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People Are Sharing Things That Shouldn’t Be Socially Acceptable In 2022, And Some Are Controversial
We all live in a world governed by rules, common sense and socially acceptable norms. The latter ones refer to things that are generally viewed by the members of our society as being appropriate to engage in.
Although societal norms often vary from culture to culture, that doesn’t mean some of the generally accepted things are not to be questioned. With times changing, some of them feel outdated or raise more questions than they have answers.
This illuminating thread asked people to weigh in and list the things that are “socially acceptable but you can’t help but think ‘why?’” Below are some of the most illuminating responses, so scroll down!
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#1
Beauty pageants for children.
Karl Baxter 2 years ago
I doubt that anyone outside of the US thinks this is anything but creepy
“Being within a community, we are relatively conformist,” Dr Audrey Tang, a chartered psychologist and author of multiple books, including "Be A Great Manager Now," "The Leader's Guide to Mindfulness," and "The Leader's Guide to Resilience” told Bored Panda in an interview.
According to Dr Tang, this is nothing new and much of this collective approach can be traced back to the dawn of civilization. She calls it “a hangover from our past as a collective.” Dr Tang explained: “It was safer for the community to sleep at the same time because it meant that no one was sneaking into your cave to steal your stuff.”
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#2
Rich megachurch pastors.
Daniel Yamada 2 years ago
“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in or steal; for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." - Matthew 6:19-21
#3
Abuse towards men, it’s still laughed at when a man says it happened to him.
#4
Texting while driving doesn’t get enough hate.
Antz Online 2 years ago
they can't walk and text without tripping or hitting a pole, yet think they can drive and text
Moreover, we have a fundamental drive to be part of a group. “We have always been safer together, and inclusion – even if you are near the bottom of the pack – still means you are part of something bigger.”
Dr Tang argues that "social norms" are the cultures, behaviors and expectations which make up society. “They can differ from community to community, but in many ways, adherence allows us to know where we fit within our group.”
She continued: “When we live in a society with others (and this is evident in the animal kingdom), we tend to understand our ‘place’ in the pack through acknowledging ourselves in comparison to others – with the goal being access to resources. In humans, we are fighting less over a perceived scarcity of food and water, but (especially in the social media world) a need for acknowledgment and validation.”
#5
Pockets in female clothing… I am a male. My daughters cannot understand why there is fake pockets in all womenswear.
Na Schi 2 years ago (edited)
THIS! This everytime annoyes the fûck out of me! This can literally ruin any shopping experience. So thank god for internet shopping and filter functions. I completely stopped to buy brands/designs that doesn't allow women to have pockets or only provide pixie-pockets that are smaller than the one in a toddler's sweat pants.
#6
Gender reveals.
Red rockin lobster 2 years ago
Man, this is annoying. It's interesting only for you and eventually the grandparents but the joy would be the same also by telling them over the phone, over dinner etc. Seriously, nobody cares.
Dr Tang also claims that building self-esteem has focused on appreciating the self but often in comparison to others “(e.g. I didn’t win… but at least I didn’t come last).” She added that “While in many ways this was more important historically where there was more of a 'fight' for resources, the 'competition' has now moved to social media and 'likes' - and as such this may now also play a huge part in what is acceptable.”
#8
Working while sick.
This expectation needs to stop. Being expected to work while sick doesn't make a good employee, it makes a bad employer. That's saying nothing of how this expectation leads to the rest of the employees getting sick too. There was a reason everyone at my previous job called the place the petri dish, if one person got sick literally everyone else would too because you either worked or went to the unemployment line.
#9
People asking couples when are they going to make baby.
Destiney Haddox 2 years ago
I embarrass them by saying something like "oh so you are thinking of us having sex, hu? You weirdo!" Freaks them out enough to stop talking about it. Then if they get persistent I say I hate kids, even though I really don't.
#10
People listening to loud music on their phone in public transports without headphone.
Dr Tang argues that we often feel fear of judgment because of a tendency to live our life according to a series of ‘shoulds.’Although if you ask anyone, they are likely not to be able to tell you where their rules came from.
“For example, who said that ‘women should be caring and nurturing?’; who said that ‘men shouldn’t cry?’ Who said that we should/shouldn’t be a certain weight/size/shape, etc.” Dr Tang added: “and more importantly, is anyone still saying it?!”
