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Viral Tumblr Thread Explores The Moral Dilemmas Of Trying To Lead An Ethically Correct Life
More and more, people are growing conscious of their consumer decisions, especially ones that have a moral aspect to them. We do mean refusing to buy things that have questionable origins or that have a story of abuse or animal rights infringement or the like attached to them.
And though refusing to support the evils of the world is an inherently good and responsible thing, the idea itself can become a serious burden—you can start questioning everything to such a degree that it will have an impact on your decision making. If not more.
Tumblr has been discussing this, with two users in particular raising and answering the question of morality and ethics in modern life.
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User rubyvroom went to Tumblr to ask a series of questions that pertain to modern morality and ethics when it comes to everything from spending money and hence supporting something in that regard.
One Tumblr user pointed out just how crazy it can get thinking about all of the things we ought to think about before doing anything
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She asked thought-provoking questions like “Can I watch a great film knowing the actresses in it were terrorized and mistreated the entire time?”, “Can I watch a football game knowing that the players are getting brain injuries right before my eyes?”, and “Can I listen to my favorite albums anymore knowing that the singers were all beating their wives in between studio sessions?”
She pointed out just how much we need to think before making such decisions, so as to avoid empowering all that is wrong with the world. And, just like the paragraph of questions implies, it can drive a person to overthink, at the very least.
Yep, the feeling is mutual… erm, OK, more like universal
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However, another user, surelytomorrow, shared their take on these things, effectively saying that people don’t, and shouldn’t be so hardcore when it comes to buying things.
However, another user pointed out how this is actually ‘activist guilt’ and how taken to an extreme it would be anything but good
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“On one hand, it’s a privilege to be able to choose to acknowledge these horrors or not–we’re going to acknowledge that privilege. On the other hand, I once attended a lecture […] and [the speakers] had a lot of opinions about what we could do to help […]. And she looked at me and told me not to fall into the trap of ‘activist guilt.’”
They go on to elaborate that we should do what we can, as it’s better than the two extremes—not doing anything at all, or doing everything and eventually giving up because it’s too much.
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And, as long as one has a choice to support good things, perfect, do it, but it doesn’t have to be absolute because no society is pure, and hence we need to make the best of it by doing the best that we can and not beating ourselves up for not being able to attain an unattainable ideal.
It all boils down to trying out best without going overboard because nothing is inherently pure
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The Tumblr thread soon went viral. Since being posted, it has managed to garner over 220,000 likes and reblogs.
You can check out the thread here, but before you go, let us know what you thought of this in the comment section below!
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Mewton’s Third Paw 4 years ago
It’s okay to cut yourself some slack and choose your battles, as long as you choose some battles you really believe in. Stand for something, not everything.
Pezor Zass 4 years ago
i'm stuck in this wrt a whole lot of things right now: the environment, social justice, covid, etc, etc. It's exhausting even trying to be reasonable without going overboard, and at the same time seeing how few people around me bother to even do the minimum makes it so much worse. I can double mask and social distance all i like, but when most people are running around like we're back to normal, even people who i know and who should know better, it feels pointless. I'm still going to do it, but i can't lose the depression that comes from knowing that my efforts aren't accomplishing anything.
N G 4 years ago
In many small ways, I can only rationalise that if my efforts aren't accomplishing anything, at least I'm not making things worse.
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Kendra Miller 4 years ago
I try to source everything I need, primarily second hand, and if that isn't possible or plausible, from a local seller. I'm saving stuff like clothes and furniture from ending up in a landfill. Some of our thrift stores are also for charity and I know it hasn't traveled very far from it's last home to mine. It's funny how in some ways being an environmentalist can save you a lot of money and improve your health. For example I for various reasons live part time with my parents and part time in town. When in town I walk, when with my parents, I carpool. It's been much better for me to walk 15min to the pet store with a cart then it would be to drive. I've made all the changes I can reasonably for where I am now.
