ADVERTISEMENT

The fact that people share an idealized version of themselves on social media, cherry-picking only the best images, thoughts, and experiences isn't new. But the lengths they go to marketing themselves keep surprising even the ones who think they've seen it all.

I'm talking about r/Instagramreality. It's a subreddit whose members strip down the glamor of make-up, flattering poses, and all kinds of photo editing, and expose the truth behind the facade. It's been around since 2017, and we've written about it numerous times (here, here, and here), but even these folks still get baffled at how absurd some of these manipulations are. Here are a few reasons why.

RELATED:
    #2

    A Fairly Popular Local Influencer Recently Made An Appearance On TV. A Lot Of Her Fans Apparently Had Trouble Recognizing Her At First

    A Fairly Popular Local Influencer Recently Made An Appearance On TV. A Lot Of Her Fans Apparently Had Trouble Recognizing Her At First

    SwissMercyMain Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Klaatu Verrata (Cough)
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yikes. Filler is expensive. Always amazes me how much vain people will pay to turn themselves into literal caricatures of themselves.

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu

    In an earlier piece on r/InstagramRealityBored Panda spoke to Siobhan Ward, a primary therapist at Life Works, a rehabilitation center that provides treatment for addictions and eating disorders, about the scope of social media addiction in the United Kingdom.

    "If you broke 'social media addiction' down into categories, it would encompass other process or behavioral addictions such as porn and gambling, as well as eating disorders, especially predominant with the likes of Instagram," Ward explained. "It may be that the addiction is not with the social media itself, but the social media has become a tool of other addictions."

    The therapist thinks people can't stop faking and editing their Instagram photos (even when it's an obvious lie) because of brain chemistry. "Dopamine is the neurotransmitter that comes into play with the addict — it is what tells us that we enjoy something and therefore need to do it again as it gives us pleasure."

    ADVERTISEMENT

    "If the person is taking a lot of selfies that have to be 'perfect', then maybe they are not addicts. Instead, this could be a sign of a possible narcissistic personality disorder. Also, if someone is posting pictures to get as many likes as possible, they may not be getting certain needs met in their life. They may not have the love, support, or even safety that they need now or that they needed when they grew up and therefore have had to find another way to fill that hole," Ward said.

    #3

    A Man, For A Change. Not Sure If Satire Or For Real. Behold, The Wall-Bending Biceps And Butt

    A Man, For A Change. Not Sure If Satire Or For Real. Behold, The Wall-Bending Biceps And Butt

    jueoni Report

    #5

    This Is Funny And All But It’s Getting Out Of Hand

    This Is Funny And All But It’s Getting Out Of Hand

    stonemilking Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Steve Barnett
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm getting the feeling that I'm probably going to make more Slender Man jokes.

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu
    ADVERTISEMENT

    Interestingly, being reminded that social media is fake can also 'fill' us. In a 2019 study, researchers decided to investigate the effect 'Instagram vs. Reality' pictures (the ones containing side-by-side photographs of the same woman, one an idealized depiction and the other a more natural depiction) have on body image.

    They got together 305 women aged between 18 and 30 years, the largest demographic group of Instagram users. The sample had a mean age of 25.34 years, and their mean body mass index (BMI) was 26.98, indicating a slightly overweight sample. The majority of participants identified as Caucasian (69.2%), followed by Latino/Hispanic (11.8%), African American (10.2%), Asian (6.6%), Native American (0.3%), and 'other' (2.0%). The participants were randomly assigned to view one of three sets of Instagram images over a period of time: 'Instagram vs. reality" images, the 'ideal' side alone, or the 'real' side alone.

    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT
    #9

    In Reality, Birds Flap Their Wings When They Fly

    In Reality, Birds Flap Their Wings When They Fly

    _waigwe Report

    #10

    Unfortunately Did Not Pass Her Photoshop Class Though

    Unfortunately Did Not Pass Her Photoshop Class Though

    fannywaffles Report

    "[The study found that] viewing the 'Instagram vs. reality' and real images resulted in decreased body dissatisfaction relative to the ideal images," the researchers wrote. "Furthermore, the detrimental effects of appearance comparison were much less marked for the 'Instagram vs. reality' and real images than for the ideal images. It was concluded that 'Instagram vs. reality' and real posts have the potential to bolster women's body satisfaction, but more research is needed to assess their longer-term impact."

