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If you find yourself frowning upon something someone younger is doing, that most likely means one of two things: you’re either too old to understand what the current youth is up to—as most of us probably are—or you’re simply a grumpy person in general, which is an entirely different matter.

If you belong to the former category, find comfort in the fact that you are far from the only one baffled by all sorts of youngster trends. Be it a new hairstyle every other male under insert a certain age here is walking around with or activities teenagers are taking part in, it might not be easy to identify with a generation that grew up in an entirely different world. But we should probably at least try to understand them, no matter how confusing it all is. (Goodness knows, we’ve gone through a phase of trends our parents found odd, too.)

If you’re curious about what are some of the things young people do that absolutely baffle those older than them, scroll down to find netizens' answers to an ‘Ask Reddit’ thread on the matter started by u/Fyre-Bringer to find out.

If you scroll down, you will also find Bored Panda’s interview with Professor of Sociology and Director of the Center of Innovation in Social Science, Dr. Deborah Carr, who was kind enough to answer a few of our questions regarding generational differences.

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50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around Just fully watching videos in public with no headphones. Where are your headphones? I don’t want to hear your TikTok clips.

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    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around Gen X here. I don't understand the eyelash thing where they're so long and fluffy that you look like Snuffleupagus. I also don't understand the nails that are so long you can't function. Like, how do you wipe?

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    Cooking Panda
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For me it's the brows. Some people draw ridiculous brows so thick they look like someone stuck duct tapes on their forehead

    My O My
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone who was a teen in the early 2000s it's even more ridiculous

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    Fussy1
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I honestly can't tell sometimes if the person with the half inch eye lashes is stoned or if they just look that way because they can't open their eyes all the way from the weight of the lashes?

    tuzdayschild
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    GenX here. As long as those eyelashes aren't smacking me in the head, not my business.

    Mira Simpson
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right. Lotta judgey people here. And my natural nails are quite long & I manage just fine 🙂

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    Maggie Fulton
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The long nails have been around for decades, but the lashes…yike. O I don’t know how they do anything with those nails.

    E.V.
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh no, not like today's long nails! Dip, acrylic, etc. And for some reason they really like them super long and pointy!

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    Tabitha
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You must not be old enough to remember the late sixties and early seventies.

    Becky Samuel
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are people so obsessed with other people's wiping habits? How is it any of your business? I'm sure when you were younger you made some pretty terrible fashion choices that you cringe at now.

    LauraDragonWench
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm with ya on the nail thing. Then again, I was asking the same question 20 years ago when I saw women walking around with 3 inch claws on their fingers, especially when I saw ones that were disgustingly discolored and with suspicious looking crud underneath. Like, how? Why? Not just wiping, but any bodily function - how? I feel sorry for their sex partner, that's for sure.

    Jessica SpeLangm
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why ya gotta insult Snuffleupagus? He didn't do anything wrong. LOL.

    CrazyKnitter
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think the nail thing is new. I had an assistant manager 10+ years ago with them and I had the same question.

    Appalachian Panda
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    GenX here, too. Dude, we grew up in the 80s. Don’t you remember what we looked like when we were young? Boy George and Twisted Sister were our style icons. We’ve got no room to criticize anybody.

    Nimitz
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol, I know so many people who go for eyelash extensions and are ending up like people from the 90s who overplucked their eyebrows. Enjoy having no eyelashes or eyebrows the rest of your life dumb cosmetic reasons. The cringe is nuclear

    Rob D
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    6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Super long, pointy nail look is f*****g disgusting. Sanitation aside, (and don't try to tell me they keep that s**t clean) it looks so trashy.

    eMp Tee
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...this and the trend of painting on two inch wide eyebrows.

    Sarah Jones
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Long nails have been around a long time…there was a woman who worked on the till at my local swimming baths, whose nails were so long they curled round like rams’ horns. She could only operate the till by pressing the buttons with the end of a pen.

    Anya Beboop
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Best friend's nails are only half as long as most of them but she always asks for help opening bottles and jars and anything similar. Personally as a beautician I know it's hard to keep them clean.

    Candid Panda
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The long nails and eyelashes have been around awhile so this isn't just a young person thing.

