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Moms! Wives! Women! Listen up! This post is for and about you.

If you’re tired of constantly meeting certain expectations, having to put your best foot forward, or fitting into a certain frame, remember that moms, wives, and women, too, can behave badly; if even just a little bit. This daily reminder comes from the ‘Moms Behaving Badly’ Instagram account, which, in their own words, is “saying what you are thinking.” Scroll down to find some of its best posts on the list below and take comfort in the fact that whatever daily aggravations you’re dealing with, you’re likely not alone.

Below you will also find Bored Panda’s interview with a licensed clinical psychologist and the Program Coordinator for the Clinical Mental Health Counseling Program at West Chester University, Dr. Lynn Zubernis, who was kind enough to answer a few of our questions about the power of online communities.

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    Started nearly a decade ago, in 2017, the ‘Moms Behaving Badly’ Instagram account has grown into an extensive gallery of nearly 14,000 posts with over two million followers. Clearly, many people either enjoy the content very much or can relate to it. (Or both.)

    Talking about how people benefit from groups they can feel a part of or relate to, a licensed clinical psychologist and the Program Coordinator for the Clinical Mental Health Counseling Program at West Chester University, Dr. Lynn Zubernis noted that the benefits any homogeneous group can bring lies in the fact that we all feel more comfortable being open with others when we believe we'll be understood and validated.

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    Discussing the impact of such accounts as ‘Moms Behaving Badly’, Dr. Zubernis noted that women especially can benefit from the support that homogeneous groups tend to bring.

    “Many women are reluctant to disclose their ‘real selves’ to others, fearing judgment or censure and accustomed to putting on a persona that's socially acceptable,” she told Bored Panda in a recent interview.

    “Research shows a strong relationship between finding social support and a more positive sense of well-being – the benefits are stronger for women. Women tend to self disclose more in a group of other women, and female friendships in general tend to be higher in self disclosure and strongly relied on for social support.”

    #8

    Funny quote about the challenges of adulting, highlighting humor commonly shared by moms and women.

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    Joseph Miller
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    2 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It also is very hard to plan / figure out 90ish meals a month. It's exhausting and also a bit excessive. Skipping meals is an option for some of it, but still a bit much.

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    “A study of women in an online fan community found that they valued the nonjudgmental culture, having a place to discuss mental health related experiences, and believed that the group had a positive impact on their personal relationships and overall sense of wellbeing,” the expert added.

    #9

    Funny tweet about moms brushing hair with a humorous twist on brushing ears and forehead.

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    Lilybdcsa
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    6 minutes ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom used to say, "it hurts to be beautiful", after taking my hair out of curlers and trying to pull a brush through the tangles. I'm old enough now that I gave myself a buzzcut. But I had to wait until after my mom died. Didn't need the side eye.

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    According to Dr. Zubernis, people can benefit not only from relating to other humans, but from relatable funny content online, too. “Seeking out relatable and amusing content is a form of leisure (something we engage in purposefully for fun as opposed to productivity). Leisure is good for us – it reduces stress, boosts creativity, stimulates our imagination, increases wellbeing, and connects us to others when we share the activity (including sharing funny memes). Laughter is also good for us, releasing endorphins which also help us manage stressors,” she explained.

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    #13

    Text humor about moms: "I'm looking for friends with benefits—swimming pools, boats, or vacation homes."

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    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    By that I mean useful skills: mechanic friend, electrician friend, doctor friend... Best benefits

    While relatable content is arguably one of the main things that attracts people to follow certain accounts or join certain communities, there are more factors that make them appealing to internet users.

    “They are easier to access than face-to-face communities for many people who don't have a schedule that allows them to meet up with neighbors at the corner tavern or join a local group of tennis players,” Dr. Zubernis noted.

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    “People who may be reluctant or feel they lack the social skills to enter face-to-face communities may find it easier to join online ones, with the benefit of some level of anonymity, if desired. Online communities are also not geographically limited – if you're looking for a group of like-minded people, you can find many of them if the community is a global one.”

    #16

    Funny quote about aging: "They say 40 is the new 30, 50 is the new 40. All I know is 9 PM is definitely the new midnight."

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    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went to bed around 7 last night. My partner asked , do you want pizza tonight? I said that's fine. Curled into a ball and woke up at 2am with a hungry cat. And pizza was never ordered either :(

    According to Dr. Zubernis, enabling connectedness is not only one of the main benefits, but one of the main roles, too, that online communities play in society nowadays.

