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50 People Who Weren’t Afraid To Call Out The Jerks They Saw In Public (New Pics)
We learn to be considerate at an early age. When someone is sleeping on the couch, we go by them on our tiptoes. When someone is crying, we comfort them. When we see a piece of trash on the sidewalk, we pick it up.
Yet not everybody does that, and this list is about the people who don't. They are what we would call selfish and inconsiderate. Or, to put it more plainly – being jerks. These pics are brought to you by the folks who weren't afraid to call them and their jerk behavior out, but they all beg the question: why would you do this?!?
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#1
Cyclists Riding On Road, Next To Bike Lane. I Hate These Cyclists That Take Up Space On The Road When They Have A Solid Bike Lane Next To Them
Lost Panda 3 weeks ago
Happens quite a lot here, and it annoys me. Like I could understand if the bike lane was on the opposite side of the road as you, but it is right there... and where I live, there's a barrier to keep you semi-safe in case of a vehicular accident... USE THE LANE
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#2
Went Hiking And Came Across The Aftermath Of A Gender Reveal
#3
If This Is How You Treat A Fitting Room You’re A Jerk
"Treat others as you would want them to treat you" is the timeless golden rule. And it's not just a famous saying – most people actually do expect others to behave like they do themselves. A 2023 study found that selfish people punish generosity and reward selfish behavior. And, in turn, generous people tend to reward generous behavior.
"If everyone around me is selfish, then I'm going to learn to accept selfishness and behave accordingly," one of the study's authors, Paul Bogdan, Ph.D., commented on his and colleagues' findings. "We show that your judgments of other people's behavior really depend on how you behave yourself."
#4
People Have No Respect For Nature
This is at the US botanical gardens in DC. Very annoying.
Racing Tadpole 3 weeks ago
I yelled at some girls doing this at a botanical park..hopefully I embrasures the shiit out of them
#5
A Bunch Of San Francisco Students Wrote 2023 Reflections On Plates And Smashed Them In A Public Dog Park
#6
Leaving This Stuff Around Store For Employees To Clean Up
The researchers also found that people didn't give in to social pressure when it came to punishing either generosity or selfishness. Participants were guided by their own behavior rather than the pressure to conform. As the co-author of the paper Professor Florin Dolcos explained, we filter information about the world through our own filter.
The study also proves that we are drawn towards people who are more like us. As the participants offered to split a pot of money with each other, those who would give generous offers tended to accept offers from like-minded folks. And those who put their well-being first preferred to share the money with more selfish individuals.
#7
Gee Whiz, I Sure Hate Being Able To See Anything At All While Driving At Night So Thanks For Illuminating My Visibility To Zero!
Disclaimer: photos taken safely at a red light!
While no picture can capture the essence of this somehow not illegal car lights, I feel like the literal twinkle streaks is a good indicator.
This person was behind me (and several others) most of my commute. Lights like this clearly aren’t for the driver’s visibility benefit since many are affixed to trucks requiring a miniature ladder to hop in, so what is the point other than Main Character douchebaggery?
#8
This Lady, Who Insisted On Being The Only Person Standing At The Concert
TheForrestGreene (he/they/it) 3 weeks ago
make sure it still has ice. a half full pepsi should have the best results in ruining her clothes, as it will smell like soda afterwards, and it might also get a bit sticky.. and why am i doing this i should be reading fahrenheit 451 right now, not plotting the most effective drink to pour down someones jacket -_-
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Joe Reaves 3 weeks ago
This is where you quietly contact an usher, who will tell her to sit her a*s down or leave.
