to pick and choose. And even if they did...it's not like if every attny said no someone wouldn't get forcibly assigned. And lawyers need to make money so of course they're going to take on a high profile case. Don't be mad at the lawyer, be mad at the perp.
I just hate that I can't get one to help me when I truly need it right now. I'm sorry I don't need a bankruptcy but your site says you do more than just bankruptcy so why is my case not cost-effective? I wanna do things professionally but I can do it myself if necessary.
Remember that in every court decision half the lawyers are found to be wrong.
Child protection caseworker. People generally hate us and vilify us but man when you need us you need us. Most people genuinely do not understand the work that we do (I work in Australia) and I have been chased out of houses with knives, punched, had abuse hurled at us, had my kids threatened the whole shebang but we never stop trying to keep kids safe.
would be interesting to know how understaffed and underpaid that dept is.
Load More Replies...Law and order did an interesting episode about this with Whoopi Goldberg as the guest. This poor guy just wanted to help people and ended up so overburdened with cases that were so far beyond what he was supposed to be given and a child ended up dying because he had to lie and say he had visited when he hadn't. He was told to do it by the boss who was whoopi and her speech was like "what do you people want from us? There are too many cases. We don't have enough people. If you look at the cases we have vs the people we have, someone could be working on a case every half hour for 24 hours straight and still have over 100 left to go for the day. We do everything we can. If a kid seems fed and has no marks on them, yes, we move on to cases we feel are more urgent. We have no help and we save hundreds of kids lives a year but we still get told we aren't doing enough." I get it's a tv show but it's really true. There's an epidemic of scumbags in the world that's unhandle-able.
Many a CPS worker could tell enough horror stories to fill a book as thick as any volume in "A Song of Ice and Fire." And far more unnerving than anything H.P. Lovecraft could pen.
Same, in the UK. I hate the way we are shown on TV, a lot of what we do is preventing removal. For the person above who talks about children dying, Americans have way too many rights and places to hide. Also parents or adults abuse kids and yes, professionals make mistakes. But it's on the whole system to respond and keep the child safe. How many teachers sit on something because they don't want to upset the difficult parent? Police ignore the teenage warning signs because the family are in a poor neighbourhood? Also the 1000s of families we do help and can't ever talk about. Not even to mention years of cuts and cuts in funding
don't forget the social workers that take care of the kids and young adults in sheltered housing/assisted living whatever you call it in english. we are there 24/7/365. we are there when the kids don't have a place to sleep, no food or clothing, we make sure they have at least the minimum to live with, train them basic skills from cooking to operating a washing machine. sometimes even basic personal hygiene. and whats the big thank you? yeah you can work during the pandemic, just wear a mask and everything is fine, if you get sick, yeah you can come in anyway, what about extra pay, oh yeah ähm nope not for you, sorry. F**k this!!
Social workers in general are underpaid and overworked but there are definitely states/areas in the US with legitimate investigations and data showing corruption and power abuse. Only 15% of children are permanently removed for abuse. The rest are under the broad category of neglect. Which a good portion of is lack of resources. Even in the case of substance abuse children are removed disproportionately from lower income homes. It really is physically, emotionally, and psychologically healthier and more effective for kids to stay in their homes and to provide needed resources to that home rather than removal in the majority of cases not involving abuse. It's often more cost effective too. But there are states that get funding through removal, have laws that require permanent removal from the homes within a short timeline or are punitive for a parent's lack of resources (or biased against their race). And funding is very scarce for staff to actually follow up with abuse.
Unfortunately they work in a "damned if you do, damned if you don't" situation.
...and sometimes when we need you, you just sort of pack up and leave and we never hear from you again. Or one of the cps workers is abusive to their own kids, but those kids have no one to call. Yes, I've personally seen this. It is not a hypothetical anecdote.
As a person who has had to testify against a truly negligent social worker who left exonerating evidence out of her report so that it would appear one parent was significantly more fit than the other. I have to remind myself that most social workers are doing their best, are terribly overworked, and are trustworthy. Unfortunately, there are workers out there who simply don't know how to do their jobs.
Disease Intervention Specialist!!! By state law, when you test positive or are exposed to a certain infection (in my work’s case, STDs), the state health department is required to reach out to you to follow up and make sure you have access to treatment, resources, answer questions, etc. DAILY I am cursed out (as if I’m the one who gave them Syphilis…), hung up on, told to never call them again…….until they realize they have no idea where to get treatment. Then they come crawling back, being as polite as ever, because they finally realized we’re literally just trying to help them get through a potentially scary/confusing situation.
Our society is not very good at respecting professionals
Our society is not very good at respecting ANYONE! This whole list is about how people treat anyone they don't respect. From PHD to sanitation and everything above and below. If they had to work 1 day in someone else's job, they MIGHT treat them better.
Load More Replies...I can remember one time at the high school I went to that we were told that a student was in hospital and the doctors did not know what they had. We were told that we might go into quarantine. I was wondering how the Disease Intervention Specialists were going to find the source while trying to contain it at the same time.
