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Person Asks For The Craziest Stories Of When Mild Symptoms Proved To Be Serious, 30 People Deliver
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I think most of us at least once have googled symptoms when we felt something that we never had before or different than we are used to, such as intense headache, stomach ache or pain in the lower back. And after analyzing articles, we get scared, as almost everything leads to serious illness that may result in death. However, usually, when we visit the doctor, we get some relieved news that it’s nothing serious.
Well, unfortunately, sometimes these mild symptoms may turn into serious life or death situations. Speaking about that, one Reddit user recently started a thread asking doctors to share situations when patients came in with mild symptoms and thought that it was nothing serious, but turned out to be in near-death conditions.
Cases like this are rare, but it may be a reminder to visit doctors regularly, get checkups and take care of our health.
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#1
NAD, but this story is about an "elderly but not ancient" relative.
Background: I had a hysterectomy due to general uterus shenanigans in 2019. My surgeon is awesome, I had a great surgery & easy peasy recovery.
So one day this relative calls me out of the blue and says "what was the name of the OBGYN who did your hysterectomy?" and I tell her, and ask why, knowing that this person has been through menopause for a long a*s time.
"Wouldn't you know it, I got my damn period this morning! I thought I was done with this s**t!"
Well my friends, that reaction of "oh hell no, I'm done with this s**t" turned out to be a life saver, because what she thought was just menopause being weird turned out to be endometrial cancer caught SUPER early. She had a hysterectomy, one round of radiation, and is cancer free 3 years on.
Bleeding after you've been through menopause is SUSPICIOUS AS HELL, yinz.
Libstak 1 year ago
Same, but I was spared the chemo as well. 10 years menopause and then bleeding is a huge red flag, not to be ignored. Also, insist on an internal ultrasound, my pap smear came back all clear, if my doctor had been less thorough I might have been alot worse off. She is a gem though, she assumes nothing and checks everything.
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#2
Paramedic, not a doctor. A woman called 911 requesting an ambulance. When I and my brand new rookie EMT got there, she complained of just not feeling well and having a mild headache. I did my assessment and everything looked perfectly normal except it seemed she might have a cold with a headache. I didn't think she needed to be seen in an ER and told her so. She wavered back and forth and then finally agreed to sign a refusal. I sent my rookie partner out to get the clipboard but he pulled me aside and told me he thought she needed to go. I asked him why and the best he could do was "I just have a feeling." So I finally relented and told him, "Fine, your patient; I'm driving."
A few blocks down the road he leaned up front and asked me to make it hot (lights & sirens). I rolled my eyes but did what he asked.
At the ED the grumpy triage nurse came up to me a few minutes later and wanted to know why the hell we transported a perfectly healthy woman with a cold and headache. I just nodded toward my partner and said, "You'll have to ask him."
Anyway, we left, but a few hours later we were at the same ED and that same nurse came up to me and told me the news. Because of the headache the doc had ordered a CT scan, and lo and behold there was a dissecting aneurism right next to her brainstem. She had been shipped out to the trauma center by helicopter and was undergoing emergency surgery. I learned later that she survived without deficits.
Holy c**p. If I'd had a more experienced partner that day, she would have ended up dead and it would have been my fault.
Squirrelly Panda 1 year ago
Not the paramedic's fault. The headache may or may not have been related to the aneurysm. No way to really know with most aneurysms without scanning/testing.
Moreover, Bored Panda got in touch with the author of this thread and she kindly agreed to shed light on the motivation behind the creation of this discussion.
“I posed this question because ironically enough, I have more anxiety about going to the doctor than is probably healthy,” she shared. “I avoid doctors like it's my job and ignore symptoms more than I should.”
The author emphasized that she needs to remind herself not to do that every so often and these stories are definitely a good motivation to visit doctors more often and pay attention to symptoms more.
#3
I was the patient. We had gone to India for a wedding (absolutely incredible!) And naturally, our north American digestive tracts, everyone suffered from "Delhi Belly". I was hit harder than most (almost didn't get on our flight home because I was worried about having to use the bathroom if the seatbelt sign was on or if there was a line up). Ultimately got home. Everyone in the group (about 12 people) were feeling better, but I was still having some minor gastro issues. Nothing crazy, still working and living normal life. Went to a walk in because my family doc couldn't see me for at least 2 weeks. Walk in doc ordered some tests and prescribed an antibiotic. I got a call the test came back negative, but if I was still feeling unwell, to come back (this was like 2 weeks after my first visit). I debated, but decided to go back, turns out they never ran the e coli test, so they run that again. Doc said she'll call me when the results were in.
I didn't hear back, but my now MIL (a doc) caught wind I was still dealing with gastro issues and asked if she could call the lab to get my results. I said "sure, that would be great".
In the meantime, a friend is visiting from out of town and I wanted to show her a good time, so we went out dancing. At some point in the evening my now MIL had called me something like 17 times, leaving voice mails and texts to get to the hospital asap. Don't go home to change, don't get public transit (IE cab because it'll be faster), just go STRAIGHT to the hospital.
The nurses were absolutely FLOORED the e coli hadn't gotten into my blood stream (this was about a month after our trip). Apparently my urine test came back absolutely overrun with an antibiotic resistant e coli.
