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Chances are, you’ve got some unpopular opinions that you usually keep to yourself. Perhaps you love pineapple on pizza, or maybe you find chocolate to be repulsive. When I was in college, I was terrified to tell my friends that I had absolutely no interest in ever watching films or reading books about Harry Potter… And I was always thrilled when we’d get blessed with a gray and dreary day.

We’re not always willing to share these hot takes out loud, but it’s a bit easier to open up to strangers on the internet. Mumsnet users have recently been admitting their most controversial takes, so we’ve gathered the juiciest ones below. Enjoy scrolling through this list that you might find incredibly frustrating, and be sure to upvote the secret opinions that you actually agree with!

#1

30 Hot Takes People Wouldn’t Dare To Admit In Person Not all behaviour can be dismissed as mental health issues, asd, adhd etc, some people are just tw*ts.

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    A hiker stands on a snowy mountain ridge at sunrise, gazing at a breathtaking view. People who climb Everest, do free climbing or base jumping etc. Self-absorbed, selfish tw*ts. The damage it does to Everest. The sheer risk with all of them, putting their loved ones through stress, worry or loss and grief. And the people at risk if rescuing them or recovering their body.

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    #4

    Couple at a gender reveal party, holding baby clothes, with a banner and balloons in the background. Gender reveal parties are for chavs.

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    Katie Allen
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    first time I ever heard about a gender reveal party I thought it was some sort of coming out party for trans people

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    #5

    Couple kissing at a beach wedding with people celebrating in the background, holding drinks. Paying £££££ to get married. I say congratulations, but my word people are sucked in and could do so much more with the money.

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    Brandi🧚
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We paid less than 200$ including rings. We had McDonald's that day, we spent our money on a home and new vehicle. I ended up getting the ring I loved 2 years later from a pawnshop for a fraction of the price. Weddings are so expensive and pointless.

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    #6

    Exchange of money for a box of toys, illustrating anonymous controversial takes. I really resent being asked for charity donations literally everywhere now. Every shop. Every single purchase. Inside supermarkets by the tills. Outside supermarkets. I just hate being hassled constantly. Just let me do what I'm doing and I'll donate to charities as and when I chose to.

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    GenuineJen
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The ugly aspect of those donations made in stores etc. is that those stores get to claim the deductions for YOUR donations made there. Absolutely despicable.

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    #7

    Person enthusiastically filming themselves with a phone and ring light, sharing controversial takes online. Social media [content] creators are mental health issues waiting to happen.

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    #8

    30 Hot Takes People Wouldn’t Dare To Admit In Person I don’t understand why people are on Twitter / X.
    It seems like a big toxic, waste of energy to me…

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    #9

    30 Hot Takes People Wouldn’t Dare To Admit In Person That people who say proudly that they're not interested in politics and don't vote shouldn't be complaining about policies that they don't like as they did nothing to stop them.

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    StrangeOne
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm with George Carlin on the opposite. I'm tired of people who voted for what they wanted, got what they wanted and whine when they see they were duped. Those who didn't vote are not to blame. It's just a scapegoating projection tactic.

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    #10

    Woman in a fur coat lounging on a silver couch in a clothing store, representing controversial fashion choices. Fashion. It's purely designed to part the gullible from their money.

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    #11

    A happy family at home, smiling and dressed in white, sharing a joyful moment. That gentle parenting often leads to poorly behaved children. The teachers in schools are having to pick up the pieces of this.

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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think there's a delicate balance to find..treating your kids caringly while strictly disciplining them.

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    #12

    30 Hot Takes People Wouldn’t Dare To Admit In Person Sports. Particularly the big money making machine types. I don't understand why it's not more of a niche interest.

    There was a meme or similar a good few years ago and it was basically, imagine if sports coverage was dedicated to archaeology, hourly news bulletins, sections of newspapers, endless coverage on TV, huge stars. Breaking news, star archaeologist Dr Richard Brown has signed a new contract to begin working in Corfu. And then everyone phoning in a radio show to discuss why he should dig somewhere else, people really upset because they were hoping he would dig at a place they preferred, live coverage of the ground being broken at the excavation site, with commentary and discussion from retired archaeologists.