brandyy17 3 weeks ago
we i was younger my parents took me and my best friend to a britney spears concert. if i remember correctly it was her "oops i did it again" tour. we had pretty good seats and could see the stage clearly. now my friend was short for our age and the guy infront of her seat decided to stand up with his daughter on his shoulders completely blocking my friends view. my dad decided to say something but the guy wouldnt listen. my dad ended up getting security and the guy was forced to remain seated during the rest of the concert. the security guy stood at the edge of our row keeping an eye on him. after the concert the guy tried picking a fight with my dad but security noticed and escorted him and his family out of the stadium. bc of her dads actions he didnt get to buy her a shirt. me and my mom did tho. we saw the little girl and her mom yelling at him in the parking lot. me my parents and my friend all walked up to the little girl and gave her a shirt. i remember her eyes lighting up and my dad asking her if she enjoyed the concert and gave her a little head pat and said u deserve a tshirt too. as we were walking away the little girl was all smiles and giggles while her mother just yelled at the father saying how thats the way a father should act pointing back at us. fast forward to high school during one of my track meets a girl from one of the other schools comes up to asking me if i happened to go to a britney spears concert wen i was younger. i said yes and she told me she only asked bc my face looked familiar. turns out she was the little girl we gave the shirt to. she was a freshman and i was a junior. after the track meet she took me back to where her parents were and funny enough my parents were right infront of them. we noticed this and just started laughing. we go to our parents and the look on her dads face wen he saw my dad was priceless. her mom however picked up on wat was going on and was kind and gave my parents a friendly hello and started chatting about the concert. her dad stayed completely silent and frozen lol. i learned that her dad has felt bad about that for all those years and was trying to make up for it since. me and her r still friends to this day. she always mentions how happy she was that day bc of our kindness. i remember her telling me about how even she scolded her dad on the way home bc he made my friend upset and stopped her from having fun. never block someones view at a concert its just rude and u never kno who is sitting behind u. could b a total jerk or could b someone like my dad. unless others r standing dont b that jerk.
Lupita Nyong'heaux 3 weeks ago
i enjoyed reading that, brandy! thank you for sharing!
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Grace Note 2 weeks ago
I hope the photographer then told her to sit down as politely or rudely as they saw fit. I'd have started politely to give myself room to escalate a little if necessary. The entitlement of her is astounding!
StrangeOne 3 weeks ago
I had to do this at the last concert I went to. I kept having to get up and down, up and down, up and down every 20 seconds for the people down my row. I know I've mentioned it so many times on here. But it's was 8 people. EIGHT. I don't understand. They kept buying the insanely expensive beer, chugging it down, gone to get to more, come back , chug it down, go to the washroom, come back, get up for more beer. It was only an hour long concert. I stayed standing, praying the people behind me didn't retaliate. Thankfully they didn't do or say anything. Even when I was standing, these people still thought I wasn't out of the way enough and began shoving past me. They got so hosed. A part of me wishes I just sat somewhere else, but I thought the staff wouldn't let me and I wasn't sure if they were able to hear me or not. I know I couldn't hear myself talk but I heard other people.
Karl der Große 3 weeks ago
I went to a Crosby, Stills and Nash concert in Reno. There were a couple of people who wanted to stand, but other concertgoers confronted them and told them to sit down. I guess you shouldn't be rude, but we've moved a long way from Woodstock if everybody has to sit politely while the band plays!
JoMeBee 3 weeks ago
Something similar happened at a 60s era band concert in the early 2000s. I think their former hippy selves would have been horrified by their boomer selves....
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Anotherustyspoon 2 weeks ago
I'd honestly just cope and move to another seat, don't try to reason with dumbasse's.
Still Going 2 weeks ago
I would only give someone doing this a pass if they have a disability which makes it difficult/painful to sit. But even then you should still purchase a seat at the end of the row!
Mary Peace 2 weeks ago
Don't they have ushers/stewards etc? I'd expect her to get told, sit down, or else you leave.
Sarah Léon 2 weeks ago
I saw that once in an outdoor traditionnal festival in my town. We were all sitting because that's how it works every year, except for one woman who insisted on standing. It's outdoor so we asked her to just go 2 meters on the side like all the other ones standing around to let us see the show. She refused. We asked her 3 times very nicely (we are nice people), she stayed standing. We asked less nicely, still standing. That's when she started to receive some little peebles one by one from all around. There, she decided to take 2 steps on the left and go to the standing area. We all applauded... she didn't like that, we did !
censorshipsucks 3 weeks ago
fortunately I live in Africa where we still have manners. I'm old and I've never seen this level of disrespect. Worst I've encountered is teenagers talking in a movie. Turning around and saying "I am trying to watch, if you want to talk go home and watch it there," worked.
