Woman With Anxiety Tired Of Others Not Understanding What It Is, Decides To Explain It With A Powerful Post
Forget everything you think you know about anxiety. Despite the fact that so much information is currently available on anxiety disorders, people still seem to be confused as to what those suffering from them actually face. A makeup artist named Brittany Nichole Morefield has bravely come forward and opened a window into her private struggle, and the way she describes it is terrifyingly poignant.
“Anxiety is crippling. Anxiety is dark. Anxiety is having to make up excuse after excuse for your behavior,” Morefield offers as just a few examples of the complex issues she fights through each day. The entire anecdote, posted on her personal Facebook page and shared more than 418 thousand times across the Internet, reads like haunting spoken word poetry. Given that Morefield is also a mom, the pressure to keep her demons at bay is even stronger.
The piece does, however, end with a message of hope. Scroll down to read it, and share this with anyone who still doesn’t quite understand how anxiety can impact a person’s life. If you, or someone you know needs help, call the National Alliance on Mental Illness at 1-800-950-6264. In the author’s own words, “This is not the end… You are worthy.”
This is makeup artist Brittany Nichole Morefield. She seems happy, but like so many, she’s struggling inside
Image credits: Brittany Nichole Morefield
Anxiety is often seen as a lonely battle, but Morefield blew the doors wide open on her experience with this post
Image credits: Brittany Nichole Morefield
Her honesty resonated with readers, who bravely came forward with their own stories
If you, or someone you know needs help, call the National Alliance on Mental Illness at 1-800-950-6264
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Share on FacebookThis post is so powerful. I too am suffering from anxiety. I know a lot of people who dont understand what it means and what it does with you. Anxiety is like a shadow. It follows you with every step you make. Sometimes the shadow gets bigger until it finally eats you up inside and it can be any moments in your life. You can't control it. Even in happy moments it can get bigger.
I feel guilty over my anxiety because compared to a lot of people in the world, I have a good life and no 'real' reason to be anxious. I'm not running from terrorism or watching helplessly as my children die from starvation. Guilt and anxiety go well together
Yes, this is so important! Always try to be caring and understanding, you never know what your friends/family members might be going through.
There's a difference between anxiety and panic disorder. This article ignores the more serious panic attacks.
Over half the population of earth has a type of anxiety, you don't have to explain it we're all living it
but the other half DOESNT understand it. (also, hello fellow Alia)
Load More Replies...I have ADD and paranoid schizophrenia and the anxiety as made me reclusive in my rental house on disability, the problem gets so bad ITS HORRIBLE! I just want to beg for treatment for the ADD, but I cant be treated for it cause other people abuse the medication and they think I would to even though I'm a completely different person than a typical abuser of drugs. and have no records against me. I wonder if its even legal to not treat me for it. all these medications for the anxiety and schizophrenia just making the pharmacy rich and I'm home daily wondering how I can manage symptoms and side affects. she said she chemically destroyed the bad part of my brain so she can regulate the chemicals medically now I'm more messed up and they wont admit that I have ADD with schizophrenia and the stress of all of this wasted time and effort to get me better is just a waste of 37 years of self education to get me nowhere in life. so don't abuse scripts some people may rely on them
I have ADD. Was diagnosed in May this year and a couple of months later finally got my meds that really changed my life. Fight for your right to get the proper treatment. I did and it was worth it.
Load More Replies...Not many understand. Don’t you just hate it when you can’t answer your phone or door or even want to leave the house there the hardest days
Anxiety is having a panic attack and thinking I'm losing my mine,I'm having a metal breakdown,I'm having a heart attack ! Till maybe you have three four attacks before you finally get a clue as to what is going on !
Anxiety is wanting to die right there and then, so it would finally be over. I am lucky I am not suffering from it like I used to. Having someone who is there to listen helps a whole lot too.
When I no longer had health care, I couldn't afford the medication for anxiety and my life was miserable..Did some research and found an over the counter called 5-HTP. It has worked wonders and under 10 bucks. Hope this can help someone else too!
Its not wanting to get out of bed,its not wanting to talk to people cause u can't handle ur own life is about,so I know I don't wanna know that their problems are cause it makes me have more anxiety for them. And I have enough for myself.
