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22 Y.O. Man With Rare Form Of Autism Is Inspiring People With His Story Of Self Acceptance
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22 Y.O. Man With Rare Form Of Autism Is Inspiring People With His Story Of Self Acceptance

Here’s An Inspiring Story Of Self-Acceptance Shared By A 22-Year-Old Man Who Has A Rare Form Of Autism22 Y.O. Man With Rare Form Of Autism Is Inspiring People With His Story Of Self AcceptanceAutistic 22 Y.O. Man Teaches About Self-Acceptance And That There's Nothing Wrong With Being Different22 Y.O. Autistic Man Shares An Inspiring Story About How He Learned To Accept Himself22 Y.O. Autistic Man Posts An Inspiring Story On Facebook About How He Learned To Accept Himself22 Y.O. Autistic Man Shares An Inspiring Story About How He Learned To Accept Himself, Says There's Nothing Wrong With Being Different22 Y.O. Man With Rare Form Of Autism Is Inspiring People With His Story Of Self Acceptance22 Y.O. Man With Rare Form Of Autism Is Inspiring People With His Story Of Self Acceptance22 Y.O. Man With Rare Form Of Autism Is Inspiring People With His Story Of Self Acceptance22 Y.O. Man With Rare Form Of Autism Is Inspiring People With His Story Of Self Acceptance
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Accepting yourself can be quite a challenge. In a sense, we become our own enemy because we know what’s most wrong with us and we often live in fear and discomfort because of it.

It’s hard to like certain things about ourselves knowing that someone might see our “flaws”, completely ignoring the fact that they might not even be flaws to begin with and that we’re no different than anyone else as we’ve all got our demons to deal with.

Bronson Layton, a 22-year-old English language tutor and YouTuber from Ragland, Alabama, has recently come out with a public post about his life of living with a rare form of autism and how he overcame all obstacles by accepting himself.

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    Meet Bronson Layton, a 22 Y.O. English language tutor and YouTuber with autism (PDD-NOS)

    22 Y.O. Man With Rare Form Of Autism Is Inspiring People With His Story Of Self Acceptance

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    Several weeks ago, Layton wrote an inspiring public post about how he accepted himself and how everyone else, no matter how “different” they may be, should too

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    22 Y.O. Man With Rare Form Of Autism Is Inspiring People With His Story Of Self Acceptance

    Layton was first diagnosed with PDD NOS, a rare type of autism, back in 1999 when he was just 2 years old

    22 Y.O. Man With Rare Form Of Autism Is Inspiring People With His Story Of Self Acceptance

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    School wasn’t easy given his challenges with autism, but he soon found out about a talent of his: creative writing

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    Layton never knew about his autism until one day when he found some diagnosis documents while cleaning up

    22 Y.O. Man With Rare Form Of Autism Is Inspiring People With His Story Of Self Acceptance

    Autism is a broad spectrum of conditions characterized by challenges with social skills, repetitive behaviors, speech and nonverbal communication. It just so happened that Bronson Layton was diagnosed with a rare form of it called Pervasive Developmental Disorder Not Otherwise Specified (or PDD-NOS).

    In his post, Layton details how he grew up living with autism, starting with his diagnosis at just 2 years old, leading up to the school years and his struggles learning, the discovery of his talent for creative writing as well as his subsequent discovery of his autism at the age of 15—his parents never told him about it until he found out for himself whilst cleaning up at home.

    He understood that his parents kept it from him because they wanted to protect him—to not affect his self-esteem and to not make him feel like a freak in the eyes of others. He understood that they did so because they love him, this leading Layton to accept who he is as an individual.

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    22 Y.O. Man With Rare Form Of Autism Is Inspiring People With His Story Of Self Acceptance

    He accepted himself and never let autism stop him from doing great things, helping others along the way

    22 Y.O. Man With Rare Form Of Autism Is Inspiring People With His Story Of Self Acceptance

    22 Y.O. Man With Rare Form Of Autism Is Inspiring People With His Story Of Self Acceptance

    Image credits: Bronson Layton

    22 Y.O. Man With Rare Form Of Autism Is Inspiring People With His Story Of Self Acceptance

    Image credits: Bronson Layton

    Layton never let it stop him from doing great things in life. He focused on his talents and used them to help those who needed a friend. Since then, despite these odds, he went on to do many great things, including becoming class president, leading class graduation, earning a Master’s degree at a prestigious college, and running his own YouTube channel.