Gozer LeGozerian 3 weeks ago
She's clearly not when there are people seated behind her
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#9
Well, There Goes A Parking Spot
If this list is making you lose all faith in humanity and its generosity, don't be alarmed. Some research suggests that altruism is intrinsic in our brains. In 2016, researchers from UCLA found that people might become less giving if an area of their prefrontal cortex is affected.
#10
If You Are The Type Of Person To Blast Your Own Dj Set At The Beach, No One Likes You
Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa) 3 weeks ago
OK there's a difference between hanging out with a boombox and some Spotify and holding your own personal rave.
#11
Come Out Of The Grocery Store To This Car On The Right
#12
These Folks Walk Four Across Every Morning And Don’t Check Behind For Cars
I never want to be the jerk who honks but they don’t hear/notice me until I’m right up to them. Just trying to go to work.
We also might assume that selfishness leads to earning more money and living a more comfortable life. It's logical: you dedicate more time to your career, have no children, and focus on your work, and voila – you're on top of the food chain. However, science says otherwise.
#13
Some Idiot Ruined A Bruce Lee Painting In My City
quentariel 3 weeks ago
And here we see the clear difference between two art styles that technically fall under the word graffiti/street art. One that is artistic, skillful and clearly took some time to make, and the other who is just quick messy tag in the putpose of vandalising. I don't mind the first one at all.
#14
My Sister Saying " Who Cares? Can You Still Drive The Truck!?" To Her Bag Scratching Up The Glove Box Of My Car
No, it doesn't hinder the car's performance. How about I scratch something of yours with my framing hammer and see if you're annoyed?
SheamusFanFrom1987 3 weeks ago
No more rides for "sister dearest" -_- Also, the framing hammer thing sounds pretty good too.
#15
My Neighbor, Everyone. He Parks Like This When His Wife Isn't Home And Moves It Back When She's Back So They Can Both Park On One Of The Few Spots With Shade. This Has Been Happening For Months Already And The Administration Doesn't Do Anything About It
A 2020 study by a team of researchers from Stockholm University found that selfish people have fewer children and earn less money. While the public opinion remains that successful people are selfish (68% of the respondents said so), the data actually disproved this. People with selfless attitudes had more children and higher incomes. As they stated in the title of their paper, "Generosity pays."
#16
I Let My Colleague Borrow My Laptop Charger For A Meeting. This Is How He Returned It
When I mentioned it to him, he told me it was “clearly an accident” and said I can “easily buy another one.”
#17
Standing On Petroglyphs. 10 Ft Away From A Sign Explaining How Fragile These Particular Ones Are
YakFactory 3 weeks ago
"But I'm special, and I won't damage them." So says everyone, and then the petroglyphs are gone forever.
#18
My Future Sister-In-Law Infuriates Me So Much
Carl Roberts 3 weeks ago
What a vile creature. Red flag alert. Let's hope your sibling wakes up before it's too late.
So, if altruism and generosity are natural to us and benefit us more economically, why do we act like jerks? Psychologist Lisa Marie Bobby says that such behavior is a sign of low emotional intelligence. "One symptom of low emotional intelligence is the tendency to be self-absorbed, or exclusively concerned about what you're thinking, feeling, needing and wanting, instead of the thoughts, feelings, needs and desires of others."
#19
This Is My Son's Insanely Expensive Gene Therapy Medication For His Rare And Permanently Life Altering Genetic Disorder. And They Also Knocked My Plant Out Of Its Pot. Just For An Extra "F You"
#20
My Neighbour Think This Parking Spot Belongs (It Really Doesn't) To Him And Does This To Everyone Who Parks There.. This Time He Did It To Me, Because I Had Nowhere To Park Yesterday, So I Woke Up To This And I Don't Think He's Gonna Leave Any Soon. Should I Take Action?
#21
A Girl In Front Of Me Kept Pouring Out Her Ice Cream That Was In Her Cone Until She Made A Swirl She Liked. There Was No More Chocolate Ice Cream Left
Bobby explains that such behavior is often the product of upbringing. Those whose emotional needs weren't met in their formative years might grow up to be selfish and inconsiderate as adults. Those who are empathetic as adults, in contrast, grow up with their thoughts and feelings reflected back to them. "Thoughtful and compassionate people are not born, they're made," she observes.