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    #13

    Man taking a selfie with a beagle in a park, capturing a moment. There are too many dogs and some people who have dogs should just not own dogs.

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    Orwell
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please don't breed or buy while pets in shelters die. 6 million euthanized a year in the US.

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    #14

    Woman in a kitchen holding broccoli and smiling, with pumpkins on the table, sharing controversial takes on food. I think veganism is bad for your health. Most of my vegan friends seem to be ill much more than average, and I think they'd be much better if they were at least vegetarian.

    I don't say that to them of course. I can see an argument for vegetarianism, but not veganism.

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    StrangeOne
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I tried going vegan for a couple months. I found it to be SO expensive to try to keep up with the demands for extra supplements and finding foods filling enough to feel full and satisfied. I got tired of beans and nuts real quick.

    Donkey boi
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm definitely not a vegan, but since OP is clearly not one either, I guess I'm ok to weigh in on this. I think veganism requires a great amount of skill. To understand each fruit, vegetable, fungi, etc, well enough to create not only a nutritionally balanced meal but also a tasty one, requires knowledge that a lot of people who decide go vegan don't have. There are a lot of well trained chefs out there that are helping them on their way and with the world's knowledge at their fingertips, they only need to look for it.

    PeepPeep the duck
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My vegan boss invited me over for dinner one night with the other mermaid performers who were also vegan, i politely and excitedly came (I haven’t eaten a full German vegan dinner before - German grain bread etc) the whole meal, I felt like wow the soup is so nice but it could use cheese for that extra umph, main course had the grain bread, which was nice but I felt like it needed butter (imagine a bird seed bread slice). 20 mins after dinner I felt so sick and ran to vomit in her toilet - but quietly so she didn’t feel bad, I liked the food but my body aparently did NOT. I went home with major stomach cramps, my bf at the time had a burger in his hand and the minute I had some meat and cheese I was ok, it was a painfully funny night. I tried, I really tried

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    Bartlet for world domination
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most of my vegan friends fill up on carbs instead of protein. They know they shouldn't, but life gets in the way.

    Anna Drever
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    1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All edible food has protein in varying amounts. As long as they are eating sufficient calories they’re getting enough protein. 🙂

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    LillieMean
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I carefully researched nutrition and had blood tests so that I can correct any low hemoglobin levels and other deficiencies before going vegan. A couple of years ago, during a doctor's visit, the doctor asked about my diet and said that my diet was well composed and balanced, and since I had already been a vegan for a long time, he wanted to check the b12 and ferritin level (probably included vitamin d). I have regular blood tests because my medication may affect the liver. I took an iron supplement after that (menstruation lowers iron) but everything else was fine. I'm actually less often sick, and usually when a flu makes everyone sick in the work community, I don't catch it. A healthy lifestyle is protective, but I suspect it is partly genetic. My husband is a vegetarian and his flu may not catch me. By the way, unbiased studies unequivocally link red meat and intestinal cancer to each other, so what about the health of omnivores?

    Bernd Herbert
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s way too much of a generalisation. I know a few vegans and they are as healthy s you can be. A vegan diet isn’t s**t. A s****y diet is!

    Forrest Hobbs
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Vitamin B12 is the only issue with veganism. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vitamin_B12_deficiency#Inadequate_intake

    Julia Ford
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please stop spreading misinformation! You can absolutely be vegan and healthy.

    Anna Drever
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    1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely. I eat a vegan diet (have done for over 10 years now) and my latest bloods which were done a few months ago were all in the normal range.

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    Chris the Bobcat
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do you know when someone is vegan? Because they will ALWAYS tell you, multiple times.

    Hassel Davidhoff
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    2 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you have a vegan friend who is sick all the time they are probably just eating vegan junk food. There is a serious protein deficit if you do this. Also, just because someone is vegan does not mean they are eating a healthy vegan diet. Many potato chips and fizzy soda drinks are vegan and they're shockingly bad for you. This is also no reason to paint the whole community with the same brush. A whole foods plant based diet of organic fruits and vegetables is much healthier than the standard western diet of addictive ultra-processed foods and industrial meat. Ask any nutritionist. However, I am done trying to educate all of the BP community on this. If you're addicted to the slow death of fast food then so be it. Enjoy the diabetes and dementia, 'cause that's what it gets you. You truly are what you eat, after all.

