30 Times Men Completely Disrespected Women And Had To Be Shamed Online
InterviewOne major feature of using the internet is being constantly exposed to the opinions of thousings, if not millions of people all the time. Sometimes this is illuminating, educational and humanizing. Other times, you might end up feeling like your eyes need a soap-bath.
The “Men and Females” internet group is dedicated to sharing hilarious screenshots of people who have strong opinions about women while simultaneously not quite knowing that this word exists. Bored Panda got in touch with the group's creator to learn more. So get comfortable as you read through some folks' deceptions, upvote your favorite ones and share your thoughts in the comments section below.
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The Greatest Gift A Female Can Give A Man
I Wonder If These People Even Will Ever Even Consider We’re Right When We Tell Them This Stuff
Woo! This isn't mansplaining in my opinion anyway, it's ironic mansplaining to make a point as an ally
Lady…
Bored Panda got in touch with the netizen who created the “Men and Females” group and they were kind enough to answer some of our questions. First and foremost, we wanted to hear the backstory of the page.
“I started this sub because I had been noticing for years that people would use men and females in the same sentence, and often it was coming from a sexist perspective. "Female" was used to belittle women the poster didn't respect, but because it was a normal word and not a slur no one could say anything about it. This sub started out as just a way for me to screenshot when I found examples while browsing the internet, I never thought the sub would grow to over 73k members.”
"What Guy Wants To Be Tied To Unhealthy Females?"
What Else Is There???
Don't Take This The Wrong Way But
Naturally, we wanted to hear their thoughts on why the group got so large. “I think the sub became so popular because it's not just me who noticed this covert sexism happening all over the Internet and in real life. I'd tag the sub every time I saw a comment or post that was relevant and usually get replies saying "Yes! I thought I was the only one who thought this was weirdly sexist, I didn't know there was a sub for it!"” they shared with Bored Panda.
The Language Of Dehumanization (Not Sure If This Belongs Here)
This Was A Comment On An Instagram Reel About The Husband Stitch And How Harmful It Is
Imagine this: you were just operated for kidney stones because one lodged itself in your urethra, and the doctor ask you if you want to be stretched a little more "as long as we are already here..."
You Can Bet Your A*s That If A Man Were In The Video Instead, Everyone In Those Comments Would Be Talking About What A Clean And Professional Job He Was Doing Smdh
Given their extensive experience, we wanted the page’s admin to delve a bit deeper into why this phenomenon appeared in the first place. “I think in certain instances people use "female" in an attempt to sound educated or to make their sexist comments sound more formal or logical and therefore have more merit. There are many posts to the sub where men in particular will flat out say that they are using "female" to degrade a woman they don't find desirable in some way, that "they don't deserve to be called a woman."”
It’s Perfectly Fine For Men To Like 15 Year Old Females
The Whole Comment Section On That Post Was A Cesspool Of Incels And Victim Blaming
To be fair I see some truth in this comment. Another woman getting her tits out does not empower me in the slightest. Getting my own out? Different story. But I don’t because I’d rather use my brain than my tits to show my strength as a woman. Or as a human. Brains seem to be sadly lacking in this fool though.
Men And Women In A Totally Platonic Relationship? Unbelievable, Unforeseeable, Dare I Say, Impossible !!
Pretty much all my friends are women, I would not have it any other way.
“The sexist use of the innocent word has been going on long before women started noticing and speaking up about it. Anti-feminists and incels are just upset that women are calling it out. They don't get what the big deal is because there are no male-specific insults like there are for women for them to compare to,” they shared.
Casually Calling For R*pe To Be The Law
What about gay men who don't have a partner? Is OP volunteering to help those out?
I'm a gay man, and I would rather f**k a cactus than this absolute loser
Load More Replies...the most basic human right is s*x with a woman? not access to clean water? or the human right to the integrity of the body? does that mean the women who can't choose can kill the men, because there is only one basic human right?!
