30 Annoying People Spotted On Facebook Marketplace Who Deserve To Be Shamed (New Pics)
Interview With ExpertBuying and selling things, whether in person or online, is difficult enough as it is. But when you add yet another dimension to the process—like social media—things can get pretty awkward and confusing rather quickly. The fact of the matter is that proper communication and politeness are fairly rare skills.
When you spend a fair bit of time on Facebook Marketplace, a popular e-commerce platform, you might stumble upon some truly bizarre interactions. Our team at Bored Panda is featuring screenshots of some of the most irritating and confusing experiences that people had with both buyers and sellers. Scroll down for a deep dive into how not to communicate and why patience is a virtue.
Bored Panda wanted to learn more about the popularity of e-commerce on social networks like Facebook and how vendors can build trust with their customers, so we reached out to Matt Johnson, PhD. He is a marketing psychology expert specializing in topics such as consumer psychology and serendipity, and he was kind enough to answer our questions.
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Donate Pls
We were curious as to why e-commerce has become such a big hit in this day and age. According to marketing psychology expert Johnson, this is due to the fact that it is incredibly efficient. E-commerce "thrives on platforms like Facebook Marketplace because it seamlessly integrates shopping with the social and digital habits we already have. Most notably, I see this as the convergence of convenience, trust, and the power of social influence," he told Bored Panda.
According to Johnson, Facebook Marketplace capitalizes on contextual commerce, which is the idea that "buying opportunities are most effective when they fit naturally into our existing behaviors." He explained that people already spend hours on Facebook connecting with their friends and browsing content. Adding shopping into that 'ecosystem' feels effortless. There's also the factor of trust to consider.
"Social media inherently fosters trust. Items on Marketplace often come from local sellers, and features like mutual friend connections or reviews enhance a sense of security. Lastly, platforms like Facebook are inherently social. Seeing what friends buy, sell, or recommend adds a layer of social proof, a powerful psychological driver of purchasing behavior. This mix of convenience, trust, and influence has made e-commerce on social platforms a natural evolution of shopping behavior."
The Only Way Things Go On FB Marketplace
My Friend's Attempt To Sell Something On Facebook Marketplace
Bored Panda was also interested in how trust is built on e-commerce platforms. After all, reputation counts for a lot. "Building trust in e-commerce requires transparency, consistency, and a human-centered approach. Transparency is key—clearly communicate policies on returns, shipping, and privacy while providing detailed product descriptions, high-quality images, and reviews to eliminate ambiguity, which often triggers distrust," Johnson explained.
"Social proof, such as customer reviews, testimonials, and user-generated content, plays a powerful role by activating the brain’s trust networks, making the brand feel safer and more reliable. Consistency across your website, app, and social media reinforces credibility, as cognitive dissonance caused by mixed messaging can undermine trust," he said.
It's also important to focus on "humanizing the shopping experience." This can be done through "responsive customer service or chatbots can simulate the personal interactions that consumers associate with trustworthiness."
"Neuroscience research shows that even small perceived human touches foster a sense of reliability. Ultimately, trust is built through repeated moments of reliability—consistently delivering what you promise and creating an environment where customers feel confident in their decisions."
Why Bother On Facebook
Just About Had Enough With Selling Via Facebook Marketplace Then This Guy Came Along
Didn’t Think I’d Ever See This
Look, I can understand people fall on hard times and I’m not in this to really make money. But asking me to donate AND deliver?! If they would have asked me to donate but would pick them up, I probably would have done it.
is this still available? is this still available?
Facebook Marketplace is huge—that’s no surprise because Meta, Facebook's parent company, is sprawling. The exact numbers vary a bit from researcher to researcher.
As per BusinessDasher, Marketplace has around 1.1 billion users worldwide, with 474 million active users. Roughly 16% of all people who log in to Facebook do so solely to shop on Marketplace.
