Chances are, you’ve got some unpopular opinions that you usually keep to yourself. Perhaps you love pineapple on pizza, or maybe you find chocolate to be repulsive. When I was in college, I was terrified to tell my friends that I had absolutely no interest in ever watching films or reading books about Harry Potter… And I was always thrilled when we’d get blessed with a gray and dreary day.
We’re not always willing to share these hot takes out loud, but it’s a bit easier to open up to strangers on the internet. Mumsnet users have recently been admitting their most controversial takes, so we’ve gathered the juiciest ones below. Enjoy scrolling through this list that you might find incredibly frustrating, and be sure to upvote the secret opinions that you actually agree with!
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Not all behaviour can be dismissed as mental health issues, asd, adhd etc, some people are just tw*ts.
I think putting botox and fillers in your face is crazy. And those lips look stupid.
People who climb Everest, do free climbing or base jumping etc. Self-absorbed, selfish tw*ts. The damage it does to Everest. The sheer risk with all of them, putting their loved ones through stress, worry or loss and grief. And the people at risk if rescuing them or recovering their body.
Gender reveal parties are for chavs.
first time I ever heard about a gender reveal party I thought it was some sort of coming out party for trans people
Paying £££££ to get married. I say congratulations, but my word people are sucked in and could do so much more with the money.
I really resent being asked for charity donations literally everywhere now. Every shop. Every single purchase. Inside supermarkets by the tills. Outside supermarkets. I just hate being hassled constantly. Just let me do what I'm doing and I'll donate to charities as and when I chose to.
The ugly aspect of those donations made in stores etc. is that those stores get to claim the deductions for YOUR donations made there. Absolutely despicable.
Social media [content] creators are mental health issues waiting to happen.
I don’t understand why people are on Twitter / X.
It seems like a big toxic, waste of energy to me…
That people who say proudly that they're not interested in politics and don't vote shouldn't be complaining about policies that they don't like as they did nothing to stop them.
I'm with George Carlin on the opposite. I'm tired of people who voted for what they wanted, got what they wanted and whine when they see they were duped. Those who didn't vote are not to blame. It's just a scapegoating projection tactic.
Fashion. It's purely designed to part the gullible from their money.
That gentle parenting often leads to poorly behaved children. The teachers in schools are having to pick up the pieces of this.
I think there's a delicate balance to find..treating your kids caringly while strictly disciplining them.
Sports. Particularly the big money making machine types. I don't understand why it's not more of a niche interest.
There was a meme or similar a good few years ago and it was basically, imagine if sports coverage was dedicated to archaeology, hourly news bulletins, sections of newspapers, endless coverage on TV, huge stars. Breaking news, star archaeologist Dr Richard Brown has signed a new contract to begin working in Corfu. And then everyone phoning in a radio show to discuss why he should dig somewhere else, people really upset because they were hoping he would dig at a place they preferred, live coverage of the ground being broken at the excavation site, with commentary and discussion from retired archaeologists.
There are too many dogs and some people who have dogs should just not own dogs.
I think veganism is bad for your health. Most of my vegan friends seem to be ill much more than average, and I think they'd be much better if they were at least vegetarian.
I don't say that to them of course. I can see an argument for vegetarianism, but not veganism.
I tried going vegan for a couple months. I found it to be SO expensive to try to keep up with the demands for extra supplements and finding foods filling enough to feel full and satisfied. I got tired of beans and nuts real quick.
Everyone self diagnosing with ADHD. I know at least 3 people who claim to have it but have never been near even the GP with their concerns. Being a bit daft and scatty now and again isn’t necessarily ADHD. Sometimes it’s just that you’re a bit daft and scatty now and again.
Being in the armed forces doesn’t automatically make you a hero and charities like ‘help for hero’s’ shouldn’t exist, it’s a job people chose to do, nobody these days is conscripted it’s a personal choice.
Agree, does not make you a hero. There are plenty of military personnel that are terrible people. Disagree that it's entirely a choice. I'd be interested to learn what percentage of US military were from low socio-economic status and/or extremely dysfunctional homes and felt enlisting was their only hope for stability, safety, healthcare, community, education - a future.
And anyone who wishes a happy birthday to their snuggly bumpkin on Facebook. I have been married 18 years now. I tell my husband face to face cos we aren’t 12.
