Aging is a privilege that not everyone gets to experience. So if you live to be 90 years old, the wrinkles on your face should be worn proudly as a badge of honor and a sign that you've got plenty of stories to tell about your younger years. But while we don’t need to be scared of aging, it is a fact that some behaviors and experiences can make us look older faster than others.
Reddit users have recently been discussing things that can instantly age a person, so we’ve gathered some of their thoughts down below. Enjoy scrolling through, as you stay hydrated and remember to apply that handy dandy SPF, and keep reading to find a conversation with Catherine Summers of Not Dressed As Lamb!
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Stress.
For me, stress caused atrial fibrillation, lack of sleep, and high blood pressure. Since I retired and focused on enjoying myself. my atrial fibrillation has markedly decreased (didn't even know that was possible), I sleep at least 7 hours a night, and my blood pressure has dropped 40 points. Haven't changed meds, just lifestyles.
To learn more about some of the things that can instantly age a person, we reached out to Digital Content Creator and Blogger at Not Dressed As Lamb, Catherine Summers. "I think the number one thing that instantly ages a person is stress," she told Bored Panda. "Stress is what always accelerates aging in a person in my opinion (think of those pictures they show of American presidents before and after their term in office, the stress shows in their face)!"
"For me personally, it's been the biggest contributor to my 51-year-old body finally starting to feel like it really is 51, not 31 anymore," Catherine continued. "And with regards to the past few years, I don't think many people came out the other side of the pandemic without it having been challenging, tough or problematic for them. Sadly, for many people it was devastating. I was fortunate enough not to have experienced anything traumatic in my life but it was tough for various personal reasons. And for women especially, combine that stress with being perimenopausal/menopausal and it's very hard not to look or feel like you've aged."
War. I went from 21 to 31 in 6 months.
I went from 18 to 50 in Vietnam. No one should have to do or see what evil war is.
Children
"Being fit and healthy is the absolute, most important thing you can do to avoid the feeling of getting old," Catherine added. "Aiming to feel fit and strong is the key and is something that I, at least, took for granted until my mid-forties."
But Catherine says that aging itself is not a problem for her. "It's the feeling good that I want to preserve," she explained. "But in practical terms, smoking, bad sleep habits, no exercise and a terrible diet are all major contributors to the aging process. When I get those things in check (though I've never smoked), I feel a thousand times better. Sounds corny I know, but visible ageing in terms of wrinkles or sagging jowls means nothing if a person is truly content and feels good inside. The happiness shows on their face and the 'aging' really doesn't matter."
Back pain.
You can't move like a young person if your back hurts.
Just gets better with age. Some common things to look forward to. Arthritis. Hearing or eyesight loss. Heart or kidney problems. Memory problems.
Yeah, I'm seeing that happen right now. My mother is 56 and this year she suddenly developed a very aggressive form of arthritis. She used to be a very independent person, the kind who fixes things around the house, does everything that requires strength, she used to drive quite a big and heavy bike (a Royal Enfield Thunderbird for the curious). But now she can't walk straight, can't wash her hair or get dressed by herself, can't even cut chicken, sometimes she cries at night when the pain is too much. That arthritis really did age her in the span of a few months.
Load More Replies...I've had back pain since I was born thanks to Cerebral Palsy and spending most of my day in a wheelchair. Luckily, the chair I have currently can tilt, so it's easier to alleviate.
Yeah...getting older is SO much fun. You hit 50...your warranty expires and all your parts wear out!
I do ten-fifteen minutes of yoga in the morning before I do ANYTHING else (well, except pee). Every day. It has really made a difference.
30 years as a truck driver. Stress causes your capillaries to sliver, blood leaks into your body cavity. Blood attracts calcium, calcium becomes bone. I have a slew of knuckle bones across my tramp stamp area. No cure
I had a wicked spasm some years back. Went to chiro and stopped him immediately, co-worker is a CMT. She worked on me for an hour, walked in not being able to stand fully, walked out MUCH better. Next day was fine. May not work for serious cases, but massage really worked for me. Give it a shot?
Stress. Grief. Trauma. Mental Illness. Losing a loved one way before their time at a young age (parent/sibling/close friend).
"Despite what I just said, it doesn't mean that I don't do anything to address the ageing process!" Catherine noted. "I do dislike the term 'anti-aging' where the beauty industry is concerned, as it suggests that it's a battle to keep aging at bay and something we need to fight all the time. We can't do anything to stop aging completely, but I believe that doing what you can to look the best you can, at whatever age you are, is key."
"For example, I stopped wearing black many years ago - bright colors are now my go-to," Catherine continued. "I do have a few black pieces in my wardrobe, but wearing black next to my face drains me and just makes me look unhappy and therefore I feel old. Brights are always a mood-booster: it's a lot harder to feel blue if you're wearing orange and pink!"
