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It’s the thing that you do right before an important meeting or after a first date. It’s also what you do in the shower. And it’s what’s stopping you from getting a good night’s sleep. That’s right, it’s overthinking! (Actually, should we write it as Overthinking? Or OVERTHINKING? Because it’s a really big problem, affecting not only yours truly, but millions of people across the globe. Oh, God, it’s going to be our downfall, isn’t it?! [Overthinks about overthinking.])

People on the internet are sharing witty but truthful posts related to overthinking and we’ve collected some of the very best. So scroll down to give your grey matter a bit of exercise and upvote the pics that you can relate to. We’d also love to hear all about your experiences with overthinking and how you keep it under control, so drop us a line or two in the comments below. Bored Panda reached out to Suzanne Degges-White, professor and chair in the Department of Counseling and Higher Education at Northern Illinois University, to talk about overthinking. Scroll down for our full interview with the professor.

If you love thinking about overthinking, then when you’re done enjoying this awesome list, check out Bored Panda’s earlier articles about overthinking right here and here.

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    According to professor Degges-White, "Most humans do tend to ruminate on the negative things in life. In fact, one research study indicated that we’d need to hear '5 good things' about ourselves to undo the emotional hold from a single 'negative thing' that happened.

    "It’s called the negative bias effect," she added.

    "Part of this comes from anxiety related to avoiding making the same mistake in the future, but the more we concentrate on the past error, the more ‘familiar' the error becomes and the more likely we might be to repeat it. Our brain goes where we train it to go."

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought everyone would get weird gut feelings when thinking of major mishaps from when you were six years old...

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    Jacqueline Arana
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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every time especially after working retail and finding out they are always watching you as a thief 😬

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to do that too, but it was always the worse when you've already prepared for your section and the teacher says "we can skip that paragraph/page" then calls on you LOL

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    Bored Panda wanted to know if overthinking things can lead to passiveness and inactivity, as well as if there's anything that we can do to stop it. Degges-White explained that "if you are too wrapped up in overthinking a situation you may absolutely miss an opportunity."

    "When we devote all of our mental energy to going through every possible outcome of a decision, there’s a chance that we’re going to talk ourselves out of doing anything, due to the almost magnetic attraction fearful outcomes have with our brains."

    "Some people are absolutely unable to make a decision, though, because they know—at some level, if not consciously—that by making a decision they have eliminated all other possible pathways. However, they might fail to realize that by _not_ making a decision, they have actually made a decision—and shut down all potential possible outcomes," the professor continued.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always fail those because of the leaking over the edges of the squares.

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    "To reduce overthinking, we need to train ourselves to trust our first impressions and instincts—and commit to a decision," professor Degges-White told us. "We need to recognize that the longer we ponder, the more confused we are likely to get. Thus, we should practice making the decision that feels right and learning from the new behavior. Creating new patterns in who we approach life isn’t always easy, but we can train ourselves to do things differently with practice."

    Finally, Bored Panda wanted to find out if the younger generations tend to overthink more than people in the past. The professor said that "we have a lot more time to think than other generations—when people were super involved in the physical acts required in 'making a living'—when this meant rising early, physical labor all day, and no time for luxuries such as 'creative thought,' 'rumination,' or video game playing or mindless television watching. Life didn’t give space for a lot of overthinking—life was uncertain and you had to act quickly and instinctively, in many cases."

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    "Overthinking is probably part product of increased leisure time, advances in cognitive complexity, and the ridiculous array of choices that life now presents us. When you had to worry about protecting crops, livestock, feeding a family, and making do with what you had, you don’t have the time worry about the trivial things that modern man has the luxury of over."

    Now that we’re all overthinking if we tend to overthink in our daily lives, it’s time to get our hands dirty and figure out what causes it, why it’s not the most helpful of things to do, and what we can do about it.

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    Licensed psychologist Dr. Jeffrey Huttman told My Domaine that overthinking means “constantly analyzing and anguishing over one’s thoughts” can trap us in a loop of “mentally rehearsing” our past or present decisions and actions. Huttman explained that overthinking can be caused by self-doubt, self-esteem issues, concern, traumatic experiences, or anxiety. Overthinking wastes our time, is unhealthy, and leads to analysis paralysis.

    According to the psychologist, there are a few things that we can all do in our day-to-day lives to reduce anxiety and turn overthinking into regular plain old thinking. Huttman suggests practicing mindfulness by meditating. Those of you who are skeptical of mediation should know that it increases attention and reduces depressive symptoms. So it’s always worth giving a try and seeing for yourselves.

    However, there are plenty of other ways you can reduce anxiety. Regular exercise, yoga, tai-chi, even breathing exercises can have a massive impact on your mental health and wellbeing. And because we’re all different, something that works for you might not be the best fit for someone else. That’s why it’s so important to try a variety of activities and see which ones give the best results. Just try not to overthink which course of action is the most efficient. Just do it.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My cat is not stupid but she never ever over thinks one thing. She has no trouble sleeping and she sleeps most of the day.

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    Jacqueline Arana
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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not your fault, most places rush that part on purpose but that just rude in my opinion.

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    Deku
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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have faint good memories but the ones I remember the most are the ones where I felt like I did something horrible but like no one actually remembers how awkward I am

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    Falcon
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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like this isn't overthinking, more a random thought. I do similar things a lot where I become curious about the most random scenarios. My co-worker gets so confused every time though.. <_<

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    Rick
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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And then your brain stops messing with you and lets you finally drift off to sleep... twenty minutes before your alarm goes off to wake you up for work.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do you ever wonder if dogs feel like this? Like “OMG Rex, you dumb son of a b***h, I can’t believe you barked in that way when you saw Smokey at the park yesterday, it sounded so lame and now he probably thinks you suck and omg I hate my life”?

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One time in class I started coughing and I couldn't stop. Everyone immediately shuts up and stares at me. Including teacher. Worst moment of my life.

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    Pillowhead
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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still haven't found mine. So I concluded that I was never born and all this 'reality' is just for practice to when I am actually born.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did this with my passport recently. Suddenly woke up at 3 am and didn't know where it was. I knew where I thought it was. I absolutely had to get up and find it before I could go back to sleep.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then I have to go to find it then I can go back to sleep.

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    Susan Gardner
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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In a text LMAO. I'm the same though. How about, "yes love" or "yes honey" or "yes I am. what's up," but jusst 'YES' = maybe angry lol

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s just plain common sense. Answer a scam call and your number will be placed on “positive” lists, resulting in more calls from unknown numbers from these scammers.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And then dreading about the moment when i have to call them back

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    Falcon
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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh damn, I've done that. Another thing is when someone asks you a question and you start typing, erase, type, erase and then just write "yeah", then feel like s**t cause the other person was expecting a long response... 😩

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this not just with friends, surprised I am still happily married sometimes

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    Ben Steinberg
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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is that woman roasting a watermelon with a propane flame-thrower?? Forget the meme, I want to know the real story behind THIS picture...

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    Jacqueline Arana
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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I speak Spanish and English, took classes in Spanish most of elementary then in 7th grade after 3 years of only English classes when my named was called for roll call I said presente. 😳

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    Carole Reid
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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We all know someone else who puts his foot in his mouth in the wee, small hours.

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    Sue Sanders
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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, it'll be a pain in whatever part of your torso to the end of your days.

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like considering multiple scenarios so I won't be surprised by the final outcome lol

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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me: doesn't reply right away so I don't seem clingy Someone else: doesn't reply right away either Me: HELP THEY HATE ME

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