Don't judge a social media page by its likes. Sometimes the best content comes from the smallest creators. But just as good books can have beautiful covers, so can big accounts share quality material. Plus, if we're talking about relatability, the sum of its fans can actually be a good indicator of a project's success.
Ran by Nicole Argiris and sisters Lola, Gina, and Nora Tash, My Therapist Says is an Instagram account with 7.2 million followers that shares both aggregated and original memes about pretty much every aspect of everyday life. From modern relationship problems to struggles at work and the inability to cope with anxiety, it's all there!
Since its creation in 2015, My Therapist Says has shared thousands of hilariously accurate jokes, so in an effort to save a little bit of your time, we at Bored Panda went through its feed and hand-picked a selection of our favorite uploads. Enjoy!
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Me too. Though my wife can be a very busy and noisy extrovert at times. It's like living with a Tasmanian Devil. She just comes whooshing through the room chattering away to herself. I think I need a lie down.
Load More Replies...Introverts can be social butterflies. Being introverted just means that the time spent with others will drain the battery and time alone will recharge it rather than the other way around.
Understood. Quite time is great. I especially make a point of putting my phone on silent so people can leave me the f**k alone.
Load More Replies...I have made friends by randomly encountering another introvert and we both thought "Oh, this person isn't very annoying" and we made palns to get coffee.
This is the way to do it, then the other person also gets it if you suddenly disappear and reappear from all communication, coz they do it too 😅
Load More Replies...We aren't a bunch of terrified little orphan children huddled in the corner waiting for someone to take care of us. Introverts like having social lives too, we just need time alone to recharge.
It's true. But also, at least for me, my social needs are so much less. I get enough social fulfillment from my spouse and when my parents visit. I don't NEED more friends. But when I find someone I like and genuinely enjoy being around, we do stuff together.
Load More Replies...Nope. I found other introverts. We have an amazing time texting ,playing online video games, and cancelling in-person plans together!
Can you really adopt an introvert and make them go out to make friends? We are like cats we do whatever we want
Judging at the rate I drop things from the table, I think you are right.
Load More Replies...I'm an omnivert, I can take people or leave them. Very content on my own but mingle well with extroverts.
Introvert doesn't equal socially inept or painfully shy. I can make friends just fine on my own and I know this entry is tongue in cheek but I find it terribly infanitilizing.
Social boundaries: Extrovert = 3". Introvert = 25 feet, two walls, a locked door, and all shades (in entire building) drawn.
I'm a somewhat older Introvert. I sometimes think that I need to be adopted by an extroverted lady. My problem is that I don't have the nerve to go looking. So what do I do?
You'd have to leave your comfort zone. Don't go looking. Let it find you.
Load More Replies...I have an introvert boyfriend and a introvert friend. And I am very extrovert. I just give them time to breath and brakes from mee 😂🙈❤
I’m am an ambivert. Which means sometimes extroverts adopt me, other times I adopt introverts. LOL
How introverts make friends.... Introvers are nonagresive species that seeks cozy places, and is absolutely okay to share it with other of their kind.
Oh no, as they are a practice of noise , we cannot do /cope with them people. We run .
As an extrovert, most of my friends are introverts. They are allowed to join whenever or decline whenever they want. No pressure, just healthy boundaries that look different for different people.
Ha! I'm the extrovert that did this to a couple of my friends (though secretly I am a bit of an introvert myself...shhh)
Wait... Some people actually make friends?! In real life?! Like, not just in bad American series?!
I find this quite true, my best friend is an extrovert. We are complete opposites
nah more like 70% we find a small group of fellow grumpy cynics who also don't like being around people
This is actually how I've made every friend I've ever had. (of the 90%)
Also yes, Rei. I very carefully pick from among those who have picked me.
Load More Replies...Ex-introvert here. Well, I think I'm introverted "in my soul" to use a metaphor, but I find I really love talking s**t to people and hanging out in noisy places. I know that I'm really an introvert however because I feel slightly anxious just before going. But I never regret it. It really helps meet people with business opportunities. In fact it's the key difference between rich and poor. The difference is people socialise with people who are similar and as a result get no interesting opportunities. Always socialise with different people. I'd say hang out where rich people hang out, and/or where people from different demographics hang out. You'll lose your assumptions about the world and your world will become much bigger.
Extroverts will just come up and talk to people for no reason. As an introvert It totally blows my mind lol.
The name of this account implies it centers around mental health bent to the jokes, but it offers more than that. Many are more relatable gags about being a stressed young adult who struggles but somehow manages to continue with life.
According to Lola and Nicole, the account is "one of the fastest-growing aggregate Instagram accounts in history," climbing to 500,000 followers in its first six months. They also say it was the biggest meme account on Instagram to be run anonymously, until they introduced themselves to their fans and the internet.
