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“The Audacity”: Passenger Sitting In Seat This Man Has Paid For Tries Suggesting He Sit Elsewhere, He Shuts Her Down
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“The Audacity”: Passenger Sitting In Seat This Man Has Paid For Tries Suggesting He Sit Elsewhere, He Shuts Her Down

Woman Gets Shut Down After Suggesting This Man Should Sit Somewhere Else Even Though She Occupied His SeatWoman Sitting In Seat Man Has Paid For Tries Suggesting He Sit Elsewhere, He Shuts Her DownMan Doesn't Play Games And Confronts The Person Who Occupied The Train Seat He Paid For
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It seems like people not wanting to sit in their seats on public transport and then fighting over it is something innate to us humans. 

Likely, even in ancient Rome, people would argue about seating: “Ah, Scylla Scipio, but that is my seat on the chariot,” “Ah, alas, Marinus Asiagenus, I got here first,” and so on.

In today’s story, a TikToker by the name of mr_boris_becker just wanted the seat he paid for, while some lady tried to shoo him off, with other commuters even supporting her.

More info: TikTok

Taking the train can be tiring enough without other passengers bugging you

Image credits: mr_boris_becker

Boris’s train trip was rudely interrupted before even beginning, as another lady had occupied the seat he paid for

Image credits: @mr_boris_becker

Image credits: @mr_boris_becker

Another lady jumped in, attempting to defend the passenger, but Boris wasn’t having it: “Yeah, but you know, calm down,” and she finally vacated his seat

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Image credits: @mr_boris_becker

Watch the original video here:

@mr_boris_beckerSorry i pay for my place 🤧♬ son original – mr_boris_becker

The lady seemed very passive-aggressive throughout, awkwardly laughing about the situation

Boris arrived to his seat, #103, but the lady already sitting there tried pointing out other available seats. He didn’t back down and got her out of his seat, with her smiling awkwardly and being slightly passive-aggressive. 

Another woman jumped in to defend the passenger, saying “but you know, you are not alone,” as part of the defense, but we’re still unsure as to what that means exactly. 

You’ve probably heard lots of stories about seat disputes, no matter the mode of transport – planes, trains, or automobiles – none are safe. On planes, people want the coveted window seat for the scenic views outside or the aisle seat for some more legroom.

Trains – people want to sit with their friends, even if they haven’t purchased a ticket together. Other times they just plop down wherever, without checking what their seat actually is. On buses, people are usually just fighting for a seat, any seat, doesn’t matter. A lot of the time, there are priority seats for disabled, elderly, pregnant persons and children. An interesting fact is that priority seats are also meant for Buddhist monks in Thailand. Also of note is that in Australia, if people put their feet on seats without a valid reason, they may be fined from $100 to $1100.

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Despite all those guides out there, the best thing you can do is politely ask the person to move – if they don’t, be insistent, but never aggressive. If that doesn’t work, simply get an attendant, show your ticket to them and they’ll likely be happy to assist you.

You may get some evil glares or backtalk, but just put your earphones in and pay no heed to them – after all, you’re in the right.

Even though they may be right, people are still likely to be overly polite and not give up their seat. This is especially true of the British, who have a notorious reputation of being courteous of others.

In one case, in the British Problems community on Reddit, a person said “Someone is sitting in my reserved train seat. It’s not like I can say anything.” Lots of people shared stories about their seats being taken, but them being too polite to say anything. 

Others joke “I believe it is acceptable to sit on them,” clarifying they’d never do anything of the sort and would rather sit in some cramped compartment.

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Boris’s video received more than 9 million views, with almost 450k likes and 8.5k comments supporting him. People showed support for him while making fun of the lady occupying the seat and her defender. Most simply could not believe the audacity of the woman, suggesting that he should sit somewhere else and occupying his seat.

Comments supported Boris and especially roasted the woman that jumped in to defend the passenger

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I started as a writer, but time came when I wanted more, so I learned how to do the visuals for my articles too, with the help of my wonderful colleagues. When I had the chance to become an editor, I jumped at the opportunity, because I know that it will be the best way for me to learn more and help out my wonderful colleagues in return.

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Monika Pašukonytė

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I am a visual editor here. In my free time I enjoy the vibrant worlds of art galleries, exhibitions, and soulful concerts. Yet, amidst life's hustle and bustle, I find solace in nature's embrace, cherishing tranquil moments with beloved friends. Deep within, I hold a dream close - to embark on a global journey in an RV, accompanied by my faithful canine companion. Together, we'll wander through diverse cultures, weaving precious memories under the starry night sky, fulfilling the wanderlust that stirs my soul.

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Roan The Demon Kitty
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I swear there's an airplane/train/bus drama on BP at least once every week. Totally agree that those ladies needed to get their asses out of those seats though. If I paid for that seat, I'm sitting in it.

joy mcnally
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's disappointing that there was the implication that he was being petty for wanting the seat he paid for!!!

LayDiva in the Zone
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All I know is that when I come to the seat I paid for, get your behind up and go where you're supposed to be. I'm that woman who will get the Flight attendant to remove you from the flight if you want to act stupid.

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Roan The Demon Kitty
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I swear there's an airplane/train/bus drama on BP at least once every week. Totally agree that those ladies needed to get their asses out of those seats though. If I paid for that seat, I'm sitting in it.

joy mcnally
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's disappointing that there was the implication that he was being petty for wanting the seat he paid for!!!

LayDiva in the Zone
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All I know is that when I come to the seat I paid for, get your behind up and go where you're supposed to be. I'm that woman who will get the Flight attendant to remove you from the flight if you want to act stupid.

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