It's the husband's wedding, too.

What makes this even crazier is the fact that she had to ask in the first place. Of course, she is the a-hole. She kicked her husband's childhood friend out of her wedding because he didn't bring the plus one that she expected him to. The woman wasn't doing anything wrong so I don't understand why she had to be kicked out at all. This bride sounds very entitled.

I don't understand why many brides claimed "my wedding" when it's both hers and her husband/partner. OP is rude AF and obviously an AH.

Some people start setting the grounds for divorce at the wedding. I give them a year

"You can stay, but your date needs to leave, by herself, in a state where she probrably knows no-one, and doesn't have transport independent of you, so you can be here alone feeling awkward at a wedding reception were you only know the bride and groom." You effectively asked both to leave, and of course the guy is pissed off at being asked to travel out of state for a wedding, then being treated so rudely. YTA, and you've made your husband look like a major a*****e to his friend, too.

Biggest red flag being missed here - he had to beg to have his friend come!!!!! Wasn't it his wedding too? Doesn't sound like it. Hope his next wedding is better X

The Plus -One must have upstaged the bride some how-looks, dress...class?

Of course she is TA. Bridezillla of the year award goes to this gal.

This has to be a fake aita, please let this be a fake aita. Thing is, we all know that ONE despised wagon who is this A

To the husband of this power tripping Karen: RUUUUUUUUUUN!

The fact that the husband needed to beg for this is already a huge red flag and to be honest the bride is too immature to marry anyone at this time.

It sounds like she sent the invitation as "Childhood Friend and guest", when what she meant was "Childhood Friend and His GF". If you want to be particular about your wedding guests, invite each person by name. Saying on the invitation that someone can bring a guest means they can bring anyone they want. I see this as her mistake on the invitation if she wasn't honest about who she wanted at the wedding. Once the mistake was made and the guy turned up with his friend instead of the expected gf, bride should have accepted it and moved on with her day. It was totally an AH move to ask the guest to leave.

oh my god, your wedding is not going to be your pErFeCt DaY. It's a day. It's a party. Hopefully, it's a nice party. FFS stop acting like you are commiting ceremonial suicide the next day and gotta make this one count

I think the Bride was extremely rude! His friend travelled from out of state to attend THEIR wedding. What was the big deal? A +1 is a +1....You can't control who people bring. Why would you want to cause bad vibes on your own wedding day? The Bride should have thanked them both for travelling so far to be there. Instead she acted very rude. Not cool!

They won't be married long..seems she wants complete control of every thing. Well I see husband becoming ex soon. Don't have any kids.

"my wedding" could easily turn into "my divorce" because it's not "your" wedding it's the couples wedding together, you bridezilla

oh, look at this ! a bridezilla caught in the wild! Don't scare her, she might kick you out , scream, and cry because you ruined her special day. Her husband? Hum.....might be here, in the corner, wondering why he's still here.Yup, the one with the cake and the glass of wine.

So tired of this "me-me-me my perfect wedding, my day." It is also about hospitality where people come to celebrate your marriage. If money is the issue, I get the number of people allowed etc, but he already had a plus one. Was she prettier and she felt upstaged? If so, and even if not,, ridiculous.

What totally amazed me about this is that she had to ASK if she was TA in doing this! A seven year old would have figured it out! Hopefully her husband’s wedding will go smoother with his next wife.

Good God! How petty, distasteful, & selfish. I'm not sure who's the bigger AH- OP or her husband who tolerates this.

Well, there's one marriage that won't last long.

I'm glad almost all agreed that she's the AH..

Why does it matter if you don't personally know everyone at your wedding? I mean, I wouldn't want a stranger off the street, who didn't know me or my husband. But if one of our guests, who we know, brings a date we haven't met, and they aren't causing any trouble, so the héll what?? My own wedding was 18 years ago. But I can still tell you, there's enough going on, that you won't even get to see everyone there, let alone talk to them. Or maybe only for a minute or two. Talk to the person you know, be polite to the date, and move on. Dance. Eat. Drink (if that's your thing). Have fun. RELAX. It doesn't have to be this perfect, over controlled experience, to be your dream day. It should be your dream day no matter what, because you're marrying the partner of your dreams. Unless someone is causing a disturbance, that's all that should matter. You have too many details to worry about anyway, without going full bridezilla over the petty shít. 1/2

Please tell me this is fake. Please tell me an a-hole bride like this truly doesn't exist. Takes being a b* tch to a whole new level.

How you think this kind of behaviour is ok to begin with and then has to ask other people if.you are the AH is kind of astounding. Maybe you'll respond differently at your second wedding.

Cheapo!!!

I hope the man divorce the woman, really... What kind of crazy woman that allow plus one but then kick her out just because she doesn't like the poor lady?

"My wedding"...sure wish the husband heard this before the "I Do's". You were the @sshole before this incident happened.

You showed you lack any class. Very rude and disrespectful. Did you even give your actions a second thought? Yta or just have your head up it

Hummm the Bride was really busy checking guest that she didn't know!? Had the nerve to kick out the young lady. SMH.. GO and enjoy your special day. I hope her husband will be able to deal with her. Wife is a busy body. Ohh and You for fitting on your gift. 😂 why in the world would she do that!?

Wedding invite rules would dictate that if you don't want randoms and only want established couples, you don't give anyone a plus one - don't address the invite for John and guest, you invite the couple and address the invite to John and Jane. If you put and guest or plus one, they can bring anyone, so depending on how their invites were addressed and worded, she might be a big A, but even if he brought a friend because he was lonely and anxious about going to a wedding alone out of state when the invite said the girlfriends name, you can't really send her away at that point unless she poses an actual problem (she turns out to be bride/groom/close family member's ex, she's being rude or destructive, smells so bad someone literally throws up, she as a specific person rather than a plus one is making the couple uncomfortable, etc). If she was making the bride uncomfortable, I'd understand her wanting her to leave, but talk to the groom about how to handle it and don't send a bridesmaid.

I can see the point of the plus 1 debacle when you're planning cuz sh** gets expensive! I'm planning my own wedding right now and it was getting to a point where I was like Yay another £60 every time a friend met someone... we've gone with a buffet now so everyone can come... But when you've already paid for the plus 1 what's the issue?!?!

I would understand if they didnt have a +1 reserved and suddenly you have to seat a random person and figure out what to feed them, but if the companion was already counted in the organization I dont understand the fuss

Probably could have just kicked the poor guy in the nuts next time. Dood traveled to come see his best friends wedding and full filled his RSVP..would you rather him just waste the extra plate you paid for? What was she doing that you needed to kick her out? Smfh.

Next time she gets married (because she is a narcissist). She should marry herself as nobody deserves to have to put up with her bs.

I understand not wanting random people at your wedding, but this is going too far here. So is that one comment saying "hopefully you're going to be an ex-wife soon." Damn, she made a mistake, give her a chance to own up and become better instead of throwing away a relationship, tf

What a selfish b***h. Deserves a divorce.

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I do not think the bride was correct for kicking the plus one out, but is she perhaps autistic and this is why she only wanted people she knows at her wedding?

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I wonder if husband knew friend was bringing someone other than long term gf. If he did and he knew how wife felt about only having people they knew at the wedding then he's an AH too