Some seemingly innocent things can be surprisingly bothersome, as anyone who’s ever seen a KitKat bar being bitten into or a pizza being sliced in a weird way can attest. These are just a couple of examples of what can cause the vein on people’s foreheads to pop or at least make them want to fix whatever it is that’s bothering them.
An abundance of such ‘Mildly Annoying’ things can be found on the subreddit titled exactly that. With nearly three thousand members, it is home to a vast collection of images covering all sorts of irritating things and situations. Scroll down to find them, but view them at your own risk, as they might make you quite annoyed just by looking at them.
To learn more about what annoys us and why, Bored Panda turned to a neuroscientist and senior lecturer at Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute, Alicia A. Walf, Ph.D., who was kind enough to answer a few of our questions. You will find our interview in the text below.
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I Just Wanted A Piece Of Tape
In over a decade of its existence—since 2012, to be exact—the ‘Mildly Annoying’ community has covered nearly every and any annoying situation there is. They might seem like minor inconveniences to some, but they can get on people’s nerves nevertheless. Moreover, what doesn't seem the slightest bit frustrating to some might make others’ blood boil.
“There are many individual differences in what presses our buttons enough to annoy us,” a neuroscientist and senior lecturer at Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute, Alicia Walf, told Bored Panda in a recent interview. “In general, annoyances are unpleasant stimuli that are unpredictable and uncontrollable and persist for some time. There is context-dependency on what annoys us as well, making annoyance a volatile and hard to anticipate emotion.
“Unlike anger, in which the same things or situations are likely to produce it time and again, the same thing can be simply unpleasant one day, but then be extremely annoying the next.”
Mistaking A Hearing Aid For Fake AirPods
And why is anyone investigating the branding of someone's chosen ear bud? How little do you have going on that this is a concern to you?
Either Let It Finish, Or Hit "Clear," You Mouthbreathers
“It is perplexing when seemingly insignificant things produce annoyance in us,” Dr. Walf pointed out. “As a general rule, we focus on the bad. Given the limited attention we have to process everything going on inside us and in our complex and dynamic environments, our brain’s default is to focus on what might be harmful or even out of place, a mistake that we frustratingly cannot fix.
“When we are stressed, our attention is quickly refocused on what is causing the stress because it may be something that can seriously harm us. It might be a similar process for annoyance. We can’t help but notice that thing that is unpleasant so we focus our attention on it. Annoyance can come from this because we cannot change the situation and we do not see an end in sight.”
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Can't Remove This Label
Prof. Walf emphasized that it’s difficult to predict what annoys most people and why, but there are ideas of potential reasons for these individual differences. “Some of it may be due to personality—some people are more prone to react with negative emotions like anger and annoyance. Some of it may be due to present emotional states; for example, individuals feeling irritable (maybe because of lack of sleep) are more prone to annoyance.”
So Close
My The Time I Got This Packaging Open I Also Needed A Xanax. One Little Pill!!!
Postman Gives A Zero F**ks
“Another major contributor is stress,” the neuroscientist continued. “Stress refocuses our attention on our environment, which may include something annoying. With stress, the modulation of the limbic and threat regions by the frontal cortex breaks down and our reactions are more driven by the threat and limbic systems than by the higher-level cognitive processing of the frontal cortex.
“Given that there is a relationship between stress and annoyance, feeling annoyed at even minor things might be due to greater activation in these threat and limbic regions without this oversight from the frontal cortex that is typical. Just as much as stress can amplify annoyances, studies have shown that exposure to annoyances also causes stress.”
People Who Do This
This Isn't How You Use A Bookcase!
That Is My Package. That Is Not My House
It’s arguably safe to say that we all have pet peeves, and they seemingly get even more bothersome when we’re already stressed. Survey Monkey revealed what are some of the most common pet peeves when it comes to sharing a home and working in the office. The most annoying thing in the former environment is leaving common spaces messy, with as much as 63% believing so. Others include not taking out the trash, talking loudly on the phone, or taking food without permission with 45%, 30%, and 24% respectively admitting to being aggravated by such situations.