Best part, the walk in doc fiiiiiiinally called me about a week after my hospital visit telling me she has the results and I should come see her. My MIL happened to be standing beside me when I received the call and asked to talk to the doc. As a teacher at the university here, the walk in doc knew who she was and had to walk my MIL through my case to identify ALL the ways she let me down as a patient (including asking me to come into the clinic instead of rushing to the hospital).
I'm totally fine now and remain forever grateful to my now MIL!
#4
My dad woke up with severe back pain one morning after not doing anything strenuous the weeks/days leading up to it. My mom flipped her s**t and finally put her foot down that he had to go to the doctor after him putting off going to a doctor for years even for a routine check-up.
That appointment showed a broken rib from a huge tumor on his spine, along with tumors around his buttocks/pelvis and upper back. Diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer. 5 years and 100 treatments later he’s still kicking it.
#5
I don't know if it counts but I got bit by a bat and thought I should go get the rabies vaccine right away and my wife said "it's expensive, see if you even get sick" and I almost listened to her advice until I looked up what the first symptoms would be to know what to watch for and everything was pretty unanimous once symptoms start it has a 100% kill rate and if you get bit it's non negotiable you should go for the vaccine ASAP.
Now, speaking about whether sharing these stories can raise awareness about the importance of taking mild symptoms seriously, the author emphasizes that stories like this in fact can help to raise awareness to listen to your gut. “In a lot of the comments I read, patients were definitely aware something was ‘off’ but couldn't put their finger on what exactly ‘it’ was,” she adds.
#6
I don’t know about haunting me for life but here’s one I’ve never forgotten. I worked as a CNA in a dementia unit.We had a wheelchair bound gentleman who started pulling the fire alarm set into the wall of the hallway by his room. Because this was a nursing home, every time that alarm was set off the fire department responded… quickly. Our gentleman started pulling it several times a day and often a few times in the evening as well, all day, every day. It didn’t take long for the fire department to lose any sense of humor they might have had about the situation and start leveling fines on the facility. Progressively bigger ones as time passed and our friend continued his trick in spite of numerous attempts to stop him. The staff was written up and upper management was going apes**t.We just didn’t have enough staff to have someone constantly monitor a single patient. Finally, someone thought to ask this gentleman WHY he was pulling the fire alarm. His reply was astonishing… he pointed to the dammed thing and very reasonably explained “ it says PULL “. It did, in big red letters three inches high. A simple piece of masking tape over the instructive word solved a huge problem. People with dementia aren’t exactly themselves anymore but they’re certainly far from stupid.
#7
I’m a nurse, not a doctor, but we had a guy come in years ago asking for a medication to “help him stop sweating.” He said he had had a sore throat for about a week, went to a walk in clinic, was diagnosed with strep throat and put on antibiotics, but he was so sweaty and just wanted a break from it. He looked pale and was indeed sweaty, so we took him back and ran some blood tests. His white blood count was the highest I’ve ever seen and he was diagnosed with leukaemia. We sent him to another hospital for immediate treatment, but we were informed he died literally hours after arriving. Incredibly sad, I couldn’t believe it.
Finally, the author shares that she did not expect this post to blow up the way it did. She noted that the answers that she has read were intense. “The ones that stuck out the most are any of the ones that involved kids. It's always awful when something happens to children, but I especially can't imagine bringing your child in for something basic and routine and having your entire world flipped on you in an instant.”
#8
Hubby went to a&e with shoulder ache ( he had wrenched it a few days before) they sent him home with codiene & said to go back if it didn't improve. It didn't so 3 days later we returned this time they x-rayed showed nothing so they did an ECG, within seconds they were racing round inserting cannulas etc. Blue lighted him to another hospital straight into the cath lab where they removed 5 clots from one side of his heart & a massive clot ( widow maker ) from the other, inserted 2 stents. Cardiologist admitted he doesn't know how hubby survived said he probably had a minute or two to live. 12 years later he's still here ( after surviving another heart attack 4 years after the 1st- at Donington Monsters Of Rock Festival). One lucky man & one grateful wife
Big Chungus 1 year ago
My dad survived two widow maker heart attacks and another heart attack a couple months ago. The first two he stayed home until the pain passed, idk how but he did. The second time my mom and I were fed up and called 911.
#9
Veterinarian, not MD.
During my internship, a woman came in with her 6-year-old labrador around 1am.
Lab lady: "My dog needs an ultrasound."
Me: "Oh? What are you seeing that you're concerned about?"
Lab lady: "She left the house to go out on the porch this evening, and then she just laid down."
Me: "Is she eating and drinking ok? Any other issues?"
Lab lady: "Everything else is fine. But something is wrong with her."
Me "Well, how about we start with some x-rays?"
X-rays are taken - there's a very obvious splenic mass.
Me: "Ma'am, your dog needs an ultrasound."
Long story short, it was lymphoma in the spleen. They did everything they could and bought her another 10 months or so. Very good dog and devoted owner.
Tabitha 1 year ago
Just like our animals tune into we, we tune into out animals. If one of my pets suddenly does something way out of character, I know immediately that something is up—-not necessarily something wrong, but something unusual—-and it needs to be checked out. This Dog Mom just knew her dog needed help, long before the vet even had a clue.
