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Sister Says “Done” In Cryptic Message After “Voluntarily Missing” Hannah Kobayashi Is Found
The month-long search for Hannah Kobayashi has ended with her family confirming she is safe. This positive update comes more than a week after police declared her voluntarily missing. Kobayashi’s disappearance led to a tragic turn when her father, Ryan Kobayashi, took his own life while searching for her. While the family expressed relief and requested privacy, Kobayashi’s sister Sydni Kobayashi posted a cryptic message on social media, saying she was “done.”
Highlights
- Hannah Kobayashi was found safe after a month-long voluntary disappearance.
- Her father, Ryan Kobayashi, died by suicide while searching for her.
- Controversy arose over resources used in the search for Hannah.
- Family requests privacy after an unimaginable ordeal.
Kobayashi “has been found safe,” her family announced on Wednesday (December 11) over a week after authorities classified her as voluntarily missing following initial fears of abduction.
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The month-long search for Hannah Kobayashi has ended
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Taking to her X page (formerly known as Twitter), the family’s lawyer, Sara Azari, wrote on behalf of S. Kobayashi and mom Brandi Yee: “We are incredibly relieved and grateful that Hannah has been found safe.
“This past month has been an unimaginable ordeal for our family, and we kindly ask for privacy as we take the time to heal and process everything we have been through.
“We want to express our heartfelt thanks to everyone who supported us during this difficult time. Your kindness and concern have meant the world to us.”
Despite the positive outcome, the news stirred backlash. Controversy had already arisen after revelations that Kobayashi had voluntarily disappeared, prompting some to demand refunds from the family’s GoFundMe campaign.
Image credits: Hannah Midori Eve Kobayashi
Her safe return further fueled frustration, with many expressing anger over the resources and attention devoted to her case.
A Facebook user wrote: “I feel like I’m entitled to compensation for the amount of worrying I did about this girl that I don’t even know. May her father rest in peace.”
A person commented: “So sad if she went off on her own she had to have seen [the] footage or all the social media coverage.
“Then to hear her father ended his life and still not come out? Why remain silent? I’m sure law enforcement will charge her with the financial aspect of the search but it won’t bring him back to the family. His part of the story is just so sad.”
Her family confirmed she is safe
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Someone else penned: “I’m so sick of hearing about this girl! Who […] isn’t even MISSING!! Father dies of heartache!
“And all attention is still on this girl! We got other girls missing who are ACTUALLY missing!!!!”
“She’s pretty selfish to not at least let someone know she was ok,” a netizen argued. “Even if she didn’t want to speak to her family.
Image credits: Hawaii News Now
“I’m sure there was at least 1 friend she could have said something to. I don’t blame her for her dad.
“He obviously had mental issues to do that. If my child ever went missing, unless I had proof that they weren’t alive, I would always have hope they [would] come home.
“And I could never do that to my child.”
This positive update comes more than a week after police declared her voluntarily missing
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A commentator stated: “All the resources used to find her when she wasn’t even missing could have been used to actually help a kidnapped person. So sad.”
An additional observer shared: “Such a truly tragic story. I can’t imagine doing that to my own family. Her own father died because he was searching for her. “
A separate individual chimed in: “This was such a bizarre situation!”
Image credits: FOX 11 Los Angeles
Kobayashi got in contact with her relatives, as a member of her family revealed that they had spoken to her.
The 30-year-old from Hawaii subsequently reassured her that she was safe, TMZ reported on Thursday (December 12).
Los Angeles Police Department spokesperson Jennifer Forkish told TMZ: “We are happy to learn that Hannah has been found safe.
Kobayashi’s sister Sydni Kobayashi posted a cryptic message on social media, saying she was “done”
Image credits: Sydni Kobayashi
“Now that we have this new information, this has become a private matter and we will wrap up our investigation.”
While the family’s official statement conveyed relief, sister Sydni Kobayashi later appeared to express frustration through a cryptic post on her Facebook page.
“F*****g done,” she wrote in a story.
Image credits: nbcnews
Kobayashi disappeared on November 8, 2024, after arriving at LAX from Maui, Hawaii, and failing to board her connecting flight to New York.
Her family, who last heard from her on November 11, discovered she spent several days in Los Angeles, California, before purchasing a train ticket to the US-Mexico border, where police confirmed she crossed voluntarily on November 12.
Authorities declared her a voluntary missing person on December 2, dismissing foul play or trafficking concerns.
Kobayashi’s disappearance led to a tragic turn when her father, Ryan Kobayashi, took his own life while searching for her
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During the search, her mother, Yee, voiced fears that Kobayashi may have been targeted in a marriage scam.
Others quickly noticed Kobayashi’s association with the Twin Flames Universe, a controversial online group encouraging followers to pursue obsessive relationships.
The tragedy deepened when her father, Ryan Kobayashi, who traveled to Los Angeles to help search, died by suicide on November 24.
“All she had to do was notify police that she was fine,” a reader commented
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Juanita Sullivan 1 week ago
Wow! People sure can ASSUME things without all the facts. So let me assume this. The fact that she went missing voluntarily and her father committed suicide, speaks volumes to me there is much more to this story.
Cosmos in your eyes 1 week ago
Exactly. "All she had to do was tell someone she was safe!" And I'm like, um, she did? In my opinion she didn't even have to. She's a grown a*s adult who has the freedom to live her life I feel way she chooses. I feel for her. Let women live!
