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Sometimes parents want to be 'relatable' and 'cool', so they use meme references and words like 'lit' but these things don't cut it. All these desperate attempts do is just embarrass their kids. However, if they try something really ridiculous, it brings them even more shame. They end up on the subreddit /r/InsaneParents.
The online community describes itself as "a weird place where you can post those crazy parents who post in those woo-woo anti-vax groups on Facebook and do things harmful (directly and indirectly) to their children. We want to be a place where people can come and both get support and laugh. So this sub is a mixture of both the heartbreaking and the hilarious. Come and join us. Especially if you have your own stories to tell or your own social media content to post." Below you will find some of their most popular posts.
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#1
My Mother Dearest, Whom My Sister And I Just Let Back Into Our Lives, Talking To My Sister About Her Daughter (My Niece). Behold The Kind Of Person She Is
deanna woods 4 years ago
Your sister has the right answer. Your mom is a piece of work. You never call children names.
Bored Panda has already published two posts about the subreddit (here and here) but it looks like there's no shortage of insane moms and dads; people keep posting more and more parenting horror stories. Even though the subreddit was created relatively recently, in 2017, it already unites over 1.2 million members, with thousands online at any given moment.
It's normal for parents and their kids to have different views and opinions. In fact, they can be used for growth, too. Vicki Broadbent, founder of Honest Mum and author of Mumboss, is one of those parents who are open to learning from their children as much as they want to teach them. "They've taught me a lot from feeling more confident when I've been trolled online, to how to create a TikTok video!" she told Bored Panda. "My kids aged 10 and 8 respectively are both creative, empathetic, resilient, and strong-willed little humans. We base our relationships on open conversations and trust. I think the art of listening has been lost somewhat, and rather than being didactic as a parent, we need to practice listening more (and really hearing) to others' points of view, before sharing our own views.
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#2
Guilty Has Punished
Broadbent acknowledges that parents have the responsibility to inform, protect, and guide their kids, however, she thinks that children who feel endlessly chastised and forced to conform will do the complete opposite. "You have more chance of persuading your children to do the right thing if you are calm in the way you present your opinions."
"Encouraging children to talk to you honestly without judgement means they will always come to you when they're in trouble. It's also healthy they learn that no one will ever always agree with one another. Another lost art is that of debating!"
When Rebekah Tayebi, a clinical therapist and family coach, looks at toxic family systems, one thing that becomes really evident to her is seeing that the children are more attuned to the needs of the parents. That means, the typical parent-child relationship is inverted and there's confusion about what appropriate boundaries should be in place.
"The hard part for children in these environments is that which is like so many of us, is that we might start to mirror the dysfunction that we're seeing," Tayebi said. That's the reason why it's so important to start to catch negative patterns in the moment and try to eradicate them.
#3
I Feel Like This Applies A Lot For The Parents On Here
"Parenting is hard, there's no manual, we're all simply trying to navigate our children through choppy waters and this ever challenging life to be kind and strong," Broadbent concluded. "We also want them to have fun. Childhood is precious. I also think showing my own children my own vulnerabilities has encouraged greater empathy in them and they've understood early on that I'm a real human being not a womb on legs."
What some parents apparently forget is that they need their kids just as much as their little ones need them. When Broadbent had a big operation on her thyroid, for example, she was amazed to find just how much her children can support her during a difficult time.
I don't know, maybe some of the parent-child relationships we see on r/InsaneParents are beyond saving. But I hope they can at least act as a reminder for the rest of us to cherish ours.
#4
I Decided To Finally Go Vaccinated Behind My Anti-Vax Parent's Back!
#5
Insane Parents
#6
Should've Stayed At Home
actaully...nevermind 4 years ago
Yeah and school was because i was born too dumb...SoRrY eVeRyOnE
#7
Essential Oils Don’t Work
Foxxy (The Original) 4 years ago
Those people should be charged with murder, manslaughter or child endangerment (whatever it comes under).