#10
Not a doctor but worked as a security supervisor at a hospital.
Man and his wife came in. Man is feeling unwell thinks he has like a flu or a cold or something. I can't remember exactly what. Nothing serious but they don't have a family doctor, so they came to ER.
Man gets in line for triage and his wife leaves to go park the car after dropping him off.
Like I said I'm not a doctor but how it was explained to me was part of this mans digestive tract just... exploded? Because he sits down and within 30 seconds he's slouched over and dead.
My guards respond, realize he's not responding or breathing and pull him onto the floor and start doing compressions. EMS and nurses quickly join us from the back and rush him to a triage room but whatever happened wasn't recoverable.
Wife got back into the ER just expecting him to be hanging out in line. Instead are met with my guards telling her that her husband is dead in the back with staff trying to bring him back.
Like I can't even imagine how that is from the wifes perspective. She leaves with her husband basically fine and wasn't gone for more than five minutes and comes back and he's just gone.
I was on break at the time and missed the situation but had to come back and deal with some shell shocked guards.
KnightOwl 1 year ago
My bf died 3 months ago and it was very similar. He came home from work, chatted to me and his mum and played with our kitten for about 10 minutes. He said he was tired so he made a cup of tea and went into the bedroom to play x-box for a while to de-stress (he was a carpenter so was often exhausted after work.) 15 minutes later his mum peeked her head round the door to ask if he was hungry and he was slumped over dead in his gaming chair. We still don't know what caused his death and likely never will. I've never experienced shock like that, and still can't quite believe it.
RaroaRaroa 1 year ago
This and the guy with leukemia. Some people avoid going to the doctor for various reasons. My main reason is to not look like a hypochondriac, but I still get things checked more than most probably. My husband took the p**s about the difference in the size of my insurance claims and his once. Well pardon me for wanting to live as long as I can and not be that person lying on their death bed saying "I wish I'd seen the Dr sooner".
Unaffected 1 year ago
I'm a nurse, working at a clinic. A patient literally came in today. I went to see the staff at the front desk and saw him sleeping. Asked him if he's ok, no answer. He was unconscious on the chair in the waiting room, no one noticed. Quickly yelled for the doctor, put him in recovery position. In and out of consciousness, ambulance took him to hospital, don't know what happened to him...
Ivy at Eve 1 year ago
A former colleague of my father went to his insurance agent. When admitted, he said he didn't feel well and had to sit for a moment. Famous last words. Aneurysm. I think of that agent sometimes and hope he got some help.
Kelly Scott 1 year ago (edited)
One of my supervisors had a girlfriend in the hospital over Thanksgiving. He went to pick her parents up at the airport and bring them back with him so they could see their daughter. She was perfectly fine but then something happened and she died. So all three of them showed back up at the hospital expecting to have a reunion, only to find out she was dead. My supervisor, naturally, was absolutely devastated and I'm not sure he ever got over it.
Spittnimage 1 year ago
Wow they let security guards tell a person something about their loved one instead of a doctor?
Jaya 1 year ago
If he was waiting in line, there was no doctor involved yet, so the doctor actually knows much less than the guards, because they were there when it happened and the doctor wasn't. So it doesn't make much sense to let the doctor tell them instead of the guard who was actually there.
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#11
Mom was constantly in and out of doctors' offices and ERs for many things such as extremely tired, extreme weight gain, periods lasting months, and a bad case of dehydration. Finally, an ER doctor took notice and sent her for a CT and found a grapefruit sized tumor in her vena cava. Later diagnosed with stage 4 Leiomyosarcoma. Gave her a few weeks to live but she battled for about 5 more years.
Edit: spelling
#12
I was the patient. Spent six months being told I had a bad cold and anemia so I should take iron pills. Turns out I had an autoimmune disease and my kidneys were failing. I eventually ended up on dialysis and with a transplant.
#13
Patient’s wife called. Patient had a temperature of 98.6. No other symptoms.
I explained that was a normal temperature but the wife said “that’s a fever for him.” She said she felt like something was wrong, despite no other symptoms.
I told her that I respect that and that if she feels something is wrong she should get him checked out in the ER.
The ER doctor called four hours later and said they did all they could do for him but he died of sepsis. He appeared to be normal when he got there but rapidly declined.
That gave me a new appreciation that we truly can’t evaluate someone thoroughly over a telephone.
#14
My husband went in for a routine checkup. His bloodwork was fine. Everything was fine. The only thing was him saying he just a little more tired than usual.
His Dr noticed that he was due for a colonoscopy, and set one up for him. The DR who did the colonoscopy said everything looked good, but, he just felt there was something up.
So, my husband went back to his regular Dr, and she did a complete look at him. Bloodwork showed a very slight increase of white blood cells. So, she decided what the hell, let's do an abdominal scan just to do a look-see since the colonoscopy Dr didn't feel quite right about things even tho there was nothing showing.
Apparently his appendix was inflamed, and surgery was scheduled to take it out. Upon removal, not only was it inflamed, but infected, and cancerous as well.
