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50 Innocuous Things About Being A Woman That Had To Be Pointed Out To Men
Interview
It has been said a long time ago, and most people realize, that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. There are plenty of differences, both psychological and physical, between us. In order to understand each other, it's important to have an open conversation about some topics we may not have a clue about. However, these days, when everything is easily accessible and we can get an instant answer to pretty much any question we can possibly think of close at hand, some lack of basic information about the opposite sex may turn out to be ignorance.
We have collected an impressive list of stories shared online by women to shed light on many common experiences shared by women, sometimes on a daily basis, that men often find abstract. Let's spread awareness and gain some common knowledge about 'the female kind'!
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#1
Precisely the reason that periods hurt.
The uterus is designed to hold a 6-10 lb baby for 'months'. Not unlike a school backpack carrying 6-10 subject matter books.
Like a backpack, there are 'straps' where you secure the bag - or uterus - to the body holding it. Except that a Uterus has more than two straps. All of the straps are attached physically to all of its surroundings and when the uterus wants to 'shed' it squeezes in on itself to massage loose it's internal lining. But, when the uterus squeezes in, all of those 'straps' are also pulled in / pulled on, pulling other parts of the body nearby in with it. Like if someone grabs your back pack and pulls on it, it yanks back both of your arms. Though, in this case, more than two attachments.
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#2
Just because a woman is nice to you, it doesn’t mean she’s flirting with/interested you. Literally the most basic thing humans can do is be kind to others and make them feel interesting, important, good about themselves.. but men commonly take this the wrong way and interpret it as being flirtatious or that it means we’re interested in something more. Like no dude, it’s just basic human decency, calm your tits.
Little Wonder 1 year ago
Customer service is the worst for this. She's being nice to you because she has to be or she'll lose her job. Don' tmake it weird.
#3
That most of us started experiencing sexual harassment as children.
Stardust she/her 1 year ago
I didn’t experience anything from older men but this one classmate of mine has tried to flirt with me and last year he called me his ex even though we never dated
We reached out to Akshara Ashok, the illustrator from India. The artist is the author of the unique series “Happy Fluffy Comics”. In her work, Ashok highlights the common struggles and challenges faced by women in their daily lives. Through her funny comics, the artist aims to break taboos and challenge stereotypes surrounding women and their experiences. To find out more about Akshara, you can click here, here, or here and see Bored Panda posts featuring her work.
We wanted to find out about Akshara’s journey as an illustrator. In order to do that, we asked the artist how she discovered her passion for creating art that focuses on women's experiences. Ashok shared with us: “I have always loved art since childhood. However, I started illustrating on social media in my second year of college. I used my comics as an outlet for my thoughts and I saw that many other women resonated with the messaging. I had so many questions about the way we are treated in society. We, as women, are expected to grow up much faster than men. Even our prepubescent bodies are sexualized in schools as they ask us to cover up because it would ‘affect’ the boys. I found this really unfair and disgusting. Since childhood, we are made to feel a lot of shame and guilt for looking or living a certain way. I wanted to break these taboos and tell women that they can be who they want to be and there’s no shame in that.”
#4
That unwanted attention isn't a compliment.
BeepBoop is Lonely (she/they) 1 year ago (edited)
here's a tip if you want to compliment someone, compliment something they can *control*. ex: "oh I love your jacket!" "your hair looks amazing!" "your shoes are awesome!" rather than things they can't control, like their body or face
#5
You getting a boner when looking at woman or girl does NOT MEAN SHE IS TRYING TO DO THAT TO YOU. Even if she is dressed up looking nice. . she is probably trying to impress her friends or a very specific boy or man and NOT YOU.
Just because you feel something when looking at a woman does not mean that she is trying to make you feel that way.
So many men just do not get this. They think everything is about them .. everything women do is so deliberate and targeted specifically to them. Oh she wore those short shorts, she knows what she is doing. Especially vomitrocious when it's a very young girl just trying to get some pimply boy in her class to talk to her and a grown man who is a complete stranger takes it as an invitation like "oh yeah she wants to do this to me. . she loves me looking at her like this."
See also: men since the beginning of time demanding that women smile on command because "it looks good to ME" -- they are unable to imagine a woman existing for any other purpose than to be entertaining and attractive to me me me me me who is the center of the universe.
#6
I can’t just buy something in my size and call it good. I have pants that fit me in sizes 12 through 16. I have dresses in M, L, and XL and in sizes 10 through 14. I have tops in S, M, L, and XL. There are some styles that will never fit me without tailoring no matter what the size because of my body shape.
Asked which aspects of women's lives and stories the artist finds most inspiring to illustrate, Akshara answered: “Everything. Starting from something as small as how our clothes fit to the misogyny we face every day. If you look closely, even things that are considered small aren’t really that insignificant, we’re just told to brush them aside. Now I’m focusing more on body positivity and sexuality. We are expected to fit into an unattainable beauty standard which is almost ridiculous and once women try and to do that, they’re still ridiculed for not being natural enough. So there’s really no way to win this. I’d like to remind women to love their bodies a little more every day for the way it looks.”
#7
That I can't feel the tampon inside me, and no, it doesn't turn me on.
Courtney Christelle 1 year ago (edited)
A man’s pen15 is not the pinnacle of pleasure nor are things similar in shape (and in some cases, size).
#8
We can't start or stop our periods at will. You think any of us would start them if we could stop them?!
#9
Being constantly vigilant/ having situational awareness. My partner just goes through life feeling safe and secure. The number of times I've pointed out sketchy s**t to him that was just *not* on his radar has been astonishing. Even just being aware of where others are. I never run into or accidentally block people out in public because I'm aware of where everyone is in relation to me, my partner is just oblivious to his position in relation to others.
Jason Boyd 1 year ago
I think there is a different focus on risks. I spot other men likely to start a fight. My wife spots those likely to sexually assault people. There is some crossover but the behaviours look different and we're more effective spotting one than the other. She's spotting the creep vibe, I'm spotting the alpha douche vibe...
Women's experiences can be multifaceted and complex. We were curious how Ashok ensures that her artwork captures the depth and nuances of these experiences. We found out that: “I try to make it really simple. I use simple language and illustrations to capture the eye. On top of that, I use humor that makes you think. Most of my funny comics show that our ‘quirky struggles’ are actually the result of patriarchy and that we don’t need to be perfect all the time. I also try my best to use inclusive language and illustrations to make sure people don’t feel left out or get offended. Most of my comics are lived experiences from my life or what I see around me which makes it much more personal. I’m someone who struggles with mental health issues and self-love. This helps me empathize with others and makes my art easily relatable. This also allows women to come forward to share their experiences without the fear of being judged.”
#10
That they do know people who have had abortions, even if they think they haven't.
StrangeOne 1 year ago
I've known quite a few who have told me in confidence. I'll never judge. If they just can't go through the pregnancy then so be it and blessed be.
#11
That I can’t just “put it in my pocket.”
There’s no pockets. Yeah, I know it looks like a pocket, it’s not.
Ok yes this one DOES have a pocket, that can fit exactly three quarters OR one chapstick, and even those aren’t guaranteed not to fall out if I bend over, switch between standing/sitting, remove/adjust the clothing to use the washroom, or just *walk.*
People who have only ever worn men’s clothing take their pockets for granted. My 2-year-old nephew has onesies with functional pockets, like wtaf?
Gabriela Cink 1 year ago
:D i showed my man friend that i have new skirt with BIG pockets and he just noted that it seems as a big deal, because I was like third women who told him the same thing XD.
#12
My husband asked me why I don’t park in the middle of the driveway when he’s out of town, I told him I don’t want anyone to think I’m not always expecting him home.
As an illustrator, Akshara’s work may also be influential in shaping perceptions and attitudes. We wanted to find out what positive changes the artist hopes to inspire through your illustrations of women's stories. The comic artist said: “I don’t want to attack anyone for their perception, it’s just something we’re taught since childhood, that women are inferior and the weaker sex. Instead, I want to help everyone understand how untrue that is and that we can change the way we think. That’s why I use humor and cute little illustrations. It makes the subject simple and friendly instead of being too preachy. It’s hard to break out of these norms created by society overnight because we’re so used to them. All we can do is change one step at a time.”
#14
Pregnancy complications are more common than you realize. That s**t’s hard on your body.
#15
We don’t pee out of our vagina.
TheGreatNyanHobo replied:
Poor health and sex ed makes this a common one. Even some women have been shocked by it.
BeepBoop is Lonely (she/they) 1 year ago
sex education is important y'all. Let's not take it away so everyone can be safe please.
