ADVERTISEMENT

Have you ever thought about one simple question - to what extent are our hobbies really ours, coming from deep within our nature, and not imposed on us by almighty society? While earlier, many decades ago, being, for example, a man automatically meant a certain "gentleman's set" of hobbies and activities, today, everything has actually changed.

There are many things that are traditionally considered "100% masculine," although today many men absolutely aren't into them. And this online thread, a selection of the most popular opinions of which we present to your attention today, is devoted to discussing such things.

More info: Reddit

#1

Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Hiding emotion. F**k that. If I'm happy I'm gonna laugh. If I'm heartbroken I'm gonna cry. If you think that's unmanly, I don't care. Because I think it is more manly to be real than it is to present a façade to the world.

Imightbeafanofthis , Helena Lopes Report

Add photo comments
POST
Karl der Große
Community Member
4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Homer, crying loud and hard is actually portrayed as something many. Achilles was "like a lion" in his grief over Patroclus.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
RELATED:
    #2

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies I generally don't wear high heels or powdered wigs... wait, how "traditional" are we talking?

    HandFancy , Ihsan Adityawarman Report

    #3

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies The definition of what is or isn't masculine. I'm a man, born this way, heterosexual and I will wear that pink shirt that I really like, because I just don't care if that somehow makes me less masculine.

    ephdravir , Vatsal Gor Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Rinso The Red
    Community Member
    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The gender/color appellations are entirely artificial and have changed over time.

    View more commentsArrow down menu

    The original thread appeared in the AskReddit community about a month ago, when the topicstarter asked male netizens: "What is a traditionally masculine thing which you are not interested in?" As of today, the thread has around 1.8K upvotes and almost 5.5K various comments. As we can see, the discussion was quite lively, and not all the ideas presented by the thread participants were unanimously approved by others.

    ADVERTISEMENT
    #4

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Multiple boomers have bragged about never changing a diaper. I would be too embarrassed to show my face again if I never changed my kids diaper.

    rolowa , MART PRODUCTION Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Ron Man
    Community Member
    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never heard someone say that in person, it's always been TV or something like BP. Not sure if this idea is more real or fictional.

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu
    #5

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Proving my masculinity. If somebody says I'm "not a real man" because I refuse to do X arbitrary thing, I'm happy to shrug and say "okay.".

    butt_honcho , Robert Nagy Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Apatheist Account2
    Community Member
    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My definition is that a real man does what he wants to, not what people tell him to do.

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu
    #6

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Talking about women like objects.

    Macclesq , PNW Production Report

    A significant place among the answers in this thread is occupied by different variations on the sports theme. At least out of the 30 top answers that we’ve selected for this collection, 5 are pure sports, and another two or three are somehow related to it (for example, it depends on whether you consider gaming a sport or not).

    ADVERTISEMENT

    In fact, with sports, everything is far from clear - and the results of the research only confirm that the world is far from being as crazy about professional sports as it was just a couple of decades ago. At least, the sports audience is getting older, and young people often choose completely different hobbies for themselves.

    #7

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Fishing: it's gross, boring, and I feel bad for the fish. Plus I don't like fish.

    Old_Discussion_2363 , Linny (Frosty) Report

    #8

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Being super competitive when I’m hanging out with guys who are supposed to be my friends. Can’t we just relax and have a good time without needing to outdo each other in everything? .

    The_Observatory_ , RDNE Stock project Report

    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT

    For example, while in 2000, the average age of a hockey fan, according to a study conducted by Sport Business Journal, was 33 years old, basketball - 40, football - 44, and baseball - 52, the latest research, conducted in 2016, showed even more depressing figures for major leagues’ commissioners: from 42 years in the NBA to 50 in the NFL and even 57 for MLB. Young people, and young men in particular, are choosing other hobbies en masse.

    #10

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies I really don’t feel the specific need to be the breadwinner… don’t get me wrong of course I want to work for my money. But if I would ever find myself in the situation where my gf (or wife) would earn enough for a family and would prefer to work, while I manage the household and or children, I’d be more than happy to do so.

    Kadras_ , Josh Willink Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Karl der Große
    Community Member
    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I loved spending time with my kids. I wish I could have taken 10 - 15 years off back then and work into my old age. Why do we save retirement for the old, when we know that getting out and doing stuff is the best thing for older people? Young people should be home with the kids.

    View more commentsArrow down menu
    ADVERTISEMENT
    #12

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Being agressieve and intimidating.

    Dragon2906 , MART PRODUCTION Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Ron Man
    Community Member
    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again, not masculine. This is insecurity and both men and women do this.

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu

    "Public opinion and people's beliefs change over time - and the digitalization of society only accelerates these processes," says Valery Bolgan, a historian and editor-in-chief of Intent news agency from Ukraine, whom Bored Panda asked for a comment here. "And if before, a trend needed months and even years to spread around the world - and some faded away even earlier, now it happens almost instantly."

    "Accordingly, in developed countries, where the service sector allows you to order almost any activity on the side, there is no real need for many of the things that made a man ‘a man’ centuries ago. In the historical sense of the word, of course."

    #13

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies The NFL. 18-22 minutes of actual playing motion in 2.5 - 3 hours. Endless beer ads (for s****y brew). So f*****g boring.

    mrchuckles5 , Pixabay Report

    ADVERTISEMENT
    #15

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Sports.

    the_purple_goat , Pixabay Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Warren Peece
    Community Member
    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The whole sports business is just nonsense. Live your own life, people. Don't live vicariously through your favorite team.