    Janet L
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    2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also all the nail embellishments… how do they get anything done? You can often see the nail stubs under the false ones too which is horrible.

    Juanita Sullivan
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why? Why is anyone spending money on unnecessary c**p just to fit it or impress someone? Just be yourself and be happy with that. One finds out who their real friends are when you are just you.

    Surfing Panda
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't like them.... but that's not half as bad as all the silly cones (not a typo), lipfillers, buttfillers, and oh....piercings everywhere.... even if they can't talk properly anymore because of them...

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The fake lashes of our daughters teacher were so long and thick, that she literally couldn't hold her eyes open.

    LargeMarge
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am GenX as well and the long eyelash thing has been around, at least, since the mid-60s. Nothing new, I saw people wearing it in the 80s. It's just back in style now as with other stuff.

    Stephen Lyford
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm Gen X, and I think the OP Gen X needs to stop worrying about other people and more about themselves. Unless of course random younger people are coming up to them and giving them butterfly kisses that borderline on a beating, and someone else giving them lacerations when wiping their a*s for them, in which case this whine is totally justified.

    Michelle Brown
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Couple of giant tarantulas hanging off the eyelids lol also comedy eyebrows that look like someone drew them on with a marker pen

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    6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ridiculous ! Those lashes look like you stole them off a VW Beetle !

    Jason
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's funny women pride themselves on these lashes, maybe they should research and see why they were made and what type of profession lmao

    Jesha
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do whatever you want! Your body is your own! I'd die though purely because already I get distracted by the light hitting my eyelashes.

    Lee Henderson
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She appears to have spilled powdered make up all over her face.

    Kathleen McGann
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand wearing huge false eyelashes during the day, like at work or school. For a night out, sure. Glam up. But for work? It's like wearing Jimmy Choo's to go running.

    Ralph Watkins
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They had a rather crude nickname in the UK 70 years ago. C*mbrellas. Coined by a prostitute who used to wear them on the job.

    Lara Verne
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How is this younger generation problem? I saw people all ageswith broom eyelashes

    antoinette maldari
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most fashion trends are started by celebrities. I give credit to the ridiculously long nails to that trash bag, Cardi B. Maybe those stupid looking eyelashes too.

    sbj
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work in a lab and one of my colleagues wears them to work and she can barely lift her eyelids

    Ephemera Image
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The eyelashes look revolting. I see pretty women with these caterpillar eyes and I can't imagine how that must feel. Usually it's just the top half and they look weird overlapping the outer eye as well. They could start a windstorm flapping those things. And how do they keep the area clean?

    Betty Vanderhooven-SchmaaSchmaa
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a dear friend, in her 60s, that wears false lashes, her cats just love it when she drops one.

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    Roger9er
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe it's fun to tell them to look up where those fake eyelashes originated from. Heh heh.

    François Bouzigues
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a gen-x, fake ashes was a major no-no. Like hookers or stripper only would do back then.

    Marie Clear
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I lived on the east coast for an IT job from 1990 to 1993. I can vouch that half of all the young women from Brooklyn and 100% of the young women from Staten Island had fingernails so long they definitely could not function. I had a secretary who was so much like Carol Burnett's Mrs Whiggins that skit gave me PTSD forever after.

    Reset Game
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd like to know about the nail one..... Are they into like some kink where they have someone wipe them?

    Vinga Älvebjörk
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All these people wondering how one wipes with long nails one wonders if they put their fingers in when wiping ? Why would it be more difficult to wipe with long nails? 😂.

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    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around Not knowing how to use punctuation. The lack of punctuation drives me nuts. I shouldn’t have to read something 50 times because you don’t know how to place a period or a comma when needed.

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    Discussing the topic of generational differences, Professor of Sociology and Director of the Center of Innovation in Social Science Dr. Deborah Carr told Bored Panda that every generation tends to critique “the youth of today”, implying that the way they did things as young people is superior to what young people are doing nowadays.

    “During periods of very rapid change, those generational gaps are the largest,” she noted. “If two generations were raised in very different social or economic consequences, the attitudinal gaps will be the largest.

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    “For instance, we have witnessed tremendous advances in recent years with respects to the rights and visibility of LGBTQIA persons – younger people are thus much more accepting than past generations. It’s important to recognize that generations can educate one another and help to expand each other’s horizons, and that education can go up and down the generational ladder.”

