22 Y.O. Man With Rare Form Of Autism Is Inspiring People With His Story Of Self Acceptance
Accepting yourself can be quite a challenge. In a sense, we become our own enemy because we know what’s most wrong with us and we often live in fear and discomfort because of it.
It’s hard to like certain things about ourselves knowing that someone might see our “flaws”, completely ignoring the fact that they might not even be flaws to begin with and that we’re no different than anyone else as we’ve all got our demons to deal with.
Bronson Layton, a 22-year-old English language tutor and YouTuber from Ragland, Alabama, has recently come out with a public post about his life of living with a rare form of autism and how he overcame all obstacles by accepting himself.
Meet Bronson Layton, a 22 Y.O. English language tutor and YouTuber with autism (PDD-NOS)
Image credits: Bronson Layton
Several weeks ago, Layton wrote an inspiring public post about how he accepted himself and how everyone else, no matter how “different” they may be, should too
Layton was first diagnosed with PDD NOS, a rare type of autism, back in 1999 when he was just 2 years old
School wasn’t easy given his challenges with autism, but he soon found out about a talent of his: creative writing
Layton never knew about his autism until one day when he found some diagnosis documents while cleaning up
Autism is a broad spectrum of conditions characterized by challenges with social skills, repetitive behaviors, speech and nonverbal communication. It just so happened that Bronson Layton was diagnosed with a rare form of it called Pervasive Developmental Disorder Not Otherwise Specified (or PDD-NOS).
In his post, Layton details how he grew up living with autism, starting with his diagnosis at just 2 years old, leading up to the school years and his struggles learning, the discovery of his talent for creative writing as well as his subsequent discovery of his autism at the age of 15—his parents never told him about it until he found out for himself whilst cleaning up at home.
He understood that his parents kept it from him because they wanted to protect him—to not affect his self-esteem and to not make him feel like a freak in the eyes of others. He understood that they did so because they love him, this leading Layton to accept who he is as an individual.
He accepted himself and never let autism stop him from doing great things, helping others along the way
Image credits: Bronson Layton
Image credits: Bronson Layton
Layton never let it stop him from doing great things in life. He focused on his talents and used them to help those who needed a friend. Since then, despite these odds, he went on to do many great things, including becoming class president, leading class graduation, earning a Master’s degree at a prestigious college, and running his own YouTube channel.
The post ended with a message of support, saying that no matter how different you may be, you’re on the right path in life—“don’t worry, you’ve got this.” He also offered to share his advice and experience on how to deal with a life of autism for anyone who needs help, urging people to not forget that they are not alone in this.
Layton had a feeling that he needed to tell this story to the world, and that he did. He posted the public post on the Good News and Happy Stories Only Facebook group, where people were inspired by it. People praised him for the amazing story of his life, calling him an inspiration and thanking him for sharing it. Some passed on their best wishes to him and even shared their own experiences with autism.
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Ok, I admit this made me tear up. I found out last year that I'm autistic and I've been struggling to adjust to the news. Although it explains a lot, it's a tricky thing to wrap my head around the fact that I'm allowed to be the real me (I'm 44 and I've been masking for most of my life). I'm trying to accept that being different is not a bad thing. Even though it sometimes makes life difficult for me. People like Bronson give me hope. If you ever read this thread, thank you Bronson xxx
Strange.. For what I learned PDD NOS is a 'rest group' for developmental disorder. People with PDD NOS have to little symtoms of Autism to be considered autistic. In the Netherlands the diagnosis PDD-NOS does not exist anymore since.. 2013? Not at all a rare diagnoses to be given.
I was just about to comment that! It's more of a catch-all diagnosis, usually give. By doctors who don't want to commit to full dx of autism. Super common, actually!!
Load More Replies...Awesome story! Just one thing bothered me. PDD-NOS is not a rare form of autism. It's alle forms of an autism like disorder that doesn't fit the bill. So it might be that his set of symptoms is fairly unique, but the term is just a container for everything in that corner not fitting the exact diagnoses like classical autism or Asperger's and more.
I'm on the Autism Spectrum, I'm 27, married, masters degree, work for the US Air Force. The best thing I ever learned to do was just accept that I am different and I'm so creative because I have Autism and that is such a great thing! I like to celebrate my differences and at work I end up with all the creative tasks because people know I'm the best one for the job! So much love to everyone on the spectrum :)
This young man seems absolutely delightful! I'm not sure how 'rare' PDD really is. I know I had a kiddo in my toddler room who was diagnosed with it. I had spent a summer working with autistic preschoolers before I started working there at the daycare, so fortunately I knew what to look for and was able to advise my little guy's foster parents about testing. I ADORED this particular kiddo. Teachers aren't supposed to have favorites, I couldn't help it with this baby. He was so incredibly sweet and loving, but he was also shy and 'slower' than the other kids his age. He also got sick a lot, so extra cuddling was basically required. If he hadn't had amazing foster parents who were actively working toward adopting him, I probably would have applied to adopt him myself. That was how much I loved this kid. I went to his new school to check on him when he graduated from my class. He had moved to the same program where I worked a year prior. I watched him from the doorway with one of the...
