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Many men fall victim to toxic masculinity, an undesirable trait, to say the least. Women also have their fair share of unhinged moments, which you will see on today’s list. 

We’ve compiled a list of screenshots from the Nice Girls subreddit. Don’t let the name fool you. These show the ugly side of being a female, which, for some men, is the stuff of nightmares and trauma

You’re about to read posts featuring toxic text exchanges, ‘entitled woman’ tendencies, and unhealthy attachment behaviors. Consider these the glaring red flags you must avoid at all costs. 

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    Wlw: My Charming Ex Girlfriend Gets Scary

    Text message exchange showcasing delulu behavior in relationships needing a reality check.

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    Zephyr
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    6 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Loool "il I hope you find peace" wooow I'm keeping that for my breakup speech

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    Many of the screenshots you’ll see on this list feature what experts refer to as an anxious attachment style. The Cleveland Clinic defines it as an insecure attachment that begins in childhood, where a primary caregiver fails to provide ample care and attention. 

    In adult relationships, it may manifest through clingy and needy behavior. It may also come in the form of its polar opposite, where the person is untrusting. In both cases, the fear of abandonment is the common denominator.

    #5

    Girl Blew Up After I Told Her We Were Done

    Text conversation with emojis, audio message, and an exchange of playful yet serious remarks; theme: delusional women.

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    Zephyr
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    7 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It took me while to understand that if you have a healthy amount of love and respect for yourself relationships become infinitely easier

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    Recent research has shown that women are more prone to developing an anxious attachment style. Men, on the other hand, develop an avoidant attachment style where they tend to distance themselves from romance-related anxieties. 

    According to brain science innovator Dr. Srini Pillay, it’s how humans are naturally wired, and both sexes deal with adverse reactions differently. 

    “Because the brain is geared to focus on negative things (presumably to protect us), we all tend to see the negative things under a magnifying glass,” Dr. Pillay wrote in an article for HuffPost.

    #7

    Matched, Immediately Went To Snap. This Was About 10 Minutes Into Talking

    Text conversation highlighting delulu women discussing relationship goals and expectations.

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    Ripley
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    5 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you feel like you need to tell people that you deserve [insert thing here] then you probably don't.

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    #9

    Gave My Number To A Lady At Church That I Was Told Was In Charge Of Coordinating Ministry Programs And Events. I Later Found Out That Was A Lie And She Was Not Involved In Any Of That

    Text exchange showing frustration: one person accuses another of blocking; reply suggests frequent number changes.

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    Dr. Pillay says the differing attachment styles between men and women typically push couples to bail from the relationship instead of trying to get to the root of the problem. 

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    “Women may become resentful that men are ‘clueless’ or not feeling the anxiety that they are feeling,” he wrote, adding that a man’s usual reaction would be to resent their female partners for being too “high-strung” about “simple issues.”

    #10

    Invest In Cat Food Fellas

    Chat conversation highlighting a reality check for a woman demanding sneakers despite not having money.

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    Zephyr
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    6 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This what happens when parents don't teach their kids about value

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    #11

    Speaking For Less Than 1 Day After Matching On Hinge, Have 1 Facetime Call. Asks For Money

    Delulu women text exchange about an inappropriate request to pay for a meal after one FaceTime call.

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    #12

    Finally Blocked Her.. (I Feel Like Im Being Trolled Now)

    Text conversation showing intense and confrontational messages, including blocking threats.

    Told myself i’d block her when it stopped being funny. Spoiler, it’s stopped being funny. I don’t know if i’m being trolled but the way she is so angry from not responding for two hours is very concerning. I feel like she may have some mental health issues because this isn’t normal behavior.

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    To avoid unnecessary arguments from happening, Dr. Pillay advises understanding these default behavior patterns. And instead of throwing criticisms, recognize each one’s need for commitment. 

    “The more we are aware of how we respond in romance, the better we will understand both ourselves and the partners with whom we have chosen to explore this life,” he wrote.

    #13

    I Went On 2 Dates With This Girl And The Chemistry Was Atrocious

    Text conversation showing relationship misunderstanding, highlighting "delulu women" needing a reality check.

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    #14

    The Whole 3 Hours We Were At The Restaurant, She Was Kinda Laying On Her Seat, Constantly Texting

    Chat conversation showing a person feeling underappreciated in a relationship exchange.

