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As kids, we were naturally curious — and extremely impressionable. We absorbed the world like little sponges by observing and mimicking everything our parents did. Unconsciously, most of us also picked up some quirky behaviors along the way that turned out to be... a bit weird.

Believe it or not, we may even glide through life completely unaware of these silly rituals, but hey, it's just a thing we do. Only as we grow older and start to create meaningful relationships with people around us, sharing our childhood memories — which we believed were perfectly and totally normal — inevitably leads to confused looks and a few raised eyebrows.

So without further ado, let's dig into this viral thread from humor writer and editor Kristen Mulrooney that took us on a hilarious rollercoaster where this phenomenon was laid out on the table. Turns out, thousands of friends and spouses privy to their loved ones' presumed ordinary behaviors gathered the courage to tell them that, in fact, they’re anything but. We at Bored Panda have gathered some of the most entertaining responses to share with you all, so continue scrolling! Be sure to upvote your favorite tales, and share your own experiences with us in the comments.

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    Apparently, Kristen’s tweet was inspired by two recent conversations she had with her husband: "When I was in elementary school, one of the best parts of the day was when the whole class walked across the school together for a big group bathroom trip," she said in an interview with BuzzFeed. "And he was like, '...that's not as normal as it sounds like you think it is.'"

    "Then later that day, something came up about school dances, and my husband said, 'I'm not sure if this is normal for public schools, but we always had a random priest show up to chaperone our middle school dances.' I was like, 'I am very sure that is NOT normal.'"

    The responses to Kristen's tweet were filled with similar tales where people gladly exposed their spouses’ quirky behaviors, from peculiar eating habits to outright odd phrases like "don’t forget to chirp the car" — which is a totally normal thing clearly everyone says.

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    Where my seasoning?

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to love watching the fighter jets blast by over my house, I was sad when they closed the local AFB.

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    Kristen’s viral thread only goes to show how universally relatable this topic is. It looks like virtually everyone has some weird habits from their childhood that just stuck with them for the rest of their lives. On top of that, it proves they inevitably bubble to the surface with adulthood, and often in hilarious ways.

    Unsurprisingly, bizarre behavior patterns especially become visible when we find that special person with whom we can create a long-lasting relationship. Of course, relationships are a beautiful thing that makes you feel loved and adored by someone close to your heart. But they also teach you about the world, life, and, most importantly, yourself.

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    Anyone who’s been with their partner long enough has seen them at their best and their worst and knows the ins and outs of their behaviors. In some cases, however, these little habits seem cute at first but may morph into giant, annoying, frustrating patterns with time. They are hard to break, after all, no matter how pointless or silly they actually are.

    When this seems to be the case, experts suggest taking a step back and thinking about what’s truly important. "The weird things your partner does are a part of who he or she is, and some of the reason why you fell in love," Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D., psychotherapist and author of How to Be Happy Partners: Working It Out Together, told Women’s Health.

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    Tessina pointed out that in any healthy relationship, couples learn to accommodate each other's quirks. Sometimes that means secretly finding them endearing, even if they're still slightly irritating, she said.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not gonna lie, my favorite is a night time shower with just a candle for light. It helps my eyes get used to the dark and is relaxing before bed

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    But how come so many people move through life completely oblivious to these unbreakable and utterly weird childhood habits? Turns out, many of us realize obvious things only later in life because we’re wired to move common patterns into the background to look out for more novel things.

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    "This happens because things that are not obvious, that are not common, that stand out, could pose a threat to our well-being, or could be something really rewarding," Joshua Klapow, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist, performance coach, and creator of Mental Drive, told Bored Panda in a previous interview. He stated that we humans "pay more attention to those actions and interactions that grab our attention. The obvious goes in the background, so we reserve brain bandwidth to notice the novel, standout occurrences in our life."

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    But as we all know, fewer things feel different and unknown to us through the course of our lives. As adults, we can finally look at the seemingly common in a more detailed way. "And when we do, we often discover that that obvious has so much more to it that we missed earlier on," the psychologist added.

    "Another reason we miss the obvious is that we sometimes are not ready psychologically to handle [it]," Klapow said. "A relationship that is toxic, a love interest that is too intense, a realization that we don’t have a skill or strength we believe we have." These things may be crystal clear to the outside observer, but "our own psychological defenses go up and protect us from seeing the obvious. Because to do so might overwhelm us emotionally and psychologically."

    "This pattern can go on for years, until which time we either have the psychological maturity or our life circumstances change such that we can look at the obvious which once posed a psychological threat in a more mature, less defensive way."

