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Everyone thinks they have a solid idea of what creates attractiveness, but the truth is that quite often our partners really like specific mannerisms and behaviors that we hardly think about on a day to day basis.
Someone asked “What minor things are very attractive on women, but they never seem to realize it?” and netizens shared their best examples. We also got in touch with the person who started the thread. So get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote your favorites and share your own experiences and suggestions in the comments section below.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Not having cosmetic surgery. Serious girl your lips are perfectly kissable without any lip filler.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My basic rule about cosmetic surgery - If people can tell you've had it, you shouldn't have.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) A sense of humor/willingness to be silly.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ahem, ladies. They don't mean women like me with my perverted sense of black humor.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) A combination of self confidence and genuine kindness is very attractive to me. It’s also more rare than you think.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Like, don't be the confidant HBIC, that's a huge turnoff. Be confident and strong, but laugh often!

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Bored Panda got in touch with the woman who asked the question in the first place, so we wanted to hear if there was a specific incident that caused her to turn to the internet. “My husband often compliments small things that I don't notice on myself and forget to appreciate them,” she shared.

“So I was curious what men think and usually find attractive about women, when it comes to very tiny things. Details matter, and I think women sometimes focus on the wrong things.”
#4

"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Being extremely passionate about their hobbies. .

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

THIS. A girl endlessly, passionately rambling about something she absolutely loves is the most attractive thing EVER. And I promise that for the right person, you're not "annoying" or "too much" for doing this.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Not sure about all women but my wife has so many that I daydream at work about coming home and seeing her cute little mannerisms over some silly thing.

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#6

"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Humility.

I hope it's attractive on men, too.

I can't abide braggarts, and the whole "boss babe" and "alpha male" b******t needs to die.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I worked for someone who always telling us how humble he was. He was not engaging in irony, because that concept was beyond him. He did have a great potential for humility because he had so much to be humble about.

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The thread ended up having hundreds of comments, so we also wanted to hear her opinion on why so many people ended up finding it engaging. “I think what made it popular was because the answers made people realize that small things we enjoy are making our lives happier and they were reminded of that by this post.”
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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Kindness.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Mental maturity.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As long as there is a little bit of immature humour in there too.

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#9

"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Just being so comfortable in their body. when they look like it's so natural to be relaxed without trying to flirt or worry about their appearance. smiling for no reason. a posture that is welcoming, inviting.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love that being welcoming and inviting is attractive and I hate being that person (yet here I go) but for myself (I absolutely don't claim to speak for all women) I sometimes hesitate to be those things. I've heard several people (male and female) complain that someone else was clearly interested in them, even if they said no, because they invited the attention. It's happened to me too, while I was standing next to my partner, and all I meant to be was polite. I even checked with them and the other people we were with and nope, I apparently wasn't being inappropriate, just nice. It's such a slippery slope. The only way I ever figured it out was to ask if they wanted to go out on a date. It's hard to misinterpret "no". At least it shouldn't be. I may get downvoted here, but I'm not arguing these things aren't attractive, just giving another perspective on why you might not see them as often.

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We also wanted to hear if she had any personal examples and favorite comments. “An example could be an earring, a small pearl earring can be very attractive for some and shows the soft beauty of a woman. My favorite I think was a "passion for hobbies", it is always lovely to see someone genuinely enjoying what they do, regardless of gender.”
#10

"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Messy buns & up-do’s. 🤩 Women just be tossing that hair up in about three tenths of a second to get it out of their way… meanwhile I’m sitting there with my jaw on the floor. 🥵.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Them genuinely having fun and making derpy faces that makes for ugly photos. Women, that is the face we fall in love with, not your highly edited instagram photos that took at least 50 tries to get right.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My ex would send me random photos of her pulling silly faces every now and then, with some silly text, like 'my impression of you pooping' and 'drinking my mums tea'.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Honestly just casual women, not all dolled up. I think sweat pants and an old T-shirt with hair tied up in a messy pony tail looks more attractive than fancy dress, makeup and perfect everything. Still look beautiful dressed up, but I think the messy look shows they’re confident in themselves and don’t care what others think at that time. It feels
More vulnerable and like they trust you enough to see them with their imperfections.