Turns out that:
a) it was confined at that time to the appendix
b) it was a particularly nasty little cancer that likes to spread
c) the cancer was at the far part of the appendix, so when they removed the appendix the margins were clear.
d) it led to the discovery of him actually having a genetic issue called Lynch Syndrome which they were able to figure out was thru the maternal line. Turns out that his mom's uterine cancers, his uncle's death of colon cancer, and his grandmother's various cancer issues were all related to this genetic abnormality.
If he hadn't gone in for his checkup and procrastinated, his appendix would have gotten worse, and the cancer would have spread. There's a good chance the cancer would have gotten into his intestines and ended up with intestinal cancer of some sort if they hadn't gotten it. He is still very suspectable to getting cancers because of this genetic condition.
He found out early enough to be able to be proactive enough for care and prevention. It's been almost 10 years since diagnosis and he has been healthy as a horse since then. He gets a colonoscopy every year because of it, but thats a small price to pay.
Julie Schulz 1 year ago (edited)
Reasons like this are why I make sure to take advantage of my insurance's preventative care. There is no history of breast cancer in my family (either side) that I know of but insurance started paying when I turned 40, so every year I go for a mammogram. I also make sure to tell my doctor every health issue I can think of in my family, even my Dad's prostate cancer. No, I'll never have that type of cancer but it might make me more susceptible to another type. Don't procrastinate on getting routine exams and be 100% honest with your doctor!
#15
Im a dentist. New pt came in with what he thought was a mild ache in his teeth. Thought it was a toothache. Hadnt seen a dentist in years.
Took a radiograph and the jaw bone around the teeth looked strange. Had him see an oral surgeon that day. Turned out was a very aggressive metastatic bone cancer and died a few weeks later
#16
I was the patient. My mom kept bringing me to the doctor because I was continuously complaining of tummy pain. I had just started school. The doctor said I was likely just trying to get out of school and stay home with my mom. I complained the whole school year. She even brought me to the ER a few times and they essentially said the same thing. They never did any imaging, sometimes blood work.
Finally one day I started peeing blood and she took me right to the children's hospital and I was diagnosed with stage 4 kidney cancer, by then it had spread to both lungs, liver, lymph nodes and around the heart.
#17
Probably not particularly crazy, it might happen all the time for all I know…. Not a doctor, but I went in to urgent care thinking I had a nasty uti but it turned out to be severe sepsis, got whisked away in an ambulance on oxygen.
That’s what I get for my mom teaching me it’s all in my head.
#18
Still in school and I was not present for this patient’s initial admission but rather her clinic follow up; however..
Patient was healthy 50-something year old who had an extended nosebleed after a long hike. It wouldn’t stop so they went to ER to get it cauterized/impacted (happens all the time). Anyway, they did a CT scan as protocol and discovered she had a 20+ cm tumor on her uterus that was wrapping around her right kidney; she was immediately referred to a serious academic hospital and had a specialized oncology surgeon remove it.
Amazingly? They got it completely removed without even having to damage the kidney. She had an amazing outcome and about a half a foot scar running around her abdomen from the surgery.
Edit for clarification: I do not believe the CT scan was due to the nosebleed itself but rather I imagine as they looked further into her blood work and coagulation studies they found something that warranted further work up.
#19
26 year old seemingly healthy male came to my office (eye doctor) with complaints of mild blurry vision. Usually a very routine complaint and very easy fix with glasses/contacts.
After a few minutes of trying to get him see better with the refracting lenses, I wasn't able to improve his vision when it shouldn't take that long for someone that young.
I decided to quit trying and quickly look in the back of his eyes. Hemorrhages everywhere, swollen optic nerves. He ended up having malignant hypertension causing his retinae to swell. His blood pressure was 270/170 in office which could have made him have a stroke at any minute. We physically drove him to the ER where he was admitted.
Bec 1 year ago
Wow. Two cases. Kid I was in school with had a terrible headache and couldn't focus his eyes. His dad brought him to the eye doctor who told him to go straight to the ER. He had a baseball sized brain tumor which was removed and he recovered. More recent, a cousin, 17F, similarly went to eye doctor due to headaches double vision, had a brain tumor. Unfortunately also had a stroke during surgery but is working hard to overcome the issues. The pandemic slowed getting treatment
#20
Not a doctor’s perspective but my dad went to his doctor because he suddenly didn’t like the taste of broccoli. Dad was otherwise healthy, late 60’s, fairly active guy. He was diagnosed with leukaemia.
#21
This is a story from my mother who was a sex therapist. She was treating a teenager who basically was masturbating so hard and often that he was rubbing his junk bloody and bleeding through his pants. The kid insisted it wasn't sexual, he was just really uncomfortable and his skin hurt. He got boners rubbing the skin. The doctors didn't believe him and sent him to my mother.
My mom, devil she was, had a saintly moment and listened to the kid. She suggested he see a dermatologist. Kid literally had d**k cancer. Something with an s- cell carcinoma. My mother never saw the patient after their parents called to cancel appointments because they found the cause and he was no longer in need of her services.