"I also gave up caring what others think about the way I dress long ago: with all the other stresses of life, worrying about others' opinions of you is not one to bother yourself with," the content creator added. "Do away with that worry and you'll feel ten times better about aging - not giving a [bleep!] about what others think of you is very liberating and I highly recommend it."
Chronic pain
Bad genes - like it or not. Some people smoke and drink their faces off and still look vibrant and healthy. Others eat well and exercise and look tired and lifeless
Looking vibrant and healthy but smoking seriously ruins everything inside you.
Working with the general public. Bartender of 21 years and nothing has aged me more than all y’all idiots.
Catherine says she's also had a pretty strict skincare routine since she was a teenager, and she's never left makeup on at night. "But something I wish I did sooner was wear moisturiser with SPF all year round," she noted. "This would be my only answer to that 'What advice would you give your younger self?' question. Stop baking yourself in the sun, woman! Looking back on summer holiday photos, I can see how bad the pigmentation was in my face, so I did the worst thing you can do for your skin by sunbathing and not wearing SPF on a daily basis. The pigmentation is a lot better now, but I still have permanent damage in some places. I learned my lesson about the sun causing damage to your face the hard way."
"Other than that, I try to do the best for my skin (and my body) by drinking lots of water, keeping my skin moisturised (dry, dehydrated skin will age faster) and eating veggies," Catherine added. "It sounds boring, it sounds predictable and sounds like it's all been said before... But it's all true unfortunately. Boring but true!"
Fking cancer. Have watched my brother in law age 30 years in a month.
My grandma looked largely the same for as long as I knew her, til the cancer. She aged with increased rapidity the longer it went on, and the last couple weeks were just...her withering away to nothing. I'm not bothered by anatomy generally, skeletons are cool and all, but I don't want to see a loved one's skeleton draped loosely in thin flesh ever again.
Making eye contact with their cursed portrait that has been aging in their stead for centuries.
We were also curious if Catherine believes most of us are too afraid of aging. "I don't know about most people, but for me personally, I'm in two minds about it," she shared. "In an ideal world, yes - I'd still have the face and body I had when I was 35 (or even 40). But that's not going to happen, aging is inevitable, and we should actually be thankful for aging as it means we're living longer (and who doesn't want that)."
"This 'fear' of aging is perpetuated by things like social media filters (they make me uneasy and I never use them), the beauty industry promoting products described as anti-ageing and celebrities erasing away any signs of ageing, and none of that sits right with me," she explained. "I read a statistic somewhere that suggested that about half of all women use a filter on social media, and whether that's to smooth away the signs of aging or perceived imperfections (or both), it's sad that we're not confident enough to show our true selves."
I think something not talked about a lot is mindset. Like if someone views themselves as old and shouldn't do this or that, they're making aging faster for themselves.
Affirmations can help.
Staying in a relationship or marriage you’re not happy in. It’s soul draining and the instant it’s over, there’s more relief than grieving for the end of it.
"However (and without wanting to contradict myself), I also believe that everyone should do what makes them happy," Catherine added. "But cosmetic procedures should be for the right reasons, not for someone else or to look younger because of a fear of aging or due to any kind of pressure from outside sources. Do something because you want to feel better within yourself, not due to a fear of anything."
For people over 30, their hair style. I dont know why some people, especially women, develop a hair style and stick with it the rest of their lives.
Probably because it suits them and is easy to maintain without costly visits to the hairdresser that they can't afford.
Being president. Look at Obama's hair in 2008 vs 2016!
I often wonder how anyone in their right mind would ever want to be president.
Catherine also says she's positive about the future. "I think that things are changing - albeit slowly - in terms of attitudes towards getting older and aging," she told Bored Panda. "Brands are using older models more, advertising campaigns are using less airbrushing and showing real skin texture, and fewer people think that 40, 50 or 60 is 'old.'"
"I'd like to see the beauty industry to drop the term 'anti-aging' and use 'optimum ageing' or similar - to drop the negative connotations," Catherine added. "I'd like us to say 'older people' instead of 'old man' or 'old lady' - it just sounds a little more respectful, don't you think? There's a long way to go, though, before aging is no longer seen as something to fight, but instead, something to celebrate!"
If you'd like to hear more wise words from Catherine or get some great fashion, beauty, and body image advice from her, be sure to visit Not Dressed As Lamb or follow her on Instagram!
Starving yourself to lose weight. I look so much older in photos from my 20s than I do now at 45.