Navy Blue Bandana 4 years ago
Okay. Essential oils smell good, and I think they have some effect on mood (lavender=calm ect.) BUT THEY ARE NOT A REPLACEMENT FOR MEDICINE IN ANY WAY. IT'S REALLY NOT THAT HARD.
Tobias the Tiger 4 years ago
Definitely this. Some minor ailments can be treated/relieved with essential oils, herbs, and other natural remedies, but serious ailments require medical treatment.
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Colin L 4 years ago
Different story, but same type: a Canadian family treated their child who had bacterial meningitis with herbs and maple syrup, and the child died. They were charged and convicted of child endangerment (I think... may be misremebering) but they doubled down and insisted they were being persecuted. Even losing a child isn't enough for some people to change...
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ResidentURL 4 years ago
My mother is an Essential Oils FREAK, but even she still takes us to the doctor when we feel sick and need medicine, and she keeps our vaccines up to date. "Essential Oils are NOT medicine." -My Mother 2017
StinkyMonkey 4 years ago
Exactly! They can help in addition to medicine, not instead of it.
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Martha Meyer 4 years ago
Actually essential oils can kill young children all on their own. There is a woman out there who accidently killed her daughter that way and now works to warn other people about the dangers. Those oils are extremely concentrated and can give people allergic reactions and dangerous muscle spasms.
Iris Wolfie (づ ◕‿◕ )づ 4 years ago
UGH!!! I HATE THE "ESSENTIAL OILS FIX EVERYTHING" IDEA!!!!! I have ADHD and you think you can "cure" me with some lavender and peppermint oils?! My uncle died of cancer and you think if he had some mango and watermelon oils he'd be OK?! NO!!!!! Sorry, just needed to rant.
Boopie Dew 4 years ago
So sad. Stick with meds that work for the illness. If u want to be a guinea pig, do it on yourself. So sad.
Viviane 4 years ago
I know adults who would refuse chemo if they had cancer. I don't think it's a wise decision, but they either don't have kids or don't have custody. Thank goodness.
Load More Replies... K Miller 4 years ago
There was a case here in Canada, a couple was charged after their toddler died because they didn't seek medical treatment for meningitis. They were found not guilty, the judge sided with a medical expert that said it was viral instead of bacterial or something. Too many people have started thinking a few hours on Google somehow equates to a medical degree and years of study/scientific, peer-reviewed study. Sure medical professionals are human and therefore occasionally make mistakes, but I'd still rather put my health in their care rather than Google.
Remi Flynne 4 years ago
I grew up on a dairy farm... honestly, cows are way nicer and. when it comes to looking after their young, often a lot smarter. 😟
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LRevello 4 years ago
Essential oils are wonderful but they have their time & place - and by NO MEANS are a substitute for a doctor or other medical professional. I can't imagine running around saying I am more adept than a nurse, doctor or other medical professional that went to school for YEARS and who passed hundreds of exams on anatomy & medicine.
Dave Chapman 4 years ago
There is no such thing as an "Essential Oil"...period!!
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Leo Domitrix 4 years ago
And that's why I can't practice that MD I got. It's the dead kids. It's the stupidity of why they die.
I Liquored On 4 years ago
Where is this? Where i come from you would be arrested for gross negligence at the very least but probably manslaughter.
Anette Fredlund 4 years ago (edited)
the essential oil quacks should ofcourse be taken out of market and perhaps fined if your law says so......but no sorry to say that mama killed a child
deanna woods 4 years ago
This is so incredibly tragic and sad. I don't care what the articles you read say, they are not a doctor and you need to listen to doctors. This putting children in danger because of Google searches has to stop. Speaking as someone with asthma: WHEN WE HAVE AN ATTACK, WE CAN'T BREATHE. THE ONLY WAY FOR US TO BREATHE AGAIN IS OUR AIRWAY BEING OPENED AGAIN. IN THAT SITUATION, USE AN INHALER OR BREATHING TREATMENT.