Oh and sometimes quirky teeth it’s fun seeing a smile with imperfect teeth.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am both: some days are sweat pants and old t-shirt days and some days are dressed up days. Us women have layers. Comfy layers.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Pale skin. I f*****g hate fake tan with a passion. Love the ancestry you are a part of. If you are Irish love the fact that you are Irish. Pale skin is gorgeous.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I sincerely hope the same goes for dark skin, i.e. no lighteners. I'm definitely here for the love the skin you're in message though.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Baseball cap with the ponytail pulled out the back. Men’s dress shirt and pajama bottoms in the morning. A tiny wisp of hair it comes out near the ear that seems a little bit messy, but just fits perfectly on your face. And lastly, the small gap between the end of your skirt and the top of your boots. That’s small amount of skin that doesn’t really, have a traditional sexy value just look so damn good on you.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is amazingly specific - it sounds like this person is talking about their own partner, which is lovely. I hope they share it with them.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) I have to throw wearing glasses out there…? I get 3X the male attention when I wear my glasses vs my contacts.

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2 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or maybe you just notice it more when you wear glasses because your contact lenses are the wrong strength.

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#16

"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Idk what it is but I love a woman’s neck line, clavicles, and shoulders. I think that’s where a women’s femininity really shines. Audrey Hepburne is a great example. My ex used to wear this shoulderless sweater and it would drive me crazy.

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#17

"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Practicing what they preach, being accountable for their actions, and a lot of the stuff that they tell men is attractive like that.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) High Ponytail.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) When they do that little half-smile while lost in thought or when they unconsciously tuck a strand of hair behind their ear — pure magic

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#20

"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Wrinkles are sexy for me especially a bit of crow's feet around the eyes.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Crow's feet around the eyes show that a person has laughed honestly a lot in life.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Braided hair.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Legitimately hilarious sense of humor.

Being really passionate about hobbies.

Being able to hold thoughtful conversations and keep the talking going.

Ability to flirt without being awkward, playing hard to get, or coming across as someone who collects men.

Confidence.

Hoodies/pajamas/baggy t-shirts. Just...reminds me of lazy mornings.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Am I the only one who gets irritated by people trying to answer ALL of the question? Put your top one or two, then leave air for others ffs...

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) A wide variety of music tastes. I love music and love talking about it with ppl.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I listen to anything opera, rock, pop, country but now put my foot down at baby shark due to dd

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Freckles.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I taught two sisters, one covered with freckles and the other without a single one. They were referred to at school as Freckled and Freckless.

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#25

"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Hygiene. My wife uses this body spray after she gets out the shower and every time I smell it it’s like the first time. Nails manicured not overly long but she’s leaning into a more pointed tip because you know…I like it….

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Neither body spray nor manicures have anything to do with hygiene. Wanna try again?

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) For me hands, they are beautiful, on the personality side good humor.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Hobbies. It’s nice when they have interests that can spark conversation.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A lot of men ask questions like "What should I talk about with a woman to get her interest?" My reply is "If you don't have a common topic you can spend hours talking about, don't even bother."

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Personally, I like a focused woman, I don't mean the serious woman but I mean when she is trying to get a job done, like solving a math, trying a open a tin with a really tight lid, she is focused on "How do I get 5his done?" that's what I mean.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Solving a math? And on another article recently a sum was called a 'number sentence'. Is this what the language has come to?

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Ankle bracelets.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Confidence in yourself to not require validation. Validation is just icing on top of your confidence.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Purse straps that go between their breasts.

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Imperfections.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Messy hair…. Yes….

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) I love a blind a*s girl that needs glasses.

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A woman's strong will and sensual sexuality are attractive as hell. I love you, ladies.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Possibly the best (or strangest) compliment I have ever received in my life. "You wear your sex like other women wear their perfume"

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#36

Hip dips

Sun dresses

Confidence

Enjoying your hobbies

Engaging in the conversation.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What are hip dips? *scurrying off asking Auntie Googula and Uncle Wiki....*

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Chub. I like it when girl has a belly. It seems to be one of the biggest insecurities out there. It saddens me. I go crazy when people are confident in their bodies.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Haha I read it as "Club". And I was confused "so I just need to go to a club?" Lol.

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Being soft spoken.

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Black converse shoes .

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Work uniforms.

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