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    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around Grammar. I'm not even talking about missing commas and s**t I just want them to know the difference between "you're" and "your"

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    According to Prof. Carr, some of the reasons why older people find certain youngster trends or habits difficult to understand are based on the fact that said people are unfamiliar with them, the trends conflict with their personal values, or they don’t see any value in them.

    “For instance, older people may judge younger people for spending money on expensive coffees, clothing, or computer gadgets because they view it as wasteful. However, it’s important to remember that young people today often are strapped with educational debt, health care bills and other factors that are eroding their savings. The occasional luxury purchase can be a short-term way to exert autonomy and personal choice.”

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    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around Making every single phone call via speakerphone, especially when holding the phone directly next to the side of their head because they can’t hear.

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate anyone who does this. I don't care about your conversation. I don't want to hear it.

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    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around Literally commiting crimes as part of social media trends. Especially the "licking ice cream at the store and putting it back" challenge, that's a straight up health code violation.

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's more of a "the f is wrong with you" smack alongside the head thing.

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    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around For a generation that loves social media, we are very anti-social. Lots of us cannot hold conversations or try to avoid them entirely. Another thing is how terrible literacy is amongst this generation while also loving social media. Cell phones have caused pure brain rot as people cannot function without them at all which baffles me. My parents didn’t buy me a phone until I was a sophomore in high school and it drove me nuts when people asked me how to do this or that without thinking prior to use common sense and figure it out. Critical thinking hit a massive decline from what I have noticed as well. Hope this comment isn’t harsh but being a part of one of the young generations I’m frustrated and annoyed. Please enlighten me if I am just wrong about any of this.

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    “Older adults also may have difficulty understanding actions or behaviors that were less common when they were young,” Dr. Carr added. “For instance, very casual dress, large tattoos and multiple piercings are more common and socially accepted today, yet it could be a difficult pill to swallow for older adults who were raised to present themselves more formally – especially at work.”

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    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around Creating GoFundMe pages for cosmetic surgery and/or procedures.

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    Not being taught to tell time by where the hands are on a clock.

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    Millennial here: Baffled at the number of people having children with various "baby daddies" and "baby mamas" that all seem to be horrible people. Do they not vet their partners at all before making them parents? It's like there's not even the expectation anymore that two people would raise their kids together.

    (Note: This probably sounds judgemental, but I genuinely am just baffled.).

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gen x - AGREE! Why in the world would you purposely bring a child especially multiple children into a world where you know the kids are most likely going to grow up in poverty. 🤦‍♀️

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    According to the expert, the thing that has influenced or shaped current youth the most is undoubtedly social media. “Young people today craft identities and tell narratives about their lives—whether fact, fiction, or somewhere in between—online. More importantly, they often derive their self-worth from others’ responses to the images they put out there. The number of likes, views, or followers they receive, the praise—or insults—they receive online, and other indicators of their online presentations are critically important to their self-views.

    “In past generations, we certainly cared about what our classmates and peers thought about us, but we had less data and it was less pervasive and in-your-face. So, we probably felt better about ourselves,” she added.

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    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around Doing incredibly embarrassing things for social media attention.

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    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around Mostly Im baffled by how poorly educated young people are these days. History, Geography, Sciences, Maths, Literature..so much knowledge is missing.

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    #14

    Face tattoos. I don't really have a problem with tattoos generally, but come on man, it's your face.

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't have a problem with cultural tattoos, but the other ones are just so dumb. There's no reason for words to be on your face.

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    If youth trends baffle you too, and you want to understand the youngsters better, “talk to a young person,” Dr. Carr suggested. “Ask what’s important to them, and why. Or, ask them for a recommendation for a TV show, podcast, or influencer whom they appreciate, or a book that they found particularly influential, and then discuss it with them.

    “The only way we can bridge generational rifts—or rifts more generally—is to get to know one another as individuals, rather than relying on false stereotypes.”

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    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around Broccoli haircuts.

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every generation has to have haircuts that will embarrass them when they reach 30.

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    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around That literacy rates are plummeting. This one is so confusing! How can you be the chronically online generation unable to read?