#22
Went To A Concert Last Night. This Was My View For 3.5 Hours
#23
Aisle At My Local Thrift Store
#24
The Manager Would Throw Away Cookies Every Saturday Instead Of Giving Them To The Employees
We threw away 55 cookies. The managers didn't let us take any home because they thought it might "encourage us to purposely make extra".
When evaluating our own selfishness, our memory often works against us. As research by the psychologists at Yale University and the economists at the University of Zurich shows, we tend to misremember our selfish deeds. That way, we maintain our self-image. "The desire to preserve a moral self-image can be a powerful force and not only motivate us to rationalize our unethical actions, but also 'revise' such actions in our memory," senior author of the study Molly Crockett said.
#25
Motorcycle Always Parks On Sidewalk
Every morning the sidewalk is blocked by a motorcycle. The SUV on the left has lots of passive aggressive stickers, this family has made motorcycling their identity and can’t be bothered to park their bike on the street or in their driveway.
We then walk baby and stroller into the street to get around.
Yes we take a different route to avoid this now.
No I haven’t knocked on the door to ask the adult to practice basic motorcycle etiquette.
#26
This Is The Second Time A Police Officer Has Been Called To My Apartment. The Down Stairs Neighbors Think My Toddlers Footsteps Are Too Loud
Clown fish 3 weeks ago
You know what would be to loud? Me hoovering at 8am and again at 12pm and so on every couple of hours
#27
Someone Stole My Fig Tree
Other researchers say that we ought to cut selfish folks some slack. Oftentimes, their behavior is the result of past mistreatment and betrayal. "We are quick to judge people and label them, especially when they behave in a way that appears unacceptable to us," Dr. Jerabek, president of PsychTests, says. "Maybe that person who cut you off in traffic, that customer who was rude to you, or that nitpicky colleague has more going on in their life than meets the eye."
#28
Because It's Someone Else's Job To Clean Up. Rather Than Believe That You Should Use The Trash Cans Located Throughout The Facility. Bring It In, Bring It Out
#29
Someone Tried On All These Shoes And Left Them On The Floor
#30
Saw A Guy Putting His Filthy Shoes On Patio Furniture Today
We've got many more examples of people being inconsiderate in this series of ours. You can find the previous iterations of lists where people are being jerks here, here, here, here, and here. And, in the meantime, stay empathetic and considerate – you never know what the other person is going through, even if they're acting like a jerk. The world could always do with more kindness.
#31
Literally Watched My Uber Drive By Without Stopping. The Ride Was Cancelled By The Driver & I Was Sent This
#32
There Are No Assigned Parking Spaces At My Parents Townhome Community, People Park In Front Of My Parents House All The Time. I Woke Up To This
#33
Jerk Steals And Opens All The Packages From Apartment Mail Room Including My Birthday Present My Mom Sent Me
Remi (He/Him) 3 weeks ago
Camera surveillance time. Isn't mail theft something that comes with hefty fines and possibly jail time
#34
I Was Dining By Myself And The Servers Took Everything When I Went To The Bathroom
I still had food coming, and they cleared everything off of the table! I mean, I left my keys on the table for exactly this reason! It sucks to eat out alone.
#35
It's Always When You're Late For Work When This Happens
#36
Coworker Keeps Avoiding To Pay Me Back After She Conveniently Forgot Her Wallet At Dinner
A few weeks ago I decided to grab some dinner with a coworker. I rarely if ever go out to eat as its so expensive these days but I finally decided to treat myself one night. My coworker ordered appetizers for herself, multiple drinks, a larger dinner and even dessert. When it came time to pay we were each going to just pay for our food but she conveniently forgot her wallet and just kinda sat there staring at me. I’m an awkward person and I really didn’t want to even cover her food in the moment because it was more than I could even afford but it was such a weird situation and she promised to pay me back so to just end the evening I covered her bill expecting to get reimbursed. Now that was weeks ago and she keep posting on insta and snapchat about going out to fancy restaurants or weekend trips but she always has an excuse when I ask to be paid back. I BARELY make a livable wage and being in the red because of her has caused me so much anxiety, I feel like such an idiot.
