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35 People Who Wanted To Look So Tough, They Ended Up Embarrassing Themselves Completely
If you hear someone say, "I'm not scared of that," or, "I didn't want that promotion anyway," it doesn't necessarily mean they're mentally strong. In fact, there's a good chance it's just a facade.
To illustrate this, let's look at the subreddit which we at Bored Panda call "I Am Very Bad". From gun nuts to overly-protective boyfriends, this online community has plenty of examples to prove that overcompensation can be very, very obvious.
Here are the posts that got the most upvotes from the sub's 1.2 million members.
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The F**king Sun
To learn more about "I Am Very Bad" we contacted its moderators and one of them, u/ergoegthatis, agreed to have a little chat.
"Some of the most popular ['tough' people on the subreddit are the ones who see] injustice in the news (e.g. someone being insulted or bear up), and say, 'If that happened to me I'd so and so and so and so!' With everyone on social media having a platform to air any opinion they have, this is incredibly common," u/ergoegthatis told Bored Panda.
"Also in the US, there are many intense political/social statements related to politics and guns. For some reason, Americans are religiously addicted to expressing their opinions on everything, in every possible way (including car decals)."
And Murdered By Words Of Another Vet
Ah yes, the 'us' and 'them' mentality. Also the result of brainwashing. If someone cuts in line, say something. You don't immediately have to resort to violence like a little coward who can't communicate his feelings like a normal adult. (edited the bad word to coward)
Vaping In Front Of A Water Service Vehicle Thinking It's A Cop Car
Even though it's not a cop car, why would it matter if he was vaping in front of one. Is it coz he is possibly under-age or something?
According to the moderator, the subreddit's 'characters' usually overcompensate due to their fear of a scary, unpredictable, and hostile world.
"It depends on society too: we rarely see these ... expressions coming from Europe, the Arab world, Southern and Central America, Russia, China, Japan, etc. America is witnessing social, political, and economic implosions, so this seems to be a way for them to cope with that," they added.
The subreddit's community, on the other hand, is way more diverse. "It's heterogeneous, [and has] got all sorts of people," u/ergoegthatis said. "I don't think there's any common factor in our userbase, except the desire to have fun and laugh at people who take their purported [toughness] to comical levels in public."
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I'm wondering in this scenario, what's the motivation of criminal nr 1000 to go test the door, when there's already a stack of 999 corpses festering in the spring sunshine?
While acting tough may meet a person's needs in the short term by artificially boosting their ego or by getting others to back off, it's not a good long-term strategy. In fact, one study conducted by psychologists at Rutgers University found that guys who act tough may suffer serious consequences.
The paper, published in The Journal of Health Psychology, found that these men visit doctors less often. They're also less forthcoming about their medical symptoms when they see a male physician (interestingly, these same men were more likely to choose a male doctor because they believe male doctors are more competent than females).
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Researchers suspect that delaying medical appointments and minimizing symptoms could be one of the reasons why men in the US die, on average, five years earlier than women.
If you want to see whether or not you have a tendency to act this way, this article by Inc. provides a 7-point checklist that could help in evaluating yourself.
If you're also putting up a fake exterior that helps you feel superior, consider the toll it may take on your life. Instead, try to invest in building mental strength, so the way you feel on the inside matches how others see you on the outside. As your mental strength increases, your need to act tough decreases.
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You Never Know What Will Go Down At A Subway Sandwich Shop
It's necessary because his masculinity is too fragile to survive without them.
When he turns around you can observe his pointy monoboob.
Load More Replies...The legs a mile apart does it for me. Is he trying to avoid touching the turds in his pants?
People are so judgmental. Yeah, he's in a sandwich shop but he may have tombs to raid later.
Lara Croft is the only person anyone should see wearing a thigh-holster.
Load More Replies...I thought exactly the same thing. Just saw a story about a black guy who won a big settlement because the cops mistook his walking stick for a gun and roughed him up causing serious head injury - in an open carry state!