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu

    "Today there is no classical diversification in the family and society, and we are not so dependent on what used to be called ‘public opinion.’ Now a person can quite easily give up hobbies that were previously literally imposed on them by society - and feel quite good. The world is changing - and we’re also changing with it," Valery Bolgan sums up.

    #16

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Cigars. I get why people like them, but they are expensive, smell awful, produce a ton of smoke I end up inhaling anyway, and feel like more of a status symbol than something that should be smoked regularly anyway. A whole lot of hype for an oversized cigarette that'll make you vomit and/or feel sick if you accidentally inhale, or just get too much at once.

    csgrizzly , Megan Forbes Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Strings
    Community Member
    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like a good cigar ocassionally. Usually as a bit of a celebration for myself.

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu
    ADVERTISEMENT
    See Also on Bored Panda
    #18

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies UFC.

    rayrayrayray , Duren Williams Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    TuesdayDangerGirl
    Community Member
    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Last night my husband put on a sports channel and two guys were in the ring. He knows I don't like boxing or wrestling but he says 'give this a chance' LOL it was the pillow fighting championship!

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu

    Well, no matter how controversial many of the points given in this selection actually are, we sincerely believe that you might be interested in reading the opinions of netizens on this issue. So now please feel free to scroll the list and read these points and stories - and maybe share your thoughts on the topic in the comments below as well.

    #19

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Voluntary self-restriction. Just in general.

    I won’t avoid mai tais and cosmos and have just Coors Light at every party, just because. I won’t refuse to watch Rachael Ray just because. I won’t limit my film choices to action films just because.

    Voluntary self-restriction is very much traditionally masculine. Which is in no way a synonym of healthy.

    A_Mirabeau_702 , JESHOOTS.com Report

    ADVERTISEMENT
    See Also on Bored Panda
    #20

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Golf.

    That s**t is f*****g boring (to play and watch).

    I used to work for Titlelist/Footjoy and that just made me hate it that much more 😂.

    monotoonz , Steve Momot Report

    #22

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Being overly hairy, I shave my pits because I have the smell if I don’t, and I shave my chest because I just prefer the look over a hairy chest.

    GoofyGreyson , Castorly Stock Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Foxglove🇮🇪
    Community Member
    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a (female) friend who advocates "all off below the nose" and insisted her daughter follow suit as soon as she turned 14. I just hate the thought of it - ok if it's your choice, but to enforce it on others is too much.

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu
    #23

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Beer (alcohol in general) .

    LazyImmigrant , RDNE Stock project Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Luke Branwen
    Community Member
    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm pretty much convinced that like 80% of people who drink only do so because it's "social norm" and peer pressure.

    View more commentsArrow down menu
    ADVERTISEMENT
    See Also on Bored Panda
    #24

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Camping, can't see the joy in purposely inconveniencing myself for fun.

    TheFantomItch , Mac DeStroir Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Warren Peece
    Community Member
    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love visiting places in nature. But I go to places I can drive to and sleep in my van.

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu
    #25

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Riding Harley Davidson motorcycles. There is a whole generation of d***hebags that has made me lose all interest in them and the culture that comes with it.

    snoopy-person , Tim Mossholder Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Strings
    Community Member
    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I ride a Harley. Prefer them because they're usually easier to find parts for. Never give anyone grief for riding something else, though

    View more commentsArrow down menu
    #26

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Bourbon. $50 bottle. $5,000 bottle. They all make me wanna puke .

    HoodRatTomato , Wendy Wei Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Karl der Große
    Community Member
    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember that a bourbon magazine decided to have a massive taste test of all sorts of whiskeys. Most really cheap bourbons did poorly, but one called "Ancient Age" won the golden prize (I can't find the original citation - but this taster found that a cheap bourbon called "Zackariah Harris" beat some really expensive competitors: https://abcfws.com/blind-bourbon-taste-test?srsltid=AfmBOooms9gmO5jkUQS0tH4h1bq-6WVrXB2Dl37l9jimzUUIJDri6EPe)

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu
    #27

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Cars.

    grapplingwithtruth , Pixabay Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    DennyS (denzoren)
    Community Member
    4 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do like cars though, you wouldn't see me attaching my self worth to an automobile I own but in general I do like cars. Some are quite nice. My favorite car is a 99 Civic hatchback coupe, enjoyed every minute I had it but I'm not gonna hate people if they're not a fan of cars.

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu
    #28

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Home improvements, renovations, dyi, landscaping, yard work, or building/repairing anything. For the record, I know how to do this stuff. I just don’t have the time or energy and I don’t want to.

    Rocketcheckman , Craig Adderley Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Ace
    Community Member
    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not about wanting to do them, it's about wanting the end result and being able to achieve it without shelling out shedloads of money to get a professional to do it.

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu
    ADVERTISEMENT
    See Also on Bored Panda
    #29

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Gaming

    eagle_venom Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Ben Aziza
    Community Member
    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the types have changed, and it is no longer typically masculine! Or at least the gap in number of players by sex is closing generation by generation! There is still however from both personal experience and stats, a clear divide in each sexes population by game genre! -Fifa type games (the one seen in the pic) are mostly guys. -Animal crossing games are mostly gals. There are also genres that are pretty 50/50. I would say Rpgs are pretty 50/50 now.

    View more commentsArrow down menu
    #30

    Someone Asks Men Online What Typically “Masculine” Thing They’re 100% Not Into, Gets 30 Replies Grilling.

    Capt_lurch4774 Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Geoffrey Scott
    Community Member
    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing masculine about that. Just good tasting food my wife doesn't need to cook. (tho, I do 90% of cooking. She's not a bad cook, just indifferent to flavor)

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu