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45 Of The Most Controversial Parenting Opinions To Leave You Fuming Or Nodding In Approval
Interview
Parents often consider their children to be the center of their universe, and there's nothing wrong with that. They raise them in the best way they can, following traditions carried over from their own childhoods or sometimes taking advice from friends. Others, both parents and those without children, often eagerly share their thoughts on parenting—sometimes seeking an audience, and at other times, aiming to force their way of thinking onto someone else's life. Obviously, some of these opinions prove valuable, while others are simply outdated or incorrect.
A recent Twitter thread addressing this topic went viral, attracting a huge number of people intrigued by a discussion about the most controversial parental opinions. We believe that some of the perspectives the Twitter users shared deserve further exploration, which is why we have selected a list of the most polarizing posts.
Bored Panda reached out to the Twitter user @_Phoenixblvck, a counselor based in Calgary, and the OP who has started this important discussion. Phoenix shared with us the inspiration behind her viral thread: “To be quite honest, the entire idea got birthed when I saw other creators using the meme from that Tangled scene to ask for their audience’s unpopular opinions on topics ranging from academics to marriage, to career, etc. I’d say the inspiration came from seeing others do it and wanting to facilitate a discourse that we really need to keep having.”
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Kobe (she) 1 year ago
Or vote for another political party, or change their religion, or have special needs, or .....it is not just that one thing that unconditionally love goes for
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Kim Kermes 1 year ago
A proper hand shake at a proper social distance should be acceptable to most. I've shaken hands (?) with small children and they seemed to be pleased.
Pheonix continued: “The question became, ‘What controversial topic would people really want to share their opinions on, no holds barred?’ Parenting easily came to mind. It’s a conversation that comes up every now and then on X, and from mostly being a quiet observer, I could tell that a lot of people have a lot to get off their chest when it comes to how they were raised. I reckoned, ‘If this could be an opportunity for them to say these things freely, and all these opinions would be gathered on one thread where anyone can easily come to read and learn—or unlearn as the case may be, that’d be great.’ Beyond that, as a counselor, I’ve seen how much of a role parenting styles play when it comes to unresolved childhood trauma. If people could speak about what not to do, and others would be willing to take note, then it’d mean the coming generation could have it better. However, I didn’t want it to be just ‘unpopular’ opinions. I wanted every form of opinion, both popular and unpopular, to be welcomed. So, I put the tweet out. In all honesty, I wasn’t expecting that kind of response, I didn’t think the thread would go as viral as it did, but it felt really wonderful seeing so many people across countries share their thoughts and beliefs on parenting.”
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XenoMurph 1 year ago
And who gets to decide? Only if you are clever enough? Only if you are educated enough? Only if you have the correct views? Only if you belong to the correct party? This is arguing for eugenics. At some point people would put their own opinions as facts, and Jews, Gypsies and Disabled would be unable to procreate.
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Alexia 1 year ago
I witnessed endless scandals and domestic violence between my parents. I repeatedly saw how my father would threaten, insult and humiliate my mother. I grew up being convinced that this was normal in every family. Then, as a young adult, I spend a vacation in a friend's house. Her parents were so kind and respectful to each other. To me this was unreal, and I thought "they act it out so well. They surely must yell and insult each other when I'm not present". :(
Controversial topics often lead to strong emotions and differing viewpoints. Phoenix Blvck explained that in her opinion, disagreements are not the problem, but it’s how we disagree that matters: “Controversial topics are controversial for a reason, emotions will get heated up, and a lot of people would have opposing views. Bearing this in mind, I knew it was important for me to approach the conversation from a state of calm at all times, which wasn’t really hard, as that’s my natural predisposition. I also believe in respecting people a whole lot, as well as extending compassion even in our disagreements. This state of mind naturally helped me steer the conversations I engaged in towards being more civil than vicious. People tend to calm down when they realize that you’re not coming for them with as much heat. So it’s like when they throw fire, you douse with water, and they’re now willing to speak over the smoke. Easy and gentle, even if firm, does it.”