Lastly, Ashok shared more about the motivation for creating her art: “I want to initiate healthy conversations about our bodies and sexuality which is still looked down upon in 2023. Women are still being called names just for existing. A lot of people push this toxic positivity onto people where one’s expected to be happy and love themselves all the time. But we don’t live in a perfect world and the amount of pressure we face to be perfect is just too much. I understand how hard it can be to love ourselves for the way we look when the media is constantly pushing these beauty standards onto us. Self-love is a very slow process and it’s very hard to attain. I think influencers need to be mindful of that as well as mental health issues. Most of us cannot wake up and choose to be happy. It’s almost a privilege. I want to tell people that we deserve to be happy regardless of the way we look, we are much more than that. We don’t have to be at our best all the time. It’s okay to have bad days. We’re human after all. I know that I can’t change the way the world sees us but I would like to try to change the way we see ourselves.”
#16
Why we need a trashcan next to the toilet. Our condo has a door separating the toilet and shower from the sinks, and he moved the trashcan under the sink, instead of next to the toilet, where it was. Thought it was genius. I had to explain to him why we need to at least have a trashcan right next to the toilet, and why that's important when a woman lives in the house.
ThreeAngryLlamas 1 year ago
I agree with some commenters that you can fairly easily roll up a pad or even a tampon to dispose of them elsewhere in the home, but if you are ever going to have menstruating guests, get a can with a lid by the toilet. Saves people a LOT of embarrassment.
#17
That the clothes he thinks are super cute for me are also super super uncomfortable.
StrangeOne 1 year ago
Lingerie especially. If men knew what a wedgie of lace and string feels like I wonder if they would be just as enamoured and aroused by us in our lacy thongs. Or the itchy, rough chafing of lacy bras.
#18
We can lose a leg or die if we leave a tampon in too long. It’s called toxic shock syndrome.
#19
Normal, everyday things like using a public restroom, or showering, take us longer and are more difficult due to a complex system of "little things" that just never work out in our favor - that even we don't notice until we're middle-aged.
Public bathroom stalls are so tiny, it's hard for us to move around with our phones or keys in our hands the whole time, or our purses, or children.
(...and why would I be holding my phone in one hand, and my keys in the other hand, the whole time while using the toilet? Because I don't have any pockets! ...and why don't I use a purse? Because they hurt and are uncomfortable and neck straps burn my shoulders, are easy to set down and lose, and I also just don't want to! And it shouldn't matter!)
Showering is ridiculous because we have large shampoo bottles (or whatever hair products) that fall on the ground every time we move...When we wash long hair, it flings around water, and our elbows knock things off of shelves.
...why are there no big ledges in showers? After 100+ years of people using showers, there's still no ledge big enough to hold bottles in most showers?? Beats me!
Why are there no places to sit down in the shower for leg shaving? Why do I have to contort my body like a flamingo with one leg propped up on a faucet or a ledge trying not to slip or drop my razor on the ground and break it...in order to shave my legs?
Why are faucets and shower hardware, doors, glass walls and doors SO difficult to clean...why is it even possible to design a tub so deep, that you HAVE to slide down the ledge to get all the way inside of it just to clean 1 spot on a wall.
Why are sink faucets so close to the the wall that you can't fit a paper towel or a sponge back there to clean?
Why, whenever I talk about these things I get called a "raging feminist" and laughed at.
Chintan Shah 1 year ago
I have complained about most of these issues. I'm a man. It's so annoying to clean behind faucets or keep the bathtub sparkling and sometimes I'm just effing tired and want to sit in the shower. Also I love extra storage. Can never have too much storage. Shelves. Cubbies. Shower racks. Should be built in!!
#20
How our discharge bleaches our underwear. I had partners in the past that got disgusted by it.
Hi_im_a_doge (she/her) 1 year ago
Ugh, I get this all the time, and I haven't even gotten my period yet... (not the men being disgusted, the vaginal discarge)
#21
That my body isn't a set of buttons to mash in the right order to get the prize. The exact same thing may not turn me on every time, etc.
I have to believe there are men out there that this is also true for, but some guys decode they have figured out the pattern and refuse to vary.
#22
That we use toilet paper every time we go to the bathroom and therefore will go through more than men!
#23
Something that still hasn't settled in his head - the fact that when you give birth you can tear all the way to your a*****e, that you can (pretty commonly) get diastasis recti, or other conditions that can become lifelong.