Having the freedom to seek out relationships and sex is a human right. It's codified that way because many families of disabled people attempt to prevent them from doing so, even if they are mentally capable of making that choice for themselves. No human rights document declares that someone has to provide sex to someone else. There is a very old profession that provides sex for money, so those guys who are virgins are that way by their own choice. They could go out and pay someone for it. But incels are entitled little septic boils on a skunk's a**s, and they have convinced themselves that women exist only for their benefit, not as human beings in their own right, so they think we must provide it to them for free. Yes, I know I'm late to the party, but I love what you said.
Load More Replies...I dated a guy with a micro once. I didn't care. He had skilled hands and a great tongue, and he always ensured my satisfaction (as I did his). I would have gladly spent the rest of my life with him had he not turned out to be a gaslighting mummy's boy. The myth among incels that size is everything is beyond ridiculous.
Load More Replies...If this guy thinks there is a "completely unfair male virginity epidemic" (*cough*cough*self-report there *cough*), I suggest it is not unfair and is for completely valid and understandable reasons should he talk to and take the advice of an actual (not-enslaved) woman.
this guy is playing amongus w the way hes self-reporting.
Load More Replies...Ever heard of your right hand? Get used to it coz no woman anywhere would go near you
So true. I only hope it follows your advice to the letter but is left handed.
Load More Replies...The human right is sex with a female? What about the human rights of the women?
I think there are 3 very different species. Incels have a human right to have sex with "females". "Females" are some fantasy species similar to women, but with blank, partially programmable brain. And of course, there are men and women of human species. Sometime one of other species can appear and mimic being a human. I think incels like this need their own planet like in Rick and Morty the aliens with the sex robot civilization...
Load More Replies...That's actually a perfect example why they didn't write "white" men in the constitution but meant white. As we see here they think human is male...otherwise I (female) had the right to have sex with a female too. Since you know it's a "human" "right". We are not human to the author.
This is an advertisement for inflatable dolls by the (weird) brand name "female", right?
So women aren't allowed to have preferences in men, but men are allowed to have preferences in women. And gay people don't exist. Got it.
Tell me "nobody will fvck me because I'm creepy and weird" without actually telling me....
The virginity epidemic and the most basic human right, sex with a female 🤮 This person sounds like a child
How to say you have a micro penis without saying you have a micro penis.
WHAT THE F**K what about WOMENS HUMAN RIGHTS like not being raped??? Ffs natural selection better take this one out soon
Oh I think we don't need to worry about this one passing on his genes any time soon...
Load More Replies...**Men: close your legs then you'll not get pregnant.** **Men: choose men better then you'll not end up with a bad man.** **Men: if you dnt start sleeping with Men we will have to r@pe you.** **Men: your going to have to lower your standards.** **Men: why are women man haters why won't they submit we will protect them**
S*x is not a “basic human right.” The freedom to have s*x with who you want is a right, but the government has no obligation to provide you with a partner. You earn that by being a decent human being.
Guy just outed himself as unattractive virgin with tiny d**k, not bad for a single post.
2020? This was written in 2020? Also, this was a weird way for the author to tell the world his penis is smaller than 3 inches.
Good God the fact that they actually think what they want sexually is most important in the world is absolutely disgusting. F*****g sickos
Yeah because "males" wouldn't choose the most attractive women 🤣 Most women would love to not be virgins too, but here we are, left with these cyunts.
you're definitely not trash--OP is! You're not ugly either, you're beautiful!
Load More Replies...I don't think it's your small penis that's keeping the ladies away. Though using it to think with instead of your brain may lead you to conclude that... dude it's your personality.... I'm not sure it can be fixed
Women are not cattle to be "distributed"! IF women were "distributed", it would still be the richest, most popular and handsome men who could "select the female of his choice". Inc*ls would be just as woman-less as they are now. The only s*x that is included in basic human rights, is the right to decide if and when to have sex. Oh, and women are human beings too, with basic human rights.
i thought the basic rights were life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness? is bro fr?!!?
Just a thought here, what if the female you are given is unattractive to you? I mean you are, after all, saying that women would prefer attractive men, and that seems to be an issue.