7% of all Facebook users in the United States have bought something on Marketplace, compared to 14% of all users from 70 countries. Back in 2021, Marketplace boasted revenue of $26 billion. Unfortunately, 17% of users are said to have been scammed on Marketplace.
Facebook Marketplace Brings Out The Best In People
This isn't even pathetic. It's so, so much worse than that.
Facebook Marketplace In Oregon. Trying To Sell A Pair Of Beats
No Sir, Will Not Remind You I’ve Been Holding An Item For You For 4 Days
I’m selling a few things on marketplace and this guy ask me to hold a very underpriced punching bag for him, because he won’t have his car till Friday (4 days from now). I’ve been getting a lot of messages for the punching bag, so I didn’t make any promises but the audacity to ask me to remind him made me laugh. Like no I won’t remind you I’ve been holding an item for you for 4 days, I’m the one doing the favor?! Marketplace isn’t really worth the headache tbh.
According to BusinessDasher, men aged 25 to 34 years old are the largest group of Facebook Marketplace users, clocking in at 17.9% of all users. Women in the same age range make up 13.8% of all users.
On the flip side, the least active users are the youngest and oldest ones: teenagers and folks over the age of 65.
Selling My Motorbike For £2,000 On Facebook Marketplace. What A Cesspit!
Marketplace "Share For Jesus" Sneak Attack
I think that particular furniture might be too small for Jesus.
Daily Struggle Of Dealing With People On Marketplace. I’m Sure My Sellers Rating Will Suffer
They go through all the listings several times a day and hit reply without reading them. Have had experience of this. If I ever went through it again I would instantly delete and block numbers that asked stupid questions like that. They are only going to waste your time come what may
Meanwhile, CapitalOne Shopping states that, on average, up to 1.228 billion online shoppers buy something on Facebook Marketplace. According to their research, up to 40% of Facebook’s users shop on Marketplace. Currently, there are 3.07 billion active monthly users and 2.11 billion daily active users on the social network, as per DemandSage.
CapitalOne Shopping states that around 491 million active users log in to Facebook just to shop on Marketplace. Furthermore, there are 250 million Marketplace sellers worldwide.
Well Then. I Guess I'll Take My Atheist Money Elsewhere
We Had No Prior Conversation
Are You Okay, Lady? Never Thought I Would Encounter A Karen In FB Market LOL
Knowing how (not) to communicate isn’t a skill that most of us are born with. Sure, some folks might pick up social cues more easily and have sharper instincts when it comes to faux pas and taboos.
However, a high level of self-awareness is often developed slowly, over time, through countless interactions.
Another Attempted FB Marketplace Scam
Did I Just Have My First Encounter?
Spotted On The Facebook Marketplace
I hope there are bananas in those MREs, otherwise the measurements are invalid.
I'm fine with the MRE's, but I have to say that area rug looks more like the underside of a rug to me
Or, to put it bluntly, when you have a string of incredibly awkward and cringy conversations with people, you start to wonder whether you’re the problem. You then learn not to repeat the same mistakes to avoid feeling embarrassed.
The key thing here is to shift your perspective so you don’t end up losing what’s left of your courage. Accept the mistakes you’ve made in the past, see them as opportunities for growth, learn from them, adapt your approach, and move on.
There Are Some Seriously Odd People Using Facebook Marketplace
It seems like a lot of these are sending that automated "still available?" message without realizing it.
Facebook Marketplace Seller Wasted My Morning And My Gas
I found a small van I wanted to convert. The price was good for the mileage. I reached out to the seller and told them I was interested and would like to see it, and that if it was good, they likely had a sale.
Seller responds with time and address for the following day. I agree to the time and thank them. Was excited that night and found it difficult to sleep.
The next day the seller messages me to inquire if I am still coming. I let them know that I am on my way (1.5 hours away with traffic).
When I am mere minutes away, they tell me they just sold it. Wasted 3 hours of my time and 1/4 tank of gas.
Couldn’t rate the seller since they blocked me. What does one even do in this situation? Well, besides sigh and just keep on keeping on.