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    Zephyr
    Community Member
    6 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Leaving the date early if it isn't working out does not make you less of a man, it just means you probably have something better to do

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    Now, we’d like to ask our readers. Gentlemen, have you encountered these unhinged reactions from women you’ve dated? Ladies, what do you think brings about these behaviors? Let’s start a discussion in the comments!

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    #19

    Met This Girl The Night My Grandma Died She Was Aware Of Both Dates

    Text conversation illustrating delulu women in a misunderstanding over funeral plans.

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    #20

    Found This Gem From 4 Years Ago. We Lived Together. I Went For A Haircut

    Text message from a frustrated person, expressing confusion and seeking answers.

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    CalamityOne
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    6 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did she have a stroke partway, or is this another "alcohol is a hell of a d**g" post?

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    #22

    Four-Is Years Ago I Was Seeing This Girl Who Decided To Go Hookup With Some Guy Cause I Left Her On Open Cause I Was Busy

    Text conversation showing relationship drama and conflict over perceived infidelity.

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    #26

    One I Found Looking Through My Photos

    "Text exchange between two people with one person expressing frustration over delayed replies, highlighting expectations."

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    #29

    One Of My Favourites From When I Was With My Ex

    Text message exchange illustrating overconfidence and unrealistic expectations.

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    Zephyr
    Community Member
    6 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    From when you were with your ex? Nah bro it was from when your life was in danger

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    #30

    Idk If This Belongs Here But It’s Funny

    Text message conversation with someone requesting lash expenses, needing a reality check.

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    #31

    Dealing With Old Ex

    Text conversation between individuals about needing a reality check in a relationship.

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    Skogsrået
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    5 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I took that as a challenge"? Ugh, no thanks to mindgames and people challenging or testing you like this.

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    #32

    Honestly Just Confused About This One

    Text conversation between two people discussing feelings and misunderstandings; keywords: delulu women.

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    #33

    Should've Just Ghosted Her! Wild Date

    Text conversation with Kimberley on Tinder, discussing romantic connection and advice on dating challenges.

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    #35

    My Ex Wife Got Her Car Stolen, Still Titled In My Name, And Wanted Me To Pay To Get It Out Of Impound

    Text exchange between two people discussing car retrieval and payment responsibilities.

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    Skogsrået
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    5 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who uses the car? Who pays for gas and maintenance? Tbf it sounds like he was using it and fûcked up by leaving the keys in the car wich ended with the car being stolen?

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    #36

    Im Still Trying To Figure Out If I Did Something Wrong Here Of If She's A Nice Girl. Everyone I've Showed This Convo To, Say They Can't Figure Out What She Was Trying To Do. Any Advice If I Did Something Wrong Is Appreciated

    Text exchange highlighting delulu women needing a reality check, with messages about communication misunderstandings.

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    General Anaesthesia
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    1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Context, Bored Panda? This is the last page of a four-screenshot conversation on Reddit ( click on the "Thicc_Gas_Dad link under the image).

    #38

    This Isn't Even The Beginning Just The End Of The Texts

    Repeated message saying "Block me" with a demanding final statement, highlighting delusion in expectations.

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    #39

    Ex-GF Was A Serial Cheater. When I Found Out And Confronted Her; She Screamed Insults At Me, Broke Up With Me, And Kicked Me Out. This Is The Aftermath

    "Text conversation about taking a break; missed call notification from Telstra."

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    #42

    Follow Up To The Greasy Hair Post

    Apology text message from a woman explaining and apologizing for a previous message sent.

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    #43

    My Cousin Posted This After Cheating On Her Husband

    "Text reads 'Relationship Advice' with insights on handling disrespect and reactions, set against a nature backdrop."

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    #44

    It's Been 3 Months... Tf Just Happened?

    Text exchange between two delulu women discussing avoiding drama involving a boyfriend.

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    Skogsrået
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    5 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I don't want drama", sure keep telling yourself that and wonder why drama is always in your life.

    #45

    We Had Just Matched, No Conversation Yet. (Didn't Notice Fb Reset My Distance Preference)

    Text conversation about distance in dating, with messages discussing the challenges of meeting someone 110 miles away.

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    #48

    Instant Switch Up From A Normal Conversation

    Text conversation about emoji usage in punctuation, highlighting misunderstandings and reality check needs.