He specified the men are allowed to choose only the women have no choice * shudders *
Load More Replies...Covid had to have wiped out at least SOME of them given the high likelihood that many incels are also anti-vax. So 🤞their numbers dwindled dramatically 😬
Load More Replies...Nope. Right to have sex with a female is not on the list of human rights. 1. Is" right to equality" though.
Hello, Dictionary... Can you add this picture to definition of Incel?
Why did autocorrect change incel to nicely....I never...um.. what?
Load More Replies...?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!.......................... S*x offender vibes y'all.
For men, "attractive" refers to physical beauty - women are more discerning.
I assumed sarcasm when I read this but now I'm too scared to go and check 🙈
Fb sometimes removes posts containing the word
Load More Replies...Should be a law allowing us to purge morons like this as well. SMH!!!
If this was the case, polygamy would become more popular. I'd rather share a normal man, than be with someone like that.
As an ugly middle aged woman I wouldnt mind, if men were equally distributed. But I dont think that is what they have in mind.....
He wants the good old days when women had dowlerys and were sold to men
Load More Replies...Basic human right...???!!!I don't think this idiot understands thst sentence
I can think of so many other things that are more important than sex. Clean air, clean water, good food, shelter, clothing, community and those are just the things right off the top of my head. Sex is awesome, but as far as needs go, it is WAAAAAYYYY down the list.
How about a law where creeps like him get their d**k confiscated?
Ah, the „most basic human right: sex with a female“. Do women have that right too, or are they not considered human? What an imbecile. Thankfully it sounds like it is rather unlikely that he will ever get the chance to reproduce.
It's because of idiots like this woman tend not to spread out among the male population. He is poisonous and he's likely to die a virgin because he's so daft he'll open his mouth and every woman in a 100 km radius and walk away from him.... very fast
I mean I've had sex with men of all lengths. The issue is really does he know what he's doing? If he does, and he likes what I do then it works. I've been with a guy who was absolutely massive and he was awful because he didn't try to bring me pleasure. He just assumed his size would do the trick. Conversely the micro I dated sure knew his way around.
dude if you come near me I will cut off your 2.5 inch flaccid penis
"Females to be equally distributed among men"???? What are we, Reese's Pieces????? Kindly go die in a hole, you f*****g bastard.
There aren't enough females because men think so highly of males, females get aborted. Men should be the ones in cages for women to choose.
bro kinda called himself out with the 'completely unfair male virginity epidemic' line
If a man is a virgin because no woman will bang him, it’s because something’s wrong with him. My guess is it’s his character (or lack thereof). If a man wants to be fuckable, he absolutely can be. He just hasta fix himself. We can start with the guy who posted this.
So, since women are human, they have the right to [unwilling] sex with a female, too? Or is he just full of s*it? I think I'll take door number 2.
This is why I'm alone in my own home watching TV with a cat on my lap.
Yikes. You hear about stuff like this when you first learn the word incel, but jeeeesus. This is three inshallah's short of a Salafist manifesto! How on earth do men get this way?
It use to be like that my guy and women fought to change it. We're not going back and you need to accept that abd step up or be alone. You're deathly afraid to be alone but women arnt. We know what our grandmothers endured and if we can't find a equal partner we would rather be alone. You guys who want bang maids can just fade away
Yet the problem is that he is so creepy that he will never get it. Nobody likes in cels or ra pists who have s_x slave and r * p e fantasies. He is sick from the head.
Load More Replies...Can these men just be lined up and given the whole firing squad treatment? Like what are they offering mankind at this point besides pure sludge
This is more common mindset then you think. It's usually disguised under purity culture.
What’s Your Bet This Dude Doesn’t Have A Wife
Imagine Thinking Like This
“A lot of men who oppose the sub will brag about how nothing offends them. It's like a white person saying they're not offended by being called a cracker and making fun of black people for being offended at being called the n word, and then they'll derail by saying "how can you compare "female" to the n word?"”