#11
Bullying people for not drinking alcohol in social situations
#12
Assuming a childfree woman in the family will babysit your kid whenever you want to go out.
#13
Unpaid internship for students.
A poor student can't afford the costs that go along with the internship.
Destiney Haddox 2 years ago
Unpaid internships are meant to teach the student but many companies take advantage and make them do work for free. It's actually illegal to have your intern do any work that contributes to the income or business services, that's why they get coffee in many movies and pop culture. People need to know their rights as an intern and report companies that take advantage and have their intern making the company money.
Nonetheless, it is often easier to simply conform. “And there results an unconscious lesson – shout long enough and loud enough and people may go along with you to shut you up.”Moreover, a lot of our beliefs are imposed unconsciously through the stories we watch in the media, in our culture, in our families and in our overall experience, Dr Tang argues.
#14
Those baby/children’s clothes with sayings like “future heartbreaker” or “does this shirt make me look fat?” Why?
Biliegh Berrie 2 years ago
I never allowed my kids to dress beyond their years or my daughter in inappropriate clothing. I never understood parents who put their 5 year old daughters in daisy dukes and half shirts. Or any kind of clothing like it.
#16
Asking a women when she is going to marry and why doesn't she have a boyfriend.
Asking a couple when they are going to have kids. There are a lot of couples that can't get pregnant and asking that is like rubbing the wound with salt
Mama Panda 2 years ago
When I was single and was asked why I didn't have a boyfriend I told them I had a shower head I didn't need one
“Sometimes, especially when we have so much going on, we don’t have time to stop and think – we don’t always appreciate that some of our beliefs about what we ‘should/shouldn’t’ do are not necessarily healthy.” One thing we can do is ask ourselves, Dr Tang suggests, “How would I feel if I didn’t have that thought (i.e. about the other person judging me)?” and then behave accordingly.
#17
Using speakerphone in public places.
Or having loud (should be private) conversations in public like everyone wants to hear.
I was just waiting at the social security office and EVERYONE in there overheard this woman helping this man, I’m assuming her man?, fill out his paperwork. She was shouting questions like “do you have any mental disabilities?” “Do you take medication?” Lady, no one thinks that’s cool.
Daniel Yamada 2 years ago
Don't assume people are just rude. If I get a call, I have to put it on speaker because I am hard of hearing.
#18
Driving after drinking at all. You are operating a 2-ton murder mobile. Please give the road your full attention.
#19
How we have become so okay with so much consumption just for the sake of it.
Black Friday deals, "sales", new phone upgrades every year. It's all so weird.
Also working for 80000hrs of our lives is pretty weird too.
Sinkvenice 2 years ago
In 2008, there was an enormous queue of people outside a branch of Walmart for Black Friday. When the security guard unlocked the door to let everyone in, they barged through the doors and he died due to the stampede. People were literally running and stomping on his dead body. That's utter insanity. Such an extreme and scary case of "pack" behaviour.
When we are at odds with others, it is common to feel guilt. “Related to this is our self-esteem – which (unlike self compassion) is developed in comparison to others – if we see we are doing better, we feel better about ourselves.”
Dr Tang explained that “when we hear differing opinions, yes, the opinion itself may make us angry, but it causes us to question our own foundations, and unconsciously, our position in our own world… if someone else is different… could they end up being more 'powerful' (or at least get more access to the resources I want)?”
#20
Saying that your child is going to break so many hearts when they are older or saying to the mother to "save him for me" as a joke.
Just sexualising children in anyway especially when they are far too young to understand and begin to learn that its ok to grab a womans tits because when you did it your parents laughed and encouraged you when you were younger.
Its gross.
Daniel Yamada 2 years ago
Also, a woman can do this and get away with it. If a man does it, he could end up in the back seat of a police car or get beat up by whoever happens to hear him.
#21
Off leash badly trained dogs in public parks where others are trying to enjoy a picnic.
Zenozenobee 2 years ago
For the guy who walk is malinois shepherd off leash on one of my neighborhood's playground, it is. A work dog, untrained in the middle of children running wild and he dared to answer the concerned parents that they should prevent their kids from running (yep in the playground) when he walks his poor dog. Because the dog needs to run after spending all day locked in the appartement when his human works.... Maybe chose a pet that goes with your lifestyle? Or a stuffed pet?