    Siobhan Ward said that we need to become aware of what we believe we are getting from the Internet in order to start resisting its temptation. "By understanding why [we] turn to the Internet, [we] can start to think about healthier ways to meet these needs."

    #11

    This Guy Popped Up In My Feed As A Sponsored Story

    This Guy Popped Up In My Feed As A Sponsored Story

    Lksarchitecs Report

    #12

    Yes, The Giant Feet Syndrome, More And Coomon These Days

    Yes, The Giant Feet Syndrome, More And Coomon These Days

    Slow-Werewolf Report

    ADVERTISEMENT
    #13

    We’ve Seen Tiny Heads…now Get Ready For Giant Feet!

    We’ve Seen Tiny Heads…now Get Ready For Giant Feet!

    meep_meep_merp Report

    #15

    "The Model Has Achieved This By Chewing On A Plastic-Looking Contraption"

    "The Model Has Achieved This By Chewing On A Plastic-Looking Contraption"

    metti-021 Report

    #16

    Photoshopped Herself Into Oblivion, Grandpa Can Stay Lookin Old Af

    Photoshopped Herself Into Oblivion, Grandpa Can Stay Lookin Old Af

    ZeuslovesHer Report

    #18

    From Her Profile vs. Tagged

    From Her Profile vs. Tagged

    Yayitselizabeth Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Sarcastic Cow
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you photoshoped yourself hard enough to be Kate Siegel. Good job.

    View more commentsArrow down menu
    #19

    Reminder: This Is Not How These Women Look In Real Life

    Reminder: This Is Not How These Women Look In Real Life

    jassicassi Report

    #20

    Internal Organs? Never Heard Of Them

    Internal Organs? Never Heard Of Them

    look4alec Report

    ADVERTISEMENT
    #22

    What The Model Posted vs. Photographer

    What The Model Posted vs. Photographer

    clutchkickmurphys Report

    #23

    She Was On A Popular Reality Show. I'll Never Understand Why They Do This When We've All Seen What They Really Look Like!

    She Was On A Popular Reality Show. I'll Never Understand Why They Do This When We've All Seen What They Really Look Like!

    TheStayAtHomeAtheist Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Monday
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why accept the reality show invite if you've modified your online image this much is what I don't understand. You KNOW you don't look like your pictures, so why expose yourself? [Why change yourself this much is a question for another day]

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu
    #25

    Arms So Big They Warp The Plane Seats?

    Arms So Big They Warp The Plane Seats?

    FreddieL2103 Report

    #26

    This Cannot Be Real! Inhumanly Possible To Look Like This

    This Cannot Be Real! Inhumanly Possible To Look Like This

    fenixdarkdirk Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    James016
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this is the guy from TOWIE (UK reality TV show) and he is dangerously thin at the moment

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu
    #28

    Girl I Go To Uni With Always Edits Her Photos Like This.. The Second Pic Is How She Actually Looks

    Girl I Go To Uni With Always Edits Her Photos Like This.. The Second Pic Is How She Actually Looks

    BigBootyBianca Report

    ADVERTISEMENT
    See Also on Bored Panda
    #30

    Her Index Finger Seems To Be Melting Down Her Bum

    Her Index Finger Seems To Be Melting Down Her Bum

    SunnyAmerican Report

    #31

    Her Gravitational Pull Is So Strong It Distorts Everything Around Her Waist

    Her Gravitational Pull Is So Strong It Distorts Everything Around Her Waist

    samiam130 Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Tobias Rieper
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this whole page could just have a picture of Thanos after he gets the reality stone with caption now reality can be whatever i want

    View more commentsArrow down menu
    #32

    Two Of Her Fingers Are Thicker Than Her Wrist, Wtf

    Two Of Her Fingers Are Thicker Than Her Wrist, Wtf

    MelanieSenpai Report

    #33

    Repeat Offender. This Girl Has No Shame

    Repeat Offender. This Girl Has No Shame

    ieattoomuchnutella Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Mewton’s Third Paw
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So the one who gets bullied online for not living up to certain beauty standards and then mocked relentlessly when she tries to change how she looks?