That sounds like the hardest job ever! Like a little bit of a researcher, a little bit of a doctor, and a bit of a psychotherapist, but without good pay.
Or they are experiencing trauma and don't know how to process the bad news. This doesn't belong here.
We need better sex education and health education in schools.. Also, it's not too much to practice decent manners. You don't need to curse someone out to get them to leave.
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Nurses. A lot of people think they don’t deserve pay raises or think we’re not overworked, or that not much education is required but they don’t realize a 12 hour shift is 13 hours with patient handoff, most hospitals require a bachelors rather than associate’s, and a lot of hospitals stick a nurse with 6 patients which is extremely demanding and also dangerous for the patients and can result in a nurse losing their license if something goes wrong. Nursing is 100% either manual labor+ critical thinking or tedious charting, there is 0 downtime for 13 hours straight.
If nurses didn’t advocate for their patients, nobody would. Doctors treat the illness, not the patient. I’m not trying to downplay the importance of doctors or anything but if they actually had to take care of the patients they treat, the patients would be dead. Nurses are specialized in reacting to the needs of a patient and identifying underlying causes quickly.
EDIT: People are interpreting this wrong. I'm not saying other healthcare professionals don't care about their patients or protect them, but doctors see 20+ patients a day in a hospital setting and spend around less than 5 minutes around each patient in most cases. (Yes they are taking care of their patients all day long but its by orders, virology, etc. They are barely with the patient at all unless something arises). My point is that nurses do nearly all of the direct medical care and CNAs do a lot of the daily living tasks. This isn't the doctor's fault its just a symptom of our broken healthcare system. If the doctor is not in the room with the patient for 23.9 hours out of the day, how are they going to do anything for their patient without a nurse first inquiring on the patient's behalf?
Retired nurse here, I agree with much of this comment but I would like to elaborate on CNAs. Yes, they do the ADLs but they are so much more than that. They are the ones that notice first 99% of the time if something is wrong with a patient. They notice first if their skin is breaking down because they're washing them. They notice first if there's a problem with eating/swallowing because they're feeding the patient or collecting the meal trays. They notice if a patient is constipated, having problems urinating, if they have a fever. CNAs are the backbone of any medical facility and they are highly valuable and underappreciated. A nurse can only be as good as their CNAs and I worked with some of the best! Hats off to you, I couldn't have done my job without you!!!👍👏❤️👍👏❤️👍👏❤️
That is very much state and hospital dependent When I worked the floor it was 1 aide for 6 nurses. They were basically only a second set of hands
Load More Replies...I definitely appreciate the nurses that started CPR on me 3 times in one week after my insides went "Boom!". My husband also appreciates them. And my mom, my dad, my sister, my brother, my friends, etc. etc.
I normally work in critical care where we have 1:1 or 2:1 nursing but on the shifts when we get moved to cover other areas we are sometimes given up to 10 patients. Recently I was moved to a busy surgical ward and I had 9 and a half (one got transferred half way through shift) patients to care for and it almost broke me. Three post op, one agitated, two with chronic pain, one deteriorating (ended up in critical care) and a gentleman who was detoxing. And this is considered normal in UK hospitals. The NHS is failing and oddly enough it's nurses that everyone wants to take their rage out on.
My surgeon uncle once expressed his view of the low wages of nurses in comparison to of his by shortly summarizing the state of things. “I cut. They keep the patient alive. They can’t go on a strike, because then people die, and I can’t go on a strike on their behalf - because then people die. Don’t think we haven’t considered it. Economists are stupid, shortsighted, delusional bastards.” And in all honesty, I can’t say I disagree with him.
When you go to the hospital, you go for nursing care. The doctor will spend five minutes with you, spend another five writing orders and then everything is nursing care.
My mom is a retired RN, I'm an MD, believe me, we appreciate.... unless we're reallllly stupid. I've met many in medicine who don't give a c**p, and just do the job like robots. :-(
My kid spends a lot of time in hospitals. Nurses are the absolute best advocates there are for patients. If your doctor and nurse disagree on a course of treatment...back the nurse. They are more likely right
IT, not the clown.
Everything runs well: "What do we pay you for again?" - Things don't run well: "What do we pay you for again?"
Oh man, yeah. Even now you hear "Y2K was so hyped but nothing happened." Yes, that's because we IT folks were working around the clock to make sure nothing did.
Load More Replies...Maybe combine. Do an IT job and lurk with a red balloon until your clients learn to turn it on and off again.
Ok turn it off and back on or restart it should seriously be something that everyone (or m9st everyone) knows to do at this point! I don't work in IT but it's quite frankly ridiculous the number of times I've had coworkers call me because "IT takes too long " for me to restart and everything works fine.
Load More Replies...In no other profression is the mantra "Miracles I work every day, but the impossible takes a little longer" more apt! Particularly with development work, users have very little idea what they want or how long it will take to produce it, but I can tell you now, it will take a lot longer if you keep changing your mind about it! Yes, it is probably possible given enough time, money and effort, but I may well strangle you before it is complete!