#22
Saw a patient with minor cardiovascular symptoms and a slight pain in his upper back. The senior debated back and forth whether it would make sense to run a CT to rule out anything more serious. She finally decided to do it and it turned out he had a massive aortic dissection and was basically wheeled right into the OR
#23
I thought I pulled a calf muscle. I did the whole RICE protocol, but nothing helped. I was limping because of the pain. I ended up going to urgent care which was a waste of time because it could be a blood clot—so they sent me to the ER. The ER did an ultrasound of my leg and found nothing. So, they gave me muscle relaxers and sent me home. They noted I should follow up with my PCP, though, because my blood pressure was really high. I chalked it up to the anxiety of being evaluated for a blood clot.
A few days later, I develop this little cough and an intermittent sharp pain between my shoulder blades on deep inhales. Being that this was September 2020, I thought that this was for sure Covid. But I also then remembered that I needed to follow up with my PCP about the blood pressure thing, so I called to talk about both items at once.
The nurse was alarmed and told me in no uncertain terms to go straight to the ER to be evaluated for a pulmonary embolism.
And that’s how I found out that I had multiple bilateral pulmonary embolisms.
#24
My local hospital sent me home twice after I went there for chest pains. I had a massive heart attack, and my son had to resuscitate me soon after arriving home the second time.
Sami-Jo Ross 1 year ago
What is it with hospitals deciding "you're fine" when it's very clear they aren't?
#25
Not a doctor but I had a massive head ache, fainting and extreme light sensitivity. Dr came and said it was sinusitis. I struggled on, saw another dr at same practice who confirmed sinusitis. Started slowly recovering but had extreme vertigo. Got a second opinion, confirmed sinusitis. Went private (was in the uk) and was seen by very dismissive dr. I insisted on further tests and he reluctantly ordered an mri. Turns out I had meningitis.
#26
A man came to the hospital because his wife always complained about his bad breath. Long story short, I met him because they consulted my department when the tissue biopsy came back as esophageal cancer.
#27
Many years ago, when I was in my residence, a man entered ER with a hand in his forehead, walking by himself, asking for a doctor.
You can imagine my surprise when I said "yes?", to him removing his hand and showing his injury - a perforating hole from a bullet.
He was quickly moved to surgery after that. Later I found the bullet didn't reach the brain, it was well buried into the skull bone.
#28
Not a doctor but my husband suddenly lost 15lbs over a few days. No changes to diet or exercise. I told him it sound like diabetes and please go. He finally went after a week and by that time he was skin and bones. It was diabetes and his blood sugar level was dangerously high. The doc said if he had waited 1 more day, he might have gone into a coma
#29
Not a doctor (annoying, I know) But my mom kept having foot pain. Told her it was plantar fasciitis. Wouldn’t heal. Then told her it was a fracture. Wouldn’t heal. Then told her there was a growth. Did a biopsy and it was LUNG CANCER! Stage 4. So from foot pain to lung cancer. Totally wild. She has also never smoked a day in her life.
#30
Not a doctor but my dad went to his Dr because of a stuffy nose that had been going on for weeks. Dr looks into his nose and noted a deviated septum. Said that's not right and sent him for tests. My dad had a brain tumor size of a grapefruit with no symptoms other than a plugged up nose. So he went in with a cold and came out with cancer.
What do you think ?
Ephemeral Mochi 1 year ago
It's sad how many of these involve being brushed off or ignored by medical professionals.
XenoMurph 1 year ago (edited)
If you see a thousand patients 999 people will present with something weird that'll be just some insignificant anomoly. Nothing to worry about. When you've done 998 ct scans and MRIs that reveal that a normal temp but "feelign a bit hot" is just some weird thing about getting older, of course you are going to go with the statistics. What you see here are the 1 in 1000 cases. Some people would be having MRI scans every week. No health service can sustain that.
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Papa 1 year ago
I have one all you ladies need to see, just in case. My mother-in-law noticed redness on her chest. Her doctor told her it was a rash, and gave her an ointment to put on it. The ointment didn't help. She finally went to another doctor, who diagnosed her with inflammatory breast cancer (which I had never heard of). She fought it, but she didn't last long. Her chances for survival would have been much better if it was properly diagnosed earlier.
Sarah Kathrin Matsoukis 1 year ago
My mom had a tumor in her uterus so big you could feel it from outside, almost the size of me when I was born, they failed to see it as cancer until she found a better doctor who took out her whole uterus immediately and some chemo later she was fine. He also called her prior doctor and ripped him a new one.
DarkViolet 1 year ago
I would have loved to have been there for THAT conversation!
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Noname 1 year ago
So I developed an allergy to crustaceans which exhibits as severe gastrointestinal distress in my 20s. So I avoid crustaceans. 30 odd years later, I suddenly have a different kind of allergic reaction to joels (sand smelts) with hives and projectile vomiting ensuing. OK, noted, don't eat. But then I tried marinated anchovies (broke out in hives), razor clams (gastro-intestinal distress), and now I'm not sure if I can tolerate any kind of fish or bivalves.
DarkViolet 1 year ago
Sounds like seafood should be permanently on your "avoid at all costs" list. I just developed an allergy to shrimp, but I'm not willing to risk a double-Mount St. Helens with anything related.