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Constantly watching short snippets of videos and Tik Tocs has caused an attention deficit. Why read when you can watch c**p all day?

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    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around Taking parents to job interviews.
    Lincoln_Park_Pirate:
    It just happened at my workplace for the first time (television). Blew my mind. Mom waited in the lobby but came in for the negotiations. Applicant was 26 years old.

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    The professor continued to emphasize the importance of understanding one another by pointing out that every generation manages the best they can, managing the hand they’ve been dealt.

    “Younger people today have faced highly distressing events throughout their lives – from rampant school shootings to vast political divisiveness to isolation during COVID. If we see younger people feeling anxious, distressed, or fearful of their future, we should understand where they’re coming from, rather than judging them or holding them against a standard that’s unrealistic.”

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    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around Becoming addicted to nicotine. I thought younglings would be a little less stupid than us.

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    Young people seek information by watching TikTok content rather than Googling the answers. If you have a lot of time to spare, you will often get good info, but I'm middle-aged, and I've always been a big reader. I will do almost anything to avoid having to watch stuff (or listen, for that matter) when I can more quickly visually skim and immediately determine if the information is relevant to me and seems legit.

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like it depends on the topic. When I want to learn a new crochet stitch or method, I turn to tiktok because I can watch several quick, focused videos of different people doing the same thing and I can synthesize all of that different information and figure out which demonstration makes the most sense to me, instead of having to try and replicate written instructions with my hands or having to navigate through a youtube video's introduction, sponserships, and ads to try and find the 30 seconds of the video I actually need to see. But for facts and knowledge, I always put the effort into the research.

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    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around I guess there’s like elementary schoolers with a skincare routine now?? That’s nuts….
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    I saw some people in the skincare addiction sub today recommending that a 17-year-old get Botox and retinol for the lines on their forehead. Insanity.

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone here's heard of these "Sephora Kids" before? Young girls that buy anti aging creams and stuff like that for their skin. A 12 year old doesn't need this stuff, and it's bad for their young skin as well

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    Anything Andrew Tate.

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Google: Who is Andrew Tate and what did he do? Andrew Tate, an online influencer known for his displays of wealth and his misogynistic views, is facing criminal accusations over sexual misconduct in two separate cases. Mr. Tate and his brother, Tristan Tate, have since 2022 been battling charges from Romanian prosecutors that include human trafficking. Apr 26, 2024

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    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around I've trained 3 early 20s co-workers now that don't use the Shift key to capitalize letters. They hit caps lock, type the letter to be capitalized, then hit caps lock again.

    I can't wrap my head around it.

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    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around I run a restaurant, and employ a bunch of young people. EVERY dude under 25 has bangs, some significantly longer than the rest of their hair. I call them *Flock of Seagulls*. They don't get the reference.

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    #24

    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around Binge watching short videos compiled so you never watch anything with a plot or storyline. Just tons of 10-60 sec videos and most of them suck.

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    There was a group of teenagers in the parking lot talking about scientology, and they were thinking it was a neat religion, like a bunch of them were genuinely interested.

    I've never hit a child before...but holy hell their brains needed to be reset.

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    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around I'm not really too baffled, I just see a lot of worrying trends.

    The main thing that concerns me is the steep decline in mental health among young people since smartphones went mainstream and we got the internet in our pockets. I'm not shocked at all to see it but it is very bad.

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    6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i love my belly-button, so why don't people acknowledges me. Me me me me me me edit : doesn't ?

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    #27

    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around Vaping. Isn't it clear by now that inhaling fumes is not really a good idea?

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The part that I found the most troubling is how many adults are introduced to nicotine through vaping. I started smoking cigarettes as a teenager (as teens do) and smoked for 9-10 years. Vaping was a less destructive alternative for me. I'm sure it's not good for me but it can't be worse than cigarettes. Of course I wish teens/preteens wouldn't pick up the habit but adults should know better.

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    The popularity of "nuisance streamers" with younger folks. I don't find being a public nuisance even a little bit entertaining or funny, especially when its being filmed.

    Also just in general the trend of filming, photographing and trying to make "content" out of their entire life in some vain hope of becoming internet famous. I don't get it. Last thing i'd ever want to do is have my entire life posted on the internet.