Expertise as a coach and counselor likely plays a significant role in the ability to address sensitive parenting topics. Asked how she strikes a balance between sharing opinions and providing guidance to her audience, the OP told us: “Opinions are what they are, subjective. So I know well enough not to speak them as though they were laws, never to be broken. At the same time, psychological facts are what they are, proven. Notwithstanding, there’s always room for exceptions because humans will always diverge from the 'norm'. We’re interestingly complicated that way. As a result, even when I speak on psychological facts as a counselor, I acknowledge that there are exceptions, so when people present those exceptions, I’m more open to discussing with them, rather than just reestablishing my words as the sole truth, and shutting them down. Same with my opinions. My understanding of human relations, thanks to my background in counseling, certainly helps me communicate better, and dealing with various kinds of personalities as a coach helps me know just the right amount of emotional intelligence to apply to make people feel seen and heard. And everyone loves that, do we not?”
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Alexia 1 year ago
Oooh, louder for those in the back. Many parents I know (including mine) are like: "I raised you, therefore you are my property and you must do what I say. Your opinions and feelings are irrelevant as long as you live under my roof. And be careful not to ever talk back to me, unless you wish to sleep outside in the street."
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Andy Smith 1 year ago
Also girl dads who have a creepy almost incestuous possessiveness of their daughters virginity. I have daughters and they were both told the consequences of not being careful and how to watch out for themselves. Rarely, if ever do you see boys go through the same. Y’all just need to stop
Phoenix told us more about the opinions shared in the thread that stood out to her: “A lot of them were really good. I think the ones that particularly did it for me were those that spoke about treating children as people with autonomy and boundaries, rather than as extensions of their parents. I wholeheartedly agree.” As for interactions, the OP mentioned situations when people took her replies to some comments out of context with meanings she’d never intended: “It reminded me to be more intentional about my responses in order to convey accurate meaning, and that even at that, there’d still be people bent on misunderstanding you, based on their own misconceptions. As such, learned to make my peace with being misunderstood all over again.”
We have also contacted the family & relationship empowerment coach Celia Kibler, who was kind enough to share with us her professional insights regarding controversial parenting opinions.
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Zedrapazia 1 year ago
That's the kind of parent that will wonder one day why their children never visit them.
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Pascal’s Swagger 1 year ago
Abusive partners will do this too. It’s always wrong, regardless of who does it
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Blondie23 1 year ago
Okay so that last one is so true. I realized earlier this year that there were a lot of things my hubby and I had not taught our daughters. So now when I run across something they are doing wrong and I realize I never taught them I quickly say "LIFE LESSON TIME!" and I start to teach them rather than getting angry. I have to tell you... it's life changing when you do that!
Danish Susanne 1 year ago
Your daughters are lucky in their choice of parents
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Brenda 1 year ago
Parents aren't perfect, they make mistakes like everyone else. When I'm wrong, I apologize to whomever deserves it. My mom did, I did to my kids and I see my son doing the same. Mom used to say they crucified the last perfect person to let us know it's OK to be wrong and admitting it shows strength.
Michelle Carlson 1 year ago
My mom and dad always apologized if they did something wrong toward my sister or me and that respect has stuck with me all my life.
Feathered Dinosaur 1 year ago
I never yell at the chick and I try to get y parents to do the same, because I think it's abusive and definitely makes everything much more difficult. They're boomers who have been regularly beaten by their parents so it's not easy for them when they get angry, but they're learning slowly
Ken Beattie 1 year ago
That final point resonates for me. My parents did a lot of stuff right, but one thing I feel like my Dad did get wrong was giving up too quickly when teaching me stuff. He'd take a crack at it, but if we didn't get it quickly it was like "moving along, we'll do something different" not "lets figure out why you aren't getting it".
Tyranamar Seuss 1 year ago
Sorry, if you're not doing what you need to be doing and it's before school there are still consequences. There is no- get out of jail before school card.