Tish Comby Olivieri 4 years ago
Pure and simple ignorance, and now she has to live with herself.
StrawberryParfait 4 years ago
Aromatherapy has its place, but treating childhood asthma and other serious diseases is not it.
Samantha Lomb 4 years ago
or at least manslaughter cause it was negligent not intentional
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Steven Dirkson 2 years ago
That's so horrific! The child is hopefully in a better place now- away from this woman
Azure Adams 4 years ago
Given that knowledge, the mother should be charged with child endangerment and a host of other things since she basically killed her kid by withholding necessary treatment.
Sue Hazlewood 4 years ago
In my country they would have been arrested for endangering a child.
Kim Lorton 4 years ago
As a nurse, I’d be pressing charges.. and alert CPS. In case there were other children in the home.
Jennifer Cassada 4 years ago
Essential oils help you relax, calm down, things like eucalyptus help you breath a little bit better. They were never intended to replace life saving treatments like asthma meds. What a quack!
Azziza 4 years ago
Both the parents and the quacks should be charged over this. (Unless the parents couldn't afford the proper asthma meds because of our crap health system if they are in the U.S. and were desperately trying the oil because they knew they needed to do something but the proper meds were too expensive for them to be able to buy them.)
Estelle Winwoode 4 years ago
That's a very good point. Ventolin costs up to $120 for an inhaler in the US, and $9? over the counter in Aust. Also, that parent might have been trying to work out a better way to help her child. To fix asthma you have to fix inflammation. To fix inflammation you need a preventative medication - a steroid. University of Pittsburgh research shows one of the chemicals in Ventolin, known as (S)-albuterol, reacts with preventative steroids and stops them working effectively. AND carvacrol is being researched as a therapy for asthma: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29193478/ All these people baying for this woman's blood are naught but a mob. If they were villagers in her village, she'd have been ducked in the pond or maybe even burnt by now.
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Popcorn Colonel 4 years ago
That is horrible! Imagine, just think for a moment. What that child could have done. To soon he met his end thanks to his own parents, horrible.
Cathy Carey 4 years ago
Can't the mother be charged with something. Of course, the death of her child is probably punishment enough. Essential oils are good for some things but NOT life threatening disorders.
CatWoman312 4 years ago
Pretty sure this is a form of negligent homicide and the “mom” should be charged
Elizabeth Scarborough 4 years ago
I have a relative that makes an concoction using elderberry and is promoting it as a cure for anything that ails you even C-19. She got her certificate in holistic medicine from institute in NY. So now she thinks she’s well educated and highly trained professional.
Claire Armstrong 4 years ago
OMG! Just why? I cannot understand these people! Why do they disregard science and turn to quack "medicine"?
Barbara Baldwin 4 years ago
And now I find out, after my cat slept next to one for months, that essential oil diffusers can cause liver damage...
Sheryl Thompson 4 years ago
NO !! The MOTHER should be the one facing a Murder Charge ! SHE is the one who withheld medication SHE is the one who killed her child !!
Rosemari Ferreira Gebbran 4 years ago
Essentials oils DO WORK, but you never ever ever stop medication and... You never ever treat asthma with essential oils, they strong smell can worsen the asthma and often will. Essential oils work very good, but only if you go through therapist, naturopath and such, not just buying from a piramide scheme.
#9
Insane Parents
#10
Father Tries To Say He Put Me Through College. My 1k Monthly Loan Payments Say Otherwise
Boopie Dew 4 years ago
Yup, sounds like something my ex did. My grown daughter called him out infront of everyone he knows. It was awesome. He didn't want to be a part of her life not the other way around.
#13
Insane Parents Destroy Their Child’s Art Tablet For... Not Getting Up On Time
#14
Is Violence The Answer ? I Don't Think So
Foxxy (The Original) 4 years ago
What a disgusting piece of garbage, you just don't do that and you don't brag about it either.
