Someone Asks “What’s Classy If You’re Rich But Trashy If You’re Poor” And These 40 Replies Really Put Things Into Perspective
As regular people suffered from the health and economic impacts of the pandemic, the rich got even richer. According to the Institute for Policy Studies analysis of Forbes data, the combined wealth of all U.S. billionaires increased by $2.071 trillion (70.3%) between March 18, 2020, and October 15, 2021, from approximately $2.947 trillion to $5.019 trillion.
Of the more than 700 billionaires in the country, the top five (Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, Larry Page, and Elon Musk) saw a 123% growth in their combined wealth during this period, from $349 billion to $779 billion. We, ordinary folks, are sharing the world with these individuals but the laws that govern their everyday life sound nothing like ours.
To further explore this issue, Reddit user Seraphina_Renaldi made a post on the platform, asking everyone: "What is classy if you’re rich, but trashy if you're poor?" and sure enough, they got plenty of thought-provoking replies. Things like going to the casino or having someone else raise your children. Continue scrolling to check out the answers and upvote the ones you think make the most sense.
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The most expensive thing you own is a really old car.
Bored Panda got in touch with the author of the post, Seraphina_Renaldi, and they were kind enough to have a little chat with us about what inspired them to ask Redditors this question.
"I was scrolling through some profiles on Instagram and I just got the thought that some people are celebrated for things I was berated for in the past and then I remembered reading an article years ago about this topic with a few answers and was curious what Redditors might think about it," they told us.
Seraphina_Renaldi believes the post went so viral because everyone has experience with this, whether on one side or the other.
"I also think that it's a topic that can also be a little bit taboo because the financial situation is something very private and people don't talk about it and their struggles openly when not being anonymous," they added. "I've also had my own experience where the struggles of being poor can be downplayed by some people that especially grew up financially stable so it's also hard to talk about it when people won't listen."
If you are weird and rich people call you eccentric, but if you are weird and poor people call you crazy.
Drinking in the park. When they do it it’s a “banquet” but when I do it I’m “hammered” and need to “get off the swings and put my pants on”
Globally, Latin America and the Middle East stand as the most unequal regions, with the top 10% of the income distribution capturing respectively 54% and 56% of the average national income.
Even though inequality declined in a handful of Latin American countries, it persisted, and even increased, in others. In the Middle East, Gulf countries (Bahrain, Kuwait, Oman, Qatar, UAE, Saudi Arabia) have been marked as extremely unequal with little variation since the 1990s.
Europe, on the other hand, is the most equal of all regions, with the top 10% receiving 35% of income in 2019. This can be largely explained by public investments in education and health (i.e. by predistribution policies), financed by a fair amount of taxes (redistribution mechanisms).
If you live in a tiny home it’s ‘eco friendly’ if you live in a trailer you’re trash
I live in a trailer an I am not trash just like cheaper rent🤭🤭in a low income bracket🤪🤪
Someone else raising your kids
I don't think childcare is trashy at all, but I do find hiring a nanny so wealthy parents don't have to bother with the hardships of raising their own kids a bit questionable.
As different as their lives are, Seraphina_Renaldi thinks that rich and poor people can still somewhat understand each. Especially if someone's self-made because they know the struggles that come with an empty wallet.
"I don't, however, think that people who grew up rich and poor speak the same language," the Redditor said. "They've had extremely different experiences and were socialized in [different environments]."
"But I think that if both sides are open-minded, it's possible to [relate to] one another."
Asking your friends for money. If you’re rich, it’s a “fundraiser.” If you’re poor, it’s a handout.
Getting things for free. Which makes me viciously angry.
Van lifestyle: Some wealthy people will drop everything and remodel and literally live in a van or bus, traveling and usually blogging or vlogging along the way. On the flip side, many people did not choose to be homeless and are forced to live out of their cars.
Not working
This is more class status than wealth… upper class don’t know the meaning of the word work. Edit: definition of Upper class - British English: upper class NOUN /ˈʌpə klɑːs/ The upper class or the upper classes are the group of people in a society who own the most property and have the highest social status, and who may not need to work for money.