I have had Anxiety most of my life, heart racing, palliations, hate crowds can make it worse, sweating, nauseating choking feeling, A lot of ppl just think it's an act until I have an Anxiety attack in my car and thought I was dying scary let me tell you,
You are truly brave for doing this. I admire that. I’m autistic so I go through similar things. You’re beautiful! If you’re interested, I’d like to become friends?
People said it is not fun and games like everyone thinks. I have never thought that so can someone please explain why someone would think this is a joke.
I dont think people say its fun and games, but people very often think you can just switch it off at any time. My own parents have told me million times : "you just have to get over it", "just relax and smile" etc. People have the idea that people with anxiety are over reacting and trying to get attention. Its actually the exact opposite. I am trying to hide my anxiety from everyone. Because so far most of people i have told about it, tell me to chill and stop worrying. People dont seem to understand how it effects peoples lives. I have lived with it for 10 years, i got severe eating disorder, general anxiety, social anxiety..Only now, 10 years later, i have got help i need and i finally got to the bottom of things. Now i can start my recovery, what will probably take another few years if not more..
Load More Replies...Has anyone tried a Behavioral Health Outpatient program? My daughter who is 19 suffers from anxiety and depressin for over a year now. She tried to kill her self a year ago. She refuses to take meds on a daily basis and tells us she just doesn't want to be here anymore. We are not sure what to do. She was in the child psych ward last year for 5 days.
Anxiety is horrid, hitting any time or place. It also causes my blood pressure to go as high as 220/120, that was an ambulance ride to the emerg. At 57 I have read and done so many things to control or try to but sometimes it is impossible. Mine started in my 40s I cannot imagine how hard it would be for a young person.
My life in a nutshell for the past 5 months. S**t is scary, but my sister has definitely helped me through a lot of my attacks. Its not easy to deal with and I am learning daily how to take control of it.
It is about time society took the issue of fear and anxiety seriously because it is becoming part of the very fabric of society. Having studied the human experience - physical, mental and spiritual - for many years, I have concluded that life is not random. There is a logical mechanism behind everything, even if we don't understand it fully. Anxiety too, though often not rational, happens because of specific causes. As we explore ourselves deeper we begin to uncover the roots of anxiety within us. I am hopeful that the process of reducing and removing anxiety, using physical, mental and spiritual tools, will make major progress.
I really need help in this..I think I was alone before.but after reading this article..I hope there is solution..I m suffering from third over a decade..Plz help me to get out of this.
My anxiety is affecting my life and most importantly my relationship in a detrimental way. It is hard to control, especially when coupled with crippling depression. Appearing happy on the outside while crumbling on the inside really just intensifies the pain in the end. We all have our good days, but when those bad days hit we must remember to do what is needed. Get help and don't fight it alone.
I feel with depression on a daily basis and it’s painful. I feel lost and lonely often and it sucks. However it’s not the anxiety that I have to deal with it’s the hopelessness and the feeling that nothing matters anymore. That and during my time in the Army I was treated like trash by some people which still mentally affects me to this day. I still have trouble looking at myself in the mirror.
Anxiety is also waking up at 12:30-1 and your stomach is churning with the threat of bad indigestion. It happens to me much early Monday mornings since I became a social work supervisor and as a result I have IBS and no on medication for it.
My anxiety has aged me. It's taken a toll on my sleep and memory. I've been told to "just stop worrying," and even been accused of making it up when I've tried to reach out. I'm so thankful for my best friend who understands what it's like. And for posts like this that open discussion on the reality of it.
That feeling that you have to drown to other reality because they believe yours is a fantasy.
Meditate on the question...Who is anxious...Who Am I ? Every time a thought arises ask Who does this thought occur to and from whence does this thought arise within.Do not look for a verbal answer but follow the thought to it's source and with much practice it will dissolve. The 'mind' so called is a beautiful servant but a tyrant if unobserved..."thinking doth make cowards of us all" . Your very nature is bliss and happiness but 'mind' obscures this with 'thoughts'...do not fight merely observe and then ignore...much like a crowd in the street you are aware of the people but you do not fight each...you merely make your way between. it takes practice...all the best.