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Snack Attact 2 years ago
I have big pitbulls. Well trained but the amount of smaller off leash dogs that have run up and started aggressive behavior is ridiculous. The owner is most of the time oblivious, "they get along with big dogs hee hee." Well if something happened guess who's dog is going to have to go in hiding. Your not getting my babies. Nope.
Fluffy mommy panda 2 years ago
Yeah little dogs seem to sometimes start most of the bad behavior. And the people with the small dog should keep there dog on a leash if they care about them. And it really rude if know your dog don't act well around other dogs or people. Like your asking for trouble. Even a small dog can bite someone.
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Celia T 2 years ago
I live in town. There a lot of “feral” cats or outside cats. The people that feed them take zero responsibility (no vaccinations or spay/neuter). I pick up my dog poo. Why is it ok for these cats to c**p in my yard and garden?
Load More Replies... Mama Panda 2 years ago
I just got a 3-month-old Chihuahua puppy. I was at the park the other day and there were two large dogs off their leashes. The owners were oblivious to where these dogs were going. I left because I was afraid that these dogs would attack my puppy and myself. It pissed me off to no end that we could enjoy the park and he was on a leash too
LuckyL 2 years ago
It's not only about attacking. We were sitting down at a lake and a huge dog came rushing towards us - clearly just wanting to play. But rushed onto the picknick blanket (no food, just chilling) and suddenly you're eye to eye with a dog that's just pure energy. I froze and I'm really glad, that the friend I was with just got the collar, pulled the dog down and then told it to get off of us. - and that it worked.
Load More Replies... Just Jeff 2 years ago
Off leash ANY kind of dog. Trained or not. Keep them on the leash. Other people around don't know how well trained your dog is or is not.
Marlowe Fitzpatrik 2 years ago
Depends on the place. We have several places where dogs are perfectly allowed to be off-leash (obviously they need to be well-behaved). If people want them to be on a leash (because of your mentioned reasons), they need to speak up. And yes, it works fine. VERY rarely does anything happen or any dog get too close to people who don't want them to and those with unfriendly dogs avoid going there anyway.
Load More Replies... Limey 2 years ago
This is a very American thing. I am from the uk and it is common practice for dogs to be off leash AND well behaved. I have 2 big dogs here in the US and feel sorry for American dogs who almost never get to be off leash and enjoy a little freedom.
Lousha 2 years ago
Let me put this into another perspective. I lived in the UK for 8 years, and it had such beautiful parks! Yet not once did I manage to enjoy one, because they were all treated like dog heavens. BTW I love dogs. But I also realise that they can be dangerous. Every park was chock full of off the leash dogs with owners chatting somewhere around. Dogs running up to me all the time. When I froze, the reaction was always "oh, they're very friendly, don't worry!" . Except I cannot know that. Even if YOU fully belive that you might be wrong. Or your idea of friendly can be very different from mine. I used to take two toddlers with me (nanny for a while) and it was my responsibility to take them home with their face still where it was before. When a staffie shoved their face into the stroller to sniff the 3 year old, I was terrified. I know how lovely they can be. Also how their jaw can snap an adult's thigh bone in half without effort.
Load More Replies... Max 2 years ago
I'm going to say that we thought we were adequate distance from the picnic when we unleashed the beast. Turns out we were not. We have learned from this incident.
Marlowe Fitzpatrik 2 years ago
Haha - that reminds me of a story. A friend of mine has four very well-trained labradors. She was walking with them on the beach, no person around at all, leashes were off (allowed to!) and then there was the backpack that someone must have placed there for later and LEFT THE BREAKFAST on the top of the backpack. That was of course the day the whistle didn't work and the dogs had quickly swallowed the sandwich and probably something else. Since there was nobody around, and apart from the eaten food nothing was damaged, she collected the dogs and quickly walked off. Who the hell leaves their food out in the open on a backpack? If not dogs, there's also seagulls who might gobble it up!
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Seedy Vine 2 years ago
I once saw two out-of-control pitt bulls try killing a golden retriever in a park. A homeless man pulled them apart and saved the dog.
2picklesinabun 2 years ago
I don't care if they aren't "badly trained." If it says to leash up, leash up.