Load More Replies...Someone from America please answer this- if you were the guy behind the counter, how do you know gun guy isn't going to open fire?
You don't. That's the trash that Donald Trump brought to light in our country. They are literally Killers.
Load More Replies...Let's see... four guns because he's afraid his trembling hands will shake so much he will drop the first three, and extra clips because he's such a poor shot? Never wondering why cops don't do what he's doing.
Right? He has extra mags for both guns. Why not save weight?
Load More Replies...if i saw this specimen in the wild, i'd probably laugh uncontrollably. mostly because the shorts just look absolutely ridiculous, not to even mention all the munitions.
In between laughing fits, I would give him a grey tank top and let him know that if he doubled up on his estrogen and let his hair grow out he would look like Laura Croft in no time.
Load More Replies...We are joking but this is the saddest most American photo I've ever seen! Honestly you wouldn't see that in any other country in the world
Though this is actually illegal in most of the states people want to visit in the US. New York, Florida, California, DC, Illinois all ban this. I've lived in the US my whole life and, while I know it is legal to do this in most states, I've never encountered it myself since I rarely travel to places where it isn't banned. The only people I see strapped with guns in public are the police, though that would be a strange sight for plenty of people outside the US. It often feels like there are two Americas. This is just one example of many.
Load More Replies...Open carry laws are so so racist. If a person of color walked in like this, everyone would panic. The police would get called. And the person would probably end up dead. But everyone’s ok with a white man carrying a gun.
Any time someone obnoxiously open carries I cringe. It's like they are begging someone to start some s**t.
Load More Replies...If I enter a Subways and I see this guy, I will stumble out of the building as fast as I can. This guy might run amok at any moment.
The fact that he feels the need to walk around like this is evidence enough that he's unstable.
Load More Replies...I just know this is in my country (US), and it is just depressing as hell.
And if there is a random shooter, this dude is going to be shot dead by any arriving officer immediately. What a moron.
This is so stupid and utterly ridiculous. No one needs to look like this when they go out in public. If you go around dressed like this, you deserve to be laughed at.
Looks like he is trying to be Laura Croft, but with double the firepower.
This is the guy at the range that never hits the target and shoots himself in the thigh
I don't understand what made US citizens so scared of life that they have to arm themselves to go shopping.
Tell me you have small genitalia without telling me you have small genitalia…
It's not necessary. Unfortunately many people in this world are being brainwashed to think it is. To take pride in things like guns, flags, statues, and many other things. Total disregard for what really matters like human beings and their welfare. America has brainwashed so so so many of it's people.
Some people have emotional support animals, this guy has emotional support guns
arent all those guns the wrong height for a 'quick draw'? and couldnt someone sneak up behind him and shoot him with his own gun?
Wouldn't it be funny if he heard some guy behind him say "Nice a*s!"
Even cops don't wear that much weaponry, well in Australia anyway.
Oh God, it's probably a relative of mine. 95% of them live in Marion.
And these are the same people that wouldn’t wear masks because they didn’t want to “live in fear”
Those could very well just be BB guns. The other day my family found our neighbor’s BB gun, but it looked exactly like a 22 caliber. My dad, who owns one, thought so too. Only the cop we called could tell the difference.
I can already hear him jingle-jangle as he walks. It doesn't sounds as badass as one would imagine.
i would hope some well armed mugger would remove them all from him in a dark alley as he cries like a little girl
My first thought was cosplay. My second thought was “isn’t the whole point of civilization so you don’t have to walk around armed to the teeth just to buy a sandwich?!?!”
As a European, this is such a bizarre picture to me. If I went into Subway and saw that guy, I'd walk straight back out again. I've never even seen a real gun up close in my life and I'm 32. 🤷
I assume the guns are wired to the counter because he has not actually bought them and is just posing?
