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As our society evolves, we realize that some things we considered normal didn’t necessarily mean they were right. At some point, women didn’t have any rights and people were kept as slaves, but eventually some people pointed out that we should change it and now these things are completely unacceptable even if they happen.

By that logic, there are things now we consider normal that we eventually won’t. Reddit users shared some of the things that society still doesn’t question but they find creepy and it might be that they are the only ones to think that, or it could be they are onto something.

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#1

“What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) When people document (video record or take a photo or write an article) themselves or other people when helping the impoverished, especially those videos of influencers on Youtube vlogging and ‘helping’ the homeless, showing their faces and stuff. BS and creepy for me. If you help, just help, no need to let others know.

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Natalie H
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They’re not helping to be helping. They’re doing this for their image.

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    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) Beauty Pageants for young kids.

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    #3

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) Dress coding kindergarteners

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    #4

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) Telling young girls to cover up when male family members are visiting. That has never say right with me

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    #5

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) Tickling that doesn't stop at the victims request.

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    alias D.
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More than torture for people (myself including) with heart conditions this bs can ACTUALLY hurt us

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    Mokayokok
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Tickling can overwhelm the nervous system, causing actual, if temporary, paralysis, Alan Fridlund, Ph. D., associate professor in the department of psychological and brain sciences at the University of California, told Vice. And just because the person being tickled is laughing, doesn't mean they're enjoying it."

    Mosheh Wolf
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While tickling is known to be enjoyable, so are many other types of physical contact. No physical contact is OK after the recipient has requested that it stop.

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone knows tickling my feet will end in a bloody nose. I don't try but it happens cos of my reflexes. I hate being tickled, too, so I will not fight the urge.

    Katiekat
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My older brother did that to me for several years; I'm younger by 11 years. It stopped the day I leaned back and socked him between the legs. It's bullying, it's torture, and it's a power play. I just happened to land a lucky punch that showed more power. He never did it again, but I hated it. Still love him, and he's lucky I do and forgave him. However, if anyone comes up behind me or touches me unexpectedly, I am violent and never sorry. Survival skill.

    Memere
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. It's abuse, pure & simple. I was tickled constantly as a child by a cousin & none of the adults ever made him stop. I'm 70 now & still don't like being touched by anyone other than my husband, son, and immediate family. I also went no contact with the cousin years ago, and I hope I never see him again.

    Marie Claire Lafreniere
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m super ticklish if I ask you to stop you stop. The fact that my physical reaction to tickling is to laugh does NOT mean I am enjoying it, even less so when the words STOP are coming out of my mouth.

    Fluffy mommy panda
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes my mother in law ex husband that she still hangs out with because he gives her money. He dose this s**t to her own daughters and her grandchildren. Please people stop picking people over your own Family. Do you not see how bad that is. And don't try to make reason up for it. It is no reason to make your own family.

    David Johnson
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Victim is a very appropriate word in this sentence. Yet society sees the victim as being in the wrong because it's "just a bit of fun" 😡😡😡

    Hamilfan
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just think tickling is creepy, but that's my personal opinion

    Adur Bdur
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife has a trauma from that. She was tickled by a friend of her parents to the point she started to cry and scream in despair because he wouldn't stop to tickle her. Guess what, no consequences for the man, lifelong trauma for my wife. Seems to be fair... NOT

    TheElderNom
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As many others we use this as a way to practice consent with my niece and nephew. No and stop means just that, if they then want more they ask for it.

    Ayomi Di
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Imagine it was done by someone who just met for an hour or so while hanging out with friends. I asked him to stop, he didn't until I really snapped.

    LapCat
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once my mom tickled me when I was little (I was in diapers and don’t remember this story but she told me) that I kicked her in the eye and she had to get surgery.

    Jan Gardner
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not ticklish. I learned at a young age how to relax my body so well that I can drop my blood pressure at will. Since it runs low I don't do it often.