    Load More Replies...
    Slytherin_4_LYF
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People really are dumb. These pictures are YEARS apart. She lost a ton of weight, so people slam on her when she is heavy and also now that she lost the weight??!! There is no pleasing anyone. But she's been very upfront about what she does to her body and she's had lip injections and some injections on her jaw and forehead. Not photoshop Not plastic surgery.

    OddPenguin
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Has nothing to do with weight loss. Credit where credit is due, good for her. The picture is heavily photoshopped and distorts her facial bone structure. That's sad on a different level - she's still trying to conform to an unrealistic standard.

    Load More Replies...
    Pat Bond
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretty sure there's well over a decade between these photo's.

    Jayne Kyra
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is well-known that Kelly Osbourne (daughter of THE Ozzy) had procedures done, and also lost a ton of weight.

    Hannah Edwards
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She’s made herself unrecognisable from surgery, not that I dislike her new look, but I liked how she looked originally because she was so distinctive and cute.

    AnxietyRiddenMom
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Except she really has lost weight. These two photos have to be several years apart

    LeeAnne B
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not photoshopped. She started her weight loss journey initially after being diagnosed with a thyroid issue. In fact, unreasonable and unrealistic beauty standards stopped her from getting the medical treatment she needed because she enjoyed losing the weight.

    Ritchat
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again, while of course the picture on the left is photoshopped, Kelly Osbourne actually pretty much looks like this now. She lost a lot of weight and she admitted that she had injections in her forehead, lips, and jawline. Jawline looks like there had been some plastic surgery done though. Yes, she is almost unrecognizable, but it's not just because of photoshop. Her photos don't really belong here in my opinion.

    Annamarie Dodge
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the picture on the right is a very old pic, ive seen her actually look like the one on the left

    BluEyedSeoulite
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can we just talk a out her hair! I'm sure it is a bit touched up but it looks AMAZING!! If only I had that much disposable income...

    Notorious DBT
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a recent photo of her where she looks a lot like the image on the left. https://www.the-sun.com/entertainment/2940903/kelly-osbourne-unrecognisable-weight-loss/amp/

    I I
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    errr pretty sure she looks like the left now , lost a lot of weight

    Tres D
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She had the stomach stapling surgery a while back and looks great now!

    𝖊𝖆
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her hair is amazing though. Absolutely beautiful. It really suits her! 💜

    Iva Kazalova
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well those are not photos from the same time period i think, she got a gastric sleeve, lost weight, got surgery, she does look different from the picture on the right

    Kim Lorton
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To give her some credit, she did slim down enough where her face changed, but… after it was done it looked Almost impossible to account for such changes without the aid of a plastic surgeon, such as her great strong jawline, that seemed to have been fixed and shaved down. And it looks like on the left, in all her pictures now, so not photo shopped, but yes on the fix to her face!

    Jag Yu
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the sad thing, she actually looks very cute with her unaltered look

    MimSorensson
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah, this one is bullshìt. I’m sure there’s photoshop involved, but there are years between these pictures. Her appearance really did change. Go for the actual fakers instead, come on, there are an abundance of those.

    Ada Meier
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No shame to have. As others have commented, this is how she looks after weight loss and some lip injections. Sheesh, and we wonder why people modify themselves to fit unrealistic beauty standards...

    Kathryn
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe if the media hadn’t been so degrading about her looks in the past, she wouldn’t feel the need to photoshop herself today. We need to stop blaming the individuals who are victims of this bs, and start blaming the system that made them this way. Yes, they’re now contributing to it, but let’s show some empathy.

    Mona
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's the same girl ? People really must hate themselves.

    Seabeast
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her real face is just fine. Why turn yourself into a plastic clone?