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There were whole generations that thought it was normal. I remember the day that the cane/switch/crop/yardstick disappeared from the classrooms. I think it was in November because I remember we were already talking about Christmas but it was still a little ways off. We walked into the classroom in the morning and it was literally the first thing we noticed when we walked in! That little hook on the wall had nothing hanging on it. Was it broken? Was it hidden for a surprise lashing? Someone had to find out! And what with me being the arsehole hero that I am, I decided I would be the one to do it. I can't remember exactly what I said but, as it was about God, I was guaranteed a wallop. Instead, I was sent outside the classroom and told to stand in the corridor! That night my parents confirmed that, although it was already illegal, the teachers themselves were not liable for prosecution... until now!!!!

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    Once we realize we lived our whole lives believing our weird childhood habits are perfectly ordinary, it’s easy to feel a bit uncomfortable and self-conscious. Perhaps that’s why, according to Klapow, we feel embarrassed — "the obvious is often simple and clear to everyone else."

    The creator of Mental Drive explained we feel this way for several reasons. First, we simply overlooked what others saw: "We may have made mistakes, hurt others, missed out on opportunities because we didn't see the obvious. Lastly, we have to acknowledge to others and ourselves that despite how we think of ourselves or how we are seen by others, we have missed something."

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the UK pigs in blankets are sausages wrapped in bacon. A favourite around Christmas time.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother often made us a rectangular pizza because that is normal shape of the baking dish, like this: https://www.sweetdecor.pl/blacha-do-ciasta-gladka-nieprzywieralna-czarna-40cm-x-25cm-x-6cm.html BTW typical american pizza is not the same as traditional italian pizza.

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    But if seeing your silly beliefs laid out on the table makes you blush, remember that laughing off the embarrassment will surely help. Moreover, it can help you strengthen the bond you have with your spouse, and even help you grow as a person.

    Whenever you feel flustered about your quirks, turn the internal dialog around and tell yourself: "I now see things differently, more clearly, and that is going to help me from this day moving forward," Klapow suggested. "Then, the initial embarrassment and frustration can transition into gratitude and excitement for arriving at the discovery of the obvious," he concluded.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well it was fairly normal (at least here in the UK) that children weren't at the table for dinner with the grown-ups. BUT they would have eaten earlier with Mum in the kitchen or in another room with the nanny if you were really posh. Not defending your grandparents but maybe they sort of remembered the 'no children at dinner' thing but didn't really think it through.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My partner does lemon juice and sugar…there was lots of confusion around this until I realised it was, in fact, a cultural thing.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still do. But then again I use a lot of ketchup in cooking and hate wasting any of it so a bit of water helps get the bottle empty

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As A British person I don't find buttering Sandwiches to be odd at all. It's different if you are using chocolate spread though - that would be odd. I figured it would be the same in most countries - butter the bread and slap in your filling.

    Monday
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My first thought was "what do you mean even sandwiches"...sandwiches are exactly where I want my butter.

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    Jo Jones
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Butter makes everything better, not only savoury sandwiches - even Nutella , honey or jam work beautifully with butter , pinky promise

    Petro Roos
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait, We use butter on all bread types of foods. If there's bread, there's butter. It's weird if you don't use butter

    Jason Boyd
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Common as in NZ and Australia - of course you butter bread for sandwiches!

    Jojo
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's weird about buttering all bread? 🤔 I do it all the time?

    Ian
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's so normal there's even a phrase "bread and butter" that means something that's everyday or ordinary.

    Ana Ferreira
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Putting butter on sabory sandwiches is pretty normal here in Portugal, unless you're already going to be using mayonnaise or something like that.

    MellonCollie
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a Dutch person, I always butter all my bread, unless I'm putting on something that I don't like the taste of when it's combined with butter, such as tapenade. But then we're already talking about very specific things. My eldest does not like the taste of butter or margarine, so she only uses it when she wants to eat chocolate sprinkles on her bread. Otherwise, they will fall off.

    Arwen
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Um, no, at least not in the UK. It’s completely normal. The main reason I buy butter is to put on bread, especially sandwiches.

    Uncanny
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is butter for if not for sandwiches? I’m sorry, it’s time we spoke this out loud…Americans are a little weird, 🤷‍♀️

    Lavender Oak
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Butter is for bread you eat by itself like rolls, biscuits, toast, bagels, etc. It's also for cooking and baking. We use what we call "sauces" with what we call "flavor". It's amazing.

