“Mentally, She Was Not There”: Person Gets Their Dog Back From The Groomer, Realizes It’s Acting Weird But Keeps Living With It For Four Months Until The Truth Comes Out
Imagine one day noticing your dog has been acting a little off. You will surely come up with a solid explanation for its changed behavior, and it probably won’t seem like a very big deal. Now the scenario takes a twisted turn when you find out it’s not even your dog you’ve been living with for the past 4 months. 121 days. 2904 hours.
This is a real story that happened to one Redditor and loving owner of a shepherd/Newf mutt named Emma. After getting Emma’s hair cut, the Redditor SecretSpud noticed she’d been acting very strange. “Physically, she was identical but mentally she was not there,” the author wrote.
“For four months I’ve been taking care of and loving this dog I was calling Emma who looked exactly like my dog but somehow different from the Emma I once knew,” the author recounted.
This is when the author’s mom got a call from Emma’s groomer and the truth, which seems stranger than fiction, came out.
The Redditor and loving owner of a dog named Emma realized her pooch was acting weird after she returned from the groomer

Image credits: Farzan Lelinwalla(not the actual photo)
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“A dog owner can confuse their own dog with a stranger’s dog if they share similar physical characteristics,” Yulia Popyk, an animal behavior expert from Petcube Emergency Fund, commented on the case for Bored Panda. “This can happen because the owner is not paying attention to the dog’s specific features or because the dog is a mix of breeds and therefore has more generic features. If the owner is not familiar with the dog’s breed, this can also lead to confusion. Dogs of the same breed often look alike, and it can be hard to tell them apart,” Popyk explained.
When asked how stressed a dog gets when it comes to live with a family it never met before, as happened in this incident, Popyk said it depends on the dog’s personality and previous experiences. “Some dogs may feel anxious and confused in a new environment, while others may be more curious and exploratory. However, all dogs will need time to adjust to their new surroundings and owners,” she noted and added that “some dogs may experience mild stress when living with new owners, while others may become extremely stressed.”
It’s also important to notice that identical dog twins can look very similar. “They may have the same coat color, eye color, and body type. However, they may have different markings or personality traits,” Popyk said.
The animal behavior expert said that there can be some physical differences between identical dog twins, but they are typically very small. “The biggest difference between identical dog twins is usually their behavior. One twin may be more outgoing and playful, while the other may be more independent and reserved.” Moreover, it also depends on the breed of the dog. “Some breeds have very distinct markings, like Dalmatians, while others have very little difference in markings, like golden retrievers,” Popyk concluded.
Many people found the incident totally insane, others expressed their concern for the author’s dog who was away from home for four months
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Share on FacebookI feel sorry for Bear, he clearly isn't happy at his owners. Also, this story is from 7 years ago :)
Thanks, Anna, for the update on how old this story is. I, too, feel sorry for Bear.
Load More Replies...I would’ve offered to keep both dogs. If Bear’s owners are so bad he didn’t want to go back to them, I would’ve paid them so I could keep him too. Poor Emma for being forced to endure four awful months with a pair of people who should never have pets. Poor Bear, having a s**t life, then thinking he’d won the lottery being sent to a different home, having it good for four months, then being forced to go back into the s**t life he had before. Which brings up a good point. How did you not notice that Emma had suddenly grown a paid of balls?
How do you not know your own dog? Come on. I have four shih tzus which is a popular breed. I know every little spot, mark, hair on their little bodies. I can even smell them apart. I would have returned in the first hour (if I wasn't paying attention) but sure as heck not four months. They all have different personalities, they walk different, stretch different, bark different. The way they eat, sit up on the window when driving, get my attention. They arent robots that are all identical. This just sounds like someone who has a dog, to have a dog. Four months! Insane!
Load More Replies...I got the wrong dog back from dog daycare once. I walked out with a happy black lab mix who looked just like our girl, Harvey. I went outside and sat down, waiting for my wife to pick us up, and when I pet her I thought, “Why does her fur feel so rough?” Harvey’s fur is as soft and smooth as a seal. Then I looked a little closer and noticed that my girl dog with a boy’s name was in fact a boy dog with a penis. I walked back in and got my dog back. For that and other reasons, we don’t use or recommend that place anymore.