#15
Never Thought My Mom Was That Insane But I Guess Jesus Is Anti-Metal Straw. Sorry If It Doesn't Seem Serious, I Can't Take Anything Seriously
#16
Hypocritical, Awful And Abusive
Violet brown 4 years ago
"every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child"
#17
Raised By Insane Parents Feels
Chelsea Shimell 4 years ago
That’s exactly how I feel, I’ve been lucky and I don’t even know anyone who has had covid. But this isn’t even my top 10 worst years of my life.
#18
My Mother Blamed Me For Her Suicidal Tendencies. I'm 15
#19
Because His Kid Didn't Do Homework?
MagicalUnicorn 4 years ago
what the f**k? i feel sorry for both kid and doggo, won't be surprised if kid will hold grudge on parents for eons...
#20
Check Mate, Religious Insane Parents
Vanta Black 4 years ago
Maybe I can get all those years of rent back from my parents. They're religious nutjobs.
#21
Poor Kid
#22
Abusing Child Support
#23
Lady Tries To Blame Vaccines After Her Son Contracts Hiv
#24
My Dad Charges Me $300 A Month For Rent And Refuses To Let Me Move Out. After Spending The Weekend With My Boyfriend, I Received This
Foxxy (The Original) 4 years ago
What the actual, she needs to get out of that house and away from that nasty piece of crap.
#25
Using Your Daughter’s Entire College Fund To Pay For Your Crappy Pyramid Scheme Products
#26
This Was By Far The Worst Incident. I Was In 2nd Grade, 7-8 Years Old And Just Went Through Some Of The Worst Trauma Of My Life And My Mom Was More Worried About Going To Vegas Then My Health
#27
Children Aren’t Slaves, Apologize When You’re Supposed To
#28
Found It On Facebook
#29
My Moms Response When I Came Out To Her. Haven’t Talked To Them For Two Weeks Now
Violet brown 4 years ago
I am so mad right now... she worked up all her courage and she get's this :(
#30
I Didn't Want To Give My Jehovah's Witness Dad My Password Because I Was Texting A Girl And He Smashed It With An Axe And Then Beat Me. That Was 5 Years Ago And Today I'm Happily Living Together With That Girl
#31
I Definitely Hope I Can "Indoctrinate" My Children Into Believing In Human Rights
#32
Just A Cold
Dorothy Parker 4 years ago
You just endangered hundreds of people and at least a few will die. You belong in prison.
#33
Imagine Being A Pos Who Not Only Pulls Their Kid Out Of School Due To Not Wanting To Vaccinate Him But Also Broadcast His Misery In An Attempt To Get People To Side With You...
#34
Parents "React" To Their 6 Year Old's Report Card For Views
#35
I Don't Understand How Scientology Came Into Play
RaroaRaroa 4 years ago
Oh, the ignorance is terrifying. I hope some of those 73 comments set them straight.
#36
You Should Be Grateful
#37
This Was Not Posted In A Joking Way
Boopie Dew 4 years ago
Thats devastating to do to someone. Not only physically but mentally and emotionally.
#38
“A 5 Year Old Is Perfectly Capable Of Fending For Himself”
Foxxy (The Original) 4 years ago
I think the father should be packing the bags and taking the child. She is not right in the head if she truly thinks what she did was fine. Isn't there laws about this kind of thing.
#39
Update: I’m Immunocompromised And My Mom Refused To Let Me Isolate. Now I Have The Coronavirus
#40
A Question That Came Into One Of My Local Radio Stations
#41
Spare The Rod
Lauren Caswell 4 years ago
Yeah spanking always seemed a tautology of a punishment: *smack* "how many times do I have to tell you [name]?! *smack* We. Do. Not. Hit. People!" *smack*
#42
Glad I Have A Good Relationship With My Parents
#43
Idiot
RaroaRaroa 4 years ago
How can anyone not see that giving a kid this age alcohol, caffeine or sugar is just giving them an early start on addiction?