When it comes to work, people are seemingly most annoyed about colleagues complaining about their work or fellow co-workers (53%). It is followed closely by managers who don’t give credit where credit is due (50%), colleagues who are late to meetings (33%) or who fail to recognize your contributions (31%).
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Loud chewers and sources of similar sounds are also among popular pet peeves that could drive a person completely nuts. Someone enjoying their sandwich with intense lip smacking or repetitive clacking of the tongue is as close to torture as one gets to certain people. Especially those with misophonia—a disorder which entails having a decreased tolerance to certain sounds and sensations related to them.
According to researchers from King’s College London and University of Oxford, nearly one-fifth—18.4% to be exact—of people in the UK find everyday sounds, such as chewing or loud sniffing, difficult to bear.
There’s No Exit In The Maze Just Look Closer
These Lights Are Not Lined Up
The Worst Cork Material... Ever!
I've had this happen more than once and it is infuriating! I ended up screwing in a screw then used pliers to pull up the screw and eventually the cork 😅
NPR correspondent Joe Palca pointed out that in order for things to be annoying they have to tick three boxes: they have to be unpleasant without being physically harming, unpredictable and intermittent, and persist for an uncertain period of time. All of these combined ought to make whatever ticks the boxes quite aggravating for sure. (It’s pretty safe to say that a loud chewer sitting at a nearby table would checkmark them all.)
I Guess It's A Pattern?
This Guys Headphone Situation
So I've Been Ordering Pizza At This Small Local Place For Years, They Got A New Guy Last Week
Joe Palca also emphasized that there is no universal theory when it comes to annoyance, as the things that irritate people vary from person to person; they are also so oddly specific, there can be a million different ones.
Some of the correspondent’s personal favorite ones, which he revealed to the American Psychological Association, included people getting annoyed by someone picking lint off their clothes and people not counting the change into a person’s palm.
The Tube Cap Lacks The Puncture Spike For This Glue
For me it is when you take the top off the glue and it starts oozing out and you haven't even applied pressure to the tube, so then you get blobs of glue, you wipe the extra off and then get the string effect .
The Way These Windows Were Installed
Bought A New Pen, Only Had A Couple Pages Worth Of Ink In It
Probably not deceitful. More likely a mistake at the factory when some ink inserting machine needed to be refilled or a misfire as the plastic tubes zipped through. The cost of the ink is miniscule compared to lost business from a brand name being trashed. I've seen super cheap pens that still gave more ink than that but they had a really short ink tube.
Load More Replies...I recently invested in a fountain pen. Lovely. My handwriting has improved, too. And I love doing the refills. Also, all these colour choices you have when choosing an inkpot.
I was forced to use fountain pens for five years at school. Did absolutely nothing for my handwriting, which if anything was even worse than with a ballpoint or the roller-balls that became popular at that time. And ink-fights were everyday occurrences...
Load More Replies...Last time I did that the company sent me 5 lbs of a variety of their pens. Gave them away by the handful!
Load More Replies...Maybe you picked up the test pen that everyone had already doodled with?
Is that a Zebra pen? I think that's the same kind that I buy by the dozen. I used to love them, but now they're breaking really easily. Must have cheapened the materials ☹️
I thought it looked like a Zebra, too. I used to love those, very reliable and a good size. I'm sad to hear about the quality now.
Load More Replies...ugh happened to me too. had this cute pen in foam and second day of writing? gone
I've gotten pens like that from my bank. Not THAT bad, but still.
Yeah, well, ink is really expensive. The company probably saves a nickel on every 5,000 orders this way.
Typical of dollar-store pens and markers. LOOK like a fantastic deal - but they're DESIGNED to hold about 1/3 of the ink of the regular-priced ones.
I have a couple of old Zebra pens just like this one. Can't even find refills for the damn things anymore.
Someone used and then returned it, then you bought it, thinking it was unused.
Whether it’s someone’s loud breathing or a picture of tiles so uneven, they must be destroyed, pet peeves and similar annoyances can have a negative effect on a person. They typically cause negative emotions or even stress, which is known to have an adverse effect on one’s physical and mental health.
Healthline pointed out that stress can activate the “fight or flight” response in one’s body and cause numerous problems, such as headaches, heartburn, high blood pressure, weakened immune system, insomnia, and others.