With over 40 years of experience, Kibler specializes in teaching respectful, cooperative parenting systems for parents of toddlers as well as breaking the generational cycles of dysfunction and abuse. The expert told us about some of the most divisive and controversial opinions about parenting, like the belief that you can’t parent a child like your parents parented you or grandparents parented you. Celia explained: “Although we never want to repeat the generational cycles of dysfunction and abuse, there are many generational strategies that are extremely important in raising a confident, self-sufficient, respectful, happy adults. The methods that are important in raising every generation are things like schedules and routines, limits and boundaries, proper consequences, manners, and calm communication.“
"The point that there is social media, technology, and current events does not override the need for basic methods of raising a kind, compassionate, respectful adult that can handle disappointment and knows emotional intelligence is always necessary for every generation. It is necessary for parents to realize that they are their child’s strongest role model and that whatever they do, they give their child permission to do. For example, well-mannered children come from well-mannered parents.” Kibler also mentioned other popular opinions that are often polarizing for society, such as “giving your child too much love and nurturing will spoil them”, and “time outs are taboo”.
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Nesto 1 year ago
This sentiment is often misconstrued as children having equal rights in decision making in the family. No, the parent HAS to tbe the one making the decisions. Input from the child is valuable and explanations when this input is not heeded is valuable for the child to grow, but the parent has the last word. We have the word ‘childish’ for a reason. And we have the expression ‘responsible adult’ for a reason.
Controversial opinions can challenge the traditional norms of parenting. We were curious how parents can navigate the tension between wanting to embrace new ideas while also staying grounded in their own values. Celia Kibler shared with us: “Parents often will read one line and take it as something they should implement without reading or listening to the specifics of how something should be properly done. Choices are a good example because offering choices to a child is an important way to empower their individuality and teach responsibility. But offering a choice can be done as wrong as it can be done right. If a parent doesn’t learn how to do a technique that is successful for a child, it will fail and cause confusion for that parent simply because it was not done right and they didn’t take the time to learn everything they could about that specific method.”
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Mooooomooooo 1 year ago
Having and being responsible for a kid is completely different than being one
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Alexia 1 year ago
And in some cases, you literally mess up their life. My mother used to compare me with my classmate (who was very good in math and physics): "Why can't you be smart like him? I'm sure he does math problems every day! But you are stupid and lazy!" Fast forward several years, I was a college student, and my former classmate now had a crush on me. And I couldn't stand him, just because my mother's words were so fresh in my mind.
According to Kibler, another challenge parents have with new ideas they learn about is the lack of consistency given to any one technique: “If there is no consistency, most strategies will fail. Consistency itself is one of the most important keys of parenting.”The expert added: “It is important to know that our heart and intuition will know what’s best for our child. Stress, which is often caused by trying to live up to what society thinks we should be doing, will create more hardship than if we do what we think is best. A good example of that is when society says if you don’t breastfeed your child, you are a bad mom, when often there may be moms that are uncomfortable with it for whatever reason, and alleviating the stress of trying to nurse a baby helps everyone become more relaxed and happy during what is a naturally sometimes difficult stage of life when we welcome a new baby. There are lots of healthy formula-fed children with parents that are great parents and they have been raised successfully into adulthood.”
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troufaki13 1 year ago
It's like on the planes, you put the oxygen mask on yourself first then on the child. If you are not ok how are you going to have a good relationship with your kid?
The internet provides a platform for diverse parenting opinions to be shared widely. We were wondering how exposure to such a variety of viewpoints can influence parents' decision-making processes. The family & relationship empowerment coach said: "There are systems for everything in life. When you start a career, you learn how to do something, going to the bathroom has a system, cooking a meal has a system, all parents need a system too, to create family harmony but many think it’s ridiculous to learn a better way."
"There are a lot of ideas out there for parents to access and implement. As I said before, though, often these ideas are tried, sometimes incorrectly without consistency, and failed. Leading to the idea that I hear so often, ‘I’ve tried everything, and nothing has worked!’ To which I usually ask, what have you tried and how long were you consistent with that strategy?"