I guess slapping people
Chris Rock would, I presume, have charged a member of any other audience that did this to him. He should charge this idiot. Can you imagine Smith slapping, say, Ricky Gervais if he'd said the same? What does that say?
I saw this on a video some time ago and I'll repeat the response that came with it:
Rich people have mistresses
Middle-class people have affairs
Poor people have side pieces.
Not paying taxes, if your poor your stealing for others but if your rich you have the business savvy
Giving your kids hard to spell/say names
Having 5+ kids
Just because I love sharing random facts, the world isnt overpopulated. The entire population of earth could fit comfortable inside the state of Alaska, and the population density would be about the same as Washington, DC. The city of New York boasts a population density of more than twice as high as DC
Load More Replies...Having more than a couple kids is irresponsible and selfish. We have finite resources on this ONE AND ONLY planet that will support human life. Thanks irrational idiots for inventing religion to make more irrational idiots about procreation.
This is an absolute lie created and promoted by global corporations starting back in the 70s to pass the buck for wasting resources. It's along the same line as "your use of plastic straws is the reason the oceans are polluted, not the literal tons of plastic s**t we dump there on a regular basis". And you, my friend, have fallen for their manipulation hook, line and sinker.
Load More Replies...I cleaned for a woman that had 5 kids, plus one on the way. Huge ass house, took 8-9 hours to clean. I asked her, I guess when you have this one, that's the end? Nope! I want a lot more! Her husband, is a lung specialist, and does the surgeries. I Always made sure I was walking out if the door, when they were walking in! They were the most selfish people I ever met! I charged $10 a hour at the time. Trust me, some rich people are Nasty, and deserve to pay more than that. The worst ones to be Nasty are the rich. She would bget pissed, if it ran past the 9 hours, and had to pay that $10. I got fired, because I couldn't show up the day before Easter. My car broke down! It was the first time I ever did it too!
It's the economy ,social media, population , and the way we rear our children. The world's messed up in different ways. People are killing people ,people are doing bad things to people. How are we to stop someone from doing bad things? We raise them properly , but how are we supposed to do that when the Mom and Dad aren't prepared for responsibility since they've been babied their whole lives and don't know how to take responsibility for their actions. And that's just one situation of many that makes it difficult since our economy is s**t and underpays a lot of people for work in this economy . Who's going to work at that fast food joint when they only pay enough to get into an apartment on two wages. A single person can barely get by just paying rent and with inflation on the rise for housing , people don't want to get a house if the housing market were to crash. Adults are still living with their parents, That and 1% of rich people have all the money. There's more, but I digress
When IPD ( immature personality disorder) is considered a disease/ disorder.This aint getting better. We live in a world where it's all about "me" Yes the job situation is huge because we've out sorced them to other countries. But working a minimum wage job as a kid teaches responsibility, pride, I have never seen so many spoiled brats in my life. And by spoiled I mean having zero responsibility no goals, no jobs, no girlfriends, no drive to move out. We couldn't wait to get out of the house by 18 your parents were telling you you're out of here at 18 I'm changing the locks, half serious half joke. I can see still living at home till 25 because of college an getting settled into a job but after that no. I worked beginning at 16 then 7 days a week, 2 jobs to pay my 1st apt rent @18 a whopping $550. Which only made me want to better my education and get a better job.
Load More Replies...lets not forget the Duggers. The woman has now moved on to invetro. The family that thinks it's okay to be a pedo because God says you can't be gay. Yeah just what we need more of these people
Load More Replies...Yeah, seriously stop with all the kids already. We have enough stanky butts on the planet we don't need anymore.
My cousin had six in a trailer. I wish that was a joke. Soooo white trashy.
There's been a decrease in births in our country. Baby boomers are dying and millennials are either waiting or forgoing having children.