    Sleeping Solipsist
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm thoroughly intrigued; I'm going to have to panda-stalk you to find your replies to "medical anomalies/ marvel" threads. -- are you okay generally? I hope your ability doesn't come from some long term medical issue.. my mum wore a pulse oximeter once and we deliberately said trigger words to her to raise her blood pressure -you could literally see a spike in heart beats per minute by mentioning her triggers - like my SOB father (she was a willing participant in this experiment).

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    Princess Jade
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still remember my sister doing this to me when I was 3, pure hell (I'm now 48).

    Annabelle
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My ex did this. And when I totally snapt and pushed him away, he told me I wasn’t going to be a good mother because I was unpredictable.

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    #7

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) Telling little kids(like 2-10), "aw is that your little girlfriend/boyfriend?". Like a hard stop, no. Creepy and disgusting. No matter the context.

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    #8

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) I’ve had male teachers and staff call me “good girl” after doing a task for them. Apparently this is a way some men say Thankyou to girls. And its f*****g weird and creepy everytime. A simple thanks would suffice.

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    #10

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) People talking about Jesus Christ like they just ran into him at the store.

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    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) People making instagrams for their babies and making captions as if the baby were writing it

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    #12

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) When you’re chillin’ with your cat or dog at night with no one else home and they suddenly alert and look super-alarmed like they heard something.

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    TheAquarius1978
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yea, mine did this a few days a go, they where playing and sudently they just stopped and started looking at a wall almost like in transe, creeped the c**p out of me.

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    #13

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) People standing next to or behind you when they can just wait or give you a bit more space. I hate going to airports or any other public line and trying to leave space in front of me and the person behind me just shuffles closer trying to get me to move. Trust me, you pushing me to move forwards isn’t going to make the line move any faster. It just makes it more congested and it’s weird imo

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    #14

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) Every company creating an ecosystem requiring my home address and credit card and my birthday just to listen to some music or use some software. Not a shred of my identity is unsold at this point.

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    #15

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) I think it's weird that most couches don't come with washable cushion covers. Everyone finds that normal, but they would think it's weird if someone just slept on a bare mattress without ever putting a sheet on it. When in reality it's exactly the same thing. I bought a couch with cushion covers you can take off and put in the washing machine for that reason.

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    Ozacoter
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is very difficult to find them. I got one but it took a long time to find it

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    #16

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) "what no hug?" When saying goodbye to a person I'd never shown interest in touching

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    #17

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) Asking a couple when they plan on getting pregnant, or a couple’s unsolicited sharing they are trying to get pregnant. I feel gross every time.

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    Deborah Harris2
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's nothing wrong with someone telling you they are trying for a baby. I'm not the type of person who asks people if they are trying to get pregnant either.

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    #18

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) The whole "we're all family here" at the workplace. It's like some weird brainwashing to get you to enjoy your job more than you should. Like, no, you're not my family. I'm here to do work and get paid, and that's the only reason I'm here.

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    #19

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) Family channels. Imagine having to live your entire life on camera, with little to no privacy without being able to consent for it. Also to my knowledge there are no current laws that protect child influencers income like child actors have. If your content can’t exist without your child, it’s their job not yours.

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    #20

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) Open door policies in families. My in-laws just walk in whenever they want and I hate it.

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    Con O Cuinn
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If only there was some kind of device that could prevent this. Like some kind of contraption which prevented doors from opening. Someone should invent something like that

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    #21

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) Employers rewarding us with 8 hour staff retreat at work where we are expected to share personal info with each other all day. Staff bonding.

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    Deborah Harris2
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hated the staff bonding days, I purposely got myself killed on a paintball day out so I could spend the rest of the day in the canteen/rest room on site :)

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    #22

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) Taking pics of strangers

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    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) The various poses from Instagram models. It's so cringy it actually creeps me out. Especially when their eyes are slightly squinted and their mouth is half open like it's some sort of seductive sexy thing but it's just way off.