One word... Buspirone. It took my daughter from severe anxiety to absolute peace almost immediately. Works great.,
I have suffered from anxiety my whole life. However the worst part was that back in the days [70s in germany] it wasn't a thing at all. No internet, nothing. the fear I felt sometimes was so overwhelming but I didn't know what it was, which made it so much worse and I thought I would die mad. Until of course the world awakened and I found out one day via an article. If I would have had the internet then, there would have still been the anxiety but I would have also known that others have it and I wasn't alone and batshit crazy, which would have helped.
Please feel free to grab a free copy of my book for someone suffering from anxiety: https://books.noisetrade.com/roxanelapa/how-i-overcame-panic-disorder
WOW! I have recently had time off from my job due to illness and coming back have noticed volunteers and fellow staff are completely reliant on me for guidance, information, instruction. My comment is to acknowledge those of us who have very demanding jobs and lives but continue to bear the pressure of living each day with doing everything you can to keep your head above water. Because you have drowned before and you have been in the heart wrenching incapacitating throws of an attack that you think you will never survive. Even now in the memory it's hard to breathe and I can't see through the tears. I always deny the fact that this is an issue in my life and it is very hard to be honest to everyone about the gravitational pull this has in bringing me down.
I developed anxiety after a neck injury where a disk was pressing against my spinal cord. Doctors didn't think i needed surgery.. never-mind that it feels like somebody is standing on my neck most of the time... its been almost 3 years now...still suffering.. :(
She needs to start an exercise or yoga regime as soon as possible. This helps.
I also have an anxiaty disorder. People don't understand it and do not realize how big of a problem anxiaty is for your daily life. Thanks for this post. I shared it on my Facebook. It gives a good explanation of how i am feeling most of the time
When i am with a few friends i act like everything is good with me but deep down i am destroyed, i hate the pannic attacks, i hate it when i wake up in the middel of the night with my hart racing, and the worst now is that there is only one person which helps me get through these moments but now she's busy with school and other suffs she considers more important than me and in fact they aren't, I mean how hard is for you to write a message with "How are you?" Do i ask too much after you say you love me and you can't live without me?, yes is true that we saved each other's lives and that she stopped me from killing myself a couple of times and i did the same for her but now it hurts me that she does not have enough time even for a good night call and we used to speak for hours and chat the same some not too much time ago, you know what i mean? It hurts like hell, I had some panic attacks that put me in hospital a couple of times because of that,and i miss and love her soo much...
This is a truly valuable info that you share with us we rally thanks you for this… If you are suffering from irrational anxiety that is affecting your personal and social life, I urge you to contact Dr. Kazi Anam today for a free ten-minute consultation. For more info http://hypnosisleader.com/anxiety/
I wish I could understand the true feeling of anxiety. It interests me how a persons life can be controlled so heavily on a mere thought. As a kid, this post reminds me of the drug addicts around my neighborhood that would constantly worry about the police, peering from their windows, etc. Without the drug use of course, I wonder if that is what it is like?
Can't speak for everyone, but for me it's like my thoughts become a blur and I lose control over them. I feel overwhelmed, almost as if I was drowning and feel trapped like there's no escape. In that particular moment I feel like my life is horrible and, like many others, I feel also the guilt because I know my life isn't that bad, what's happening isn't that bad, but I can't control it. For me it's social anxiety, so for example if I need to call someone my heart starts RACING and I try to make excuses to not call..I postpone as much as I can and when/if someone in my life tells me "call now" I get this feeling like wanting to run away. I think the worst thing about it is that we know it's irrational. The fear that you can't control your own mind is even more terrifying.
Load More Replies...Never really considered anxiety until I got it when I was going to be made redundant. In the end I didn't lose my job but the anxiety was still there. It's not until you experience it that you can understand what it's like. If there's one word that sums it up for me it's irrational. It feels like your world is falling apart when it isn't. There is help available, either through medication or therapy so you don't have to suffer in silence. It's also not a life sentence, you can overcome it.