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    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around Allowing every one of their friends on Snapchat to know their location at all times. Like seriously. My 23 year old coworker and her friends are constantly revoking and then reinstating their visible location depending on if they're happy or mad with each other. If someone notices that they can't see where another person is, they'll actually bring it up, wondering what they did to upset them. Her best friend will ask her friend to check her boyfriends location, and whichever friend he told her he'd be with, to make sure they match. I told my coworker that it's weird for everyone you know to know where you are.

    At least I can kinda understand family members knowing, but even then, my siblings don't need to know where I am at all times, and my parents should maybe stop constantly checking once I hit 18? 21 surely. Lol. Her sister will text her asking why she went certain places because she constantly checks location on her. They have an app on their phones specifically so they can always see where family members are. Her dad texted her once she got home and didn't come inside after 5 minutes. He knew she just drove up. She was simply typing out a reply a text to a friend before getting out of her car. Again...she's 23.

    Idk, I guess if you grow up with it, you don't think it's weird. I'm 43, I certainly didn't grow up with people having the ability to know where I am at all times unless I told them or called them.

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    #30

    Not using condoms. My generation was raised hearing about Ryan White and seeing Very Special Episodes about why we didn't want AIDS and everything else. Apparently some younger people aren't worried about it anymore.

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On the other end of that gambit, I recently learned of a retirement community in which the incidence of venereal disease is very high.

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    #31

    Making fun of another kid because they don't have a specific water tumbler. It sounds like somebody is trying to parody "making fun of other kids for having the 'wrong' brand of clothes or phone".

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, dammit, you have to be part of the In crowd! So it’s water tumblers now, is it? I suppose it makes a change from sneakers.

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    #32

    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around All the self labeling. When I was young, we avoided labels at all costs!

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is defined as self labelling? I’m gay? I have ADHD? I have anxiety? Most of what people designate as labels are part of someone’s identity and their life. We just have more awareness of how many factors might be part of someone’s life than we used to.

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    #33

    Calling anyone with a different opinion a troll. I see it over and over and over.  I do not understand and I can only feel pity.

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    #34

    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around I use my phone a fair bit, but it's really hard to imagine it being my *only computer*. I need at least 20 inches of screen, a trackball and a keyboard with physical buttons just to *think* properly. I don't want to budget my battery to last all day in case an important text comes through. I want my internet signals sent over a hard wire. When my computer stops working, I want to open it up and swap the broken part with a better one.

    But if my web analytics are at all a representation, more than half of everyone is only looking at the internet through their phones.

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    #35

    I listened to a 23-year-old (more than a decade younger than me) say she wanted to start 'preventative Botox.' Girl...

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    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around I know a girl that had plastic surgery by the time she was 19.
    When I first met her, she was literally a ten. Now, she's funny looking.

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess the fact that people will refer to others as a "ten" kinda explains people's obsessions with their looks....

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    #37

    Being unable to read beyond sight words.

    Like they CAN read, but not the same way you and I assumably can. They can read words but only because they are recognizing the word itself the same way you might recognize the picture of a bee as a bee or when you read now a lot of it IS sight reading in that you're likely not reading this comment sounding out all the letters- but if you came across a word you didn't know you'd likely have the skillset to read it anyways or at least give an educated guess.

    I worked as a teacher and this past year I've been hearing more and more complaints from the higher grades/up even into highschool that their students by and large aren't able to sound out words/read like we were taught to. That's not to say NONE can but it's a significant issue that absolutely baffles me.

    Like, I legitimately can't tell if this is some elaborate joke and they forgot to cue in the laughtrack to cue me in or what; but from the conversations I've had they know what letters make what sounds like "a" makes "ay" and "ah" but not how to USE this information functionally when presented a word they don't know before. This skill just.. apparently wasn't challenged and because the kids presumably COULD read (by sight) the issue wasn't recognized until recently. I'm honestly hoping this is JUST our small towns issue and not widespread as I don't even know where to begin dismantling such a profound oversight.

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    #39

    The rising support and voting for extreme right parties/pundits among young people in the West. The people leading these parties will ruin everything resembling a future that you might have. These are awful times to become an adult in, but they do NOT care about you or your plight as a younger generation.