My 11th grade teacher told everyone, "fat feels better in bed". I have forgotten a lot of information in high school, but that stuck with me.🤣
Having a spouse that contributes nothing to your relationship and allows your family to slip further and further into debt without caring that you're all only a couple of bills away from bankruptcy.
Depression or general unhappiness in life
Being homeless. It’ll make you mature right fast it will.
Being the victim of a crime, and then having to spend the next two years of your life attending monthly hearings until a court date is decided. Watching the legal system not protect you when he violates restraining orders, gets a DUI and visibly deteriorates, coming to court dirtier and more unkempt each time. Losing friends because they like the offender better and just can't see...
The way you dress
(Multiple) tooth loss
I have lost many teeth and I am so self conscious. I don't have the money to repair it and I have to make sure I don't smile too big. I used to love to smile and I miss it.
I just did 4 years in prison and that was f*****g stressful. I feel like I’ve aged a lot
hair loss. Not me personally but I used to work with a guy who I swore was like 35, and he was 19.
Poor kid.
Shave it and grow a majestic beard. Bald men are sexy; balding men are not. I have no idea why this is, but I stand by it.
Stress, grief, childhood trauma. It can also ruin your life and life of the people around you.
Weight loss sometimes adds way more wrinkles.
Particularly if a person is "puffy" - my dad after he quit alcohol and dropped 60lbs. He's looking a bit better now honestly, but that significant weight loss coupled with the swelling reduction had him very wrinkly for a bit. He's not very old so his skin reverted a fair bit and he stays hydrated.
For men, a moustache. If you look back at the 1980s, you have 25-30 year old men look like they're in their 40s, and the same is happening again, now.
Women - too much makeup
I have been through war and i also lost my sister to a car accident, fair to say im 39 but i look 60.
Kids. Kids instantly age people. I have proof of it. I had kids before my twin sister did. I looked 10 years older than her. Then she had kids and we evened out.
And yet the compelling narrative in the US is that SAHMs do nothing all day 🙄🙄🙄 yeah if that s**t ages you by 10 years, there’s definitely a lot of work and stress there.
Reminiscing about the show "Dinosaurs"
Troubleshooting printer problems. I swear these devilish machines only exist to trigger me to smithereens.
Finding out a band you listened to when they first came out is getting inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame.
🤣🤣🤣 🙈 this hits close to home. My husband and I were at a Manowar concert last month and he asks me : "What's up with Joey deMaio, he moves like my Grandpa used to?" My answer was: "Schatzi, I hate to tell you, but WE ARE OLD! And he's old as well. He gets to move like a grandpa, he is 69 years old. And I'm sure with 69 we couldn't do what he does on stage." 😅🙈 yes, we are old...
Platinum blonde hair. I swear it enhances every single line you have in your face even if you're younger.
On the flip side, when you allow yourself to go grey it can be a delightful change! I used to have very dark, brown hair. I love being silver now. It suits me and looks great.
Buccal fat removal
1. Reading GenZ posts that are completely devoid of punctuation, proper spelling and grammar,to the point where you have to read it over and over to understand it. Each one takes minutes off my life span. 2. Trying to blast a Jedi with force lightning, only to have it reflected back into your face
A Jedi battle is not nearly as aging as the Gen Z posts. I sometimes give up trying to figure out what they're trying to say.
Load More Replies...To sum it up: unhealthy Lifestyle (smoking, drugs, bad food), stress, bad styling and grief.
Sun exposure without proper protection. Living close to the equator, I've seen so many people look 50 in their 30s. Even worse than those who'd loyally smoked since they were teens!
Blink 182 being considered classic rock and you were listening to them in the 90s.
Hey. Classic is Beatles. Stones. Jefferson Airplane. Elvis. Such a diversity of styles.
Load More Replies...Trauma. Trauma ages the $hit outta you. I've felt like a 40-something since I was a teenager.
1. Reading GenZ posts that are completely devoid of punctuation, proper spelling and grammar,to the point where you have to read it over and over to understand it. Each one takes minutes off my life span. 2. Trying to blast a Jedi with force lightning, only to have it reflected back into your face
A Jedi battle is not nearly as aging as the Gen Z posts. I sometimes give up trying to figure out what they're trying to say.
Load More Replies...To sum it up: unhealthy Lifestyle (smoking, drugs, bad food), stress, bad styling and grief.
Sun exposure without proper protection. Living close to the equator, I've seen so many people look 50 in their 30s. Even worse than those who'd loyally smoked since they were teens!
Blink 182 being considered classic rock and you were listening to them in the 90s.
Hey. Classic is Beatles. Stones. Jefferson Airplane. Elvis. Such a diversity of styles.
Load More Replies...Trauma. Trauma ages the $hit outta you. I've felt like a 40-something since I was a teenager.