    Miki
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am not vege and never will, BUT I know few and you need no suplements or anything extra. You just need to eat smart. Nothing hard. No frequent illness etc.

    Jan Feline
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    1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A good friend of mine is vegan. She's pretty healthy, but can't afford her rent

    DrBronxx
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's bad for your health if you don't research how to do it. I know plenty of vegans who went into it very slowly, and only went full vegan when they knew how to supplement the nutrition they were leaving out by not eating dairy/meat etc.

    tori Ohno
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's easy for me, I can't digest plant proteins, I have to get it from meat and dairy.

    Just Cosmo
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not only that, many vegan foods, such as tofu are hyper processed, which is not at all good for the body. If you want to eat healthy, eat unprocessed foods.

    Kise Miarse
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tofu is not, in most cases, hyper-processed. It's blended beans with a thickener. Many vegans, however, do get by on ultra-processed foods so I do still see your point. Done correctly, I think it can be quite healthy - it's just that many folks don't put in all the work required for that.

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    David
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like this is a YMMV thing based on your body and budget. I am definitely a meat eater but I've seen vegetarians / vegans that both were 'winning' and those who were not. I do think people stand a better chance if they have the food budget to get what they need. I've watched poor people (some relatives) do it and they lean too heavily into filing the gap with carbs.

    DowntownStevieB
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THIS! Humans are evolved to be omnivores. A true nutritional fact is meat provides us with all of our amino acids needed to remain healthy. When you do not complete the chain of aminos, your body will dispose of the incomplete chains. It's like not completing the puzzle, but because you don't have the pieces, so it's trash. For vegan/vegetarian diets to work, you need to FILL YOUR PLATE with all the colors.

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    kitteh floof lover
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i don't understand how vegans can say that veganism saves animals from harm. 63% of all animals, not including humans, eat meat to survive.

    Tamra
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I reckon they're referring to the massive amounts of animals that get processed through factory farms. That's a whole other issue on it's own, as well.

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    Slapdash1
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not a matter of "I think." It either is bad, is neutral or is beneficial. Not a matter of opinion

    chamomile tea
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    2 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was lacto-ovo-pescatarian for two years for those who know what that means. I haven’t felt weaker, been sicker, and had less energy than the two years I spent eating meat substitutes and potatoes. Plant based diets can be done very well, and if done correctly, they are more environmentally sound and healthier. But many people, including myself, aren’t able to sustain that type of lifestyle long term. Edit: spelling

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    A man, on an airplane, is having a heart attack. The fight attendant asks; " Is anyone a doctor"? A few rows back, a woman stands and says; "I'm vegan"!

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    At one point my husband wanted to be vegetarian. His alternative doctor told him that if he became vegetarian he could not be fully healthy.

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    If you just swap out what normally would be meat and dairy with substitutes, you won't get enough of everything you need. If you go all veggies, fruits, nuts & berries and no processed foods you'll be a lot healthier than the standard meat eater.

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    VEGGan. It's vegetables and vegetarian, why VEEgun? Sounds stupid to me.

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    #15

    30 Hot Takes People Wouldn’t Dare To Admit In Person Everyone self diagnosing with ADHD. I know at least 3 people who claim to have it but have never been near even the GP with their concerns. Being a bit daft and scatty now and again isn’t necessarily ADHD. Sometimes it’s just that you’re a bit daft and scatty now and again.

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    #16

    Man in camouflage looking out a window, wearing a cap, reflecting on controversial takes. Being in the armed forces doesn’t automatically make you a hero and charities like ‘help for hero’s’ shouldn’t exist, it’s a job people chose to do, nobody these days is conscripted it’s a personal choice.

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    Orwell
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agree, does not make you a hero. There are plenty of military personnel that are terrible people. Disagree that it's entirely a choice. I'd be interested to learn what percentage of US military were from low socio-economic status and/or extremely dysfunctional homes and felt enlisting was their only hope for stability, safety, healthcare, community, education - a future.

