People Who Quit Their Jobs Without Really Having A Plan Share What Happened (30 Answers)
Interview With AuthorIt takes a lot of courage to switch jobs. It takes even more to quit your job without a solid backup plan. However, work conditions can sometimes be so horrendous, the workplace environment can be so toxic, you end up giving your notice (or deliberately not even doing this) and packing all of your stuff in a cardboard box ASAP. There’s only so much that people can take!
Twitter user Kierra started up a very interesting thread on the social media platform when she asked people if they’ve ever “randomly” quit their jobs before, having absolutely no backup plan. The thread immediately went viral, getting over 125.8k likes, as Twitter users rushed to spill the tea about their personal experiences in the job industry.
You’ll find their stories about what happened after they decided that they’ve had enough and quit their jobs below. Have a read and let us know which of these you found to be the most inspirational, dear Pandas. Have you ever handed in your resignation without a plan for the future? Share your story in the comments if you’re feeling up to it.
Bored Panda reached out to Kierra to learn more about the inspiration behind her viral thread, what to do if you're planning on changing jobs in the near future, and whether passion or interest in your position is more important. Kierra helps people to pivot into tech, especially data-related roles. In case you're looking for a change in your career, you can check out her newsletter right over here. Scroll down for the full interview, Pandas!
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Dude, nah, my old manager and I BOTH gave our old job the finger! Lucky lady got to retire, and I'm happy with what I'm doing too :p
Kierra told Bored Panda a bit about the inspiration behind her viral question on Twitter. "I came up with the question after doing some deep thinking about quitting my current role. I've been working in this current position for some years and I've been looking for a change. The work isn't terrible, but I'm not quite as interested in what I'm doing as when I first started," she revealed that she's been doing some important thinking about the future.
"I feel as though others might be feeling the same way. COVID has been rough on everyone in some aspect of life, even if it's just burnout. So many people are tired of being stuck in their pandemic routines and want a fresh start, something new and exciting... or even freeing."
I was curious to get Kierra's take about whether we should be looking for a new job while still working at our old position or if we should opt for making major changes, not necessarily with a backup plan in mind. According to Kierra, it all depends on the individual's circumstances.
"I always recommend people to look for a job while they are at their current role, mainly for job security and financial reasons. Searching for a new role can take some time and quitting a role cold turkey without any savings can make the job hunt even more stressful," she said. However, if you find yourself in a truly toxic environment, one that causes you a lot of mental and physical strain, it's best to cut your losses as soon as possible. " I consider that a different situation and I would advise one to leave as soon as they can. Your health is always more important than a job."
In Kierra's opinion, passion isn't incredibly important for one's job. "Sure, it would be wonderful to find a job that you're enamored with and I believe that it definitely could lead to better performance, but it's clear that passion is certainly not the reality for most people who work. I would instead suggest people find a job that they're actually interested in. Something that you don't mind earning a living doing. That interest will hold you over and keep you curious and willing to learn."
The author of the thread shared with Bored Panda that she didn't expect so many people to respond with stories about having quit their jobs. "I was shocked to see that there were many people who have quit jobs multiple times! I learned that people really do treat jobs as an additional part of their lives, almost like jobs are an accessory to happiness. It made me happy to see so many people advocating for themselves."
And next they wonder why the American education system is falling apart. Well, it's because the sane people leave insane institutions.
Earlier, Bored Panda spoke with life coach Lindsay Hanson about toxic and problematic workplaces. According to her, we’re all responsible for setting the boundaries in life for what we’re willing to tolerate. In short, it’s up to each of us to set these boundaries.
Regardless of whether we’ve got the human resources department on our side during times of turmoil, we’ve always got the option of reaching out to our superiors and talking to them. It might be awkward, it might be nerve-wracking, but they’re always there if we want to voice our concerns about the workplace environment. Whether or not changes will happen is a whole separate issue, but starting up some honest-but-diplomatic communication is always a good idea.
"If you feel that there's nothing you can do to change the situation and the company or people involved are unwilling to change, then you have to decide whether you're willing to stay in that environment or not," Lindsay told Bored Panda.
"A good question to ask yourself is, even if this toxic situation were to change, would I still want to work here?" the life coach noted that we have to check in with ourselves and search our feelings for an honest answer to this question.
You bring up a good point. Right now jobs are easy to get. The worm will turn and it will not always be that way. I have lived through times where it was ultracompetitive to get a job at McDonalds. Just a word of caution people. Lots of great stories here, but look at the participants. Its missing those people who might have done the same thing but now stand on their feet all day at Wendy's due to their decision and are not posting. Just saying. YES, nothing is worst than a bad job where you dread waking up in the morning. However, I would suck it up and look HARD for another one, especially if you can't move back home or have any savings. Not meaning to be a father, but I am also that.