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    Amber Fox
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Glad I'm not the only one who butters their sandwiches (well, margarine in my case). Wtf is this about not putting butter on your bread? Y'all just have, like, two dry pieces of bread and a slice of ham??

    Pixie
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We use mayonnaise and/or mustard. But I am not at all opposed to trying some butter on my next sandwich 😊

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    Key Lime
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My Dad would even put butter on Banana Bread. So, yeah, all Bread must be buttered.

    Chris Hooley
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ummm...what? Butter is like undercoat for bread. You don't paint without undercoat/primer, you don't bread without butter. Period.😑

    Dregvic
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What?! Of course you butter bread? This is totally normal

    Eunice Probert
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, I always put butter on sandwiches. Unless I'm making peanut butter toast.

    Iampenny
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would consider not using butter on sandwiches to be weird. Butter on sandwiches is a MUST (unless it's a chocolate spread sandwich - which I don't eat anyway) Who DOESN'T use butter on their sandwiches?

    Ella Carzana
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    O great now I need a chocolate spread sandwich with butter. It's honestly gold standard

    The Short Lady
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never even heard of butter on sandwiches until I was an adult. Where I come from any kind of meat filling takes mayonnaise or mustard; peanut butter requires nothing else unless you want jelly or maybe a banana. Butter on bread which is not part of a sandwich is fine.

    Qadgop the Mercotan
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm from Wisconsin, America's Dairyland. Of course we butter our sandwich bread here!

    Sarah Searle
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Butter and bread goes together like....well....bread and butter

    Ellen Crawford
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you trying to be amusing? Butter on bread especially in sandwiches is normal.

    Mitchell
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even sandwiches? Of course sandwiches are buttered. The layer of grease stops the moisture soaking into the bread and making it soggy.

    Abby
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like butter on sandwiches. I saw it done on peppa pig once. looked into it, apparently its a common thing in Britain. I tried it. n I've used butter on most of my sandwiches ever since.

    Ace
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can see that sandwiches without butter can be acceptable, but I cannot see any way in which sandwiches with butter are weird. So no.

    Sue User
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And yet another thing that I do as an American, that my British mother taught me, which I never realised that other Americsns dont do: butter their sandwiches.

    Ivy la Sangrienta
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not a lot, honestly. Sometimes I mix it into tuna and then put that in a sandwich, but even that is buttered...

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    MonsterMum
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Butter (or vegan substitute) goes on the bread first and stops the filling making the sandwich soggy. If you forget the butter you are going to have a poor sandwich.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, my mom put butter on most of our sandwiches. We actually would eat just butter and sugar sandwiches (on Wonderbread!) sometimes. The thought now makes me gag.

    AndreaD
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve seen the butter one before. It helps keep sandwiches from getting soggy!

    A C
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup buttering bread for sandwiches IS weird sounds....but also..sounds..kinda...possibly...good???

    Phil Green
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's perfectly normal to butter slices of bread for sandwiches! Even if you are putting mayonnaise in with salad. For all sandwiches. To not butter bread is strange! (I am a chef...)

    CJT MSG
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So y'all are talking about just butter spread on dry bed, correct? Just get all the details to see if I'd like to try it.

    Karin Morris
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually adding butter to sandwichs bread is very European, my parents did it also, they are from Holland

    Len Hill
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not at all. That's perfectly normal. In fact, no butter is weird.

    GlitterQueen541
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom does this. She even butters her peanut butter & jelly sandwiches!

    Michelle Miller
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t think so. Everyone I know puts butter on all breads, including sandwiches. Perhaps it is odd that you don’t??????

    Ivy la Sangrienta
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every type of sandwich in my country has butter, with the exception of Subway. Mayo is rare.

    Pixie
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never put butter in a sandwich (US here). We use mayo and/or mustard on the bread. I'm not opposed to trying it though, butter makes everything taste better LOL! 😋 I do put butter on the bread after toasting it for BLTs, burgers, etc. And of course I use lots of butter for grilled cheese sandwiches!! 🥪

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do! That's how my great grandma would make her sandwiches. I still do it, but now I smoosh them flat too. Yummy!

    Mrs Irish Mom
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Put butter on sandwiches, patatoes, mashed up hard boiled egg, in soup, on crackers, popcorn

    Niamh Gallagher Kerr
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As an Irish person this confuses me, why would you not put butter on bread/sandwiches?? I know I use butter for baking and cooking but my main use is on bread.

    Gretchen Esquilin
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dad makes PB & butter sandwiches. Makes me gag every time I see him do it. Yuck.

