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Some people like to keep it low-key. Others are eager to spark some open-ended conversations. The remaining love diving deep into the burning zone where statements uttered are so controversial they get the discussion sizzling in no time.

And what for? Let’s say if you have a burning unpopular opinion, you’d know why. And there’s a safe corner of the internet known as the UnpopularOpinion subreddit that has had the most disputable points of view flowing since 2012. By disputable, I mean things like water with cereal is better, and clapping for healthcare workers who are only doing their job is cringy.

So let’s see what the community of a whopping 1.9M members is living for right below, and be sure to hit us in the comments in case you have an opinionated bomb to drop that will likely stir some reactions.

#1

People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts Like come on, people who work their assess off have to struggle more so than people who are good at a sport? It's just like how Doctors are paid less than NBA Players... one saves lives, the other plays basketball competitively.

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Grumble O'Pug
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Agreed. And football athletes shouldn’t have huge stipends compared to track athletes

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    #2

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts Yeah sure, it’s futuristic and all, but a lot of them are just becoming a hassle and a hazard. I shouldn’t have to spam tap a screen to change the climate controls, whereas a dial would be so much simpler and easy to use. The screens are basically impossible to use with gloves on if you live in a colder place. And frankly, most automakers just suck at making them. They are super laggy and hard to use. Cars can still look modern with a clean button and dial interior setup, and perhaps a smaller screen to display information. The infotainment system should not have to constantly take the drivers attention off the road.

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    Suzanne Clark
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! I could change the time on the clock in my "old" car by turning one button. On my new car I have to access two menus and press multiple screens. I don't see how that's an improvement.

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    #3

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts Like breaking and entering, assault with a deadly weapon with intent to kill, first degree murder, terrorism, etc... the coordinating police chief in charge of the raid should be held responsible for whatever happens.

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    Ozacoter
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the department should pay for any property damages. Just to avoid spending money they would be more careful

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    #4

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts I deleted Facebook in 2011 and since, never looked back and if anything so glad that I did.

    The issue now, FB is so integrated into day to day life people only use that for advertising.

    I hate getting emails about "Win this product" then you read how to enter and they say, Like Us/Follow Us and re post Us on Facebook to be entered.

    Or a restaurant which is FB only and clicking the link you are greeted with a million log in screens and limited information.

    IMO this is a rubbish way to get to your target audience and I avoid companies who solely use FB.

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    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts I see a lot of posts on Reddit of people whom have gone through traumatic experiences in their lives; be it war, rape, suicide, depression, that sort of stuff.

    Usually, 50% of a comment thread consists of 'man up' and 'X can't happen to men!'. It's annoying as all hell, and yeeah often those comments do get downvoted, but not enough to send them straight to the bottom of the list.

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    Ozacoter
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100% true. It is pure sexism in both cases. And very harmful.

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    #6

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts You see it all over the internet these days, people recording themselves giving food or money or whatever to homeless people. All it is for these people is a personal boost, a way to get views on the internet and make themselves feel important. I think these actions should be shot down not praised and receive 10 million video views. If you’re really this good person you claim to be you would give to the homeless, give to shelters, help people and not tell anyone else about it, it’s that simple.

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    River Webb
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    its not a good deed if the reason you do it is to blurt it out on social media

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    #7

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts Graduates and school leavers already have an extremely hard time finding work in todays economy, most of which are forced to do jobs that had nothing to do with their fields because companies are too lazy to train and too cheap to offer training, they always want some other company to train them. Also if you require 3-5 years experience then the salary of those jobs should be considerably higher and NOT the basic entry level salary, they just want more for less. So long as your qualifications meet the required job they should be considered.

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    Mohsie Supposie
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will agree to that 100%. Entry level jobs should not require previous experience.

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    #8

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts I've been going to baseball games my entire life. I have well over 1,000 games attended. One of my life long dreams is to catch a baseball in the stands. To me that is a chosen from the baseball gods moment. Lately I've been seeing more and more when someone catches the ball a parent will send a kid over to collect their prize. Everyone boos the person who caught the ball for not giving it to the kid. The person who caught the ball has likely been waiting since they were that kid's age to catch one and now they have an entire section if not stadium bullying them to give it to some little kid that will have 0 appreciation for it because they just did what their parents told them and went and asked for it.

    Obviously if I ever catch a ball I will break it to the kid that inevitably gets sent over gently that no, I will not give them the ball AND I will take my boos. But to the parents who send their sex trophy over to collect something that they aren't entitled to, you are horrible parents/people and I don't feel bad that your kid is sad now, it's your fault.

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    Daria Z
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Parents should not expect other people to be their kids' providers. If they want their kid to have this ball, well, catch it yourself!

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    #9

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts Why on earth would ANY adult want to have their ass wiped by their children? I can think of nothing more humiliating or dehumanizing.

    I never understood why nursing homes (pre pandemic) were always such an awful thing.

    My bfs grandma would get up an wander around the neighborhood and forget where she was. She would trash the house. She would need to be bathed and fed by others because she couldn’t function. His aunt had to quit her job to look after her, all while having kids of her own. What mother would want that for their children?? What person would want their own health and safety in the hands of someone who is trying to juggle their own lives and children and work instead of a person who takes care of others as their chosen career?

    There is a HUGE difference between changing a 6 month old’s diaper and an 80 year old’s. And imo there is a HUGE difference between having a medical professional see you naked and clean you than your grown kids seeing you naked and cleaning you.

    I would not want my children to remember me as an invalid who needed s*it wiped away from their vagina because of diapers.

    As soon as a person is unable to function alone, they should be put in professional care and NOT be shamed for that decision.

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    #10

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts Firstly i want to mention that i have worked with both physically and mentally handicapped people and among them were the most lovable, loving and truly inspiring people I've met in my life. Albeit i don't think it's fair for parents to be required to sacrifice their chance of a normal life for their child. To those who do, whether by choice or not, give birth to handicapped children, you have my deepest respect and I don't doubt that parents will do anything in their power to provide the best life for their children and love them the way they are, but i don't think it's wrong to assume that such a life is more emotionally taxing than raising healthy children. As previously mentioned these people often exhibit a love for life most of us couldn't compare to. Still i don't think you should be required to give up your own life and sanity for someone else because of societies morals. Honestly i wouldn't be strong enough to handle such a situation.

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    Morgan Carpenter
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Luisa, abortions are painful, expensive, and emotionally exhausting. No one uses them as birth control.

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    Foxxy (The Original)
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I cannot agree with this more. Doesn’t matter what reason, if a woman doesn’t want to be pregnant whether the foetus has no issues, or disability etc then that is her choice.

    Uncommon Boston
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The man has equal responsibility. After all he had sex too. The care and financial needs of the child must be taken care of equally. Leaving the child to be cared for solely by the mother, without financial assistance is wrong. If you have sex, are you prepared to take over?

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    Jarno Flinkers
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my opinion aborting a child is the parent(s)' decision. I won't judge you, because you obviously have your reason to do so. No one will terminate their pregnancy "just for fun".

    Javiera Gotelli
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People are entitled to choose if they want to be parents or not. Period.

    Uncommon Boston
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eric, I assume you take full financial responsibility of any child you create. If the child you accidentally created has serious handicaps you are prepared to pay half of their expenses. If the mother cannot care for the child, as equal parent you would. If you have sex, are you prepared for the consequences? After all, you agreed to have sex.

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    Aliquid A
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If my parents terminated the pregnancy of me before I was born... I wouldn't be upset or offended. It wouldn't bother me at all, because it is really hard to be bothered by something if you don't exist.

    Momma Panda
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A friends baby was misdiagnosed with a heart condition that gave her 6 months to live, tops. She died 10 days old, with 3 operations. Both my friends and her boyfriends family went banktrupt because of the procedures, funeral etc... and the couple separated . She has told me that if she had known of the baby's condition while pregnant, she would terminate the pregnancy. I am embarrassed to admit that I live in a country that wants to forbid abortion even for medical reasons.

    Danni
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any reason a woman has to terminate a pregnancy is reasonable!! It's her body and screw anyone who thinks they have a right to tell her what to do with it! I know this is an unpopular opinion but give women liberty over their own body.

    May
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've worked with severely mentally and physically handicapped people. Some of them were reasonably happy, but for many of them life seemed to be mostly pain. One had several seizures every day - another had to be restrained so that he wouldn't slam his head into any hard surface he could find or tear his hair out. Neither of them ever smiled or seemed to recognize us or their families when they came to visit. I didn't last long in that place - they received the best care possible, but I couldn't bear the suffering. I'd choose abortion every time if I thought I was bringing a child into a life like that.

    Megzymonsta
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have never agreed personally with abortion but I absolutely believe that any woman wishing to have an abortion should have the right to do so. Especially when the child would have a greatly reduced quality of life due to a developmental disability etc.