I have mild anxiety, not everything she describes falls in for me, but some things do, like heart punding out of nowhere and "what if's". This condition has a thousand faces and I was lucky enough to come across someone, who helped me realize what's going on, how to fight it. Additionally suffering from incurable diseases doesn;t help, but I manage. Especially I'm the lucky one who gets anxiety aura, so I know when to focus on that, take a stress reliever, change something, before the fear of many faces strucks with full impact :)
I too suffering the same, Anxiety and hypertension . sometimes feel suffocated and cant control myself , my body temperature getting warmer, cant sleep in the night. in the overcrowd place, congested place or in the dark feeling suffocated and panicked. Don't know how to control it.
I found a vitamin called 5-HTP. Works amazing for me. Google it..less than $10
Load More Replies...Thank you for this!!! I'm currently stuggling with anxiety and this shed so much light on my mental state. I though i am just being weird or i'm behaving unnaturaly, but now i know i'm not alone in this and it made me feel so much better. I'm so happy i stumbled upon this post, you have no idea.... :)
Anxiety is not posting naked shower pictures on the Internet. You have no idea How bad it can be.
1. How do you know she is naked 2. The post is not just about her photo (which in my opinions is a good visual representation of anxiety) but also about her caption which talks about her experience with anxiety more in depth. 3. The whole point of this is to explain anxiety to people who don't have it, so they don't understand how it feels, and you have the nerve to tell her she has no idea how bad it can be?! Come on!
Load More Replies...You 100% can "cure" anxiety, but you have to be willing to disconnect and change your way of thinking. Oh yeah and stop thinking it is unbeatable/part of who you are... it may be, but you can change who you are. Each generation is more spineless than the last in 21st century.
So true. Anxiety is often a crippling feeling. The heart-racing, whole-body-shaking.. it makes you feel disabled. In amazed and thankful to Jesus when I think about how far he’s brought me. He saw me at my darkest points and showed me hope in his Truth, he brought me along a path of defeating my social and general anxiety. I remember never going out of my way to talk to anyone, shrinking back in fear from opportunities, feeling terrified, hopeless and utterly defeated. I found myself doing anything to numb myself from life. I’ve found peace in getting to know God’s love for me. Just how i am. Where I am. Even when I’m in the pit, I’m failing, and feel I have ZERO control, He still cares. He hasn’t forgotten me. Its always so dark in the middle. But he promises strength. He promises courage. Not overnight, but grown. Only He gives the strength to look at crippling fear and stand up, and take a step anyway. Reach out to him in prayer. He hasn’t forgotten you and he knows your pain.
It's fasinating to see that you don't have the slightest idea what you're talking about.
Load More Replies...you can only have anxiety if you are weak and stupid. it is your fault, and you can get rid of it easily by just stop enjoying being a victim. fcking depressed retards pissing me of with their weak cries for attention
If you saw someone in a wheelchair, would you say they were "weak" and just to stand up and get over it? Anxiety is a serious problem, and people like you don't help.
Load More Replies...I also have it but keep in myself. cant tell anyone afraid people will think i'm crazy because I think mine is very bad. trying hard to keep myself "awake".
I developed anxiety after a neck injury where a disk was pressing against my spinal cord. Doctors didn't think i needed surgery.. never-mind that it feels like somebody is standing on my neck most of the time... its been almost 3 years now...still suffering..:(
Anxiety is when it gets so bad when you don't want to go somewhere or do something that you scream and scream and scream as loud and hard as you can because IT HURTS AND NOBODY GETS IT.
I don't like this. I suffer from anxiety and I don't suffer like that. NOT everyone has the same form of anxiety. My husband does to. We are both on medication. What bothers me the most is there is help out there and people rather play the "Oh I suffer from anxiety" card. If people really get the help, it changes your life. My husband was diagnosed with sever anxiety and depression. His medication helps both and he goes to see a therapist. Stop playing this card and get the help you need. Don't let it control you life! I diagnosed with anxiety this passed may. The littlest things set me off. Something as simple as going to the mall with my husband and I couldn't breath. I used to fight with my best friend ALL the time. I got medication and everything has changed. You don't need insurance to get help. We go a free clinic and they gave me the prescription I needed. I get it from wall mart, three month supply for $10. There is help for people if they want it.