    Ken Murray
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always thought that buttering the bread for andwiches prevented the bread from getting soggy from any moisture in the fillings or condiments used - can't imagine eating a sandwich without butter

    Ronna Black
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I put butter on all sandwiches. It’s a cultural thing I think. Everyone on both sides of my family does it.

    Pamela Blue
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand this. Who DOESN'T use butter on their sandwiches?

    Glynn Reid
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No the butter thing isn't weird. It's absolutely standard in the UK. Sweet or savoury, there's butter on the bread. How do you not choke on say, a chicken sandwich if it's dry? Please don't say relish or sauce because THAT'S weird.

    Callie Ge
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Australian, we butter sandwiches, not Nutella but everything else, Mayo is only used on salad sandwiches, if you like Mayo, many ppl don’t.

    Mark Waters
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It keeps the bread from being soggy, used in food service industry all the time.

    Jay Walsh
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the Dairy state here in WI, I found it odd my wife's family put butter on everything. Even hot dog buns. It makes sense, and it's not "nasty", I just found it a little odd for some items.

    Eiryn Elliott
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ummm, that's totally normal. It keeps the bread from getting soggy from whatever you put on next, and tastes really good. A sandwich without butter is dry!

    Donna Clanclan
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mayo and french fry sandwiches. Best wtf-did-you-grow-up-eating food an ex ever shared with me.

    John Carr
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And it's better if you use butter straight out of the fridge. That way you slice off chunks of butter rather than spread it. Irish butter ftw!

    Mandy Delaforce (PC Girl)
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Um.. Why would you NOT put butter on your bread? I think this one is a bit back to front.

    Evelyn Haskins
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BUTTER is NEVER weird!! Butter melts in the mouth, It is one of the true joys of life! A good yellow salted butter, wrapped in a light proof wrapper to prevent the taste and food value going off from sitting in lighted fridges,

    Lynn Morello
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any Bread, Toast, Sandwiches, I put butter or margarine on the bread before any other topping/filling.

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most countries butter their sandwiches. I'm going to assume you live in the US where we prefer mayo.

    cryssH
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope, it's not. We didn't use mayo on sandwiches. Salami and cheese with butter, ham and cheese with butter - good stuff. Mayo was for tuna fish and I don't ever remember bologna when I grew up.

    Jay Dresser
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my mother ate peanut butter on saltines she would put butter on it first, then the peanut butter.

    Niall Mac Iomera
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a friend do this will making a sandwiches for me. With tuna and mayonnaise. Barf.

    Heather Rawk
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had the same reaction when I ordered a sandwich in Oslo. The guy started buttering the bread and I was so confused but went along with it. They also put so little meat on them compared to the US.

    Dawn Bodtke
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Warm buttered English muffins with PBJ was and still is a favorite breakfast of mine.

    Peter J. Margesson
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know what is odd about this. I always use butter on my bread, if I want mayo I will put it on as well. I love butter.

    Danit Peleg
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes for butter on all bread. It tastes better. I think you are the weird one.

    Llama_flower93
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone in Sweden butters their sandwiches. It's like as important as the bread itself. I'm Canadian and find it horrible.

    Alice Boston
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I seem to remember that buttering sandwich bread was to keep things like sliced tomatoes from soaking through the bread and making the bread drippy

    Alice Boston
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I’m not mistaken buttering sandwich bread was to keep things like sliced tomatoes from leaking through and getting the bread soggy.

    Kerry Schultz
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my grandma used to do that. any sandwich, any bread. bam! butter

    Anne
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I also put butter on all sandwiches.. why is that weird

    Miss Kat O
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand all the people who think buttering sandwich is weird?? In the UK we butter all our sandwiches... unless it's bacon or sausage because they're cooked in enough fat already... and for those who say you use mayo instead... that's normal too... but it's as well as butter, not instead of... what else do you buy butter for?!

    HBrown
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Butter is perfectly normal on sandwiches. It's the norm. Putting mayonnaise on sandwiches is weird lol

    Carmen Honacker
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That‘s how we do it in Germany. You put butter under meat and cheese sandwiches. Also, fresh bread and just butter is the best thing in the world!

    Patricia Murray
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I grew up with that. I didn't realize it. I asked my mom when I was older why my pb&j didn't taste as good as hers. Butter! I was kinda horrified. I don't use it on that sandwich type to this day, but I think about it! However, I prefer butter over Mayo any day on all other sandwiches.

    DrBronxx
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, butter is not weird. Butter goes on sandwiches. I've grown up the weird one in this respect, because I hate butter.