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    #24

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) When people come to your door and knock or ring the bell and then peer in the window.

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    #25

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) When people talk with food in their mouth, just chew and talk after, you can barely understand them.

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    Bethan Coleman
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless you are going to tell me I am about to d1e, there is nothing so important that it can't wait for you to finish your mouthful.

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    #26

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) Getting a phone call from an unknown number

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    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) My dad used to walk with his fingers around the back of my neck when we were in public. He could bever understand why I squirmed away from that and batted his hand away. It just felt like a power thing, it made me feel small and vulnerable. I see it occasionally in public with guys and their girlfriends and dads with their kids and I always get goosebumps from remembering what that feels like.

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    Natalie H
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually, I’ve done this with my kids, to maintain contact in a crowd, when they were old enough that they didn’t want to be seen holding my hand. Nothing is scarier than losing your child in a crowd. Maybe this was how your dad felt ♥️

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    #28

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) Instagram accounts with nothing but selfies. Hundreds and hundreds of selfies.... It totally creeps me out.

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    Frando Bone
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    self-centered people have no other outlet unfortunately "me me me!!! Look at me!!! I'm eating! I'm walking! I'm twirling for no reason at all!" just go away

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    #29

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) Dark water... the ocean; a river; lake; even a swimming pool - if I can't see through the water, it's terrifying!

    edit: I meant **can't** see through it - not can see through it!! I was getting a bit panicky thinking about that dark water as I wrote this!

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    Deborah Harris2
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is my phobia, I almost blacked out in the cinemas watching Titanic ..seriously :(

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    #30

    Whisper ASMR. I can't f*****g stand it, it makes me gag and makes my skin crawl. Complete sensory hell.

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    Allison B
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't mind ASMR depending on who it is but I hate the eating asmr. That's horrible.

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    #31

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) The constant fake happiness at work…

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    Nathaniel
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do not like mornings. When I come in I grunt. Over the years several managers have tried to tell me to say hello to people, good morning and all that. Nope. If I am acting happy early in the morning, I am probably about to go postal.

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    #32

    Tiktokers in the wild... Y'all just look so weird doing them

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    #33

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) When people refer to kids/babies as “flirting” when they are just being playful.

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    #35

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) Prolonged eye contact. And by prolonged, I mean more than 10 seconds.

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    Nathaniel
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    After 5 seconds I would think you are an hypnotist or something.

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    #36

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) Advertising. Especially target advertising. The constant attempt to manipulate you psychologically to make you believe you need something that’s only a want. Creepy af.

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    BananaStrings
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Along similar lines, high-end clothing and accessories with huge brand logos on display. You want me to pay $$$ for advertising your company? You should be paying me, like car wraps.

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    #37

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) The apparent competition to appear to be the busiest person with the most stuff crammed in.

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    #38

    "Live Photos" on iPhones. I'm looking at someone's photos on their iPhone and these things move for a split second and it creeps me out. I know I'm a fuddy duddy but I really like photos to not move.

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    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) People who knock on my door.

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    #40

    There's this sales technique called "mirroring" where the sales person mimics the body language of the customer to gain rapport. I think a lot of people also do it subconsciously to some extent. Anyway this really creeps me out.

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    Rose the Cook
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never encountered this but salespeople, or other strangers, calling me by my first name gives me the creeps.

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    #42

    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) When people address someone by name because they’re wearing a name tag.

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    People that are extra nice for no reason , but like EXTRA nice

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    Bored Retsuko
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, I might be guilty of that at times... (without touching or breaking boundaries of course)... an attempt to make up for the many times I was seen as arrogant, unapproachable, etc. (a common introvert dilemma)

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    “What's Something That's Considered Normal That Creeps You Out Immediately?” (40 Answers) Pregnant stomachs when a little foot kicks…

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    Jake B
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More like random strangers or anyone wanting to touch your stomach when pregnant.

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