    Cenk Karaferya
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She had a house on my neighbourhood and I can guarantee that she doesn't look like the one on the left

    Patricia
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These women must really hate their looks, and that is a sad thing. Wear the face you've got, not the one you wish you had.

    J.A. Rogers
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now, now, let's not jump to conclusions. Maybe she looks different when you turn her sideways.

    Courtney Gray
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The picture on the right looks nothing like her though. Makes me think someone edited it.

    Sarah watson
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The picture on the right was taken about 20 years ago. A few decades makes a difference. She lost weight and had injections

    Load More Replies...
    Poultry Geist
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To Thai ya long ! I always think about her making those comments! I’m sure she didn’t mean it the way it seemed but still! All these celebrities and the super rich are so out of touch!

    Kimberly Brown
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The irony is she used to be on “Fashion Police” as a judgmental elitist on how people should look.

    Tara Raay
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She should do something useful and go clean some toilets.

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu
    #34

    Even The Poor Headless Mannequin Can't Live Up To Ig Standards

    Even The Poor Headless Mannequin Can't Live Up To Ig Standards

    _queefer_sutherland_ Report

    #35

    When The Very Thing You Rely On Betrays You Lol

    When The Very Thing You Rely On Betrays You Lol

    Fvcknloner Report

    ADVERTISEMENT
    See Also on Bored Panda
    #37

    The Face!!! And This Was A Sponsored Post

    The Face!!! And This Was A Sponsored Post

    thehappilydepressed Report

    #40

    And She Would Have Gotten Away With It Too, If It Weren’t For Those Meddling Straps!

    And She Would Have Gotten Away With It Too, If It Weren’t For Those Meddling Straps!

    reakkysadpwrson Report

    Continue reading with Bored Panda Premium
    Unlimited content
    Ad-free browsing
    Dark mode
    #41

    Subtle.... Her Poor Nose

    Subtle.... Her Poor Nose

    randomthemoron Report

    #42

    I Honestly Don’t Know Where To Start

    I Honestly Don’t Know Where To Start

    stfx2012 Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Troux
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The background has the telltale stretch marks of Google Street View. Nice.

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu
    ADVERTISEMENT
    See Also on Bored Panda
    #44

    Reality TV Influencer Edits Her Photos To Change Her Skin Colour

    Reality TV Influencer Edits Her Photos To Change Her Skin Colour

    Secure_Yoghurt Report

    #45

    Famous Youtube Prankster Editing Girls’ Bodies In Video Previews. Lost Some Respect For Him For Perpetuating Those Harmful Standards

    Famous Youtube Prankster Editing Girls’ Bodies In Video Previews. Lost Some Respect For Him For Perpetuating Those Harmful Standards

    old.reddit.com Report

    #46

    Core So Strong It Bends Everything Around It

    Core So Strong It Bends Everything Around It

    TacoSlut4Life Report

    #47

    So Much Brightness

    So Much Brightness

    DaisyDandelion Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Scagsy
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wham! Looking happy because they had yet to give their love away at Christmas.

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu
    #48

    Found One In The Wild, Totally Natural Looking Face

    Found One In The Wild, Totally Natural Looking Face

    maginedrragon Report

    #49

    Online Shopping And.. I Literally Have No Idea What’s Happening Here

    Online Shopping And.. I Literally Have No Idea What’s Happening Here

    Speecyspicypotato Report

    ADVERTISEMENT
    See Also on Bored Panda
    #50

    Seen In Strasbourg. Influencer Pretends To Use A Selfie Stick As Entourage Shoots. They Were There For At Least 30 Minutes. Best Was Seeing Her Smoke After In A Winter Coat ‘Cuz It Was Chilly Af

    Seen In Strasbourg. Influencer Pretends To Use A Selfie Stick As Entourage Shoots. They Were There For At Least 30 Minutes. Best Was Seeing Her Smoke After In A Winter Coat ‘Cuz It Was Chilly Af

    notfortumblr Report

    Add photo comments
    POST
    Scagsy
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Somebody had their picture taken, then had a cigarette. The rest of this story shall remain a mystery evermore.

    View More Replies...
    View more commentsArrow down menu