Lastly, Celia Kibler added: "The problem with too much information is too much information. Parents don’t know what to believe, what to implement, and how to react or act, they feel judged by others and then start feeling like a bad parent and a failure. It can also lead to couples believing two different things and parenting in conflicting ways, causing a lot of chaos, stress, and confusion for their child, which is destructive to the relationship of the parents. It is best for parents that truly want to improve the cooperation of their children and help the harmony of their family to learn a complete system, not just utilize a few tips.”
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bob the builder 1 year ago
i actually agree with nesto. it’s important to be grateful for what you have. im not saying you need to serve your parent for the rest of your life to make up for it, nor am i saying this is okay for the parent to use against the child in an argument. all i am saying it that it is important for children to acknowledge that some people have less, and they need to practice gratitude.
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troufaki13 1 year ago
I swear, sometimes I think the only reason some people have children is to have endless content for their social media 😫
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Gustav Gallifrey 1 year ago
I think of the times my dad offered me guidance. And i wonder about how things would have been if i'd been smart enough to listen.
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hi_itsvalentina 1 year ago
my dad was a parent that purposely parented with fear and he thought he was the best dad ever. he used to purposely make me scared of him (he used to tell me most nights before bed he could read my mind and if I thought something bad he would know it and he would tell everyone what bad thing I was thinking about) because he thought it would make me more submissive to his rules. that was not helpful to my growth in any way
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Firstname Lastname 1 year ago
My mother wanted to use me as her therapist to talk about her negative emotions. Our relationship faltered partially due to that (amongst other things).
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Alexia 1 year ago (edited)
I feel this one. I used to wish to have guests at home because only then my mother would be nice to me (for the guests to see what a "good parent" she was). Otherwise, she'd constantly scream, insult and even slap me for minor mistakes (like, if I dropped a teaspoon on the floor).
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Nice Beast Ludo 1 year ago
Neither are doctors visits, injuries, crying, potty training, or any kind of trauma or moment where someone might make fun of them for the rest of their life
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James016 1 year ago
My son's iPad has access to 3 sites between 7am and 7pm. He actually found a loophole in the parenting controls. I added the specific URL's to some train videos on YouTube as they were embedded in one of the sites. However doing that actually opened up all of YouTube and he discovered that pretty quickly. It was quite surprising to see him watching other videos when I thought that only the specific ones were allowed.
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Brocken Blue 1 year ago
I wish abortion was such an easy option for everyone. Forced birth should be a crime, not the other way around 😡
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Heather Resatz 1 year ago
Oh man I heard it all as a kid .. continuously and repeatedly .. all the awful stuff that happened to her. While she was ignoring all of the awful stuff that was happening to me .. Thanks mom
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Say No to Downvoting 1 year ago (edited)
I’m not a slave either, though. I will ask my kids for help - they can learn skills that way (like making their own meals and cleaning their own spaces), I can spend time with them doing tasks together that I wouldn’t have if I did it by myself AND I can also, if they are lucky, motivate them to earn pocket money by doing jobs, which is also a valuable life lesson.
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Zenozenobee 1 year ago
When my son was 18 months, it became a nightmare to feed him. Every meal was an opposition game. We tried a lot of things until we realised he wanted to eat by himself. Meals became a mess but at least, he ate. When my daughter was 18months, it became a nightmare to feed her. We thought "aha, we already know this game". Well it was not the same game. She has sensory issues, some textures trigger her gaging reflex. She needed pieces to chew with her 2 teeth, purées didn't work for her, it still the same nowdays.
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Zedrapazia 1 year ago
When I was a baby, I tried to eat the cats and the dog. Whilst this in retrospect surely wasn't the best thing to let me do, as these animals could have retaliated against me, I now almost never get sick because neither cat nor dog paws are clean. Also, toddlers are still dumb so better don't leave anything out they might swallow.
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Heather Resatz 1 year ago
My MIL parented with thick layer of guilt .. and all of her kids have paid a high price for her cheap methods of control.
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BookFanatic 1 year ago
I (childfree) had this conversation with a coworker (mom of a 9) just this morning. Mom yelled at kid for something. Kid calmly pointed out Mom had it wrong. Mom realized it, and APOLOGIZED to the 9. I was blown away.