    The post ended with a message of support, saying that no matter how different you may be, you’re on the right path in life—“don’t worry, you’ve got this.” He also offered to share his advice and experience on how to deal with a life of autism for anyone who needs help, urging people to not forget that they are not alone in this.

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    Layton had a feeling that he needed to tell this story to the world, and that he did. He posted the public post on the Good News and Happy Stories Only Facebook group, where people were inspired by it. People praised him for the amazing story of his life, calling him an inspiration and thanking him for sharing it. Some passed on their best wishes to him and even shared their own experiences with autism.
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    Some time ago, Robertas used to spend his days watching how deep the imprint in his chair will become as he wrote for Bored Panda. Wrote about pretty much everything under and beyond the sun. Not anymore, though. He's now probably playing Gwent or hosting Dungeons and Dragons adventures for those with an inclination for chaos.

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    Robertas Lisickis

    Robertas Lisickis

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    Some time ago, Robertas used to spend his days watching how deep the imprint in his chair will become as he wrote for Bored Panda. Wrote about pretty much everything under and beyond the sun. Not anymore, though. He's now probably playing Gwent or hosting Dungeons and Dragons adventures for those with an inclination for chaos.

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    CelSlade
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    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok, I admit this made me tear up. I found out last year that I'm autistic and I've been struggling to adjust to the news. Although it explains a lot, it's a tricky thing to wrap my head around the fact that I'm allowed to be the real me (I'm 44 and I've been masking for most of my life). I'm trying to accept that being different is not a bad thing. Even though it sometimes makes life difficult for me. People like Bronson give me hope. If you ever read this thread, thank you Bronson xxx

    Dark Pigeon
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Strange.. For what I learned PDD NOS is a 'rest group' for developmental disorder. People with PDD NOS have to little symtoms of Autism to be considered autistic. In the Netherlands the diagnosis PDD-NOS does not exist anymore since.. 2013? Not at all a rare diagnoses to be given.

    Brooke Weber
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was just about to comment that! It's more of a catch-all diagnosis, usually give. By doctors who don't want to commit to full dx of autism. Super common, actually!!

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    Rissie
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Awesome story! Just one thing bothered me. PDD-NOS is not a rare form of autism. It's alle forms of an autism like disorder that doesn't fit the bill. So it might be that his set of symptoms is fairly unique, but the term is just a container for everything in that corner not fitting the exact diagnoses like classical autism or Asperger's and more.

    Nicole
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm on the Autism Spectrum, I'm 27, married, masters degree, work for the US Air Force. The best thing I ever learned to do was just accept that I am different and I'm so creative because I have Autism and that is such a great thing! I like to celebrate my differences and at work I end up with all the creative tasks because people know I'm the best one for the job! So much love to everyone on the spectrum :)

    Cori
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This young man seems absolutely delightful! I'm not sure how 'rare' PDD really is. I know I had a kiddo in my toddler room who was diagnosed with it. I had spent a summer working with autistic preschoolers before I started working there at the daycare, so fortunately I knew what to look for and was able to advise my little guy's foster parents about testing. I ADORED this particular kiddo. Teachers aren't supposed to have favorites, I couldn't help it with this baby. He was so incredibly sweet and loving, but he was also shy and 'slower' than the other kids his age. He also got sick a lot, so extra cuddling was basically required. If he hadn't had amazing foster parents who were actively working toward adopting him, I probably would have applied to adopt him myself. That was how much I loved this kid. I went to his new school to check on him when he graduated from my class. He had moved to the same program where I worked a year prior. I watched him from the doorway with one of the...

    Steve Barnett
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm aspergic. It wasn't until a few years ago that I was diagnosed. Asperger syndrome wasn't a recognised thing when I was growing up. I look back on past experiences and I know when I f****d things up. I'm not excusing past behaviour, but I now know why I did certain things (nothing bad I hasten to add, just, well different from perceived 'normal behaviour'). I get overwhelmed by my senses; sound, smell, taste, etc. To the point where it can cause me to get angry, irritated, uncomfortable etc. Okay, example, the drainpipe outside my house, behind my bedroom, when it's rained there will be an occasional drip of water hitting the bottom of the drainpipe, my bedroom is on the second floor, the bottom of the drainpipe is outside about 10 meters away, I can hear that drip.

