I'm 47 with a mortgage and full time job and have a friend thats been on disability or workers comp or something for his entire adult life because of a car accident. Recently texted me that I'm a piece of s**t friend because I don't "hang out" anymore. Sometimes you gotta just tell somebody to f@#$ off and get their own life.

Is it any wonder that all the "bro" friends are single, while all the married friends get it? E, and all his bros, are AHs. Let them be incels without you. This may be the very first time I've ever quoted the Bible, but "when I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: But when I became a man, I put away childish things."

My fiancé wouldn’t have someone over to the house that made me feel uncomfortable. This dude sounds like a good guy, but he really needs to drop his idiot friends. This should really be a wake up call for him. His wife felt bad for wanting to sleep in her own bed? Clearly his rude friends have made her feel second class in her own relationship. No wonder these guys make her uncomfortable.

If people are intimating that you're wife is a whore, even in jest, they're not your friends. If that one "friend" is angry that your wife wants to use her bed in her home, and you support her, he's not your friend either.

People in healthcare often develop a good sense for others. I’d say if she didn’t like him in the first place, there is a good reason. He just showed you how right she was.

You should tell him to fvck right off! You're married to her, not him. Sounds a lot like jealousy to me.

What the hell?? Is there an incel farm nearby?

You might miss your friend for a while. You'll get over it.

When my best friend got married, it became harder to see him since he spent so much time with her instead of hanging out with me. While it made me sad and a bit jealous that we didnt spend as much time together as before, more so I was happy he found someone he loved. I got over it and now while we still don't see each other in person too much we talk a lot. E is an a*****e and OP did the right thing.

This cant be real right? What are you 16? I'm sorry but you should never have to ask someone to leave your house twice in a row.

How old is the friend? 12? Because it cannot be an adult.

You are a hero. Keep on keeping your wife ❤. That is TLC

Your friend E and all the other friends who took his side are not your friends. You are married and your wife is not a hoe. I am so sorry that you think that he's a friend and that those other people are too. And you can tell that POS E that the day you guys said I do mean she will always come first before anybody and everybody else. That is how a marriage works. NTA

The "friend" sounds like a big man baby

Incels gonna incel.

What sort of creeps has he got for "friends"?

Yo………WTFFFF??? You need to cancel ALL THOSE ASSHOLES IMMEDIATELY!!! What In Sam Hill is wrong with some people??? That is some really DISRESPECTFUL S**T & your Wife sounds like a great person!!!

You're a great husband and a caring person, NOT an AH! Any people that have such juvenile and selfish reactions, like your "friend" E, an other "friends" that support him, are not worth keeping around. "Bros before h**s" my ass, they're not your bros, they're selfish, entitled pricks whose mentality got stuck in middle school.

NTA but apparently all of your friends are and I'm guessing none of them are married. Your wife comes first. You should tell all of your friends you are done with them.

My ex did something similar to me, not as bad though. I'm a nurse. I actually got off on time from work and made it home by 7:45pm. I turn the corner and my driveway is full of cars, causing me to have to park on the street (mistake #1). I get in the door about 5 of his friends are sitting around and one was looking in the refridgerator (mistake #2). Then ex asks me why was I home (mistake #3). I say because I live here and WTF is doing he in my refridgerator when he didn't buy anything to go in it? After I said that, I proceed to the bedroom. Soon I hear the front door open and cars cranking. This dummy had the nerve to ask why I came in the house with an attitude and ran his friends away. I tell him, "there should never be a time where I have to park on the street in front of my house. Plus after working a long day, I don't always want to look at your face, let alone your funky ass friends." Within 5 minutes he was gone and I had a peaceful night alone.

The husband isn't the a*****e but the so called friend is. If he were a true friend it wouldn't matter that the husband put his wife and her needs first. The "friend" is a garbage person who has a lot of growing up to do, as well as the guys who blasted the husband with the bros before ho's crap.

Bros before what now?! She is your wife! That's why they are not married cause they are misogynistic assholes! Why are you friends with them?! Seriously. How can you be friends with people that say s**t like that?! Your wife is your partner that you chose to spend your life with and anyone disrespecting her should not be in your life. Ever. I would have a huge problem with my husband being friends with scum like that.

Bros before hoes, but Wife is LIfe. Characterizing someone's wife as a 'hoe' is really not the cool plan people think it is.

"Why can't she sleep on the couch"? Because it's her mother f*****g bed b***h. Gtfo.

If a total stranger has to sleep I am pooling my child away to not disturb. It is not matter of wich person but which need is more important. The friend is probably having issues with gaming. He is sick person. I only wonder how that other friends are supporting this sick behavior?

It sounds like you should listen to your wife when she says someone makes her uncomfortable. He's a nut burger. And the other friends are stupid children.

Good heavens, what a selfish friend. Anyone with any sense would have left without question, wouldn't even have had to be told. Husband has a lousy friend. There's a reason why wife doesn't like him. He's the ASH.