I disagree for every person that has one child or no children, there is that idiot that's having 10 or 15
Load More Replies...I noticed something. Used to work for a fairly young CEO who belonged to the YPO, Young President's Organization. After each of the big annual meetings, he'd bring back the directory and I had to go through each member and update his profile in his contact. These guys are loaded and each one had a minimum of 3 kids, but most had 5-7.
Having any number of children is only trashy if you, or your family, cannot afford to raise them.
My mother only has 5+ kids because she is fostering kids so they don't have to be split up to go to a family. SHe is the only reason I can live with my twin, no one wanted a set of troubled twins, my mother did.
This is Pix. Pic is trying to hide a bad comment because someone was lying.
JMO - Probably because the poor that have 5+ kids have them to 3 or more Baby Daddies and get Welfare &/or All the "Free Stuff" mentioned in the above post &/or Disability for the couple of them who have Behavioral or Health Issues (which may or may not stem from their alcohol & drug use during pregnancy) and they are not married to any of the Baby Daddies because they would lose Welfare & Food Stamps and He would be put in Jail when he didn't pay Child Support
But some people adopt kids so don't say having a bunch of kids is overpopulation because you save a life if you adopt a kid.
Well obviously genius we are not talking about saving foster kids that are already here, we're talking about bringing people here that don't want to be here and don't need to be here
Load More Replies...Elon Musk be that modern day example. How many is he up to anyways? Include that secret second baby with that recent artist singer
It's not overpolated. Is a couple b as 2 children they literally replaced themselves. And that's it. But go ahead and be trendy.
True, but mostly because of the support system. The rich have large and strong support system for children and mothers. Mothers don't have to work outside the house (they can if they want, but not because they have to earn money), they can have nanny so that the mother won't be too exhausted with each birth and get baby blues, they can afford the education and other things needed for the children like routine ped and dentist visit. I often see cases where mothers with children more than 3 from lower economy class just don't have enough time for free antenatal care even though they have high risk pregnancy, because they don't have that support system. Its sad, really
Nothing wrong with a big family if you have the means to care for them emotionally and fiscally
It's usually the poor people who have like 12 kids and it makes no sense
I just feel bad for the women who have low self-esteem and don't realize that they're supposed to be more than just sperm harvesters.
Load More Replies...This one I don't have a problem with. People who are rich can afford to support more children.
My wife and I have 5 kids...we are not rich or poor. Just not stupid...we owe no one a dime except monthly utilities. No car payments or credit cards.
Maybe you have too many kids and that's why you don't have a car payment cuz you couldn't qualify for it cuz he didn't have enough money after paying for your five kids
Load More Replies...Have as many children as you can afford. The schools have more families that get free or reduced lunch. I never got free lunch, nor did my (4) children. We paid fully for them. These families don't pay for the lunches, but do their kids have phones and gaming systems?
If you think about it..every child that is born takes the place of every soul that leaves the earth each day..it's a blessing to have kids and a family...you can't just find all the negatives..
Women stop being hot after they bust two kids out of their twats. It's just gross after that point.
Eating animals that are not usually seen as food.
Thrifting
I'm still laughing at how second hand items used to be called "kringloop" in my country (hand-me-downs, second hand clothes, what have you) and somehow it turned into 'vintage'.
Wearing a bathrobe all day
Nothing wrong with this… bathrobes are very comfy… although my boss prefers me to wear a suit
Being completely s**t-faced. I work in fine dining and you wouldn't believe the number of rich, well-dressed, "classy" people who get drunk off their a*ses and make a complete fool of themselves and still act better than you while they are doing it.
Me ex workmates to a tee. They had loads of cash and slept around, so they were classy. If I got drunk and acted like them, I'd have been arrested.
Casual clothing in a formal environment. Hoodie and cargo pants at a law firm: you're either going over your trust fund or taking on crippling debt to get out of a public intox charge.
Formal clothing should not exist. It's there just to make some people feel superior, at the cost of comfort.
Minimalism.