I'm aspergic. It wasn't until a few years ago that I was diagnosed. Asperger syndrome wasn't a recognised thing when I was growing up. I look back on past experiences and I know when I f****d things up. I'm not excusing past behaviour, but I now know why I did certain things (nothing bad I hasten to add, just, well different from perceived 'normal behaviour'). I get overwhelmed by my senses; sound, smell, taste, etc. To the point where it can cause me to get angry, irritated, uncomfortable etc. Okay, example, the drainpipe outside my house, behind my bedroom, when it's rained there will be an occasional drip of water hitting the bottom of the drainpipe, my bedroom is on the second floor, the bottom of the drainpipe is outside about 10 meters away, I can hear that drip.
Addendum: FYI, I feel like I'm about 75% 'normal' (whatever that is). I've been trying for the past umpteen years to fill the 25% of me that's been missing; self-medicating, introspection, yadda yadda. It's been really hard work. There's a favourite song of mine call Kolly Kibber's Birthday by Julian Cope. Google it, the first line echoes in my head regularly.
Load More Replies...The hardest thing about being on the spectrum for me was knowing I was different but not knowing why or being able to explain it. I think the best thing any parent can do is tell their child they have autism and let them make it into a strength with knowledge and understanding. Don't keep it a secret. It's nothing to be ashamed of.
I've got three kids on the spectrum.This young man is wonderful . However PDD - NOS is a generic autism diagnosis for when the doctor or school doesn't want to say it's autism. It is in the US anyways
My brother was originally dx with PDD-Nos in 1994 because doctors didn't want to say "autism." It was retroactively changed years later as doctors' understanding of the spectrum broadened
Load More Replies...... therapists and had tears streaming down my face because he was doing things he hadn't been capable of a few months earlier. I was so PROUD of him. I'm crying right now just thinking about it. He'd be a teenager these days. I still find myself thinking about him from time to time and wondering how he's doing.
Thank you for being a good voice for autism, at least from what I read so far. :) People with autism are all so different from each other, but I think your message is flexible enough to be good for them all- as well as non autistic people too. Respect for you, as a person. From another autistic person.
The last sentence but being said by me. That's my reply.
Load More Replies...My friend has Autism when I used to play with her she would sometimes show signs of like autism but I was never told until grade 3
PDD NOS is not rare anymore, it's not even diagnosed anymore b/c it's so commonplace...
I wish I knew exactly what kind of autism I have. All I know is they diagnosed me with “Aspergers Syndrome” when I was 11 & they had me go to occasional appointments (& by the time I was high-school age -which I was unable to finish due to mental breakdown- I was left crying through every appointment). Sadly, my country has virtually no way for adults with autism to be social with others who are alike, so the only friends I’m talking to are ones I’ve befriended online (though I don’t do any type of live chat or audio conversation, as I’m phobic to the point of PTSD ... I chat via comments on posts, which I reply to at my own pace). People with mental illness & even other disabilities are seriously neglected where I live & unless they’re upper-class, it usually only makes the news when someone is badly hurt or dies; otherwise, they just sweep us all under the carpet. They legit don’t care. 🥺💔🤷♀️
I had an interesting encounter with a person who didn't know he had Asperger's until he was like 40. The diagnosis made his life worse, because he started to play a victim, stopped trying harder in life, and just totally labeled himself "handicapped". Before the diagnosis, he had a complex job as a programmer at the bank, almost paid out house mortgage and a family. Then all went down hill..
Ok, I admit this made me tear up. I found out last year that I'm autistic and I've been struggling to adjust to the news. Although it explains a lot, it's a tricky thing to wrap my head around the fact that I'm allowed to be the real me (I'm 44 and I've been masking for most of my life). I'm trying to accept that being different is not a bad thing. Even though it sometimes makes life difficult for me. People like Bronson give me hope. If you ever read this thread, thank you Bronson xxx
Strange.. For what I learned PDD NOS is a 'rest group' for developmental disorder. People with PDD NOS have to little symtoms of Autism to be considered autistic. In the Netherlands the diagnosis PDD-NOS does not exist anymore since.. 2013? Not at all a rare diagnoses to be given.
I was just about to comment that! It's more of a catch-all diagnosis, usually give. By doctors who don't want to commit to full dx of autism. Super common, actually!!