I'm so confused at how the groomer let both of the dogs be naked at the same time without some sure fire way of telling them apart. If it was me, I would try to never let both of them have their collars off at the same time.
I work in a pizza restaurant. We have procedures to make sure the right pizza goes to the right customer. I'd expect the same for a dog groomer with two identical dogs. Just saying...
This is the groomers fault. If you have two dogs that look the same, you’d think you would take extra precaution to not mix them up. Def get micro chips for all your pets. You never know what can happen.
How do no one notice one has a penis and one doesn’t?
Load More Replies...How bad could the other people be if they paid to have their dog groomed? Not to mention that the other couple inquiring about bumps on the dog is the entire reason they found out the dogs were switched. Seems to me that OP is salty that the "psycho elderly couple" realized they had the wrong dog first
Paying a groomer has nothing to do with good care. Some people views pets as an accessory, they keep it good looking but can't care less about its health and mental wellbeing.
Load More Replies...This just happened to my neighbor last week - except in addition to looking almost identical, the dogs also had the same name! There were three "Mia"s at the groomer, and two of them looked identical after their cut. My neighbor noticed as soon as her husband came home with the dog, but the other lady had their dog for three hours and they had to argue with her to get the dogs exchanged. Wild.
Wow, that's crazy. They need a better system, maybe color tags on the dogs collars or something.
Load More Replies...I feel sorry for Bear, he clearly isn't happy at his owners. Also, this story is from 7 years ago :)
Thanks, Anna, for the update on how old this story is. I, too, feel sorry for Bear.
Load More Replies...I would’ve offered to keep both dogs. If Bear’s owners are so bad he didn’t want to go back to them, I would’ve paid them so I could keep him too. Poor Emma for being forced to endure four awful months with a pair of people who should never have pets. Poor Bear, having a s**t life, then thinking he’d won the lottery being sent to a different home, having it good for four months, then being forced to go back into the s**t life he had before. Which brings up a good point. How did you not notice that Emma had suddenly grown a paid of balls?
How do you not know your own dog? Come on. I have four shih tzus which is a popular breed. I know every little spot, mark, hair on their little bodies. I can even smell them apart. I would have returned in the first hour (if I wasn't paying attention) but sure as heck not four months. They all have different personalities, they walk different, stretch different, bark different. The way they eat, sit up on the window when driving, get my attention. They arent robots that are all identical. This just sounds like someone who has a dog, to have a dog. Four months! Insane!
Load More Replies...I got the wrong dog back from dog daycare once. I walked out with a happy black lab mix who looked just like our girl, Harvey. I went outside and sat down, waiting for my wife to pick us up, and when I pet her I thought, “Why does her fur feel so rough?” Harvey’s fur is as soft and smooth as a seal. Then I looked a little closer and noticed that my girl dog with a boy’s name was in fact a boy dog with a penis. I walked back in and got my dog back. For that and other reasons, we don’t use or recommend that place anymore.
I'm so confused at how the groomer let both of the dogs be naked at the same time without some sure fire way of telling them apart. If it was me, I would try to never let both of them have their collars off at the same time.
I work in a pizza restaurant. We have procedures to make sure the right pizza goes to the right customer. I'd expect the same for a dog groomer with two identical dogs. Just saying...
This is the groomers fault. If you have two dogs that look the same, you’d think you would take extra precaution to not mix them up. Def get micro chips for all your pets. You never know what can happen.
How do no one notice one has a penis and one doesn’t?
Load More Replies...How bad could the other people be if they paid to have their dog groomed? Not to mention that the other couple inquiring about bumps on the dog is the entire reason they found out the dogs were switched. Seems to me that OP is salty that the "psycho elderly couple" realized they had the wrong dog first
Paying a groomer has nothing to do with good care. Some people views pets as an accessory, they keep it good looking but can't care less about its health and mental wellbeing.
Load More Replies...This just happened to my neighbor last week - except in addition to looking almost identical, the dogs also had the same name! There were three "Mia"s at the groomer, and two of them looked identical after their cut. My neighbor noticed as soon as her husband came home with the dog, but the other lady had their dog for three hours and they had to argue with her to get the dogs exchanged. Wild.
Wow, that's crazy. They need a better system, maybe color tags on the dogs collars or something.
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