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    “They, in part, replace the face-to-face communities that were prevalent when families tended to live in the same geographical area, and neighbors knew each other well—gathering at local pubs, playing checkers, or forming local softball teams, among other things.

    “Online communities provide the same sense of belongingness as face-to-face ones, providing a support system and sounding board for their members.”

    #21

    Funny tweet about aging and insight, highlighting a witty observation from a mom's perspective.

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    Robert Millar
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    3 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly and precisely correct. *Puts on glasses to read more BS from the new administration*

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    #23

    Text post about the joy of being a parent, highlighting a mom's pride in her child's kindness.

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    April Pickett
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    10 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kids usually behave well when you are not around. It's when they get home and the devil that you know comes out.

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    #24

    Tweet about nanny kids believing she works at Chili's, a humorous take on moms and women behaving badly.

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    Karina
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    31 minutes ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you dont know, Chili's saw this and made her a certificate to show the kids, like kids need a three layer backstory to belive you :P Stll very nice to do!

    #29

    Two women in humorous shirts; one reads "I get us out of trouble," the other "I get us into trouble." Moms behaving badly theme.

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    Hyacinth (Any pronouns)
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    42 minutes ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The hoodie I'm wearing right now says 'That's a terrible idea. What time?' and it's the same vibe as this picture.

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    #33

    Tweet from a mom suggesting a meet-up to scream and grab food, showcasing humorous mom behavior.

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    April Pickett
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    11 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't remember what I'm supposed to scream about, there's so much stuff, but I'd be happy to get food after.

    #37

    Text post humorously reflecting on judging early bedtimes now embraced by adults.

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    LonelyLittleLeafSheep
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    12 minutes ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It just recently dawned on me that the reason older folks eat so early is because if they eat later, they just have acid reflux all night.

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    #48

    Man in kitchen shouting humorously about dinner, capturing a funny moment with wives and moms.

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    April Pickett
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    11 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is something you can do: take out the trash, set the table, get the bread out, with her permission stir something in a pot, warn her about what you're planning to do then give her a kiss and a compliment.

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    #51

    Humorous quote about childhood memories with cousins, reminiscent of playful times.

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    Huddo's sister
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    3 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We were never close with our cousins (they were all older and lived at least 2 hours away) but I did this with my brother and sister and the nextdoor neighbours.

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    #55

    Funny tweet about moms and their perspective on parenting, featuring a humorous exchange regarding a father's role.

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    Spidercat
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    8 hours ago

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    Aah yes, the last acceptable bastion of misandry. Go fück yourself Laura's mum.

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    #64

    Humorous text about the difference between mirror and camera perception, often shared in mom humor contexts.

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    GhostlySnail (she/her)
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    3 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always look deceptively cute in MY camera, then two seconds later when someone takes a group photo I look like a garbage-eating goblin :0

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    #69

    Funny tweet about generational labels from 1980-1985, humorously pointing out the term "geriatric millennial."

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    Spidercat
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    8 hours ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1980 here 👋🏻, five different decades, two different centuries, two different millenniums and not even fifty yet.

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    #71

    Text humor about moms: "My favorite childhood memory is someone else cooking dinner for me every night."

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    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've got it pretty nice I'd say. I can cook dinner if it involves boiling pasta of some sort, otherwise my partner will do the actual cooking, I just do the chopping/prep. Works out pretty nice for me 😊

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    #74

    Funny tweet about buying unexpected items at TJ Maxx as a mom.

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    Robert Trebor
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    35 minutes ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's like those eastern bazaars, where merchants and kids are laying out all of their products as you wait to pay for the IJUSTNEEDTHISONETHING

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    #78

    Tweet humorously describes a fall ritual linked to moms: the low tire pressure light activating in vehicles.

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    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    58 minutes ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ooof. And then there's a cold snap and there's even less. Definitely considering buying a portable air compressor...

    #80

    Text image with funny quote about losing interest in conversations.

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    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    52 minutes ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a little rude...you could just leave. Also rude, but it's usually quieter. I just nope out if it's something I don't have to be doing, not like a boring meeting at work. Haven't worked up to noping out of work meetings yet. Yet.

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    #86

    Text post humorously comparing detectives' salary with friends' unpaid sleuthing skills; mocks moms' detective abilities.

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    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    54 minutes ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cough. Noooo.... Guess it depends on where you live, $40,101, is the starting salary for detectives where I live, with the average salary of $75,219.

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