People Have Butts, Oh No!
Men And Girls
Another Example Of Using "Women" For Women They Desire, And "Female" For Women They Don't
“It's easy to think something is silly when you've never been oppressed and don't bother to care about or notice the nuances of the culture you're living in. One post on the sub compared using "female" to saying "the blacks" instead of "black people". It's a dog whistle.” For those who are unaware, a dog whistle is a seemingly innocuous phrase that bigots use to communicate with each other.
A Classic 'Nice Guy'
Thomas Has Never Seen Such Bs Before
Seen This Morning, Made Me Smile. Ty To Whomever Added That Flair
“Many users will also defend the use of "men and females" as a way to be transphobic. They're further showing their misogyny by saying "woman can mean anything nowadays, we have to say female if we mean biological women" but somehow the same logic never applies to men or males.”
Females Don't Need The Gym, They Have Men To Protect Them. Didn't You Know?
A New Comment On The Same Post As My Last Post Here. Might Even Be The Same Person…
"I have a masters...in human surgery" is the funniest sentence I've read today.
*sigh*
“I just want to add, using "female" when you mean "woman" is not the end of the world, it's just one of the many annoyances of living in a sexist society. I think anti-feminists, misogynists, incels, etc. just get angry to see how women come together to fight against sexism, whether it be subtle sexist remarks or large-scale oppression.”
Females Shouldn't Drink Water From A Bottle!
We also shouldn't ride trains or cars because the speed might make our uterus fall out. Right?
Another Incel For Ya
Don't you wish this was not a real post from someone? I am more depressed each entry I read, and should have stopped up at the top.
Mras Are Confused By The Difference Between Adjectives And Nouns
A noun is a naming word. An adjective describes a noun. Does that help?
Men And Foids
Found On Craigslist
Men And Females Except It's All Smoke And Mirrors
I really shouldn't be scrolling through this kind of content this early in the day
this one was particularly bad. Couldn't actually finish it.
Load More Replies...In German, the word "female" (= Weibchen) and "male" (= Männchen) is only used for animals, not humans. It's beyond me how someone could call a human that way.
generally, in English, the only time I use the terms "male" and "female" regarding humans is in discussing biology. I think that's why the term "female" is dehumanizing: it's a term typically focused just on biology, and not the psychological and sociological aspects of the individual that would go with words like "boy", "girl", "woman", "man" ...
Load More Replies...I always see how long it takes me to get angry when I read these kind of posts. Just reading the title made me apoplectic. Couldn’t read past the 6th post as I now want to hunt down every misogynistic twatbasket who posted these and painfully castrate every single one of them.
I got to #22 and couldn't take it anymore; my mouth ached from gaping at the long list of incels who've probably never experienced a relationship with a woman because of their immaturity & twisted views. We women are already aware that it's a scary world out there, but threads like this underline it. :-(
whats with all the racist and incel s**t recently? almost every post has at least one or both in them.
To say the truth, it's very good rage bait. Gives the BP site more traffic
Load More Replies...After reading through half this list i can't help wonder who tf raised these people?
With every post on the list, I pray that I never meet people like them
That's the scary part. They may already be among your friends, family, co-workers, I actually think I might know some men who think like that, deep down, even if they would never say stuff like that in public... The thought scares me shitless.
Load More Replies...it's always the same. "females" only want the triple 6. frankly yea, I'm attracted to atall skinny guy with long hair, sure, but that doesn't mean I'm incapable of being happy with someone who doesn't look like my fantasy guy. I've dated short guys, short haired guys, poor guys, even a smattering of outright homeless guys. personality is what matters, work on that s**t, my dudes
This makes me wonder that what the actual f**k is wrong with some people 😒
"Females..." is just a massive sign that some a*****e is going to say something insanely (and probably incel-y) stupid. Most people* who call women "females" instead of just "women" need to be sterilized. (*and because this is BP, it's here I explain that I obviously don't mean in a medical, scientific, actual, etc. reason to do so and not in the way most red-pilled and incel idiots do).