This is so obnoxiously bad that I keep picturing the guys from Black Rifle Coffee Company making fun of guys like this. Actually, I would not be shocked it this is because of a dare. In fact, I hope it is. Although, I have seen some pretty stupid s**t when groups decide to flex their open carry rights.
because he cannt dress anymore like a certain tomb raider person without admitting he is a crossdresser
does this mental has four arms? and Marion, IA has a very low crime rate! poor man!
Obviously not well endowed if he's got guns holstered on both legs like that. Wussy.
That is serious "overkill" And not a single blade amongst the hardware. Tsk, tsk...
IT IS NECESSARY BECAUSE OF ALL THE ASSHOLES PRESENT IN TODAY'S WORLD WHO WOULD LIKE TO KILL THIS MAN FOR THE CRIME OF ENFORCING THE LAW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
To make up for his ultimate lack of penis and it's assumed ability?
I'd f**king jump up, duck and weave as I was exiting the place since a mass shooter had entered. This is why I could not live in a place with open carry. With open carry, you don't know if someone is going to shoot until they do. At least with concealed carry, they have to take at least a tiny bit of time to draw (unless they seriously shoot through their clothes). Even one gun openly carried is too much. It's so ridiculous I don't even have words for it.
terminator voice "come with me if you want to buy subway"
How absurd. Since he has a mask, I am hoping this is an intelligent person making joke, a parody, or ironic cosplay. omg LOL
Has anybody pointed out to Dead Eye D**k here just how ridiculous he looks in this shot? Good gravy, man!
Because you never know if Chinese paratroopers will suddenly be dropped in the Midwest U.S. or some s**t, I dunno...
This has got to be a joke. He can’t possibly think all this stuff makes him look manly. Had I been in the donut shop at the same time I would have had a hard time hiding my laughter.
Ahahah is that guys shorts on backwards??? I've never seen rear pockets tilted in like they absolutely do in the front.. I don't see a zipper but you don't need one really when you sit down to pee...that stretchy elastic band you pull down and sit then wipe front to back , this guy knows what I mean
I don't know if any of the commentors have actually been to Marion, IA. But it is not the nicest of neighborhoods. It is right on the Mississippi, and there is a riverboat casino docked there. Just 2 hours from Chicago, and right on interstate 80, Marion is a popular destination for money laundering, drug dealers, sex trafficking, and other crimes. So, I don't know what this guy's situation is, but I do know a bit about self protection around there.
I probably would've laughed so hard I would've peed a little. I probably would get 4 rounds off from my concealed weapon before he could even decide which one of his to un holster. good grief.
Y'all are focused on the guns and I'm over here focused on the weird af pockets trying to figure if he has his shorts on backwards.
Not expert at all but, are these real? Maybe he comes from an airsoft tournament?... idk
I didn't assume anything. There are a lot of brainwashed people that do listen and that's all there is to it. I never said everyone is brainwashed. Just there are a lot of brainwashed people.
Forget about the arsenal he's carrying, did no one tell him his shorts are on backwards??
I guess his arms and legs are so lily-white because he spends so long indoors w88king over guns?
And of course last year there was one guy carrying what looked like a ruddy rocket launcher. Sorry US but your country is beyond weird.
And THIS, is a big part of why the rest of the World is either absolutely terrified or simply has ZERO desire to go to America anymore. In no particular order.... - The damage done by Trump - Scared of getting shot by cops - Not wanting to get shot by random as dudes in a sandwich shop for LITERALLY NO REASON. America - get your s**t together please. If anyone was walking around Europe like this, the whole area would be shut down, they'd be tackled to the ground. WHY DOES ANYONE NEED THIS MANY GUNS?? Hint - there is no good answer to this.
For some reason, I sense he's wearing socks and sandals.. maybe some kind of tactical sandals.. but definitely with socks!
I am sorry, but that has to be photoshopped or someone's idea of a joke. Changing magazines is not that hard, but carrying 4 guns is a pain. I used to carry a 9mm in the army and that thing was like an anchor on my belt.