My hubby's former employer demanded he violate federal law. Hubby quit. Six weeks later, and this was while I was relearning to walk, so no, we had zero income, he had a new employer, loves it, and that's 8 years now. :-)
Lindsay pointed out that we have two options when it comes to workplace environments that are stressful, toxic, or generally difficult. First of all, we can do our best to try and find contentment or happiness in whatever position we have at the company. Secondly, however, we can start looking for a way out, to leave permanently.
Was anyone else expecting to see a link included so "you too can have financial stability".
I experienced a psychotic episode that resulted from all the stress I experienced from my last job. I worked in a call-center in a nursing position. On a good call I'd help people figure out if they needed to go to the ER or if they could get by with a routine doctor appointment. People are relentlessly horrible to anyone who tries to help you over the phone. I ended up in a pysch unit for 16 days.
According to the life coach, even though we’re still stuck in the Covid-19 pandemic, we shouldn’t feel limited or imprisoned by this fact. It shouldn’t be the main factor deciding whether or not we’re staying at a company.
"The idea that you can't change your situation due to the pandemic is very limiting. There are still companies hiring. There are still ways to make money on your own. There is always a way to change your current situation—telling yourself you're stuck feels very limiting," Lindsay said.
"It comes back to what you're willing to tolerate. You can do everything in your power to bring attention to the toxic situation and attempt to change it. And at the end of the day, you always have control over your own mindset, how you're reacting to the situation, and how much you let it affect you."
Meanwhile, Professor Eddy Ng told Bored Panda that if workplace problems get out of hand, employees might want to consider lodging a human rights complaint, e.g. if there are plenty of derogatory comments and unwanted jokes. “Employers (managers and HR) can be held responsible for inaction," he said.
"If repeated complaints about the toxic workplace to the manager or HR fall on deaf ears, then it is indicative that the employer is not taking the concern seriously and it's the cue that you should switch employers/workplace," the professor told Bored Panda. "If management makes an effort for change, then it would be an opportunity to assist with that change. Many organizations are not addressing systemic discrimination and are engaging with employees with this change."
Yes. More than once. Life is too short for hideous workplaces. Worst was the no leave guy (law gave 15 days plus 11 stat days at the time) None of the men there complained or did anything, even the fired ones. I was told to leave immediately, after I bought up the subject. I took him to employment court. . Got paid put, he went out of business, fled to Australia owing money to companies , and ....became a lawyer.LOL
However, the professor noted that it’s generally easier to look for another job while you still have one. That way, you “don't have to explain gaps in employment or past problems with a prospective employer.” On the flip side, he also pointed out that switching careers might be the perfect time to have a break and “take stock, engage in career planning, and exploration, and transition to new careers.”
Wow, some here are insufferable. English isn’t everyone’s first language or perhaps the phone translated. I hope her job is slapping judgmental jerks
My mother was my father's backup plan every time he quit. OVer and over and over....
This is an excellent, insightful reply; and no I'm not being sarcastic. For lots of people this was their reality maybe in a time when leaving wasn't an option
Load More Replies...As more than a few can relate to, I had to leave my job near the start of this pandemic (my employer was unsympathetic to the extreme that I had an ailing mother who absolutely could not be exposed to a superbug like COVID; that was the last straw after quite a series of offensive decisions over the last year I'd been working there). A year and a half later, I do not regret the decision one bit. Mom may be gone, but my life is in a much better place than it was working for a company that considered the Americans with Disabilities Act to be a loose suggestion.
Employer was verrry verbally abusive, job got harder and harder for no good reason. After "my DOG could do your job", I spent a week documenting in painful detail exactly how to do my job. A 5 inch tall stack of double sided instructions on every aspect of my day. Stuck a post it on top saying "for (his dog)" on Friday, and never went back. Had a new job Monday thru a temp agency for 25% more pay. Worked temp jobs for another 5 years before I got offered a permanent job in aerospace. Retired from that after a decade at age 40, happily retired since then!
My mother was my father's backup plan every time he quit. OVer and over and over....
This is an excellent, insightful reply; and no I'm not being sarcastic. For lots of people this was their reality maybe in a time when leaving wasn't an option
Load More Replies...As more than a few can relate to, I had to leave my job near the start of this pandemic (my employer was unsympathetic to the extreme that I had an ailing mother who absolutely could not be exposed to a superbug like COVID; that was the last straw after quite a series of offensive decisions over the last year I'd been working there). A year and a half later, I do not regret the decision one bit. Mom may be gone, but my life is in a much better place than it was working for a company that considered the Americans with Disabilities Act to be a loose suggestion.
Employer was verrry verbally abusive, job got harder and harder for no good reason. After "my DOG could do your job", I spent a week documenting in painful detail exactly how to do my job. A 5 inch tall stack of double sided instructions on every aspect of my day. Stuck a post it on top saying "for (his dog)" on Friday, and never went back. Had a new job Monday thru a temp agency for 25% more pay. Worked temp jobs for another 5 years before I got offered a permanent job in aerospace. Retired from that after a decade at age 40, happily retired since then!