LIL H 4 years ago (edited)
Second hand clothes is the way to go, buying vintage is so much better than buying fast fashion. Thank you for saving clothes from ending up in a dump
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InfectedVoice 4 years ago (edited)
F**k mate I can't even stick to being a vegan even though I volunteer at rescue shelters and love animals more than anything, I was raised eating meat and it's a big part of my diet and I am an extremely conflicted and flawed human for that one reason. I have stopped using Amazon, use minimal plastic, we try our best but what difference does it really make if I leave my big light on at night when we have tons of s**t being poured into the oceans every second, do what you can and you know if you're a good person or not. I have worn the same clothes for years, we buy second-hand where possible etc etc etc.
Brooke Weber 4 years ago
Eating meat doesn't cancel out all the good things you do for animals. Don't hate yourself for what you think is one "bad" thing and ignore all the other little positive things you do to contribute. I'm not a vegan (can u tell?) but your passion is admirable. I feel that how animals are treated in life is more important: buy from local farms or butchers if you can, not giant companies.
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Trisha Chase 4 years ago
The best way to combat this feeling is to focus on what you gain instead of your loss. I used to feel the same way about singers that turn out to be horrible people. Or movie directors/actors that turn out to be assholes. I stopped listening to their music and watching their movies. Yeah, it hurts at first, but emptying my cup allows better things to fill it.
Requiem 4 years ago
I still blast Michael Jackson in my cars amazing stereo for everyone to hear
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Aliquid A 4 years ago
I'm not sure of the logic behind some of this mindset. I understand "don't buy stuff made in a sweatshop", because you are supporting and helping that sweatshop continue. But lets say that I already own some music that it turns out was made by a morally repugnant artist... buying the music would allow my money to go to that person... I would be supporting them. But continuing to listen to the music that I already own (and bought before knowing this) has ZERO moral or ethical impact on the world. -- Humans have this weird trait of thinking that "evil" can pollute things. Just like people hesitating to buy a house where a horrific murder took place... because we somehow have this gut feeling that the house is now tainted by its history.
Penny Fan 4 years ago
If you don't buy from an outlet that uses sweatshops, and if enough people follow, then yes the outlet will eventually stop using sweatshops. However, the clothes are now prohibitively expensive for many people, and more importantly the people employed in the sweatshops now have no employment at all. Eventually something will come to take its place, but in the meantime hundreds/thousands of people have starved. As the OP states, the change needs to come from much, much higher than we can reach. We can stop voting for neo-liberal capitalists for a start...
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Leo Domitrix 4 years ago
I try so hard, but honestly, sometimes I want to just not think about it for five seconds. Like, can someone else do the river path cleanup just one week? Just one?....
Brooke Weber 4 years ago
I super relates to this post. As someone who's in a healthcare field, sometimes it feels like I am solely responsible for another person's well-being or rehabilitation. If I'm having a bad day--whoo, my patients' lives are ruined! It helps to step back and realize I'm not the only player in the world machine; I do the best I can to help, but can't feel responsible for the whole world.
Huddo's sister 4 years ago
That's precisely it, you do your best and hope others are doing the same. And if you are in a situation where you don't have to focus on saving someone's life, then you can talk about what you are doing to encourage others :)
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Kookamunga 4 years ago
If I stopped reading books, listening to music, appreciating art or enjoying films due to their makers lacking in moral character, I'd have a lot less to do.
Mewton’s Third Paw 4 years ago
It’s okay to cut yourself some slack and choose your battles, as long as you choose some battles you really believe in. Stand for something, not everything.
Pezor Zass 4 years ago
i'm stuck in this wrt a whole lot of things right now: the environment, social justice, covid, etc, etc. It's exhausting even trying to be reasonable without going overboard, and at the same time seeing how few people around me bother to even do the minimum makes it so much worse. I can double mask and social distance all i like, but when most people are running around like we're back to normal, even people who i know and who should know better, it feels pointless. I'm still going to do it, but i can't lose the depression that comes from knowing that my efforts aren't accomplishing anything.
N G 4 years ago
In many small ways, I can only rationalise that if my efforts aren't accomplishing anything, at least I'm not making things worse.