I am in IT for a large European engineering company. I pretty much love my job (project, infrastructure and user support). I feels good when I have my users problems fix or there is something wrong in the IT infrastructure that I figure out how to fix it. My My user is in the projects actually thank me for what I've done and helped with. There are a lot of stressful days but very few frustrating days. Upper management wanted to put me in office and I said no I want to be on the floor with all my other users. That way they see me and go "oh hey I keep having this problem" . I have about 150ish users in the office and about the same amount at home, in the field and at the other small office. I am part of a good group of IT. So if anyone of us has a problems that cannot figure we reach out to each other.
IT guys are like ~magic beast masters~, who keep the machines in line by intimidating them with their sheer force of will. Or at least that's what I can figure since the d*mn thing starts working only AFTER I open a ticket. I swear our IT guy walks past the computer and it behaves.
They have incredible patience to be able to deal with all of the stupid people who take up their time. :)
It amazes me how many people still can't be bothered to do a quick Google search. I'm much more sympathetic when someone at least tried to help themselves.
Load More Replies...Been over 30 years in IT. For me it is the unrealistic expectations that IT also equals phone technician, electrician, webmaster, radio comms, database admin, and more, all at a high proficiency without ever making a mistake. I am flattered, but quickly get them to lower their expectations.
I respect all IT. I even took an IT Course (Vancouver Community College in Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada). The thing was I started my IT Course on September 2, 2001. You can guess the rest.
Dentists for sure
I worked for a company that helps companies get set up to take credit cards and to help them save money. 95% of the businesses we work with are dentists or orthodontists. It's one of the most expensive professions in medicine because it's all up to you to establish and maintain a clientele, unless you go in and buy an established practice. On top of it they have software that is eating them out of profit because it's "cheaper" to use the credit card system attached, it's really not but they don't know that and it's hard to find software that can be integrated with a 3rd party. Some are jerks but most are pretty great to chat with.
I don't hate the DENTISTS by any means, I just hate going there because usually it's either a crown or a tooth removal, the actual workers are just doing their job
For the love of God people need to see a dentist BEFORE THEY NEED ONE. So many people who could have spared themselves the time and cost of restorative work if they had seen us before they needed it.
I respect dentists. I have gone to several with issues about my teeth. Braces and root canals and all four wisdom teeth pulled while I was 19 years old. My current dentist warned me that my eight molars are in danger of needing root canals in the near future, but hopes it will not come to that. Sadly, I know just how bad my teeth can get and they will need the work.
Lawyers and mechanics. You want to have a good one of each, but you never want to have to call either of them.
Lineman. Been called a lazy overpaid drug addict by old men I don't even know. God forbid we go grab lunch or a coffee.
Works on power lines, this pic is of an electrician. I worked out door electrical construction to pay my education, and it's setting poles/lines transformers, etc. on either a large scale or on a local scale (distribution lines).
Load More Replies...We'd literally be in the dark without them! Not sure how you can't respect that.
A lineman came and talked to my class when I was in elementary school. He showed us some of the safety equipment and how they had to inflate their gloves every shift to make sure there were no holes. It can be incredibly dangerous. It would be cruel for me to spell out some of the potential injuries/causes of death associated with high voltage. They have my respect.
Brother has been a lineman for over 20 years, now a foreman. I dare anyone to follow him on a storm call. Especially a blizzard. When you can work 18 hours a day for a month straight, come talk to me.
Midwest US .Being a lineman is a pretty good profession out where I live. You get a one year tech degree after hS and off you go!
Yup, every time the wind blows here on the island, power goes out. Power lines get taken down by branches because these tree huggers refused to prune their trees. And then the linemen have to listen to some Maserati's horn because they won't let the moron drive over live wires, or their repair equipment takes up too much of their precious road.
Police
Well over here in London, a few of the Metropolitan Police officers are seriously damaging any public trust in them. Not to mention their stop/search programme which they insist works but around 99% of the people they stop are black.
Load More Replies...There are a lot of criminal, evil cops out there. Chris Rock has a great quote about how every time the cops are called out for horrifying behavior, someone says it's because they're being judged for a few 'bad apples'. But some jobs can't have bad apples. Like pilots. If you aren't going to insist on better training, more money, and put the political correctness aside and look at what they are actually dealing with, then it's never going to improve. Training should be like going to college. You should have to be the best of the best. Psychological tests should be regularly required. Body cams should be required. When you have a barely trained person who is put in a situation where if they turn the corner, a crackhead might stab you with a needle, or a drug dealer is going to possibly kill you at any moment, then you're going to end up with someone who is going to react out of fear or prejudice.
Nah, they didn't show up the only time i needed them (an neighbour's ex was drunk, triied to put her house on fire and didn't want to leave). But they were always there to mutilate me and my friends who dared to protest or strike.