I am glad my male friends make me realize this is a bubble and not generally opinion of the most men.
The ones that say that c**p are the ones that get pi$$y when I call them cisgender heterosexual males, as if that weren't 100% accurate.
Honestly, I feel sorry for these boys (and yes, they are boys...not men). The same boys who moan about not getting a "female" because they are short, probably wouldn't date a woman because she isn't thin. I personally have dated men who were 6'5" down to 5'3", Everyone has their preferences, but most women I know could care less about height - it's all about personality.
Sometimes despair is the only option. There are so many types of f*****t out there, is there some sort of breeding or training programme for these dullards?
The posts were distressing but the comments from all the wonderful Pandas here made it worth sticking through to the end. We're a weird bunch, we are, but I love it.
My favorites are the ones where the incel groans about how downtrodden he is. How his life is so hard as a man, and how women have it so easy. Yet despite the world being against him, he just takes it on the chin and perseveres, because he's a John Wayne badass. 🙄
People really seem to forget how humans are one of, if not the only, species with sexism and men traditionally being in charge
Ugh. I literally just finished watching a documentary, "The Antisocial Network". This is like the penultimate phase in that doco (Actually if you can stomach the depressing nature it is worth a watch though).
Well time to get to enrolled in self defense, too many of these wackos out there.
I couldnt make it through past like the 10th one. Dear women/womyn/womxn. I sincerely apologise for these posts and the horror that is my gender. Obviously, cue the "not all men", yeah ... when you hang out with men these sorts of stupid a*s remarks are NOT unusual, even from so-called Alphas. Sickening and pathetic. YT, an actual man.
"when you hang out with men these sorts of stupid a*s remarks are NOT unusual" Mmmm, yup, they really are. Generally speaking, men socially reject this sh't. You must hang out with some weird dudes.
Load More Replies...Feels like posts like these are going to feature in a villain origin story. Stay tuned for when the Scr0tum Shredder strikes-its not me, i wear glasses
I'm sorry, i'm not a native english speaker. what is the point here? Is female a degrading term or something? (Just looking to learn here)
Hi! Its because "female" has the feeling of only talking about the biological gender of someone, and doesnt recognize women and girls (I dont mean to infantilize women, I mean like kids like myself) as people with a life and feelings. this also works in a similar way when one calls someone who is a grown woman a girl, but its much more subtle in the way it degrades women.
Load More Replies...Oh boy, such stupid stupid boys - you can't call them men because they are all so incredibly childish and contrary to a few posts not well educated either. No a PhD doesn't mean you are educated it means you can study and discuss your own specialty. Education means learning about the world past the center of your own head
And then they wonder why some women choose to be single (and might be happier).
MTG is a great contributor to the cause of gender equality. Her contribution is to demonstrate that women can also be bad.
Load More Replies...That's nothing. I'm sure I remember reading not so long ago, hospital paperwork had the words chest feeder or something like that lol
I really shouldn't be scrolling through this kind of content this early in the day
this one was particularly bad. Couldn't actually finish it.
Load More Replies...In German, the word "female" (= Weibchen) and "male" (= Männchen) is only used for animals, not humans. It's beyond me how someone could call a human that way.
generally, in English, the only time I use the terms "male" and "female" regarding humans is in discussing biology. I think that's why the term "female" is dehumanizing: it's a term typically focused just on biology, and not the psychological and sociological aspects of the individual that would go with words like "boy", "girl", "woman", "man" ...
Load More Replies...I always see how long it takes me to get angry when I read these kind of posts. Just reading the title made me apoplectic. Couldn’t read past the 6th post as I now want to hunt down every misogynistic twatbasket who posted these and painfully castrate every single one of them.
I got to #22 and couldn't take it anymore; my mouth ached from gaping at the long list of incels who've probably never experienced a relationship with a woman because of their immaturity & twisted views. We women are already aware that it's a scary world out there, but threads like this underline it. :-(
whats with all the racist and incel s**t recently? almost every post has at least one or both in them.