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look on the bright side. The recent Euro elections in the Nordic countries saw the far right lose a lot of support. Not bucking the trend, but ahead of the curve, they say: apparently it turns out that the far right are rubbish in government. They got votes, they had influence in government, then they lost votes. https://www.theguardian.com/world/article/2024/jun/11/left-wing-nordic-nations-provide-ray-of-hope-in-europe

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    #40

    Today on reddit one told me they refuse to show up to an initial job interview that is in person. They demand the employer use zoom to interview them. It was baffling.

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    One thing that baffles me is how much time and energy the younger generation spends on social media. It's amazing to see how much they are constantly on their phones, checking notifications, posting updates, and scrolling through endless feeds. I can't imagine being so connected to technology all the time and not taking breaks to be present in the moment. It's a completely different way of living that I struggle to understand.

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once stood behind a person struggling to pay, pack do anything at the supermarket checkout because they had their phone in front of their face. They weren't talking to anyone or anything, could have just sat it down or put it in their pocket or something. Funny thing is they paid with cash..........

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    #42

    Giving up. I work with some twenty-somethings, and many of them are completely defeated. They don't think they'll ever own a home or have a meaningful career or get out of debt. They just throw up their hands and resign themselves to a life of drudgery, bills and the occasional weekend bender.

    They don't want to be astronauts or engineers or rock stars, they just want to escape reality by way of d***s, videogames and endless screen time.

    Who is going to rule the world?

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately there's a lot of horrible things happening in the world so I kind of understand this. We've got a felon who is still running for president, over 600,000 homeless people, women's rights over their own body being taken away from them, the necessity to make four times the rent just to have an apartment and the cost of an education even trade school is extremely expensive.

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    #44

    Wearing earbuds at work during a shift on an active, collaborative team. (I think earbuds aren't a problem at all for quiet, focused work, or work where there's not much need to speak with others at a moment's notice.)

    I understand that many of them can easily hear things, but in my brain, earbuds carry a strong "do not talk to me" message that makes it hard not to see them as inappropriate at work unless someone is hunkering down for a longer, quieter solo task.

    At worst , I see them being a hazard in certain workplaces (my own workplace for example, a metal fabrication lab, a lack of full attention could lead to nasty consequences), and at best, I think they send a less than respectful message to coworkers.

    I suppose that people have no obligation to treat their coworkers with more than the minimum of respect and courtesy, but I figure that having some friendly connections at work could make each shift more enjoyable for everyone.

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a huge problem in the school where I teach. Our junior and senior high kids will not take their earphones off, and it's very disrespectful. I wish it was enforced as a rule that they stay in lockers during class time unless they are being used specifically with a device for class, for educational purposes.

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    #46

    I can't understand why today's kids want to watch YouTube videos of kids or adults opening up new toys and playing with them! Why would any kid want to watch someone else play with toys instead of their own?

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To see if it's actually something they want. Or a way to discover new products.

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    #47

    Children as young as 12 drinking coffee before school. Wearing fake nails and fake eyelashes.

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oops. I got into coffee when I was 2 by accident. My dad didn't think that I'd like his black coffee. He was very wrong.

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    #48

    Refusing to learn to drive. I absolutely understand not wanting to, preferring to live places where you don't have to because of good walkability/transit/bikability, etc. But just being unwilling to learn at all? It's an important life skill and there might be an emergency where you have to!

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    Forrest Hobbs
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Learning to drive is expensive in lots of places, and in lots of places you don't need to drive yourself. Most big European cities, for example. When lessons, test fees, and insurance cost that much, when the roads are so clogged up, and when parking is so difficult and expensive, why bother with a car when you can use public transport?

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    #49

    Not knowing how to use a computer.

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    Maggie Fulton
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Does anyone in the current generation not know how to use a computer? I’m very surprised.

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    #50

    Bringing back those thin 90s brows again… its a lesson we all must learn the hard way, it seems.

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well I kinda see this. We’ve been seeing the mustache brows for awhile now. Maybe a normal in between look?

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    #51

    Making fun of kids for “no show” or “ankle” socks. WTF is that about?

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My socks never match, are a mix of ankle and knee, and are half homemade. What are my chances of being cool? (None. The answer is none)

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    #52

    Millennial here. 