In my country they are useless. We have the ones that handle traffic and the ones that handle crimes. The crime ones show up about 1-2 hours after being called once the mess is over with, and mostly to take statements and fingerprints and then do nothing after that. They tell you, (real experience), to "contact your insurer". The ones that handle traffic seem to exist mostly to operate speed traps and perform roadblocks ie cause traffic jams to aggravate global warming. Pretty sure if they closed down, nothing would change. The result of this incompetence is people use GPS to avoid the traffic guys and hire private security to replace the other imbeciles. https://businesstech.co.za/news/business/580502/big-shift-for-private-security-in-south-africa/
We see examples of police gone wrong all the time. We don't see all the times it went right because it doesn't hit the news. There are serious issues, to be sure. BUT - If I have some threat or emergency, I can call 911 and have an amazingly fast response and they're coming to save me. That's great, actually.
Just because we need something, doesn't mean we can't also want it to be improved
Load More Replies...To all you police loving commenters there are societies without a police force as there have been for centuries. These societies police themselves and defend each other and prosecute those that hurt the community. Someone who needs help will be helped by someone who cares to help them not for money but by compassion. A kings soldiers or a cities copper do as they are commanded for monetary gains. Therein the economy of a person is dependant on that care. Therefore how can a community be defended against when currency outweighs compassion for fellow human beings TLDR: F°ck The Police defend with compassion not prosecute by currency
A reported 40% of US cops are domestic abusers. I can only imagine how many aren't reported. And a cop who does everything right, but turns a blind eye to the crimes of his fellow officers is still a bad cop. The blue line is bs.
That’s the point. Most start out good wanting to be decent police, but slowly become indoctrinated into some hellish brotherhood that thinks they’re above the law, outside of it. Like they know more. We all live here. We’ve all seen things. If you are unfit for the job, find a new one. Don’t start shooting because you’re now terrified.
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Thanatologist, embalmers...any funeral workers really.
thanks for teaching me a new word. I thought a Thanatologist was someone who preaches Thanos' gospel :D
That would be more fun, I think. But the history of the cities is the history of cemeteries, & you can tell A LOT about a culture based on how they treat their dead.
Load More Replies...I was wondering if this would be on the list. I'm a mortician/anatomical embalmer. ~~ Here's your interesting fact for the day: a Funeral Director is only licensed to run the funeral. Meet with the family, do the paperwork, sell the casket, etc. They can't really interact with the decedent. □□□ An embalmer can ONLY interact with the body. Pick them up, transport them, embalm, dress & style them, put them in the casket. They can't sell anyone anything or do paperwork except chain of custody. □□□ A mortician is someone who is licensed to do both. Who can interact with the family, file paperwork, pick up, transport, & embalm the decedent. Everything from the initial death call to taking them to the cemetery or crematory at the very end. ~~~ Most states combine the licenses so you get both at the same time, but you have to do continuing education for each license separately. ●●● I get so bloody tired of people's first reactions being 1) Really? Noooo... so what do you ACTUALLY do for a living... IT? Barista? 2) Really? So what's the weirdest/ most gruesome thing you've seen? 3) Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww 4) Oh really? So what about *stupid industry idiot who made national news for doing awful things with/to bodies* @GEPowers is correct, though. On the whole it's the used car salesmen of death, trying to get the most money out of people who are in no emotional or mental state to be making financial decisions of that magnitude. Do your own research, get a preneed contract to lock the price down, have a will, make your POA someone you trust implicitly, & avoid SCI like the plague.
Out of curiosity, do you work in the US? I've never seen "mortician" used as an actual job title here, it's always "licensed funeral director/embalmer" lol. But yeah, f**k sci lmao
Load More Replies...There are a lot of jobs like that. Someone has to do all of the unpleasant things in society - just watch Dirty Jobs for proof. Those people deserve respect for taking on jobs no one else wants to do!
Load More Replies...Finally, I worked in a funeral home 4 blocks from my home. I was hired as an office worker. After a while the boss trusted me to make arrangements with families. Meeting with families on the worse day of their life is much harder that one thinks. I cried with families and did the absolute best job I could. I knew a lot of people that came through or had seen them around the neighborhood so I knew a lot of people. I didn't feel embarrassed by crying with others and most families I think understood that you understood their feelings. Its a very difficult job, but also very rewarding thinking that you helped in a little way. And nobody I knew asked stupid questions about the deceased. That is VERY private information.
Workers may be OK but the industry is a giant rip off taking advantage of vulnerable people.
Yes you are correct some funeral directors do take advantage families, but people that spend a ton of money on a funeral and/or a casket its usually out of guilt!
Load More Replies...Y’all literally make money off poor grieving people. If my mom died I’d probably throw it in the forest or gasoline fire
In my opinion if I hated these people it would be because of loads of horror games/movies that give you guys a bad reputation! I don't I personally would not work in this job though, dead bodies are gross and creep me out 😖
People are very quick to look down on people who work retail or in the food industry, people openly disrespect sanitary workers and even USPS and DMV workers but our society couldn't function without any of them.
Honestly though USPS and DMV workers are almost always rude and because the U.S loves to make simple things complicated all the stupid rules at both the places are almost physically painful and If I had to deal with it for 40hrs a week I would probably be rude too.