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Iridian 1 week ago (edited)
Couldn't all of this trouble have been averted by her placing a simple call to the police as SOON as she knew that they were looking for her to state that she is a voluntarily missing person and for them to not reveal her whereabouts, because she has gone No Contact with her family for personal reasons? As someone who has gone NC with my emotionally abusive family that still often stalks me, I thought that if I ever did manage to completely move away that I'd alert the police that I was leaving and that I was safe and doing so of my own accord just so that my ridiculous family can't waste public money and time roping the police into stalking me, too.
Negatoris Wrecks 1 week ago
In Hawaii toxic controlling family dynamics are encouraged. Weaponizing 72 hour holds is not uncommon and the police never want to believe you when you say your family is harmful or abusive.
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Phil Vaive 1 week ago
Yeah, you guys, there's another term for "voluntarily missing", and that's called "running away".
Negatoris Wrecks 1 week ago
Honestly? I grew up in Hawaii and controlling upperclass family calling in missing persons reports and trying to get the police to chase you trying to get you on a mental health hold to prevent them from leaving the island is NOT out of the ordinary. Some people there take the "aina" thing to toxic extremes. Looks to me like she simply wanted to go to Mexico without her family knowing, which a grown adult woman has the right to do. She also has the right not to want to talk to them.
katiekat0214 1 week ago
If someone writes EFFING DONE, then runs away ("voluntarily disappears"? Cut the c**p and call it what it is), then something has been going on a while that she HAD to get away from for her mental, emotional, physical wellbeing. I am sure there is a LOT more to this story. The family sounds toxic and dysfunctional. I'm sorry her father committed suicide, but I've never heard of someone killing themselves over a missing person. Sure, people grieve and wonder, but life goes on. I truly wonder what she was running away from; it could not have been good, healthy, kind.
Nils Skirnir 1 week ago
If her father did kill himself. There’ll always be suspicion, but likely no resolution.
Júlia Fortes 1 week ago
no. Since it was a voluntarily missing the police don't investigate anymore. Now its up to her explain the situation, if she wants to
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LinkTheHylian 1 week ago
Why should she remain "vanished" just because you're ignorant of a story that's been repeated in international news for over a month? If you're not interested in this then don't intentionally click on a link to the story and then leave a pointless comment. Go about your day as normal, and try to leave your parents' basement more often.
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María Hermida 1 week ago
The only "crass" thing here is to judge without having a clue. Do you really think a person wakes up one day and decides "oh, I'm going to disappear today, just for fun"? There must be something else. Anyway, she's a adult who can do what she feels like with her life. If she didn't tell anybody I'm sure she had good reasons.
Load More Replies... Juanita Sullivan 1 week ago
Wow! People sure can ASSUME things without all the facts. So let me assume this. The fact that she went missing voluntarily and her father committed suicide, speaks volumes to me there is much more to this story.
Cosmos in your eyes 1 week ago
Exactly. "All she had to do was tell someone she was safe!" And I'm like, um, she did? In my opinion she didn't even have to. She's a grown a*s adult who has the freedom to live her life I feel way she chooses. I feel for her. Let women live!
Load More Replies... Iridian 1 week ago (edited)
Couldn't all of this trouble have been averted by her placing a simple call to the police as SOON as she knew that they were looking for her to state that she is a voluntarily missing person and for them to not reveal her whereabouts, because she has gone No Contact with her family for personal reasons? As someone who has gone NC with my emotionally abusive family that still often stalks me, I thought that if I ever did manage to completely move away that I'd alert the police that I was leaving and that I was safe and doing so of my own accord just so that my ridiculous family can't waste public money and time roping the police into stalking me, too.
Negatoris Wrecks 1 week ago
In Hawaii toxic controlling family dynamics are encouraged. Weaponizing 72 hour holds is not uncommon and the police never want to believe you when you say your family is harmful or abusive.
Load More Replies... Phil Vaive 1 week ago
Yeah, you guys, there's another term for "voluntarily missing", and that's called "running away".
Negatoris Wrecks 1 week ago
Honestly? I grew up in Hawaii and controlling upperclass family calling in missing persons reports and trying to get the police to chase you trying to get you on a mental health hold to prevent them from leaving the island is NOT out of the ordinary. Some people there take the "aina" thing to toxic extremes. Looks to me like she simply wanted to go to Mexico without her family knowing, which a grown adult woman has the right to do. She also has the right not to want to talk to them.
katiekat0214 1 week ago
If someone writes EFFING DONE, then runs away ("voluntarily disappears"? Cut the c**p and call it what it is), then something has been going on a while that she HAD to get away from for her mental, emotional, physical wellbeing. I am sure there is a LOT more to this story. The family sounds toxic and dysfunctional. I'm sorry her father committed suicide, but I've never heard of someone killing themselves over a missing person. Sure, people grieve and wonder, but life goes on. I truly wonder what she was running away from; it could not have been good, healthy, kind.
Nils Skirnir 1 week ago
If her father did kill himself. There’ll always be suspicion, but likely no resolution.
Júlia Fortes 1 week ago
no. Since it was a voluntarily missing the police don't investigate anymore. Now its up to her explain the situation, if she wants to
Load More Replies... LinkTheHylian 1 week ago
Why should she remain "vanished" just because you're ignorant of a story that's been repeated in international news for over a month? If you're not interested in this then don't intentionally click on a link to the story and then leave a pointless comment. Go about your day as normal, and try to leave your parents' basement more often.
Load More Replies... María Hermida 1 week ago
The only "crass" thing here is to judge without having a clue. Do you really think a person wakes up one day and decides "oh, I'm going to disappear today, just for fun"? There must be something else. Anyway, she's a adult who can do what she feels like with her life. If she didn't tell anybody I'm sure she had good reasons.
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