When I told him these things he said "you love exaggerating these things just to justify that you don't want kids, no woman who's had a kid that I know has said these things"
... Besides his mom or whatever he had never spoken to a pregnant woman/new mom in his life, let alone about their vaginas
BeepBoop is Lonely (she/they) 1 year ago
he really needs to go ask them. I thought it was obvious that a whole a*s baby could tear something??
#25
As an adult - cervical fluid. The amount of men who have thought vaginas are either dry or WET from being turned on is truly alarming to me. No, I’m just OVULATING.
LillieMean 1 year ago
The composition of the fluid also varies depending on what stage you are in your cycle. It's usually stickiest and stretchiest when your period is just a couple of days away.
#26
How viscerally intimidating it is to have any male angry or yelling at you. I could be the strongest woman in the world, and even the most average guy would be able to physically dominate me. So doubly true that I am not very strong.
Lucille 2 1 year ago
I was terrified when my 6’7” ex was screaming at me. He could have easily overpowered and killed me. He had no reason to be afraid of me. It’s a power dynamic that some people completely dismiss as women being “silly.”
Boopertrooperbette 1 year ago
Men use their anger to control women. Always have done, always will do. I just get the feeling that men don't actually like women, but they need us.
Alexander Smith 1 year ago
Having anyone angry kind of is terrifying. I had an ex where if I made a joke she didn't like she'd hit me. Randomly during a car ride I raised my arm to protect myself and she realized at that moment she had been being abusive for some time. I was used to her hitting me and getting angry so I didn't care. But she was my size. And when she got angry I still wanted to curl up in a corner and cower. So while it is bad for a man to get angry and make a woman feel threatened it can be just as bad for a man and there is the fact we are expected to not fight back so all we can do is shield ourselves. Anger and being worked up is the real problem.
jdtimid123 1 year ago
This is why I hate the "never hit a woman" thing. It shouldn't be about defending women cause they are "weaker." It should be about not hitting someone you love (or anyone, but especially someone You're supposed to care about) just because you shouldn't want to hurt them. And guys absolutely should be able to fight back if a woman is attacking them, she shouldn't be trying to hurt you. As a side note, I do some martial arts and have had guys not want to train with me because they don't want to hit a girl. Like, we aren't actually trying to hurt each other in that setting, and sometimes it's just me and the other guys in the room, who am I supposed to train with if no one will "hit" a girl?
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Alecto76 1 year ago
Like I tell all women and girls - seriously, get into marital arts. The confidence alone makes it all worth it.
zak 1 year ago
I'm guessing that's an autocorrect issue, and that you actually meant "martial arts", but "marital arts" made me laugh cuz it sounds like a sh!tty class they would have had back in the 1950's to teach girls in high school "how to be a good housewife"
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StrangeOne 1 year ago
I get this. Not sure what it is but men just have this booming, stern voice that sounds so intimidating. The men in my city often like to the talk to women like 3rd class citizens and a child who committed a crime.
ThéveNinja (she/her) 1 year ago
This is extraordinarily important. We’ve hit a point where a man’s strength is not indicative that he’s a good protector, it’s a red flag that he could be our biggest predator. Especially men who are obsessed with their physique and gym selfies (and steroids are just a disastrous other level of this…)
Spocks's Mom 1 year ago
Me too. I have had many men back right down, but there's those times they didn't. Fortunately, I'm really good at escaping a******s (so far).
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ί𝔫ＣίŦᵃт𝐔𝐬 1 year ago
Me too, I'm so ready to go. But I would never, because I'm 52 and was raised to be a "lady." I can't seem to cross that line.. But I want to.
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Catherine Maven 1 year ago
After I was assaulted by an ex, I realized that basically, any 14-year-old male could hurt me if he wanted to ... changed my feelings of security FOREVER. :(
MrsFettesVette 1 year ago
My husband occasionally yells (not at me) but then he gets upset at me bc it makes me cringe. I was in an abusive relationship years ago and I can't help it.
Jeya Mackelle 1 year ago (edited)
MrsFettesVette, talk to him, tell him how this makes you feel, and make sure he understands how it makes you feel. Tell him that whenever he starts raising his voice, you are going to leave. Next time he yells or goes to yell, get up, say nothing to him, and walk into another room. If he follows you, go somewhere else, lock yourself in a room until you feel safe or mentally and emotionally well enough to come out. Or he apologizes and is ready to have a normal volume, adult conversation. Regardless of whether or not he's yelling at you. Even with his male brain, he'll have to get the picture eventually.
