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No two humans are exactly alike. Everyone is weird in their own way. But that's not necessarily bad. In fact, the appeal of many artists, performers, and average folk is that they're delightfully odd and proudly non-conventional.

However, there's a fine line between quirky and creepy behavior. And media personality TahoeTV decided to find it. So he made a tweet asking people to describe the exact moment they noticed that someone was out of their mind.

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Turns out, it's a topic many are interested in. Immediately, people started sending in their answers, sharing all the funny, strange, and downright scary experiences they went through. From cheating boyfriends to high school bullies, continue scrolling to meet their villains.

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    But you might want to watch out for the word 'crazy'. For many of us, it has become such an integral part of our vocabulary, we even stop noticing it.

    But there are good reasons why you might want to stop using that word. Brenda Curtis, PhD, MsPH, an assistant professor of Psychology in Psychiatry at Penn Medicine, who has done research on language thinks it might even have sexist undertones as there are gender-based stereotypes about women being irrational, hysterical, and disconnected from reality—all meanings that are associated with the word 'crazy'.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hope she didn't stay around to get butchered because the voices told him things.

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    "One of the common stereotypes around mental health and substance use disorders is the idea of a moral failing," Curtis said.

    "A lot of people will think, 'oh they're just sad, get over it,' or 'oh, if you don't want to use drugs, just stop, no one forced you to.'" She also highlighted that the thoughts about mental illness perpetuated by words like 'crazy' include the idea that people with mental illness are divorced and incapable of making decisions. These stereotypes and the sense of blame they place on a person with mental illness tend to cast people in a category of 'others' that few people want to claim as their identity.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Take them down and sell them. And change your locks. And get an intervention order.

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    "When you have a person who is having a hard time and needs to talk to someone and needs treatment, they're less likely to go to their physician or another person for help if they don't want that person to see them in a different light," Curtis explained.

    In this way, attaching stigma to mental health conditions—by holding stereotypes, and creating social distance as a result of those stereotypes—can make it more difficult for people to seek help. "When stereotypes affect treatment, either initiation of treatment or treatment engagement, when it's isolating people, that's a problem."

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She could've demonstrated to shut him up, but better to take the red flag and run.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He lost weight, so sending him back to his mommy is cheaper in postage.

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    But there's another problem with the word 'crazy.' It's ambiguous. It doesn't mean just one specific thing. Like many of us, Curtis has noticed how widely we use the word in casual conversation—in all kinds of different contexts, for all kinds of different reasons.

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    She thinks it reminds her of the way her parents taught her not to use curse words in casual conversation; when you use a curse word as an adjective or noun in a sentence instead of something more descriptive, it's not just rude, it's also a lazy way to avoid thinking of the more precise word you really mean.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least she won't have to worry about him stalking her. He doesn't want a woman who takes too much time to do the shopping.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's why I always find it so strange that people don't go after their partner when they cheated, but after the person they got cheated with. Those people most likely do not even know that they are in a relationship with a cheater.

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    Curtis noted there are three keys to using language about mental illness: use the correct words to describe something (the name of a diagnostic category if it's a mental illness, or a descriptive general word like 'outlandish' otherwise, not just 'crazy' for everything); acknowledge when stereotypes exist—and debunk them; and use language that acknowledges a person is separate from their illness.

    Can we at least limit ourselves using that word? Do you think we have to? Let us know in the comments.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There still is something like the legal system where you sue them and get all of your costs reimbursed.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Run away. He waited until you were married to do that? He'll do worse.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Been sexually assaulted twice in my sleep. Second time was by the woman I was dating and I just wanted to sleep. So she tied my hands in my sleep and sat on my chest holding a knife.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, one of my stalkers was caught with 47 cell phones in his car while he was trying to buy a gun to shoot me with. Thank you California gun laws and background checks.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The prosthetic leg just makes me think of Rocket from GotG. "Imma get that leg!"

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ~1 call every 22.3 seconds. Introverts worst nightmare..... in all seriousness, that's messed up and I would block and report that ex.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "if I can't have you no one can." Lucky girl, how flattering. /s

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah, yes, the old "you're not supposed to have any friends but ME!" kind of boyfriend.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They should have called the cops immediately for stalking and file for a restraining order.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t know what to think about this one. Clearly wrong, but clean house and laundry at least. Idk if I’d eat the food tho

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just don't understand why some guys are like this. Is it fun scaring people? Do you get a hard off of it?

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my friends woke up one night and her boyfriend was standing over her with a knife constantly whispering "Blood, blood, blood." She managed to get out of the bed and call the emergency number. They came and took him away. Doctors wouldn't allow her to see him again. They said it was better for her to remember him how he was. They also said she should be grateful she woke up in time.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would you stay in the house & walk around reading them? Get the hell out of there, & don't go back alone!

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Animal cruelty. There's usually a reason why a dog bites. Most of the times it's because children don't treat the animal right or do something that's hurtful to the dog. Occasionally certain breeds of dog bite because it's in their genes to be aggressive.

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