Fluffy mommy panda 2 years ago
Once had a women bring her gaint Mastiff to the lake once. And she said she was gonna let it off the leash. And didn't know it would act. She yelled that while it ran down the hill. And I took my daughter to the side kind by another part of the shore where we wouldn't be close to the dog. I know some people love big dogs and sometimes they don't bother me. However sometimes they do. I don't know I had a bad feeling. And that dog tryed to grab these people kids feet that where close to the shore. And the man tryed to be nice and get the dogs attention on him. Because the dog was getting more and more agressive. And that dog charged at him three times. He had a stick and was abel to distract the dog with the stick each time. But it was getting more agressive. He finally had to tell that women to get her dog and leave, because if it attack one his kids he was gonna shot it. It was a very bad situation. And I felt bad kinda for the women but not really. Don't bring an agressive dog around
KimB 2 years ago
I'm so sorry :( this is my greatest fear as my chihuahuas are all under 7lbs...one bite of shake is all it could take...
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enigmatic crab 2 years ago
i know,but hey! i cant blame myself for my two dogs, one of which was dumped off somewhere who we took care of, and his hyper sister who thinks everything he does she can do as well.
RoseAnne Hutchence 2 years ago
Badly behaved children anywhere in public! Screaming, running around ... when is the time to teach good manners (kids as well as dogs)?
Mandy DeOrnellas-Wisenbach 2 years ago
I abhor this! Just the other day, I was walking 2 of my dogs and out of nowhere this other dog came out of nowhere trying to attack my 70lb female. I’m yelling and trying to keep my dogs safe. Attacking dogs owners come around the corner and the lady yells for her husband to shock the dog because he’s doing it “again!” They shocked the hell out of it and it ran back to them. I was shaking the rest of the walk home and then cried because they didn’t care at all and despite my dogs being shook up but okay, I felt bad for the other dog because it was crying in pain as it ran away being shocked. 😤
RandomFrog(He/They️️) 2 years ago
My little cousin is deathly afraid of dogs, and he’s only three so most dogs are about his size. Anyways we go on hikes with their family and we went on one that requires leashes on dogs and this one dude didint, the dog runs up to my cousin, cousin starts screaming and crying wich scared the dog so it barks and cousin gets even more freaked out. Also my aunt is allergic to dogs. Everybody should leash their dog.
Kathryn Mustain 2 years ago
Off leash dogs anywhere where it's not legal. My dog, always leashed, does not get along with others. Ive had so many unleashed dogs start to run up to mine and the owners say , it's ok he's friendly. I say MINES NOT!
Joseph Bresett 2 years ago
I agree completely it ruins the whole thing expically living in a city without a yard of my own and have to go to the dogpark so my dog can run shouldnd have to deal with other peoples untrained dogs
Notluomnai 2 years ago
Why does the picture of this person's issue with "bad dogs" need to use pit bulls to illustrate the point?
Wysteria_Rose 2 years ago
Off leash dogs anywhere. I've had someone's dog come up while my husband and I were eating on a pub patio and the thing jumped up and scratched the heck out of my leg. I was aghast at how you could take your dog anywhere like a restaurant and just let it roam free like that.
H.L.Lewis 2 years ago
Not quite as bad, but drives me crazy to see it...people who take their dogs out in public that may be leashed, but are dragging their humans because they haven't been trained to the leash. And those that are retractable, letting them out so their dogs are twenty feet away from them at the farmers market. No keep your dog close to you and under control!!!
Markus It/He 2 years ago
My dog is what we like to call "overly friendly". He's a very bouncy boy who will run up to anyone who smiles and ask for fuss. He goes on lead when we see other people/dogs. His recall is amazing and if we've got a ball he wouldn't even notice but a lot of the time we don't want to risk upsetting them. We also don't tend to take him to parks because he gets very excited by other dogs (he just wants to play and doesn't seem to understand that aggression or fear is a no) and we think it would be a bit of a nightmare getting him to listen to us well.
Julia McElroy 2 years ago
"emotional support" dogs, or, rather, their owners, piggybacking on ADA cuz Fluffy is just so sweet and everyone loves dogs. No. Your dog is not covered. It is obvious when it runs around bugging everyone. It can harm actual support animals. And people with allergies. Yup, so going back on a 5 day bored panda suspension for this!
Andrea 2 years ago
I don't have a problem with dogs. I have a problem with irresponsible owners. My 3 year-year-old olis frightened by dogs and gets scared. So to all the dog owners who think it's acceptable to not put on a muzzle on the animals in public transportation with the explanation "he/she is well bahved and doesn't bite" you are being delusional.