Load More Replies... Kendra Miller 4 years ago
I try to source everything I need, primarily second hand, and if that isn't possible or plausible, from a local seller. I'm saving stuff like clothes and furniture from ending up in a landfill. Some of our thrift stores are also for charity and I know it hasn't traveled very far from it's last home to mine. It's funny how in some ways being an environmentalist can save you a lot of money and improve your health. For example I for various reasons live part time with my parents and part time in town. When in town I walk, when with my parents, I carpool. It's been much better for me to walk 15min to the pet store with a cart then it would be to drive. I've made all the changes I can reasonably for where I am now.
LIL H 4 years ago (edited)
Second hand clothes is the way to go, buying vintage is so much better than buying fast fashion. Thank you for saving clothes from ending up in a dump
Load More Replies... InfectedVoice 4 years ago (edited)
F**k mate I can't even stick to being a vegan even though I volunteer at rescue shelters and love animals more than anything, I was raised eating meat and it's a big part of my diet and I am an extremely conflicted and flawed human for that one reason. I have stopped using Amazon, use minimal plastic, we try our best but what difference does it really make if I leave my big light on at night when we have tons of s**t being poured into the oceans every second, do what you can and you know if you're a good person or not. I have worn the same clothes for years, we buy second-hand where possible etc etc etc.
Brooke Weber 4 years ago
Eating meat doesn't cancel out all the good things you do for animals. Don't hate yourself for what you think is one "bad" thing and ignore all the other little positive things you do to contribute. I'm not a vegan (can u tell?) but your passion is admirable. I feel that how animals are treated in life is more important: buy from local farms or butchers if you can, not giant companies.
Load More Replies... Trisha Chase 4 years ago
The best way to combat this feeling is to focus on what you gain instead of your loss. I used to feel the same way about singers that turn out to be horrible people. Or movie directors/actors that turn out to be assholes. I stopped listening to their music and watching their movies. Yeah, it hurts at first, but emptying my cup allows better things to fill it.
Requiem 4 years ago
I still blast Michael Jackson in my cars amazing stereo for everyone to hear
Load More Replies... Aliquid A 4 years ago
I'm not sure of the logic behind some of this mindset. I understand "don't buy stuff made in a sweatshop", because you are supporting and helping that sweatshop continue. But lets say that I already own some music that it turns out was made by a morally repugnant artist... buying the music would allow my money to go to that person... I would be supporting them. But continuing to listen to the music that I already own (and bought before knowing this) has ZERO moral or ethical impact on the world. -- Humans have this weird trait of thinking that "evil" can pollute things. Just like people hesitating to buy a house where a horrific murder took place... because we somehow have this gut feeling that the house is now tainted by its history.
Penny Fan 4 years ago
If you don't buy from an outlet that uses sweatshops, and if enough people follow, then yes the outlet will eventually stop using sweatshops. However, the clothes are now prohibitively expensive for many people, and more importantly the people employed in the sweatshops now have no employment at all. Eventually something will come to take its place, but in the meantime hundreds/thousands of people have starved. As the OP states, the change needs to come from much, much higher than we can reach. We can stop voting for neo-liberal capitalists for a start...
Load More Replies... Leo Domitrix 4 years ago
I try so hard, but honestly, sometimes I want to just not think about it for five seconds. Like, can someone else do the river path cleanup just one week? Just one?....
Brooke Weber 4 years ago
I super relates to this post. As someone who's in a healthcare field, sometimes it feels like I am solely responsible for another person's well-being or rehabilitation. If I'm having a bad day--whoo, my patients' lives are ruined! It helps to step back and realize I'm not the only player in the world machine; I do the best I can to help, but can't feel responsible for the whole world.
Huddo's sister 4 years ago
That's precisely it, you do your best and hope others are doing the same. And if you are in a situation where you don't have to focus on saving someone's life, then you can talk about what you are doing to encourage others :)
Load More Replies... Kookamunga 4 years ago
If I stopped reading books, listening to music, appreciating art or enjoying films due to their makers lacking in moral character, I'd have a lot less to do.
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