    Ali MacK
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What do you mean you don't agree with it. I think what you are describing would come across less judgmental worded 'I wouldn't make the decision to have an abortion'

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    Leo Domitrix
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you know you can't even attempt handling a child with issues, then.... don't have kids. Please. Damage done by such parents is.... unspeakable sometimes.

    Kathryn Baylis
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The issue isn’t the abortion. It’s. The. CHOICE. Yes, some of your choices may become regrets later, but at least you had the choice. Consider choices as lessons in probability and chance and the outcomes, good and bad, should belong to those directly involved, not some uninvolved strangers.

    no_name
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And here we are again, with the consent. And if the consent wasn't given?

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    Margie Kelley
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had an abortion and I know that I am not a sinner. My God is not your God and within my faith, I do not believe that you have found salvation through judging others. Take responsibility for your own life and leave others to take responsibility for theirs. Until you walk a mile in some else's shoes you really can not understand.

    Hazel Waring
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thus is very brave of you to do (because lets face it a decision like that is not easy) and to say. I am pregnant and will be having my tests soon; obviously I hope it turns out well but if it doesn't I know any God or Gods there are would rather I wait and have a happy, healthy, functioning and loving family than lives of struggle, pain and regret if I can at all help it. Also all gods are made up, doesn't mean they exist less to those who believe them but where did you think they came from?! XD

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    Annette_
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is so true.... Sadly for instance in Poland my goverment doesn't give a s**t about any of the above reasons and act as if we were all living in a religious state where it is ok to destroy everyone that has common sense.

    Eredyn IreMist
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a person with special needs I agree with this. Some low income families can't pay for or afford the necessary items, meds, or services needed to give the special needs child a better life.

    angie but who cares
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why would you willingly put someone into this world knowing they will face so much pain and ridicule for being who they are

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    Thomas Duncan
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another hard truth which I would like to upvote much more; not to mention, who looks after them once you are gone. They become someone else's dependant, or a ward of the state.

    Aurelia!
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. It should always be a woman's choice if she does or doesn't want to have a baby, and as sad as it is, sometimes when you find out that your child is going to be constantly in pain, or that you won't be able to give a good life, for instance, then it is totally acceptable to terminate the pregnancy.

    Aunt Messy
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Births of babies with Down's Syndrome have dropped by 92% in the last decade alone. Now that there's a blood test that can detect it as early as six weeks of gestation, most women choose to terminate those pregnancies.

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    This is so sad there is much we can learn from disabled people.

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    Manuel Delgado
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Of course it is reasonable. And heartbreaking. My sympathies for those who have to take that dramatic decision.

    Dave
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most of the societies "Morals" are hypocritical, fake and very often sadistically psychopathic. Especially in societies, where religion is an integral part of life.

    Uncommon Boston
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you have children, you are already responsible for their care. With the horrendous medical care in this country, you may end up bankrupt. This child will take all your time and money. Your other children will not get the attention they need as they grow up. Carefully consider the sacrifices of others, not your own. You got pregnant, you cannot expect others to help. Given your current responsibilities, is this even a possibility? The child may need full time help. The parent(s) can't afford to quit their job, have poor health insurance. They can afford and care for a normal or moderately handicapped child -- but an extremely sick child is beyond their reach. What do you suggest?

    Olivia Payne-Alatsari
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every woman should have the right to abortion, it should be a basic human right. Assuming it's before a certain time in pregnancy, earlier the better if its going to happen.

    Gerry Higgins
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one can have an opinion on this except the parents of the child in question. Tough decision.

    Don't Look
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is actually a brilliant reason to terminate a pregnancy. Quality of life.

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    So, should anyone that declares bankruptcy be qualified for state sponsored euthanasia?

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    N G
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I cant remember who said it, but theres a comedian with (I think) cerebral palsy who opined on this. She said that there's no guarantee that screening catches everything - something could go wrong DURING the birth. If the sole reason for termination is the possibility that the child is disabled and you're not ready for that - you're not ready to be a parent. (I have paraphrased slightly because she also mentioned childhood accidents and a few other things - I've summarised)

    Natalie Kudryashova
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We all know that accidents can happen at any point, but knowingly going into it is a very different thing. It’s like saying, if you’re not ready to marry a person in a wheel chair you’re not ready to marry at all.

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    Hedonism Bot
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Handicapped" can mean anything from "capable of living a fulfilling-if-not-entirely-normal life with only a modest amount of additional support" to "essentially no hope of doing anything more with their life than existing, and will require you to sacrifice everything you've worked for just to keep them alive". There is nothing remotely immoral about preventing the birth of someone who has no realistic hope of a respectable quality of life.

    AnRi
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not immoral to prevent a life from forming but it is immoral to kill or murder someone.

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    Pavlina G
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe that choosing to terminate a pregnancy regardless of any reason the mother has is none of mu business and the mother has the choice.

    Computernaut
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is not a very unpopular opinion. Lots of people think this way.

    Zac Alan Daniel Gutierrez
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn't even matter what the reason to terminate the pregnancy was, if the person pregnant didn't want a kid or want to go through childbirth, they don't have to keep the damn thing. Legally and scientifically, that "child" isn't an actual human until its born. When you have an abortion you're basically killing a few f*****g cells lmao.

    Commander Rex
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A few cells, clumped together in the shape of body parts, and you said it right. “Pro-life” people are trying to protect cells lol

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    Don Janes
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Parent's choice. As a social worker whose job it is to assist individuals with disabilities, I've seen unconditional love from their families in the face of chronic hardships. And, I've seen overwhelming grief and guilt when parents have reached the limits of their emotional and financial capabilities to continue their support of their disabled adult or child. There are resources to help the disabled, but they vary greatly from state to state, and no state will brag that they can meet the needs of every disabled person living there.

    Amery
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've NEVER had an amnio, on PURPOSE. My child .. is .... my child. (All turned out perfect, gladly..but would never have known , nor cared.

    NaruTheCollective
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Birth control fails. Bilateral salpingectomies fail. Condoms fail. Vasectomies fail. People have serious health conditions. USA maternal death rates are 800 women a year. We should not have to choose to give birth and die. We shouldn't have to choose to send the child to an adoption agency or a foster home. That's so much worse. A lot of children are put in the foster care system by choice or by force; obviously just because you have ovum or sperm doesn't mean you HAVE to give birth. Congratulations to the people out there that marry and choose to reproduce and choose to be parents and are decent at it. F**k you and shame on you to the people out there who choose to keep their children who were accidents due to birth control method failures, or to those who didn't think about the life that they were going to create in exchange for a few orgasms. These are the people who do not have the financial or emotional stability to be a decent parent. These are the people who have the state government TAKE their children away and who have their offspring in foster care homes or orphanages. Make the right choice.

    Sista of the moon
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually applaud those who keep their “oopsies”. It’s not a shame, most of the time they are fit parents. Also, if you get pregnant *accidentally* you dont just go, WELP, I gotta make the RIGHT CHOICE imma go get me an abortion. It’s expensive, and painful and a lot of people don’t have access to hospitals that provide abortions so, lots of women don’t have a choice. So don’t say f**k you, applaud these parents for rolling with it and making things work.

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    BabaBizzle
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely! Most people can’t handle healthy babies let alone any with special needs. Abortion is vital and most people should be given the chance to terminate without hesitation.

    G R
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    F**k off with this "inspiring" nonsense. I have a job and a family. I don't exist to "inspire" you just because I'm disabled. The OP is profoundly ableist. They see disabled people as burdens or inspiration, not as human beings.

    H G
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm disabled and I don't see this as ableist. I know a woman whose daughter is SEVERELY disabled. She can't walk, talk, or eat without a feeding tube. She's 10 and has had over 100 surgeries. She's had a painful life. Aborting instead of having a child who had no quality of life isn't selfish.

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    Rebecca
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It can be emotionally, mentally, physically and financially taxing.

    G R
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The c***s downvoting all the disabled posters need to go step on Lego.

    KT
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fully support someone who terminates a pregnancy because of this. We all have our limits

    Michael Sanders
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A woman has a right to terminate a pregnancy. The reasoning is theirs. It does get abused at times, but I guess that isn’t the point. But my sister was born with significant physical birth defects. She had to deal with a lot but is now a successful business owner, in the fashion industry no less, and is featured in local publications. I can’t possibly imagine if my mother had chosen to terminate the pregnancy.

    Andrew Gibb
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    An interesting view on this https://www.cbsnews.com/news/down-syndrome-iceland/

    Cybele Spanjaard
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is a personal choice but to consciously bring a any known severely handicapped child in to the world that would need constant care until their death is also not fair to anyone.

    Deb Dedon
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who pays the cost of raising and caring for a child born with a severe handicap? Who cares for them if they outlive their parents? Who guarantees a good quality of life for a severely disabled or handicapped child when the parents are overwhelmed and can't cope any more?