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Super Beast 1 year ago
i am 5'2 and i go crazy when i feel threatened. scared off a lotta guys that way. highly recommended
Happy Onion 1 year ago (edited)
My husband used to raise his voice easily, especially during disagreements when he wasn't getting his way. Then one day, I asked him, "Do you know how scary that is [to me, as a woman]?" He hasn't done it since. ❤️ ETA: and it's been almost 10 years since then.
Trillian 1 year ago
Both my ex and my son are tall (6'4'') so by now I am pretty good at yelling at guys a lot taller than me.
Gardener of Weeden 1 year ago
I told my son he will never get to tall for me to kick his butt. LOL ( even if I have to stand on a chair!)
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TrippyBanana 1 year ago
I'm no longer afraid of men being angry at me after years with a horrible stepfather who could find fault in everything it no longer phases me. Do I like men being angry with me? No, but much of the time im not going to let it affect me either.
Ken Beattie 1 year ago (edited)
I get this, honestly it's very disconcerting having anyone yell at you, let alone someone more physically intimidating. I do disagree a little about an average guy dominating "the strongest woman in the world". Gina Carano or Ronda Rousey would beat the c**p out of an average guy. They're MMA not bodybuilders but still. As for genuinely strongest women, holy c**p they are miles beyond an *average* man. https://barbend.com/2022-worlds-strongest-woman-results/ 218kg (480lb) deadlifts are not something an average guy can do.
DarkenedSoul36 1 year ago
I'm afraid of anyone who seems angry. People yelling/snapping at me, especially when I didn't do anything, always makes me shut down and cry. No idea why, been that way forever I think.
Wayne Gossman 1 year ago
My comment is not meant to ever excuse or justify anything! Even if someone just tells me that I frightened them I should take that very seriously! But… It is worth realizing that all men were once the smallest person in the room and they were often surrounded by women who controlled every aspect of their lives. Some very tall very large men still feel very small and have defensive reactions that are scary to others. Sometimes they are totally ignorant. (Think of “Chief” in [One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest” [idea is clearer in the book.] and the book “What Happened to You?”)
Jessica Foltz 1 year ago
Not true at all. Plenty of women are stronger than the average man easily.
Blondie23 1 year ago
My hubby and I went through this when we first got together. He got so mad at me one day that he punch a door and left a hole. He and I both were going through rough times with our exs but that was uncalled for and scared me so much I wanted to leave. He later apologized and said he had never done that before. He didn't realize how much his ex-wife was pissing him off. We are all good now, he never did it again. He didn't realize how scary that was for me until I told him and he saw the fear in my eyes. Men don't always understand this, especially a man that has never lost it like that. He had never been pushed to that breaking point.
Nitka Tsar 1 year ago
You sure an average guy could physically dominate the strongest women on earth?
🌵 Drazil 1 year ago
Are you SURE??!!! Surely you've been assaulted verbally or physically!!!! Maybe you just don't recognize it yet. It took me about 35 years before I understood that had happened to me. Fortunately, my parents listened and believed me. No one said it was an assault although the police officer asked me many questions and wrote everything down. I sure hope they caught him!!!!!
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#27
That I have to have my keys out before I get to my front door so I’m not awkwardly fumbling for them and making myself vulnerable.
#28
That his/my husband's presence will alter the way some people interact with me. Or rather, ignore me altogether.
#29
How little they know about periods. When I had been dating my boyfriend for a couple of months, I apologized for being upset and that it was just because of my period. He then asked, “didn’t you have your period last month?” He thought that women menstruated for an entire month, and then didn’t for the other 11 months of the year. He thought that periods were an annual thing. I was so shocked.
#30
The feeling of pulling out a dry tampon.
#31
Your bra size isn't only dependent on your cup size.
zak 1 year ago
Ha, this made me think how funny it would be if men's underwear were made using a similar system. It could even still be called "cup size". Then we would better understand your complaints about inconsistent sizing between brands. "I'm a 32B in Calvin Klein, but if I get Hanes I'm a 34C" 😆
#32
That i could not, in fact, let my ex-boss (who's a man) drive me home.
Context: me and my ex-boss kinda live in the same area and he has a car, i take public transport. More than one time he was offered to drive me home after work. He didn't offer to drive anyone else home. And we end work at 9pm.
Im not F*****g taking that risk
Satan herself 1 year ago
He might just be being a nice person, but it's just not worth the risk.