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I had chronic upper leg pain. Went years and years being told it was sciatica, or neural damage in my back. Had loads of scans of my back, all fine. Tried various neural medications that did nothing at all. Meanwhile, the pain got worse and worse and I could barely walk. It was only when I moved to Germany that someone said let’s do a scan of the area that actually hurts. Turned out I had grade 3 osteoarthritis and needed an immediate hip replacement. The consultant said the degradation was so bad that one bad fall and my hip structure would have collapsed. I was only 40, which is why they didn’t consider it.
Destiny Kruse-Brainard 1 year ago
My coworker went to the doctor with reoccurring back pain. She had stage IV lung cancer. She had never smoked and lived a healthy and active lifestyle.
Marnie 1 year ago
I have a related story, but it wasn't that serious. In my 20s, I just found myself unable to stop crying. I wasn't upset about anything. I finally called my Mom. I rarely "bothered" her as my family would call it, but I didn't know what else to do. She told me when I was little, I would always cry before any other symptoms when I was getting sick, so I should see the doctor. So I did (physicians assistant actually). She didn't poo-poo me. She said, "I don't know what else to do, but let's do a strep test." Turns out I had strep, and a pretty bad case of it. Never did get a sore throat. Never had it before (even as a kid) or since, but who knows? Maybe asymptomatic other times. I appreciated that assistant, especially as opposed to the other one at that clinic who poo-pooed and even joked about a very severe reaction to sulfa that I later think was really close to killing me.
DarkViolet 1 year ago
"Poo-pooed and even joked about a very severe reaction to sulfa"?! Was his last name Mengele, by chance?
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OneHappyPuppy 1 year ago
This summer my dad went to do his annual blood analysis (he's a tough one to get to go to a doctor, hence the annual) and it came back terrible. No surprise there, he's diabetic, jas high blood pressure and an array of other issues he doesn't really keep a tab on. As a BSc in Biochem, I got curious and read the entire report, and his blood cells were off. Really off, an indication of an infection. I told my mother, she said he has no symptoms whatsoever, I spoke to him and he shrugged it off saying he's feeling fine, just like always. His doctor received the results and said he's fine, the sugar levels and cholesterol being her primary concern. He developed a fever and collapsed days later, mom called an ambulance and he was taken in immediately. Stayed in hospital for a good month in ICU. Something on his lungs, but his state was so bad that to this day he hasn't done the necessary analysis since all previous ones were inconclusive. To be continued...
OneHappyPuppy 1 year ago
He developed a UTI from his stay from incompetent nurses who never changed his catheter, he will probably have one for life now since he cannot use the restroom without one (they tried, he ended up in the hospital again), he can barely walk from the lung infection that was only partially treated (it could even have been COVID but doctor's are hesitant to throw around that diagnosis for whatever reason) so he uses a walker now and all of this because a doctor couldn't or wouldn't see something that could have been treated before it got worse. Hell, even I who have no medicinal knowledge whatsoever caught it early... I'm still mad how things came out and wonder if I could have done something, been more insistent or something
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LoveMyJordy 1 year ago
I'm not a doctor but I also understand that most of the time a headache is just a headache and not necessarily a brain tumor or stage 4 cancer. Similarly to many other indicators such as a stomach ache or sore muscles - most of the time these are benign so I would imagine that the people charged with diagnosing do not have the time/resources to investigate every ailment for the slight chance that it could be something more serious.
nini 1 year ago
That's why we tell people to come back if it persists or gets worse/other symptoms appear. We only get a "freeze frame" of their symptoms, and sometimes it needs another visit after something changed to properly find those cases where something's off...
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Dispatcherqueen 1 year ago (edited)
in 1985, my then 2 year old got a sunburn. He was sick daily for weeks, and each time I took him to the ER, nothing was found. His regular doctor found nothing as well. One night, he woke up, crying his head hurt, hit his forehead with his tiny fist and it bruised instantly. Take him to the ER and the doctor accused me of 'making' him sick. I was arrested for Munchausen by Proxy, and they took my son away while they waited for CPS (Child protection services). A nurse friend asked me what was going on, I told her, she did some blood work right before CPS arrived. She comes running out as they are taking my son away, and demanded they return him so we can be flown to UC Davis, where he was diagnosed with Leukemia. He did chemo 4 days a week for 2 years, 1x a week for additional 1 1/2 years, and 6 months after treatment ended, he relapsed. He had a bone marrow transplant from an unrelated donor 6 months after that. I dread to think what would have happened if my friend had not done the blood test. My
nini 1 year ago
I'm a resident. At night, general medicine takes care of all the patients in our er, including the surgical patients. During one of my first nights, some paramedics bring in a 40-year old woman who they claimed had obstipation. She seemed to be just fine on the first glance, but I had a strange feeling. As she had a gastric bypass a few years ago, I considered adding lactate to her lab, as this one cannot be reordered after more than 15 minutes (which is hard to do, as talking and examining already takes more than that). The lab took quite some time, with the first result actualley being her lactate, three times as high as normal. Which is a sign of malperfusion, bleeding, sepsis, amongst other... So not very specific, but a red flag. In her exam, she did not have peritonitis, but it was also not unobtrusive, with also some signs that something was up. As I was all alone, and I didn't want to wake up my senior physician without having all of her lab (so I had reasonable claim 🪷
nini 1 year ago
🪷 to order a ct) and in order to save some time during waiting on the lab, I ordered a radiography of her abdomen, which showed a lot of air. Which means her gastric bypass perforated. Put her in an ambulance and sent her to the next big hospital, which operated and safed her. All before all of the lab was back. The next day I found out that it would have been reasonable to order the ct without waiting for the lab (which I did not know because of lack of experience) but I'm still glad I handled it quickly and appropriately with the ressources I had
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Darius S. (he/him) cis/grey 1 year ago
It turned out my mom just itching all over for a couple of weeks was the sign her lymphoma was back again.