Rich: Vintage collector
Poor: Hoarder
Something tells me there's a difference between a room full of rat infested newspapers and a garage full of vintage cars
Showering outside
Lots of sex, when you're rich it's a sexual addiction when you're poor, you are just a wh*re.
Rich people say living frugal, we call it broke.
Living within your means Isa sensible thing to do at any economic level
Moving around a lot.
I moved around so much in my childhood for various reasons and never because we got evicted, nor am I an army brat and we're not "gypsies" (as people had always assumed).
Clothes with no labels. Not working, not knowing how much money is in your bank account
Repurposing things such as jars, containers, boxes, old clothes, etc.
When you're poor you do it because you have to and if you're rich it's because you want to.
Crime
If you steal 100 $ you are a criminal if you steal 1 mio you are a business man
Casinos
Lose what you can afford springs to mind… gambling is an addiction.
Father has multiple children from multiple mothers.
Speaking multiple languages, tax avoidance, day drinking, owning exotic animals, and having multiple cars on your property.
Speaking multiple languages is trashy if you're poor? I've never heard that before.
Buying expensive things. Someone who has money to afford pricy things looks normal doing so, someone who can barely put food on the table yet has an expensive car, clothes, or other luxury items makes em look like a douche
I, a student, get s**t on because I won't eat out with my friends because I said I don't have money after buying a computer...
Owning multiple animals.
One I picked up from watching American tv, so might not be accurate is using a communal pool. You pay fees to a country club, just like you pay entry into a public pool and the experience is the same, but kids that use the public pool are looked down on.
That's a good one and should definitely be up towards the top of the list.
Load More Replies...How come you never see reality TV shows like 'Cops' or 'Live PD' filmed in rich neighborhoods? I would love to see the police shutting down a house party, being attended by a bunch of snotty, loud, entitled rich teenagers.
Maybe in those neighborhoods they don't call the police and complain about the party..
Load More Replies...All I'm gonna say is that if Trump hadn't been born into wealth, he'd just be another creepy, trashy guy.
He would be long since dead of Covid-19. He's not the brightest bulb in the chandelier...
Load More Replies...Pole dancing in front of your young daughter, frowned upon, unless it's the Super Bowl Halftime show
Wearing a suit to work. I used to sell cell phones and one company literally had us wear a suit every day. It made everyone look like a used car salesman.
Now the real question: what's trashy if you're rich but classy if you're poor?
It's like going to the doctor from your home vs being taken by ambulance from a motel. They think the most horrible things about you! All of a sudden they want to test you for STDS! No kidding!
Passing judgement on others because you don't like whatever. Done by all should not be done at all.
How many poor people can afford multiple animals? I don't get this one.
You think people never do anything they can't afford?
Load More Replies...One I picked up from watching American tv, so might not be accurate is using a communal pool. You pay fees to a country club, just like you pay entry into a public pool and the experience is the same, but kids that use the public pool are looked down on.
That's a good one and should definitely be up towards the top of the list.
Load More Replies...How come you never see reality TV shows like 'Cops' or 'Live PD' filmed in rich neighborhoods? I would love to see the police shutting down a house party, being attended by a bunch of snotty, loud, entitled rich teenagers.
Maybe in those neighborhoods they don't call the police and complain about the party..
Load More Replies...All I'm gonna say is that if Trump hadn't been born into wealth, he'd just be another creepy, trashy guy.
He would be long since dead of Covid-19. He's not the brightest bulb in the chandelier...
Load More Replies...Pole dancing in front of your young daughter, frowned upon, unless it's the Super Bowl Halftime show
Wearing a suit to work. I used to sell cell phones and one company literally had us wear a suit every day. It made everyone look like a used car salesman.
Now the real question: what's trashy if you're rich but classy if you're poor?
It's like going to the doctor from your home vs being taken by ambulance from a motel. They think the most horrible things about you! All of a sudden they want to test you for STDS! No kidding!
Passing judgement on others because you don't like whatever. Done by all should not be done at all.
How many poor people can afford multiple animals? I don't get this one.
You think people never do anything they can't afford?
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