#44
My Fiance's Mom When We First Started Dating
#45
Imagine Posting This And Being Proud Of The Anger That You Just Took Out On This Kid's Form Of Entertainment
#46
A Friend Of Mine Who’s 27 Years Old
Foxxy (The Original) 4 years ago
You could have fun with this and hide some weird and random stuff in your bin.
#47
Her Brother Died Of Measles, But She Still Won’t Vaccinate Her Child Against It
#48
Breaking A 7-Year-Old's Heart On Christmas
#49
And Guess What She’d Have Blamed Her Son’s Autism On If She Did Vaccinate?
actaully...nevermind 4 years ago
"i did all the right things. Had a natural birth, DiDn'T vAcCiNaTe, breastfed on d e m a n d for a year, fed a healthy diet..." Your's truly, -Seeking Sympathy 2020
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Pamela24 4 years ago
I've said it before and I'll say it again - this is why I hate when people are pushing the "Everyone should respect their parents" idea. Yes - there are many great parents and they deserve recognition, respect and care. But there are also, unfortunately, many parents like these and their children deserve support and understanding when they decide to stop seeing them and cease contact. If you're in that situation - I admire you, it's immensely tough to stand up to your parents and even harder to actually cut them out of your lives. May you find better people to have around who'll make your family. Because blood doesn't make a family. Love does.
JeanBean_BC 4 years ago
I'll type here what I typed below: The Bible says, "Honour your mother and father." But the Bible also says, "Parents, don't invoke your children to wrath." I interpret that as respect is earned.
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🌺🍍🌼🌻🌼🍍🌺 4 years ago
I don know what to say. I live in a situation like this, but I'm scared to share because I'm worried somehow I'll get in trouble. all I can say is: Other kids in this situation, they may make you think that you're a failure, that you're useless, that you deserve whats happening to you. it's not. it's really not. never forget it.
Agnes Jekyll 4 years ago
Dear Pineapple and flowers, Thank you for reaching out. Just like you said to all those other kids, you do not deserve this. This is not your fault. The abuser is at fault, the abuser is responsible. You have done nothing wrong. You deserve love and respect over and over again, only love.
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S. 4 years ago
I really hope and pray for the best for everybody stuck in such situations at this present. It should be a no brainer that we all deserve basic human decency and respect, yet it upsets me deeply that we still haven't overcome this type of behaviour. If it's anything, this random stranger on the internet cares for you, supports you, is proud of your accomplishments, understands your pains, and most of all, loves you. Sending good vibes and best wishes towards everybody's way. PS: I don't think it was a good decision to read this entire article in one sitting, lol.
Leo Domitrix 4 years ago
I did all I was told to do. I still got beat. Some parents are too damaged as people to be good parents.
JeanBean_BC 4 years ago
This isn't the exact quote (I'm paraphrasing) but it's in the bible for those "Christian" parents. The Bible says, "Honour your mother and father." But the Bible also says, "Parents, don't invoke your children to wrath." I interpret that as respect is earned.
Cori 4 years ago
Aaaaaand now I feel like a rockstar parent. I had a few doosies from my own childhood. 'You're ruining my marriage' when severe depression was making it difficult to get out of bed in time to do my morning chores and make it to the bus stop on time. This was said while basically shoving me out of a moving car down the street from my school. And 'I hope you got that out of your system' when coming out that a friend of mine had been more than just a friend. Then there was that time when my step dad called me a whore when I went home for Christmas. Fun times! I remind myself of how these, and many other incidents, felt any time I feel myself loosing my patience with my own kids. Abuse causes lifelong damage and I refuse to perpetuate that cycle.
Agnes Jekyll 4 years ago
This is one of the most horrific articles I've seen on Bored Panda. It's not about parents who "went too far" or "got shamed." Many of these examples are abuse perpetrated by parents onto their children.
Jeff Requier 4 years ago
We drank the foam off our parents beer as kids and I didnt even like drinking at my friends as a teen. Didnt drink more often till like 36.