Wouldn't it be easy for someone to walk up and grab one of those guns of the holster?
Not only unnecessary, unstable. I wouldn’t stand anywhere near this guy. He’s just hoping for the opportunity to use this stuff and likely hasn’t got a clue how to actually use it.
I doubt he could get any of those guns out of its holster quickly if he wanted to.
The last time this man was inside a woman was when he visited the Statue of Liberty.
Tiny penis. It's 5 inches off the average for each weapon on his person.
I might actually think think this guy is doing it to make fun of those GI Jerk Off types. or not....sigh. insecure little boys.
I showed my husband this guy and asked him why the four guns, and he suggested the third and fourth guns were so the person behind him call pull those two and shoot him in the back. I like the way he thinks. :)
Doesn't spend much time outside in the daytime, that's for sure........
He looks like he is on his way to a competition, which very well could be the reason.
No competition I know of requires you to carry 4 pistols.
Load More Replies...it’s america, what do you think is gonna happen if you let someone own as many guns as they want 😒
I mean, hopefully they’d handle them responsibly and keep them in a safe inside their house.
Load More Replies...This image was wholly different when I finished scrolling down to see he's wearing combat...shorts?
Always makes you wonder how all the other countries of the world survive without open access to guns... Additionnally, when you need that much fire power and spare ammo just to go sandwich shopping, your shooting can't be very good.
On the serious side, maybe he's on his way to the shooting range. Or who knows what. I had one time I was headed for the range and so I had two guns on me and two more in a bag, and it occurred to me that if someone tried to mug me today, this would just not be his lucky day.
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How about we do The Hunger Games, but instead of random kids, all the participants are people who made tough guy posts on the internet?
I can get behind this..... But rather have it Battle Royal style since thats where the hunger games stole the entire idea from
Load More Replies...Why am I not surprised that most of these are men. This is what toxic masculinity does, this is why we need to change things. These men may think they look tough, but the fact is majority seem like assholes. Assholes are not strong people, they are just weak pretending to be strong. Strength is not caring about showing care and compassion, strength is having empathy and able to show and express your emotions. Thankfully most men are decent human beings. Too bad we hear more about the f*****g wankers of the male species.
Yes, parents need to think carefully about how they raise their boys. In general, boys often don't get the attention that girls do during childhood, unless it's BAD (Negative) attention. Any child psychologist will tell you that children will do anything to get your attention if you're ignoring them. Often bad behavior is the trigger a parent is most likely to respond to.
Load More Replies...I stopped reading halfway through. I get tired of people that puff their chests out and act all macho. It's old...it's tiring..and it's pointless. Anyone who threatens violence like this just because they can...well you have some serious mental health issues that need to be addressed and you're not impressing anyone. All this shows me is that you are really insecure and you are starved for attention.
So many people are so violent, even if it's just in their heads. It's not healthy if your go-to emotion is anger/rage.
they did some studies where people like this who have underdeveloped forebrains get frustrated with their inability to deal with their problems with reason and logic (i.e. words), so they lash out in violent and aggressive ways very similar to a caveman.
Load More Replies...We lived next door to these devout "Christians". One time a parcel for them had been delivered to our door, so in about 3 feet of snow, I carried it round to them. Houses were maybe 50 feet apart. Only when I got on their doorstep did I see a sign they had on their door. It basically said, don't steal from us. We have lots of guns and will actually take pleasure in using them on you. We will not hesitate to kill you. Steal from someone else. So not only were they happily threatening murder, but they were encouraging this thief (coming through the front door) to commit a crime against some innocent person. Never did like them. Had nothing at all to do with them after that.
Wooooooooowwwwww it was funny for maybe 30 of them, then just felt sad
Imagine being so terrified that all humanity is not under your control that you have to throw down threats and absurdities like those.... And now be glad you're not one of those people.