The Varying Lengths Of These Lines
That is because whoever was painting was too lazy to stretch a string across the ends so they would all be the same. I used to stripe parking lots for the city. This is just somebody not caring about their work.
I Just Wanted Some Coke
It's Supposed To Be The Same Item But The Photos Have Different Numbers Of Shelves
Dr. Walf suggested that one of the most helpful ways to deal with such annoyances is stopping the stress-annoyance cycle. “Repeated stress and unchecked and persistent negative emotions that come with it like irritation and annoyances can minimize well-being. It may be very useful to reach out to mental health professionals if stress or these annoyances over minor and major situations are negatively impacting you regularly.”
“Additional approaches to take are to reduce stress using whatever you have in your well-being toolbox: deep and focused breathing, mindful techniques to refocus attention away from what is causing stress or annoyance, reaching out to someone else. Distractions and reappraisal of how intense or negative the situation may be can help temper those feelings of annoyance. Reminding yourself that, as annoying as the situation may be, ‘this too shall pass’,” she added.
This Temperature Control On My Slow Cooker
The Toilet In The Local Brewery
This Shelf Gives Me Anxiety
If going through similar torturous lists is something you enjoy, we have some more ready for you here at Bored Panda. Click here for a collection of mildly infuriating images or check out some mildly uncomfortable pictures right here. Don’t miss the chance to also view what annoyances drive these internet users crazy.
My Box Of Tissues Hasn't Been Cut Properly, Meaning That I Either Carefully Pull Apart Each Tissue (Using Both Hands), Or End Up With A Handful Of Confetti
Can I Be Bothered Bending Down To Swap Them? Had To In The End. Couldn’t Stand It
Yum! Sourdough... Hole?
The 6's Are Not The Same
Opened Up A Pack Of Skittles And Saw This
The Way The Levels Of Spicy Heat Are Arranged
Opened My Cabinet To Find My Favorite Bowl Randomly Split In Half
The Silver Foil Didn't Come Off The Milk Thing
Someone Scratched Of The WiFi Sticker In The Cafe To The Point Where U Can Barely Read It
Bird Poop On The Garden Hose Nozzle
Conceptually the same as scissors in one of those damned blister packs.
Who Are These People Targeting? Who The Hell Has $500 In Subscriptions They Just Aren't Using?
When I would go grocery shopping an employee was walking around with a clipboard getting folks to sign up for a Visa card for the store. He is always so nice and we would talk whenever we saw him. So one day he comes up to us and asks again. I asked Do you have one?? He got sheepish and said No. I said when you get yours then I will get one. LOL!!
Cannot Unsee In The Bathroom At Work. Spot The Tile!
The Tiles From My Wall To My Floor
It's Not A Square
The Larger The Pack, The More Expensive It Gets
Condescending retailers don't expect customers to be able to work it out.
Lifesaver Without The One Thing It’s Supposed To Have
Maybe the website refuses them to be posted for the millionth time this year?
Load More Replies...Does anyone ever read the headline before commencing to comment on every picture? Regardless of the issue or why or how to fix it, the pictures are still mildly annoying. _That_ is the point.
"Mildly annoying" is in quotation marks in the title. It maybe more or less to different people.
Load More Replies...These weren't problems, they were just mildly annoying pictures.
Load More Replies...I have a publisher brother-in-law, whose books are notoriously full of misprints. For example the last book has author Upfield. Throughout the book it appears as Upfield, except in one place where he appears as Mr Upheld.
Maybe the website refuses them to be posted for the millionth time this year?
Load More Replies...Does anyone ever read the headline before commencing to comment on every picture? Regardless of the issue or why or how to fix it, the pictures are still mildly annoying. _That_ is the point.
"Mildly annoying" is in quotation marks in the title. It maybe more or less to different people.
Load More Replies...These weren't problems, they were just mildly annoying pictures.
Load More Replies...I have a publisher brother-in-law, whose books are notoriously full of misprints. For example the last book has author Upfield. Throughout the book it appears as Upfield, except in one place where he appears as Mr Upheld.