B 4 years ago
Big difference between disciplining children (i.e. teaching them manners and good behaviour) and abusing children. Physical discipline is unnecessary - just a bit of common sense and communication with your kids. Most people these days seem too afraid to even raise their voice to the kid, and then wonder why the children turn out so awful and uncontrollable (which doesn't help the kid at all in their future lives).
Reginald Joseph 4 years ago
The two worst kinds of parents are authoritarian and absent/permissive. You get the screaming, bullying abusive and inconsistent in the authoritarian and the absent, inconsistent, "shrug" neglectful from the permissive. There is a vast field of positive between those two poles.
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Darrell Mills 4 years ago
This is quite possibly some of the most f’d up s I’ve ever seen posted here
Laura Dawson 4 years ago
This is so sad & painful to read. I lived in a broken home, my Dad used to beat me from the age of 3 upwards, I remember he was drunk the first time around Christmas. Afterwards, he quit drinking but it wasn't the alcohol that fueled his violent outbursts. I was told I was worthless, ugly, lazy, the black sheep of the family, etc. I was punched in the stomach, kicked, dragged by the hair & he tried to smother me with a pillow on one occasion, then tried to buy me something because he felt bad afterwards. I was only 14 & had nowhere to go. Honestly I blotted a lot of it out but now getting therapy as an adult in my late twenties & no longer see my Dad.
Agnes Jekyll 4 years ago
Laura, I hope telling your story helps. I'm so sorry that man was your father. I always wanted children, and it kills me to think he had the greatest opportunity a human being is lucky to have and he hurt you. I wish you a lifetime of love and support and kindness.
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Jenifer Riggs 4 years ago (edited)
The way I see it, all these parents who are doing these terrible things do not deserve their children. Children deserve loving parents who will give their all and do everything in their power to support them above all things.
L.M. Frazer 3 years ago
These are all horrid in their own ways.....but #19 (the dog that was put in a shelter as a punishment to a child not doing well in school) absolutely made me tear up. How can people be this cruel and controlling. Go get psych degrees everyone....they'll always be a use for them with this brand of nutbags around!
Kim Lorton 4 years ago
Never thought I’d hear of such evil, stupid, and moronic parents! It really makes me want to be in law enforcement, the illegal kind.
Mimi777 4 years ago
My boyfriend’s mom is one of those people who constantly posts/shares hateful and prejudiced content on Facebook especially stuff related to LGBTQ people. One of her grandkids is gay (my boyfriend’s niece) she threatens her with taking away her inheritance when she dies if she doesn’t go to church with her..
Tobias the Tiger 4 years ago
To everyone else who's suffering abuse at the hands of a parent/guardian, I want you to know that you don't have to be grateful that it's not worse. I'm aware that many of my stepmom's actions don't even get close to some of the things I see here, but that still doesn't make her a good person: she tried to punish one of her kids for having suicidal thoughts, and is very backhanded about how she supports my transgender (FTM) stepbrother. (I'm also a closeted FTM, and she's one of the very reasons I'm closeted.)
Lyone Fein 4 years ago
It is so unfortunate that too many damaged people are not self-aware. Instead of seeking help, they go on to have children and to pass that damage along to the next generation. My family was the same. I am 57 now, and in the decades since my childhood I have learned: that I have to be responsible for healing myself, and for finding my own love sources; that my parents were also damaged and abused as children; to have compassion for my parents' suffering without denying the real pain and anger that I still feel; to thank my parents for giving me life itself. Without life, none of my journey would have been possible. I wish ultimate love and calm, a life free from abuse and toxic relationships, and a fruitful uplifting journey to all of us: children who suffer beyond imagination.
Jo Choto 4 years ago
We need licenses to have a dog, but any idiot can reproduce. Maybe one day we will change that.
Lauren Ringel 4 years ago
So... some of these are fabricated for shock value and noted on original posts on Reddit.