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Saint Tim the Godless 1 year ago
The best way to evaluate the life choices of an older person is by whether or not any of their adult children will still speak with them.
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XenoMurph 1 year ago
Some of these sound like angry teens annoyed at their parents for making a few mistakes. People without life experience of failing and then learning from and succeeding at stuff. Yes some of these are obvious, don't beat, starve, or rage at your kids, but most parents are good, kind, loving and flawed. Parents make mistakes. You will make mistakes. If we waited till we were all perfect the human race would die out.
similarly 1 year ago
As a person who has two adult children, this is my personal perspective. (1) kids are all different, and they don't come with an instruction manual, and we aren't born knowing how to be parents. You WILL make mistakes and do things wrong. Don't let it bother you too much. (2) Be the person you want your kids to be. Kids don't listen to what you say, they watch what you do. (3) Be careful of the lesson you think you're teaching your children. What you teach, and what they learn are two entirely different things. (4) Teens are rebellious. They will reject you and everything you stand for, and will probably hate you all through their teen years and blame you for everything they don't like about themselves. Don't take it too hard. It's a necessary part of establishing their identity as an individual, separate from their identity as your child. A lot of them gradually come back.
Roman Hans 1 year ago
"Kids do best living with married mom and dad." We're going for what's best for kids? Okay. Kids do best when prospective parents have to take a psychological test to determine if they're fit. When do we start?
ginshun 1 year ago
Kids do best when both mom and dad are present and involved in their life is more like it. That is irrefutable and there are lots of stats to back it up. Whether or not they are married is less important. Parents can have very little contact with each other and still be good parents, as long as they can agree on things and do a good job co-parenting.
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Julie Ann Al buzbeba 1 year ago
I feel that you need to let kids not always come out on top. When I was young and was involved in sports…we always had a big party at the end of the seasons. Maybe a BBQ, music…and trophies!! MVP and the like…. Now a days all the kids need to get a trophy. Why? Life isn’t like that. You don’t always win. You need to be able to experience that or your going to be in for one great big shock!
rokkabety813 1 year ago
Don't have a kid unless you want to be a parent, not a friend. Mike father did not want me. I have four half brothers. Mike father do not want me I have 4/2 brothers call my mom. He didn't want another child she was okay with that.My mom got married in my dad, Knowing he would never have another kid and she was okay with it... Until she wasn't and After eight years my father finally gave up After 8 years, my father finally gave up And hand me. And hand me. He was Done with trinity a parrot because of matter what approximate with my brothers, they were going to do. Done with trinity a parrot because of matter what approximate with my brothers, they were going to do what they wanted to do. Done with Trinity a parrot because of matter what approximate with my brothers, they were going to do what they wanted to do. Recognizing that I was very much like him and I'm giving contacts not trying to be braggadocious But it was very clear From a very young age I was Far more intelligent Both emotionally and intellectually. I am not just my brothers, but can you remember? My family including my father which he feared. Decide I was smart enough Decide I was smart enough Then I really didn't mean any kind of guidance. My mother Why is much more v kid who my dad had to Parent, I'm like she confuses her. How to pop her gas or use an ATM. My mother i My mother is Not somebody I Can handicap in any kind of little beyond niceties. My dad knew she Me me mirabel and terrified as a child because she was Extremely volatile and unpredictable. Shoe is Also passive aggressive to the extreme. 1 minute we would be giggling. The next nation issue would be raging me. And when I would ask why she angry and She would be ninety in angry while swimming doors. She would be 90 angry while swimming doors. So is a child. I never knew what I did to make her mad that I was scared To be around her without my dad. Most of my childhood was spending my room alone reading. Most of my childhood was spending my room alone reading. Set timer about nine and ten meeting car marks and out of war... And she read trashy romance. It was obvious I don't Save this braggadociously but for content.