I only just joined this site and I’m encouraged as to how people are sharing their stories on how anxiety is effecting their lives. But I’m also sad that some are being critical and judgmental by their comments. These sites or what ever you want to call them are to share and support not to spout negative remarks. For those people I’d ask you go join another site to troll, cause that’s all your doing. The rest of us don’t need your judgemental attitude. I’m only saying this to let the others know not to listen to the negative and continue to be here to get support and help others. We know what we feel, we know the burden of suffering from anxiety that we can’t control. It’s not easy but together we can at least share and maybe learn new ways to deal with our anxiety to make our lives just a bit happier. One step, one day at a time.
Load More Replies...This post is so powerful. I too am suffering from anxiety. I know a lot of people who dont understand what it means and what it does with you. Anxiety is like a shadow. It follows you with every step you make. Sometimes the shadow gets bigger until it finally eats you up inside and it can be any moments in your life. You can't control it. Even in happy moments it can get bigger.
I feel guilty over my anxiety because compared to a lot of people in the world, I have a good life and no 'real' reason to be anxious. I'm not running from terrorism or watching helplessly as my children die from starvation. Guilt and anxiety go well together
Yes, this is so important! Always try to be caring and understanding, you never know what your friends/family members might be going through.
There's a difference between anxiety and panic disorder. This article ignores the more serious panic attacks.
Over half the population of earth has a type of anxiety, you don't have to explain it we're all living it
but the other half DOESNT understand it. (also, hello fellow Alia)
Load More Replies...I have ADD and paranoid schizophrenia and the anxiety as made me reclusive in my rental house on disability, the problem gets so bad ITS HORRIBLE! I just want to beg for treatment for the ADD, but I cant be treated for it cause other people abuse the medication and they think I would to even though I'm a completely different person than a typical abuser of drugs. and have no records against me. I wonder if its even legal to not treat me for it. all these medications for the anxiety and schizophrenia just making the pharmacy rich and I'm home daily wondering how I can manage symptoms and side affects. she said she chemically destroyed the bad part of my brain so she can regulate the chemicals medically now I'm more messed up and they wont admit that I have ADD with schizophrenia and the stress of all of this wasted time and effort to get me better is just a waste of 37 years of self education to get me nowhere in life. so don't abuse scripts some people may rely on them
I have ADD. Was diagnosed in May this year and a couple of months later finally got my meds that really changed my life. Fight for your right to get the proper treatment. I did and it was worth it.
Load More Replies...Not many understand. Don’t you just hate it when you can’t answer your phone or door or even want to leave the house there the hardest days
Anxiety is having a panic attack and thinking I'm losing my mine,I'm having a metal breakdown,I'm having a heart attack ! Till maybe you have three four attacks before you finally get a clue as to what is going on !
Anxiety is wanting to die right there and then, so it would finally be over. I am lucky I am not suffering from it like I used to. Having someone who is there to listen helps a whole lot too.
When I no longer had health care, I couldn't afford the medication for anxiety and my life was miserable..Did some research and found an over the counter called 5-HTP. It has worked wonders and under 10 bucks. Hope this can help someone else too!
Its not wanting to get out of bed,its not wanting to talk to people cause u can't handle ur own life is about,so I know I don't wanna know that their problems are cause it makes me have more anxiety for them. And I have enough for myself.
I have had Anxiety most of my life, heart racing, palliations, hate crowds can make it worse, sweating, nauseating choking feeling, A lot of ppl just think it's an act until I have an Anxiety attack in my car and thought I was dying scary let me tell you,
You are truly brave for doing this. I admire that. I’m autistic so I go through similar things. You’re beautiful! If you’re interested, I’d like to become friends?
People said it is not fun and games like everyone thinks. I have never thought that so can someone please explain why someone would think this is a joke.