    Jackie Nettleton
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A person has the right to choose what is the best course of action for themselves and the baby and if that means an termination then that’s ok and none of my business. No child should be brought born to parents or parent that doesn’t know how to care for them or want them. It happens far too much and the amount of children in the foster care systems is staggering and it’s difficult to find home for kids that are physically healthy and have few psychological issues without adding in children with disabilities. I know it’s seems harsh but you have to ask is it better to end the pregnancy or have a child that doesn’t have a family that loves and cares for them

    Deana Kouyoumdjian
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This makes me think of elderly in retirement homes. I don't want to be that person, and I know I will be. A whole life of dependence on other people? No thanks. Hope I die before I can't take care of myself. I would be fine being the aborted fetus. We all die, no need for me to be an extra struggle for someone else before that.

    Vicky Z
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who judge that choice have no idea of the challenge and the difficulties a couple will face! It's not only an emotional thing it's also financial we are talking about a huge commitment for life with a lot more expenses! Also in some countries you don't even get the help you should from the government!!

    Autumn
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is honestly a horrible decision to have to face. I really don't like the fact that your taking away someone's chance at life but if you can't care for them properly or if they'll be in constant pain with no hope of it getting any better then what kind of life would they have?

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    Jessica Aubé
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A normal life is never guaranteed for any parent If your child becomes disabled AFTER birth why not abort them then ? Honest to God this is one of the most disgusting things I’ve ever read People with disabilities have VALUE. If you can’t take care of them then there are lots of services and supports availabke for them to live

    Aunt Messy
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a good thing that gestation slavers like you can't really do anything about the lives of others.

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    Dooberman
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Either way, I still don't really agree, have you thought about if it would be fair to the CHILD

    Iapetos
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    SOMEONE needs to be able to take care of these children.

    Ozacoter
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is not reasonable. It is the only ethical thing to do. How abusive you must be as a parent to force your kid to endure years of diseases, pain or handicaps? I have a couple of diseases that might be genetic. A lot of the women in the support groups talk about their pain and misery and then post about how they want kids or are having them. First as a sick mother you arent going to be a good parent. Second risking that your daughters or grandaughters inherit your missery is horrible.

    Phils
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please don't allude that disabled people can't enjoy their lives. My dad was disabled and although his life was challenging and he underwent 30+ surgeries, he accomplished his educational goals, he forged a career helping others, and he had a family that he loved and appreciated. He passed away a beloved member of our community. And if given he choice, I bet he would do it all again despite having a painful disease. So please don't call it abusive. You couldn't be more wrong.

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    margie rheaume
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Says someone who chooses not to reach out for help to the many organizations at the local, state and federal level to help with the care and upkeep of their child. Nobody said it would be easy but the choice to have unprotected sex has consequences.

    Treessimontrees
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a massive 'depends' in this - what level of handicap, is the mother financially ready, will the child need some medical care, constant medical care? This is too vague.

    WilvanderHeijden
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really don't care if people don't or do have their disabled child. It's their choice and it's their responsibility. But I do care when the same parents at one day decide that they can't take care of their child any more and leave the burden and costs to society. I didn't encourage you to have that disabled child, why should I pay for it for the next 30 years?

    AnRi
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see... you don't care about anyone or anything else but yourself and your money....

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    Jeannie Keys
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm glad we just continue to tolerate ableist attitudes while attempting to prove how accepting we are of literally every other type of human being. Race, gender, preferences, etc. All worth civil rights fights. Disability though? Nope. Get rid of them. Thanks for furthering this narrow world-view. I'll never visit your site again.

    Ednineson Vertus
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do think people have a choice but a life is still a life even if the child is handicapped and will not be able to do things most normal people would do it is better than them not experiencing it at all

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    A lot of people in this thread clearly don't know many people with disabilities. Abortion is 100% okay. Abortion BECAUSE the kid will have a disability (not a disability that will cause them unbearable suffering or an early death) is not. Aborting a fetus with Down's for example is not okay. Would you be okay with people aborting female fetuses because they don't want daughters? Of course not. Abortion is okay. Abortion because the kid will turn out differently than you hoped is not. If you're not okay with having a disabled kid, don't become a parent.

    Commander Rex
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It could be they aren’t ready for handling a disabled child. It’s harder then dealing with a normal child.

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    Only to heartless murdering bastards. There is no definitive tests that can be done to guarantee a fetus will be born handicapped. If you believe what you said, then parents should be able to terminate the life of thier child if it is handicapped up till say age 10?

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    Then put it up for adoption to a family that would welcome this child with open arms.

    Bex Hallihan
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes because people are just falling over themselves to adopt disabled children, that why the orphanages are empty- oh wait...

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    M O'Connell
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is the beauty of the "pro-choice" platform, you get to choose and make your own decision based on your personal values and beliefs. Your own beliefs and actions don't affect the decisions of anyone else.

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    Getting ready to drop to the bottom of the list. But does no one see the similarities between this and Nazis euthanizing people with schizophrenia, downs syndrome, or any other physical or mental disability? There is no such thing as a perfect human.

    M O'Connell
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No human is perfect! We are not striving to create a 'master-race.' What we have are the tools necessary to detect problems beforehand. If my child were born with Downs, I would be more than happy to help them grow and live their best life. Genetic screening is a marvelous tool for couples looking to have children. If both parents carry a gene for a well-understood disease, perhaps they should adopt instead. All of that aside, if we learned during a prenatal screening that our child had some sort of irreparable disfigurement, or would be likely to require life-long constant medical care, it would be a horrible decision to have to make, but we would have to consider what we are able to do as parents. If their life, and our lives, were to be little other than pain and suffering, terminating the pregnancy is something we would have to consider. It makes me sick to think about it, but it could happen. I can never know what I would say until I was in that position.

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    Are you people mental? You sound like the Nazis in 1940's Germany. Just because a child is going to be born and not be "perfect" you shouldn't murder them. What's next? I don't want to have this baby because it has red hair, so just murder her and I'll be on my way. This is disgusting. As far as freedom of choice, the mother had a choice as to whether or not to have sex. From there, the choice of whether the baby lives should not be hers.

    Bex Hallihan
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Im not sure if you're aware of this but women are allowed to have sex and NOT get pregnant. Its not f*****g Russian roulette you weapon.

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    So, say we find out what gene makes gay or trans people. Ok to abort specifically for that, or nah?

    Hazel Waring
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being gay or trans is not a disability, this is about a person having the choice of a hard life caring for a disabled child or knowingly bringing a child into the world that will struggle with a disability. If gay or trans people struggle with their life because of being gay or trans - it is because of you, not them.

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    You do realize that there are plenty of folks who would adopt 'defective' kids and killing them off happens because folks would rather throw something away than let someone else enjoy it.

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    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts You were the adult when they were a child. If their first instinct, as soon as they get out from under your thumb, is to completely ignore you forever, you need to own the fact that you messed up as a parent at several, consistent, points along the road throughout your child's upbringing. They hate you for a good reason, and they're probably better off without you in their lives.

    There are a number of forms of abuse that range from over-parenting, to neglect, over-discipline to straight up negative enabling behavior.

    I have friends who don't talk to their parents because the strictness was so suffocating, and friends who don't talk to their parents because they were lazy bums who never took an interest in their child's life. There are tons of other reasons kids abandon relationships with their folks, but the one thing that stays true through all of these experiences for me is that it's always the parents fault.

    This is mostly about relationships that end as soon as the kid leaves the house, not necessarily relationships that break down during adulthood, although the same reasoning could be applied in a lot of these cases too.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed! If kids feel the need to distance themselves completely after they grow up, something must have happened in their childhood that messed up their views towards them.

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    #12

    Got a call from the school saying my son punched a girl in his class. I was mad and ready to ground him when he got home when it occurred to me that I should ask why he hit her. The principal told me that the little girl pushed him and took his lunch money and continued to take her folder and smack him with it when he got fed up and punched her in the shoulder. Now, if they knew that the little girl had done all this and was continuing to do it, they should have intervened. They didn't so my son defended himself. Not in trouble.

    When I told the principal that it seemed justified, she told me that I shouldn't make it seem okay to hit little girls. I let her know that my children know that it's not okay to hit anybody. But that it's also not okay to stand there and just be hit either. It's totally okay to defend yourself against anybody and everybody that is attacking you.

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    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts I don’t understand why it’s illegal in some places and under many circumstances to sleep in your car. Your car is your property and you should have the right to sleep in it without question. For any reason whatsoever. It could be that you can’t afford an apartment or you just decided not to drive home drunk and sleep in your car. Or any other damn reason. I understand if you park your car on someone’s property illegally and try to sleep in it you should be forced to find another spot but sleeping in your car should be legal. It’s property and no one should be telling me that I can’t sleep in it.

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    Amy S
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never knew there were parts of the world where this is illegal! That seems so unfair.

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    #14

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts No music is worth actively giving a rapist money no matter how much you like his songs. I can't understand the logic of continuing to support an artist that did something so terrible. He admitted to it in a court of law, how people still support this man is beyond me.