Load More Replies...Awesome story! Just one thing bothered me. PDD-NOS is not a rare form of autism. It's alle forms of an autism like disorder that doesn't fit the bill. So it might be that his set of symptoms is fairly unique, but the term is just a container for everything in that corner not fitting the exact diagnoses like classical autism or Asperger's and more.
I'm on the Autism Spectrum, I'm 27, married, masters degree, work for the US Air Force. The best thing I ever learned to do was just accept that I am different and I'm so creative because I have Autism and that is such a great thing! I like to celebrate my differences and at work I end up with all the creative tasks because people know I'm the best one for the job! So much love to everyone on the spectrum :)
This young man seems absolutely delightful! I'm not sure how 'rare' PDD really is. I know I had a kiddo in my toddler room who was diagnosed with it. I had spent a summer working with autistic preschoolers before I started working there at the daycare, so fortunately I knew what to look for and was able to advise my little guy's foster parents about testing. I ADORED this particular kiddo. Teachers aren't supposed to have favorites, I couldn't help it with this baby. He was so incredibly sweet and loving, but he was also shy and 'slower' than the other kids his age. He also got sick a lot, so extra cuddling was basically required. If he hadn't had amazing foster parents who were actively working toward adopting him, I probably would have applied to adopt him myself. That was how much I loved this kid. I went to his new school to check on him when he graduated from my class. He had moved to the same program where I worked a year prior. I watched him from the doorway with one of the...
I'm aspergic. It wasn't until a few years ago that I was diagnosed. Asperger syndrome wasn't a recognised thing when I was growing up. I look back on past experiences and I know when I f****d things up. I'm not excusing past behaviour, but I now know why I did certain things (nothing bad I hasten to add, just, well different from perceived 'normal behaviour'). I get overwhelmed by my senses; sound, smell, taste, etc. To the point where it can cause me to get angry, irritated, uncomfortable etc. Okay, example, the drainpipe outside my house, behind my bedroom, when it's rained there will be an occasional drip of water hitting the bottom of the drainpipe, my bedroom is on the second floor, the bottom of the drainpipe is outside about 10 meters away, I can hear that drip.
Addendum: FYI, I feel like I'm about 75% 'normal' (whatever that is). I've been trying for the past umpteen years to fill the 25% of me that's been missing; self-medicating, introspection, yadda yadda. It's been really hard work. There's a favourite song of mine call Kolly Kibber's Birthday by Julian Cope. Google it, the first line echoes in my head regularly.
Load More Replies...The hardest thing about being on the spectrum for me was knowing I was different but not knowing why or being able to explain it. I think the best thing any parent can do is tell their child they have autism and let them make it into a strength with knowledge and understanding. Don't keep it a secret. It's nothing to be ashamed of.
I've got three kids on the spectrum.This young man is wonderful . However PDD - NOS is a generic autism diagnosis for when the doctor or school doesn't want to say it's autism. It is in the US anyways
My brother was originally dx with PDD-Nos in 1994 because doctors didn't want to say "autism." It was retroactively changed years later as doctors' understanding of the spectrum broadened
Load More Replies...... therapists and had tears streaming down my face because he was doing things he hadn't been capable of a few months earlier. I was so PROUD of him. I'm crying right now just thinking about it. He'd be a teenager these days. I still find myself thinking about him from time to time and wondering how he's doing.
Thank you for being a good voice for autism, at least from what I read so far. :) People with autism are all so different from each other, but I think your message is flexible enough to be good for them all- as well as non autistic people too. Respect for you, as a person. From another autistic person.
The last sentence but being said by me. That's my reply.
Load More Replies...My friend has Autism when I used to play with her she would sometimes show signs of like autism but I was never told until grade 3
PDD NOS is not rare anymore, it's not even diagnosed anymore b/c it's so commonplace...
I wish I knew exactly what kind of autism I have. All I know is they diagnosed me with “Aspergers Syndrome” when I was 11 & they had me go to occasional appointments (& by the time I was high-school age -which I was unable to finish due to mental breakdown- I was left crying through every appointment). Sadly, my country has virtually no way for adults with autism to be social with others who are alike, so the only friends I’m talking to are ones I’ve befriended online (though I don’t do any type of live chat or audio conversation, as I’m phobic to the point of PTSD ... I chat via comments on posts, which I reply to at my own pace). People with mental illness & even other disabilities are seriously neglected where I live & unless they’re upper-class, it usually only makes the news when someone is badly hurt or dies; otherwise, they just sweep us all under the carpet. They legit don’t care. 🥺💔🤷♀️
I had an interesting encounter with a person who didn't know he had Asperger's until he was like 40. The diagnosis made his life worse, because he started to play a victim, stopped trying harder in life, and just totally labeled himself "handicapped". Before the diagnosis, he had a complex job as a programmer at the bank, almost paid out house mortgage and a family. Then all went down hill..
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