#33
I think this is not exactly a thing only men do but I've encountered a lot of men who really believe the stereotypes/cliches of "how a woman acts or thinks" and that is like a "rule" that cannot change.
They'll say "a woman likes this" or "a woman always does that" and when I tell them is not true, they don't believe me or think I'm "not like the other girls". Then I have to start educating them in that yes, I'm like the other girls because we as humans are really complex and we can all like different things and we do not share a brain.
#34
That (at least for me and my friends) parents treat you different just because you're a woman. Less freedom, less independence, and its really all because of men and the dangers they raise to us. Its f*****g unfair. My boyfriend is always saying "ur parents didnt let you do x alone?" And they treat me totally different from my brother.
#35
Had to explain my bf a few times that if we are wrestling and I say stop and he doesn’t because I say it laughing that it’s a horrible feeling. I learned I was laughing because of nerves or I don’t know why, a reflex. And he learned that if I said stop, even if I laugh, he has to stop bc I’m not joking. If he doesn’t stop, he triggers something bc I’m not as strong as he is and I get scared/cry. Thank god he learned.
#36
The struggle of maintaining work life and the desire to not become pregnant, yet wanting a family but not wanting to sacrifice my career, and the simultaneous need to remain independent of a man.
Hi_im_a_doge (she/her) 1 year ago
Replying to KuntKrusher: No. A woman does not have to get married or have kids., she is her own person and can make her own desicions. Men are not in charge of women. You, my not-so-good sir, need a reality check.
#37
Periods aren’t actually monthly, as in January, February, March. They can be, but often that’s just coincidence. You can have two periods in one month and you can have no periods in one month.
Also, we don't bleed in a continuous stream all day. Some guys think we just sit there hemorrhaging.
SkyBlueandBlack 1 year ago
Some of us do, though. That's the other thing: periods differ from one woman to the next.
#38
That walking home late at night in the dark isn't a f*****g option.
Little Wonder 1 year ago
I was talking to a friend about finding a hotel in the city that was close enough to the venue I was seeing a show at and he kept finding some for me that were "only a 20 minute walk" or "This is just half an hour stroll" and I couldn't make him understand that yes, it's ONLY a 20 minute walk, but it's a 20 minute walk at 11pm as a lone woman. He never did quite grasp it.
#39
Period poops are a thing.
Phoenix(or nix)they/them 1 year ago
Yep, and when you feel like you have to go but it's just a cramp and you just have to sigh and think about how much you hate having ovaries
#40
My bf thought that pads stick to your vagina like a bandaid.
Vasana Phong 1 year ago
I had my first menstrual at 12, I actually did this, yes it hurted , told my mom what I did, she just last laughed and laughed and laughed
#41
That foreplay has a very real purpose & real sex is nothing like p*rn. The last guy I dated, I tried explaining to him that going straight for the hole is counter-productive to genuinely good sex. One night, I made him slow down, just lay on the couch, cuddling & touching me, not even in a fully sexual way. Afterwards, he said "wow, I had no idea what a difference that makes! It really felt totally different!" I was like "this is what I've been trying to freaking tell you!!!" He admitted that he learned sex from p*rn & no one ever tried to give him any direction before. Wasn't even aware just how many positions you could get yourself into either. He's almost 40. Eta: he also won't leave me alone now even though I broke up with him over a month ago.
#42
I had to explain to my 62 y/o father how women sometimes bleed through their pad/tampon without realizing it and that it is, indeed, a valid excuse to go home and change. That was probably one of our more uncomfortable topics of conversation.
Phoenix(or nix)they/them 1 year ago
Well, at least he listened and attempted to understand even though it was an uncomfortable conversation.
#43
Yes. My breasts hurt for “no good reason”. Yes, my hormone cycles make them painful. Yes most women experience this. …That is reason #1 why it’s okay for my partner to touch my bum without asking permission every time, and permission is required for breast touching.
Also had this conversation “why would you automatically think the sharp pain you’re experiencing while ovulating is an ovarian cyst?” Mmmm… it’s like one of the most common things to go wrong in that area…?
Yeah, education on women’s bodies is so low.
Aroace tiger (she/they/he) 1 year ago
Omg I'm glad this isn't just me. They feel bruised a week before my period
#44
If I’m in a new area, I always look for other women walking or jogging out on the street, especially if they’re alone. This will indicate to me if the area is “safe” or not.
#45
I DON'T wash my hair every day and it takes longer than 5 minutes for it to dry.