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    #15

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts Now if you plan on having an open relationship, I don’t care, and disregard my title, but so many monogamous couples see this an opportunity to get their d**k wet one last time or a hot nude man to strip for them. Just saying this is unpopular, because it was on the front page of a relationship. I always thought my Eastern (cannot bring up which one because Bot thinks I’m racist) Wedding Traditions were unnecessarily long and padded out, but it’s better then hiring an escort to pleasure you on the last day your “single”. Why get married if you’re going to miss the life of casual hookups that much?

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    #16

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts Every time I open my phone, look at a newspaper, watch TV, or go onto my computer, all I see is news about the United States of America. I don't give a single s*it about that country, its infuriating. I couldn't care less about who is running the USA any more than I care who is running Zimbabwe or Denmark.

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    Dark Pearl
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like memes about the USA... Where else should I get my news from?

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    #17

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts Watching yourself lose all of your hair and not being able to do anything about it is an agonizing process and no one deserves to be made fun of for it. It is just as bad as any other form of body shaming and people who do it should be called out on it. If you think making fun of people who are fat, skinny, small, big etc etc is bad, but making fun of bald people is okay, then you are a hypocrite.

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    BorPand8
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never heard people making fun of bald guys. Now comb-overs, that's another story... Y'know what though, I have heard something similar when he's hitting on a girl who's, like, 20 years younger than him. And in those cases, it's not about being bald, it's about being a pervy creep hitting on women young enough to be your daughter.

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    #18

    Unless you’re adopting them, there’s no reason why you should have 10 kids. Especially if you’re struggling with your other kids.

    Just absolutely no fu**ing reason why. Four kids(biological) should be the maximum and even that’s pushing it.

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    #19

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts I never answer my phone if its caller unknown and that could be a problem in an emergency. At the same time I can get up to 10 unknown calls a day from two separate numbers attached to a single device. If your calling me I should have a right to know who you are and yes that should influence if I will answer or not.

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    Dark Pearl
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    IKR. I keep getting a call from the most evil human being in the world, and she hides behind 'Private Number'. What a b***h!

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    #20

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts I am not American, but my country's tv channels play a lot of American shows and all these kids always complain about how utterly disgusting they find broccoli and how they would rather die than eat it.

    Well if you're gonna salt and boil it, what else do you expect? Add some spices, red chilli powder, olive oil, turmeric or some sauces, and it tastes absolutely godly. Even without too much spice, it still tastes so good and I love gorging on them.

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    #21

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts Wikipedia is a practically unlimited source of free knowledge which is constantly being monitored by an army of nerds.

    The fact that we do not have to pay for access is a miracle.

    (Near enough) every article has a full and reliable list of references at the bottom.

    I understand that students should be encouraged use the references at the bottom for true research but this is not taught. Students are simply told ‘Stay away from Wikipedia, anyone can change it, it’s completely unreliable’.

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    Mohsie Supposie
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do use it sometimes to get factual information that would generally be undisputed. However, I agree that everything should be double-checked if using the information for anything serious.

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    #22

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts As of right now I am 18 years old and looking into the future is depressing. I figure I’m gonna have to work 8 hours a day, sleep 8 hours a day and then have 8 hours a day to myself. This does not include things like getting ready for work, commute or shopping/cooking. At the end of the day I’m only going to have a few hours to do what I want... for over 40 years. It seems like my entire life is just preparing me to follow directions and then putting me into a factory where I’m a brick in a wall (reference intended). When I tell other people this, I get a response along the lines of: “That’s what everyone has to do,” or “That’s how its always been.” Why? Even if it is how life works. How it has to be to maintain quality for everyone. What is the point in living? This is existential crisis material. Thanks for reading.

    tl;dr - People think I’m crazy for thinking working 1/3rd of your life is crazy.

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    #23

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts The last war that was really about “our rights” was the civil war. Vietnam, WWI, II, Korea, Iraq and Afghanistan were really about global power dynamics. The soldiers that fought in these wars were not defending our rights, because our rights were not really being threatened.

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    Not Proud British
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They are usually fighting against an army that were once financed and backed by their government anyway. And if that war is won, the side the soldiers fought for, risked their lives for, could easily become the new enemy and they end up going back and fighting them again. It's pointless.

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    #24

    Even with all this stuff going on. I don't believe that Racism is as bad as the early 1900s.

    With the way technology is advancing today, we're able to see people for who they really are and called them out. Say what you want but atleast people from other races are fighting together. It isn't perfect, but I can say, atleast we're trying.

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    #25

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts The only exception is if you cannot donate an organ for medical reasons, I've heard people say that they would accept a donated organ (but they wouldn't be happy to donate one) which is the height of selfishness in my opinion, letting people die so that a dead religious person can keep their organs (which will be cremated or buried) is insane.

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    Wyn Williams
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fully agree, where I live in Finland it's 'presumed consent' so you have to opt out, relatives may be consulted in certain circumstances but can't object because they don't like the idea. 90/95% of those needing transplants get them

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    #26

    I've found people with less social media presence tend to be less narcissistic and worlds more interesting. It seems like everyone wants to be an influencer nowadays or needs to feel validated for whatever reason. Don't even get me started on influencing. You can be a catch and not put yourself out there so much. Idk, maybe I just enjoy my privacy. I don't like having selfies of my spouse and I posted every day and to have my personal life plastered across the internet. I doubt I'm alone with this opinion.

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    #27

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts Staying up late feeling like you got all the time in the world the night before a day off is 10x better than the actual day off where you need to be asleep by a certain time to get up for work the next day

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    Bill Evs
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've always felt like that too. Nothing better on a Sunday evening knowing you're off on the Monday.

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    #28

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts Now i know that this is a REALLY unpopular opinion because Elon Musk is a poster boy for zoomers because he posts and likes memes on twitter. Right at the start of the world pandemic he was posting on twitter how the panic is stupid and that people are panicking without a reason, even though people were falling and dying like flies into thousands of numbers, he belittled the virus and said how it was not that bad, and even compared it to a common flu, now he posts tweets to free the country and that people have lost their freedom, other than that he is praizing Texas on twitter for openning up stores and businesses, this is a great example of a billionaire that doesn't care about people and only cares about his money, i don't know how i feel about him at the moment, i am sad because he was one of the billionaires that were doing good for earth.. but this is just a big disappointment, i wonder where will he take this. What are your thoughts on this?

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    #29

    If true gender equality comes to fruition, then what it will mean is that people will stop giving a f*ck about one another's gender. Everyone would have equal opportunity, treatment, respect and appreciation, while being judged based on character, ability, personality and other proper grounds based on the situation. There would be no need for gender-based celebrations, since all related hurdles would have already been crossed.

    What will be celebrated though, is mankind coming one step closer to overall human equality.

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    #30

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts In my opinion, math is the most beautiful of any "traditional school subject," but the thing is schools are set up in a way that encourages teaching math as a bunch of formulas to memorize. And real math is seldom about memorization. I heard a friend describe math as "the most useful game humanity has ever created" and I have to say I agree with that. Math is like a game, it's a playground where you try to extrapolate truths from a set of rules. I will now spend the rest of this post explaining parts of math that are ignored in schools but are super interesting to me. My explanations don't use any technical math terms, but some of the videos linked will require some thinking.

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    #31

    This one makes me rage sometimes. So there you are, having made some sort of mistake.

    For hypotheticals lets pretend you forgot to put your mask on before going into Walmart. (This isn't about masks dont make it about masks, just using an example).

    "Sir you need to have a mask on." (Acceptable)

    "Why yes here it is, I'm so sorry I forgot. You're right." (Puts on mask)

    We are officially done here.

    "Well you see theres a pandemic going on....." (wrong. The conversation is over)

    "Yeah, you're right I'm sorry man." (Acknowledged twice now, problem corrected! We are done now.)

    "When you dont have a mask on you can infect other people...." (why the hell are you still talking)

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    #32

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts My words might be all over the place, just trying to gather my thoughts.

    It’s crazy to me how in this day and age we advocate for women’s mental health, we advocate for people to be understanding of women’s needs. But i noticed with the whole Will smith debacle (His wife jada was sleeping with someone while they were still married but taking a break) anyways in the video he looks really sad and like he’d been crying - might’ve just been tired but nevertheless, the internet wouldn’t stop with the jokes. If the shoe were on the other foot it would be people banding together calling others insensitive. I know that it’s popular right now to say “men are trash” and i just think if people went around saying “women are trash” everyone would be up in arms. We should be advocating for good mental health for ALL people. I know statistically speaking men commit more crimes and stuff like that, and it’s more of a reason to lift men up and advocate for their mental health.