Astrid Nineor 4 years ago
Allthough there are probably plenty of people like that, I bet more than half of these are fake
Lauren Caswell 4 years ago (edited)
Wait what? There's no woman bashing is there? I saw dysfunctional parents in this thread, mothers and father's, and I know of parents who do this kind of s**t i dont see it as fake anecdotes, and I genuinely didn't see any gender agenda? (Omg I love how that rhymes though as a side note: gender agenda)
Load More Replies... Pamela24 4 years ago
I've said it before and I'll say it again - this is why I hate when people are pushing the "Everyone should respect their parents" idea. Yes - there are many great parents and they deserve recognition, respect and care. But there are also, unfortunately, many parents like these and their children deserve support and understanding when they decide to stop seeing them and cease contact. If you're in that situation - I admire you, it's immensely tough to stand up to your parents and even harder to actually cut them out of your lives. May you find better people to have around who'll make your family. Because blood doesn't make a family. Love does.
JeanBean_BC 4 years ago
I'll type here what I typed below: The Bible says, "Honour your mother and father." But the Bible also says, "Parents, don't invoke your children to wrath." I interpret that as respect is earned.
Load More Replies... 🌺🍍🌼🌻🌼🍍🌺 4 years ago
I don know what to say. I live in a situation like this, but I'm scared to share because I'm worried somehow I'll get in trouble. all I can say is: Other kids in this situation, they may make you think that you're a failure, that you're useless, that you deserve whats happening to you. it's not. it's really not. never forget it.
Agnes Jekyll 4 years ago
Dear Pineapple and flowers, Thank you for reaching out. Just like you said to all those other kids, you do not deserve this. This is not your fault. The abuser is at fault, the abuser is responsible. You have done nothing wrong. You deserve love and respect over and over again, only love.
Load More Replies... S. 4 years ago
I really hope and pray for the best for everybody stuck in such situations at this present. It should be a no brainer that we all deserve basic human decency and respect, yet it upsets me deeply that we still haven't overcome this type of behaviour. If it's anything, this random stranger on the internet cares for you, supports you, is proud of your accomplishments, understands your pains, and most of all, loves you. Sending good vibes and best wishes towards everybody's way. PS: I don't think it was a good decision to read this entire article in one sitting, lol.
Leo Domitrix 4 years ago
I did all I was told to do. I still got beat. Some parents are too damaged as people to be good parents.
JeanBean_BC 4 years ago
This isn't the exact quote (I'm paraphrasing) but it's in the bible for those "Christian" parents. The Bible says, "Honour your mother and father." But the Bible also says, "Parents, don't invoke your children to wrath." I interpret that as respect is earned.
Cori 4 years ago
Aaaaaand now I feel like a rockstar parent. I had a few doosies from my own childhood. 'You're ruining my marriage' when severe depression was making it difficult to get out of bed in time to do my morning chores and make it to the bus stop on time. This was said while basically shoving me out of a moving car down the street from my school. And 'I hope you got that out of your system' when coming out that a friend of mine had been more than just a friend. Then there was that time when my step dad called me a whore when I went home for Christmas. Fun times! I remind myself of how these, and many other incidents, felt any time I feel myself loosing my patience with my own kids. Abuse causes lifelong damage and I refuse to perpetuate that cycle.
Agnes Jekyll 4 years ago
This is one of the most horrific articles I've seen on Bored Panda. It's not about parents who "went too far" or "got shamed." Many of these examples are abuse perpetrated by parents onto their children.
Jeff Requier 4 years ago
We drank the foam off our parents beer as kids and I didnt even like drinking at my friends as a teen. Didnt drink more often till like 36.
B 4 years ago
Big difference between disciplining children (i.e. teaching them manners and good behaviour) and abusing children. Physical discipline is unnecessary - just a bit of common sense and communication with your kids. Most people these days seem too afraid to even raise their voice to the kid, and then wonder why the children turn out so awful and uncontrollable (which doesn't help the kid at all in their future lives).
