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Many men fall victim to toxic masculinity, an undesirable trait, to say the least. Women also have their fair share of unhinged moments, which you will see on today’s list. 

We’ve compiled a list of screenshots from the Nice Girls subreddit. Don’t let the name fool you. These show the ugly side of being a female, which, for some men, is the stuff of nightmares and trauma

You’re about to read posts featuring toxic text exchanges, ‘entitled woman’ tendencies, and unhealthy attachment behaviors. Consider these the glaring red flags you must avoid at all costs. 

#1

Wlw: My Charming Ex Girlfriend Gets Scary

Text message exchange showcasing delulu behavior in relationships needing a reality check.

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Zephyr
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15 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Loool "il I hope you find peace" wooow I'm keeping that for my breakup speech

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    #3

    Invest In Cat Food Fellas

    Chat conversation highlighting a reality check for a woman demanding sneakers despite not having money.

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    Zephyr
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    14 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This what happens when parents don't teach their kids about value

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    Many of the screenshots you’ll see on this list feature what experts refer to as an anxious attachment style. The Cleveland Clinic defines it as an insecure attachment that begins in childhood, where a primary caregiver fails to provide ample care and attention. 

    In adult relationships, it may manifest through clingy and needy behavior. It may also come in the form of its polar opposite, where the person is untrusting. In both cases, the fear of abandonment is the common denominator.

    #5

    Gave My Number To A Lady At Church That I Was Told Was In Charge Of Coordinating Ministry Programs And Events. I Later Found Out That Was A Lie And She Was Not Involved In Any Of That

    Text exchange showing frustration: one person accuses another of blocking; reply suggests frequent number changes.

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    Recent research has shown that women are more prone to developing an anxious attachment style. Men, on the other hand, develop an avoidant attachment style where they tend to distance themselves from romance-related anxieties. 

    According to brain science innovator Dr. Srini Pillay, it’s how humans are naturally wired, and both sexes deal with adverse reactions differently. 

    “Because the brain is geared to focus on negative things (presumably to protect us), we all tend to see the negative things under a magnifying glass,” Dr. Pillay wrote in an article for HuffPost.

    #8

    Speaking For Less Than 1 Day After Matching On Hinge, Have 1 Facetime Call. Asks For Money

    Delulu women text exchange about an inappropriate request to pay for a meal after one FaceTime call.

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    Dr. Pillay says the differing attachment styles between men and women typically push couples to bail from the relationship instead of trying to get to the root of the problem. 

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    “Women may become resentful that men are ‘clueless’ or not feeling the anxiety that they are feeling,” he wrote, adding that a man’s usual reaction would be to resent their female partners for being too “high-strung” about “simple issues.”

    #11

    Matched, Immediately Went To Snap. This Was About 10 Minutes Into Talking

    Text conversation highlighting delulu women discussing relationship goals and expectations.

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    Ripley
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    14 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you feel like you need to tell people that you deserve [insert thing here] then you probably don't.

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    #12

    Girl Blew Up After I Told Her We Were Done

    Text conversation with emojis, audio message, and an exchange of playful yet serious remarks; theme: delusional women.

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    Zephyr
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    15 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It took me while to understand that if you have a healthy amount of love and respect for yourself relationships become infinitely easier

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    To avoid unnecessary arguments from happening, Dr. Pillay advises understanding these default behavior patterns. And instead of throwing criticisms, recognize each one’s need for commitment. 

    “The more we are aware of how we respond in romance, the better we will understand both ourselves and the partners with whom we have chosen to explore this life,” he wrote.

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    #13

    Finally Blocked Her.. (I Feel Like Im Being Trolled Now)

    Text conversation showing intense and confrontational messages, including blocking threats.

    Told myself i’d block her when it stopped being funny. Spoiler, it’s stopped being funny. I don’t know if i’m being trolled but the way she is so angry from not responding for two hours is very concerning. I feel like she may have some mental health issues because this isn’t normal behavior.

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    Now, we’d like to ask our readers. Gentlemen, have you encountered these unhinged reactions from women you’ve dated? Ladies, what do you think brings about these behaviors? Let’s start a discussion in the comments!

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    #17

    Met This Girl The Night My Grandma Died She Was Aware Of Both Dates

    Text conversation illustrating delulu women in a misunderstanding over funeral plans.

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    Kaa
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    12 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I was super interesting in someone I would have taken 20 seconds to at least text good morning and a "I'll call you when I'm home again from the funeral" or such. - And if I was the person not going through a personal loss, I would have given my crush some time and would've waited some days.

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    #18

    The Whole 3 Hours We Were At The Restaurant, She Was Kinda Laying On Her Seat, Constantly Texting

    Chat conversation showing a person feeling underappreciated in a relationship exchange.

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    Zephyr
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    15 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Leaving the date early if it isn't working out does not make you less of a man, it just means you probably have something better to do

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    #19

    I Went On 2 Dates With This Girl And The Chemistry Was Atrocious

    Text conversation showing relationship misunderstanding, highlighting "delulu women" needing a reality check.

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    #22

    Found This Gem From 4 Years Ago. We Lived Together. I Went For A Haircut

    Text message from a frustrated person, expressing confusion and seeking answers.

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    CalamityOne
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    15 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did she have a stroke partway, or is this another "alcohol is a hell of a d**g" post?

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    #23

    Dealing With Old Ex

    Text conversation between individuals about needing a reality check in a relationship.

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    Skogsrået
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    14 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I took that as a challenge"? Ugh, no thanks to mindgames and people challenging or testing you like this.

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    #24

    Four-Is Years Ago I Was Seeing This Girl Who Decided To Go Hookup With Some Guy Cause I Left Her On Open Cause I Was Busy

    Text conversation showing relationship drama and conflict over perceived infidelity.

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    #25

    My Ex’s Character Is On Full Display After We Broke Up Almost 3 Months Ago

    Text message exchange showing a conversation where someone demands better boyfriend material.

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    #27

    One Of My Favourites From When I Was With My Ex

    Text message exchange illustrating overconfidence and unrealistic expectations.

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    Zephyr
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    15 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    From when you were with your ex? Nah bro it was from when your life was in danger

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    #29

    Idk If This Belongs Here But It’s Funny

    Text message conversation with someone requesting lash expenses, needing a reality check.

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    #30

    My Buddy Dodged A Nuke

    Text conversation highlighting delulu women's exaggerated self-perception needing a reality check.

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