    Ivona Hecht
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I butter the bread, then put the toppings on. I don't use mustard or ketchup, so butter's the only condiment on the sandwich.

    Beverly Chandler
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you butter the bread before spreading mayo, etc. then the bread doesn't get soggy.

    Michelle Thiel
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If your sandwich is 2 slices of bread and 2 slices of meat, you don't have to put the mayonnaise directly on the bread. If you're worried about the bread getting soggy, put the mayonnaise between the 2 slices of meat, so it never touches the bread. No butter needed. But honestly I think most Americans put the mayo directly on the bread, just from habit, and soggy bread is rarely a problem. Maybe we have greasier mayo or thicker slices of bread than Europe?

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    Jespren Ray
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have known people who buttered all bread too-I think this is regional/cultural.

    O.M.Miki
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    butter side up or butter side down thats the real question we should be asking !

    laura lee
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Came from a butter household. There are a lot of butter discrimination out there. My mom and grandma taught us butter on everything lol saltines, butter on oatmeal, butter on bread ofc you silly the butter barrier protects your bread in a sandwich, butter on toasted pop tarts (the unfrosted side and only a heathen would eat an untoasted poptart) always had a butter dish out, was the secret ingredient to nearly all cooking, add a bit of butter. It was also normal for us to go to the doctor regularly.

    Joy Myers
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dad did margarine on one slice and peanut butter on the other😝

    Shelby Moonheart
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know someone who would butter the bread before putting on peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. I thought it was a weird flavor.

    marianne eliza
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Using butter in place of other condiments is a matter of culture. The point was to put something fatty/oily of the bread first so the juices of whatever came next, meat or veg, wouldn't soak into the bread and make mush. But... no mustard????

    Bex
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't putting butter in sandwiches normal? Have always buttered the bread for a sandwich or on the bread for the table. Only exception would be chocolate spread or something else sweet like golden syrup on toast

    PurpleUnicorn
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd use either butter or mayo but not both - but all bread needs one or the other

    Cheryl Ramsay
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My Mom ALWAYS buttered bread when making a sandwich. I still do it and I'm 75.

    Marie-Pierre Adam
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok downvote me to oblivion but it’s mayonnaise (none of that miracle whip c**p), mustard (yellow or dijon) in sandwiches! I agree, butter adds nothing to a sandwich if you have cured meats and toppings in there. You need something with more punch than butter.

    Sue
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think some people use it like mayo. I hated mayo when I was little & my mom would put butter on it because she said it was too dry.

    Annette Easton
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand this one. Everyone here that I know uses butter on the bread when making sandwiches. The only time I don't is when making peanut butter sandwiches. Last weekend I just quickly whipped up some sandwiches - and I mean literally just grabbed some lunch meat and slapped it between some bread without doing anything else - and although my spouse at it he did comment on it being too dry and asked me to use butter for the next one.

    zak
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Butter is for toast, not sandwiches. Unless it's a grilled cheese, but then the butter is on the outside (and don't get me started on people who use mayo instead, you psychopaths. It does NOT taste the same)

    Justin Trouble
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandpa taught me to make sandwiches in the mid 80's, that's how he made them and how I still make them. He laughed the first time I made pb&j but used butter too, didn't make that mistake again.

    Autistic apricot
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never use butter, my parent surprise me when I see they have butter on something I would never consider putting it on

    Manuel Delgado
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Other than a zillion calories, I have no problem with buttering -almost- every bread. Not for pa amb tomaquet, for example.

    Kathy T
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm wondering if they are referring to subway type food as "sandwiches", and I've heard people refer to a burger as a sandwich

    Charlie the Cat
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not just a southern thing. It's the rest of the world thing. It's weird not to put butter in sandwiches.

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    SirWriteALot
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends ... under salami: not too healthy. Under cheese: great. Sandwiches are just hard to put butter on, especially *real* butter and not margerine.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I loathe these kind of discussions. Everybody is entitled their own taste and you should always be allowed to say you don't like something. But arguments about the "correct" recipe for a meal are just tiresome.

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    Eunice Probert
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I must be wrong as well then as I keep my vitamins, supplements and medication in the kitchen.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    looking back now makes you realise in my primary school if you forgot your PE kit they made you do it in your pants

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife thinks “heel” is a weird term (common in N.Ireland) for what she calls “the crust” or “end bit”

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    Trish Batson
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom used to do that, but only when she was disappointed. That was the one thing she could do that actually affected me.

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