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    #17

    30 Hot Takes People Wouldn’t Dare To Admit In Person And anyone who wishes a happy birthday to their snuggly bumpkin on Facebook. I have been married 18 years now. I tell my husband face to face cos we aren’t 12.

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    The Other Guest
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For me it's folks who post happy birthday wishes to a celebrity who is never, ever going to see it. Especially if the celebrity is dead. I just don't see the point.

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    #18

    A person concentrating in front of a laptop, contemplating controversial takes in a modern office setting. Ppl asking for charity donations on social media, sometimes they are doing something like running /walking, other times it's "it's my birthday' - really really winds me up. Not anti-charity but hate being guilt tripped into it.

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    lenka
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd much prefer this option than corporations seeking donations. Not only do you NOT get the benefit of the tax deduction but the multimillion corporation does. They dont set up charity schemes out of the goodness of their hearts - they are just minimizing their tax obligations. DONT donate to corporate charity schemes! Donate directly to the charity.

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    #19

    30 Hot Takes People Wouldn’t Dare To Admit In Person The Royal Family are an expensive waste of space and I find it baffling that anyone would think otherwise.

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    Wang Zhuang
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not British, so maybe that's why I can't fully understand the hype behind the family. Especially Diana. She's been gone since 1997 and people are still writing books and making films about her. I have nothing against her at all, but why?

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    #20

    A couple in festive attire, smiling on a sunny beach, capturing a fun moment. No, I don't want to see your holiday photos, or pictures of your child/grandchild.
    Ever.

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    #21

    30 Hot Takes People Wouldn’t Dare To Admit In Person I irritate myself with my own instinctive belief that a lot of children are really badly parented and that their shi**y behaviours are the direct result of that bad parenting. Intellectually, I'm far more nuanced, completely believe that there are a lot of complex factors at plat etc etc... but deep down, I think I'm a big fat judgey pants and I don't like it.

    Also, I'm terrified that I'm one of those parents and that I'm as delusional as I think so many of them are. I hope I'm not. But... it's a worry'!

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    #22

    Doctors performing surgery, showcasing controversial medical practices in a sterile operating room. Nearly all plastic surgery, 'b**b jobs' and the like are a pointless narcissistic waste of money and medical resources.

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    StrangeOne
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What one does to themselves, is probably for themselves, and not you. Some people get procedures because of a disfigurement, disorder, to fix another procedure. Like, imagine getting a masectomy because of breast cancer, and feeling so self-conscious it's all you can think about. So you go to the plastic surgeon to get breast enhancements. Then after people ripping you apart because they don't like seeing how unnatural your new figure looks.

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    #23

    30 Hot Takes People Wouldn’t Dare To Admit In Person The number of people now requiring special and individualised, and often competing arrangements to accommodate things like neurodivergence is going to lead to a fractured and individualistic society where it will be even harder to function with neurodivergence.

    And I say this as a parent to a child with Asperger’s syndrome. I spend so much effort preparing him for the world to the best of his ability but other parents seem to want the world to bend for their child.

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    #24

    30 Hot Takes People Wouldn’t Dare To Admit In Person People who complain about people on social media (showing off, bragging, going on too many holidays, etc.). How do you know they are doing all this stuff unless you follow them or are on it? Just unfollow them, get off social media yourself if you think it’s so bad?

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    #25

    Person contemplating at a desk with a pencil, embodying anonymous controversial takes. People who’s lives revolve around work need to give their heads a wobble.

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    Orwell
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My family first generation American grandparents engrained in my parents and us that work ethic and craftsmanship define you and make you a respectable contributor to society. Now it feels like most people are working for billionaires that are doing their best to bleed us all dry.

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    #26

    30 Hot Takes People Wouldn’t Dare To Admit In Person Pet owners who spend 1000s on vet bills for seriously ill and dying animals, who should just be put to sleep. Prolonging their life with endless medical treatments and surgeries is cruel in my opinion.

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    #27

    30 Hot Takes People Wouldn’t Dare To Admit In Person Leaving dog s**t on the streets/parks/beaches should be a criminal offence resulting in a heavy fine and the loss of your dog. All dogs should be on a DNA database and licensed. Dog s**t should be tested, and the resultant fines should be big enough to pay for the system to run. If you lose your dog for fouling, you can never own another one.