I've seen this trick before. They say they sold it and expect you to offer more seeing as you travelled all this way
Not Craigslist But A Pretty Solid One On Facebook Marketplace
If you don’t embrace the mistakes you’ve made—no matter how socially awkward—you risk making that embarrassment fester into shame. And that’s not good for anybody. Somewhat paradoxically, when you don’t try to hide your embarrassment and own up to having made a blunder, you seem more human and approachable. In other words, people tend to like you more because they see you as humble and relatable.
Scammer Apologizes For Scamming, Then Asks For $50
Trying to sell my elliptical on Facebook marketplace and met my first honest scammer
"Wrong Donna" Doesn't Get Marketplace
On My Marketplace Post About Building Custom PC's
Rejection isn’t a great feeling even on the best of days. It’s an unavoidable part of life, however. Furthermore, if you’re selling something and your ability to pay rent and put food on the table depends on how you interact with others, well then, you’d better learn to handle rejection fast… or consider a different career path or side hustle. Being a salesperson can be a tough job, and there’s no shame in admitting that this sort of stress isn’t for you.
I'm A Rude Prick For Saying I Wont Deliver The Free Corner Sofa Im Giving Away
There Was An Attempt To Get A Free iPad
Facebook Marketplace Buyer Agreed On Sale Price And Time To Meet And Then Says This…
For more context, he even told me, “Not gonna have u come out here for no reason.” Woke up early and drove nearly an hour for this.
Oo, yea, see, when i read messages like "not gonna have u come out here for no reason", i immediately know the truth is the opposite of that.
What’s your experience been like with Facebook Marketplace? Have you ever bought or sold anything there or on other e-commerce sites? What are the weirdest interactions you’ve had with either buyers or sellers online?
For you personally, what are some red and green flags that you can(not) trust somebody? Let us know what you think in the comments.
Ok Sorry?
Probably apologizing because they understand what the seller means by upping the price like that? "Sorry, i know i tried something dumb"
Facebook Marketplace Is A Nightmare
Ahh I Love Facebook Marketplace
Wow... Just wow. The racism, the homophobia, the sexual harassment, over and over again. I should not have read this before bed after a very bad day.
Had to quit 1/2 way through these. Are people on Facebook really this disgusting?
Sh*t like this is why I'd rather spend money on new/first-hand products. Never made a purchase off FB market and after this, never will -_-"
What the hell? The article ends halfway through and tells me I have to pay for Bored Panda Premium to finish reading it? Wow. That's ridiculous.
This is why I don't even bother trying to sell anything anymore. The tiny amount of money you MIGHT make out of it just isn't worth the hassle. I just find a friend who could use my item, or even, as bad as Goodwill is, donate it to them. That's how much I hate Marketplace et. al.
I was giving away Golden Mystery Snails. I was overwhelmed with a huge number of responses. In addition to the people who wanted me to give them an aquarium as well and deliver it, I had one woman who cursed my snails to make them infertile because I did not get back to her quick enough. ☺
Wow... Just wow. The racism, the homophobia, the sexual harassment, over and over again. I should not have read this before bed after a very bad day.
Had to quit 1/2 way through these. Are people on Facebook really this disgusting?
Sh*t like this is why I'd rather spend money on new/first-hand products. Never made a purchase off FB market and after this, never will -_-"
What the hell? The article ends halfway through and tells me I have to pay for Bored Panda Premium to finish reading it? Wow. That's ridiculous.
This is why I don't even bother trying to sell anything anymore. The tiny amount of money you MIGHT make out of it just isn't worth the hassle. I just find a friend who could use my item, or even, as bad as Goodwill is, donate it to them. That's how much I hate Marketplace et. al.
I was giving away Golden Mystery Snails. I was overwhelmed with a huge number of responses. In addition to the people who wanted me to give them an aquarium as well and deliver it, I had one woman who cursed my snails to make them infertile because I did not get back to her quick enough. ☺