Luis Gomez 2 years ago (edited)
Don't off leash ANY DOG, even if it's rin tin tin. Not everyone feels comfortable seeing you with your unleash dog especially if they are with kids. There's a proper place to do this, home and the dog park.
#22
Honking your horn while in traffic. What do you want me to do, drive through the cars blocking the road? These people are morons.
troufaki13 2 years ago
Maybe they think they have a magic horn that when you honk it, it will make the obstacle ahead disappear!
What’s unfortunate, according to Dr Tang, is the common behavior, rather than to show acceptance of difference, to try to negate that of the other. “It is the act of ‘normative idealization’ – what I do is normal, what you do is odd (it makes our own ego feel better); or we might alternatively just be picking on others to avoid thinking about our own problems – and something which makes them 'different' is an easy target.”
Sometimes it means by bringing someone down (rather than working to raise ourselves up), we feel better about ourselves, Dr Tang explained, and don’t need to admit we need to do something about our own insecurities.
#23
Telling a young person that they’ll change their mind eventually when they say they have no interest in ever getting married.
Also telling someone they’ll want kids eventually even if they’re adamant about never having kids.
Case in point, I would very much prefer to have two cats that I can love and pamper and cuddle with than a husband or wife.
I refuse to give birth, I refuse to be pregnant, if it ever happens, I am getting an abortion. If I ever have kids, it’ll be through foster or adoption and it’ll only happen if I become moderately wealthy and can give those kids a good life, if not? My cats will be close enough to kids anyway.
#24
Full grown adults dating barely "legal" teens.
D. Pitbull 2 years ago
Eh.... It depends on the situation... 48 year old person who has been "waiting" for the teen's 18th birthday, starts RIGHT in on them on that day - because hey, now it's legal! ... still gives me pause. 23 year old dating a 19 year old? Meh. Normal.
#25
Kids having social media accounts
Greg Williams 2 years ago
Depends on the social media, are you letting them watch some fun YouTube videos, talk to their friends on discord, or is it Snapchat and Instagram. Not all are blanketly bad, bur most of the image sharing ones are
#26
People smashing other people's face into cake when it's their birthday, or when newly weds are sharing a cake and they smear the cake onto their SO's face in the ceremony. Just, why? Not everyone thinks it's a fun, quirky thing to do, it ruins whatever makeup they're using, and most of the time I see it, the people with cake on their face gets pretty mad over it, and I think they're justified
#27
Untrained 'emotional support' animals. I’m all for service animals, but some people abuse the concept and just make sh*t up.
#28
Touching pregnant people's stomachs.
If I ever become pregnant and some rando decides that they can just start rubbing my stomach without asking then you bet I'm gonna be rubbing their stomach back
Judit Turi 2 years ago
Aaaand also... nobody dare to rub your SO's crotch, like "Good job,mate !"
#29
Being on your phone when having a conversation.
#30
Working 40+ hours a week for someone else for most of your adult life only to maybe get 10 years to enjoy life when you may be too old to enjoy it anymore
phil blanque 2 years ago
Whatever "dream" job we might imagine, it will never be wonderful all of the time. Clearly there are many people in the world without the means or options to choose their work, but there are many who can choose. By making the best choice and making the best of that choice, it is then a matter of attitude and perspective to enjoy the best parts and make it through the worst.
#31
Not wearing a seatbelt. BACKSEAT TOO.
Let me tell you a story.
We had a girl in our house, basically a medical foster placement. Your typical 4-5 yo before her ‘incident’.
Her family was going somewhere together, mom and grandma (I think) and they strapped her into the kid seat. But didn’t strap the kid seat into the seat of the car. Head on collision, and this little girl (+kid seat)is sent *through* the dash board. Can’t walk, talk, feed herself, be a 5 yo. Had a chunk of her skull smashed to bits, repaired, removed again because of an infection, and a plate added.
Ffs people. Wear your damn seatbelts. You become a potential projectile for the other people in the car too. No one is safe.
#32
Going to get crucified for this but getting drunk.
I don't have a problem with drinking alcohol but the way people talk about how drunk they got with immense pride always baffled me.
Also the fact that it's completely legal along with cigarettes when other things aren't is moronic.