This. You all are my heroes. Can’t believe the c**p you have to put up with for so little pay! Everyone just says try harder and get a better job. If no one worked front line our society would crumble. All people who work should be respected and paid enough to live on.
Very true! There is always just that one generally mean person or just someone having a bad day, you very much brought up a great point!
Load More Replies...Maybe I'm in the bizarre minority here, but I've never had a problem at the Post Office or the DMV/MVD. Keep on keeping on.
Working in retail gave me an actual ulcer. I was more stressed and depressed than I ever was at any time in my life, and yet people still treat them like scum of the earth
A******s take out there rage for corporate by bitching at lowest rung employees because they're too cowardly to go to the source.
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Traffic control. They make you late to work but they are there to protect construction workers.
Seriously! I always think how miserable it looks to be standing there risking your life while people are being rude or honking at you. They aren't personally trying to inconvenience you! I make sure to smile and wave in the hopes of balancing out the hate.
I always smile and wave; why do people get so upset when these guys have to stand there in the road in every kind of weather being constantly vigilant? Especially dangerous you factor in distracted or impatient drivers.
Safety manager.
Everyone thinks they’re sissies that needlessly spend money and complicate things… until someone gets hurt or the company gets cited, then suddenly everyone wants to know what can and should be done to remedy the situation.
Well, I've seen safety insist on guards and interlocks that render the machine incapable of running. Mostly because they won't listen to the people who are experts on them. I've locked out machines like that before till the Plant Manager starts asking questions.
I don’t mind a safety manager who understands the job. The safety manager who ask why I’m not wearing gloves while trying to splice small fiber is just a pita who complicates my already complicated job. I’m not wearing unnecessary PPE because it’s impossible to complete this specific task while doing so you dolt.
Everything is all fun and games til someone loses an eye. I think I've seen damn near every OSHA violation you could Imagine, but my favorite one is the classic pallet stack. not supposed to be stacked above weight height. I've seen towers, where you had to use a forklift to reach the top of the stack.
Alternatively, we're the first to get cut at budget trims-- then,, after all the OSHA citations, we get to charge astronomical fees to come back as a consultant and fix the problem
Tow truck drivers
You hate 'em when they drag away your car for being parked in the wrong place - but appreciate 'em when your car conks out!
No, we hate them for towing our vehicles when they're legally parked.
Load More Replies...No, we love you, tow truck drivers. And we love all the cool sh!t you have in your cabin and dashboard, stuff that we only get to admire when you let us ride with you. But nobody loves you more than us BMW drivers :-)
My dad is a tow truck driver I think he talks about 1 or 2 bad people but otherwise everyone is nice and actually gives him gifts! And for people who hate tow truck drivers you have to remember how stressful this job is! Give them a break!! Edit: My dad actually had to put out and tow a burning truck!! That job can be VERY stressful and definitely hard
People hate tow truck drivers? That’s something I’ve never come across - what’s the alternative? Sitting in your broken down car hoping for divine intervention? Tow truck drivers are awesome.
I'll have to show this to my SO. He's a tow truck operator. It's been in the family for over 30 years. He has taught me so much about laws and how to tow a car. I pass the info onto others so they don't get screwed over.
They are not the ones who decide to repo your car. A financial company makes that decision. That company pays the tow truck driver x amount of money to take the risk of retrieving the car that you possess yet do not legally own. Also the amount is never enough for them to risk their life for your vehicle.
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Criminal defense attorneys
In the uk, criminal defence barristers are allotted cases on a taxi rank basis - the take the next case, and don’t pick and choose. It is an absolutely necessary part of law that everyone gets a solid defence- if they don’t, how can you be sure that the right person has been convicted? Those people who you demonise for defending horrific cases may some day be defending you. It’s not only guilty people who are prosecuted - Birmingham six, Guildford four, Colin Stagg (thankfully acquitted) Derek Bentley, and countless others maliciously prosecuted by the police and CPS. Defence barristers are your last hope if you are unlucky enough to find yourself in that position.
My daughter is going into the public defenders office and she says it’s because everyone deserves a good defense
Load More Replies...I worked for one once & on his office building door it read something like. Sex crimes, murder, armed robbery, I’m your guy. I get everyone is entitled to a defense but come on. Why would you go out of your way to defend these scum.
Because rent is due. Criminal attorneys only make money by defending people accused of a crime. Sometimes it's horrible crime. And if every lawyer in the world said they wouldn't take the case, a judge would compel one to because if the criminal doesn't feel like he has adequate representation, he can sue and get the verdict thrown out. I would rather a child molester get defended as best they can and get his as$ is jail and he can't appeal it. Also, there have been many, many people who everyone is SURE did a crime and we find out they really were innocent and they wouldn't have been in jail as long as they had been had they been adequately represented.
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Locksmiths, or people in general who know how to pick locks or how they work.
What?! This is nonsense. I've never ever heard anybody talk down to locksmiths, or use it as an insult/threat to someone that's not 'making it' in life, nor even heard bring up locksmiths outside of some issue with a lock. And lockpicking is a hobby with a growing group of people (see also LPL, the LockPickingLawyer, on YT).
