Say you don't eat meat and everybody offers you some, say you don'T drink alcohol and everybody offers you some, say you don't have sex - nothing!

I know people that do this, unfortunately. They know it's annoying, they just don't give a f**k about other people

Wait, what did you say? Sorry, I was looking at Bored Panda on my phone.

Why would I want to bring kids up in these awful times ahead.

In a similar situation, I used to be asked why I only had one child. Or told I was "selfish" for only having one. Or, in a slightly more positive way (I guess), "Your daughter is so gorgeous! I hope you're having another!". Yeah, well my daughter is the only surviving baby out of 10 pregnancies. I had 9 first trimester miscarriages, some of which became seriously life-threatening, so I consider myself pretty lucky to have one child, actually.

In my disliking of the whole "girls hating on girls" cliché, I always compliment other females on something they r wearing. I don't care that they didn't ask for it cuz sometimes ppl just need to hear something nice from a total stranger.

Where I used to work, a colleague miscarried. Another colleague told her, “God needed the baby more than you” in some weird attempt to be comforting. Everyone else was like WTF?

I can totally relate to that. I hope the pain u suffer is at least bearable. Hope u find something that helps u out!

Yes, as someone with chronic daily migraine headaches, invisible and painful, I have had a headache every day for 20 years. And I hate when people tell me to pop an aspirin and it will be fine, or tell me that if I lose weight it will improve.

Not just escalators, but also stairs at the train station. Or sitting on them. I do not want to hit them with my bike.

Lmao, having heard this for most of my life, definitely not heard or taken as a compliment most of the time. Certain people can get away with calling me skinny cuz they say it a certain way and I love 'em. Other than that, no.

I once had someone call me a stick because of how skinny I was, and then proceeded to say they were jealous, as if that made it any less rude. They didn't realize I had randomly lost 10% of my body weight and I was undergoing a lot of medical testing (including for cancer) to find out why. Thankfully it didn't turn out to be anything severe. Vanity and narcissism aren't the only things that make people thin.

I had a period years ago when I lost a lot of weight. I was out of work for a bit over a month. When I went back to work, I had people commenting about my weight loss. Um, you didn't see me for a while, I was in the hospital for a month. You don't understand that people have weight changes due to medical issues, and medications. There's no way a healthy person can lose a third of their weight in a month without something being wrong

My boss did this to a colleague in front of the whole team today. I told her it was just as wrong as telling someone that they are fat

When I had an eating disorder I had so many compliments. It was messed up. I never comment on people's bodies now - not compliments, criticism, observations - nothing.

I used to be terribly skinny. Seriously, about 1 in 3 people felt the need to tell me how skinny I was. If I got on an elevator with 9 people, 3 of them would have to comment. I had people talking like, "and she actually told her, right to her face, 'well, you're fat.' And I ... Whoa, you're skinny!" And as a guy, skinny is ALMOST as bad as being fat is for a woman. I suck at a lot of sports, but I remember the jaw-dropping discovery when I started to gain some weight that I'm actually naturally pretty good at soccer. Never knew that throughout school, because no-one in anything but a 1-on-1 game ever kicked the ball to me. But while I can't shoot a basketball, or get a baseball over the plate, apparently I can aim a soccer ball with surprising accuracy.

Shoot, I know that if I turn sideways, I'm going to disappear 😂

Oh I'll move it! I'll take it for a little trip around the store if you're not paying attention. Might even add a few things it.

Touching a stranger randomly, without permission, for any reason at all is just a big no.

"Why do you talk so much?" would be considered rude though, right?

That's not just rude but also very stupid

I always think you can figure out how it feels by swapping the person around. If you think for example that hotpants are ok, visualise your dad in them and ask whether they're ok. No, they're not. They're lechy. Now, do the same thought with the above. Swap disabled person with black person. "Oh look how inspirational, a black person in a store!" ... f**k off. So if your gut reaction to the person swap is "ewww gross" then yes, ANY comment on ANY person in that scenario is "eww gross".

I have been guilty of this. Not screaming or being super loud but kinda disregarding my surroundings while with a bunch of people unless I had to interact with said environment

As someone who is slightly terrified of random dogs, I agree with the first sentence

My question would be: "how should an autistic person look like?" 🤦

I don't mind discussing work with colleagues while on my lunch break, so not everyone will think this is rude...

I hate never getting a word in.

First out of the plane wins

It is super easy to step into that trap. I have to admit I also do that sometimes but if I do I wanted to tell the other person that they are not alone but I am also thinking "dammed u shouldn't do that" while talking. But then it's too late 😔

Uncle asked my kid why are they so quiet and she said, why are younso loud, i could hear you even before i walked tru the front door the poor neighbours

same for anyone suffering anything. I have loads of allergies and people tell me stupid s**t like "well if you only ate healthy like more nuts"... f**k right off... I am precisely allergic to that "healthy" s**t.

I always understood it like "you're not alone" and actually felt better?..

What does protective style mean?

Just so you know, I would have shown up (unless death or a family member, or serious illness) - I don’t get invited to parties so when ai do, I take it seriously.

I'm ok with this one. I'm definitely heading to old age now so if a youngish person says this I feel quite good about myself.