Peej Maybe 2 years ago
This is a culture where I live. If you don't go out every weekend and get drunk, you're seen as socially inept by your colleagues. Personally I'd rather spend a whole bunch of money on something that gives me pleasure and is tangible, rather than something I'm going to pee out or throw up copiously while feeling like death warmed up
#33
Customer entitlement in retail. Returns culture. Posting bad reviews before trying to understand what actually went wrong when it comes to meeting their expectations.
Rachel w 2 years ago
This is mostly, and sadly, an American thing. It's because, for some dumb reason we have encouraged the phrase"the customer is always right". Which has led to entitled a*s customers who can never, ever, be wrong no matter how horrible or wrong they are. It's honestly our own fault.
#34
Being viewed as a failure if you don’t enter into a relationship, get married and/or have kids.
Ducki 2 years ago
I feel this. Every year of my life, I got straight A's and A+'s with almost no fail, am working on computer programming, never got glued to devices, won a lot of school awards...yet my parents still sorta hate me and threaten to disown me cause I'm NB and never want kids. Did I do that for nothing bruh 😭
#35
Giving up so much private data to companies without the option not to.
Elliot Fowler 2 years ago
I understand how shitty that is but it really is the main reason most of the internet is free. Imagine if you had to pay for every website you visit
#36
Oversharing everything and everywhere your kids or babies are. Like putting full names, tagging their school/frequented play areas, interests, etc. Friends and family ain’t the only people looking at this stuff.
Mama Panda 2 years ago
The good way for predators and pedophiles to find out more about your children and possibly abduct them.
#37
Taking pictures of strangers without permission when the context isn’t justified, especially covertly (bonus points if the person does it for the purposes of sharing/posting it). Am I the only one that thinks it is weird and creepy?
Beeps 2 years ago (edited)
It’s even worse when people mention that this is a problem and others then start justifying it. I’ve seen so many comments where people start preaching about “if you’re in a public space you’ll have to accept blah, blah, blah, if you don’t like it stay at home, blah, blah…” Why on earth would you defend something like this?
#38
grabbing people’s wheelchairs and pushing them without being asked or asking consent. pushing people around is rude as f**k and bullying behaviour, but if someone is on wheels suddenly it’s fine? no. don’t touch the chair
#39
Strangers touching all over babies. Pinching cheeks, picking them up and kissing them. I’ve had people come up to me at a store and open up her car seat cover to see her. And I’ve had people that know my mom (strangers to me) come up and kiss her and pinch her cheeks and pass her around when she was just a little infant. None of them cleaning their hands either. I enjoy seeing people that I know holding and loving on my child but at least ask especially if you are a stranger.
Beeps 2 years ago (edited)
Plus the constant need to overstimulate them. Had this at work, colleague brings in her new baby who is lying in its pram, totally calm and just peacefully looking around, enjoying being chill, when another colleague comes along and has to start tickling and groping the baby, making loads of silly noises and daft exaggerated faces. Why??? The poor mite was just totally happy and chill and now they’re all wound up and have been needlessly disturbed from their rest.
#40
Family YouTube channels, honestly they start really sweet and all but it progressively gets worse when money gets involved.
What do you think ?
Gary 2 years ago
Can I ask, just how many more variants of this question and similar question does Board Panda intend to host, why not get out there and discover interesting new things for us, or wonderful art?
Carol Emory 2 years ago
This is for Americans...having to drain your bank account to pay for medications so you can stay alive. Insulin costing $600 a month...Chemo treatments that can have you owing half a million or more before you're done. All because pharma companies know people are willing to pay anything to stay alive. It's wrong and immoral.
Laura 2 years ago
YESS! I'm only 18 and take several medications, all of which adds up to BIG- and SUPPOSEDLY i have the BEST insurance in America!! 😭
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SewingStaffy 2 years ago
I don't think the question was fully understood by many of the responders. More than half of these are not socially accepted. Bored Panda is getting quite boring
Seedy Vine 2 years ago
I've got one: Street preachers who holler through bullhorns at the general public about how they're going to Hell while ignoring the needy all around them. Judge not lest ye be judged.
gie 2 years ago
Shaming parents and guardians, especially moms, telling strangers, "No, don't touch my child", or, "Get away from us." I know society is getting better, but stop judging, looking down, or commenting how a parent is over reacting over nothing. It's not nothing, it's called a boundary.