For me it's folks who post happy birthday wishes to a celebrity who is never, ever going to see it. Especially if the celebrity is dead. I just don't see the point.
Ppl asking for charity donations on social media, sometimes they are doing something like running /walking, other times it's "it's my birthday' - really really winds me up. Not anti-charity but hate being guilt tripped into it.
I'd much prefer this option than corporations seeking donations. Not only do you NOT get the benefit of the tax deduction but the multimillion corporation does. They dont set up charity schemes out of the goodness of their hearts - they are just minimizing their tax obligations. DONT donate to corporate charity schemes! Donate directly to the charity.
The Royal Family are an expensive waste of space and I find it baffling that anyone would think otherwise.
I'm not British, so maybe that's why I can't fully understand the hype behind the family. Especially Diana. She's been gone since 1997 and people are still writing books and making films about her. I have nothing against her at all, but why?
I'm not British but we have one and I saw the cost break-down. Having a royal family is more profitable to my country than not having one.
Did you compare it to what you could possibly spend that money on instead or did you just see that it was profitable and think that should be the only metric?
Load More Replies...I guess it depends on which royal family OP is referring to. The royal family in the UK makes the country considerably more money than it costs. It's hard to quantify a lot of the factors (such as the affect on tourism, unofficial souvenirs, private businesses making income from royal activities, etc), but as a business alone they bring in nearly £2 billion a year.
That's a myth. The royal family bring very little income to the UK. Not sure where you've pulled the £2 billion figure from - a basic google search shows that the most generous estimate is a tiny fraction of that. And that's total income to all royal-related tourist activities; most royal tourist sites are historic and have no or little connection to our current royal family. As far as their "business" they KEEP all their commercial profits, they don't go to the country.
Load More Replies...They basically do what any European president does and it saves the country the mess and cost of presidential elections that could lead to a complete nutjob being elected - cough, cough. Yes, it's antiquated, but that's kind of the charm. Maybe I would think differently if my own country had a monarch, though. The grass always seems greener on the other side.
American here, I always wondered that since the Royal Family represents hundreds of years of history and tradition, PERHAPS, that's the interest? Fascination? I respectfully am only guessing here.
Living in the UK, I'd have to stay it's less an interest with history and tradition than an adherence to it. Like there's something moral to having this hierarchy and if you don't think so, you're somehow unpatriotic. There are a lot of people here who would prefer a republic, don't get me wrong (I'm definitely one of them). The people who support the monarchy, though, seem to be very reverent about it. Which serves the aristocracy very well, since it means they keep their insane amounts of wealth and land and money and status and ensure that the social inequality always benefits them.
Load More Replies...I'm sure those from countries with a monarchy look at the US and say: Trump?
One would assume that anyone in nearly any country would look at the US and say: "Trump"??
Load More Replies...What I can´t stand is when people act like royals from one country (usually the UK ones) are important to the world. Whenever there is a marriage, or someone popped a new child out, you see almost nothing else on TV or in newspapers for at least a week or two.
And don't forget tax money. A HUGE waste of tax money. I don't have anything against them as persons (I don't know anything about them) but ALL remaining monarchies should be eliminated as soon as possible.
Agree. Although I feel sorry for young Prince George whose whole life is already planned out for him whether he wants it or not.
The Royals are an unending source of silly drama, but here in America, so many people just elected a convicted felon to run the country. And he has the button for the nukes. I am left wondering which is worse.
I'm absolutely decided on which is worse. And I'm not looking at the royals.
Load More Replies...I'm in Denmark and I don't completely get the hype about royal families. I mean, I'd understand it if the king still lead his army to war and all that. Our king has been trained for war, I guess, but he will never ever be called to actually fight in a war. So now the king and queen are just making business contacts for Danish businesses all over the world. It's a weird transformation from 200 years ago to now, I think.
I just want them to stick around long enough for William to be king and give his uncle and brother their dues.
And yet a lot of BP members openly glorify these leeches, particularly QE II. Downvote me if you like, I won't change my mind about it.
I'm from a country that rebelled (US) so British royalty (presumably the royal family being referred to here) are not my thing. I look at BBC news online and with that I often see news articles about the royals I just don't care about. It's hard to say from afar but my casual observation is the royal family has less impact now than they did decades ago when I was a boy.