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    lenka
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. They are not talking about dogs - they are talking about irresponsible dog owners who leave dog poo all over the street, on the sidewalk and in the parks. I love dogs and I was a dog owner until she passed away. I also have children who play and wrestle and fall over and pick things up and put them in their pockets. Public spaces are exactly that - for the enjoyment of the public and I can't let my kids play in the local park because there is dog shite everywhere. Our neighbors let their dog s**t on the sidewalk every day and we have to smell it and dodge it on the walk to school. You wouldn't appreciate me letting my kid p**s in park or poo on the grass and then just leaving it there. Your dog = your s**t. Clean it up.

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    #28

    30 Hot Takes People Wouldn’t Dare To Admit In Person People who say "that's just me" to excuse tw*tish behaviour. Like behaviour isn't something you can change.

    Drama, drama, drama all the time people. Don't understand why they can't just put on their adulting hat and crack on in a nice orderly fashion. That said, I think everyone has the right to have a meltdown every so often, get it all out, shake it off, move on. But like, once in a blue moon yeah?

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    Alexandra
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah, my pet peeve! "That's just who she/he/it is" is often claimed to justify s****y behaviour. Maybe it is who you are, but not everything that goes on in your head should come out through your mouth.

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    #29

    30 Hot Takes People Wouldn’t Dare To Admit In Person That a foreign holiday is not a human right. Especially if you go into debt for it.

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    #30

    30 Hot Takes People Wouldn’t Dare To Admit In Person Having a mum (usually stay at home but with no shared finances) who puts up with a sh*t father who does nothing, negatively impacts a child’s upbringing and ensures that this ridiculous cycle continues, where the mum is labelled a martyr and has no respect, and the father seems to get away with everything both financially and emotionally. Both are to blame. Be equals and share the work/love/housework/childcare etc.

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    Maggie Fulton
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gasp! But divorce is so bad! Gasp! My sister was in an abusive marriage, and the best thing she did for her and her kids was to get out of it.

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    #31

    That many charities exist only to contine being in existence and providing nice safe jobs for the senior management and a brag position for the trustees and not solve the problems they were originally set up to tackle.

    Worked for several, only one I knew of ever completed their aims and closed. Wouldn't give most of them the snot out of my nose.

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    #32

    Woman enjoying pizza on a couch, illustrating a casual and relaxed moment. I don't think it's cheaper or particularly more convenient to eat unhealthily. Living off plain, healthy, simple food is much cheaper and as convenient as unhealthy food. The bulk of my diet is wholegrain rice, steamed vegetables (from the frozen section) and some protein. It's extremely cheap and fast and simple. When I buy frozen pizzas etc my bill per meal is always way more expensive.
    I think the link between obesity and poverty is largely cultural.

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    Kise Miarse
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Access also matters. The US has "food deserts" where fresh food simply isn't readily available. If you're working 2 or more jobs and still struggling to pay bills, you probably don't have the time or means to travel the distance necessary to buy healthier food.

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    #33

    I think most people look for partners because they know rents and mortgages are near impossible as a single person.
    The same reason people stay together too.

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    Alvia Vseobecna
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    one of the reasons people get married, society rewards it with some benefits.. inheritance, benefits for widows/ers etc.

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    #34

    Children lying in a circle on grass, smiling playfully with hands over eyes, embodying cheerful innocence and unity. Posting picture of DC online. Everyone knows the risks, why are some willing to take the risk for the sake of a like. Or those that cover the faces but post a picture of their DC online in a swimming costume with them facing away. Surely they know that is dangerous too?

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    #35

    Manicurist with gloves applying red nail polish in a salon setting with various tools on the table. People spending money to have their nails done. I don't mind it. Do what you want but I don't understand why colours on the tips of fingers are a thing.

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    KazzaHazza
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    God help someone who does something that might make them feel better about themselves.

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    #36

    Remembrance Day is now overblown, more-patriotic-than-thou twaddle that goes on far too long. We call it War Christmas in our house. Poppy-patterned dog beds, FFS.

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    ADJ
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For us Poles, it is Independence Day. National holiday.