rokkabety813 1 year ago
Don't Tell your future respouse you are OK with. Never having children. And then change your mind. And then change your mind. My dad had 3 kids from his first marriage. Did not want anymore in my mom's okay, with it... I'm telling you she wasn't anymore. I'm telling you, she wasn't anymore. So after thirteen years my dad finally gave End and add a kid so... End and add a kid, so.... Here I am that's child he didn't want... And my mom clearly just wanted to be your mom Because everybody Elves her age had kids But she is our last person you ever had a child. She Gay bottle passive aggressive to the extreme Did I have absolutely no feelings of a bond. Show my dad decided early I'm recognized I was I'm recognized I was The most like him of the four kids The most like him of the 4 kids and Because my mother behaved like a child. My dad nine more more like peers and buddies. He naughty a talk soot trash about my mother it was Ask against her... Good morning who called me understand conversations we were having about Marx or The Prince By the time I was in middle school By the time I was in middle school. Sr
rokkabety813 1 year ago
My father What is Mary before he made my mother? And I have 3 half brothers... They are 13,14,and 15 years older than me. My father kids, my mom Wasn't s**t without when they got married... Until she wasn't. 8 years later, much to my father's Failure he agreed and he I am. He did not want to parent another child. The only good thing about it is my father and I Where extremely similar to everyday from brains pathology to our intelligence... He did, however, wholly resentment because he found out I actually ended He did, however, wholly resentment because he found out I actually ended up being Do you only person in his entire life who was actually more intelligent... No just intellectually but emotionally. My Where am I are nothing alike. My father has always been Email successful of his siblings the oldest and the Email successful of his siblings, the oldest and Always a leader. Always a leader. My mother was more than happy to allow him My mother was more than happy to allow him to make all the measure financial and familiar decisions because My mother was more than happy to allow him to make all the measure financial and familiar decisions because She didn't want The responsibility of finances are gonna be like that i And my father was not age to have a other than absolute control so it worked for them. Honestly Honestly, my daily. My dad Was ne
Natalie Westby 1 year ago
Living vicariously through your children. Don't punish kids for not knowing things that you didn't actively teach them.
Sherry Marie Golden 1 year ago
Screaming "I'm gonna beat your a**" when your children act up. Either discipline your children properly and promptly or shut the heck up.
XenoMurph 1 year ago
Some of these sound like angry teens annoyed at their parents for making a few mistakes. People without life experience of failing and then learning from and succeeding at stuff. Yes some of these are obvious, don't beat, starve, or rage at your kids, but most parents are good, kind, loving and flawed. Parents make mistakes. You will make mistakes. If we waited till we were all perfect the human race would die out.
similarly 1 year ago
As a person who has two adult children, this is my personal perspective. (1) kids are all different, and they don't come with an instruction manual, and we aren't born knowing how to be parents. You WILL make mistakes and do things wrong. Don't let it bother you too much. (2) Be the person you want your kids to be. Kids don't listen to what you say, they watch what you do. (3) Be careful of the lesson you think you're teaching your children. What you teach, and what they learn are two entirely different things. (4) Teens are rebellious. They will reject you and everything you stand for, and will probably hate you all through their teen years and blame you for everything they don't like about themselves. Don't take it too hard. It's a necessary part of establishing their identity as an individual, separate from their identity as your child. A lot of them gradually come back.
Roman Hans 1 year ago
"Kids do best living with married mom and dad." We're going for what's best for kids? Okay. Kids do best when prospective parents have to take a psychological test to determine if they're fit. When do we start?
ginshun 1 year ago
Kids do best when both mom and dad are present and involved in their life is more like it. That is irrefutable and there are lots of stats to back it up. Whether or not they are married is less important. Parents can have very little contact with each other and still be good parents, as long as they can agree on things and do a good job co-parenting.