    Steve Barnett
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Addendum: FYI, I feel like I'm about 75% 'normal' (whatever that is). I've been trying for the past umpteen years to fill the 25% of me that's been missing; self-medicating, introspection, yadda yadda. It's been really hard work. There's a favourite song of mine call Kolly Kibber's Birthday by Julian Cope. Google it, the first line echoes in my head regularly.

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    Jo Choto
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The hardest thing about being on the spectrum for me was knowing I was different but not knowing why or being able to explain it. I think the best thing any parent can do is tell their child they have autism and let them make it into a strength with knowledge and understanding. Don't keep it a secret. It's nothing to be ashamed of.

    Leslie Burleson
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've got three kids on the spectrum.This young man is wonderful . However PDD - NOS is a generic autism diagnosis for when the doctor or school doesn't want to say it's autism. It is in the US anyways

    Brooke Weber
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My brother was originally dx with PDD-Nos in 1994 because doctors didn't want to say "autism." It was retroactively changed years later as doctors' understanding of the spectrum broadened

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    Cori
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... therapists and had tears streaming down my face because he was doing things he hadn't been capable of a few months earlier. I was so PROUD of him. I'm crying right now just thinking about it. He'd be a teenager these days. I still find myself thinking about him from time to time and wondering how he's doing.

    pusheen buttercup
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for being a good voice for autism, at least from what I read so far. :) People with autism are all so different from each other, but I think your message is flexible enough to be good for them all- as well as non autistic people too. Respect for you, as a person. From another autistic person.

    Kady Maree Mcgrath
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friend has Autism when I used to play with her she would sometimes show signs of like autism but I was never told until grade 3

    Amy Budka
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you. My son was diagnosed with PDDNOS when he was three. Because it isn't considered an autism diagnosis, we have struggled getting any kind oh help from the schools.

    AspieGirl88
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish I knew exactly what kind of autism I have. All I know is they diagnosed me with “Aspergers Syndrome” when I was 11 & they had me go to occasional appointments (& by the time I was high-school age -which I was unable to finish due to mental breakdown- I was left crying through every appointment). Sadly, my country has virtually no way for adults with autism to be social with others who are alike, so the only friends I’m talking to are ones I’ve befriended online (though I don’t do any type of live chat or audio conversation, as I’m phobic to the point of PTSD ... I chat via comments on posts, which I reply to at my own pace). People with mental illness & even other disabilities are seriously neglected where I live & unless they’re upper-class, it usually only makes the news when someone is badly hurt or dies; otherwise, they just sweep us all under the carpet. They legit don’t care. 🥺💔🤷‍♀️

    Amy Grant
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had an interesting encounter with a person who didn't know he had Asperger's until he was like 40. The diagnosis made his life worse, because he started to play a victim, stopped trying harder in life, and just totally labeled himself "handicapped". Before the diagnosis, he had a complex job as a programmer at the bank, almost paid out house mortgage and a family. Then all went down hill..

    CelSlade
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok, I admit this made me tear up. I found out last year that I'm autistic and I've been struggling to adjust to the news. Although it explains a lot, it's a tricky thing to wrap my head around the fact that I'm allowed to be the real me (I'm 44 and I've been masking for most of my life). I'm trying to accept that being different is not a bad thing. Even though it sometimes makes life difficult for me. People like Bronson give me hope. If you ever read this thread, thank you Bronson xxx

    Dark Pigeon
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Strange.. For what I learned PDD NOS is a 'rest group' for developmental disorder. People with PDD NOS have to little symtoms of Autism to be considered autistic. In the Netherlands the diagnosis PDD-NOS does not exist anymore since.. 2013? Not at all a rare diagnoses to be given.

    Brooke Weber
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was just about to comment that! It's more of a catch-all diagnosis, usually give. By doctors who don't want to commit to full dx of autism. Super common, actually!!

    Load More Replies...
    Rissie
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Awesome story! Just one thing bothered me. PDD-NOS is not a rare form of autism. It's alle forms of an autism like disorder that doesn't fit the bill. So it might be that his set of symptoms is fairly unique, but the term is just a container for everything in that corner not fitting the exact diagnoses like classical autism or Asperger's and more.