A lot of people see them as licensed criminals. I guess I can kind of see how people could get that idea if I squint real hard and tip my head just right. Sort of. Not really. Given what they do, I'm sure a few criminals do try to get into the industry, but I've never met one and it certainly doesn't seem to be the rule.
Load More Replies...Nah, nobody hates locksmiths. Well, at least not until 2:00 AM when they refuse to unlock your car for you because you are too drunk.
This is such an unintentionally savage comment lol I love it
Load More Replies...Sometimes people look down on those who understand something that other people don't understand how a lock works and how to manipulate it is a task that only certain people grasp
I’ve never heard anyone say anything bad about locksmiths. That one guy in every family who likes to pick locks is a whole ‘nother story.
UX designer here. Every engineer thinks they know how to make an interface, yet the software or site they create is terrible and they would rather accuse users of being dumb than admit their baby stinks.
Same here. You can always tell when a system was built by an engineer coz everything works (most of the time) but it's almost impossible for anyone else to use it. It's fine if it's just other engineers using the software coz they'll figure it out. It's so great when you finally get to work with someone who appreciates the value of a system that works as intended but is also very easy to use, even for someone with limited tech knowledge
As an IT infrastructure engineer I wholeheartedly disagree. I am fully aware that I do not have the skills to code a good frontend, and have great admiration for those who do.
You're the kind of engineer UX designers love to work with :) But also quite rare in my experience. Sometimes it takes forever to convince someone that having two grey buttons next to each other, one saying 'Yes' and one saying 'No' isn't the best practice :) When you design the same thing with a green button with a tick and 'Yes' in text, and a red button with an X and 'No', they will insist that it's unnecessary as people should just read the text before pressing anything, not rely on pretty colours. That is when you start considering giving up and moving to Nepal to live as a goat :)
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The guys *actually* trying to contact you about your cars extended warranty
If I need it, I can find one without having some putz blow up my phone.
I get these calls at least 10x a day for years, yet I've never owned a car in my entire life.
I guess if I am paying for it I would want them contact me if there was an issue
I'm really sorry but I've seen that meme too much sorry I laughed 😅
HR
My mom is in hr, for 35 years now. Someone makes her cry at least twice a week. She's being paid to do a job, so she does her job. And gets abused for it. The employees always want her to bend the rules. The bosses always want her to do the hard parts of their job. She can't win. Just like most hr people.
Many people think that HR is a barrier in business. May be so. But try running a business without HR. That would be a whole new world of pain. Btw - I don't work in HR
HR is generally resrved for people who couldn't make it as management
Totally disagree. I am not sure it is possible for somebody to keep all the HR regulations in their head and also do the other management requirements. When I had a good HO worker my whole operation ran smoother
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Insurance or tax people
This is a tricky one coz with insurance people, sometimes you hate them even more when you need them if they keep trying to weasel their way out of paying up :)
This. I had cut rate insurance most of my life and hated insurance people in general. Now I have good insurance through a local agent who knows who I am. She is amazing, I never have to jump through hoops. The few times I’ve filed a claim I send her the basic info and forget about it and she takes care of. All of my insurance in one place too which is nice. Down side is that it’s about 50% more money than cheap insurance.
Proctologist
Doctors specialized in everything concerning the r****m area.
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Journalism feels more and more like this.
Depends on the kind of journalism, entertainment journalist are basically just PR employees for studios nowadays or activists trying to get attention, at least the US outlets look like that
Real journalists are rare anymore or burried in the sheer volume of people writing opinions for clicks. It's also quite clear that regardless of topic or political leanings news in the US has decided there's more money in outrage. Not necessarily the fault of the individual journalists but It doesn't encourage trust for sure. It was extremely disturbing to see clearly marked journalists covering protests and riots having flash grenades and tear gas directed at them though. Press used to be off limits.
Journalists report what advertisers allow them report. The modern journalist is a corporate lapdog that only barks when asked to do so.
I for one would welcome a little judicious application of socialism, where appropriate (i.e. universal healthcare). Besides, some of our (the US) most successful and beloved government programs are socialist programs (highways, education, postal service).
Load More Replies...Veterinary professionals.
Who doesn't like vets?? What the hell is wrong with them? All the intense training of MDs with none of the glory?
Some people don't like what the animal doctor is telling them to do to take care of your pet. Yes they need their vaccinations. Yes, they'll say something if they think you're abusing your pet. No, they're not just recommending this treatment because they want more money from you.
Did you know… it costs us much to go to vet school in the United States as it does to go to medical school in the United States but gosh charge anywhere close to a doctor's office visit for a vet visit and people are screaming at you
Veterinarians study 6 years to work in that field and have to do everything from treating an infection to performing surgeries on several different species. A specialisation for a task or animal requires additional study time
Vets in the US study 8+ years (four as undergrad, 8 for vet school, then residency, sometimes fellowships)
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accounting.
If you mean bean counters stifling innovation and manufacturing quality, as well as employee pay, because "stockholder value", there is something to that.
