Living well is the best revenge. Surround your family with love, and wish the haters well -- in your head, from a distance.

NTA. What a lovely young couple. He stood up to his parents, defending his wife. She is a sweetheart and very forgiving. I'm sad this happened but glad that those racist and toxic grandparents are out of their lives. I wish them all the best with their beautiful baby.

I wonder if this test was even legal. Where I live, you certainly need both parent's permission for a paternity test, or else no lab will do it.

Reading this almost made my blood boil. I cannot understand how people can still be this racist in the 21st century. I thought that we were past all of that, but these last few years have shown me that I was very wrong. He is not the a-hole and those parents were way out of line. I would love someone to explain why non white are so hated in this world. What did we do to get this kind of treatment? Before anyone says so in the comments: If you have had an incident of reverse racism, I am sorry, but the racism I am talking about is the racism I have experienced.

The wife picked a damn good man, it’s not often you hear about stuff like this and it makes my heart happy to know that they’ll be living their best lives without his pos parents.

I'm 90% sure my MIL did the same with me and my husband. My husband couldn't have children with his first wife. I could and did. MIL actually believed I had slept with one of the brothers. I didn't and they were fairly insulted. The last child resembled all the brothers one month after the other. Then my husband. That same child, around 4, looked at a photo album and says "Hey! That's me, older" Yes. That was the youngest brother... Today you look at my children and there's no doubt in anyone's mind where they are from. The brothers are very different in appearance. It's a shame but it doesn't really matter since she likes to put her children against each other so we don't visit anymore; it's been years. No apologies were given.

This story is sad and I am glad he is smart to choose wife and child over racist idiots.....now that being said I am getting sick of reading these AITA when they are ridiculous one sided. They are becoming stories were someone's like " hey so I was robbed, stabbed, shot, cheated on, murdered, brought back to life, and insulted by someone whom I gave money, shelter, car, food, kidneys, everything....should I keep them in my life or AITA". I mean of course you aren't the Arsehole to cut out racist parents, why ask?

NTA - hope he sticks to his guns. Having them around could only be toxic and damaging for his wife and son.

What a good husband

You did the absolute right and best thing! Now, your child/ children, will grow up happy, adjusted, with w rainbow of love and family members to share! Your wife is a gem! And I bet her family is also! Hence the rainbow, because you have chosen and so choose, your family in life! But the one poster was correct. Your parents have no trouble crossing boundaries, and with their own family members! Performing a medical test without your express permission, is so very illegal! So, if they ever tried to pull the grandparent law thing where as their grandparents, and entitled to spend time with your children, whip the illegal testing out and that should shut them up. They lost all access and rightly so, to being part of your life, for that act alone. Besides, shows their extreme lack of trust and respect for you, and your wife. Make sure your wills state very clearly, if you two were to die, they go to mom's side of the family. Not fun to think about, but needed.

Abso-f*****g-lutely NTA. Parents are racist assholes. Great that they got kicked to the curb.

I have a racist, insane mother as well. We cut her out of my life entirely 5 years ago and wish I had done it sooner. She hated the fact that my wife was Hispanic and told us to never have kids. When we did she wanted to see the kids all the time and even wanted to bring them to Disney world by themselves (mother and stepfather). If course we declined and later found out he was a sex offender for soliciting children under 15. If parents don't accept your significant other fully, cut them out of your life right away.

Listen to Kim. Living with relatives that do not care about one of your parents is life altering. Being told you are just like that parent and not in a good way is painful. Words once spoken can never be taken back. I am now in my 50's and words spoken to me before I was 10 still come back to haunt me!

My dad was a POS with some good bits sprinkled in. My mom's parents and family justifiably hated how he treated her. They never once said a word to my sister or I until we were adults. I don't think these grandparents would keep their racist mouths shut

Amazes me that parents always cal, us selfish and cruel when we stand up to them. My parents are the same. If ud never met me you’d think I was the most selfish person in the world. Im fat lazy money grabbing loose u name it. I still did everything for them trying to shine in their eyes I have give up now and I feel better now I have cut them off. My absence means nothing to them.

OP, your parents are turds and your wife is a saint. Your poor kid's DNA is now going to be in some government vault for who knows what purposes. DNA should only be taken when legal consent is given. I wish you all everything good.

I think like 90% of these AITAs are made up

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