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    #49

    Mammas Don’t Let Your Babies Grow Up To Be Nice Girls

    Text conversation with delulu woman arranging kids’ dinner and cooking logistics.

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    #50

    GF Talked Shit About Me And My Family And Expects Me To Take Her To Work And Is Threatening Me

    iPhone lock screen showing Instagram and game notifications, temperature 70°F, sunny at 14:35.

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    #51

    At Least She's Honest

    Delulu women meme featuring a humorous cartoon image with playful text about dating during the holiday season.

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    22 minutes ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know how it is for other females, but physical appearance is the least important thing for me in a relationship, be it romantic or friendship.

    #52

    Apparently "Applying Pressure" Means Paying For Your Expenses

    A candid text post about dating frustrations and social media boundaries.

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    #54

    Step By Step

    Text highlights a humorous take on relationship advice for delulu women needing reality check.

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    #55

    Nice Girl's Double Standards At Its Best

    Social media post discussion with delulu women debating dating standards and parenting expectations.

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    #56

    The Woman Who’s Engaged To A Guy That Killed His Family Members Now Wants Another Guy That Doesn’t Want Her Back

    Image of a phone screen showing a social media post expressing frustration and entitlement, with bold text and emoji.

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    #57

    How Do People Seem So Normal At First And Then This?

    Text conversation about a playlist lacking diversity, leading to a heated argument and personal criticisms.

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    #58

    “Do You Believe In 50/50”

    Text conversation with questions about beliefs in 50-50 relationships and being a provider for a woman with a job.

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    Skogsrået
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    4 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm confused, does she want equality or a guy that will pay for anything she wants?

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    #59

    Repost Of Mine: A Friend Had Me Message His Friend, This Is The Result Of That

    Screenshot of a chat discussing women with large breasts, including a cartoon image and text exchange.

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    Skogsrået
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    4 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know, why did he text this woman he didn't even know if he's in a relationship already?

    #60

    An Oldie From The Drafts

    Text conversation highlighting a request for Instagram and a discussion about personal boundaries.

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    #61

    Shame On Me I Guess

    Text exchange showing a conversation about identity and relationship expectations.

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    Skogsrået
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    4 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is just shîtty, people are allowed to not be attracted to you cause you are transgender. Attacking their looks just cause they rejected you is petty and kinda pathetic tbh.

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    #62

    Scrolling Through Top Matches, Realize She Hasn't Responded In 3 Months (Due To Fbd Glitching), Give Her Benefit Of The Doubt, But Then I Take Right Around 3 Hours And I'm The Bad Guy

    Text conversation showing a woman expressing frustration over delayed replies.

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    #63

    She Has Such Self Respect This One

    A series of text messages expressing anger and accusations in a confrontational tone.

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    Mr.Mister
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    1 hour ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's a cheater who got cheated...and is now mad for being cheated on.....Ok thats .... wild....

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    #64

    Do I Even Reply To This Or Try To Salvage This? Am I Crazy For Seeing Huge Red Flags In This Kind Of Behavior Already? We Haven’t Met Yet Btw

    Text exchange discussing communication dynamics and relationship expectations among delulu women.

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    #65

    Had To Unmatch W This Nice Girl

    Chat conversation highlighting a misunderstanding needing a reality check.

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    #66

    I Was Unavailable For 20 Mins

    Text message exchange showing missed calls in focus mode and a conversation about responsibility.

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    #67

    Got This Beauty Yesterday

    Text message expressing dissatisfaction with communication.

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    #68

    This Situation Has Been Going On For About A Week And I Am Not One Of The People Involved

    Text exchange highlighting delulu women's confrontation and misunderstanding.

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    #69

    Still Has Me So Confused, Even Years Later

    Text conversation showing a misunderstanding and a need for a reality check between two people.

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    #71

    We Haven't Even Met Each Other And I Told Her I Didn't Think It Was A Match Last Thursday And We Agreed To End Things There Amicably. This Is What I've Received In The Last 24 Hours

    Text conversation showcasing delusional messages needing a reality check.

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    #72

    Can’t Just Reject Someone You Aren’t Attracted To..gotta Be An Insult

    A social media comment discussing men's preferences and self-perception regarding women's weight, with 2,574 likes.

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    #73

    Can’t Tell If This Girl Is Trying To Be Rude Or She’s Just Dumb And Didn’t Get The Joke

    Text conversation highlighting delulu women who think they deserve more, with humorous responses.

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