That's what managment does and not the accountants, they just make sure that everything money related is at the right place of a list and update it based on changes. They make calculations about prices and such, too based on different factors but hand those over to the person who's in charge
Load More Replies...Best lie I ever bought. If you don't like people become an accountant. Did you know people are extra weird about money? I'm a corporate accountant so only business finance. They still get super weird.
"Lawyer" is going to be the most common answer to this question by *far.* But I suppose any licensed service provider could fall into this category, given the right context. Plumbers are another good example. Everyone thinks they're scum and crooks until the washing machine breaks down. Electricians, contractors, locksmiths, etc. They all fit this mold. Unless you work with them daily, you're not going to be seeing them very often. And you're only seeing them when there's a problem -- so you're primed to be upset by the time they even show up. Psychologically, you associate the plumbing issue with the plumber, when ironically, the plumber is there to fix it. Everyone wants to shoot the messenger. IT people and network security professionals are another classic example of this effect.
Contractors.
Maintenance
Realtors. Everyone hates them until they dig up some serious dirt on a property and help you dodge a bullet. The caveat is the barrier to entry to become a realtor is way too low. Bad realtors are on every corner and can cost you big, but a good realtor is worth their weight in gold.
realtors NEVER show you what is really wrong with the place and they're generally cagey about why the person is selling. Usually it's (a) the owner is bankrupt and let the place go to s**t, or (b) the neighbours are nightmarish. Every time I've bought a place older than about 5 years it's been one of those issues.
I've never moved for either of those reasons. And, yeah, I've never owned/sold a home, but my parents have *many* times, and I don't think they've ever moved for either of those reasons either.
Load More Replies...Land Surveyor here, I've dealt with way too many realtors. Had a client seriously pissed at us because his realtor told him he owned the property all the way back to the woods. Started a big fight because his neighbor was mowing his line, so he hired us to mark his property corners. Well, he didn't own all the way to the woods, not even close. His neighbor was not mowing over the property line at all. He was pissed at us, trying to say we were screwing him, that we moved the lines, all kinds of nonsense. Realtors lie. They will do anything to make the sale, because they get the commission.
Realtors generally represent the seller. Your interests as a buyer will not be foremost for them.
My parents had to sue the seller's agent because she told mold remediators not to remove cabinetry to properly remove mold because it would affect a sales feature. The remediators also got sued for that and a complete c**k up of the whole remediation. As did the environmental agency who supposedly tested the house and cleared it but did things impropetly. My parent's agent absolutely dropped the ball. They didn't go after him only because the case against the others was stronger if he made a statement. I've met very few agents who think mold is really that big of a deal.
Realtors' interest is in a quick sale, not the highest possible price for your house. A month where they sell five houses at a commission of $3000 each is better for them than a month where they sell two houses at a commission of $6000 each. Fast turnover makes more money for them than the quality of their representation.
Psychiatrists
Influencers. They annoy me until I need a product review before purchasing something expensive.
An influencer is the last place I would look for a review. I would just assume anything they post is paid advertising.
Influencers are paid advertisers, they "influence" customers to buy the product of their sponsors.
There are reputable review sites that are NOT run by influencers. Go to them, not wherever you have been going to. Influencers have NO place.
The only "influencer" I trust is a friend from college who (without being paid for it) started posting regularly about torrid and how she loved their clothes. After several years of this, torrid actually hired her to be an official torrid influencer. I went there for the first time, and now understand what all the fuss is about.
no you can simply buy based on brand. If you've not heard of it, it will be 50/50 probably c**p. If you've heard of it, it might be c**p but they will have a returns policy. simple.
I want to add "farmers". People dont realise how difficult it is to manage a few hundred hectares of plants in random weather conditions and actually yield a good crop. It's not trivial at all. And without them we are dead.
As a farm kid, I thank you. One bad day can ruin a season of hard work.
Load More Replies...I am a translator. Private customers only hate me when I tell them how much I charge. People think that you will translate their 80,000 words romance for USD 2-300 (I can do it for 5,000-6,000, instead). That's why I usually don't deal with privates.
Marcos, I work in the linguistic field and used to be a translator as well. The linguistics field is so severely underpaid despite the amount of education and skill it takes to become a specialized translator (I did government and literature--weird combo I know). Many professional translators have a specialized domain that they work within like pharmaceutical text and spend years upon years of study honing their specialization. A lot of my clients are medical and governmental and the amount they want to pay our linguists for translation and interpretation is laughable at times. It is always "how fast can you get this". Whelp, you can either pay me pennies and get it done by Goolgle Translate or have it done by a skilled translator. We help people communicate is some of the most dire situations yet we are still paid peanuts.
Load More Replies...My approach is that we over-value too many USELESS occupations and they are admired and financially rewarded for activities that provide ZERO societal benefit - Actors, musicians, star athletes, CEO's of mega-corps, a majority of politicians, etc. THOSE are the folks we need to take down a few notches.
Very few actors and musicians make enough money to live on. I think you are referring to those with celebrity status? But most actors are making tv commercials, or working at local theaters, etc. Most musicians are playing at bars in 2 or 3 states around where they live.