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    #37

    Runners in a race on a trail, wearing numbered bibs, with one holding a water bottle. Mine is about marathon running (and any other physical "challenge", climbing 8 mountains in a row, swimming the channel, cycling the length of the country....)
    I say "oh well done, what an achievement".
    I think "what a pointless waste of energy, you could have done something useful with all those training hours".

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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Marathons are great motivation for runners to stay in shape and keep training...imho if something motivates you to stay healthy and fit (and it doesn't harm anyone) then go for it.

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    #38

    Man and woman in a tense conversation, representing controversial takes expressed anonymously. I think you should be able to get married for 10 years then get the option to stick or twist without any financial burden. Too many people stay together for money.

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    Kiki Likes Sweets
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, don't get married, then. A piece of paper or some ritual doesn't validate a relationship, that's for you to decide.

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    #39

    I see too many people lying and milking the benefit system day in day out yet those who need it are denied.

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    StrangeOne
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who do these people know? Where are they hanging around to see all these people getting benefits? How would they even know who gets benefits?

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    #40

    People who hate London. If you can’t find even a little bit of joy or fun in a city that literally has something for everyone, then it just goes to show only boring people get bored.

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    lenka
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like London as a place to visit. I didn't much like living there. The Tube is so filthy it turned my snot black and made me sick all the time. I love the Indian food and the English do a good pub meal, but the lack of variety and quality of fresh produce is disappointing. For the 6 weeks a year the sun turns on its charm, London is amazing! People are friendly and happy and bright. The rest of the year not so much. There is a great culture and music scene but realistically - you can find that anywhere else. All in all, London is an amazing city. Head out there late spring, eat some curries, visit some bands, listen to music, enjoy the local pub, catch some amazing festivals and do all the things that float your boat, but take the bus or walk as much as possible and leave before the summer ends.

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    #41

    Proposals are mostly cr*p, just talk to each other and agree to get married.

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    #42

    Tattooed arms and legs intertwined, showcasing unique personal expression and style. Tattoos.

    I don't understand why you'd want a design permanently on your body. How do you know your future self will like it being there?

    What if your tastes change or fashion moves on?

    A person's hairstyle, hair colour and clothes normally change over time according to an individual's tastes and the current fashion.

    Why have permanent tattoos? Wouldn't it be better to have something that peeled off and could be changed every few weeks or so?

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    Orwell
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again, not the thing for me, but no harm to anyone or anything. Go on and be a canvas if it makes you happy.

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    #43

    As women, we need to take greater responsibility for ourselves and our choices. And it’s not ‘victim blaming‘ to say that. We can’t control what others do, only what we do.

    Post after post about women marrying and having children with useless men who were always useless complaining about it. I don’t feel a drop of sympathy.

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    lenka
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell me you know nothing about domestic violence and coercive control without telling me. Go back to your little bubble darling.

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    #44

    Person administering an injection to their abdomen, illustrating controversial health practices. Weight loss injections are cheating.

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    Travelling Stranger
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    they are basically stealing meds from those who need them - those injections are (or were primarily made) for diabetes sufferers ..

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    #45

    A couple sits closely, smiling and gazing at each other, conveying warmth and affection. I don't think humans were designed for lifelong monogamy and I can't understand why it's such a celebrated thing.

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    Bobby
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bro/sis just cant stop cheating; it's gotta be society's fault

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    #46

    Extra benefits for obesity or substance/alcohol abuse. That's just giving them extra money to use on the habit that got them here in the first place.

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    lenka
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dont know where OP lives but I have never heard of such a thing. Sounds more like right wing propaganda.

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    #47

    Things I think but wouldn’t say.

    Fed is best mantra…Breastfeeding is better. If you can’t or don’t want to, fine. But breastfeeding is best.

    Full time nursery, poor children must be shattered, why even have children if someone else looks after them 9-5, Mon-Fri.

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    #48

    Woman seated in a modern living room, deep in thought, reflecting on controversial takes. Things like anxiety are being pathologized when actually it's quite normal to feel a bit anxious on occasion. Get a grip.