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    Isolde Leeuwen
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Double standards due to sexism are a loss for all sexes, no matter who seems to profit at first glance

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    #33

    This is something I seriously want people's opinions on. I saw a post of Leo DiCaprio taking a selfie with a young fangirl (looked like 12yo or something) at the US Open and just sitting there chatting to her. The first comment I see is "Idk this makes me uncomfortable"

    I can't tell you how much it pissed me off. Someone in my eyes doing something so fu**ing cool as giving a fan the time of day and chatting to them can INSTANTLY be associated with pedophilia. It makes me sick. And then we call out celebrities when they don't want to take a selfie with us?

    I love kids. I love listening to them, I love escaping reality with them, I love teaching them, I love watching them grow. How does someone see that and think "Well then you must love having sex with them too"

    How fu**ing disturbed are you as a person for your mind to take that route? In this picture Leo isn't touching the girl, he's not sniffing the girl or doing some other creepy ass s*it. How is talking to a young person instantly associated with pedophilia?

    We desperately need to change this attitude, because the people protecting and making young kids feel comfortable are being shamed and wrongfully accused of pedophilia.

    By all means, at all times be wary. But don't just jump to pedophilia. That is f**ked up and we need to change that mindset.

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    Cynner
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree! I have a soccer play field in front of my house and sometimes i see old men watching the kids (all ages) play soccer. I always melt, thinking of my father who loved soccer when he was Young and played in the street he grew up in. He also loves to watch the kids play and make a chat. I know the men that are watching the kids are remeniscing their fond memories, but i can't help to think that i hope the kids know that too and that it's not a Creep watching them.. hate it that it always Comes to mind.

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    #34

    I think backstories influences the judges' decision unfairly. Who would you rather choose, a kid who got cancer or an actually talented person but has had a good life. It's called America's Got Talent for a reason. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not some sympathy-less person. I certainly feel bad for them and do hope they have a better life in the future. I just feel like talent shows should be judged on actual talent.

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    #35

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts It's so hard to find a news outlet that will just present the information without spin. Without trying to push you one way or another. I just want to know what happened so I can decide whether I like it or not. Why is that so hard to find? Quit telling me what to think.

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    Margot Piasecka
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    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially visible in the US. In most European countries we don't have this problem - at least not to the same dramatic extent. At least there are some strict regulations and guidelines. Luckily. Also the more parties in a country the bigger the spectrum of information. Checking international media also helps to get a broader understanding.

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    #36

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts Don’t find fulfillment in your career. Find fulfillment in the hobbies you have, adventures you go on, and people you help because you have the financial freedom to do so. If you love your job that’s awesome, but this isn’t realistic for many people.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretty much, I had a well paid career I was not particularly happy in but it paid the bills and allowed me to support family and friends

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    #37

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts I’m just one guy. I try to be a good person; I try to treat everyone equally; I try to be kind and compassionate; I try to be a force of good.

    But I’m just one guy. I have problems of my own. I have a life of my own. I shouldn’t be expected to constantly wade through the s*it that is the political and societal hellscape of 2020. I’m not a racist because you don’t think I’m angry enough. I’m not uneducated because I don’t pour through hours of toxic political commentary. I’m not privileged for wanting to distance myself from hatred.

    I’m so sick of being alternatively mocked and hated for not living up to other people’s freedom fighter fantasy. I’m trying my best but I’m just one guy.

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    Dark Pearl
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    IKR. It is so annoying when people expect you to give a flying duck about their nonsense.

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    #38

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts It is so frustrating to shop on Amazon with the Chinese sellers and manufacturers on the site.

    The fake reviews are overwhelming (think 50-90% fake reviews on FakeSpot or ReviewMeta), plus the products are cheap and break and when you go back to the manufacturer, most of them don't exist after 1-2 years. I would assume it's the same group of people making crappy merchandise and cycling their names over and over again and buying the same fake reviews.

    Beyond this, I'm always worried that they've put some pollutant or carcinogen into the manufacturing process because their regulations are so lax. The examples in the media are countless--toothpaste with diethylene glycol, pet food that kills our dogs and cats, toys with lead paint, make up with lead, beryllium, bacterial contamination, cheap hardware that self destructs after a year.

    And it can be so hard to tell because they often manufacture for companies like Mattel and Nestle so you think you're getting American or European.

    This has been going on for decades and we just turn a blind eye to it because they're cheaper. Business ethics wise, they're about where the US was in the 1920s. This is an example of how capitalism can result in deadly consequences without strong governmental regulation.

    Please feel free to downvote me into oblivion, whatever, I don't care, I'm just sick of the nonsense.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everything is from China and yes the fake reviews are horrible. It shouldn't be allowed. I reported some fake reviews and nothing was done. You get to where you don't trust any of them.

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    #39

    Swimming is like walking, but for water. It's part of the few basic means of movement we, humans, have at our disposal, along with running, crawling and climbing. Not knowing how to swim puts you at a HUGE disadvantage, as you pretty much can't avoid water. Any mildly interesting / fun activity might turn into a potentially lethal one, should you not know how to swim. Going fishing? Better not fall into the water... It's like permadeath for video games: instead of ending up wet, and maybe slightly (or very) cold, you just friggin' die if you fall into deep water. I know, swimmers can drown too, but if you can't swim, you're guaranteed to have to be rescued.

    On another note, it's so weird to see healthy people being incapable of performing the most basic human activities: I've seen grown men injure themselves trying to climb over a 3 feet fence (not drunk), women twisting their ankles and tearing tendons when running towards a bus stop, etc. Now, I'm not saying that everybody needs to be a world-class climber like Adam Ondra or swimmer, like Michael Phelps. But learning how to... I don't know, not die when navigating anything but flat terrain seems like it should be part of being a grown human.

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    #40

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts The company is avoiding the following costs by selling digitally:

    Sourcing materials

    Manufacturing

    Shipping

    Shelf space

    Employee wages

    YET IT STILL costs the same price as a digital copy. Anyone who buys digital is absolutely being scammed.

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    #41

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts It is disgusting. If Will had cheated on Jada the entire internet would turn on him and crucify him. Except because he is a man he is the one being mocked and memed.

    Firstly, we don't have a reason to be involved in their relationship, and if they choose to make it work then good on them.

    However, that doesn't mean Jada should be proud of her actions. She abused the trust of a great man. I'm kinda surprised the internet isn't backing Will on this to be honest.

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    Ozacoter
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cheating is always bad no matter who does it. Mocking a heartbroken person is really terrible.

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    #42

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts I hate always being teased for ordering vanilla ice cream or buying a vanilla cake. No, vanilla is not plain. It is a flavor, and there is such thing as plain ice cream (nasty btw). If anything, chocolate is more plain than vanilla since literally everything can be chocolate.

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    Ozacoter
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A good vanilla icecream (with real eggs and so) it probably the best flavour that I ever tried. I usually ask chocolate, nugat or coffee but if there is homemade vanilla it is really better.

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    #43

    Most people I've talked to say they avoid giving money to homeless folks because they think they will use it for beer, cigarettes, and/or drugs. They would rather give them food or some other tangible item to help them out. While I understand the thinking behind it I'm also not naive enough to think that my $5 is going to magically get this person off the streets and back on their feet. These people are already down on their luck and have enough to worry about. If my $5 helps get them a pack of cigarettes or a beer and that's what they need to get through another day with the sh**ty hand they've been dealt then i'm OK with that.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you. I am, at his moment, doing an overnight shift at a homeless shelter. Most of our guests are alcoholics or addicts. Right now, it is 25 F outside. Maybe some of our guests will get clean/sober someday; maybe they won't. Either way, they aren't freezing on the street tonight.

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    #44

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts As the title says. I’m so sick of this virtue signaling on social media and cities where everyone is clapping and praising us. When you apply to medical school you apply to these terms and it’a just our job. Sure, it’s tiresome and the situation isn’t really great but still. A lot of my coworkers are pumping their ego with this and enjoy the attention. I don’t

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can understand why you don't want it but I think in this case, the pumped-up egos might help your coworkers with the motivation and strength that they need for working (especially nowadays with the pandemic) and I don't see anything wrong with that. If they enjoy the attention and it gives them more energy...? What's the harm.

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    #45

    It’s impossible to watch something nowadays that’s aimed towards teens without these portrayals. This is creating massive delusions for young teenagers in terms of what they think they will look like or should look like and it’s terrible. It should be banned. They are designed to be idolised or even sexualised and displayed as desired so what do think it does to a person who doesn’t look like that.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very irritating. The worst example I've seen of that was in "The Birdcage" (one of my favorite movies) where Robin Williams son was supposed to be 19 and he looked 30.

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    #46

    Every single day we are getting away from being human, what we've learned in thousands of years..... We are getting more and more just materialistic beings........ I don't see a bright future here ....... Well, not too optimistic.

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    #47

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts I get that they are historically important, but some people think these guys from 200 years ago were incredible at predicting the future. As a non American, this always seems weird to me.

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    #48

    I have been getting so much grief from my gamer friends for playing games on easy mode. They are calling me “not a true gamer” because I don’t play on hard mode. I just want to enjoy a game for the story line and not get frustrated dying endless times not being able to defeat a boss or making a simple mistake. Does that make me less of a gamer?