I dont think people say its fun and games, but people very often think you can just switch it off at any time. My own parents have told me million times : "you just have to get over it", "just relax and smile" etc. People have the idea that people with anxiety are over reacting and trying to get attention. Its actually the exact opposite. I am trying to hide my anxiety from everyone. Because so far most of people i have told about it, tell me to chill and stop worrying. People dont seem to understand how it effects peoples lives. I have lived with it for 10 years, i got severe eating disorder, general anxiety, social anxiety..Only now, 10 years later, i have got help i need and i finally got to the bottom of things. Now i can start my recovery, what will probably take another few years if not more..
Load More Replies...Has anyone tried a Behavioral Health Outpatient program? My daughter who is 19 suffers from anxiety and depressin for over a year now. She tried to kill her self a year ago. She refuses to take meds on a daily basis and tells us she just doesn't want to be here anymore. We are not sure what to do. She was in the child psych ward last year for 5 days.
Anxiety is horrid, hitting any time or place. It also causes my blood pressure to go as high as 220/120, that was an ambulance ride to the emerg. At 57 I have read and done so many things to control or try to but sometimes it is impossible. Mine started in my 40s I cannot imagine how hard it would be for a young person.
My life in a nutshell for the past 5 months. S**t is scary, but my sister has definitely helped me through a lot of my attacks. Its not easy to deal with and I am learning daily how to take control of it.
It is about time society took the issue of fear and anxiety seriously because it is becoming part of the very fabric of society. Having studied the human experience - physical, mental and spiritual - for many years, I have concluded that life is not random. There is a logical mechanism behind everything, even if we don't understand it fully. Anxiety too, though often not rational, happens because of specific causes. As we explore ourselves deeper we begin to uncover the roots of anxiety within us. I am hopeful that the process of reducing and removing anxiety, using physical, mental and spiritual tools, will make major progress.
I really need help in this..I think I was alone before.but after reading this article..I hope there is solution..I m suffering from third over a decade..Plz help me to get out of this.
My anxiety is affecting my life and most importantly my relationship in a detrimental way. It is hard to control, especially when coupled with crippling depression. Appearing happy on the outside while crumbling on the inside really just intensifies the pain in the end. We all have our good days, but when those bad days hit we must remember to do what is needed. Get help and don't fight it alone.
I feel with depression on a daily basis and it’s painful. I feel lost and lonely often and it sucks. However it’s not the anxiety that I have to deal with it’s the hopelessness and the feeling that nothing matters anymore. That and during my time in the Army I was treated like trash by some people which still mentally affects me to this day. I still have trouble looking at myself in the mirror.
Anxiety is also waking up at 12:30-1 and your stomach is churning with the threat of bad indigestion. It happens to me much early Monday mornings since I became a social work supervisor and as a result I have IBS and no on medication for it.
My anxiety has aged me. It's taken a toll on my sleep and memory. I've been told to "just stop worrying," and even been accused of making it up when I've tried to reach out. I'm so thankful for my best friend who understands what it's like. And for posts like this that open discussion on the reality of it.
That feeling that you have to drown to other reality because they believe yours is a fantasy.
Meditate on the question...Who is anxious...Who Am I ? Every time a thought arises ask Who does this thought occur to and from whence does this thought arise within.Do not look for a verbal answer but follow the thought to it's source and with much practice it will dissolve. The 'mind' so called is a beautiful servant but a tyrant if unobserved..."thinking doth make cowards of us all" . Your very nature is bliss and happiness but 'mind' obscures this with 'thoughts'...do not fight merely observe and then ignore...much like a crowd in the street you are aware of the people but you do not fight each...you merely make your way between. it takes practice...all the best.
One word... Buspirone. It took my daughter from severe anxiety to absolute peace almost immediately. Works great.,
I have suffered from anxiety my whole life. However the worst part was that back in the days [70s in germany] it wasn't a thing at all. No internet, nothing. the fear I felt sometimes was so overwhelming but I didn't know what it was, which made it so much worse and I thought I would die mad. Until of course the world awakened and I found out one day via an article. If I would have had the internet then, there would have still been the anxiety but I would have also known that others have it and I wasn't alone and batshit crazy, which would have helped.