Leo Domitrix 2 years ago
"Socially acceptable" varies widely within a single culture, let alone across them, so let's just stop with the idea that there's any One Right Way beyond "do unto others as you'd be done unto".
tuzdayschild 2 years ago (edited)
Believing your opinion is worth so much more than someone else's. P.S. Not knowing the difference between opinion and fact.
Monday 2 years ago
Absolutely! If you like the look of fur then go for synthetic!
Load More Replies... Rob Eman 2 years ago
Car alarms should not be legal. They are nuisance and don't deter as intended. Not to mention provably bad for everyone's mental health.
Vix Spiderthrust 2 years ago
Everyone's so used to them crying wolf every time the wind blows the wrong way that we don't react to them at all, except maybe by rolling our eyes.
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Dustin West 2 years ago
Also how come no mention of: Letting your child decide their gender when they aren't even old enough to know what it really means. If your child hasn't hit puberty then don't let them decide what gender they are.
Dustin West 2 years ago
How did "wearing your pants so low that we can see your underwear" not make the cut? Is it because it would be viewed as stereotyping?
Melammu Tumultus 2 years ago
Politicians being corrupt without repercussions, excessive taxation, super-rich getting outrageous tax breaks and misuse of tax money
Dustin West 2 years ago
Lots of these are just things people do or say for conversation. Like the "when are you going to have a baby" or "when are you guys going to get married" this is all just conversation starters. I don't see anything wrong with either of those questions. If you don't want kids or don't plan on getting married then that's how you answer those questions. Why not just post on here: And can we please stop talking to each other, just because we know each other and are friends/family doesn't make it ok to talk to me.
Gary 2 years ago
Can I ask, just how many more variants of this question and similar question does Board Panda intend to host, why not get out there and discover interesting new things for us, or wonderful art?
Carol Emory 2 years ago
This is for Americans...having to drain your bank account to pay for medications so you can stay alive. Insulin costing $600 a month...Chemo treatments that can have you owing half a million or more before you're done. All because pharma companies know people are willing to pay anything to stay alive. It's wrong and immoral.
Laura 2 years ago
YESS! I'm only 18 and take several medications, all of which adds up to BIG- and SUPPOSEDLY i have the BEST insurance in America!! 😭
Load More Replies... SewingStaffy 2 years ago
I don't think the question was fully understood by many of the responders. More than half of these are not socially accepted. Bored Panda is getting quite boring
Seedy Vine 2 years ago
I've got one: Street preachers who holler through bullhorns at the general public about how they're going to Hell while ignoring the needy all around them. Judge not lest ye be judged.
gie 2 years ago
Shaming parents and guardians, especially moms, telling strangers, "No, don't touch my child", or, "Get away from us." I know society is getting better, but stop judging, looking down, or commenting how a parent is over reacting over nothing. It's not nothing, it's called a boundary.
Leo Domitrix 2 years ago
"Socially acceptable" varies widely within a single culture, let alone across them, so let's just stop with the idea that there's any One Right Way beyond "do unto others as you'd be done unto".
tuzdayschild 2 years ago (edited)
Believing your opinion is worth so much more than someone else's. P.S. Not knowing the difference between opinion and fact.
Monday 2 years ago
Absolutely! If you like the look of fur then go for synthetic!
Load More Replies... Rob Eman 2 years ago
Car alarms should not be legal. They are nuisance and don't deter as intended. Not to mention provably bad for everyone's mental health.
Vix Spiderthrust 2 years ago
Everyone's so used to them crying wolf every time the wind blows the wrong way that we don't react to them at all, except maybe by rolling our eyes.
Load More Replies... Dustin West 2 years ago
Also how come no mention of: Letting your child decide their gender when they aren't even old enough to know what it really means. If your child hasn't hit puberty then don't let them decide what gender they are.
Dustin West 2 years ago
How did "wearing your pants so low that we can see your underwear" not make the cut? Is it because it would be viewed as stereotyping?
Melammu Tumultus 2 years ago
Politicians being corrupt without repercussions, excessive taxation, super-rich getting outrageous tax breaks and misuse of tax money
Dustin West 2 years ago
Lots of these are just things people do or say for conversation. Like the "when are you going to have a baby" or "when are you guys going to get married" this is all just conversation starters. I don't see anything wrong with either of those questions. If you don't want kids or don't plan on getting married then that's how you answer those questions. Why not just post on here: And can we please stop talking to each other, just because we know each other and are friends/family doesn't make it ok to talk to me.
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