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    #49

    It takes a lot of balls to admit that you're attracted to children. If they are trying to get help, they shouldn't be attacked by people for being a bad person. A pedophile is not a bad person until they actually commit an offence.

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    Luther von Wolfen
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is spot on. People experience attraction before they act on it. It is possible for a person to experience attraction to children and seek treatment. Shame and stigma prevent people from getting help.

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    #50

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts Whenever I hear someone talk about a restaurant where the menus have pictures of the food on them, they talk about it as if it’s a red flag. Bullsh*t!! I want to see pictures of what the food I am going to order looks like!! It’s so much easier to decide what you want to eat that way. Oh and I don’t understand how people can think it’s tacky then look at the food at the table next to them and be like “oh that looks good”, then ask the other table what they ordered so they can order the same thing. I don’t care if it makes me seem like a dumb small minded person. I wanna see more pictures of food. It rules!!

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    Hannah Edwards
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But crushing disappointment follows when your meal looks nothing like the picture.

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    #51

    The dude is a prick and an as**ole flat out, yeah maybe being bipolar is why he is an as**ole but it doesn’t make him any less of an as**ole. Everyone has problems some people are as**oles because of how they were raised, some people are as**oles because they hate their job. They are all reasons but not excuses. Kanye rushes the stage at the VMA’s and took over a speech I don’t care if he’s bipolar he is a f**king asshole. He has also acknowledged he is bipolar accepts his diagnosis but still goes off his meds! F**k that dude he is an as**ole.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you want to know whether being bipolar is an "excuse" for being an a-hole, consider other people who are bipolar. Stephen Fry - if you agree that he is NOT an a-hole, you must therefore accept that Kanye just IS an a-hole and bipolar doesn't enter into it.

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    #52

    This way anyone falsely accused does not get their name dragged through the sand until they have been convicted. We have made it too easy to destroy people's lives on false accusations. I believe protecting the innocent is just as important as prosecuting the guilty. The only downside would be if someone had evidence on the accused, but this could also be found as a part of the investigation process.

    So maybe a better definition if the initial hearing is not dismissed and the judge wants to pursue the case further. I just don't think its fair to lose your job over something that's dismissed in 5 minutes in court, because that's all someone with a false accusation wants.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. Both ways. The accused should be protected until trial. But once they are found guilty (if they are) they should be publicly denounced in cases of murder, rape, pedophilia etc. Too many guilty people remain anonymous.

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    #53

    When browsing on some shady websites that aren't centered around pornography, I'm sure we've all had porn ads with either partial or full nudity pop up out of nowhere or on the sidebar. Just because you're on a website that requires 18 plus does not mean that it should be perfectly fine to show porn without the consent of the viewer. For example on Spotify I don't listen to any sexual content or sexual podcasts, however I get recommended a show called "hentai with senpai," and I have to deal with an extraordinarily sexualized hentai face on my home screen. I'm not even the only person who deals with that specific show showing up on their home screen unsolicited. So to reiterate, if exposing yourself to someone without their consent, even if they're 18 years old or up, is a crime, then it should also be a crime to show nude or sexual contents to people in pop up ads without their consent.

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    #54

    Random opinion I just thought about from past experiences. By this I don't mean absolutely freezing/sizzling climates, I just mean from mildly warmer/colder weather than normal. I've seen myself be really stressed during warmer weather, with no real way to cool myself at all. On the other hand, with colder climates, it's really easy to cool yourself down; get under a warm blanket, get a hot drink and just vibe there I guess. It's really comforting too, probably one of the best feelings ever.

    Though this doesn't really make sense if you're outdoors and not inside, it's technically inside I'm talking about. Being outside is a whole different story, though it's technically the same answer on that side in my opinion.

    So in conclusion; I don't like going outside because it's too warm.

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    Dark Pearl
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Does warmth nauseate and fluster you as well? I have told my parents that, yet they swaddle me unnecessarily and I hate it...

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    #55

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts Stealthing was rather prominent in the news not too long ago (over here in the UK),
    our laws cause this to be classified as rape.

    If someone female lies about using birth control, they should face prosecution.
    Furthermore, any child should not be the financial responsibility of the father.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Children should be the legal responsibilities of their parents. No matter what.

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    #56

    You may not want to admit it. But it's the truth. With having no knowledge of the outside world except through what was allowed in through propaganda, you'd most likely be swayed to join. They were humans just like us. And if you grew up during that time there, you would most likely be one of them. When the option is join or be labeled as an enemy with the threats of death, most people will join.

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    Luther von Wolfen
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless you are a Jew, person of color, LGBT, physically or mentally impaired in any way, communist, socialist, alcoholic, known political activist or maker of any form of art, literature &c that the Nazis didn't approve of. Many people who were not in any of the above categories spoke out against the Nazis and/or actively opposed them.

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    #57

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts As a man in my late 50s I wish I had the courage to walk off a job when I was younger. After starting my own business and spending years in upper management I have to say I love millennials and think they will change the work place for the better. Seeing a 22 college grad say that's not my job and not in my job description always gave me a envy boner, watching a middle manager retort with if you don't like the job leave and having a millennial fire back I'll send out 100 apps on indeed tonight and have a new one tommorow bye! Wanna know what that makes me do? Think hard about how my employees are treated and how well they are paid because on today's day and age my job is just as replaceable as they are. Keep ghosting and walking away my young friends I get it!

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    #58

    If Lizzo could look like Gabrielle Union, she would. If James Corden could look like Ryan Philippe, he would. I realize everybody’s body is different, but being overweight is… OVER, what your weight should be. For your body. This changes for every person.

    Full disclosure, I’m about 60 pounds overweight and I’m included in my statement. I don’t like the way I look and feel. But I’m not out here like “ahh I love my curves”.

    Now cue all the anecdotal, medical-anomaly rebuttals

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with you I think the main thing is changing your weight for you to be healthy and not to conform with the so called ideal body type.

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    #59

    Like, you can't say that you support male victims and then only bring them up when people talk about women being raped. It's not talked about enough but the fact that most of the times it's just a counterpoint is disgusting.

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    Ozacoter
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also often the same sexist men that use male rape victims to undermine the female ones are the first ones to tell men to "man up" and bully them if they get raped.

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    #60

    I've always thought the idea of "equals" for a novel would be incredibly interesting. To read the exact same story, but from a different perspective. I imagine this would be great for the Harry Potter books, as there was so much depth shown in certain characters that it's a shame we only got to read it from Harry's perspective. This idea of "equals" would also allow readers to see depth and traits in a character they may not have seen before just by reading the main character's perspective.

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    Nadine Bamberger
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have you heard of fan fiction? It's actually awesome, go to archiveofourown.org and give it a try.

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    #61

    Social media was introduced as a way to communicate with friends or classmates and other strangers. Now, it seems that social media is one of the worst things ever. Twitter has become a prime place for lots of beef and drama and other nonsensical conversations. Tiktok really is just for people to simp over hot girls doing dances. Instagram is where everyone likes to post their whole life story, and these people always have problems with stalkers and other complications with the lack of privacy. I could go on but I'm really over it. Social media will never be the same and this really sickens me because there's a lot of good on twitter and instagram, but these platforms get completely drowned out by all the bad.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never have lives less lived been more thoroughly chronicled (Dennis Miller).

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    #62

    That's right. Salt and vinegar are the superior chip. Sour cream & onion chips just have an overly sweet yet salty taste that is just overwhelmingly disgusting. Barbecue chips leave your mouth feeling dry and bitter because of the awful taste. Salt and vinegar are just a perfect combination of flavors that is just overall better than other chips

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    Nevena
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love salt and vinegar chips, but in my country sadly they are really hard to find

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    #63

    I’m talking the ones that have been bred to an early grave with deformed features and problems that make them suffer their whole life, with breathing problems, walking problems, brains that are too big for their craniums etc. Like Pugs, King Charles spaniels, Bulldogs, Great Danes and others.

    Some might be saved by cross breeding and a complete change to the breed standard, but we shouldn’t go on like we are now.

    Dogs shouldn’t be born just to suffer and die for our entertainment.

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    They shouldn't be allowed to 'die out' but breeding for certain traits should be stopped.

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    #64

    He was a black, retied police chief who was murdered in the protests after he tried to defend a pawn shop that was getting looted. No coverage from anyone and any mention of him on the big subreddits get instantly taken down. There should be a giant outrage from this, but its getting buried and 99% of people will have no idea it happened because the media want you to think that all the protests are peaceful.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go to Youtube and type in the words "China Muslims" and watch one of the videos. The media will not likely cover it, ever. And the thing is, its still happening, and no one seems to care

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    #65

    I'm British, from a small town in the middle of England, nobody EVER says "Y'all" here and i don't get why.

    When i first heard the word i thought it was stupid, but the older i get the more and more i realise how much i would easily use "Y'all" in every day life.