To say the truth, it's very good rage bait. Gives the BP site more traffic
Load More Replies...After reading through half this list i can't help wonder who tf raised these people?
With every post on the list, I pray that I never meet people like them
That's the scary part. They may already be among your friends, family, co-workers, I actually think I might know some men who think like that, deep down, even if they would never say stuff like that in public... The thought scares me shitless.
Load More Replies...it's always the same. "females" only want the triple 6. frankly yea, I'm attracted to atall skinny guy with long hair, sure, but that doesn't mean I'm incapable of being happy with someone who doesn't look like my fantasy guy. I've dated short guys, short haired guys, poor guys, even a smattering of outright homeless guys. personality is what matters, work on that s**t, my dudes
This makes me wonder that what the actual f**k is wrong with some people 😒
"Females..." is just a massive sign that some a*****e is going to say something insanely (and probably incel-y) stupid. Most people* who call women "females" instead of just "women" need to be sterilized. (*and because this is BP, it's here I explain that I obviously don't mean in a medical, scientific, actual, etc. reason to do so and not in the way most red-pilled and incel idiots do).
I am glad my male friends make me realize this is a bubble and not generally opinion of the most men.
The ones that say that c**p are the ones that get pi$$y when I call them cisgender heterosexual males, as if that weren't 100% accurate.
Honestly, I feel sorry for these boys (and yes, they are boys...not men). The same boys who moan about not getting a "female" because they are short, probably wouldn't date a woman because she isn't thin. I personally have dated men who were 6'5" down to 5'3", Everyone has their preferences, but most women I know could care less about height - it's all about personality.
Sometimes despair is the only option. There are so many types of f*****t out there, is there some sort of breeding or training programme for these dullards?
The posts were distressing but the comments from all the wonderful Pandas here made it worth sticking through to the end. We're a weird bunch, we are, but I love it.
My favorites are the ones where the incel groans about how downtrodden he is. How his life is so hard as a man, and how women have it so easy. Yet despite the world being against him, he just takes it on the chin and perseveres, because he's a John Wayne badass. 🙄
People really seem to forget how humans are one of, if not the only, species with sexism and men traditionally being in charge
Ugh. I literally just finished watching a documentary, "The Antisocial Network". This is like the penultimate phase in that doco (Actually if you can stomach the depressing nature it is worth a watch though).
Well time to get to enrolled in self defense, too many of these wackos out there.
I couldnt make it through past like the 10th one. Dear women/womyn/womxn. I sincerely apologise for these posts and the horror that is my gender. Obviously, cue the "not all men", yeah ... when you hang out with men these sorts of stupid a*s remarks are NOT unusual, even from so-called Alphas. Sickening and pathetic. YT, an actual man.
"when you hang out with men these sorts of stupid a*s remarks are NOT unusual" Mmmm, yup, they really are. Generally speaking, men socially reject this sh't. You must hang out with some weird dudes.
Load More Replies...Feels like posts like these are going to feature in a villain origin story. Stay tuned for when the Scr0tum Shredder strikes-its not me, i wear glasses
I'm sorry, i'm not a native english speaker. what is the point here? Is female a degrading term or something? (Just looking to learn here)
Hi! Its because "female" has the feeling of only talking about the biological gender of someone, and doesnt recognize women and girls (I dont mean to infantilize women, I mean like kids like myself) as people with a life and feelings. this also works in a similar way when one calls someone who is a grown woman a girl, but its much more subtle in the way it degrades women.
Load More Replies...Oh boy, such stupid stupid boys - you can't call them men because they are all so incredibly childish and contrary to a few posts not well educated either. No a PhD doesn't mean you are educated it means you can study and discuss your own specialty. Education means learning about the world past the center of your own head
And then they wonder why some women choose to be single (and might be happier).
MTG is a great contributor to the cause of gender equality. Her contribution is to demonstrate that women can also be bad.
Load More Replies...That's nothing. I'm sure I remember reading not so long ago, hospital paperwork had the words chest feeder or something like that lol