    They take our style, some of which is from our cringiest years, and some of which is from our parents during those years, tweaked it just slightly, and now look at us and tell us that we need to dress like them otherwise we look like millennials. 


    First of all, we invented all that s**t. 2nd of all we don't think it looks good anymore. Third of all why would a millennial want to look like somebody 10-20 years younger than them? Also why do they think we want to impress them? I don't go to toddlers for romance advice, I'm sure a s**t not going to whatever generation is behind me for fashion advice when they look like some of my worst photos from my most awkward years. 


    I'm incredibly glad that they have found their sense of style and enjoy what they're wearing. I don't give a s**t if they were a toilet seat around their neck. But I do give a s**t that they try to make me feel like the crazy person for not wanting to do that... I look my age because I am that age. 


    And for millennials trying to look like 25 year olds, I don't give a s**t. Don't tell me I look out dated. I look exactly how I'm supposed to look. 


    Also I find people who are obsessed with keeping up with trends are just cogs in the machine of consumerism, advertising, and mass consumption while the planet is burning down around us. Not exactly the kind of people I look to for advice or anything really.

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Millennial here. I love going to the shops and seeing my entire 90’s wardrobe on the racks but if I wore that stuff now as a 41 year old I’d look like I missed the memo and have been wearing the same daggy clothing for the last 30 years. I sincerely hope that the 90’s stick thin body doesn’t make a come back. That terrible body expectation and media promotion literally ruined my teen years and warped my ideas around bodies and food for life.

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    #53

    Obsession over the infamous, *stanley cup*.

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    Cheating on homework. I get it, I got it, you caught me red handed because it's something I did at some point and I think everyone does. But it's way more rampant and way worse these days to the point that you start to get concerned. I was also reading books like crazy as a teen? Scrolling on your phone has become so normalized, I don't see books in public anymore.

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Turning in work done by AI without reading the content or even removing the "Created by AI" statement!

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    #55

    Generation alpha. How come there are young girls wearing adult clothes at such a young age? I’m a gen z I was wearing clothes from justice lol😭😭.

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree completely. Do a search for used 80s/90s kids clothes. Kids dressed like kids. Now everything seems to be miniature adult clothing.

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    #56

    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around I find many younger people to be very fearful. Hyper fixating on the worst possible outcomes even though the actual chance is so low its not worth worrying about


    Those people are gonna get older and be hit with many regrets.

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    #57

    I see that the youth contingent of mega churches is growing.

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    6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yet the idea of a Creator, or accountability to a higher authority, is plummeting. They rely on r/AITA instead of a conscience or principles.

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    #58

    Something that puzzles me about the younger generation is their dating and relationship habits. They tend to use apps and online platforms, relying on swipes and algorithms to meet people. It's a big shift from the traditional way of meeting through friends or at social gatherings, and it seems like it makes it harder to build deep, meaningful connections.

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Online dating was a relief for me. I could vet people before I met them, and talk to them online a bit to break the ice, make sure we had some core things in common, and make the first meeting less awkward. I met my husband on a dating site; we've been together over 13 years now.

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    #60

    50 Younger Generation Trends Older People Just Can’t Wrap Their Heads Around I'm almost 28, and an 18-year-old I work with mentioned how guys ask for her Snap. I guess the days of asking for phone numbers are completely gone. I'm not too surprised because I prefer Facebook Messenger over the texting app, but it's still so weird that we don't get phone numbers anymore, apparently.

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I suppose with Snapchat people don’t have direct contact with you. Maybe an extra level of privacy? Sounds like it could be a good idea.

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    #61

    The hyper reaction crowd. They focus on a single sentence or concept and jump to virtue signaling on issues that are either none of their business, or they're unqualified to speak about it.

    This loud minority is so confidently incorrect that they're basically boomers at this point.

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    #62

    I don't understand any of their slang. What the hell is a fanum tax?

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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sticking out your gyatt (butt) for the rizzler (gen z equivalent of hottie) you’re so skibidi (cool) your so phantom tax (you steal food from your friends so that makes you skibidi) I just want to be your sigma (lone wolf). I actually had to look these up they have definitions now I’m about to cry 😭

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    #63

    The kids don't know what the jazz is all about.

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    Sweatshirts in the summer.

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