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Dad Texts Wife The Kitchen Is On Fire Because He’s Mad She Left Him With Baby Longer Than Expected, It Backfires When Cops Show Up
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Dad Texts Wife The Kitchen Is On Fire Because He’s Mad She Left Him With Baby Longer Than Expected, It Backfires When Cops Show Up

Dad Texts Wife Their Kitchen Is On Fire Because He’s Mad She Left Him With Baby For Longer Than She PromisedWoman Gets Text Her Kitchen’s On Fire, Turns Out Husband Just Wanted Her Home Because He Was Left Alone With The Baby For Too LongWoman Asks If She Was Wrong To Leave Her Husband With Their Baby For 4 Hours After He Scares The Hell Out Of Her With A False Text That The Kitchen’s On FireDad Goes Mad After Wife Leaves Him With Baby For Longer Than Expected, Tells Her The Kitchen’s On FireDad Texts Wife The Kitchen Is On Fire Because He's Mad She Left Him With Baby Longer Than Expected, It Backfires When Cops Show UpHusband Lies About Kitchen Fire Because Wife Left Him Alone With The Baby For Longer Than Expected, Police Get InvolvedNew Mom Asked Her Husband To Be With The Baby For A Few Hours, He Bombards Her With Messages And Lies About A FireNew Mom Finally Gets To Leave Her House For A Few Hours, Her Husband Lies About A Fire To Get Her To Come BackDad Texts Wife The Kitchen Is On Fire Because He Couldn't Take Care Of The Baby For 4 HoursMom Leaves Baby With The Dad To Go Out For The First Time In 9 Months, He Lies That Their Kitchen Is On Fire So She'll Come Home Sooner
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It’s no secret that being a stay-at-home mom is one of the most draining, physically and mentally demanding duties many women go through at some point in their lives. Studies suggest that stay-at-home moms report more depression, sadness, and anger, and that’s without taking into account societal pressure or getting overlooked altogether.

So this story from a fully exhausted 31-year-old SAH mom with a husband who’s working full-time shows the level of insanity so many women experience in what should be the comfort of their home. “My sister’s wedding is coming up and we already received an invite, but the thing is, I had to go dress shopping and get my hair done. I asked my husband on his day off if he could stay with our son for just 2 hours,” the woman who goes by u/Adjust-Ad3654 wrote on the AITA subreddit.

It seemed that the husband was less than happy with the prospect but finally “he shrugged, saying ‘fine, go… but 2 hours and not a minute more!’” Not only did he keep calling her every ten minutes asking when she’d be back, he sent her heart to her heels by texting something no mom would ever wish to hear. If that’s not manipulation at its worst, I don’t know what is.

Read the full story below, and be sure to share your thoughts in the comment section.

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    Sinkvenice
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. Just... wow. This dude has serious problems that need to be addressed immediately. He thinks she lied to him, which is an unbelievably moronic thing to say, so his solution is to lie to her about the kitchen being on fire; WTF? Him and his family all sound like utter c**ts. He's throwing a temper tantrum because he has to look after the son he created and his family are angry because it was his one day off; He should’ve been looking forward to spending a whole day with his son. What's the point of being a parent if he's going to whinge about spending an incredibly short amount of time with his child? If what this woman says is completely accurate, there are so many red flags it looks like a field of poppies… or a field of red flags even :-) This is abhorrent, it’s emotional abuse. Either she needs to leave him or they both go to some sort of counselling. For the sake of their kid, at least. Hopefully their son will never know about this.

    Viviane
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think the counseling will work on his end (especially if he has to pay for it), but worth a shot. His family reinforces his behaviour by taking his side - he obviously looks to them for confirmation that his wife is the bad one in every situation.

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    Beth S
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely NTA... I would like to offer this piece of advice - run.

    Squiddles
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know most people don’t like suggesting divorce…but yeah do it while you haven’t been out of the work force for too long. Do not trust this man, he’s emotionally abusive and his family supports it. Sharing joint custody is better than getting deeper and deeper into that.

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    Kirsti Murch
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's actually abusive and needs to grow up, show her some respect, look after his child as well. ( he's not the babysitter!) Im glad the sister called the cops. Hopefully next time mum goes out she can enjoy 4 hours on her own.

    Viviane
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think he'll learn from the consequences, since he blames his wife and got his family to join in the chorus of disapproval.

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    Sinkvenice
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. Just... wow. This dude has serious problems that need to be addressed immediately. He thinks she lied to him, which is an unbelievably moronic thing to say, so his solution is to lie to her about the kitchen being on fire; WTF? Him and his family all sound like utter c**ts. He's throwing a temper tantrum because he has to look after the son he created and his family are angry because it was his one day off; He should’ve been looking forward to spending a whole day with his son. What's the point of being a parent if he's going to whinge about spending an incredibly short amount of time with his child? If what this woman says is completely accurate, there are so many red flags it looks like a field of poppies… or a field of red flags even :-) This is abhorrent, it’s emotional abuse. Either she needs to leave him or they both go to some sort of counselling. For the sake of their kid, at least. Hopefully their son will never know about this.

    Viviane
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think the counseling will work on his end (especially if he has to pay for it), but worth a shot. His family reinforces his behaviour by taking his side - he obviously looks to them for confirmation that his wife is the bad one in every situation.

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    Beth S
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely NTA... I would like to offer this piece of advice - run.

    Squiddles
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know most people don’t like suggesting divorce…but yeah do it while you haven’t been out of the work force for too long. Do not trust this man, he’s emotionally abusive and his family supports it. Sharing joint custody is better than getting deeper and deeper into that.

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    Kirsti Murch
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's actually abusive and needs to grow up, show her some respect, look after his child as well. ( he's not the babysitter!) Im glad the sister called the cops. Hopefully next time mum goes out she can enjoy 4 hours on her own.

    Viviane
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think he'll learn from the consequences, since he blames his wife and got his family to join in the chorus of disapproval.

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