    I'm a manager in my office so i often have to refer to multiple people at a time, "You all" or "You lot" or "All of you" is fine for now but can come off quite harsh, i've now rotated "Y'all" into the mix and it just FITS so well. Its soft, comes out friendly. Everyone knows what i mean, it rolls off the tongue nicely and i get to put that sweet southern accent on when i say it.

    I think we should all adapt to it because honestly, it works.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can get ‘yous’ used in uk as a plural of ‘you’, that’s a bit like it. I love y’all too.

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    #66

    As a British guy, I shouldn't have to know everything about the US or have to introduce myself as "The British guy" every time I talk to someone online. I also don't want to be treated like some mystical being from lands afar just because I speak a little differently.

    The internet (unless you are playing a game where you can pick the server location) is a worldwide thing, that isn't based in one location. It can be used by anybody. Most people on the internet aren't even from the US.

    And my biggest pet peeve through all this has to be when Americans say "the world" but really just mean "the US". The world is all countries, not just all the states.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right? Some USA users are extremely arrogant. Usually if a person says a generalisation without mentioning that this happens in their country they are from USA.

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    #67

    I think a good example of this is the show Riverdale. If you don’t know, it’s a show using the characters of Archie comics in a teen murder drama ish show. In that show their lives are about whatever big mystery is going on, their relationships, and their friends. The characters in the show are high-school age (16 I believe) but a majority of the cast are actors in their mid-twenties (one actor is almost 29).

    In the show, or as much as I’ve seen, being an actual high school student occupies very little of the character’s lives and the aspects of high school we do see the characters participate it could more or less be translated into a college setting. So why even make them high school students? I know to reach a youth audience and whatever but seeing how a lot of this shows content displays varied sexual relationships between characters, I feel like it’s a bit weird seeing all these high school age relationships so graphically being acted by much older people.

    And I’m realizing now that Riverdale isn’t the best example (a plot point of season 1 is an inappropriate teacher student relationship) but there are a lot of shows like this out. I think Hollywood should stop fetishizing high school sexual relationships when they really don’t have to. My issue with it isn’t so much the displays of sex, more that the show creators are leaning so heavily into all the displays of sex of people who are supposed to be minors. Gives a weird voyeurism vibe. If the plot allows, just make the setting college, it would even make more sense with the plots sometimes.

    TLDR: I have no issue with sex being a plot point in teen-oriented television but the mentality of “We have 27 year olds playing 16 year olds so let’s shoot this soft core porn scene because we can 😎” is very problematic and approaching borderline pedophilic

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And it traumatises a lot of kids for not being sexually active in school. Look at inceks and how they seem to believe that everybody f***s from a very young age. It is all a lie from media guys.

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    #68

    "In 2015, 6ix9ine pled guilty to a felony count of use of a child in a sexual performance and received a four-year probation period and a 1,000-hour community service order. In 2018, he was arrested on racketeering, weapons, and drugs charges. He pled guilty to nine charges including conspiracy to commit murder"
    Yet somehow all his videos get 100s of millions of views. He is the Roman Polanski of hip hop. There are tons of hop hop artists who are better than him, both musically and as people. He is the very definition of someone who should not be celebrated. A disgusting, child abusing sicko.

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    #69

    Until this year, I thought of China just as the closest contender for America’s heavyweight superpower belt, especially in the next couple decades. Recently, however, after reading article after article about the brazen systematic detainment, and torture of a conservative 1.5 million people from a single ethnic group I’m getting serious fascist Germany vibes.

    At least the United States hides its ethnic mass incarceration under the veneer of mandatory minimum sentencing laws (I’m kidding, this is not the same thing, obviously)

    One article published just today presented evidence that the Chinese government had been collecting involuntary samples of DNA in order to map faces. Are you f**king kidding?

    Also disturbing has been China’s active use of existing technology to repress dissent in Hong Kong.

    China has repeatedly demonstrated they have no qualms about shoving racial minorities into concentration camps, and a brutal capacity to eliminate opposition. I don’t see any reason why China will not continue to get worse in these regards. It seems that if any country is soon to reach ww2 Germany levels of power and fascism it will definitely be China.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get what you mean, but a lot of people don't seem to understand that its the government who are doing all these terrible things and not the people. most of the Chinese people have done nothing wrong and yet get blamed for the governments doing.

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    #70

    My ex has women telling her on social media how amazing she is for raising kids in her own and how strong and independent she is for picking herself up after the divorce (that she caused with her affair) and being a mom. I have none of that. Its not that my friends don't think I'm a good dad, its that as a society, we have made the single mom a sort of unsung hero. What about single dads? We do the same s*it. I work and take care of my kids the same way but I don't get celebrated like I'm doing something amazing. I just get the recognition that almost all dads get... Nothing.

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I support you, sir. :). You are probably doing a better job than that cheater.

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    #71

    I hate hearing people say, "oh, he bought a Corvette because he's balding and needs to feel younger." No. No no no no NO. As someone who's never earned much money because I made the spectacular decision to do what I love rather than what was lucrative, I'm finally in a position in my late 30s where I can actually save up to buy my dream car.

    I get it if cars aren't important to you. I get it if you dislike the impact they have on the environment. I get it if you think sports cars are too expensive and a hassle. I get it if you see a forty something guy in a BMW M3 and assume he's compensating for something. But realize that automotive enthusiasm is a huge part of life for a lot of people, and can often be the biggest connection they have to family members or friends.

    As a car enthusiast, I look forward to increased electrification for a lower carbon footprint (and ridiculous torque for better acceleration). I accept that my budget will have to increase for a cool exotic car and decrease for other pursuits. It's worth it to me. Just like you might enjoy collecting stamps or having a closet full of nice clothes. It's also the first thing I talk about when I call my dad since he used to race cars and motorcycles in the 70s. We bond over cars and car news.

    So the next time you see some guy with graying temples and a widow's peak driving a Ferrari, understand it might be the realization of a dream from childhood and try to, you know, not crap on that dream because it's not YOUR dream.

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    #72

    Christianity is a "safe" punching bag on this website for some reason; it can freely be mocked and derided. But you dare to make equally derisive statements about other religions and your "problematic" comments will immediately be met with disapproval.

    This is bizarre and to me it shows that a lot of the anti-religion "views" expressed on this website aren't fueled by reason or conviction but simple parroting.

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    #73

    Our $250 range microwave broke. Repair guy came out and cracked it open and said it was a bad door switch. He wanted $389 to fix it. NFW. Besides, he already pointed out the bad switch, so I figure, how hard can it be.

    I take out the switch, and jot down the four digit alpha numeric code on it. I go to a locally owned appliance parts distributor. The lady at the counter was very nice, but said that number means nothing to her or her computer. She says she needs more information. I tell her the make and we kind of come up something similar that will (probably) work. But... it’s not in stock and they are moving their warehouse, so two weeks minimum. I ask for suggestions, and she gives the name of three other places in town.

    I call those places. The first two are total assholes to me. Very condescending, and telling me I need the model number. Again, the four digit code means nothing to them. I give what’s in the confirmation email from Sears. Not enough. Kenmore doesn’t manufacture their own goods. She needs to know the manufacturer. I’m not at home. I’m sitting in my truck on the phone. Second call goes just like the first. Treated me like a child.

    At this point I go home, get the info on the manufacturer, and call the third place. Very nice. They don’t have it, but can get it that afternoon. For the low low price of $40.

    I can’t get there in the afternoon, and $40 seems outrageous for a door switch.

    I take a last ditch effort on Amazon. I put in only the four digit code that nobody could work with at four different distributors.

    158 sellers. Most expensive one was $9. It will be here tomorrow.

    KW3A. Look it up yourself.

    Unbelievable.

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    Ozacoter
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same for Ikea. Most furniture stores sell overpriced items that are of the same bad quality and same desing as ikea. Why paying 1000 euros for a sofa that looks exactly the same as the 300 euros one from ikea and will last the same?

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    #74

    I am senior and the number of adults that have told me that these will be the years I’ll miss for the rest of my life is disheartening. I feel I have a lot to look forward to in life and I think the message we should be sending to kids is not “it’s all downhill from here.”

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    Foxxy (The Original)
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    High school was one of the worst experiences of my life, something I wish I could forget. Sadly my daughter is understanding how crap highschool can really be.

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    #75

    Seriously, this s*it needs to stop. So many people, with nothing wrong with them other than gluttony and laziness. So many people walk in to walmart, plop their fat asses in the chairs that are for older people and cripples, then just leave them in the middle of the parking lot like the waste of space and resources that they are.

    Let's be upfront and honest. You don't get to be 500 pounds due to "genetics". 95% of people you see that are that size on a daily basis had NOTHING wrong with them before turning in to a drain on society.

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    #76

    If i could, "Just be confident" don't you think I would be already?! I hate being nervous around new people, but I can't just decide to not be. I already understand how important confidence is. I can't explain why I don't have any because I don't know.