Load More Replies...Medical doctors. God gets all the credit for the saves, we get all the blame for the losses. "How didn't you...." Well, why didn't the deity? I've heard "thank you, doctor" maybe a dozen times in nearly 25 years. And we accept that we're there in the worst situations as a rule. But don't hate us b/c we can't magically fix mortality. We die, too, y'know.
Whoever downvoted, please go work a Covid ward where people weren't brought in till they were spitting out bloody sputum, and their Trumpista family are screaming at you for "killing them" with a "hoax".... When granny could've lived if they'd prayed less and gotten her butt to a doctor more.
Load More Replies...Let me add corrections system employees whether security or non security employees. You expect us to keep the criminals behind razor wire so you can " be safe " but you complain about raising taxes to pay us a living wage. You know why drugs and other contraband are getting inside by staff members? It's because that officer or office specialist isn't able to pay $1,500 rent and pay bills and eat on a $29K a year salary but they can when they get $1K to bring in fent.
I'm a correctional worker and let me tell you something. You don't know how much we actually DO. The justice system throws people away with zero thought of how they'd react the to the correctional system. We go through literal hell and we're seen as the lowest of the law enforcement pool. You book them and we deal with them for either our life or theirs!
Pest Control Techs. I used to be one and a big part of my job was calming down excited women and assuring them the problem is/would be resolved. One case: A woman was pulling down Xmas decorations and a dead rat fell out. I pulled down all of her decorations to make sure that was the only one. Treating fleas, cockroaches, carpenter ants and solving the problem. One day I was at a customer's house and her kid was trying to describe a bug. I asked if she had one and she pointed to a grey smudge on the wall...
It's almost as if the world is a big complicated place and glorifying college/office work as the salvation for generations of kids was an awful idea...
I want to add "farmers". People dont realise how difficult it is to manage a few hundred hectares of plants in random weather conditions and actually yield a good crop. It's not trivial at all. And without them we are dead.
As a farm kid, I thank you. One bad day can ruin a season of hard work.
Load More Replies...I am a translator. Private customers only hate me when I tell them how much I charge. People think that you will translate their 80,000 words romance for USD 2-300 (I can do it for 5,000-6,000, instead). That's why I usually don't deal with privates.
Marcos, I work in the linguistic field and used to be a translator as well. The linguistics field is so severely underpaid despite the amount of education and skill it takes to become a specialized translator (I did government and literature--weird combo I know). Many professional translators have a specialized domain that they work within like pharmaceutical text and spend years upon years of study honing their specialization. A lot of my clients are medical and governmental and the amount they want to pay our linguists for translation and interpretation is laughable at times. It is always "how fast can you get this". Whelp, you can either pay me pennies and get it done by Goolgle Translate or have it done by a skilled translator. We help people communicate is some of the most dire situations yet we are still paid peanuts.
Load More Replies...My approach is that we over-value too many USELESS occupations and they are admired and financially rewarded for activities that provide ZERO societal benefit - Actors, musicians, star athletes, CEO's of mega-corps, a majority of politicians, etc. THOSE are the folks we need to take down a few notches.
Very few actors and musicians make enough money to live on. I think you are referring to those with celebrity status? But most actors are making tv commercials, or working at local theaters, etc. Most musicians are playing at bars in 2 or 3 states around where they live.
Load More Replies...Medical doctors. God gets all the credit for the saves, we get all the blame for the losses. "How didn't you...." Well, why didn't the deity? I've heard "thank you, doctor" maybe a dozen times in nearly 25 years. And we accept that we're there in the worst situations as a rule. But don't hate us b/c we can't magically fix mortality. We die, too, y'know.
Whoever downvoted, please go work a Covid ward where people weren't brought in till they were spitting out bloody sputum, and their Trumpista family are screaming at you for "killing them" with a "hoax".... When granny could've lived if they'd prayed less and gotten her butt to a doctor more.
Load More Replies...Let me add corrections system employees whether security or non security employees. You expect us to keep the criminals behind razor wire so you can " be safe " but you complain about raising taxes to pay us a living wage. You know why drugs and other contraband are getting inside by staff members? It's because that officer or office specialist isn't able to pay $1,500 rent and pay bills and eat on a $29K a year salary but they can when they get $1K to bring in fent.
I'm a correctional worker and let me tell you something. You don't know how much we actually DO. The justice system throws people away with zero thought of how they'd react the to the correctional system. We go through literal hell and we're seen as the lowest of the law enforcement pool. You book them and we deal with them for either our life or theirs!
Pest Control Techs. I used to be one and a big part of my job was calming down excited women and assuring them the problem is/would be resolved. One case: A woman was pulling down Xmas decorations and a dead rat fell out. I pulled down all of her decorations to make sure that was the only one. Treating fleas, cockroaches, carpenter ants and solving the problem. One day I was at a customer's house and her kid was trying to describe a bug. I asked if she had one and she pointed to a grey smudge on the wall...
It's almost as if the world is a big complicated place and glorifying college/office work as the salvation for generations of kids was an awful idea...