In America, each and everyone of these men is known as Trump Trash. They are the most insecure men in our country. Still trying to dictate women's reproductive rights and can't take an ass whipping. Pray for us.
What is wrong with these people? How insecure must one be to carry 3 guns? To threaten to kill anyone for pretty much no reason at all? To believe they are above any laws or proper social behaviour just "cause I lift bro!". Is half of America fresh out of juvenile prison? I understand that most of these pictures are either trolls or like-bait on social media, but some are actual humans in real life. All of this looks just wrong, and what is worse these people will have children one day and they will carry on this legacy. I have never been a confident one but this tops me ten times over. Sure, instead of actually dealing reasonably and with common sense to everyday events, just take out your frustration to everyone and everything in your vicinity, then call yourself Alpha. Absolutely disgusting people, my condolences to the regular folks living in the U.S.
These are indeed unpleasant people, but hardly unique to the U.S.
Load More Replies...I find it really depressing to know that so many people are so wretchedly insecure that they must constantly hate and attack others.
I gave up after the third one, not wanting to have the next few minutes ruined.
Yes, it's actually quite disturbing, the violent hatred of strangers, basically, coupled with the gross illiteracy and vulgarity of expression. What is the point of this article? To show there's lots of mean, irrationsl miseries in the world? I feel like taking a bleach shower and a big fergeddit pill.
Load More Replies...Not sure how many of these are real or not, some sound fake. For those that are real, why can't ppl just be decent human beings? They're only a "bada$$" in their own mind anyway, and no one cares.
Some of these sound toxic. For those who wants to show your tough side, DON'T............. It's not healthy for you. Just because you want to scare people does not make you a better person. It's ok to say you are afraid, but don't act like a macho all the times. There's always going to be consequences
And please respect my comments.. I'm not usually good at giving advice or grammar
Load More Replies...I have seen one where he ripped up a coupon for 70% off of something and he didn’t even look at it then went on to buy the exact item and complained that the person in front of them who got the same item got it for cheaper and then complained it’s not his fault that he ripped up the coupon it’s what he does when people hand him flyers for stupid s**t that is not what he likes and also said he would beat up the cashier if he didn’t get the discount dude got escorted out by security and then took a swing at the security guards and hit a police officer who was just getting his lunch
Ugh. All of these scream my asshole Q cousin who knows everything about everything and blah blah blah.
Nothing says I need attention and something to feel superior about more than these.
This girl was flexing on me “subtly” about how she’s a school dropout, and only boys are texting her.
I've been bored with this site for awhile and checked it out tonight and was reminded why. Everyone feels validated in being shitty if someone else encourages them, this whole post is all about that, especially all the comments. Fight fire with fire is a phrase that comes to mind. F*****g dumb, find something positive to do with your lives instead of saying stupid s**t online.
How about we do The Hunger Games, but instead of random kids, all the participants are people who made tough guy posts on the internet?
I can get behind this..... But rather have it Battle Royal style since thats where the hunger games stole the entire idea from
Load More Replies...Why am I not surprised that most of these are men. This is what toxic masculinity does, this is why we need to change things. These men may think they look tough, but the fact is majority seem like assholes. Assholes are not strong people, they are just weak pretending to be strong. Strength is not caring about showing care and compassion, strength is having empathy and able to show and express your emotions. Thankfully most men are decent human beings. Too bad we hear more about the f*****g wankers of the male species.
Yes, parents need to think carefully about how they raise their boys. In general, boys often don't get the attention that girls do during childhood, unless it's BAD (Negative) attention. Any child psychologist will tell you that children will do anything to get your attention if you're ignoring them. Often bad behavior is the trigger a parent is most likely to respond to.
Load More Replies...I stopped reading halfway through. I get tired of people that puff their chests out and act all macho. It's old...it's tiring..and it's pointless. Anyone who threatens violence like this just because they can...well you have some serious mental health issues that need to be addressed and you're not impressing anyone. All this shows me is that you are really insecure and you are starved for attention.