Harry Gondalf 3 weeks ago
Well, it's a lot of hassle, but this is what small claims court is for. You could probably add exemplary & punitive damages to the claim, since it is clear that the do-worker doesn't intend to repay you. The punitive part of the claim is for the purpose of teaching her that this behavior, besides being rude, is also tortious because she has 1) acknowledge the debt, 2) promised to pay -- a contractual obligation, 3) refused to pay, and 4) by the last remark has indicated that she does not intend to repay you. A lot of hassle for you, but the judge just may find in your favor for $500 damages -- or more.
#37
Why Do People Do This? An Entire Huge Waiting Room Is Empty And This Lady Decides To Sit Right By Me Hacking Up A Lung. Like What Is With People? I Moved Away
#38
I Lost My Dad Last Year So My Mom Moved In With Me In My Condo And Has Made It Her Personal Project/Therapy To Beautify My Building’s Flower Beds. Except Some D-Bag Keeps Stealing Them. Some Don’t Even Last 2 Days Before Being Ripped Out. She’s About Ready To Give Up
#39
Group Of Boys Decided To Recline Every Seat In An Auditorium The Last Round Of The Night. We Had To Manually Reset All Of Them
We crossed paths in the hallway beforehand and they had the audacity to say, “bye, have a good night.”
#40
Kids Had A BBQ In The Field Behind My Garden Last Night And Left This
#41
At The Gym During The Busiest Time Of Day
There were no free squat racks and this guy would do 3 reps then walk around and talk to other people for 5 minutes before doing another set.
#42
Bike Got Stolen.. Bought A Lock For The New One.. They Sawed Through The Post
#43
Some Jerk Keeps Eating My Food At Work
This is the third time now, they eat it even out of my own containers. I have no idea what to do anymore the manager won’t do anything about it.
#44
People Who Think Towels Are “Reserve Tickets” At The Beach
Putting towels down on a bunch of beach chairs and then leaving for a few hours.
#45
This Guy Used A Laptop Throughout A Movie Last Night
I was on the other side of the theater but noticed he was on one when I came in.
It was a pretty big theater and I could see a faint light once the movie started but I kind of thought it was just an aisle light.
When I went to leave I noticed he was still on it. Took this as the credits rolled.
Note: he also had earbuds in but took them out right before the picture.
Remi (He/Him) 3 weeks ago
At least he's in the back corner, if you want to try to find a positive
#46
Staying In A Hotel With Weight Sensors That Charge If You Even Move The Drinks, And They Went The Extra Step Of Making The Waters Block Part Of The TV So You Will Be Promoted To Move Them
Clown fish 3 weeks ago (edited)
You know you could phone the front desk and get them to move it all.
#47
My Cousin Told Me He Took Up Guitar And My Grandmother Suggested I Lend Him One Of Mine. Got It Back After A Month And Noticed Something A Bit Off
I honestly had been avoiding her suggestion because I didn’t wanna risk something like this happening but she put me on the spot at a cookout and I said screw it.
He openly was bragging about getting drunk and destroying his Xbox/PC/ and some windows at my aunt's house after I had given him the guitar so I can’t say I’m surprised I got it back like this.
#48
Finished Work And Two Cars Have Blocked Me In. No Other Way Out And You Could've Fit 2-3 Cars To The Left Of Mine No Problem. Knocked On The Airbnb Door And No Answer. Wtf Do I Do Now?
#49
Came Across This Today And Was Absolutely Dumbfounded
Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa) 3 weeks ago
I'm a biker and I absolutely hate people who do this. I'll let the air out of their tires for doing this.
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Jenna Kay 3 weeks ago
I have decided that I am old enough to tell people to behave, call tow trucks, move towels, talk loudly when people are on speakerphone in public (my personal pet peeve), and yes, I will tell someone to pick up their trash in my sweet grandma voice, as if I am just reminding them!