    A depressed person may want to cheer up, but they just can't will themselves happy. There is more to it.

    This is how I feel about it. I know I can't be the only one.

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    Daria Z
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I pretend being happy and confident. Sometimes I can even fool myself... for a while.

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    #77

    Unless you like drinking bitter dark liquid. And if you don't, you add milk or creamer, which just makes it slightly bitter but still not good. And for those who add sugar, it gets too sweet for there to be a real taste.

    So I don't understand. I will have the occasional cup in a group setting or at my mom's, but I can honestly say I've never had a cup of coffee and said "Oh this one is actually good."

    People say if you buy super expensive ones, there's a massive difference, but I don't see myself making that investment, nor knowing anyone else who would in order to try theirs. It's just not good, man.

    Again, it smells amazing. But can coffee lovers just admit they drink it for the poop regulation and caffeine energy boost? This is a safe space.

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    #78

    I don‘t care how big that bag would be, just hang it onto the horsesaddle somewhere. I absolutely hate slaloming around those piles of s*it while riding a bike somewhere.

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    #79

    I'm not even sure this would be an unpopular opinion on Reddit however I feel in general videogame composers don't get enough credit from everyone. Composing music for a video game can be significantly harder than for a movie because during a movie the composer knows what will happen and can compose the music so that it sounds perfect for the situation this is not the case in a video game. As someone who has played over 170 hours of ori and the blind forest, hollow knight and Cuphead it disappoints me to see that although they get lots of recognition by gamers the music industry really just snubs them

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    Random Anon
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Check out Jeremy Soule. He did games like Guild Wars, Baldur's Gate and Elder Scrolls. I think his music is right up there with people like Hans Zimmers.

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    #80

    Burgers that require you to unhinge your jaw to take a bite is not an enjoyable eating experience. For people that worry about making a mess and getting food all over their face and hands, there’s nothing worse.

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    #81

    I know a bunch of doctors and celebrities and pretty much everyone else is all for giving just about everyone the number to the suicide hotline and pretending they are helping. They aren’t.

    I’ve called them myself, spoke to countless other individuals about there first hand experiences, and read the stories. Most of the time the suicide hotline ends up doing more harm then good. They have been known to hang up on people in crisis, prematurely call the police on their callers, and use very scripted methods that usually don’t help. I’ve brought this up to multiple mental health professionals and they know the line sucks but they still send it out. It’s over glorified so people can feel like they are making a difference or helping when in reality they are recommending something that does more harm them good.

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    Ozacoter
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also it doesnt allow people to mention their suicidal thoughts. I tried an online therapy app and the listeners werent allowed to even keep talking to you if you mention suicide. How is that helpful? It just teaches people to repress their emotions.

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    #82

    There are 0 scenarios where I should receive an email from a god damned manager that reads 'take a look at these, there both for you'. I have to go behind my 2 colleagues and 'clean up' the work they fill into communal spreadsheets because I'd be embarrassed if other people thought I contributed such dreck. Just today my workmate had put the simple input 'Mr & Mrs Smith' into a spreadsheet as, and I quote, 'mrq ans mrs smih' and then just moved on with his life with nary a care in the world, like what the F**K, people?

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    M O'Connell
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Different people have different things they focus on. I regularly deal with engineers who can't spell or have terrible grammar, or won't punctuate anything. I can do those things. They can do deeply complex electronic circuit design.

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    #83

    It doesn't make sense to me why we have so many cemeteries, some of which are huge. We could be using that land for homes, businesses, agriculture, etc. Even if a person wants to be buried, there's no need to pour cement into the ground or to bury the body in a casket that won't decompose after a few years.

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    Random Anon
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just want my ashes spread in a nice location like a nice beach or mountain side. You wanna talk? Take a nice trip and relax, then we talk.

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    #84

    I get it, you are vulnerable if you have a mental disorder, however that does not give you the green card to expect people to be automatically sensitive towards you or your needs. Sure, when others try to help you because they know of your disorder, they are doing this out of their own kindness not because they owe you anything.

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    Dark Pearl
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People should at least try to be more sensitive. You know how easily people get riled?

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    #85

    Like we already know the upper limits of natural human strength and fitness and that should be the main focus. But it’d be really ducking cool to see what we can do at the peak of human ability + drugs. IMO that’s like the combined might of sheer f**king will and determination and whatever drugs add to the mix.

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    Bill
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The All Drugs Olympics in Bogata Columbia. Back when SNL was funny

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    #86

    No. I’m not gonna say “hE’s CrEepY tOwArDs MiNorS” or anything like that. I just think he’s genuinely off-putting. He’s this tall, extremely thin older man without eyebrows who prances around and wears the personality of a shallow, “yas kween” teenage girl. Everything about him sends me into defense mode and I don’t get why he’s so worshipped. Yes, his makeup skills are phenomenal but Jesus Christ his actual personality is so cringy and creepy to me. Sorry for the ramble, just wanted to express it.

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    #87

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts Disney obsessed people tend to say they enjoy the magic and fairytales, but that just feels like denial of how terrible real life is. So instead of working together and fixing life, they spend hundreds, even thousands going to parks, buying merchandise, and watching movies over and over. All the while that money goes to a mega corporation that contributes to the worsening of real life.

    Also, Disney is pretty much geared towards kids and being crazy about it is sorta creepy. It just seems like these people have experienced a failure to launch. People should grow up and stop expecting life to be a fairytale.

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    Truth Monster
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ***Meanwhile, on Bored Panda, "I Draw Pregnant Disney Princesses!" lolol

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    #88

    There are a lot of whiny articles recently about how men don't go to university at the same rate as young women, don't work as many hours as they used to, and in general participate less in society and rather play video games or something. This naturally comes at the expense of traditional life attainments such as working yourself to death, having an insanely expensive wedding, and being the sole provider for a family that will eventually kick you out.

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    Random Anon
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still sometimes get ridiculed for playing computer games being an older person. But but but you're not a kid anymore. Eh but screw em. I like my RPGs.

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    #89

    It may be just the nostalgia talking, but I very much liked the "quality" of the content you could find on the internet back in the day, when the majority was created by people who had real jobs (or schools) and could only create content in their spare time. And I'm not talking only about YouTube videos, but also about general blogs and more "specialized" sites.

    I'm not 100% sure what it is, but to me it's either that the content was not so much money-driven and people could fully express themselves without caring for the "brand" or "monetization" or what not, or that they were much more connected to the everyday issues of everyday people.

    I'm also not saying there are no good content creators right now, or that all of them are disconnected from the reality, but it's kind of sad that it's not the norm anymore.

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    ZombieGirl
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never thought about this, but I agree! I got to be a teen and young adult before "social media" and "content" became a thing...it was a much simpler way of life!

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    #90

    It just makes me so angry to see someone say s*it like this because the person was trying to be considerate and you ruined it. It bother’s me so much every time I hear it. I would consider myself agnostic but I don’t go around flaunting it. I think this goes well with any religion, really.

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    Dark Pearl
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It bothers me that people feel the need to baptise sneezes, yet here we are...

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    #91

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts Emojis shouldve just stayed yellow colored. whats the point of choosing a certain skin color. for each emoji you manually choose the skin color that applies to you, but why is it important? just shows how obsessed people today still are with skin color and how they have to differentiate between each other by all means.

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    Daria Z
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I personally don't care about a person's color scheme but if people want a variety of emojis, why not? They can still use the yellow ones if they want.

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    #92

    And no, I’m not vegan or vegetarian. Meat on pizza is fine, great even. A pizza loaded down with so many different meats that chunks of sausage fall off when I’m trying to eat it is not even appetizing. There are so many contrasting meat-flavors and I really don’t understand why it is so popular. I truly think some of its popularity stems from some weird place of machismo and anti-veganism. Many of the same people who order meat lovers pizza turn their nose up at even the mention of vegetable toppings. And you know what? There are some bomb ass pizzas with veggies on them.

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    John Louis
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ridiculous, if you like a particular food, then you do. If not, that is fine also. Respect individual tastes.

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    #93

    I mean that’s pretty much it but if you post about your problem in your marriage or with substance abuse or difficult parents for the love of GOD get a second opinion from an actual professional - who will tell you that, fun fact, your husband not making you a sandwich is not spousal abuse.

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    Ozacoter
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More often than not they will agree. A lot of partner and relatives are abusive. We just hide it before under the rug.

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    #94

    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts Pretty much what the title says. Not my opinion, but my husband’s. In college my husband and I would make oven pizzas and he would run his slices under the water fountain to cool it down faster. He says it didn’t change the taste and was still good.

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    People Are Sharing Their Unpopular Opinions On This Online Group, And Here Are Their 50 Most Interesting Posts I am a true believer that cereal with water is better. The taste of milk conflicts with the taste of the cereal, whereas water does not. While still getting the same texture, water does not ruin the taste of cereal. My friends crucified me when I told them this...so for this reason I am coming here in search of others who share my beliefs of water being better than milk.

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