So many people are so violent, even if it's just in their heads. It's not healthy if your go-to emotion is anger/rage.
they did some studies where people like this who have underdeveloped forebrains get frustrated with their inability to deal with their problems with reason and logic (i.e. words), so they lash out in violent and aggressive ways very similar to a caveman.
Load More Replies...We lived next door to these devout "Christians". One time a parcel for them had been delivered to our door, so in about 3 feet of snow, I carried it round to them. Houses were maybe 50 feet apart. Only when I got on their doorstep did I see a sign they had on their door. It basically said, don't steal from us. We have lots of guns and will actually take pleasure in using them on you. We will not hesitate to kill you. Steal from someone else. So not only were they happily threatening murder, but they were encouraging this thief (coming through the front door) to commit a crime against some innocent person. Never did like them. Had nothing at all to do with them after that.
Wooooooooowwwwww it was funny for maybe 30 of them, then just felt sad
Imagine being so terrified that all humanity is not under your control that you have to throw down threats and absurdities like those.... And now be glad you're not one of those people.
In America, each and everyone of these men is known as Trump Trash. They are the most insecure men in our country. Still trying to dictate women's reproductive rights and can't take an ass whipping. Pray for us.
What is wrong with these people? How insecure must one be to carry 3 guns? To threaten to kill anyone for pretty much no reason at all? To believe they are above any laws or proper social behaviour just "cause I lift bro!". Is half of America fresh out of juvenile prison? I understand that most of these pictures are either trolls or like-bait on social media, but some are actual humans in real life. All of this looks just wrong, and what is worse these people will have children one day and they will carry on this legacy. I have never been a confident one but this tops me ten times over. Sure, instead of actually dealing reasonably and with common sense to everyday events, just take out your frustration to everyone and everything in your vicinity, then call yourself Alpha. Absolutely disgusting people, my condolences to the regular folks living in the U.S.
These are indeed unpleasant people, but hardly unique to the U.S.
Load More Replies...I find it really depressing to know that so many people are so wretchedly insecure that they must constantly hate and attack others.
I gave up after the third one, not wanting to have the next few minutes ruined.
Yes, it's actually quite disturbing, the violent hatred of strangers, basically, coupled with the gross illiteracy and vulgarity of expression. What is the point of this article? To show there's lots of mean, irrationsl miseries in the world? I feel like taking a bleach shower and a big fergeddit pill.
Load More Replies...Not sure how many of these are real or not, some sound fake. For those that are real, why can't ppl just be decent human beings? They're only a "bada$$" in their own mind anyway, and no one cares.
Some of these sound toxic. For those who wants to show your tough side, DON'T............. It's not healthy for you. Just because you want to scare people does not make you a better person. It's ok to say you are afraid, but don't act like a macho all the times. There's always going to be consequences
And please respect my comments.. I'm not usually good at giving advice or grammar
Load More Replies...I have seen one where he ripped up a coupon for 70% off of something and he didn’t even look at it then went on to buy the exact item and complained that the person in front of them who got the same item got it for cheaper and then complained it’s not his fault that he ripped up the coupon it’s what he does when people hand him flyers for stupid s**t that is not what he likes and also said he would beat up the cashier if he didn’t get the discount dude got escorted out by security and then took a swing at the security guards and hit a police officer who was just getting his lunch
Ugh. All of these scream my asshole Q cousin who knows everything about everything and blah blah blah.
Nothing says I need attention and something to feel superior about more than these.
This girl was flexing on me “subtly” about how she’s a school dropout, and only boys are texting her.
I've been bored with this site for awhile and checked it out tonight and was reminded why. Everyone feels validated in being shitty if someone else encourages them, this whole post is all about that, especially all the comments. Fight fire with fire is a phrase that comes to mind. F*****g dumb, find something positive to do with your lives instead of saying stupid s**t online.