Reginald Joseph 4 years ago
The two worst kinds of parents are authoritarian and absent/permissive. You get the screaming, bullying abusive and inconsistent in the authoritarian and the absent, inconsistent, "shrug" neglectful from the permissive. There is a vast field of positive between those two poles.
Load More Replies... Darrell Mills 4 years ago
This is quite possibly some of the most f’d up s I’ve ever seen posted here
Laura Dawson 4 years ago
This is so sad & painful to read. I lived in a broken home, my Dad used to beat me from the age of 3 upwards, I remember he was drunk the first time around Christmas. Afterwards, he quit drinking but it wasn't the alcohol that fueled his violent outbursts. I was told I was worthless, ugly, lazy, the black sheep of the family, etc. I was punched in the stomach, kicked, dragged by the hair & he tried to smother me with a pillow on one occasion, then tried to buy me something because he felt bad afterwards. I was only 14 & had nowhere to go. Honestly I blotted a lot of it out but now getting therapy as an adult in my late twenties & no longer see my Dad.
Agnes Jekyll 4 years ago
Laura, I hope telling your story helps. I'm so sorry that man was your father. I always wanted children, and it kills me to think he had the greatest opportunity a human being is lucky to have and he hurt you. I wish you a lifetime of love and support and kindness.
Load More Replies... Jenifer Riggs 4 years ago (edited)
The way I see it, all these parents who are doing these terrible things do not deserve their children. Children deserve loving parents who will give their all and do everything in their power to support them above all things.
L.M. Frazer 3 years ago
These are all horrid in their own ways.....but #19 (the dog that was put in a shelter as a punishment to a child not doing well in school) absolutely made me tear up. How can people be this cruel and controlling. Go get psych degrees everyone....they'll always be a use for them with this brand of nutbags around!
Kim Lorton 4 years ago
Never thought I’d hear of such evil, stupid, and moronic parents! It really makes me want to be in law enforcement, the illegal kind.
Mimi777 4 years ago
My boyfriend’s mom is one of those people who constantly posts/shares hateful and prejudiced content on Facebook especially stuff related to LGBTQ people. One of her grandkids is gay (my boyfriend’s niece) she threatens her with taking away her inheritance when she dies if she doesn’t go to church with her..
Tobias the Tiger 4 years ago
To everyone else who's suffering abuse at the hands of a parent/guardian, I want you to know that you don't have to be grateful that it's not worse. I'm aware that many of my stepmom's actions don't even get close to some of the things I see here, but that still doesn't make her a good person: she tried to punish one of her kids for having suicidal thoughts, and is very backhanded about how she supports my transgender (FTM) stepbrother. (I'm also a closeted FTM, and she's one of the very reasons I'm closeted.)
Lyone Fein 4 years ago
It is so unfortunate that too many damaged people are not self-aware. Instead of seeking help, they go on to have children and to pass that damage along to the next generation. My family was the same. I am 57 now, and in the decades since my childhood I have learned: that I have to be responsible for healing myself, and for finding my own love sources; that my parents were also damaged and abused as children; to have compassion for my parents' suffering without denying the real pain and anger that I still feel; to thank my parents for giving me life itself. Without life, none of my journey would have been possible. I wish ultimate love and calm, a life free from abuse and toxic relationships, and a fruitful uplifting journey to all of us: children who suffer beyond imagination.
Jo Choto 4 years ago
We need licenses to have a dog, but any idiot can reproduce. Maybe one day we will change that.
Lauren Ringel 4 years ago
So... some of these are fabricated for shock value and noted on original posts on Reddit.
Astrid Nineor 4 years ago
Allthough there are probably plenty of people like that, I bet more than half of these are fake
Lauren Caswell 4 years ago (edited)
Wait what? There's no woman bashing is there? I saw dysfunctional parents in this thread, mothers and father's, and I know of parents who do this kind of s**t i dont see it as fake anecdotes, and I genuinely didn't see any gender agenda? (Omg I love how that rhymes though as a side note: gender agenda)
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