Darius S. (he/him) cis/grey 1 year ago
PTSD has so many symptoms you wouldn't believe they tie together. Migraines, Stomach issues, pain, dizziness, etc.. it may be an answer for you
Celtic Pirate Queen 1 year ago
My husband (m65) & I (f60) moved from San Diego, CA to Springfield, OR in March of 2022. He had been complaining of lower back pain (duh, we just moved an entire houseful and neither of us are kids) but by the time we got to Redding, CA he asked me to take him to the ER. Now, this guy has only called in sick twice in the 16 years I've known him, so I was scared. Turned out that he had a kidney stone. BUT - the CT scan showed a "growth" on the kidney. He's been to the radiologist to monitor its growth twice since & if it shows enlargement come January 2024, they're going to remove his kidney. US healthcare - over $15,000 out of pocket so far and he's got "great" insurance.
Ephemeral Mochi 1 year ago
It's sad how many of these involve being brushed off or ignored by medical professionals.
XenoMurph 1 year ago (edited)
If you see a thousand patients 999 people will present with something weird that'll be just some insignificant anomoly. Nothing to worry about. When you've done 998 ct scans and MRIs that reveal that a normal temp but "feelign a bit hot" is just some weird thing about getting older, of course you are going to go with the statistics. What you see here are the 1 in 1000 cases. Some people would be having MRI scans every week. No health service can sustain that.
Load More Replies... Papa 1 year ago
I have one all you ladies need to see, just in case. My mother-in-law noticed redness on her chest. Her doctor told her it was a rash, and gave her an ointment to put on it. The ointment didn't help. She finally went to another doctor, who diagnosed her with inflammatory breast cancer (which I had never heard of). She fought it, but she didn't last long. Her chances for survival would have been much better if it was properly diagnosed earlier.
Sarah Kathrin Matsoukis 1 year ago
My mom had a tumor in her uterus so big you could feel it from outside, almost the size of me when I was born, they failed to see it as cancer until she found a better doctor who took out her whole uterus immediately and some chemo later she was fine. He also called her prior doctor and ripped him a new one.
DarkViolet 1 year ago
I would have loved to have been there for THAT conversation!
Load More Replies... Noname 1 year ago
So I developed an allergy to crustaceans which exhibits as severe gastrointestinal distress in my 20s. So I avoid crustaceans. 30 odd years later, I suddenly have a different kind of allergic reaction to joels (sand smelts) with hives and projectile vomiting ensuing. OK, noted, don't eat. But then I tried marinated anchovies (broke out in hives), razor clams (gastro-intestinal distress), and now I'm not sure if I can tolerate any kind of fish or bivalves.
DarkViolet 1 year ago
Sounds like seafood should be permanently on your "avoid at all costs" list. I just developed an allergy to shrimp, but I'm not willing to risk a double-Mount St. Helens with anything related.
Load More Replies... Alex Helm 1 year ago
I had chronic upper leg pain. Went years and years being told it was sciatica, or neural damage in my back. Had loads of scans of my back, all fine. Tried various neural medications that did nothing at all. Meanwhile, the pain got worse and worse and I could barely walk. It was only when I moved to Germany that someone said let’s do a scan of the area that actually hurts. Turned out I had grade 3 osteoarthritis and needed an immediate hip replacement. The consultant said the degradation was so bad that one bad fall and my hip structure would have collapsed. I was only 40, which is why they didn’t consider it.
Destiny Kruse-Brainard 1 year ago
My coworker went to the doctor with reoccurring back pain. She had stage IV lung cancer. She had never smoked and lived a healthy and active lifestyle.
Marnie 1 year ago
I have a related story, but it wasn't that serious. In my 20s, I just found myself unable to stop crying. I wasn't upset about anything. I finally called my Mom. I rarely "bothered" her as my family would call it, but I didn't know what else to do. She told me when I was little, I would always cry before any other symptoms when I was getting sick, so I should see the doctor. So I did (physicians assistant actually). She didn't poo-poo me. She said, "I don't know what else to do, but let's do a strep test." Turns out I had strep, and a pretty bad case of it. Never did get a sore throat. Never had it before (even as a kid) or since, but who knows? Maybe asymptomatic other times. I appreciated that assistant, especially as opposed to the other one at that clinic who poo-pooed and even joked about a very severe reaction to sulfa that I later think was really close to killing me.
DarkViolet 1 year ago
"Poo-pooed and even joked about a very severe reaction to sulfa"?! Was his last name Mengele, by chance?