#46
He, like many men for some reason, thought that tampon/pad size was related to vaginal size...
#47
A bit ago, my bf asked why I and other women he has known keep the plastic wrapper from pads. I explained to him that it is a courtesy thing, because the wrapper is good for rolling up the used pad. It helps conceal it as well as contain some of the odor. He was surprised, since it made perfect sense but that it never would have occurred to him.
#48
Why my mood change before, during and after my period, why pregnancy affected my moods and thoughts process.
#50
One time a guy asked me why sometimes women paint “just the middle of their nail all sloppy”
I had to explain that we paint the entire fingernail but it chips off, leaving the middle.
What do you think ?
Elizabeth Rolando 1 year ago
I'm so tired of hubby trying to feel me up and telling him no and his response every time....EVERY. TIME. Is Why? Because I don't have to if I don't want to. No is a complete sentence!!! Ugh!
XenoMurph 1 year ago
If it's every time, you need to have a conversation.
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Danger Bunny (She/Her) 1 year ago
The idiots commenting on the bottom of all these listings make me concerned for humanity... Politely fu¢k off, you mudsogging trolls
Stardust she/her 1 year ago
There’s this guy in my class and he still thinks he has a chance of being with me even though we had a huge fight 2 years ago and he tries to “flirt” with me a lot these days
Lama 1 year ago
Hey Stardust, I see you've posted about this a few times now, sounds like it is really bugging you. Do you have someone you can talk about this with? I hope you do, it sounds like his "flirting" might be crossing some boundaries and that is something to take seriously. Good luck <3
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zovjraar me 1 year ago
i really liked the ones where a dude asked about something. i like it when we're open to learning about each other (not just male/female but in all instances).
Blyss Blyssylb 1 year ago
That EVERYTIME I stand up, sit down, walk by, some male has to touch my a$$! It's MY A$$ you twit! Not yours! If you want to touch a$$, then touch your own! And when we're walking around some public place, DO NOT put your hand down the back of and inside my pants! Makes me feel incredibly uncomfortable.
Blayze Infyrno 1 year ago
Inigo Montoya voice: ‘Innocuous.” You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
Florence O'Grady 1 year ago
Hello Lucille 2, I see we have one thing in common. Yes, I am a Christian and found out as a child that Jesus (the) Christ is real and definitely still alive. It may surprise you, but I learned a long time ago not to judge. I was judged as a child for the way an aunt (deceased now) felt about my mother (my father's first wife and also deceased now). It sounds like you may have had better teachers in the sexual education department than I ever did.
Elizabeth Rolando 1 year ago
I'm so tired of hubby trying to feel me up and telling him no and his response every time....EVERY. TIME. Is Why? Because I don't have to if I don't want to. No is a complete sentence!!! Ugh!
XenoMurph 1 year ago
If it's every time, you need to have a conversation.
Load More Replies... Danger Bunny (She/Her) 1 year ago
The idiots commenting on the bottom of all these listings make me concerned for humanity... Politely fu¢k off, you mudsogging trolls
Stardust she/her 1 year ago
There’s this guy in my class and he still thinks he has a chance of being with me even though we had a huge fight 2 years ago and he tries to “flirt” with me a lot these days
Lama 1 year ago
Hey Stardust, I see you've posted about this a few times now, sounds like it is really bugging you. Do you have someone you can talk about this with? I hope you do, it sounds like his "flirting" might be crossing some boundaries and that is something to take seriously. Good luck <3
Load More Replies... zovjraar me 1 year ago
i really liked the ones where a dude asked about something. i like it when we're open to learning about each other (not just male/female but in all instances).
Blyss Blyssylb 1 year ago
That EVERYTIME I stand up, sit down, walk by, some male has to touch my a$$! It's MY A$$ you twit! Not yours! If you want to touch a$$, then touch your own! And when we're walking around some public place, DO NOT put your hand down the back of and inside my pants! Makes me feel incredibly uncomfortable.
Blayze Infyrno 1 year ago
Inigo Montoya voice: ‘Innocuous.” You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
Florence O'Grady 1 year ago
Hello Lucille 2, I see we have one thing in common. Yes, I am a Christian and found out as a child that Jesus (the) Christ is real and definitely still alive. It may surprise you, but I learned a long time ago not to judge. I was judged as a child for the way an aunt (deceased now) felt about my mother (my father's first wife and also deceased now). It sounds like you may have had better teachers in the sexual education department than I ever did.
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