Please feel free to grab a free copy of my book for someone suffering from anxiety: https://books.noisetrade.com/roxanelapa/how-i-overcame-panic-disorder
WOW! I have recently had time off from my job due to illness and coming back have noticed volunteers and fellow staff are completely reliant on me for guidance, information, instruction. My comment is to acknowledge those of us who have very demanding jobs and lives but continue to bear the pressure of living each day with doing everything you can to keep your head above water. Because you have drowned before and you have been in the heart wrenching incapacitating throws of an attack that you think you will never survive. Even now in the memory it's hard to breathe and I can't see through the tears. I always deny the fact that this is an issue in my life and it is very hard to be honest to everyone about the gravitational pull this has in bringing me down.
I developed anxiety after a neck injury where a disk was pressing against my spinal cord. Doctors didn't think i needed surgery.. never-mind that it feels like somebody is standing on my neck most of the time... its been almost 3 years now...still suffering.. :(
She needs to start an exercise or yoga regime as soon as possible. This helps.
I also have an anxiaty disorder. People don't understand it and do not realize how big of a problem anxiaty is for your daily life. Thanks for this post. I shared it on my Facebook. It gives a good explanation of how i am feeling most of the time
When i am with a few friends i act like everything is good with me but deep down i am destroyed, i hate the pannic attacks, i hate it when i wake up in the middel of the night with my hart racing, and the worst now is that there is only one person which helps me get through these moments but now she's busy with school and other suffs she considers more important than me and in fact they aren't, I mean how hard is for you to write a message with "How are you?" Do i ask too much after you say you love me and you can't live without me?, yes is true that we saved each other's lives and that she stopped me from killing myself a couple of times and i did the same for her but now it hurts me that she does not have enough time even for a good night call and we used to speak for hours and chat the same some not too much time ago, you know what i mean? It hurts like hell, I had some panic attacks that put me in hospital a couple of times because of that,and i miss and love her soo much...
This is a truly valuable info that you share with us we rally thanks you for this… If you are suffering from irrational anxiety that is affecting your personal and social life, I urge you to contact Dr. Kazi Anam today for a free ten-minute consultation. For more info http://hypnosisleader.com/anxiety/
I wish I could understand the true feeling of anxiety. It interests me how a persons life can be controlled so heavily on a mere thought. As a kid, this post reminds me of the drug addicts around my neighborhood that would constantly worry about the police, peering from their windows, etc. Without the drug use of course, I wonder if that is what it is like?
Can't speak for everyone, but for me it's like my thoughts become a blur and I lose control over them. I feel overwhelmed, almost as if I was drowning and feel trapped like there's no escape. In that particular moment I feel like my life is horrible and, like many others, I feel also the guilt because I know my life isn't that bad, what's happening isn't that bad, but I can't control it. For me it's social anxiety, so for example if I need to call someone my heart starts RACING and I try to make excuses to not call..I postpone as much as I can and when/if someone in my life tells me "call now" I get this feeling like wanting to run away. I think the worst thing about it is that we know it's irrational. The fear that you can't control your own mind is even more terrifying.
Load More Replies...Never really considered anxiety until I got it when I was going to be made redundant. In the end I didn't lose my job but the anxiety was still there. It's not until you experience it that you can understand what it's like. If there's one word that sums it up for me it's irrational. It feels like your world is falling apart when it isn't. There is help available, either through medication or therapy so you don't have to suffer in silence. It's also not a life sentence, you can overcome it.
I have mild anxiety, not everything she describes falls in for me, but some things do, like heart punding out of nowhere and "what if's". This condition has a thousand faces and I was lucky enough to come across someone, who helped me realize what's going on, how to fight it. Additionally suffering from incurable diseases doesn;t help, but I manage. Especially I'm the lucky one who gets anxiety aura, so I know when to focus on that, take a stress reliever, change something, before the fear of many faces strucks with full impact :)
I too suffering the same, Anxiety and hypertension . sometimes feel suffocated and cant control myself , my body temperature getting warmer, cant sleep in the night. in the overcrowd place, congested place or in the dark feeling suffocated and panicked. Don't know how to control it.