With Brexit, Scotland and Ulster might leave the UK without the uniting influence of the royal family. And may still.
Well I hope so. You're massively (and hilariously) overstating the importance Scots attach to this family of scroungers. Independence is about so much more. The so-called Earl of Inverness is an alleged paedophile and a useful idiot to a Chinese spy. By the way 'Northern Ireland' rather than Ulster.
Load More Replies...Meh. If the King actually lead the army or wrote the laws, I'd be more a fan of the royal family. As it is, they provide a cultural unity purpose, which is fine, but doesn't really have me jumping out of my seat.
I agree, but I'm American, so who cares what I have to say about it?
I really don't think Brits have any idea how extraordinarily corrupt our royal family are, or how heavily they interfere in both British and international politics. (Taking bribes, engagement with Chinese spies, carrier bags full of cash from dictators, directly ordering government to pass or deny laws in their favour, having clauses added to laws exempting themselves - for example the Queen personally interceded with the government to add an exemption to racial discrimination laws (fun fact! The BRF are legally allowed to engage in racial discrimination in hiring!), and to add an exemption from COVID laws stating that landlords can't evict tenants during lockdown. The BRF are also slum landlords.
Not just the royal family, but all the aristocratic families. They own *so much* land, and *so much* of London. They're a big part of the reason why it's damn near impossible to afford to buy a place in London - they've locked up a lot of real estate in rentals and never need to sell it because they aren't renting it to pay off any mortgages.
Load More Replies... No, I don't want to see your holiday photos, or pictures of your child/grandchild.
Ever.
I irritate myself with my own instinctive belief that a lot of children are really badly parented and that their shi**y behaviours are the direct result of that bad parenting. Intellectually, I'm far more nuanced, completely believe that there are a lot of complex factors at plat etc etc... but deep down, I think I'm a big fat judgey pants and I don't like it.
Also, I'm terrified that I'm one of those parents and that I'm as delusional as I think so many of them are. I hope I'm not. But... it's a worry'!
Nearly all plastic surgery, 'b**b jobs' and the like are a pointless narcissistic waste of money and medical resources.
What one does to themselves, is probably for themselves, and not you. Some people get procedures because of a disfigurement, disorder, to fix another procedure. Like, imagine getting a masectomy because of breast cancer, and feeling so self-conscious it's all you can think about. So you go to the plastic surgeon to get breast enhancements. Then after people ripping you apart because they don't like seeing how unnatural your new figure looks.
The number of people now requiring special and individualised, and often competing arrangements to accommodate things like neurodivergence is going to lead to a fractured and individualistic society where it will be even harder to function with neurodivergence.
And I say this as a parent to a child with Asperger’s syndrome. I spend so much effort preparing him for the world to the best of his ability but other parents seem to want the world to bend for their child.
People who complain about people on social media (showing off, bragging, going on too many holidays, etc.). How do you know they are doing all this stuff unless you follow them or are on it? Just unfollow them, get off social media yourself if you think it’s so bad?
People who’s lives revolve around work need to give their heads a wobble.
My family first generation American grandparents engrained in my parents and us that work ethic and craftsmanship define you and make you a respectable contributor to society. Now it feels like most people are working for billionaires that are doing their best to bleed us all dry.
Pet owners who spend 1000s on vet bills for seriously ill and dying animals, who should just be put to sleep. Prolonging their life with endless medical treatments and surgeries is cruel in my opinion.
Leaving dog s**t on the streets/parks/beaches should be a criminal offence resulting in a heavy fine and the loss of your dog. All dogs should be on a DNA database and licensed. Dog s**t should be tested, and the resultant fines should be big enough to pay for the system to run. If you lose your dog for fouling, you can never own another one.
I agree. They are not talking about dogs - they are talking about irresponsible dog owners who leave dog poo all over the street, on the sidewalk and in the parks. I love dogs and I was a dog owner until she passed away. I also have children who play and wrestle and fall over and pick things up and put them in their pockets. Public spaces are exactly that - for the enjoyment of the public and I can't let my kids play in the local park because there is dog shite everywhere. Our neighbors let their dog s**t on the sidewalk every day and we have to smell it and dodge it on the walk to school. You wouldn't appreciate me letting my kid p**s in park or poo on the grass and then just leaving it there. Your dog = your s**t. Clean it up.