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    Lost Panda
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Difference between anxiety and anxiety disorder. You can be anxious about getting a call from work, but it becomes a disorder when you get anxious every time your phone makes a noise/vibrates

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    #49

    Olives are vile. People can't actually like them, so they must be pretending for some reason.

    The same goes for other foods that are 'an acquired taste'.

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    #50

    I believe thin people are all a bit unhappy (because they are probably hungry!)

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    3 days ago

    There is a difference between people who are born thin (and are healthy that way) and people who starve themselves to achieve the look that they think they want.

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    #51

    Our politicians need to tighten up access to public funds. Our benefit bill is ridiculous.

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    Alexandra
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We pay for those benefits ourselves through our taxes, so if you don't mind I will make use of my tax money if I am eligible for it.

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    #52

    Sex is a biological fact.

    It can’t be changed.

    It’s impossible to be ‘born in to the wrong body’.

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    #54

    Child playfully covers woman's eyes in front of a decorated Christmas tree. Mothers are much more important than fathers when children are very little, and being cared for by their mothers is better for their emotional development than doing long hours in childcare.

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    Tarik Dursun Zorgulen
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sexism at it's best. Why the need to undervalue fathers? A mother can be selfish, d**g addict, lazy, mentally unstable etc. where the father can be healthy just as it can be the other way around. A mother can be just as cruel as a father can be. Or a Father can be just as caring as a mother can be. Generalizations are horrible for most things. For myself, my ex did not even held my kids for weeks. Did not feed them. Did not care for them. I did all of that. I've made their breakfast when they were going to school. I've dressed them. I've changed their diapers when they were babies, while my ex was off smoking and drinking and being her bipolar unhinged self. So, personally, f you to this statement.

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    #55

    A woman in thought, seated in a modern living room, illustrating controversial takes. I don’t agree with abortion despite being a left-leaning type.

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    lwolf1952
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don't have to agree. You don't want an abortion, don't have one. Keep your nose out of everyone else's " business ".

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    #56

    I don’t like ‘proudly working class’ people. Never have. What’s there to be proud of? Generations of limited achievement?

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    Kim Kermes
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Without working class folk, you wouldn't have plumbing or a house to put it in, cars, or roads to drive on, food, and you'd be buried in garbage.

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    #57

    Hands holding rosary over a red book, symbolizing unity and contemplation of controversial takes. Marrying outside the religion you were brought up in is a recipe for disaster.

    Blended families don't work.

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    Forrest Hobbs
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Blended families don't work" - right, so cultural segregation is the solution to all our problems, is it?

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    #58

    Homeless people have ended up that way through their own bad choices and the ones who walk down the train asking for money for “a night in a shelter and a hot meal” are lying and will spend it on drugs and alcohol- hostels are free aren’t they?

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    Orwell
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not in the US. Causes of homeless families ranked: #1 Insufficient income and lack of affordable housing; #2 Unemployment / loss of job; #3 Poverty (Extremely Low Income - 75% of which have less than half their income remaining after paying for housing to cover all other expenses);. Causes of homeless individuals ranked - same, plus #4 mental illness. It's easier to believe that it's their own fault, but that's the reality according to the National Law Center on Homelessness and Poverty.

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    #59

    I can’t stand pathetic women. Women who are scared when their husbands are away from the home. Women who refuse to walk anywhere at night. Women who don’t travel alone and need a man to accompany them. Get a grip and stop trying to drag us all back to the 1950s with your needy perpetual victimhood.

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    KazzaHazza
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OH MY GOD. Women ARE afraid to walk alone at night. A poor woman lost her life to a policeman by doing just this. A bloody POLICEMAN! That’s why we’re afraid because we can’t trust anyone anymore.

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    #60

    Man drinking coffee, writing notes, and using a laptop in a modern kitchen setting for a discussion on controversial takes. That people who have been "working from home" need to get back to work. Covid is over.

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    lwolf1952
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    3 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's pointless to go to an office to do a job you can do from home. The expense of heating and cooling an office space and burning gasoline and time commuting is a waste.

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    #61

    Man holding a baby, wearing plaid pattern, outside a green wood building, representing controversial takes on parenting. Poor people are disgusting and only have themselves to blame. They shouldn’t have children, pets, or takeaways.

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