I found a vitamin called 5-HTP. Works amazing for me. Google it..less than $10
Load More Replies...Thank you for this!!! I'm currently stuggling with anxiety and this shed so much light on my mental state. I though i am just being weird or i'm behaving unnaturaly, but now i know i'm not alone in this and it made me feel so much better. I'm so happy i stumbled upon this post, you have no idea.... :)
Anxiety is not posting naked shower pictures on the Internet. You have no idea How bad it can be.
1. How do you know she is naked 2. The post is not just about her photo (which in my opinions is a good visual representation of anxiety) but also about her caption which talks about her experience with anxiety more in depth. 3. The whole point of this is to explain anxiety to people who don't have it, so they don't understand how it feels, and you have the nerve to tell her she has no idea how bad it can be?! Come on!
Load More Replies...You 100% can "cure" anxiety, but you have to be willing to disconnect and change your way of thinking. Oh yeah and stop thinking it is unbeatable/part of who you are... it may be, but you can change who you are. Each generation is more spineless than the last in 21st century.
So true. Anxiety is often a crippling feeling. The heart-racing, whole-body-shaking.. it makes you feel disabled. In amazed and thankful to Jesus when I think about how far he’s brought me. He saw me at my darkest points and showed me hope in his Truth, he brought me along a path of defeating my social and general anxiety. I remember never going out of my way to talk to anyone, shrinking back in fear from opportunities, feeling terrified, hopeless and utterly defeated. I found myself doing anything to numb myself from life. I’ve found peace in getting to know God’s love for me. Just how i am. Where I am. Even when I’m in the pit, I’m failing, and feel I have ZERO control, He still cares. He hasn’t forgotten me. Its always so dark in the middle. But he promises strength. He promises courage. Not overnight, but grown. Only He gives the strength to look at crippling fear and stand up, and take a step anyway. Reach out to him in prayer. He hasn’t forgotten you and he knows your pain.
It's fasinating to see that you don't have the slightest idea what you're talking about.
Load More Replies...you can only have anxiety if you are weak and stupid. it is your fault, and you can get rid of it easily by just stop enjoying being a victim. fcking depressed retards pissing me of with their weak cries for attention
If you saw someone in a wheelchair, would you say they were "weak" and just to stand up and get over it? Anxiety is a serious problem, and people like you don't help.
Load More Replies...I also have it but keep in myself. cant tell anyone afraid people will think i'm crazy because I think mine is very bad. trying hard to keep myself "awake".
I developed anxiety after a neck injury where a disk was pressing against my spinal cord. Doctors didn't think i needed surgery.. never-mind that it feels like somebody is standing on my neck most of the time... its been almost 3 years now...still suffering..:(
Anxiety is when it gets so bad when you don't want to go somewhere or do something that you scream and scream and scream as loud and hard as you can because IT HURTS AND NOBODY GETS IT.
I don't like this. I suffer from anxiety and I don't suffer like that. NOT everyone has the same form of anxiety. My husband does to. We are both on medication. What bothers me the most is there is help out there and people rather play the "Oh I suffer from anxiety" card. If people really get the help, it changes your life. My husband was diagnosed with sever anxiety and depression. His medication helps both and he goes to see a therapist. Stop playing this card and get the help you need. Don't let it control you life! I diagnosed with anxiety this passed may. The littlest things set me off. Something as simple as going to the mall with my husband and I couldn't breath. I used to fight with my best friend ALL the time. I got medication and everything has changed. You don't need insurance to get help. We go a free clinic and they gave me the prescription I needed. I get it from wall mart, three month supply for $10. There is help for people if they want it.
I only just joined this site and I’m encouraged as to how people are sharing their stories on how anxiety is effecting their lives. But I’m also sad that some are being critical and judgmental by their comments. These sites or what ever you want to call them are to share and support not to spout negative remarks. For those people I’d ask you go join another site to troll, cause that’s all your doing. The rest of us don’t need your judgemental attitude. I’m only saying this to let the others know not to listen to the negative and continue to be here to get support and help others. We know what we feel, we know the burden of suffering from anxiety that we can’t control. It’s not easy but together we can at least share and maybe learn new ways to deal with our anxiety to make our lives just a bit happier. One step, one day at a time.
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