Load More Replies... Julie Ann Al buzbeba 1 year ago
I feel that you need to let kids not always come out on top. When I was young and was involved in sports…we always had a big party at the end of the seasons. Maybe a BBQ, music…and trophies!! MVP and the like…. Now a days all the kids need to get a trophy. Why? Life isn’t like that. You don’t always win. You need to be able to experience that or your going to be in for one great big shock!
rokkabety813 1 year ago
Don't have a kid unless you want to be a parent, not a friend. Mike father did not want me. I have four half brothers. Mike father do not want me I have 4/2 brothers call my mom. He didn't want another child she was okay with that.My mom got married in my dad, Knowing he would never have another kid and she was okay with it... Until she wasn't and After eight years my father finally gave up After 8 years, my father finally gave up And hand me. And hand me. He was Done with trinity a parrot because of matter what approximate with my brothers, they were going to do. Done with trinity a parrot because of matter what approximate with my brothers, they were going to do what they wanted to do. Done with Trinity a parrot because of matter what approximate with my brothers, they were going to do what they wanted to do. Recognizing that I was very much like him and I'm giving contacts not trying to be braggadocious But it was very clear From a very young age I was Far more intelligent Both emotionally and intellectually. I am not just my brothers, but can you remember? My family including my father which he feared. Decide I was smart enough Decide I was smart enough Then I really didn't mean any kind of guidance. My mother Why is much more v kid who my dad had to Parent, I'm like she confuses her. How to pop her gas or use an ATM. My mother i My mother is Not somebody I Can handicap in any kind of little beyond niceties. My dad knew she Me me mirabel and terrified as a child because she was Extremely volatile and unpredictable. Shoe is Also passive aggressive to the extreme. 1 minute we would be giggling. The next nation issue would be raging me. And when I would ask why she angry and She would be ninety in angry while swimming doors. She would be 90 angry while swimming doors. So is a child. I never knew what I did to make her mad that I was scared To be around her without my dad. Most of my childhood was spending my room alone reading. Most of my childhood was spending my room alone reading. Set timer about nine and ten meeting car marks and out of war... And she read trashy romance. It was obvious I don't Save this braggadociously but for content.
rokkabety813 1 year ago
Don't Tell your future respouse you are OK with. Never having children. And then change your mind. And then change your mind. My dad had 3 kids from his first marriage. Did not want anymore in my mom's okay, with it... I'm telling you she wasn't anymore. I'm telling you, she wasn't anymore. So after thirteen years my dad finally gave End and add a kid so... End and add a kid, so.... Here I am that's child he didn't want... And my mom clearly just wanted to be your mom Because everybody Elves her age had kids But she is our last person you ever had a child. She Gay bottle passive aggressive to the extreme Did I have absolutely no feelings of a bond. Show my dad decided early I'm recognized I was I'm recognized I was The most like him of the four kids The most like him of the 4 kids and Because my mother behaved like a child. My dad nine more more like peers and buddies. He naughty a talk soot trash about my mother it was Ask against her... Good morning who called me understand conversations we were having about Marx or The Prince By the time I was in middle school By the time I was in middle school. Sr
rokkabety813 1 year ago
My father What is Mary before he made my mother? And I have 3 half brothers... They are 13,14,and 15 years older than me. My father kids, my mom Wasn't s**t without when they got married... Until she wasn't. 8 years later, much to my father's Failure he agreed and he I am. He did not want to parent another child. The only good thing about it is my father and I Where extremely similar to everyday from brains pathology to our intelligence... He did, however, wholly resentment because he found out I actually ended He did, however, wholly resentment because he found out I actually ended up being Do you only person in his entire life who was actually more intelligent... No just intellectually but emotionally. My Where am I are nothing alike. My father has always been Email successful of his siblings the oldest and the Email successful of his siblings, the oldest and Always a leader. Always a leader. My mother was more than happy to allow him My mother was more than happy to allow him to make all the measure financial and familiar decisions because My mother was more than happy to allow him to make all the measure financial and familiar decisions because She didn't want The responsibility of finances are gonna be like that i And my father was not age to have a other than absolute control so it worked for them. Honestly Honestly, my daily. My dad Was ne
Natalie Westby 1 year ago
Living vicariously through your children. Don't punish kids for not knowing things that you didn't actively teach them.
Sherry Marie Golden 1 year ago
Screaming "I'm gonna beat your a**" when your children act up. Either discipline your children properly and promptly or shut the heck up.
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