People who say "that's just me" to excuse tw*tish behaviour. Like behaviour isn't something you can change.
Drama, drama, drama all the time people. Don't understand why they can't just put on their adulting hat and crack on in a nice orderly fashion. That said, I think everyone has the right to have a meltdown every so often, get it all out, shake it off, move on. But like, once in a blue moon yeah?
That a foreign holiday is not a human right. Especially if you go into debt for it.
Having a mum (usually stay at home but with no shared finances) who puts up with a sh*t father who does nothing, negatively impacts a child’s upbringing and ensures that this ridiculous cycle continues, where the mum is labelled a martyr and has no respect, and the father seems to get away with everything both financially and emotionally. Both are to blame. Be equals and share the work/love/housework/childcare etc.
Mmmm, I'll just relax after work with some light hearted fun on BP? Nah, here's the opinions of some privileged, right wing fücknuggets. But I do like pineapple on pizza, though!!
i reckon this comment will get more of a reaction that the whole post i am referring to pineapple on pizza comment
Load More Replies...So, BP went from "This list has been shorted to the top 30, click to see the rest", to "this list has been shortened to the top 30 because the rest are behind a paywall"
Wait for a week or so and you'll probably be able to see the whole shebang.
Load More Replies...Pointless collection of rage-bait “opinions”. I’m surprised BP didn’t include a couple of, “You know, Hitler actually had a point” statements.
Well, as for the intro, I am 100% pro pineapple on pizza, and while I do enjoy chocolate, I dislike chocolate ice cream and chocolate cake (while loving many other flavours of both confections). And I have no hesitation to admit either fact, online or in person.
I love chocolate ice-cream, but I'm with you on the chocolate cake. I really WANT to like chocolate cake but I just... dont.
Load More Replies...Somewhere in the 40s the posts on this list started to turn towards the 'you should have kept this secret viewpoint a secret' territory...
Pineapple on pizza is amazing. Get the hell out of here with your sardines. Buffalo chicken or spinach and white cheese are also good
My hot take is that integrals are easier than derivatives. No matter the form of the integral.
How about all the people butthurt about what others spend their money on. It's their money!
Human overpopulation is causing 99% of the world's problems and we need to stop before it's too late.
I have notifications that I have replies to a comment but when I click it, it takes me nowhere! Anyone else with this problem?
If the comment was in this section at the bottom of the post, it doesn’t scroll down but it does highlight the comment
Load More Replies...What a hareful list turned into. BP shouldn't be given these posters a platform for their ignorant and prejudiced views.
Mmmm, I'll just relax after work with some light hearted fun on BP? Nah, here's the opinions of some privileged, right wing fücknuggets. But I do like pineapple on pizza, though!!
i reckon this comment will get more of a reaction that the whole post i am referring to pineapple on pizza comment
Load More Replies...So, BP went from "This list has been shorted to the top 30, click to see the rest", to "this list has been shortened to the top 30 because the rest are behind a paywall"
Wait for a week or so and you'll probably be able to see the whole shebang.
Load More Replies...Pointless collection of rage-bait “opinions”. I’m surprised BP didn’t include a couple of, “You know, Hitler actually had a point” statements.
Well, as for the intro, I am 100% pro pineapple on pizza, and while I do enjoy chocolate, I dislike chocolate ice cream and chocolate cake (while loving many other flavours of both confections). And I have no hesitation to admit either fact, online or in person.
I love chocolate ice-cream, but I'm with you on the chocolate cake. I really WANT to like chocolate cake but I just... dont.
Load More Replies...Somewhere in the 40s the posts on this list started to turn towards the 'you should have kept this secret viewpoint a secret' territory...
Pineapple on pizza is amazing. Get the hell out of here with your sardines. Buffalo chicken or spinach and white cheese are also good
My hot take is that integrals are easier than derivatives. No matter the form of the integral.
How about all the people butthurt about what others spend their money on. It's their money!
Human overpopulation is causing 99% of the world's problems and we need to stop before it's too late.
I have notifications that I have replies to a comment but when I click it, it takes me nowhere! Anyone else with this problem?
If the comment was in this section at the bottom of the post, it doesn’t scroll down but it does highlight the comment
Load More Replies...What a hareful list turned into. BP shouldn't be given these posters a platform for their ignorant and prejudiced views.