D Gibson 1 week ago
Then look forward to receiving blowback. You confront "aholes" at your own peril.
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FePredaking 2 weeks ago
I can't believe that BP made it so that you have to pay the premium subscription to view the rest of this article. As if making dark mode a part of the subscription wasn't bad enough.
Alison Marchand 2 weeks ago
These articles should be titled "49 Times..." since #50+ is blocked without a subscription 😡
Neal fy 3 weeks ago
This is not "not being afraid to call out jerks they saw in public". What like normally they'd be afraid of even taking a pic and posting online of the mess the jerk left behind even without the jerk present in it? Was this supposed to be scary or risky in the first place? I thought this was like confrontation or sth. Stupid title.
Bernd Herbert 3 weeks ago
These ones make my blood boil! I hate ignorant and lazy people, who ruin it for others with their entitlement
Jessica SpeLangm 1 week ago
You know what, BP, I'm not paying Premium for recycled content from other sites I can view for free. I guess I'm satisfied with 49 stupid posts.
Pandarosa 3 weeks ago
There wasn't a lot of calling out here! But it made me remember a time when I lived in Sydney and saw a young man accidentally bump into an older guy and apologise. Older guy rips him a new one in a very American accent and tells him to go back where he came from, presumably based on his appearance. Young guy loudly told him to f**k off in the broadest Aussie accent ever lol. I got on the same bus as older guy and publicly pointed out what a hypocrite he was, and yep, before anyone trolls me, everybody clapped 🙄
Marykay Klim 2 weeks ago
So annoying. I think all these jerks need to spend some time in retail and see how much fun it is to clean up after others!
censorshipsucks 3 weeks ago
The most common P.O.S behaviour in my country (SA) is bad parking. Seems like once a person has a car they think they're somehow special. People who park across two bays almost always get punished by me.
Kim Shannon 3 weeks ago
It amazes me to see women walk away from their shopping carts and leave their purses behind, wide open.
Jenna Kay 3 weeks ago
I have decided that I am old enough to tell people to behave, call tow trucks, move towels, talk loudly when people are on speakerphone in public (my personal pet peeve), and yes, I will tell someone to pick up their trash in my sweet grandma voice, as if I am just reminding them!
D Gibson 1 week ago
Then look forward to receiving blowback. You confront "aholes" at your own peril.
Load More Replies... FePredaking 2 weeks ago
I can't believe that BP made it so that you have to pay the premium subscription to view the rest of this article. As if making dark mode a part of the subscription wasn't bad enough.
Alison Marchand 2 weeks ago
These articles should be titled "49 Times..." since #50+ is blocked without a subscription 😡
Neal fy 3 weeks ago
This is not "not being afraid to call out jerks they saw in public". What like normally they'd be afraid of even taking a pic and posting online of the mess the jerk left behind even without the jerk present in it? Was this supposed to be scary or risky in the first place? I thought this was like confrontation or sth. Stupid title.
Bernd Herbert 3 weeks ago
These ones make my blood boil! I hate ignorant and lazy people, who ruin it for others with their entitlement
Jessica SpeLangm 1 week ago
You know what, BP, I'm not paying Premium for recycled content from other sites I can view for free. I guess I'm satisfied with 49 stupid posts.
Pandarosa 3 weeks ago
There wasn't a lot of calling out here! But it made me remember a time when I lived in Sydney and saw a young man accidentally bump into an older guy and apologise. Older guy rips him a new one in a very American accent and tells him to go back where he came from, presumably based on his appearance. Young guy loudly told him to f**k off in the broadest Aussie accent ever lol. I got on the same bus as older guy and publicly pointed out what a hypocrite he was, and yep, before anyone trolls me, everybody clapped 🙄
Marykay Klim 2 weeks ago
So annoying. I think all these jerks need to spend some time in retail and see how much fun it is to clean up after others!
censorshipsucks 3 weeks ago
The most common P.O.S behaviour in my country (SA) is bad parking. Seems like once a person has a car they think they're somehow special. People who park across two bays almost always get punished by me.
Kim Shannon 3 weeks ago
It amazes me to see women walk away from their shopping carts and leave their purses behind, wide open.
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