Load More Replies... OneHappyPuppy 1 year ago
This summer my dad went to do his annual blood analysis (he's a tough one to get to go to a doctor, hence the annual) and it came back terrible. No surprise there, he's diabetic, jas high blood pressure and an array of other issues he doesn't really keep a tab on. As a BSc in Biochem, I got curious and read the entire report, and his blood cells were off. Really off, an indication of an infection. I told my mother, she said he has no symptoms whatsoever, I spoke to him and he shrugged it off saying he's feeling fine, just like always. His doctor received the results and said he's fine, the sugar levels and cholesterol being her primary concern. He developed a fever and collapsed days later, mom called an ambulance and he was taken in immediately. Stayed in hospital for a good month in ICU. Something on his lungs, but his state was so bad that to this day he hasn't done the necessary analysis since all previous ones were inconclusive. To be continued...
OneHappyPuppy 1 year ago
He developed a UTI from his stay from incompetent nurses who never changed his catheter, he will probably have one for life now since he cannot use the restroom without one (they tried, he ended up in the hospital again), he can barely walk from the lung infection that was only partially treated (it could even have been COVID but doctor's are hesitant to throw around that diagnosis for whatever reason) so he uses a walker now and all of this because a doctor couldn't or wouldn't see something that could have been treated before it got worse. Hell, even I who have no medicinal knowledge whatsoever caught it early... I'm still mad how things came out and wonder if I could have done something, been more insistent or something
Load More Replies... LoveMyJordy 1 year ago
I'm not a doctor but I also understand that most of the time a headache is just a headache and not necessarily a brain tumor or stage 4 cancer. Similarly to many other indicators such as a stomach ache or sore muscles - most of the time these are benign so I would imagine that the people charged with diagnosing do not have the time/resources to investigate every ailment for the slight chance that it could be something more serious.
nini 1 year ago
That's why we tell people to come back if it persists or gets worse/other symptoms appear. We only get a "freeze frame" of their symptoms, and sometimes it needs another visit after something changed to properly find those cases where something's off...
Load More Replies... Dispatcherqueen 1 year ago (edited)
in 1985, my then 2 year old got a sunburn. He was sick daily for weeks, and each time I took him to the ER, nothing was found. His regular doctor found nothing as well. One night, he woke up, crying his head hurt, hit his forehead with his tiny fist and it bruised instantly. Take him to the ER and the doctor accused me of 'making' him sick. I was arrested for Munchausen by Proxy, and they took my son away while they waited for CPS (Child protection services). A nurse friend asked me what was going on, I told her, she did some blood work right before CPS arrived. She comes running out as they are taking my son away, and demanded they return him so we can be flown to UC Davis, where he was diagnosed with Leukemia. He did chemo 4 days a week for 2 years, 1x a week for additional 1 1/2 years, and 6 months after treatment ended, he relapsed. He had a bone marrow transplant from an unrelated donor 6 months after that. I dread to think what would have happened if my friend had not done the blood test. My
nini 1 year ago
I'm a resident. At night, general medicine takes care of all the patients in our er, including the surgical patients. During one of my first nights, some paramedics bring in a 40-year old woman who they claimed had obstipation. She seemed to be just fine on the first glance, but I had a strange feeling. As she had a gastric bypass a few years ago, I considered adding lactate to her lab, as this one cannot be reordered after more than 15 minutes (which is hard to do, as talking and examining already takes more than that). The lab took quite some time, with the first result actualley being her lactate, three times as high as normal. Which is a sign of malperfusion, bleeding, sepsis, amongst other... So not very specific, but a red flag. In her exam, she did not have peritonitis, but it was also not unobtrusive, with also some signs that something was up. As I was all alone, and I didn't want to wake up my senior physician without having all of her lab (so I had reasonable claim 🪷
nini 1 year ago
🪷 to order a ct) and in order to save some time during waiting on the lab, I ordered a radiography of her abdomen, which showed a lot of air. Which means her gastric bypass perforated. Put her in an ambulance and sent her to the next big hospital, which operated and safed her. All before all of the lab was back. The next day I found out that it would have been reasonable to order the ct without waiting for the lab (which I did not know because of lack of experience) but I'm still glad I handled it quickly and appropriately with the ressources I had
Load More Replies... Darius S. (he/him) cis/grey 1 year ago
It turned out my mom just itching all over for a couple of weeks was the sign her lymphoma was back again.
Darius S. (he/him) cis/grey 1 year ago
PTSD has so many symptoms you wouldn't believe they tie together. Migraines, Stomach issues, pain, dizziness, etc.. it may be an answer for you
Celtic Pirate Queen 1 year ago
My husband (m65) & I (f60) moved from San Diego, CA to Springfield, OR in March of 2022. He had been complaining of lower back pain (duh, we just moved an entire houseful and neither of us are kids) but by the time we got to Redding, CA he asked me to take him to the ER. Now, this guy has only called in sick twice in the 16 years I've known him, so I was scared. Turned out that he had a kidney stone. BUT - the CT scan showed a "growth" on the kidney. He's been to the radiologist to monitor its growth twice since & if it shows enlargement come January 2024, they're going to remove his kidney. US healthcare - over $15,000 out of pocket so far and he's got "great" insurance.
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