At first, they didn't want to give away their identities in an attempt to avoid the criticism that women often face when they make jokes about how messy they feel. Only their mothers knew they ran the account. Both women even made their personal Instagram accounts private when they started My Therapist Says and don't post on them anymore. Their Facebook pages were made private too. They have given up on virtually all online presence outside of their memes.
My house. I have this about my house. I'm in my house and I'm "This is my house and I can do anything and there's nobody here but the cats and I can throw them out the window if they bother me."
Lola and Nicole met about 17 years ago in their hometown of Toronto and have been best friends ever since. After high school when Lola started spending long stints in Los Angeles picking up small acting gigs and Nicole was busy studying psychology at the University of Western Ontario, they started sending each other a lot of memes.
"The account just kind of came about as a way for us to keep in contact," Nicole told Cosmopolitan.
The name of their project isn't random. Both of them have been in therapy for years. Lola has what she calls "crippling shyness" and Nicole suffers from anxiety. "Every time I would talk to Nicole, I was like, 'My therapist said this,' and she'd say, 'No, I said that,'" Lola explained. "And I'm like, 'Well, you are basically my therapist, so.'"
Their memes reflect common complaints they make to each other (as well as their real therapists) about their anxiety-prone twentysomething lives: aggressive crush texting, impulsive shopping, canceling plans in order to sleep.
But Dr. Jaclyn Cravens-Pickens, a licensed marriage and family therapy associate who does not know Lola or Nicole scrolled through the account and told Cosmopolitan, "I'm not sure I see memes about mental health issues ... or anything that really reflects what I, as a therapist, say to my clients."
But something in the content did connect with Instagrammers who deal with anxiety and depression, and many followers began opening up in DMs and comment sections under the memes about their own problems.
"In the past, older generations have shown disdain at our preoccupation with our phones and our online lives, but during a pandemic, it's been an advantage to us to have this online presence solidified," Nicole explained to Daily Mail.
She said that millennials and Gen Z "have such a powerful online community where it's normalized and encouraged to seek help," which was an advantage going into quarantine.
"When we're all stuck at home, we feel less alone, as the initial shock was less pronounced for us given how intertwined our social lives already were with social media."
Lola said that the idea to publicly talk about mental health would legitimize the advice they themselves had received to the point where they would have to take it.
"This new generation, however, is so open and verbose on all things we used to deem inaccessible or unapproachable," she said. "I think it's going to do a lot of good for people in the long run, not having to feel ashamed or ostracized for feeling, or being, a certain way."
Lola said that "laughter is a powerful thing," adding that humorizing and satirizing a mental health issue helps "take away its power over you." And she's not alone. A few months ago, for example, we covered a social media manager who said making silly comics about his depression and anxiety have helped him tremendously in dealing with them.
Throughout the pandemic, the women behind My Therapist Says have shared and created quite many memes about quarantine, online dating, and Zoom calls, but they admitted there was an added pressure to not cross the line during a year that was clouded in tragedy.
"Each day was a fog of uncertainty, of worry, of what news tomorrow might bring — but we knew we had a responsibility to find the lightness amidst the dark," Nora said. "We certainly felt entitled to our own grief and confusion, but it was almost therapeutic trying to alleviate other people's worry with memes so as not to focus on our own."
omg where do i get this on a business card for handing out in everyday life?
That would make sense. With all the firework, nobody will hear the screams... That sounds creepy, but is perfect!
In October, the gang published their first self-help book, titled My Therapist Says: Advice You Should Probably (Not) Follow, which they wrote in collaboration with — guess who? — their therapists.
"Our therapists were incredibly involved in the writing of this book, not only with the lessons they imparted on us, but the advice they took the time to give out as they heard some of the questions we were being messaged," Nora said.
my dog can drop the ball. She also picks it back up immediately...
Each of the women contributed to the book and incorporated different aspects of their lives, but it's written in a singular voice to make it more cohesive.
"We decided to create this character, an alias almost, that embodied fractions of us all to make this wonderfully flawed whole who people could resonate with," Lola said.
Just like their memes, this book covers the ins and outs of almost every area of one person's life!
i don't. i am 31 and old. i want to apologize to people that society has made feel that their natural aging process is bad or undesirable
it feels vaguely wrong to me that i found my entire personality in this article 😭
Reply if don’t have social anxiety, like I want to know. Is there anyone?
I do not know any person below 40 that is not depressed or anxious. Its sad how f****d up we are.
Load More Replies...I feel like the last 10-15 were supposed to be gifs and although i can guess what happen in them, think the jokes would have been that much funnier.
it feels vaguely wrong to me that i found my entire personality in this article 😭
Reply if don’t have social anxiety, like I want to know. Is there anyone?
I do not know any person below 40 that is not depressed or anxious. Its sad how f****d up we are.
Load More Replies...I feel like the last 10-15 were supposed to be gifs and although i can guess what happen in them, think the jokes would have been that much funnier.