    Nicole
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm on the Autism Spectrum, I'm 27, married, masters degree, work for the US Air Force. The best thing I ever learned to do was just accept that I am different and I'm so creative because I have Autism and that is such a great thing! I like to celebrate my differences and at work I end up with all the creative tasks because people know I'm the best one for the job! So much love to everyone on the spectrum :)

    Cori
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This young man seems absolutely delightful! I'm not sure how 'rare' PDD really is. I know I had a kiddo in my toddler room who was diagnosed with it. I had spent a summer working with autistic preschoolers before I started working there at the daycare, so fortunately I knew what to look for and was able to advise my little guy's foster parents about testing. I ADORED this particular kiddo. Teachers aren't supposed to have favorites, I couldn't help it with this baby. He was so incredibly sweet and loving, but he was also shy and 'slower' than the other kids his age. He also got sick a lot, so extra cuddling was basically required. If he hadn't had amazing foster parents who were actively working toward adopting him, I probably would have applied to adopt him myself. That was how much I loved this kid. I went to his new school to check on him when he graduated from my class. He had moved to the same program where I worked a year prior. I watched him from the doorway with one of the...

    Steve Barnett
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm aspergic. It wasn't until a few years ago that I was diagnosed. Asperger syndrome wasn't a recognised thing when I was growing up. I look back on past experiences and I know when I f****d things up. I'm not excusing past behaviour, but I now know why I did certain things (nothing bad I hasten to add, just, well different from perceived 'normal behaviour'). I get overwhelmed by my senses; sound, smell, taste, etc. To the point where it can cause me to get angry, irritated, uncomfortable etc. Okay, example, the drainpipe outside my house, behind my bedroom, when it's rained there will be an occasional drip of water hitting the bottom of the drainpipe, my bedroom is on the second floor, the bottom of the drainpipe is outside about 10 meters away, I can hear that drip.

    Steve Barnett
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Addendum: FYI, I feel like I'm about 75% 'normal' (whatever that is). I've been trying for the past umpteen years to fill the 25% of me that's been missing; self-medicating, introspection, yadda yadda. It's been really hard work. There's a favourite song of mine call Kolly Kibber's Birthday by Julian Cope. Google it, the first line echoes in my head regularly.

    Load More Replies...
    Jo Choto
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The hardest thing about being on the spectrum for me was knowing I was different but not knowing why or being able to explain it. I think the best thing any parent can do is tell their child they have autism and let them make it into a strength with knowledge and understanding. Don't keep it a secret. It's nothing to be ashamed of.

    Leslie Burleson
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've got three kids on the spectrum.This young man is wonderful . However PDD - NOS is a generic autism diagnosis for when the doctor or school doesn't want to say it's autism. It is in the US anyways

    Brooke Weber
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My brother was originally dx with PDD-Nos in 1994 because doctors didn't want to say "autism." It was retroactively changed years later as doctors' understanding of the spectrum broadened

    Load More Replies...
    Cori
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... therapists and had tears streaming down my face because he was doing things he hadn't been capable of a few months earlier. I was so PROUD of him. I'm crying right now just thinking about it. He'd be a teenager these days. I still find myself thinking about him from time to time and wondering how he's doing.

    pusheen buttercup
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for being a good voice for autism, at least from what I read so far. :) People with autism are all so different from each other, but I think your message is flexible enough to be good for them all- as well as non autistic people too. Respect for you, as a person. From another autistic person.

    Kady Maree Mcgrath
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friend has Autism when I used to play with her she would sometimes show signs of like autism but I was never told until grade 3

    Amy Budka
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you. My son was diagnosed with PDDNOS when he was three. Because it isn't considered an autism diagnosis, we have struggled getting any kind oh help from the schools.

    AspieGirl88
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish I knew exactly what kind of autism I have. All I know is they diagnosed me with “Aspergers Syndrome” when I was 11 & they had me go to occasional appointments (& by the time I was high-school age -which I was unable to finish due to mental breakdown- I was left crying through every appointment). Sadly, my country has virtually no way for adults with autism to be social with others who are alike, so the only friends I’m talking to are ones I’ve befriended online (though I don’t do any type of live chat or audio conversation, as I’m phobic to the point of PTSD ... I chat via comments on posts, which I reply to at my own pace). People with mental illness & even other disabilities are seriously neglected where I live & unless they’re upper-class, it usually only makes the news when someone is badly hurt or dies; otherwise, they just sweep us all under the carpet. They legit don’t care. 🥺💔🤷‍♀️

    Amy Grant
    Community Member
    4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had an interesting encounter with a person who didn't know he had Asperger's until he was like 40. The diagnosis made his life worse, because he started to play a victim, stopped trying harder in life, and just totally labeled himself "handicapped". Before the diagnosis, he had a complex job as a programmer at the bank, almost paid out house mortgage and a family. Then all went down hill..

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